January 30, 2006

Monday

And finally my wardrobe exists again after my large picup fromt he cleaners on Friday! Hooray!

Black merino v-neck from Banana Republic. Ivory trousers from Ann Taylor. Gold earrings and necklace from Express, bracelet from yard sale. Black pumps from B.P./Nordstrom.

Makeup is L'Oreal True Match foundation, MAC stick concealer and Chanel pressed powder. The Body Shop's Golden Khaki shadow on lids and around lash line. Thin line of Maybelline Ultra Liner in black. MAC's Zoom Lash in black. Nars Orgasm on the cheeks. Lips are Lancome's Juicy Tubes in Exposure with a brown lip liner from the Body Shop filling in over for color.

Hair is washed, Pantene volumizer sprayed on wet hair, Sexy Straight Hair blam on the edges, and dried. Hair then ironed straight, spray wax on tips and touch of Bio Silk to top layer for shine.

Dinner With Friends

Green lightweight sweater just bought same-day at Banana Republic. Straight fit Bootcut jeans from the Gap (not as fabu as the Original Lowrise Bootcut but decent). Black Enzo boots. Gold chandelier earrings and bangle.

Makeup applied with precision:

-Olay Regenrist eye cream patted below eyes with ring finger.
-Cetaphil heavy-duty moisturizer applied to face, neck and collarbone.
-Smashbox primer applied to face.
-L'Oreal true Match foundation in Classic Ivory applied to face with fingers.
-MAC stick concealer applied to eye area, under nose, around lips and over any zit scars. Pressed in place with fingers.
-Chanel powder applied to T-Zone with included puff.
-BeneFit's F..Y...Eye! applied with ring finger to lids.
-Nars Orgasm applied to cheeks with flat ended blush brush from Trish McEvoy.
-Maybelline's Dark Brown brow color applied with Trish McEvoy brush #.
-The Body Shop's Golden Khaki shadow from lash line to crease, on the outer corners of the eyes it is past the crease by 1.4". Applied with trish McEvoy brush #21. Same color applied to lower lash line with brush #41.
-Garden Botanika's Copper shadow applied with Trish McEvoy brush #29 to the crease.
-Lashes curled with Shu Umeura lash curler.
-Coat of MAC's Zoom Lash mascara in black.
-Lancome's Juicy Tubes gloss in Exposure applied to lips.
-The Body Shop's lip liner in Mahogany colored in over the gloss to create berry color.

And then the hair:
-Hair air dries from earlier day shower. Halo volumizing shampoo and conditioner, touch of Pantene's volumizing spray.
-Hair is blown straight in the front with a large round board bristle brush and my Conair ionic dryer.
-Rest of hair is straightened with my Conair wet/dry straightener on the highest setting.
-Pea size amount of BioSilk applied to hand, rubbed on hands and gently spread on top of hair and tips.
-Hair fluffed up while spraying Short Sexy Hair's spray wax to ends to give separation and volume.

The night's plan was to go to a bar/restaurant for dinner, then walk to a nearby pub for some live music. Ended up just being dinner, but I felt the outfit was appropriate.

Shopping With Mommy

Pictures taken in the Nordstrom Women's Lounge.
It was my birthday, plan was to go to brunch at a favorite restaurant, head to the mall for some leisurely window shopping.

Black silk cashmere tank from Banana Republic. Ivory sueded cotton trousers from Ann Taylor. Denim blazer from Ann Taylor. Gold Chandelier earrings and gold bangle. Black Enzo boots.

Makeup is a touch of MAC's Studio Tech on the face, a hint to Nars Orgasm blush, Fawn Pearl shadow from The Body Shop and black Zoom Lash mascara from MAC. On the lips was Sally Hansen gloss in a brownish pink color.

Hair was straightened, but it got all weird from sweaty trying on of clothes. These are pictrues from the end of our shopping trip. The luggage int he first pic is what my mom bought for her trip to Africa in February. $50 off at L.L.Bean!

January 27, 2006

I Don't Think I Like My Hair

Cherry ribbed crew neck sweater from Chico's. Two coral colored glass chip necklaces from a boutique near the beach. Vintage wash Lowrise Bootcut jeans from the Gap. My black Enzo boots. It's Casual Friday and all my clothes are STILL at the cleaners (though picking them up today after work - YAY!) so my look is relatively uninspired.

MAC's Studio Fix and stick concealer, Almay bronzer as blush, The Body Shop's Fawn Pearl shadow with a touch of Garden Botanika's Bronse in the crease, MAC's black Zoom Lash mascara. Lips are a touch of L'Oreal's Glam Shine in Diva with The Body Shop's Mahogany lip pencil colored over the gloss.

Hair is I think too layered. It is almost a shag, and I am not sure if that's what I desired. It's not terrible, but not the most flattering and polished look. I'll probably adore it in two weeks.

January 26, 2006

That's Hot

Or not.

Today I realized all I have in my wardrobe (as that half is at the cleaners) are black pants and tops that don't go with black pants. Yeah, I have my cherry red ribbed crewneck sweater from Chico's but I don't really feel cherry red today. So I am wearing wrinkled pants with the left hem held up with teeny tiny gold safety pins.


Brown merino v-neck from the Gap. Charcoal suiting fabric trousers from Ann Taylor. Brown tones snakeskin pumps from Nine West. Gold necklace and earrings from Express. Thin gold bangle from a yard sale.

makeup is MAC's Studio Fix foundation and stick concealer. Almay bronzer as powder and cheek color. The beige color from The Body Shop's Warmth Shimmer Cubes on the lid, my Maybelline brow color on my brows, along lash line and in crease. On lips is a taupe lip crayon from The Body Shop, then a touch of The Body Shop's Mahogany lip liner coloring in over that, then Lancome's Juicy Tubes in A beige color over the whole combination.

Hair had Pantene volumizing spray on damp hair, Sexy Straight balm on it, then a bit of Sebastian Molding Mud in the tips. Blown straight, then a touch of the straight iron on the ends.

Hey, I sit in a desk all day, maybe no one will notice that my pants don't exactly match...??

Sorry for the glare in the first picture - we are redoing the office/exercise room and am currently without window treatments.

January 25, 2006

Too Cold For a Skirt....

But I am wearing one anyway.

Black and white print gypsy skirt from Marshall's. Black sweater tank from Ann Taylor Loft. Denim shirt-jacket from Live a Little/Nordstrom. New replacement black pumps from B.P./Nordstrom. Silver pendant from my mom's jewelery box, silver hoops and cuff put on int he car because I left them in my purse.

I tried my new Laura Mercier tinted foundation but found it too pale and a bit greasy. Covered it up with some Studio Tech from MAC. MAC stick concealer. Nasrs Orgasm on the cheeks. The Body Shop's Fawn Pearl shadow on the lids, L'Oreal's dark purple shadow around the lash line. MAC's Zoom Lash mascara in black. Lips are my TwoFaced lip balm then a Wine lip liner from the Body Shop drawn on top of it for a creamy stain of color.

Hair is unwashed, re-straightened and a bit of BioSilk put in it. Still acting very weird, I guess it's getting used to the new cut. Think i will do a deep conditioning this weekend and baby it a bit.

Rose-Colored Glasses

I wore pink. my office mate wore pink. Pimp Daddy Manager, he was wearing pink and the lady I work with in the Purchasing department was in pink. I guess my subconcious got the memo!

Pink merino v-neck from J. Crew. I wore my white ribbed tank (also J. Crew) underneath because my nude bra broke and I only had a black one or a red one clean. Gray trousers, part of a Tahari suit. Black Enzo boots. Gold chandelier earrings from Express. Thin gold bangle.

Makeup is i.d. Bare Escentuals foundation and concealer. Nars Orgam blush. Fawn Pearl shadow from The Body Shop on lids and below lower lash line. Black Zoom Lash mascara from MAC. Maybelline brow powder. Candy pink gloss from Sally Hansen.

Hair being unruly though with a new cut. Used Sexy Straight balm in the hair, a bit of Pantene's volumizing spray, and Sebastian mud for definition and pieciness which made it just look dry and ragged. I'll try again tomorrow.

January 23, 2006

Monday = Hair Appointment Day!

Usually my hair knows it's getting cut and starts to behave better. I have smooth bangs, perfect layers, no cowlick. I guess my hair is punishing me for going so long without a cut. It is positively hideous and I have had to resort to strange tactics to look decent when leaving the house.

Black merino turtleneck from Ann Taylor. Black trousers from Ann Taylor Loft with a slight herringbone texture. Silver hoops and cuff. Black Enzo boots.

Hair in an accordion headband (Goody). It was the only thing I could do with this mess. Makeup is MAC's Studio tech for foundation and their stick concealer. A touch of bronzer powder to set it. Nars Orgasm on the apples of my cheeks. Similar shadow to Saturday - Shimmery white on the brow bone and around the eye. Dirty crease brush in the crease. Black liquid liner and lots of mascara. Same Berry Gloss Forever Metallics pencil from Maybelline on the lips.

7:00 p.m. baby and I'll have decent hair again! I will be sure to post pictures!

Night at the Theatre

My sister and I always buy each other tickets to the theatre for our birthdays. It's our way of infusing a bit of culture into our lives, and creates great conversation at the bar afterwards.

I knew the play wasn't at the fanciest of theatres, more of a small and historic theatre. Considering the play's topic and actress, I knew the crowd would run the gamut from velvet to denim, pumps to Pumas.

Raspberry merino v-neck from Ann Taylor Loft that I bought on Friday for $19.99. Black trousers from Ann Taylor's Triacetate collection. My black Enzo boots (only shoes I could wear from all the blisters I got the night before from dancing!). Two berry colored beaded necklaces from Express. Black beaded earrings from the Limited.

Hair was straightened, a large-barreled curling iron used to flip up pieces. A touch of pomade helped it stay a bit. Really, it was a terrible hair night because I am waaaay past due for a trim. Have an appointment scheduled!

Makeup is i.d Bare Escentuals foundation and concealer. Mucho Nars Orgasm on the apples of the cheeks. Shadow is a shimmery white color from Clinique on the brow bone, in the corners of the eyes, aound the lash line. I took my crease shadow brush and swiped it in the crease. The tough of shadow left on the brush gave the amount of color I was looking for. Two coats of mascara, a think line of black liquid liner. On the lips is Maybelline's Forever Metallics pencil in Berry Glossy. These lip pencils are chunky and creamy - not the best for lip lining, but great for a matte color. At the theatre I had a drink, watched the whole show, went to the restroom and my lips still had a lovely berry color.

My Sister's Birthday

Dinner at a hip restaurant, then T.B.A. for afterwards. Really requires me to dress for a multitide of activites. Salsa dancing? Smoky bar and rock band? Karaoke? Chi chi club? Casual fin of the movies?
Black silk/cashmere tank from Banana Republic. My newly purchased black suiting pants from Ann Taylor Loft, and my denim Ann Taylor blazer. Gold necklace and dangly earring s from Express. Black leather pointy pumps.

Hair is straightened, then given body with a large barreled curling iron.

Makeup is MAC's Studio Fix for foundation, Chanel concealer, touch of bronzer and a dusting of Nars Orgam blush. Pale shimmery peach shadow on the lids and pale gray shadow in the crease and under the lash line. A faint line of liquid liner in black on the top lash line. Black MAC Zoom Lash mascara.

After the dinner, we went to a club for a "Cry Fest." They played The Smiths and The Cure songs, the crowd was full of those in black, and reminded me of my style in high school. I checked my blazer at the coat check and felt right at home in my attire. We had a really great time and i danced ALL NIGHT!

January 20, 2006

The Bowels of my Closet

I forgot about this jacket. I got it at Target in the Spring I believe. It's a beige canvas, motocross inspired cut, brown stitching. I believe it was about $30.00.

Under it is a brown silk/cashmere shell from the Banana Republic outlet. My funky wood and glass necklace around my neck, no earrings or bracelet. Dirty vintage washed low rise bootcut jeans on from The Gap, and brown snakeskin pumps from Nine West.

The makeup is MAC's Studio Tech for foundation, MAC stick concealer. A bit of Almay bronzer for blush and powder. Goldie's Blosson lipgloss on the lips. Shadow is Fawn Pearl (The Body Shop) shadow on the lid, my brown brow powder (Maybelline) in the bcrease and along the lash line. Then of course MAC's Zoom Lash mascara in black.

Hair is being difficult, yet I keep putting off a hair appointment. I swear, this time I mean it, I am going to call to make an appointment TODAY. This has gone on too long.

January 19, 2006

Late to Work

Said the dog was sick, but that was the equivalent to saying the dog ate my homework. I was late, and my dog was feeling fit as a fiddle. Oh well. I am always on time. I won't feel guilt.

Electric blue cap sleeved square neck tape yarn sweater from a no-name brand and bought for less than $10 at Marshall's. Denim blazer from Ann Taylor. Black trousers from Ann Taylor. Black pumps from B.P./Nordstrom. Silver and black leather necklace from Chico's, silver cuff and silver hoops.

Makeup is i.d. Bare Escentuals foundation and concealer. Nars Orgasm on the cheeks. Pale pink gloss from Sally Hansen. Pale taupe/pewter shadow from the Body Shop. Think line of black liquid liner from Maybelline. Black mascara - MAC's Zoom Lash.

A Day Late....

Nice picture, eh? No power at the house means Dilly needs to use her flash.

Black merino boatneck from Banana Republic. Favorite lowrise bootcut jeans from the Gap. Black Enzo boots. Silver hoops and cuff bracelet.

Hair unwashed, flat and limp. Tried to rememdy with a straightening iron but resorted to a baseball cap come time for the after-work happy hour.

Makeup was gathered in the dark - MAC's Studio Fix foundation, MAC concealer, a touch of Nars Orgasm, black MAC mascara and gray Body Shop eyeshadow.

January 18, 2006

How to "Read" Fashion Magazines

Pre-pubescent women below 100 lbs. showing off dresses in the thousands. Ads for Armani, Versace, Missoni, Chanel and any other brand you couldn't possibly afford (and possibly couldn't even find for sale in your neck of the woods). Crazy outfits of sheer blouses without camisoles, plaids with polka dots, turquoise false lashes and 6" platform wedges. How are these magazines supposed to help the typical woman in America? How can Vogue, W, Bazaar and Elle assist you in your journey to the suburban shopping mall?

Some fashion magazines are more helpful than others. Lucky magazine not only tells you what is hip, but where to purchase these hip items. They categorize trends, with a page dedicated to the lace trend, a page dedicated to wedge shoes, a page dedicated to croco bags. While encouraging the shopper to visit New York boutiques, a few chain stores are mentioned. Even if you cannot afford the Prada skirt, you can see the length, fabric and cut and can look for a similar version at Macy's.

Bazaar is one of my favorite magazines. They show celebrities and socialites in what's hip for the next season, have all the hot new ads from the most luxurious brands, but also breaks fashion down for the Every Woman. So the trends for Spring are a bit of cowgirl, a bit of nautical and a bit of safari? Bazaar will show how a woman in her 20’s can wear the trends, a woman in her 30’s and all the way up to her 70’s. They also will have a spread informing the reader about the hot new trends. As always, they have a What’s Hot/What’s Not on the very last page.

Every fashion magazine can be beneficial to you, no matter your age, dress size or income. It’s not about going into debt for a Dior bag or even for trying to replicate a Dolce and Gabanna ad with pieces from Target. No, it’s getting concepts.

Look at the ads. Really examine them as you would a painting in a museum. What colors are being worn? What does the shoe look like? What kind of fabric? Is there a specific print that is the theme? Now flip the page and look at the next ad. Is there any similarity? Though each high-end designer has their own signature style, there is often a theme for each season that resonates on the runway and in the ads. Maybe it’s lace trim, maybe it’s wood heels on the shoes. It could be a lot of black – it sure was this winter. Don’t look at these ads and roll your eyes over the age or weight of the models, the astronomical prices and ridiculousness of the garments. See it as art, and then break it down.

Be Realistic. If the magazine says every woman needs the new Fendi purse, don’t buy the Fendi purse if you don’t make enough money to buy a Fendi purse for fun. The purse will be passé in a year. Don’t go on a street corner and buy a faux Fendi purse. It will look fake, and it will look tacky and desperate. Don’t wait two years and buy a cheesy knock-off of what the Fendi purse was shaped like from Wal-Mart. Again tacky and desperate. Instead, break it down. What makes that bag new and hip? Is it the oversized shape? Use of silver hardware? A short handle? Croco leather? White with black trim? Take those details with you when you go shopping. Look for something that is beautiful on it’s own, fits your lifestyle and needs, but may incorporate those details. I for one adored the Balenciaga Motorcycle bags that celebs like Nicole Ritchie and Jessica Simpson were sporting. I couldn’t afford the bag, and didn’t want to look like an idiot with a faux silver or turquoise pleather wanna-be bag on my wrist. Therefore I analyzed the look of the bag. What about it did I like? The hardware. The large size. The short handle. The way the leather looks a bit crackled and a bit glazed. When I went to buy a new purse I found a slouchy oversized purse with lots of hardware and metal detail in a similar leather finish and a color that complimented my wardrobe. Not Balenciaga, couldn’t be mistaken for a Motorcycle bag, but receives many compliments, holds all my stuff and keeps my image current.

Don’t be a Label Whore. I was in an elevator yesterday with a woman. A gorgeous woman with a gorgeous figure. Her beauty was not the first thing I saw. She was wearing a puffy Baby Phat coat with a faux fur trim in a weird olive/taupe color. She had on extremely tight Seven for All Mankind jeans that were too low on the waist and too long on her ankles. She had on a Tiffany bracelet AND a Tiffany necklace. She had on a Coach logo purse – quite large and quite pink. Under her coat was a black fitted tee with “Bebe” in rhinestones across the chest. She had on false eyelashes, very pink glossy lips and barely any other makeup. Her hair was in a formal updo with tendrils around her face, her hair obviously meticulously highlighted, lowlighted and streaked on a regular basis. And then on her feet were those high-heeled Timberland-esque dress boots. Her outfit probably cost a ton of money, but she looked terrible. Her clothes didn’t compliment her figure, or one another. She was a walking fashion victim, a slave to the name brands. By caring so much about the names, she lost sight of what the brands were trying to create – FASHION. I highly doubt you are going to the Academy Awards any time soon. No one is going to stop you walking down the street and say “Who are you wearing?” Even if they do, how cool would you be by saying, “This old thing? I picked it up at Target last season.” Think Sharon Stone when she wore a Gap tee shirt to an awards ceremony. No one wrote her off as cheap or tacky. Instead she was celebrated for that fashion move.

It is understandable to want to buy luxury, to splurge on designer. You work hard, you want to reward yourself. I respect that, and I indulge in that as well. Just when you do, think about the rules you hold for all other aspects of your life:
Does it fit into your life?
Does it flatter?
Will it work for the long haul?
Is it worth it?

If you got that promotion, go ahead and buy a Coach purse, but buy one that will go with your current wardrobe, and will still be beautiful next year. My friend has a Coach bag that she bought herself after getting her degree in 1998. She still carries around that camel colored tote, and still gets compliments all the time. She bought something luxurious, something obviously a brand name, but something that fit her lifestyle, fashion style and something that works in the 90’s as well as the new millennium. A few years ago I found a beautifully tailored black wool coat from Calvin Klein. I put it on and felt like a socialite. I felt elegant, tall and slim. It was at a discount store, but still out of my price range. It was the first item I ever put on layaway. When I made the final payment, I still adored the coat. Now a few years later, I still love the coat, it’s cut, it’s feel. To me, it was worth the money. I wear it and look expensive, but I am not shouting “This is a Calvin Klein coat from 2001!” I am whispering “I am wearing an expensive, well made garment and it is designer.”

Again, look in the magazines. Look at the spreads of celebrities at galas and fundraisers. Are they showing up in head to toe labels? Unless you’re Kimora Lee Simmons or Missy Elliott, the answer probably is no. The women who look polished, elegant, sexy and expensive do not flash their designer labels. They wear what is stylish, flattering and beautiful.

Don’t Believe Everything You Read. When a magazine totes a certain top or moisturizer as great, it’s not always because it’s great. Magazines receive free stuff all the time, and are encouraged in different ways to promote this stuff. These freebies end up in fashion spreads, articles about great new things for the season, or advice columns. Don’t take what one magazine says as gospel. It’s best to have something to compare it with. Don’t worship Vogue if you won’t also pick up In Style. Don’t read Lucky without W. By reading more magazines (even in the line at the grocery or at the pharmacy while waiting for a prescription) you get a more well-rounded view of what is hot, what is trendy, and what is utterly ridiculous.

Make it Age and Shape Appropriate. Anyone over 27 and a size 4 should not be wearing dress shorts. Mischa Barton and Nicole Ritchie and Lindsay Lohan are all wearing short creased shorts to red carpet events. Well good for them. Are you built like Lindsay Lohan? Are you the age of Mischa Barton? If you answered yes to both, God Speed and Good Luck. For the rest of us, STEER AWAY FROM THE SHORTS. Just because it’s hip, doesn’t mean to wear it. We don’t live in the era of cut and dry fashion. My mom speaks of circle skirts, piped charcoal blazers and cigarette pants while growing up. They weren’t flattering on her, but she wore them because EVERYONE wore them. That, and nothing else. Fashion has changed and has become more flexible and forgiving. If this season is all about olive green and you look terrible in olive green, then don’t wear it. If magazines are telling you that leggings are hot this season (which they are) but you are over 25, you’re over 105 lbs. and you wore in an office setting you shouldn’t pick up a pair your next trip to the mall. If the new look is nautical, that doesn’t mean you need to go buy a navy and white striped boat neck shirt to make your torso seem twice it’s size. Instead consider pieces that may be more appropriate. Crisp white trousers with a solid navy sweater. A navy blazer with gold buttons paired with a white shirt and vintage washed jeans. There are different ways to incorporate trends without looking like a fashion victim or worse… unflattering.

Make a List. So you like the polka dots featured in Bazaar. You like the new width of jeans seen in In Style. You love how navy is coming back into vogue on the pages of Vogue. Write these things down, or tear out pages from your glossy magazines and take them with you on your shopping excursions for inspiration. When you get overwhelmed in a sea of fabric at Lord and Taylor’s pull out your list. It will keep you centered and less overwhelmed.
And finally, See Fashion as Art. If you stop looking at fashion as the unobtainable, you’ll despise it. The majority of our country cannot afford a pair of Manolo Blahnik shoes, a Prada dress, a Chanel suit. That’s okay. Just look at that Chanel suit or that Prada dress in the magazine’s fashion spread and try to figure out why they chose to display it. Is it the color? The cut? The fabric? What about makes it less insane (because much high fashion is totally insane and unwearable in normal society) and more beautiful? Take that one thing with you as you go shopping this season. If you try to see the beauty and detail in fashion, you will be more likely to buy what makes you look more beautiful when you wear it.

January 17, 2006

Uninspired.

Yet again, I am at a point where I am sick to death of my wardrobe. My closet is filled with such boring standards. I know standards are easy to mix, work well in a conservative workplace, and can blend from day to night with less fuss. But I am not standard! I am funky and artsy and creative. My merino sweaters and tweed pants do not reflect that. I want to dye my hair and pierce my face and wear leather and mismatched prints. I want to show my personality. Today's outfit does not reflect my personality. I am not salmon pink, I am not camel pumps.

So today I am wearing a salmon colored merino turtleneck from Ann Taylor. Matching tweed pants from the same store. Camel pumps from B.P./Nordstrom. Silver hoops and cuff.

Makeup is i.d. Bare Escentuals for foundation and concealer. Nars Orgam on the cheeks. The Body Shop's Warm Shimmer Cubes on the eyes. MAC's Zoom Lash on the lashes. On the lips is some maybelline sheer lipcolor in a pink tube called Ripe Plum. Brows filled on with Maybelline brow powder and groomed with the Body Shop's clear mascara/brow gel. Boy they need to be groomed STAT!

Hair is badly in need of a cut. VO5 mousse on the roots, Sexy Straight balm on the ends and around the hairline. BioSilk when dry to make it appear to be healthy.

Hey, on a positive note, my blush beautifully matches my outfit! I think I am going to publish this and make a call to my stylist for a hair appointment.

January 16, 2006

Training Day

Today I am conducting training for my supervisors and PMs. have to look competant and legitimate.

Black ribbed crew neck sweater from Chico's. Gray cuffed trousers, part of a Tahari suit from Nordstrom. Black pearl necklace from my sister, looped twice around the neck. Black Enzo boots.

Hair is stright today, and tried parting it on the other side. trying to cover up growing out highlights and a badly needed haircut. Think it looks dresdful, but ahve received two compliments. VO5 mousse at the roots, Sexy Straight balm on the tips, and some BioSilk to cover up split ends.

makeup is MAC's Studio Tech applied with a sponged dampened with Body Shop Vitamin E Mist. MAC concealer. Bit of Nars Orgasm blush. Petal pink shadow on the lid, gray in the crease and along lash line 9both by The Body Shop). Black mascara from MAC. Pale pink gloss from Sally Hansen.

Day at home. The plan was jsut to go to brunch with the father-in-law and then the movies to see Memoirs of a Geisha.

My hair was curly the night before, so today it was rough. Coarse, frizzy, dry and unmanageable. I knew I wanted to go to the gym in the afternoon so I didn't see the point in showering just yet. Brushed down a bit.

White ribbed tank from J. Crew. Orange-red tissue weight v-neck cotton sweater from J. Crew. My beloved low-ride bootcut jeans from The Gap with the bright vintage wash and home made "whiskers" at the zipper that I did with bleach and a damp Q-tip.

As for makeup, a touch of MAC's Studio Tech on the face to cover ruddiness. Touch of Almay bronzer, and a coat of black mascara. Lipbalm on the lips.
Silver hoops and silver cuff. When I left the house I wore my New Balance trainers - gray blue with orange accents.

A surprise to me, when we got back from brunch we began taking portraits of friends and family. They were over until 7pm, when eight of us went to dinner at the local chinese restaurant. Never got a chance to go to the gym and never got a chance to take a shower.

*SIGH*

Chi Chi Dinner in the City















Dinner in the city for my mom's birthday. Restaurant says Men's Attire: Jacket Required. This is a popular place for politicians and proposals, we as a family felt we should dress the part.

Red silk surplice front shell from Ann Taylor Loft. Found it in their sale rack last January for $39.99. Black Triacetate jacket and full-leg trousers from Ann Taylor. This is my "interview suit," but has been worn to weddings and formal occassions with the right shell underneath. Black pointy toed leather pumps. Gold and red stone chandelier earrings from monet. Thin gold bangle bracelet.

Makeup is MAC's Studio Fix foundation, applied with a sponge moistened with The Body Shop's Vitamin E Face Spritz. Chanel concealer. Touch of Almay bronzer. Gray shadow from The Body Shop on the lid and lower lash line. Two coats of MAC Zoom Lash in black. Lipcolor is L'Oreal's Volume Perfect anti-feathering color in #600 Defining Mica.

Hair was done curly with my arsenal of Marc Anthony Strictly Curls products.

January 13, 2006

Hot and Cold

This morning I woke up shivering. I turned on the radio to hear it should be 70 degrees by this afternoon. It's also casual Friday.

Black silk/cashmere scoop shell from banana Republic. Red shetland crew neck cardigan from a thrift store. Gap jeans in their retired Lowrise Bootcut fit in a bright vintage wash. Black Enzo boots. Red, black and white striped scarf from The Limited in my hair. Silver hoops and cuff.

Hair was not washed from yesterday. I must admit I was a bit late getting ready thign morning and only gave myself a [insert whatever term you wish] shower and hit a few pieces with the curling iron so it didn't look to afro. The hair is actually held back with an accordion headband under the scarf so that the hair has height and the scarf doesn't slide off my scalp.

As for makeup, i.d. Bare Escentuals for foundation and powder. A bit of Nars Orgasm on the cheeks. Pale ivory shadow from Clinique on the lids. Thick lining of Maybelline liquid liner. Mucho mascara. Revlon Colorstay Lipcolor in burgundy.

January 12, 2006

I Forgot My Camera

So no lovely photographs today.

Candy pink merino v-neck from J. Crew. Ivory and black zebra-print cord skirt from the Isaac Mizrahi for Target collection (Fall 2004). Black pumps from B.P./Nordstrom. Silver hoops and cuff bracelet.

Hair is wavy/curly, thanks to the Marc Anthony Stricty Curls styling collection.

Makeup is foundation and concealer by i.d. Bare Escentuals. Nars Orgasm blush on the apples of my cheeks. Candy pink lipgloss from Maybelline's Wet Diamonds collection. Clinique subtly shimmery winter white shadow on the entire lid, more concentrated at lash line and brow bone. Thin line of Maybelline Ultra Liner black liquid liner at top lash line. Two coats of MAC's Zoom Lash mascara - black of course. A few spritzes of Chanel Chance and I am out the door!

January 11, 2006

Making the Most of The Fitting Room

Ah, the fitting room. A dreaded location for many women. The room is often too small, sometimes smells funny, the mirrors are so unflattering (it's not you!), there are pushy salespeople lurking when you want to be left alone and not a soul in sight when you need a different size. Often the doors don't lock, the slats are open enough for someone to see in. The lighting is atrocious and there are never enough hooks to hang our potential purchases from.

I have many friends and family members who bypass the fitting room experience all together. They buy off the rack, go home to try, and then return when necessary. This can be quite time consuming and result in being lazy and not returning items because you can't get yourself back to the mall. Others swear by online and catalog shopping. They again return when necessary. This can become quite cost and time consuming as well, spending time in the line at the post office and paying to return things that were plain awful.

If you know a store or brand well, sometimes buying sight unseen or item unworn can be successful. For the rest of our gender, it is best to put on a brave face, close that shrunken door and face your fear of the fitting room. Armed with the right tools and the right mindset, it can be less daunting of an experience.

Dress the Part: I have mentioned this before, but it is worth mentioning again. If you know you are going to the mall to buy clothing, wear the right things.
- Clothes that still look good after being pulled on and off multiple times (think jeans with stretch, knit sweaters, matte jersey separates).
- The proper bra. Something smooth that is invisible under knits. Preferable a skin tone so it disappears under white tops. If you are looking for something strapless, wear or bring a strapless bra.
- The proper underwear. Do not wear granny panties if you are looking for a tight knit skirt or swimwear. Again, you want it to seem to disappear under garments. You want to make sure it fits correctly come time to wear it out in public.
- The proper footwear. If you are shopping for jeans, wear shoes the height you usually wear with jeans. Same with suit pants. Along these lines, if you are going to try on capris or skirts PLEASE remove your socks. Nothing looks more unflattering than capris with black trouser socks. You will never get a true image of how the item flatters you if you have stunting socks on your feet.

Take it All: Once you have removed your clothes, shimmied in and out of things, mussed your hair, been depressed, elated, frustrated and thrilled all within 30 minutes, then put the clothes back on and the hair back in place, the last thing you want to do is go through the whole procedure again. Take a lap around the department or the store. Grab a salesperson to start a fitting room for you. Finish your lap, take a breath, and now take a second lap. Go in a different direction, check out displays, folded stuff on shelves, rifle through racks. It's better to grab everything in the first trip, than have to get all gussied up again and find the perfect something on your way out the door.

Be Real: When I stand in front of the mirror, suddenly I put one foot in front of the other, swivel my hips and suck in my tummy. my sister pulls her arms away from her sides and stands very very straight and stiff. My friend puts her hands on her hips, turns her head and juts out one hip. We all seem to be Vogue! Vogue! Vogueing! in front of the mirror. Why? Well because we want to look our best. We want our waists to look small, our arms slim, our legs long and lean, our necks as long as Audrey Hepburn's. The problem with this? We don't strike a pose when in line at the bank. We don't Vogue! our way down the hall at work, we don't pirouette, stand on our toes or suck in our gut at the grocery. So when you stand in front of that fitting room mirror, feel free to do your "flattering pose," but then be normal. Let your stomach relax, your shoulders drop. Try moving around, look at your profile. Sit on the bench and check out the view - does it ride in the back? Is it too tight in the sleeves when you cross your arms? When you rise from the bench, how do the pants look? Are they riddled with creases or looking fresh? Do you have to perform a lot of adjustments to get the top or dress back in place? Give each garment a reality test before taking it to the cash register. Be yourself!

Be Realistic: Yes, that pink sequined halter dress fits you like a glove. It makes you look slim, tall, sexy and sassy. It's on sale, but it has no place in your wardrobe. You never have been to an occasion that would find such a dress appropriate, nor will you ever. Yes it's fun, and pretty and flattering. However it is a poor investment if it never leaves your closet, and never has the tags removed. Only buy what you NEED. If you buy what you want, you'll have a closet full of great stuff, but never anything to wear. Be good to yourself and your wallet and buy what works for your lifestyle.

Think Quality: Over an over I hear women say they don't like the fit of their jeans, but they were on sale. They bought this GREAT sweater, except that it gaps at the neckline and is a bit too short. They didn't have any luck shopping, so they bought something just to feel a bit successful with the trip. The dress is perfect if it is worn with a girdle, a minimizer bra, control top panty hose and a shawl. Why do this to yourself and your wallet? No matter our income, it isn’t a wise choice to buy that which we don’t love and doesn’t love us back. Those who have great style do not necessarily have the largest wardrobes. It’s okay to wear the same black pants every time you go out with the girls. It’s okay to wear the same one or two suits for corporate events at work. It’s okay to wear the same black shift to a wedding one weekend, a holiday party the next, and a Bat Mitzvah the next. No one will whisper behind your back about your miniscule wardrobe if the clothes fit and flatter. It’s all about how you put your outfits together – the shoes, the accessories, the hair. It’s the whole package. You are far more likely to get the whispers for an ill-fitting dress, a cheaply cut suit, a blouse that gaps at the buttons, a pair of jeans that are too short or too tight. It’s okay to leave a mall empty handed. It was a learning experience – you saw what didn’t work, and you won’t have to stress yourself with trying on those sorts of things again. Filling your drawers with not-quite-rights will stress you out the next time you are trying to figure out what to wear. When the perfect garment comes around, you may not feel justified in purchasing it because you spent all your money on mediocre pieces.

Just as you wouldn’t give up on a project at work, you wouldn’t give up if your child was having trouble in one course of study in school, you wouldn’t give up if there were a leaky pipe in your home, you shouldn’t give up on yourself. Giving up on your appearance is giving up on your whole package. Whether we like it or not, we are judged by our appearance on a daily basis. You are beautiful, you are intelligent, you are talented, giving and kind. Your exterior should properly represent your interior. If you wrote the Next Great American Novel, you would let just any old cover be published with this tome. No, you would want it to reflect the contents properly, allure readers to pick it up and purchase it. You are a novel, a novel that people would enjoy reading. Make sure your cover reflects your contents well.

Shopping can be a chore. Fitting rooms can be taxing to your self esteem. We all do things we don’t enjoy to reap the rewards. We don’t want to write our dissertations, change diapers, clean our homes, go to work every day or go to Motor Vehicles to get our license renewed. We do these things because the rewards are great. Looking good is just as great a reward. It’s representing yourself properly and respecting yourself.

Hump Day!


My trusty denim blazer from Ann Taylor. Black cotton knit shell from Ann Taylor Loft. Black trousers from... you guessed it, Ann Taylor. Black pointy boots from Enzo. Three strand silver necklace bought at a renaissance festival. Two coral glass chip necklaces bought at at a boutique near the beach. Long wood and bead necklace wrapped twice - bought at Claire's Boutique. Silver hoops and cuff.

Makeup is very subtle because I was running late and fetl sort of icky from all the cigarette smoke last night. Even Bare Escentuals couldn't cover my red eyes and bags. Pale taupe shadow (The Body Shop), fine line of liquid liner (Maybelline), dustong of blush (Nars), and a clear lipgloss because I left my Spice tinted lip balm (Aveda) in my desk at work.

Night Out on the Town

Nice restaurant, but no where you need to wear dressy clothes. After to a bar where you see anything from sweats to couture. My friends are pretty normal - middle of the road when it comes to these things. It's cold outside, hot in the bar, comfortable in the restuarant. I may be walking a lot, I needed a versitile, sassy yet comfy outfit.

White ribbed tank from J. Crew. Black velvet blazer with ribbon/bow belt from The Gap (last winter). Vintage washed low rise bootcut jeans from The Gap.

Silver hoops, silver cuff. White gold necklace with black pearl pendant that my husband bought me several years ago.

Makeup was the day's look buffed up. A bit more powder, a bit more liner, a bit more gloss.

Hair the same as earlier, just re-curled around the face.

January 10, 2006

My Sweater Shrunk

Every time I wear it, I remember it shrunk and think I need to take it out of rotation. Then I put it in the drawer when it gets back from the cleaner's or from hanging after a Woolite bath. I put it back on, it looks cute, then I bend over and realize the sweater only comes to my belly, no longer. A belly shirt with a belly is not hot.

but I wore it anyway. I just tug on the hem all day.
So, blue merino v-neck from J. Crew. Charcoal suiting fabric trousers from Ann Taylor. Teal suede mules from Seychelles/Nordstrom, teal glass necklace from vendor in Italy. Blues and greens beaded bracelet from Express circa 1998 or so.

Makeup is Bare Escentuals, Nars Orgasm, Goldie lipgloss in Blossom, touch of gray shadow ont he lids (Body Shop), MAC Zoom Lash and Maybelline liquid liner.

Hair is curly today thanks to a crapload of Marc Anthony's Strigtly Curls line. A bit of V05 mousse at the roots, the Strictly Curls balm/gel on the rest. Spray the Strictly Curls Curling Spray on top of that. Dried scrunching with my broken diffuser. Hit the whole head with the Strictly Curls Humidity Spray (an aerosol hairspray) and then took the unruly sections with my cheapo Vidal Sassoon curling iron from 7th grade. Then I took some of the Strictly Curls serum (like BioSilk) and rubbed it on my hands and lightly smoothed the hair with it. Still had some issues with pieces that didn't want to lay right.

I am going out tonight for my friend's birthday. I will have time to change after work, but not do a whole hairstyle. I figured the curly will be the easiest to spruce up in short time. A few rounds with the curling iron, a re-app of spray and I am good to go.

January 9, 2006

Back to the Land of the Living

Brown merino v-neck from The Gap, brown and cream and pink tweed trousers from Ann Taylor (that have the most adorable pink lining!), brown snakeskin pumps. Silve cuff and hoops. No flash or flair, just clothes to cover myself. I am not quite 100% back to normal, but I needed to go put out fires at the office.

On the face is i.d. Bare Escentuals foundation and concealer, the Body Shop Shimmer cube - light on the lid, the second darkest in the crease. Black mascara. A touch of Nars Orgam on the cheeks, and the toffee colored gloss from Sally Hansen. Enough makeup to not make me look like death warmed over.

I hope to be much more sassy come tomorrow!

January 7, 2006

Sick Day

I stayed up all night coughing a layer off my lungs. Good times.

Today my husband went for a hike with his best friend, and I am trying to purify the home. Laundry, change the sheets, sterilize the bathroom, a quick run of the vacuum (after watching Project Runway, of course!).

White terry robe from Land's End. The BEST bathrobe ever! So sturdy and warm and cozy (be warned - they run large). Under it is a black ROOR tee-shirt belonginf to my husband. On the bottom is a pair of my husband's boxers from Banana Republic. On my feet are these hideous ankle socks my mom bought me for the 4th of July - red and white stripes with a blue square of stars on the top of the foot.

January 6, 2006

My Beauty Must Haves

There is a blog tradition where on your 100th post, you write 100 things about yourself. As that I have already done this on my other blog, I have decided to log my 100 favorite beauty items. And yes... I believe I can log 100!

1. Vitamin C Face Wash from The Body Shop: I have sensitive skin in the winter, it dries out quickly, produces oil quickly in the T-zone and will turn red, peel, or itch if someone looks at it the wrong way. This face wash is a cream, non-foaming, non-soap. I use it after a makeup remover to gently remove any dirt and impurities. Works great with a face brush without making my skin more angry. The faint citrus smell is nice in the morning. When I worked at the Body Shop, some clients found this product to be too caustic for overly sensitive skin (Vitamin C can be irritating) but I have liked it. Vitamin C is an antioxidant - it fights free radicals which helps you have fresh and healthy skin.

2. Vitamin E Face Spritz from The Body Shop: Trains, planes and automobiles. This face spritz is great for hydrating your skin when on the go. I spray it every hour when on a plane. I have one in my desk drawer at the office. One in the bathroom which is used as a gentle toner and a great way to create a dewy finish post-foundation and powder. It's very light moisture, a slight rose scent and a cooling feel to the skin. People use it under makeup to make it apply better, over makeup to help set it but give a more dewy finish. It's a great pick me up.


3. Nivea Eye Makeup Remover: This stuff is very gentle, non-irritating, and packs a punch. I put a bit on a cotton pad and hold it to my eye for a few seconds. No need to rub - when I wipe all my makeup comes off. It even removed liquid liner and waterproof mascara! You need very little, a tube will last you for MONTHS and it doesn't make me have to rub and tug at the skin to get rid of my eye cosmetics.


4. Oil of Olay Total Effects Cleansing Cloths: I am a lazy bum. I'll admit it. When I am tired, I just want to go to bed. I don't want to wash and tone and moisturize. I just want to curl into bed and leave black smears of mascara on my pillowcases. I store these wipes in my nightstand and can wash my face as I fall asleep. They don't work as well as face wash, but they're better than going without.


5. Bag Balm: This stuff doesn't smell too good, but it works well. I read an interview where Shania Twain said it was her favorite beauty product. I decided to try it out - I liked the retro looking tin. Each night I slap this stuff on my lips, heels, cuticles and wake with smooth and soft skin. In the winter I often slap it all over my hands and go to sleep with socks on my hands, and in the winter I do the same to my feet.


6. Nars blush in Orgasm: You HAD to know that this would be on the list! I swear by this product, as do many other celebrities and bloggers! This is a peachy pink color that can go from a sheer wash to a burst of color depending on how you layer it. It has a slight shimmer to it, but nothing that recalls ravers, more of a slight glow or dewy finish to the cheeks.

7. I.D. Bare Escentuals Foundation: I had watched the infomercial dozens of times, and have even watched Leslie on QVC sell her wares. I was skeptical, but finally decided to try it. I ordered the trial kit available on the QVC website and was SO GLAD I DID! This foundation lasts all day, it covers my ruddy cheeks and allergy dark circles without making me look as though I am painted. Somehow it covers all that I want covered, but still lets my freckles show through! It’s tricky to apply and gets all over the sink and my top, but it’s worth the trouble for the natural end result.

8. M.A.C. Zoom Lash: When I first got this stuff I HATED it. I found it too goopy and was constantly wiping the wand with a Kleenex so I didn’t look like a raccoon. Soon I got the hang of it, and was pleased with the result. Long, thick lashes that survive eye rubbing, tearing, sweating and naps. It’s a bit tricky, but it’s worth the time for the end result – especially if you are like me and have allergies!

9. Lancome Defincils: This is one of the best mascaras out there! It doesn’t make you have drag queen lashes, but it gives very clean, separated and defined lashes. A great day mascara, or a mascara for those who fear eye makeup. No irritation with contacts or allergies, and it lasted all day. I wore the waterproof version on my wedding day – applied it before 10 a.m. and still had lovely lashes at midnight!

10. Body Butter from The Body Shop: I fell for the fragrance of the Coconut Butter, but was committed with a touch. I was in the mall, window shopping and crossed my arms. My hand touched my other arm’s elbow – just a brush. I felt as though I had touched a stranger’s skin. My elbow was soft and silky to the touch. An ELBOW! And in the WINTER no less! Celebrities can afford million dollar creams, but many celebrate the benefits of The Body Shop’s Body Butter for good reason. Unlike many replicas, this company’s butter is predominately moisturizer, not water. No waxes or petroleum – the moisture comes from shea nuts, cocoa nuts, brazil nuts. The nuts have oil that melts at a lower temperature than many other moisturizers, letting it seep into the skin more easily than say, Vaseline or regular body lotion. Try it – they sell travel sizes. I’m sure after one use you’ll run back for the big container… or two!

11. OPI’s I’m Not Really a Waitress Nailcolor: The red with the most class. I don my tootsies with it 75% of the year. Goes with everything, and isn’t too tartish for the office.


12. OPI’s Coney Island Cotton Candy Nailcolor: the pale pink/nude that doesn’t look chalky or cheesy. The only nailcolor I will allow on my hands, and I like it on my feet in the spring, when I am wearing open toed shoes but am still pale. Very elegant. I wore it on my wedding day.

13. L’Occitane Shea Butter Hand Cream: Amazing stuff. It is so decadent – so rich, but not greasy. No candy scent, and it really seems to heal my hands. My sister says it’s one of the greatest gifts for a woman, and I agree. I don’t think any woman would be disappointed with a tube of this in her stocking or from her Secret Santa!

14. Short Sexy Hair’s Play Dirty Dry Wax: I borrowed this product from a friend when at the beach. My hair was too… clean. It was hanging limp and was boring. I lifted some pieces and took a few spritzes, figuring that if it looked like crap I could throw it all up in a ponytail. No need, for that night I had the best hair I had worn in months. The wax separated the hair gently. It didn’t feel gross to the touch, and the scent was not overpowering. It held better than hair spray, even while sweating and running around. It gave my hair body, texture and all the stuff other products claim to do and really don’t. I find it works on my hair from shoulder length and shorter. Anything longer, and it can’t seem to fight gravity.

15. Chanel No.5 Parfum: Wanna feel like a goddess? Spritz this stuff on your wrists. A little goes a long way, but once you get a whiff, you will be standing taller, walking more gracefully, and feeling like a lady. A sexy lady. Think Marilyn (who wore it as her signature scent). My mom has worn it since college, and every time I smell it on her I think of weekends as a kid watching her get gussied up for a night on the town with my dad. My sister bought me a bottle a few years ago. I don’t wear it often because it is my mom’s scent. I do spritz a bit when I need to feel more confident – a job interview, a presentation, a high school reunion. Every time I wear it, and smell it on those around me I feel as though I posses a bit more confidence, a bit more class.


16. Sephora’s Bronzer Brush: I am a brush snob. I have brushes from M.A.C, Trish McEvoy, Shu Umera, Bobbi Brown. However when I can find a bargain brush that’s worthy, I stock pile. I have two of these brushes – one for my powder foundation, one for my bronzer. This brush has tightly packed bristles, but they are very soft to provide even application. It fits well in the hand, washes nicely without losing bristles, and has worn well – they look brand new after a couple of years of use! I fully believe in buying the best tools possible – they last you for years and make all cosmetics apply and wear better.


17. M.A.C. Blot Powder: This stuff is wonderful. You can apply over and over all day without getting cakey. It really controls the shine. I used this powder on my wedding day and through tears, sweat, hugs and kisses I only needed to reapply once in a twelve-hour span. I was never a huge fan of pressed powder until I was introduced to Blot.

18. Victoria’s Secret Lip-Gloss in French Kiss: I have bought this little pot over and over through the years, always go back to it. I will buy designer lipglosses, but I find this gloss to have the prettiest natural shimmer, the most elegant nude color, the right amount of stickiness without being gross. It lasts a long time, doesn’t have an overwhelming scent, and applies well over lipsticks and pencils to add a subtle wet look without being “too much.” I have even added it to my cheeks and lids in the summer – really highlights a tan nicely.


19. A Face Brush: I pick mine up at The Body Shop because I like the length of the handle and the softness of the bristles. A face brush can make any gentle cleanser a scrub. I wash mine regularly (along with my makeup brushes) so that it doesn’t harbor bacteria and yuckies. A circular motion a couple of nights a week with your regular face wash will really help the skin stay clear, revitalized and fresh. Once I started using one regularly I saw a marked improvement in my skin – especially those pesky blackheads on the nose.

20. The Body Shop’s Soy and Calendula Face Scrub: This product is sold for sensitive skin, but I highly recommend it for any skin types as a scrub. The gel base of the scrub rinses clean and is not drying. Soy is a great product for the skin and is toted as an age deifier. Calendula is an anti-redness ingredient. The granules are round beads that don’t scratch the skin like many face scrubs. It’s not overly harsh, but does the job of removing the bad and leaving the good.




21. Aveda Be Curly: This is a lotion-like product for curls. When I used to wear my hair in long layers, I would go to bed with wet hair; a large dollop of this product mixed in, and would wake up with ringlets and beachy waves. Amazing stuff, and a little goes a long way. It seemed to keep the waves all day as well.











22. Conair’s Dry N Style Iron: I know there may be better straightening irons out there, but I love this one because I travel so much. In one product I have a large barrel curling iron and a ceramic straightening iron that gets very hot. Also, this product claims to be a dryer. The drying tool sort of sucks, but is great for getting those little damp ringlets at the nape nice and straight. It was less than $20 at Target and has traveled the country without causing me any trouble.

23. Large Round Boar Hair Brushes: I didn’t realize how great these brushes are until this past weekend when I forgot my brush and used my friend’s large barreled brush with a metal barrel and black plastic bristles. The brush helped my hair get super straight with the dryer, but I returned home with a heedful of split ends. A boar bristle brush protects the hair, adds shine, and gives body to hair that is being straightened.

24. The Body Shop Lip Liner in Beech: This is the SAME EXACT color at M.A.C.’s Spice lip pencil that is ravced about by all makeup artists. Wet-N-Wild’s 666 pencil is as well, but I don’t find it to glide as nicely as The Body Shop or M.A.C. This is a brownish pink color that blends with 99% of lipsticks and 99% of skin tones. Great color to fill your lip in with and top with a gloss for a long-lasting color for day. I know I am mentioning a lot of products from The Body Shop. No, I don’t work for them though I did. While there I saw that some of their products SUCK, and some are really amazing enough for me to still buy now that the discount is gone. This is one of them. My pencil is about an inch long – I’ll have to go soon to get a replacement!

25. The Body Shop’s Shimmer Cubes in Warm: I have raved about this shadow set in many posts before. I used to give this as a prize to my staff for achieving sales goals and always got great results. Black, Asian, White, Latina, whatever… you will find that these shadows are flattering, shimmery without being childish, and easily blendable. The quad of shadows lasts FOREVER. I bought one in 2003 and am not even halfway through. I use the pale on my whole lid, and the dark in the crease and around the lash line. I have used the copper on darker complexions for a wonderful effect.




26. Smith’s Rosebud Salve: This is a treat. It’s really just Vaseline with a feminine smell, but the whole experience – the retro tin, the pale pink color, the faint rose smell all is wonderful, and the product is quite soothing to lips. It’s also smooth enough to actually work under lipsticks for more of a wash of color.





27. Trish McEvoy Brush #29: This is an essential brush for eyeshadow application. The length of the bristles, the softness, the rounded shape all create the perfect contour on the crease. I have used this brush on multiple people with the same result – a gentle sweep of color in just the right place. It’s easy to use also – just swish-swish from side to side and you have a perfectly applied contour. The price may be frightening, but I have had my brush for about a decade and it is still going strong and working well.

28. Neutrogena Oil Free Moisturizer with SPF 15: Ladies and Gentlemen, if you are not wearing a MINIMUM of SPF 15 every day (even in the winter) you better START before you look like a leather purse! I love this moisturizer because it absorbs well, hydrates the dry cheeks and doesn’t drown the oily T-zone. I recommend a higher SPF in the summer, but in the winter, this is a great choice for oily/combination skin.

29. Bath and Body Works Breathe Energy Fragrance Mist: This crisp green scent is light enough to spray all over my skin and hair. I found the other pieces in this fragrance line to be too herbal, but the spray is fresh. It wears well and just makes me feel Springy without being a Mitchum Man. I wore it a lot this summer in place of perfume.







30. C.O. Bigelow Clementine Superb Body Cleaner: It’s a relatively gentle soap, the smell is utterly divine. Sweet oranges, similar to The Body Shop’s old formula for their Satsuma shower gel (that I MISS HORRIBLY SO!). The smell is a sweet wake-up. There is a matching lotion that matches but is mediocre in moisturizing. If you don’t mind mixing fragrances, I recommend this body wash!



31. Goldie Lip Gloss in Blossom: A pale coral color that just looks as though you have been licking your lips. Goes on smooth, smells like cake batter and is pretty hydrating. This is not a gloss that will last all day, but with it’s texture and flavor, you won’t mind reapplying.

32. BioSilk Silk Therapy: Buy the smallest bottle they have, you don’t need a lot. I have the travel size and have been using the same bottle for three years. Just a drop on dried hair will make it soft, silky and never greasy. A little in damp hair will help it wave softly and not look frizzy. Whatever leftover on your hands makes a phenomenal moisturizer. I know people who use this product on their feet, their elbows, whole body and even face for moisture. It feels amazing and has barely a scent. I use it on curls for definition and shine, and in straight hair for slight separation and a smooth sheen. The best glosser I have ever tried.



33. Maybelline Ultra Liner: I am a fan of liquid eye liner. I know it goes in and out of style, but I have always stuck to it. I like the Audrey Hepburn/Playboy Playmate looks it can create, and I like how it lasts through most anything. I have tried dozens of liquid liners, from Chanel to Trish to Cover Girl. I have tried the dry that you wet, the pen styles, the brush styles (hard and soft). This liner pleases me the most. It’s just the right length of brush (soft) and thick enough to give a strong line in one swoop. This may not be the best liner for those new to the liquid scene, but for an old pro, I love the price, I love the texture, I love the wearability and I love me some liquid liner!!

34. Chanel Quick Cover Concealer: This concealer claims to be waterproof. I don’t know about that, but it’s rub-proof, cry-proof, sweat-proof and hug-proof. Again, I chose this product for my wedding day and was thrilled with the results. It is not cheap – I keep this concealer for very special occasions. It dries fast with a matte finish and works well either over or under foundation… and well alone too!

35. M.A.C. Studio Tech: This is a compact foundation. It’s best applied with a synthetic foundation brush. It gives some major coverage. Perfect to cover ruddiness, dark circles and faint scars. It layers well to add more coverage, or can be applied with a damp brush for a more sheer effect. Though it’s a heavy foundation, I like it in the summer because it STAYS through sweat and even through a dip in the pool. There are plenty of colors to find your right match. I wore this also on my wedding day and had much success and little rub-off on those I hugged.

36. Smashbox Photo Finish Foundation Primer: Yet another product I purchased thanks to watching QVC. This product can be worn alone as a mattifier in the Summer, or under foundation to give a smoother look and a longer lasting finish. Usually I found primers and toners and this kind of stuff as being all hype, but this time I found this product to be useful and quite lovely!


37. Chanel Chance Eau de Toilette: I’m biased. My husband bought me this for my 30th birthday. I didn’t express an interest in this specific fragrance. He saw the ad on the back of one of my magazines, knew my mom wore Chanel, and headed to the counter alone to find a fragrance he thought smelled like “me.” I really like it. It’s feminine without being too girly, sexy without being too much for day or work. It smells elegant, classy and expensive without being pretentious. It’s a lovely scent.

38. Olay Total Effects Eye Transforming Cream: I am a fan of eye creams. As someone who rubs her eyes a lot, I have seen the skin is not so elastic as I get older. I started using eye creams about four years ago and have seen a marked improvement in the skin around my eyes. This is the most recent eye cream I have used, and I like it. I use it every morning and every night. It is very gentle, non-irritating, not greasy. It hydrates the skin without making it puffy, and I think all the anti-aging stuff is working a bit!

39. Jergens Soft Shimmer Moisturizer: I am not one for body bling. I fond body glitter tacky, hate fake bakes, and am grossed out by crazy sparkle on the face. I bought this product because a male client of mine said it made his muscles look more toned without him looking feminine or greased up. I bought a bottle that night. The very subtle shimmer makes your skin look dewy a la Mandy Moore. It does seem to add definition, and just makes the skin look luminous, not sparkly. I wear it every time I get gussied up, or when I go to a beachside bar in a sundress.

40. DiorShow Mascara: If you want drag queen lashes, you have found the right product. This is not your day mascara, your office mascara, your demure mascara. This is mascara for a night at a club, a hot first date, a dancing till dawn sort of event. DiorShow will plump, thicken, lengthen, and if you don’t watch out will clump all over. If you use a light hand you will have bat-worthy lashes all night.

41. Cargo Bronzer: I don’t own any right now because I am thrilled with my discontinued Almay bronzer (not worth noting since it has gone bye-bye), but once the current stuff is gone I plan to pick up a tin of this goodness. It has a faint amount of shimmer that works similar to the above mentioned Jergens Soft Shimmer Lotion, but for your face (and collar bone and cleavage). I like the Light in the Winter and the Medium in the summer.

42. The Body Shop Bronzer: It’s cheap, it’s neutral, it’s matte. Light skinned Black women often use this color for pressed powder. I like it for a hint of color and just that. Not contour, no straight from Bali look, just a faint hint of color to whisk away the sallowness of winter. Be warned: the packaging is annoying, the lid will pop off and the compact does not travel well (crumbles easily). However if you want a very natural look from a bronzer, this product will give it to you with not too many greenbacks.


43. Fresh Umbrian Clay Treatment Bar: I would have NEVER picked up this product if it weren’t for this adorable Sephora salesperson with the loveliest skin. I asked her what she used and she grabbed me a bar of this stuff. It doesn’t lather, it doesn’t “do” much of anything when in the shower, but used as a face wash, it removes impurities while not removing moisture. As a mask it leaves skin baby soft and glowing. I know people have used it on mosquito bites, rashes and other irritations to calm the skin and reduce redness. I have put it as a mask on knees and elbows to help soften and have had success. It’s a really interesting product. Just don’t leave it in the shower or it will crumble away. Keep it dry except when in use and that will make it last.

44. Aveda SPF 15 Lip Tint: I realized while researching my favorite beauty products that I have thought forever that my beloved lip tint was from Origins. Nope, it’s from Aveda (same company, so I don’t feel too awful). It gives more color than many lip tints, moisturizes, but is dry enough that it doesn’t get all over your teeth and face. They carry intense colors (like Spice, which I wear often) and very subtle shades for those more wary of strong colors. I really like the feel and look of this product. My lips do too!

45. Benefit’s High Beam: So I usually don’t like shimmer and shine, but sometimes the situation calls for it. Bachelorette party, New Year’s Eve, sassy summer night… this product gives me EXACTLY what I’m looking for. Ethereal shimmer, dewy shine without looking overly made-up. I put some on the cheekbones, on the brow bone, in the corner of the eye. A bit on my shoulders and collar bone. You can make it as subtle or as shiny as you like. The pink tint is quite flattering. It works best when I moisturize my fingers before applying – makes it glide better.

46. The Body Shop’s Damson Eye Shadow: This is a dusty purple color that works well as a contour or liner color. I have the most success wetting the brush before applying it to the last line, as that Body Shop’s shadows go on light and work better in layers. I think this is a flattering color on a multitude of skin tones, and is soft enough to give me a doe-eyed look when under the edges of the lower lash line.

47. Sally Hansen Extra Strength Crème Hair Remover for Face: Yes, Dilly gets a ‘stache if she doesn’t take care of herself. That Eastern European blood coursing through my veins. I have used varying products, but like this products the best. Least offensive smell, doesn’t leave my upper lip numb, and no redness. Eight minutes, rinse off and apply the balm and you’re ready to head out the door.

48. Sally Hansen Diamond Lip Treatment: I am such a sucker for a lip gloss. These smell good, feel good, have a nice soft brush to apply with, a trim bottle that fits in the tightest jeans and the colors are very natural. I own five different colors, I am that much of a fan. Not the longest lasting, but not terrible, and a lovely shine that isn’t to little-kid-like.

49. Clean and Clear Oil Absorbing Sheets: I always have these in my bag. They don’t add any powder or product to my face, just remove the shine. The packet is durable and can handle a night at the bars in my jeans’ back pocket.

50. Wow, I have gotten to 50. I really can’t think of 50 more today so I will have to continue this. Say, with Post #200?
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