August 31, 2007

No White After Labor Day!

So ladies, it’s that time of year. The time where you are expected to stash away those sandals and shorts and suddenly don cable-knit sweaters and cords. Here in the Nation’s Capital it’s around 95 degrees and I have a feeling that come Tuesday the weather wills till be as hot. I can recall Halloweens as a child, sweating to death in my faux-fur cat costume. So of course you aren’t expected to suddenly change to woolens come September 4th, but with the change in the seasons should be a certain change in your fashion outlook.

What About White?
Many of us were raised with the rule that you never wear white after Labor Day or before Memorial Day. Is this still gospel? Well… it’s kind of hard to answer.

A few seasons ago Balenciaga featured white patent shoes for December and many a fashionista has been photographed in a black cashmere turtle with white jeans in the cooler months. This doesn’t mean all white is acceptable.

Magazines may show that you can take your gauzy white sundress and make it fall-worthy with dark tights and a turtleneck but we all know that look RARELY works in real life. Take your linen, eyelet and gauze and pack them away until next year. Same with all-white dresses, belts and handbags. The weather may still be sweltering, but the tone has changed. Get through the last few hot weeks of the year with more subdued of colors.

As for white shoes, I say unless you can afford the Balenciagas, put them away. Personally, I think the only people who should own a pair of white shoes are nurses, graduates and brides. Tan is a far better color for your summer styles and they don’t have an expiration date. White can easily look cheap or tacky and if you get a scuff, they suddenly go from summery to fugly.

So what white can you keep? White tops are okay, as long as they are not strapless, gauzy beachy styles. I think white jeans can work if they aren’t Clorox-pure. A winter white hue, white with tan stitching, these sorts of details make them look seasonless and not a summer leftover. The fashionistas are right – they look chic with a black cashmere turtleneck and boots. White blazers can last another month or so when paired with black or dark denim. A white suit can work in some circles if paired say with a black top and black or printed shoes. White bags are acceptable if they follow the rules of the white jeans – have black or tan stitching and accents or are more ivory or winter white.

What is a Summer-Only Dress?
Today at lunch I saw a woman enter the restaurant wearing the same Old Navy sundress that I own. It’s cotton with a v-neck, empire waist and full babydoll-inspired skirt. The dress hits both she and me a couple inches above the knee. For me, this dress was worn on weekends with flip flops to barbecues and over a swimsuit at the beach or pool. This woman decided to Fall-erize it with a brown spandex ballet tee and brown leggings under it and russet-hued peeptoe flats. Great shoes and I would love to know who makes that tee, but the outfit was pathetic. She didn’t make that dress appropriate for the shorter and cooler days, she just looked as though she put fall accessories with a very summer dress.

Now some summer dresses can transition to fall quite easily. Pieces in black, brown and other dark shades carry over nicely. A pattern can go well, if it is a subtle hue. It’s pretty hard to make aqua, coral or candy pink look right in September. However a print in olive, terracotta or indigo can look quite cute with a pair of brown t-strap pumps in place of your tan sandals. Heavier fabrics like twill, ponte de roma and denim will work well with tights and Mary Janes or a white collared shirt or turtleneck underneath come October. No matter what Lucky magazine may say, unless you are a creative genius, pack up the flippy summery gauzy pieces and don’t try to marry them with dark underpinnings.

What is a Summer-Only Shoe?
Flip-flops. These should be retired except for padding around your house and yard. This includes the leather, patent and beaded variations.

The gladiator sandal. I love this look for the warmer months, but it’s just not a right look in September.

Shoes out of summer fabrics or in summer colors and patterns. This means candy pink, tangerine, aqua, lime, celadon, pale blue, white and cream. No Swiss dot, no eyelet, no linen, no madras, no gingham, no seersucker. I don’t care if you pair them with darker jeans and a blazer, these are summer shoes, these trends have retired for the year and therefore should retire from your closet.

What Else Should I Pack Away?
Clear, straw or mesh bags, anything with rope detail, any shorts that are not City shorts, your distressed denim minis, anything that shows your navel (another thing I am wondering why it even exists in your wardrobe), capris and cotton or cargo skirts that are not a neutral color (the neutrals can last a couple more weeks).

A good rule of thumb is that if your summer piece has classic or fall trend inspiration (black, darker hues or a neutral, 40s styling, darker prints, simple cuts, classic pieces like white shirts, sweater shells and pencil skirts) it can carry over until the weather cools. Switching the pants from white to black often does the trick in making a top fall-appropriate, as does switching sandals for a shoe with more coverage. Switching out your bag for a more substantial piece and putting away your bronzer can also get the job done. The weather may not change, but the season has. A few modifications can make your transition into the new season quite simple!

Friday

Black cotton short sleeved wrap shirt from Ann Taylor, cream synthetic camisole from New York and Company, black stretch poplin trousers from Caslon, black leather thong heels from Mossimo, pearl necklace from Limited.

Hair is second day, pulled into side ponytail with elastic and one small barrette. Bit of Brilliant Brunette Satin Shine to hold hair.

Makeup is L'Oreal Bare Naturale mineral foundation in True Beige, Nars blush in Orgasm, Smashbox Soft Lights in Tint, Pop Beauty's shadow set for brown eyes - the sparkly khaki shade on the lids. Lashes curled thanks to Shu Eumera and two coats of Max Factor's Lash Perfection in black, thin line of Maybelline UltraLiner in black. On lips is Body Shop's Cheek and lip Tint and Revlon Super Lustrous Lip Gloss in pink Afterglow over it.

So what are everyone's plans for Labor Day weekend? We have a festival in our town - parade, midway rides, local bands performing and plenty of funnel cake. I hope to go at least one day to the festivities. Monday we have a cookout, but other than that no special plans. We'll see where the weekend takes us! See all of you on Tuesday!

A Friday Rant in Time for the Long Weekend...

I have never claimed to be the most fashionable person. I would never use the word “trendy” to describe any part of me, from my clothes to my music tastes to my social activities. I hope one would find me to be stylish, my clothing appropriate for my lifestyle, career, figure and personality though I am not trying to win any awards. I am really not one to judge others… but I am going to right now.

I have been doing this photo blog of my wardrobe for over two years and in the past year this concept has become HUGE! I am excited to see all these people sharing their real people wardrobes, and I am delighted by the creativity and beauty I see. Women with natural feminine shapes rocking it out in sassy threads, ladies finding utter gems in their local thrift store and making it look like haute couture, sisters making their own clothes and rivaling hot designers, chicks sporting super sassy duds from discount retailers. LOVE IT!

What I don’t love is all these women who are out there sporting their utterly ugly sense of fashion. I know the hipster look now is to pair unlikely items together in this “devil may care” sort of way. Vintage flats, a skirt made of an old tee shirt, a designer sweater and a bunch of chains from the hardware store looped around the throat all pulled together with a scarf or hat. Sometimes this works out so well – it’s wearable art and you are so impressed you want to take the woman to coffee and pick her brain to see how it works in such a creative fashion. Other times, it just looks like a random assortment of ugly crap. Thick bangs, yellow flats and flushed cheeks do not make a person fashionable or stylish. Wearing vintage does not equal good style and when you work too hard to be ironic or creative, it blows up in your face. Sorry ladies… I am not impressed.

I am also not impressed by these chicks who have a wardrobe full of crap. You may be a size 2 with a great smile and pair of breasts, but that stretch satin babydoll top from Rave is still ugly as sin and you still have no style at all. I worry that the fashion clueless may see this and think then it’s okay to have skintight pants, Lucite shoes (and you KNOW I hate Lucite), blue sparkly eyeshadow for work or cheap poly-blend suiting pieces for the corporate arena. It’s not okay, and as I have said many a times on my other blog, just because it is printed doesn’t mean it’s right.

Now everyone has their right to blog or Flikr about anything their heart desires. The Internet is an amazing place and I really feel it brings people together and opens people’s eyes. However, some people get a bit stat-happy and think that a few comments and a couple hundred hits means they are a fashionista. That pink pleather python shoulder bag tells me otherwise…

Are Bootcut Jeans “Momtastic?”

Reader Laurie emailed me recently after reading “Talking Fashion” on Washington Post’s website about fall’s trends. Suzanne D’Amato and Janet Bennett lead this chat and are very intelligent and stylish women, but mentioned in this certain chat that bootcut jeans are “Momtastic” and to be stylish one should choose a skinny leg, high-waisted style, or maybe a straight leg in a very dark hue. Laurie wanted to know if this was in fact true, and if her beloved denim was now passé.

I doubt you will see Kate Moss or Sienna Miller tromping around town in a pair of bootcut jeans this fall, but that does not mean they are a fashion don’t. The thing is, trends come and go, and some styles seem to stay longer because unlike most of the garments going down the runway, they work with real women’s bodies.

I love the look of the skinny jean. Paired with boots, booties, flats or heels it is a sharp look. A sharp look I personally will not be wearing. I am short. I have thick legs. I have a booty, a tummy, and thick ankles. If you put a pair of stovepipes on my gams, I would look like a walking Tootsie-Pop. I don’t care how utterly stylish and popular they are, I will never be a slave to fashion and adorn my bod with things that make me look bad. Same with the high-waisted style. I can see this working if you are slim, leggy and long. Have some curves in the middle, and the high waist will make you look short, squat and heavy.

A straight-leg style is a classic look that works on many figures. I agree, this is a nice style, especially in dark denim. It can be worn with flats, heels, boots with ease and don’t look costumey or obviously trendy. However, the bootcut is always going to the be popular favorite because the slightly larger leg opening balances out the curves that most women carry in the middle of their body. A bootcut (NOT flare. Unless you are a leftover hippie, do donate those flare jeans or put into the attic until the next 70s theme party) balances out hips, thighs, tummy and bum. It prevents the dreaded lollypop look of the 80s. Remember all those women with oversized tops and leggings? They looked ridiculous and there is a good chance that this season’s slimmer denim will give a similar effect.

As for your bootcuts, there is a chance some of your pairs are starting to look a bit dated. If they are faded or a traditional “stonewash” color, they are a bit long in the tooth. The color now is dark and crisp, which is a good thing. A dark structured pair of jeans is far more flattering to a women’s shape than the old faded pairs of a few years ago. Dark sturdy denim will elongate your body, be appropriate for casual as well as festive occasions, and look more polished (and expensive).

The cut of your bootcut may be a bit dated as well. Yes, you will still find bootcut jeans in all your favorite haunts, they just will be a bit slimmer than before. The leg opening will be a true bootcut – a slightly larger size than a straight leg – just that inch or two needed to get over a boot. At first glance, you may not even notice they are bootcut, but when on the body you will see the difference. The leg itself will also be slimmer – gone are the relaxed styles that you could probably pull up without unbuttoning.

If you purchase some jeans, these jeans should have the tailored, polished look of almost being denim trousers. A dark color is what is hot and flattering, a more streamlined cut, quality refined denim. Stretch is still out there, just don’t have the jeans look like leggings on your legs. Stretch should add comfort, not the ability to think you can go down a size. It still is a nice look to have a slight crease down the front – this adds elegance and elongates.

To keep your denim looking great, wash it inside-out, consider hanging them to dry on occasion, and add a capful of vinegar to your cold-water wash for colorfastness.

So are bootcut jeans “Momtastic?” Well, it depends. I don’t believe any one style right now is “THE” look, nor any one style is completely out of style (excluding anything with pleats, tapered legs or lace inserts). It’s all about making slight changes to move with the times. No need to burn all your current denim, just reassess them. Try them on with your current fall tops, get a good look in a full length mirror, then use a hand mirror to get a look from behind. How do they make you look? Do they give off the image you wish to portray? Are they super comfy but sag at your backside and are just a hair too short? Are they a color that for some reason only seems to compliment black or white (this is a good test to see if your denim is an out of style color – stonewash doesn’t look good with much else)? Be real with your wardrobe and your body and if you are in need for new jeans, don’t fear. Bootcut is still out there and great to wear!

Featured: Levi's "Star" Slim Bootcut, and Citizens of Humanity "Electric Guitar" Stretch Bootcut, both available at Nordstrom.

August 30, 2007

Thursday

Sorry guys, this has been a week lacking fashion creativity. I have had a lot going on, fighting bad allergies, in need of a hair cut, and battling PMS. I promise after a three-day weekend I will be back to myself!

So lookie here, the same darn outfit I wore on Tuesday. Well I didn't go to work on Tuesday, so I just figured it was clean, paired it with my brown croco peeptoe heels from BCBGirls and feel it gets the job done.

hair was washed and conditioned but still miserable. I tried to let it air dry but it was looking more Kip Winger than hip so I blew it straight. It was very flat and unhappy looking even though I used my regular Jonathan Silky Dirt. So here's my forehead. I used a little brown barrette to hold back my bangs that are now at an awkward length.

Makeup is L'Oreal True Match concealer in W4-5, Body Shop bronzing powder in Light over the whole face, a bit of Nars blush in Orgasm on apples of cheeks. On eyes is Revlon ColorStay shadow quad in Neutral Khakis - the olive shade on lids and along lower lash line. Lashes curled and two coats of Max Factor Lash Perfection in Black, line of Maybelline UltraLiner in black on top lash line, on lips is e.l.f. SPF 15 lip gloss in Watermelon.

Wednesday

So my plan was to wear my white short sleeved shirt with black trousers and my leopard heels. I was all dressed and sitting on the front step watching the dog scamper around and do his business before I left for work. I was reading a book, bent over and the dog decided to come up on the step with his Jolly Ball, and rolled his slimy muddy Jolly Ball right into my back, leaving muddy ick all over the bottom of my shirt and the back of my trousers. So I had about five minutes to change and this is what I grabbed...

White stretch cotton v-neck sweater from Banana Republic, Joe's Jeans (Provacateur), leopard peeptoe heels from BCBGirls, same tiger eye necklace and earrings from previous day, but necklace doubled. Gold bangles from Ralph Lauren.

Hair was washed the day prior and air dried. I quickly smoothed out with the round brush and dryer and added a bit of Brilliant Brunette Satin Shine to the ends.

Makeup is L'Oreal Bare Naturale mineral foundation in Nude Beige, Nars blush in Orgasm, Revlon ColorStay shadow quad in Neutral Khakis - khaki on lid, chocolate in crease and long lash lines. Max Factor Lash Perfection in black and Revlon Super lustrous Lip Gloss in Glossy Rose.

Tuesday

Tuesday I had the day off because I had some family and personal things to attend to. Lots of running around town.

Olive linen puff-sleeve shift dress from Old Navy, faux tiger eye necklace and earrings from beach boutique, black Reef "Sandy" flops.

Hair was second day, bedhead straightened with round brush and dryer.

Makeup was L'Oreal Bare Naturale foundation in Nude Beige, Nars blush in Orgasm, Body Shop shadow in Slate over lid, black eye definer from Body Shop and Max Factor Lash Perfection in black. On lips is Revlon Super Lustrous Lip Gloss in Glossy Rose.

August 29, 2007

Dressing for Your Interview

Job interview… those two words can create all sorts of fear and loathing in people. Having to sell yourself, but not too hard. Make a good impression, try not to have sweaty palms, fidgety hands, spinach in your teeth. And then of course, what on earth are you to wear???

Job interview attire used to be as predictable as a military uniform: a suit, preferably navy. For women, a skirt that came to a conservative length, sheer hose, sensible pumps. Little makeup, simple hair, one small accessory, no perfume. You are to show class, intelligence, sensibility and are of course selling your brain and skills, not your sense of style.

In this day and age, interviews are not so cut and dry. Yes, there are interviews that take place in a conference room where you are surrounded by bigwigs who are trying to stump you while seeing if you are a good fit for their company. Some interviews are still conducted on opposite sides of a large mahogany desk, but many are far different. Sitting in a Starbucks yesterday, I saw three separate interviews taking place. Went into the neighboring Barnes and Noble and saw a fourth. When I worked in retail we often had interviews as auditions – have the potential employee spend an hour on the floor and see how she interacted with clients and worked under pressure. When recruiting management, interviews often took place over a salad at California Pizza Kitchen or a latte at the Nordstrom Espresso Bar. With the variety of job and interview styles, so is there a variety of interview attire.

Just as with a wedding or any other special event, you often get fashion clues by the locale. You wouldn’t wear the same thing to an evening wedding at an historic mansion that you would for a daytime wedding at a strawberry farm, you shouldn’t wear the same thing for an interview at Starbucks for a start-up ad company that you would for an IT job with the government at the CIO’s office.

A few basics, no matter the type of interview…

Shoes:
Unless you are applying for a very creative field, shoes should be sensible – no spiky heels, straps, funky wedges or adornments. Unless you know the culture of this company, I suggest being safe and wearing a closed-toe shoe. I mention a classic pair of black leather pumps in my staples – these are the perfect shoe to wear on most any interview with any style of dress. If you are not a pumps person, a heeled loafer, a sleek boot with at least a kitten heel, or a closed-toe t-strap heel can look stylish and sophisticated. I would shy away from wearing flats with your suit – this is a time where you want to look confident and have great posture. Heels, even a slight one can provide that bit of lift that will add to your overall appeal.

Bag:
As for your bag, your best bet is a sleek and simple tote – large enough to hold your resume, planner, cell and lipstick for a touchup, but nothing so bulky that you look as though you plan on staying for the weekend. I have a black leather tote I bought on sale at J. Crew over five years ago – the straps are stiff and work well over the shoulder or held in the hand. It is an open-top style with a zippered center dividing compartment. It looks professional enough to double as a briefcase, but stylish enough to work as a regular purse and compliment my attire. Make sure your bag as well as your shoes are polished and in the best of shape – people do judge one on her shoes and bag. If you don’t have this sort of bag, consider borrowing one from a friend for the day. If you require a laptop for your interview, try to attend the interview with just your laptop bag (tuck your necessities in the side pockets and leave your purse at home or in the car) so you give off an efficient and low-maintenance vibe.

Hair:
Keep it simple, and keep it fitting with your personality. If you are a long layered lady, there’s no need to pull it into a severe bun. I have been the one to interview ISDs and Sr. Project Managers for the military and government agencies, and the one to hire a makeup artist or personal shopper. In every field, it is good to see you have a bit of personality and a human touch. Stay away from accessories like clips and headbands and bows, if you want to hold your hair back do so with a hair-colored elastic or very subtle barrette. Keep it soft – no severe slicked back styles, fancy bangs, super-gelled curls. You want to be attractive, but not look as though you’re trying to attract attention.

Cosmetics:
A bit of makeup finishes a polished look. If you are not one to usually wear makeup, consider a touch of concealer and a tinted lip balm just to look finished. If you are a cosmetic-holic like moi, tone it down a bit for the big day. Stay away from shimmers, sheens and metallics. Eye shadows should be subtle, and neutral shades like taupe and khaki. Blush should look like a natural flush and no more, mascara should darken and lengthen but not be obvious, and lips should be a natural hue – a pinky brown works on most every skintone and in a subtle gloss or dewy lipstick will be pretty yet professional.

As for perfume, I do agree it can be distracting and unprofessional. If you feel naked without your fragrance, consider a light body spray or only half the application of your usual fragrance. Nothing is worse than a stuffy conference room with the smell of dry-erase markers, coffee, carpet cleaner and Chanel no. 5. When I have had been interviewed or interviewed others, I have switched out my signature Burberry London for Bath and Body Works’ Breathe Energy body spray, applied only to my collarbone and upper arms. This gives enough so that there is a fresh, attractive scent but cannot be smelled unless in very close proximity to me.

Your hands will be on display, shaken multiple times, at rest on the desk or table and often times will be in motion as you speak. Keep them cared for – moisturize a few hours beforehand so they are soft but not greasy. Give yourself a mini-manicure but keep your polish colors very subtle. A soft pink is always a safe bet – your natural color, only prettier. The Americanized version of the French Manicure (stark white tips, pink or tan opaque nail) is not sophisticated. I have often wondered about a woman’s true personality when I see the long thick acrylic tips with the chalk-white tips and have heard supervisors snark on interviewees who have had such nails. It is considered the equivalent of a dark orange Mystic Tan, an anklet or frosted hair in many circles. Consider what impression you are giving the next time you go for your bi-weekly fill in and polish touchup. Sometimes natural is better.

Accessories:

Remember that what you are selling at an interview is you, not your outfit. Accessories should be kept to a minimum, having at most one piece that is strong. A necklace that compliments the colors of your outfit, a brooch, a solitary bangle, an elegant watch. For the interview, consider leaving at home your jingly charm bracelet, your multiple small necklaces you have received as gifts, your many rings, your toe rings, anklets and any timepieces that are very trendy or athletic-inspired.

What to Bring:
Bring your planner or Blackberry so you can schedule a possible second interview (or even your start date!) on the spot. Have a nice looking pen (no chewed ends or logos from your local Curves or Realtor) to use, and have a notepad either in the planner or separate to take notes and jot down dates and numbers. Bring a copy of your resume – the resume they may have received via Monster or another job search website will be covered with ads and weird graphics and it is always nice to receive a fresh copy (on nice resume paper) to review during the meeting. I place mine in a blank envelope to keep it protected. Bring your cell or Blackberry, but put it on vibrate or turn it off during the interview. Have powder and lipstick for a quick touchup in the car or lobby before entering the establishment. If you are asked to bring a portfolio, ensure it is in top-notch condition, current and professional. References aren’t asked for as often as they were in the past, but it’s good to have a second envelope ready with references if you are asked to submit them.

A few ideas for a few different fields and interview styles…

Interview at the Corporate Office:
This is the time for the true “interview suit”. Unlike the past where only certain suits were apropos, there is more leniency in what colors and styles are acceptable.

A skirt seemed to be standard and proper, but now women are able to express power in trousers as well. Do not feel that you need to wear a skirt; however if you prefer a skirt hose is a necessity. A sheer pair is a good choice year-round. Black hose can seem either tartish or dowdy - they are not as basic as they were a few years ago. If you wear black hose, I recommend that they are very sheer, with a gray or black suit and gray shoes. As for tights, they often look a bit too trendy or childish and think should be reserved for once you have the job and can dress more casually.

As for suit colors, a neutral like gray, black, navy, dark brown are always good. If your coloring allows it, a taupe or camel can be quite lovely as well. If you are interviewing for a creative job (arts, advertising, marketing, entertainment) you can often be a bit bolder with colors – an ivory suit with black accessories will be well remembered, colors like olive and red can look professional while still showing your personality. Keep the suits solid and simple – no funky contrasting-color lapels, decorative embellishments or couture details. Think Tahari, Ann Taylor, Theory, Jones New York. It can come from somewhere else, but it should have that classic, simple yet elegant style.

The shell or shirt under the suit is a great place to show your personality. Don’t stick with basic white or ivory, there’s nothing wrong with a bit of color, even in the most conservative of companies. I remember when I interviewed for a very serious government contractor, the woman who interviewed me wore a black suit with very faint pinstripes in white and teal. She wore under the suit a beautiful teal silk knit tee and a necklace of glass beads in the same teal shade. She looked very serious, professional, yet had a sense of style. I used to have a very dark olive suit that almost looked gray and would spice it up with a salmon-pink sleeveless tailored shirt underneath. A navy suit can still look serious when you replace the white shirt with one in a pale lilac or French blue.

Casual Interview or Interview at Coffee Shop or Café:
Are you meeting here because it is a virtual office, or because the interviewer wanted a convenient and casual environment?

If it is the former, I would suggest you dress a bit more professionally (suit) to show that you can be trusted to meet with clients and give the correct image of the company. These days many more companies are having their employees telecommute 100% with the corporate office hundreds of miles away. You want to show that you are professional, sophisticated and can sell the company perfectly.

Often interviewers decide to have a more casual environment to see a potential employee’s “true colors”. The concept of chatting over coffee sounds far more appealing and will often let one’s guard down to be more candid with her responses. For this type of interview, you still should maintain a level of professionalism, but can take it down a slight notch. A tailored shirtdress with closed-toe pumps, tailored oxford with suiting trousers and heels, a blazer with a shell and trousers; these would all be fine alternatives. Think of the level between true business casual and business attire. No need for the pinstripe suit and attaché, but leave your jeans, chinos and kicky sandals at home. Also consider solids and very subtle patterns (pinstripes, tweeds, subtle plaids) so you are not lost in the design.

As for accessories, you can kick them up a notch… but a very small notch. Maybe a beaded necklace that hits your collarbone, an artsy brooch on your lapel, a silver and turquoise ring you bought on your last trip to Santa Fe. Only one accessory should be strong, and it shouldn’t be so strong that it is the focal point of your whole look. With an interview, the focal point should be you and your face.

Interview at Fine Dining Establishment:
Be it lunch or dinner, some interviews will take place at an elegant restaurant. For day, I think it is safe to say the same attire for a corporate office interview will be appropriate; for an evening meal consider a more elegant version of your suit. Take your black suit and pair it with a solid-colored shell in maybe silk, or with a more dressy neckline (u-neck, surplice, etc.). Accessories should be simple but have a bit more glitz – a strand of pearls, diamond studs, a simple amber pendant on a delicate gold chain. Other than that, you should still exude professionalism before panache – don’t go overboard with shine, sparkle or strappy heels. Makeup should still stay subtle – this is a dinner, not a cocktail party.

Interview with a Creative Company:
Yes you want to look innovative and hip and current, but you also want to look reliable and driven and professional. You are able to marry the two in the workplace, not it is time to marry the two in your wardrobe. Cargos and witty tee-shirts may be commonplace in the office once you’re hired, but isn’t what you should wear to sell yourself.

Instead of the classic suit, consider a more adventurous jacket with classic trousers – a white jacket with black piping and a funky button closure, maybe a wide belt over the jacket, pairing a great skirt with a wrap top instead of a traditional blazer. Even if it’s creative, I suggest keeping at least one thing traditional – have a funky top with classic skirt or pants, a simple top with an animal-print pencil skirt. Then you are safe if the interviewer is a tad more conservative.

Creative does NOT mean sexy. Sexy never fits into the workplace unless you work at Agent Provocateur or Hooters. Keep cleavage to a minimum, trousers and skirts at a comfortable non-tight level, hemlines near the knee and absolutely no strappy tops (personally, I think sleeveless is inappropriate as well).

But feel free to wear the bracelet you made, your signature necklace, carry your metallic blue leather motorcycle bag… just don’t be artsy overkill so that you are a creative mess. Keep it simple.

A Few Non-Fashion Tips:

1. Firm handshake, eye contact, don’t fidget.

2. Always have a question or two ready because they ALWAYS ask, “do you have any questions?” A good stand-by is, “why do you like working for this company?” I know I liked being asked that because I can sell a different level of the corporation and I can read the interviewee, when her eyes light up, when she seems bored by what I am telling her.

3. You probably will be Googled. I highly recommend on a monthly basis to Google yourself and see if anything pops up that would embarrass you. If your Facebook/Friendster/MySpace pages are searchable by your name, consider making them private and the profile picture very innocent. Along these lines, I know my company loves it when they find a person on LinkedIn. It confirms that what you have on your resume is accurate, and being networked with current and past employees makes it seem that you are liked and respected in the workplace.

4. Don’t tell too much about yourself. The interviewer may be very personable and friendly and you may find out you have the same alma mater, grew up in neighboring towns and both did a semester abroad in Spain, but that does not mean you should tell about your partying ways in Madrid, how you despised your Econ teacher or what church you attended in your childhood. Feel free to tell them you are married, that you have children but don’t go into detail. Sounds terrible, but even a mother and wife when deciding between two people of equal caliber would choose the person who has a more flexible schedule and time to dedicate to the company. Unless asked, do not tell them if you are in school, never tell them your ethnicity or religion or political affiliation.

5. It’s not always the best idea to put your sorority on your resume. Now if in conversation you find that your interviewer was in ABC and you are in ABC, then by all means let her know. However, unless this is your first job out of college and while in school you were the chapter president while maintaining a 3.8 and being in a few academic organizations, it doesn’t have to be part of the interview. Those who didn’t partake in a Greek organization in college will often see those who did as more like the cast of Animal House than a respectable woman who worked hard in classes and in bettering her chapter. If you know your audience is one who would respect the philanthropy and dedication of being in a Greek organization, by all means include it. As a member of a sorority, I know that we aren't all ditzy drinkers; my sorority experience made me the hard-working, multi-tasking personable employee I am today. If you do include it, also include all the community service, volunteerism and leadership roles you have taken so it helps explain why you feel it an important part of your experience.

6. When asked what you do outside of work (and this is a very popular question) be ready with intelligent and interesting responses. Shopping, hanging out with friends, spending time with your children and “I don’t know, I work so much!” are not good responses. If you scrapbook, then you dabble in various arts and crafts. If you blog, tell them you love to write and read. If you love to putter around your yard, nothing sounds more virtuous than weekend gardening. If you are active in your church or temple community, don’t talk about the church itself but what you do (work at a soup kitchen, mentor inner city children, fund raise for a local women’s shelter). If you have nothing to say… maybe you need to do something about it. Do you volunteer in your community? Even one night a month attending city hall meetings or supporting the Neighborhood Watch shows you can multi-task, you’re interesting and you’re eager to make a difference in this world and possibly in their corporation.

August 27, 2007

Monday

Just an FYI, the dentist (saw her this AM) is very happy with my "plaque maintenance," but says I need to wear my NTI night guard on a more regular basis or else I may have no bottom teeth in a couple of years. I am a flossing and brushing diva, but somehow lost my night guard one evening (famous for yanking it out in my sleep and putting it carefully on my nightstand, but one morning it was neither there nor in my mouth) and went for about 5 months without (found it between two books on the shelf at the bottom of my nightstand) and well, went too long grinding down the teeth (random Allie factoid - one of my front teeth is partially fake because I broke it from grinding about 10 years ago).

So I promise to be a hard-core NTI wearer because I do not want to have grody chompers!

Back to the fashion. Black ponte knit round-neck jacket from banana Republic Outlet, white ribbed tank from old Navy, black city shorts from Gap Outlet, silver pocketwatch necklace from Ann taylor Loft, silver hoops and cuff bracelet.

Hair was washed and conditioned yesterday and allowed to air dry. This morning straightened with dryer and round brush. Small bit of Jonathan Silky Dirt to ends.

Makeup is L'Oreal True match concealer in W4-5, Body Shop bronzing powder in Light as all over color, Cargo Matte BeachBlush in Tenerife on apples of cheeks. On eyes is Pop Beauty's shadow set for brown eyes - the sparkly khaki on the lids, the darker sparkly olive/brown/khaki in crease. Lashes curled, two coats max Factor's Lash Perfection in black, thin line of Maybelline Ultra Liner in black on top lash line, on lips is Revlon Super Lustrous Lip Gloss in Glossy Rose.

Saturday

Not a very exciting day. After yoga had just a few minutes to throw on "real clothes" and then we ran multiple errands - the grocery, drop off a cooler at a friend's house, get the dog's pills, visit the bank, hit up Target and Home Depot... that glamorous suburban life.

Since I only had a few minutes to change out of yoga pants and an old tee, I grabbed that which was at the top of the drawer - green babydoll tank from Victoria's Secret, coral ribbed tank from Old Navy, denim skirt I distressed from Old Navy, black "sandy" flops from Reef, silver cuff and hoops.

Hair is second day, was brushed prior to yoga but not afterwards.

Makeup is Body Shop bronzing powder in Light as allover color, Cargo Matte Beach blush in Tenerife on cheeks, Max Factor lash Perfection in black on both sets of lashes and Revlon Super Lustrous Lip Gloss in Glossy Rose.

While sitting in the car during a few errands, I decided to let you into the life of my purse. I don't photograph myself with my purse, and I do love it. I actually flip between two purses - a tan leather hobo from Banana Republic and a structured glossy black leather tote from J. Crew (bought as a congratulatory present to myself when I started a new job in 2001). The picture to the left looks just like it, except mine has been well used (but well cared for and conditioned so few scratches).


Anyway, for most days I carry a hobo-esque leather bag from Banana Republic's Fall 2006 season (see left and see my pale legs). I got it at a good discount (and brand spanking new with tags and protective bag) from eBay. It's a warm tan/camel shade, has a great assortment of pockets and is nice and soft and even a year later has that nice leather smell.

Outside - front flap pocket, then two size zipper pockets. in the front pocket I store my badge for work, a small memo pad for inspiration, a pack of Stride gum and my Smartrip card to ride the Metro. One of the zippered compartments holds my iPod and accessories, the other usually holds random things like receipts, ticket stubs, a toothpick... not sure how it became the catchall place,

Inside - large compartment, standard-issue inside pocket to hold my lipglosses and pens and MAC Blot Powder and a wide-toothed comb. Two small pockets on the other side of the lining; one holds my cellie, one my Blackberry. A leather strap with snap holds my keys (none too exciting, standard keys and a jump drive - oooh la la). In the bulk section I carry my wallet, a small cosmetic bag with necessities (Tide to Go, Advil, Purell, nail file, eye drops, lip balm, Claritin, Oral B Brush Ups, glasses cleansing cloth), my wallet (bought at a little boutique in Annapolis this past January on a random whim because I liked the orange appliqué flowers), my camera (natch), and a journal (also natch). my sunglasses are usually kept in the car, my planner is only with me on weekdays (celadon leather Franklin Covey from Target) and I weekly gut my purse to make sure it's not overflowing with randomness.

So here's a picture of the contents. Thought you may be interested as that I write about how important it is to be prepared and well accessorized, yet you never see what I cart on my shoulder on a daily basis.

August 24, 2007

Friday

Black tape yarn scoop neck empire-waist sweater tee from Old Navy, black stretch poplin trousers from Caslon, red patent croco peeptoe pumps from Enzo Angiolini, silver bracelet and hoops.

Hair is washed and conditioned, but of Jonathan Silky Dirt while damp, dried with a diffuser and then large sections twirled for a short period of time around a curling iron. Finger combed out any strong curls.

Makeup is L'Oreal True Match concealer in W4-5, Body Shop bronzing powder in Light as all over color and powder, Smashbox Soft Lights in Tint and then a bit of Nars Orgasm blush added to the apples of the cheeks as an afterthought. Eyes is the light sparkly beige shadow from my Pop beauty shadow set for brown eyes, Max Factor Lash Perfection mascara in black and a thick line of Maybelline Ultra Liner in black on top lash line. On lips is L'Oreal Glam Shine Sorbet in Jubilee.

Thursday

White short sleeved shirt from Ann Taylor (obviously took picture after sitting at computer and running around the house - should have steamed it), gray "Drew" trousers from Limited, red pointy-toed low heels from Steven, silver cuff, silver hoops.

Hair is second day, few pieces blown out with dryer and round brush, few pieces hit with a curling iron for a short period of time for some wave and separation. Brilliant Brunette's Satin Shine on it to reduce frizziness. Yet another rainy bad-hair day...

Makeup is L'Oreal Bare Naturale mineral foundation in Nude Beige, Smashbox Soft Lights in Tint, Pop Beauty shadow shadow set for brown eyes - the sparkly beige over the lid, Body Shop Slate shadow in crease and along lash line, Max Factor Lash Perfection mascara in black, thin line of Maybelline Ultra Liner in black on top lash line. On lips is Maybelline Shine Seduction Glossy Lipcolor in Blushed Bass (review to come later).

August 23, 2007

The Fashionista Part of My Brain is a Painin'

Tonight my husband and I had a date night - a bottle of wine, some take-out sushi (of course vegetarian), a few flicks off Netflix (I highly recommend both that showed up on our doorstep - Dirty Pretty Things and Children of Heaven). We have had a few hectic weeks and needed a night to decompress.

The husband works early hours and went to bed at 9pm. I stayed up to watch the end of Dirty Pretty Things (and yes, a few tears were shed - love me some Audrey Tatou!) and then flipped off the DVD player and on the cable. Not sure how or why, but HSN was on (dear husband what WERE you doing before I got home from work?)

ELLE Fashion is on, and in the words of Oprah, "my [fashionista part of my brain] is a painin'!" The theme for this fashion is "The Translucent Trend." I am seeing a sheer scarf/coverup with a ruffled hem, spandex pants with a sheer overlay, a sleeveless mock turtleneck with satin stripes and a sheer section, and a lucite handbag with a faux gold chain handle and a fabric inset made to match your outfit. Oh and a few lucite shoes with faux rhinestone accents.

If you were here in the living room with me, you would see my shivers from the horrific audacity of this collection. Every single accessory and garment that graced my widescreen TV has been ugly, cheap and NOT stylish.

THERE IS NO TRANSLUCENT TREND! Lloyd Boston and HSN have created this in some board room to sell utterly ugly confections. It is not a real trend, and this trend hasn't existed since the 80s, unless you find your LBDs at Fredericks of Hollywood and find Pamela Anderson as your style icon.

"Style begins where the rules end," Lloyd Boston, the guest host's mom used to say to him. I know Boston from his "Look for Less, " The Today Show and various other Style Network jobs, and wonder how his career is faring that he is promoting utterly ugly crap at 10:30 PM EST on HSN. Really Lloyd, you did some cute makeovers on chicks in the early days of The Look For Less, but this collection is made for the leathered brown ladies of Miami who have acrylic French pedicures to match their manicures and have tattooed eyebrows and eyeliner.

Oh

My


Goodness


The spandex pants with the sheer chiffon overlay just sold out.

Ladies, what are you doing? I mean, HSN and QVC have some great deals - I have purchased a nice DVF from Diane von Furstenberg top, I own Smashbox and Bare Escentuals cosmetics that were not purchased at Sephora... I know a good deal when I see it and these home shopping channels often have them. However just like the soul-selling bloggers I mentioned in a recent post, DO NOT BELIEVE ALL YOUR READ OR HEAR! If it is not shown in Lucky, Bazaar or Marie Claire, it's not a current trend (I exclude Vogue because their fashion is more art than ready-to-wear). If it hasn't trickled down to a user-friendly version in Express, Bebe, Arden B and H&M, it doesn't exist.

And my personal style mantra? If it makes you sweat uncontrollably, it doesn't belong in your wardrobe. This includes pleather pants, lucite shoes, suede boots with see-through detail (on right now for almost $100, gag me with a spoon), or any garments with plastic, vinyl or lucite sections. I don't care if next spring Tom Ford, Stella McCartney, Zac Posen and Marc Jacobs all show up with liquid latex turtlenecks, it ain't gonna be in my wardrobe (or the wardrobe of any true style icon).

It is never stylish to be cheesy, campy, slutty or awkward. It is never chic to wear something that could double as a Halloween costume, and it is never fashionable to wear an entire outfit from polyester-based synthetic materials. This means false eyelashes for day wear, spandex sets, poly-blend chiffon layers, and the dreaded lucite shoe. Be you a bride, a club hopper, a cocktail party attender, shoes out of clear plastic are never chic. A wedge heel that is see-through is gaudy, and really... these shoes make you sweat like the dickens.

Before you remodel your home, you usually look to see current trends and choose the ones you like for what you purchase. Do your homework before you go shopping. Book stores like Borders and Barnes & Noble won't give you a hard time if you plop down in a chair or their cafe with a stack of fashion magazines. Bring a notepad and write down what you see that inspires you. Do your homework. Surf the 'net Googling trends for Fall 2007, visit websites of stores your enjoy to see what silhouettes and colors they are showcasing. With this research, then you can shop. Be your purchases come from Barneys, Goodwill, HSN or Forever 21, they should be pieces that are flattering, stylish and appropriate. Do not take the words of a "stylist," blogger or editor as gospel and always always ALWAYS trust your personal judgment.

But if you are unsure, DO NOT BUY THE SHEER LAYERED PANTS!

all photos are from the HSN "Translucent Trend" collection

From Allie's Mailbag...

A few emails I have received recently and some Google searches that have brought people to this page. I always think if one woman has this question, very well many more of you do too!

What Should be in a Woman’s Wardrobe?
Well this obviously varies dependent on your lifestyle and where you live, but I hope to have a basis here with my staples. I do feel that everything in your closet should feel right on you. This does not equal comfortable. Often comfortable goes the way of stretched out elastic, baggy knits and clothes that are decades past their prime. Well-made clothing often assists you in standing up straighter and feeling more feminine and attractive. Knits can do this too, but sweatpants cannot. Have clothes that fit you, match your personality and don’t make you scratch and itch and adjust all day.

Where Can I Find Extended Calf Boots?
Lots of companies like J. Crew and Naturalizer are offering extended calf, but if you wear heels or play sports these may end up feeling like the regular-calf size. I have found fashion-forward styles in wider widths at Torrid and Silhouettes, though do know most are not actual leather. Wide Widths is an awesome site that takes many of the brands of extended calf boots and puts them in one place. Not only that, they tell you the circumference in inches so before ordering, you can know if they will be the right fit. I have very large calves and found styles that were too large for my sturdy legs! This site has great selection AND great customer service. When I had to return a pair that wasn’t quite right, I called their toll-free number and spoke to a wonderful, knowledgeable woman who helped me with returning the boots and suggested alternative styles without pressuring me to buy. Love this company!

When is the Best Time to go on a Cruise to the Bahamas?

Loved seeing this on my stat counter! I think it’s because I went on one in January and it showed up on Google. I can tell you, January was perfect. The weather was delightful, and it was a nice break from the dreary weather of the East Coast. No hurricanes, no sweltering temperatures… I would definitely do it again at that time of the year. And if you want to know what to wear you can visit my cruise post here, or my post about a beach holiday or traveling.

What is a Good Eyeshadow Primer?

I have been looking for this for years. I read to put your foundation on your lids, don’t put your foundation on your lids. Use concealer, don’t use concealer. I have tried a few products finding them irritating, greasy, drying, ineffective. Then I tried Urban Decay’s Eyeshadow Primer Potion. Amazing stuff, makes me shadow last through boogying on the dance floor, sweating through a Washington DC summer, crying at a wedding and I even went to sleep one night with my makeup still on and woke with perfect eyes. How amazing is that? Worth the money in my opinion.

Where Can I Find Plus Sized Belts?

Belts were hot the past couple of seasons and this trend is not going anywhere any time soon. Belts look great on women with curves – they add definition and a waist and jazz up your basic knits and solids already residing in your closet. For accessories like belts, I adore Torrid – they may seem a bit young or trendy at first glance, but often have basics built for curvy women, not linebackers. Each season they have an extensive collection of belts – solids, prints, hip belts, ones with stretch. Don’t expect high-grade leather, but do expect to find your size and an accessory that will update your wardrobe.

What’s the Must-have Accessory for Fall?
I am the worst person to ask this, for I believe there is no “must-have” item if you are over the age of 18. One could say this is the year of the flat, but if you have thick legs, you would look far more chic with a bit of a heel. Belts are all the rage, but if you carry the majority of your weight in your midsection, a belt may accentuate the negative, not add curves and create a positive. Clutches are hot, but not when you’re trying to carry books, a laptop, snacks for the little ones, a water bottle or other necessities of many women.

One thing that could be a good thing to buy this year if you are in need is a new winter coat. This season is full of great colors, textures, details like puff sleeves, unique collars and beautiful buttons. Many seasons show boring basics, so when a season features great pieces like this year, it’s a good time to invest in the perfect coat. I think wool coats that hit between the hip and knee are the most versatile and elegant – save the parkas and anoraks for the ski slope.

Where Can I Find Stylish Sunglasses at Reasonable Prices?
Now, if you can afford a pair of Chanel shades, then by all means indulge. My mom has Fendi sunglasses because they are prescription and her insurance made them the same price as the generic brands. However if you aren’t this rich or lucky, you can still be chic. I think sometimes the best sunglasses are the ones found in the most random of locations.

This summer I sported traditional silver aviator sunglasses that were picked up at a mall kiosk for less than $10. This spring I had some cute pink metal and lens oversized aviators that were $16.99 and last summer had a great pair found on clearance at Target for $9.40. My friend has sunglasses that people think are designer that she found at White House/Black Market and my sister always grabs a pair of big black plastic frames at end of the year sales in shops like Ann Taylor Loft. Sunglasses do not have to be purchased in a sunglasses shop – these days almost every place in the mall has a few pairs. Try a few on, ask strangers for their honest opinion, and if you are in need go shopping now for all stores are putting their summer items on sale!

Thursday Rant

I guess I am setting myself up for blogging failure. Yes, I have great readership, but my blogs are not considered “successful” in many people’s eyes because I hardly make a cent off of them. I don’t get weekly freebies from retailers, I don’t bring in the big bucks from my minimal ads, I blog for… you, and not for me.

Well I guess in all honesty it is for me. I do love to write, I love to shop, and I love to tell people my opinion. I love to make fellow women feel good about themselves, and I love it when I get a comment or email that tells me I made a difference in a person’s life.

But unlike many blogs that have been around less time than I, I am not profitable. I know fellow bloggers who have been able to go to part-time or quit their job all together from the success of their blogs. Ads alone bring in a huge portion of their income, and affiliates help even more. Retailers contact them, offering free goods and money in return for praise on their blog. They promote products they have never used, $1,200 purses they can never afford, fashions that fit a very small minority of the population. They have fancy banners and avatars and glossy ads for Sephora and Nieman Marcus and Strawberry Net all over their page, receiving profits per click. They offer links for that designer bag, receiving a percentage from each bag sold to that online boutique.

Now I would love nothing more than to be able to quit my job and write. I would love to write a book based on this blog, and have always dreamed of being a personal shopper and wardrobe consultant. However I am an adult with a mortgage, a car payment, student loans and yes… a conscience. I cannot and will not ever promote something I do not believe in.

Retailers, feel free to send me samples of your stuff, and if I like it, I will be more than happy to review it on here. I will offer links to your website, may show myself wearing your product. But if your product is sub par or inappropriate for my audience, I will not write about it. Or, I may warn you readers to stay away from these vendors. I have no fear.

I also can’t advertise that which I think is just wrong, like a $1,200 purse. A lipgloss that costs $40 and is nothing better than Revlon’s Super Lustrous line. Clothing that does not go over a size 10.

If I can’t afford or fit it, I’m betting the majority of you can’t either.

Reports have shown that there is an influx in purchasing of designer goods and experts believe it is linked to the influx of bloggers writing about said products. I know when I was in middle school I just HAD to have a Liz Claiborne purse and a Forenza roll-neck sweater because everyone else had it. Gosh, Betsy and Heather had both and look at how pretty and popular and blonde they were? Maybe if my stubby, brunette self had both I would be just as popular and glamorous.

I saved up for both because my parents couldn’t afford those sorts of things. I sported my white Forenza roll-neck sweater with my navy Liz Claiborne purse with the navy trim, and that day at lunch, my friend tripped and spilled chocolate milk all over me, permanently staining that beloved sweater. Soon, I realized people liked me whether or not I wore designer duds. Instead of worrying about the label, I worried about the fit and how it expressed my personality. To the 8th grade school dance when the rest of the girls wore ruffled dresses, I wore a black mock turtleneck, black harem pants, black suede booties and my brightly-printed bedroom curtain pinned around my waist like a cummerbund. That was the first time a “cool boy” asked me to dance. And that was when I realized money does not equal style, labels do not equal fashion, and I will never be a slave to them. And I hope none of you ever will either.

Decades later I am the author of this blog. I am still stubby, I am still a brunette, and I am still lacking designer duds in my closet. Yes, it feels amazing to own a designer garment or a coveted beauty item – I’m not going to say I don’t enjoy my DiorShow mascara, my Joe’s jeans, or would love nothing more than to strut around town in a pair of Jimmy Choos. But you know what? I am happy in my skin, happy in my heart and still getting looks from the “cool boys.” I may not be a financially successful blogger, but when I get an email from you guys that says you’re happier as a woman because of some of my advice… I feel like the richest blogger in the world!

August 22, 2007

Wednesday

Teal jersey dress from Proenza Schouler for Target, leopard peeptoe heels from BCBGirls, gold bangles from Ralph Lauren, gold chain necklace from the beach shortened with a safety pin.

Hair was washed and allowed to air dry. Brushed out hair with round brush and dryer to create soft waves, bit of Brilliant Brunette's Satin Shine to finish.

Makeup is L'Oreal True Match concealer in W4-5, Cargo Matte BeachBlush in Tenerife, Smashbox Soft Lights in Tint, Pop Beauty shadow set for brown eyes - the gold and beige combined on lid, the reddish brown and regular brown combined in crease; Maybelline UltraLiner in black thinly applied to top lash line, lashes curled and two coats of Lash perfection mascara in black by Max Factor, on lips is Revlon Super Lustrous Lip Gloss in Glossy Rose.

Tuesday

Pink merino v-neck from J. Crew, white ribbed tank from Old Navy, olive ripstop cargo skirt from J. Crew, silver cuff, new silver hoops, black leather thong heels from Mossimo.

Hair is second day, blown out straight while dry with round brush and dryer. Small amount of Brilliant Brunette Satin Shine added to finish.

Makeup is L'Oreal true Match concealer in W4-5, Body Shop bronzing powder in Light, Smashbox Soft Lights in Tint, Pop Beauty shadow set for brown eyes - the light khaki and the light green combined over the lid, a brown in crease and Maybelline UltraLiner in black on top lash line. Two coats of Lash Perfection from Max Factor in black and on lips is Revlon Super Lustrous Lip Gloss in Pink Afterglow.

August 20, 2007

Monday

Black cotton wrap shirt from Ann Taylor, cream synthetic cami from New York and Company, black city shorts from Gap Outlet, tiger eye necklace and earrings and gold necklace from beach boutiques, gold bangles from Ralph Lauren, black croco peeptoe heels from BCBGirls.

Hair washed and conditioned the night before and allowed to air dry. Next day, a bit of Brilliant Brunette's Satin Shine twisted around curls left it looking pretty good for a rainy Monday.

Makeup is L'Oreal True Match concealer in W4-5, Cargo Matte Beach Blush in Tenerife with Smashbox Soft lights in Tint over it, Body Shop Sheer Lipcolor in Sheer Caramel, Revlon ColorStay shadow quad in Neutral Khakis - khaki on the lid, chocolate in the crease and along the lash line. Lashes curled, two coats Max Factor Lash Perfection in black.

Friday through Sunday

Friday we left around 11am for Rehoboth Beach. On the way, I looked a tad rough. I showered and let my hair air dry, with only a bit of Jonathan Silky Dirt applied to it while damp. Wore a black Ramones band tee shirt, the neck and sleeves cut, with my camo cargo Bermuda shorts from Old Navy and my black "Sandy" flops from Reef. No makeup, a few spritzes of Breathe Energy body spray from Bath and Body Works.

When we got to the hotel, we immediately changed into our bathing suits for a couple of hours at the beach. I wore my aquamarine halter one-piece bathing suit from J. Crew that I sported last year, with my navy gauzy coverup, also from last year and from J. Crew. Reef flops, my same berry and teal L. L. Bean Boat & Tote to carry all my beach essentials (like my fluffy huge monogrammed towel from Lands End that my sister got me for Christmas).

That evening we went to Taste for dinner and drinks, and then the Purple Parrot for karaoke (sang "Heartbreak Hotel" with my mom and sister). I washed and conditioned my hair and added the same amount of Jonathan Dirt that I usually apply, and instead of soft curls, I ended up with greasy stringy tendrils. A touch of Shower to Shower on the roots didn't help matters so I used my sister's straightening iron to the whole head for more of a rocker look.

To compliment my hair, I made my eyes a bit more dramatic. Pop Beauty's shadow et for brown eyes - the khaki and the light green mixed together over the whole lid, The Body Shop's eye color in Slate in the crease and along the lash lines, the black from Pop Beauty set along the top lash line (applied with a wet slant brush), Body Shop Eye Definer in black on both lash lines, two coats of Max Factor Lash Perfection in black. Smashbox Photo Finish Foundation Primer, L'Oreal true Match concealer in W4-5, Cargo Matte BeachBlush in Tenerife, Revlon Super Lustrous Lip gloss in Pink Afterglow and several spritzes of Breathe Energy Body Spray from bath and Body Works.

Outfit was an accident. I was trying different outfits and still had on my Joe's Jeans in "Provacateur" jeans from one look when putting on my olive shift from Old Navy and caught a glimpse in the mirror and actually liked the two together. Added large silver hoops from The Icing, my silver cuff and a silver pocketwatch pendant from Ann Taylor Loft. On feet were my 'Sandy" flops from Reef - the only shoes I brought on the trip.

Saturday was gorgeous but very windy. We headed to the beach early and stayed until 5pm. Same bathing suit from J. Crew, but this time I wore my Ramones tee and my distressed denim skirt from Old Navy with it. I knew we would be going to a cafe for lunch and wanted to be a bit more covered when walking around town.

That evening, we went to a restaurant whose name I have forgotten for a drink, then Fins for dinner. After a long day on the beach, we hit a few shops opened late on our way back from the restaurant but were back to our hotel room by 11pm.

My plan was to wear a skirt, but that day I took a long walk from Rehoboth to Dewey and back and spent much time roaming around the surf and ended up with a tad bit chafed and sunburned so had no desire to be gussied up. Black Jack Daniels tee shirt, neck and sleeves cut, same jeans as the night before, same flops and jewelery.

This time with the hair, I washed and conditioned it, let it air dry during my nap. Ended up a bit of a soft child-like frizz, so I added Jonathan Silky Dirt while dry, and hit large sections with the curling iron, some pieces I curled, some I straightened and flipped at the ends. A bit of Brilliant Brunette Satin Shine to the bangs and top of head to curb any leftover frizz.

Makeup exactly the same as the night before, but a bit heavier of a hand for the eye products. Everything looks more concentrated on darker skin (I wore a minimum of SPF 15 all weekend, starting with SPF 30. I just get color quickly).

Sunday, we had breakfast at the hotel, and then went walking the town checking out all the shops. I wore my teal cotton babydoll top from Old Navy and again the Joe's Jeans and flops. Seaglass and silver wire necklace. Hair was second day, blown out straight (though the sea air gave it flippy layers that was cute), makeup was minimal. The weather was cool and occasional drizzle. I didn't find too much - a gold chain necklace, a faux Tiger Eye necklace and matching earrings, a new pair of sterling silver hoops and two adorable printed dish towels. We then hit the nearby outlets for a short minute where my sister got a Coach leather purse 50% off, then we headed home.

Thursday

Black stretch cotton v-neck sweater from Banana Republic, white ribbed tank from Old Navy, dark denim pencil skirt from Gap, black leather thong heels from Mossimo, silver cuff bracelet.

Hair was washed and conditioned the night before, in the AM hit large sections with the curling iron and then a bit of Jonathan Silky Dirt twirled around pieces for separation, shine and frizz control.

Makeup is L'Oreal True Match foundation in C3, concealer in W4-5, Cargo Matte BeachBlush in Tenerife with Smashbox Soft Lights in Tint over it. Pop Beauty shadow collection for brown eyes - the light sparkly beige over the lids, lashes curled with two coats of Max Factor Lash Perfection in black and a thin line of Maybelline UlatrLiner in black on top lash line. On lips is Neutrogena Moistureshine Soothing Lipsheer in Plum Kiss.

Wednesday

Navy linen camp shirt from Mossimo, tan stretch poplin trousers from Caslon, gold necklace from Express, gold bangles from Ralph Lauren, black leather thong heels from Mossimo.

Hair is second day, bangs and unruly pieces blown out with round brush and iron.

Makeup is L'oreal True Match foundation in C3, concealer in W4-5, Cargo Matte BeachBlush in Tenerife, Pop Beauty shadow set for Brown Eyes - the khaki shadow over the lids. Lashes curled, two coats Max Factor Lash perfection in black, on lips is Revlon ColorGlide in Rum Radiance.

August 14, 2007

How to Update your Wardrobe for Fall 2007

I know I seem a bit late with this, but with 100 degree days here in the Nation's Capital it is hard to think of sweaters and tights! However as the catalogs and magazines hit my mailbox and I surf the 'net I see all these GORGEOUS new looks for the upcoming season and I just HAD to post about them. Now there are tons of new looks for fall, I have just listed those that I think can easily work into most people's wardrobes to make them fresh and new, without being a slave to fashion.

Gray, Gray and More Gray. Gray is THE neutral color for this season and I couldn’t be happier. Softer than black and easier to blend into your wardrobe than brown and camel, gray is the feminine neutral that will make your brights pop, your pastels glow, your other neutrals look very current.

Consider a pair of gray trousers with a wide leg (think Katherine Hepburn), a gray pencil skirt or a 40s inspired jacket with bracelet-length sleeves to jazz up your current office basics. Instead of standard black pants for a night on the town, try some gray slouchy menwear-inspired trousers with your cami or beaded top. As for knits, nothing is more cozy than a kitteny soft gray cashmere crewneck with everything from ivory wool trousers to your favorite jeans.


The New Brights. Red is always a popular accent, but this season try a bright cobalt or a regal purple. These cooler jewel tones are being shown with black accents to really make the colors pop in a modern way, but will also look great with other basics (gray, camel, ivory).

Consider a basic merino sweater in royal, or possibly a bright plum croco-embossed pump to spice up your basic work attire. I have seen a ton of these new hues everywhere from the local department store to J. Crew. If you are a “Winter” a la Color Me Beautiful, then this is your season to stock up on those hues that make you glow. For warmer complexions, consider plums, berries and indigo shades that may be more flattering and still quite current.

For evening, get out of the black routine with frocks in magenta, cherry and bright reddish-purples. These colors look amazing in satin and silk because they really have the hue look saturated and modern. Unlike a few years ago when these shades were combined with lace and other details, this season is more about simple solids – let the color be the star of the show.


Patent Accents. Patent leather is no longer just for summer days; this fabric is a huge accessory must-have for the fall.

A black patent belt around your favorite white shirt, a pair of bottle green patent round-toe pumps with your standard brown suit, this will add some stylish shine to your wardrobe without being too outlandish. I personally bought a pair of black patent pumps as go-to footwear for the next wedding or special occasion and have gotten a surprising amount of use from my red patent croco-embossed peeptoe heels.

A great idea – if your wool winter coat has belt loops for a self-belt, consider switching it out for a patent number this season and give your outerwear new life!


Suiting Up in a Ladylike Fashion. From Katherine Hepburn to Diane Keaton in Annie Hall, suiting is front an center for fall and it's all shown with a touch of femininity.

Retro 40s feminine shapes are seen in bracelet-sleeved jackets and pencil skirts; wide-legged trousers evoke Kate, and vests with slouchy pants have a 2007 spin on the 70s menswear look. Tweeds, glen plaids and traditional suiting fabrics take center focus; gray is obviously the most popular color this season. The suiting is softer, sweeter, more ladylike no matter which style icon it is emulating. Even the "power" pieces on the runway have softened edges that are not nearly as tough as their 1980s counterparts.


Knitwear Everywhere. If you love knits and sweaters, then this season is the time for you to stock up! Knitwear is everywhere from traditional sweaters to jackets, dresses and coats.

I am loving the fall’s version of a tee shirt dress in merino wool or a more substantial knit. Simple crewneck and v-neck sweaters lend themselves to the menswear trend for trousers, keeping it slim and simple on top to let the bottom half get the limelight. Jackets are softened by being in substantial knits with vintage details. Knits have a feminine touch with waist detail – long sweater coats come with a self-belt or take your favorite crewneck and put a belt over it to accentuate your curves.


Children’s Shoes for Adults. Those black patent leather babies from your childhood have grown up and are a must-have for fall. Seen now with a slim heel, slight platforms, peeptoes, colors along with basic black and other feminine details, these shoes are a stylish replacement to your daily choice of black pumps. Peeking out of a pair of pants, paired with a dress (with or without hose or tights), they are whimsical AND fashionable!

Your old-school oxfords have grown up too. Now with a tall and slim wood heel, possibly with an open toe, in a bevy of colors and fabrics, this style of shoe hasn’t gotten play in almost a decade. Paired with jeans to suits to flirty dresses, they are a smart choice for the cooler months and quite versatile. I love the look of a contrasting color of tights – pair your solid dark dress from last fall with burgundy tights and black oxfords, or spice up a simple black outfit and tights with oxfords in cordovan or dark cherry.


The Return of The Clutch. I have always said a clutch is a must-have in every woman’s wardrobe for evening affairs. If you have had trouble finding The One, you won’t this season. Not only is the clutch great for evening, it is also being shown as a choice for daytime (works so well with those 40s inspired fashions). Leather, satin, or any other fabric; whatever size works well for you.

Pack away those wristlets for now and invest in an elegant clutch (if it has a hidden strap inside, it will be just as convenient at the club or bar).
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