February 29, 2008

How to Save Face

We all can’t afford a tub of La Mer, but we can all do very simple free (or almost free) steps to better our skin. There is no point in putting paint on a dirty canvas; the first step in looking beautiful, stylish and polished is to have beautiful and happy skin. Here are some simple tips that every woman can do to achieve that. Happy Leap Day to all!

1. Drink Water. I know, I know we all hear this but it really really REALLY makes a huge difference. I try to drink 60 ounces of plain water a day and when I do it, my skin is so happy and fresh looking. My husband bought me a Nalgene in my favorite color and I have it on my desk. Each morning I fill it up and I compete with myself to have it finished before lunch. I then go and refill it and try to finish it before I leave at the end of the day. Weekends I give myself a break, but because I force the water during the week, I crave it on weekends and catch myself drinking almost as much on Saturdays and Sundays.

Add flavor if you like, but to really kick the soda habit, I have found plain water does the trick best. Start off small… maybe one small bottle a day and take it like medicine. After a month make it two bottles and by three months you should be able to consume at least 32 ounces a day. Buy a bottle that makes you smile when you see it and play with temperatures to see what is easiest to gulp down. But after even a week you will see a pronounced change in your skin texture and even color.

2. Wash Your Face Before You Go To Bed. I know this seems obvious, but we busy women often forget to do this, thinking we’ll just hose off everything the next morning in the shower. However skin repairs itself when you sleep so nodding off with the grime of the day (plus all your makeup) can really be more detrimental than every day with a full face of cosmetics. I mentioned it before, but studies say each time you go to bed with your face unwashed you age it ten days.

Make the task as simple as possible with a face wash that rinses clean and all your tools nearby. I know in my wild and crazy days I used to keep a pack of those cleansing cloths on my nightstand so even after an evening of partying heartily, I could wipe off everything while almost passed out under my comforter.

You wouldn’t (hopefully!) go to bed without brushing your teeth, the same should hold true for your face. Again, even one week of this habit will give you fresher skin, smaller pores and fewer breakouts.

3. Use a Night Cream. Now this could be the same moisturizer you use each morning, but it’s important to moisturize your face after cleansing it. Again, the skin repairs itself while you sleep, so by prepping it with proper nutrients, you’ll get better results. If you have oily skin, consider an oil-free moisturizer or gel geared toward your skin type that will baby it without causing it to produce more oil.

Again, if this is something that you forget, make it as easy and convenient as possible. I keep my night cream on my nightstand where I am more likely to remember it than tucked in the medicine cabinet. This also gives me the time to massage it in well and ensure I get my neck hydrated as well.

4. Don’t Let Your Shower Hit Your Face. The pressure and heat of the water can cause broken capillaries, redness, and damage delicate tissue near the eyes. If you have rosaeca, this can exacerbate the problem. Often just stopping this habit will reduce most redness.

5. You Don’t Have to Wash Your Face In the Morning.
Your face shouldn’t be getting dirty while you sleep, the more often you wash your face, the more you will dry it out, causing it to look dull or force it to protect itself with increased oil production. A splash of tepid water or swipe of a cotton ball doused with an alcohol-free toner may be all that is necessary to prep for a new day.

6. Wear Sunscreen. This should be a given in this day and age, but I still meet women who say they don’t wear sunscreen for a multitude of reasons. They feel it is too greasy, they don’t burn, it’s winter, it’s too heavy, it makes their foundation slip…

There is no valid reason for not wearing sunscreen. Modern technology has made formulas far less heavy and greasy, and every person regardless of skin color or type can be affected by sun damage. Yes there is the chance for melanoma, but the sun can also reduce elasticity, wrinkles and create spots. Studies have shown that skin looks older not because of wrinkles, but discoloration. The best way to prevent age spots (AND wrinkling!) is to slap on that sunscreen.


Soften and cleanse your skin with natural French soaps from L'Occitane

Friday

Teal merino bateau neck sweater from Banana Republic, tan tweedy trousers from Ann Taylor, brown booties from nine West, tortoise necklace from a shop in Rehoboth Beach.

Hair is second day; brushed out and large sections twirled around curling iron. After blowing in the wind, it looks far cooler - very retro waves.

Makeup is L'Oreal True Match concealer in W1-3, Benefit That Gal, philosophy The Supernatural in Beige, Nars blush in Orgasm, Body Shop Sheer Lipcolor in Sheer Strawberry, Revlon ColorStay shadow quad in Neutral Khakis - ivory over whole lid and inner corners, lashes curled and two coats of Cover Girl LashBlast in black, Maybelline UltraLiner in black on top lash line.

February 28, 2008

Thursday

Got a compliment from a coworker on the outfit today... so weird which outfits catch people's eye. This was a last-minute throw-on because I got distracted and ran late this morning!

Teal knit dress from Proenza Shouler for Target, tan "Bern" boots from Duo, green pashmina from Nordstrom, silver hoops, silver necklace from Ann Taylor Loft, silver necklaces from H&M.

Hair was washed and conditioned the night before and dried while sleeping. This morning, large sections were wrapped around my curling iron and then a touch of Jonathan Silky Dirt was used for smoothness.

Makeup is L'Oreal True Match concealer in W1-3, philosophy The Supernatural in Beige, Cargeo Matte BeachBlush in Tenerife, Revlon ColorStay shadow quad in Neutral Khakis - ivory in inner corners, olive on lid and along lash line. Lashes curled, two coats Cover Girl LashBlast in black. On lips is Revlon Super Lustrous Lip Gloss in Pink Afterglow.

February 27, 2008

Wednesday

"Flame" merino v-neck from J. Crew's Final Sale, black nubby wool crepe trousers from Ann Taylor Loft, black booties from Sudini, vintage red stone necklace from boutique in Rehoboth Beach.

Hair is second day, used the Croc Wet-to-Dry iron to smooth out bedhead.

Makeup is L'Oreal True Match concealer in W1-3, philosophy The Supernatural in Beige, Revlon Super Lustrous Lip Gloss in Glossy Rose, Nars blush in Orgasm, Body Shop Shimmer Cubes in Warmth - peach over lid, brown in crease and along lash lines. Lashes curled, a coat of Cover Girl LashBlast in black.

This sweater looked red on the website, but in person it is very bright... the same color as my shantung skirt and silk tank from Banana Republic. I had to get rid of the tank after a washing mishap, and asked my husband if this sweater could possibly pair with the skirt (thinking the cashmere tee/dressy skirt look) and he said, "Sure if you are trying to dress as Mimi from Drew Carey." Gotta love his honesty! I was thinking with leopard heels and some funky necklace... but really this color is verging on neon and best when paired with another color, not as an all-over blast.

February 26, 2008

Tuesday

Orange merino scoopneck from Marshall's, denim trousers from Gap, black booties from Sudini, black coral necklace from Mexico.

Hair was washed and conditioned, pureology thickener added and dried/straightened with the Croc Wet-to-Dry straightening iron (check out my review of this beauty at Wardrobe Oxygen). Parted hair on opposite side which really showcased a red part of my hair (looks very cool in the light).

Makeup is L'Oreal True Match concealer in W1-3, philosophy The Supernatural in Beige, Nars blush in Orgasm, Revlon ColorStay lip color in Real Raisin, Urban Decay shadow primer, Revlon ColorStay shadow quad in Neutral Khakis - ivory over whole lid, Body Shop eye color in Golden Khaki on lid, lashes curled and two coats of Benefit's Bad Gal Lash with Imju Fiberwig over it, thin line of Maybelline UltraLiner in black on top lash line.

Work meeting all day, so lots of sitting... however free breakfast and lunch and I missed all the drizzly rain that was in DC this afternoon.

February 25, 2008

This Weekend and Monday

Saturday, yoga as usual. I wore a white ribbed tank with my green wrap tee from Friday over it, and black yoga pants from ProSpirit. Hair was washed and conditioned, a touch of Jonathan Silky Dirt while damp and allowed to air dry.

Errands as usual, and then spent the evening in watching movies.

Sunday, I met three friends for brunch and shopping at the mall. Jade green short-sleeved sweater from Target, orange crinkle silk scarf from Banana Republic, silver hoops, silver necklaces from H&M, silver bracelet from Ann Taylor Loft, dark "The Flirt" bootcut jeans from Old Navy, black booties from Sudini.

Hair was washed and conditioned, bit of Jonathan Silky Dirt and dried with a diffuser. Frizzy bits hit with the curling iron, and a touch more Jonathan Silky Dirt when finished to smooth and separate nicely.

Makeup is L'Oreal True Match concealer in W1-3, philosophy The Supernatural in Beige, Cargo Matte BeachBlush in Tenerife, Revlon ColorStay shadow quad in Neutral Khakis - the khaki on the lid. Soft Black from Body Shop in crease and along lash lines. Lashes curled, two coats Benefit Bad Gal in black and on lips is Revlon Shiny Sheers in Sheer Plumdrop.

Today... no picture. Nothing too exciting. Hair is second day, makeup is typical, I am wearing the same jeans as yesterday, my navy v-neck cotton sweater from Banana Republic, my black booties, same necklaces, bracelet and hoops as yesterday, green pashmina.

Instead I offer you a picture from the back of a frozen pizza my husband purchased. The instructions ask one to preheat the oven to 390 degrees. Not 350, not 400 but 390. I have never seen something like this before and really, couldn't figure out why they chose to have such strange instructions when most ovens are in 25 degree increments... just a random funny... :)

February 22, 2008

Friday

Green wrap tee and bandeau from Victoria's Secret, black stretch poplin trousers (that's how they were described on the Nordstrom website) from Caslon, black booties from Sudini, solitaire necklace and studs from Diamond Nexus Labs.

Hair was washed and conditioned, pureology thickener and Got2B curling mousse and scrunched dry. Then hit all with the curling iron in big sections and brushed out. Then took Jonathan Silky Dirt - teensy amount and twirled around sections.

Makeup is a mess... I started with Revlon ColorStay under eye concealer in Light Medium and then I used the Afterglow Cosmetics mineral foundation in Bisque. I then realized I forgot my contacts and put them in, getting tears and saline all over my face, making lines in the foundation. Then I looked and saw I forgot my moisturizer and my face looked flaky so I washed it all off and started over.

Second time around, L'Oreal True Match concealer in W1-3, philosophy The Supernatual in Beige, Cargo Matte BeachBlush in Tenerife, Revlon ColorStay shadow quad in Neutral Khakis - ivory in inner corners and khaki on lid. Lashes curled, two coats Cover Girl Lash Blast in black and a line of Maybelline Ultraliner in black on top lash line. On lips is Maybelline Shine Seduction in Blushed Bass.

Also... don't like this top. Was seduced by the fun color and the price and the newness of something in my drawer, but I think it looks weird, sorta like a hospital dressing gown or something worn to bed (the curved hem and visible stitching). However it will be a great option come St. Patrick's Day and IS quite comfy...

A New Look on Fashion

I think women often look at fashion and clothing in the wrong manner, and that is why there is so much bad style, cheap style and weird combinations out there on women.

We should look at style the way one would look at art, gardening or cooking. Before finding celebrity experts in the field who have a style we like, we should know the basics. Before we do a complete fashion overhaul, we should break down the style process.

If you like cooking, you first learn how to work with what you have. That saucepan your mom gave you for your first apartment, the whisk you picked up at the grocery store, the foodstuff you could afford on your budget. As you cook, you acquire better tools based on what you enjoy/are good at cooking. Maybe it’s baking; possibly it’s grilling or Asian stir-fry. You read up on recipes and proper tools. You seek out markets and shops that carry hard-to-find ingredients. You have recipes or cookware that are your go-tos: ones you love and love you back because of ease of use and final product.

If you like gardening, it often is because you started with a little plot of land and a few plants from the local home store. Doing some reading and research, you learn what plants work for your park of the planet, and what you can do to make the soil better, the plants flourish and to have your yard look beautiful or deliver delicious produce. You learn proper names, chemical makeup, and the tools that make the job easy yet successful.

Fashion… ah fashion. Most of us, fashion started with clothing picked out by our parents. By our teens we usually had a sense of what we likes – maybe it was mimicking a musician, our older sister, or possibly the popular girl in our English class. Fashion was not something we decided to take an interest in; it was something forced upon us and something we were often judged by. Because of this, we often have very strong views about fashion: it’s superficial, stupid, materialistic, confusing. It brings back bad memories of hand-me-downs, not fitting in, being too fat/too thin/too weird/blending in too much/not blending in enough/being poor.

These strong views often take women in one of two directions – shunning or fearing it; or idolizing it. Coveting glossy mags each month, going into debt to have every “must-have” on some list, or purchasing cheap fakes of these items in a hope to glean some style or coolness from wearing or carrying these items. Thought not put into materials, tools, terminology, backstory.

To achieve true style, it’s good to look at fashion like a seamstress, not like a celebrity. Get to know the names of fabrics, and which ones work with your figure and your personal style. Understand terminology for silhouettes, styles and tools. With each cut or brand you find you like and likes you back, get to know it better. Do your research, understand what designers or art inspired that line. Start small and work with what you have instead of rushing out to get all the newest and best things. Find your niche. When you break down fashion the way you would a hobby, it’s easier to understand and easier to pick up. Going slowly, you will find your go-tos as well: that pencil skirt that always works for a last minute event, the black leather pumps you bought in Italy five years ago and are still stylish, the pearls you inherited from your grandmother.

One of the most exciting things for me when getting married was the registry. Yay! Now I can have all those things I coveted in the catalogs that came to my doorstep every month! My husband and I went to Pentagon City Mall in Arlington, Virginia and got “gun-happy.” We started in Macy’s where we scanned crystal I had loved since high school and expensive appliances I didn’t even know I wanted. We proceeded to Williams Sonoma where we scanned professional-grade knives, French cookware and a bunch of books and accessories. Finally we hit Registry Mecca – Crate and Barrel where my husband really got the fever and scanned about four different styles of wine glasses, three types of beer steins and almost every accessory available for outdoor grilling and entertaining.

The boxes started arriving a week before the shower and continued months after the ceremony. I counted – we received 72 individual drink glasses of varying purposes and materials. We received a cappuccino/espresso machine that didn’t fit the dimensions of our counter, and eight (yes eight!) espresso cups to match. Beautiful dinner plates that were quite hard to eat off of (very slippery and curved in a strange way) and cookware that didn’t fit our small oven.

However I did receive a lovely large stainless sauté pan with lid. I remembered seeing cooking shows where one was used to brown meats and then pop into the oven to finish cooking. I tried out this method with my new tool and was pleased. I became more creative with my cooking with a few of my new gifts and came to realize what foods I liked, and which ones brought me joy during the preparation. The espresso machine and cups were exchanged for quality knives and a large stock pot. Some of the glasses were given to a friend who bought a new home, and others are just used for special occasions. I realized that registering willy-nilly was fun and the thought of a fully stocked kitchen was exhilarating, but the reality set in and it just wasn’t right.

Sound a bit like your last clothing shopping spree? We often purchase that which is cool, new or deemed by another to be a necessity to find out that when added to our own life, it is useless. We don’t fear having “uncool” plants in our garden or pots in our kitchen because we know they are useful and good and beautiful to us. I encourage those of you Fashion Fearfuls to look at fashion as you may your favorite pastime… it may demystify it and help you find your true personal style!

February 21, 2008

Thursday

Black cashmere puffed-sleeve top from Banana Republic, gray 'Drew" trousers from limited, black booties from Sudini, silver bracelet from Ann Taylor Loft, silver hoops.

Hair is next day, big sections twirled around a curling iron and then a bit of Jonathan Silky Dirt twirled around the sections for hold, separation and shine.

Makeup is Revlon ColorStay under eye concealer in Light Medium, philosophy The Supernatural in Beige, Nars blush in Orgasm, Revlon ColorStay sheer lipcolor in Sheer Plum, Trish McEvoy shadows - some sparkly gold in inner corners and over entire lid, a lavender on lid, dark purple along lash lines. Lashes curled, two coats of Benefit Bad Gal Lash in black.

Man is it coooold today! It snowed yesterday afternoon and it may again this evening. Last night watching the lunar eclipse I was in fleece pants, my Duo boots, a tee, a hoodie, a fleece, a windbreaker and a blanket over all of that.

And to she whom asked if I have lost weight... thank you so much but no. I have been a slug lately and prone to running late and eating a yummy greasy breakfast sandwich from Au Bon Pain or another eatery near work instead of my oatmeal or fruit. I do feel it though - sluggish, skin not so nice and waistbands not as comfy. I have had some knee problems (wow, I must sound as though I am ALWAYS injured!) and have been babying them, but that doesn't mean I need to stop all activity and consume crap! :) Back on the wagon!

February 20, 2008

Wednesday

Pink merino v-neck from J. Crew, black pencil skirt from Old Navy, black tights from Target, black heeled oxfords from BCBGirls.

Hair was wet but not washed, added pureology thickening lotion, dried with paddle brush then Croc straightening iron to smooth.

Makeup is Revlon ColorStay under eye concealer in Light Medium, then Rimmel Lasting Finish foundation in Soft Beige. Nars blush in Orgasm, Smashbox Soft Lights in Tint on eyes and cheekbones, Revlon ColorStay shadow quad in Neutral Khakis - the ivory in inner corners and on lid. Lashes curled, two coats Cover Girl lash blast in Black and Maybelline UltraLiner in black on top lash line. On lips is Revlon Super Lustrous Lip Gloss in Pink Afterglow.

Got a sample of this Rimmel foundation in the latest issue of Lucky. Well the Soft Beige is a decent match for my skin and it does seem to stay on... but that's where my compliments end. It feels icky on the skin, like a layer. It feels dry and rough on my dry spots, and obvious and weird on my T-zone. Under my nose is dry and slightly itchy from this (my most sensitive part of my face), as well as around my eye area. Feels like cheap foundation... not worth even a separate post about this stuff.

February 19, 2008

Tuesday

Black merino shift from Banana Republic, orange crinkle silk scarf from Banana Republic, tan "Bern" boots from Duo, silver hoops. Not sure where I put my cuff...

Hair was washed the night before, this morning smoothed with round brush and occasional touch-up with Croc wet-to-dry straightening iron.

Makeup is Revlon ColorStay under eye concealer in Light Medium, L'Oreal True Match foundation in C3, Cargo Matte BeachBlush in Tenerife, Revlon Super Lustrous Lip Gloss in Glossy Rose, Body Shop eye color - Slate on lid, Soft Black in crease and along lash line. Body Shop Eye Definer in black along lash line. Lashes curled, two coats of Cover Girl LashBlast in black.

Last night I went and got my hair colored. I pretty much told Kathleen to do what she thought would be cool and she put in some big chunky bits of red. As you can see in the picture above, it's not super noticeable, but then you see it when I move and it looks very awesome (or when I take a picture of the top of my head while sitting at my desk at work!). I also love post-color hair; it's so shiny and fabulous! They used the pureology line to wash and style it - currently I am using the pink bottle for shampoo and conditioner because I got it on sale, but I miss the smell of the purple bottles and the tingly menthol feeling of the conditioner! I am almost out and will have to go back to the purple bottles!

February 18, 2008

Monday

It is going to be around 80 degrees today! I went to work without a coat! I LOVE this weather, I just hate that it will get cold again tomorrow.

Red crepe jersey dress from Maggy London, black tights from Target, black patent Mary Janes with red heels from Nine West.

Hair was washed with my husband's cheap 2-in-1 because I am getting my hair colored tonight and want to save the pureology for when it's finished. No product, dried with the Croc straightening wet-to-dry iron.

Makeup is Smashbox Photo Finish primer, Revlon ColorStay under eye concealer in Light Medium, philosophy The Supernatural in Beige, Nars blush in Orgasm, Revlon ColorStay shadow quad in Neutral Khakis - ivory in inner corners and along brow bone and khaki on lid. Lashes curled and two coats of CoverGirl Lash Blast in black and a medium line of Maybelline UltraLiner in black. On lips is Revlon ColorStay lip color in Real Raisin.

The Weekend

Friday night we went to dinner with very good friends of ours. Had a wait for our table, so we went next door to the cigar shop; the boys got some cigars to puff (it was nice enough to be outside) and the wife and I chatted about the upcoming wedding of her sister-in-law (you can't pull me away from wedding talk!). The place was really lovely - a new joint we hadn't yet visited. After we hung out at Starbucks until they had to get home and relieve the babysitter. Ah, the wild and crazy life of adults!

Saturday started with yoga as usual, then a few errands. In the afternoon my husband's cousin came over for a game of Rockband and then we three headed to DC to see Grace Potter and the Nocturnals at the 9:30 Club. There we met up with our good friends and had a great time. I only knew their music vaguely... but after that performance I am a FAN!

Hair was washed and conditioned in a rush and to the sounds of Rockband. Added a touch of Jonathan Silky Dirt while damp, blew it straight with a paddle brush and a round brush for the bangs and ends.

Dressed in a rush as well; black thermal top from Old Navy, burgundy merino shift from Banana Republic, tan "Bern" boots from Duo, silver hoops and cuff.

Makeup was Smashbox Photo Finish primer, Revlon ColorStay under eye concealer in Light Medium, philosophy The Supernatural in Beige, Cargo Matte BeachBlush in Tenerife, Revlon ColorStay shadow quad in Neutral Khakis - ivory in inner corners, khaki on lid, chocolate in crease and along lash lines. Lashes curled and two coats of CoverGirl Lash Blast in black. On lips is Revlon Super Lustrous Lip Gloss in Glossy Rose.

Sunday, we did a whole lot of nothing, and it was great! We watched a few episodes from Season 3 Lost that my husband missed, a Netflix movie (Curse of the Golden Flower), took a nap, cleaned a bit, had Chinese for take-out... very relaxing and lovely. No photo outfits because seeing me in a black tank and pink-leopard-print flannel PJ pants ain't so exciting...

February 16, 2008

Random Acts of Kindness Day

February 17th is Random Acts of Kindness Day.

Use this holiday as a way to care for your fellow woman. For one day, don’t visit TMZ, Perez or Defamer to find out about Britney. For one day, stop to compliment a stranger on the street for her pretty shoes or nice hair. Hold the door at the store, let a woman senior to you on the train or in the church doors before you. Help a mother overloaded with bags and children get her groceries to her car. Call your mother and tell her how much you love her. Before you start to criticize a fellow woman’s actions, looks or lifestyle today, take a moment to imagine yourself in her shoes. Instead of a sneer, for one day offer compassion and a genuine smile. You never know, she may need that smile more than you can image.

Practice Random Acts of Kindness today, and find yourself becoming more beautiful from it! And after your day of kindness, I would love you to come here and comment on how it affected you!

I hope you all have a wonderful weekend!

Black Doesn’t Make You Look Slimmer, it Only Makes You Look Boring

Yesterday on the Metro, a gorgeous woman in a pumpkin-colored toggle coat, brown trousers pinstriped with pink and brown booties. Gorgeous skin with a glow from pink blush and pink-tinted gloss. Pretty braids with little streaks of dark copper with the brown. I would guess the woman was a size 26. She could stop traffic with her inner glow and sassy look.

In black? She would be another fat woman on the train. Not even that, she wouldn’t be remembered. She would blend in.

The other day in the grocery store, woman who looked as though she just got out of yoga class or the gym. Dark plum yoga pants, gray sneakers with lime green accents, dark red glasses, olive green quilted thigh-length coat, nubby loopy scarf and matching hat knit in shades of olive, pink, purple and navy. Nothing too out of the ordinary, but it made me stop and think about my own black yoga pants (all three pairs) and that I own the very same coat but in black. She didn’t look kooky, but the colors just made her stand out a bit and made one think about her. I actually didn’t notice until I saw her in a different line that she was probably a size or two larger than I; the first thing I noticed was the combination of colors, the way the glasses really made her eyes stand out, and whether she knit that scarf and hat combination herself.

We have all been raised to think that black is slimming. Black makes part of you recede. Black is what overweight people wear because overweight people should be ashamed of their shape and want it to recede into nothingness.

But our bodies aren’t going anywhere, and why punish yourself because you are not what society has decided to be the “right” size? And really, what the heck IS that “right” size? As a 5’3” woman, I remember going to the doctor my freshman year of college and being told my 125 lb. frame was carrying too much weight. I had strong legs and arms, broad shoulders from swimming and a large chest. At that point I was in a size 4. If I was the chart’s goal of 110 for my height, I would be sunken in, unhealthily small.

So you are 5 lbs or 150 lbs over the doctor’s chart for weight… that doesn’t mean you life stops. Don’t go into mourning with a wardrobe full of black. Show your personality, your charm, your creativity. You are so much more than your figure – your body is only the shell that gets your soul from Point A to Point B.

What About the Staples?

Time and time again people mention that my staples list is almost all black. Yes, it is but that isn’t because I feel people should hide in black. The thing is black is a color that doesn’t age, it doesn’t usually clash with black shoes and other accessories, it doesn’t get trendy, and is simple enough to work for a funeral, a wedding, a job interview, a trip to the grocery, an awards ceremony. I don’t expect everything to be black, but it’s a good point to start, then adding signature colors, accessories and personality as you find your fashion “wings.”

Easy Places to Add Color:

Your coat or jacket: If you need to buy one, consider an unexpected hue. Colors are often more versatile than black for coats. Mustard yellow, pumpkin orange, robin’s egg blue, scarlet…

The color of your purse: for day or for evening: a red satin clutch with add color to your black dress and heels, a green leather hobo for day will work with black or brown shoes. You’ll be surprised at how much use a colored purse will get, and how many compliments you will receive for it!

Your bathing suit and coverup: a black bathing suit will NOT make you look 30 pounds lighter, and you will stand taller and look more confident in a color you love and loves you back.

Your next pair of prescription glasses: why stick with silver, gold and black? I have a pair of dark purple plastic frames that add a little bit of fun to my look while still being quite professional. Before this pair, I had dark green tortoise-shell ones that always received compliments but didn’t work against my face and hair.

Your winter hat, scarf and gloves: Switch it up! This is a great way to get your favorite color into your wardrobe on a daily basis. If you have a brown coat, get a nice contrast color like leaf green or candy pink. Black can work with everything, and a gray coat looks amazing with yellow, turquoise or even bright red. Colors look great with other colors – I often see a woman on my commute home who has a mustard-colored coat and leaf green cashmere scarf and leather gloves. It doesn’t look hokey or juvenile, just fresh and cheerful.


Your shoes:
Flats are available in almost every store in the mall; a pair in yellow, orange, red or green will be so fun peeking out of your jeans, trousers, or paired with a simple dress or skirt. If you purchase commuting shoes, make them cheerful with a great color for your walk to work! For winter and rain boots, find a color that complements your coat or adds an unexpected pop to the dreary climate! As for heels... nothing adds fun and style to a simple outfit or dress than a pair of heels in a gorgeous hue!


A great belt over your cardigan or dress:
Green and yellow are huge colors this spring; use them to brighten up your simple wardrobe pieces.
A pashmina or cardigan for breezy evenings: a color will actually work with more of your wardrobe than a basic black or ivory.

Your workout clothing: if you want to be subtle, consider loden green, navy, plum, teal, brown.

Your lingerie: Others may not see it but you will feel the energy of your favorite color against your skin!

What If You Love Black?
Heck, I do! I don't wear black because it's slimming, but because I like it on me. I like the cool simplicity of the color, the chic way it makes such a statement. I love it with smoky eyes and messy hair, with cat eyes and ruby lips, with my fair skin and dark hair. IF you feel that way, then embrace your color and wear it in well-made, well-fitting, non-faded pieces. Accent it with bold jewelry, color accessories or fabulous cosmetics. Don't use it as a disguise, but as an extension of your personality!

Purple dress by IGIGI, bathing suit and black dress by Torrid, yellow suede flats by Gap

February 15, 2008

Friday

Green silk blouse from Ann Taylor, black stretch poplin trousers from Caslon, black booties from Sudini, green bead and silver necklace and matching earrings for like $5.99 from Burlington Coat Factory a couple years ago, silver cuff.

Hair was washed and conditioned, added Pureology thickening stuff and Jonathan Silky Dirt and blew dry with a paddle brush. Used my straightening iron to smooth bangs and any frizzy places. Small amount of BioSilk when dry to smooth and separate.

Makeup is Revlon ColorStay under eye concealer in Light Medium, philosophy The Supernatural in Beige, Nars blush in Orgasm, Revlon ColorStay shadow quad in Neutral Khakis - ivory in inner corners and on brow bone and olive on the lid and along lash lines, Revlon Super Lustrous Lip Gloss in Glossy Rose, two coats of Benefit's Bad Gal Lash on curled lashes.

Going to dinner with friends after work, tomorrow I am going to a concert and Sunday... well we'll see what Sunday brings! Hope all of you have a great weekend!

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I've been tagged! Under the Myrtle Tree tagged me to do this meme, thank you so much!

The rules are:

a) Pick up the nearest book of 123 pages or more.

b) Find page 123.

c) Find the first 5 sentences and read them.

d) Post the next 3 sentences.

I am at work and the closest book I have is actually the one I finished on the Metro ride to work today - The Secret Life of Bees by Susan Monk Kidd. I was cleaning out my home office this weekend and found this: my sister a year ago gave me a whole XL L.L. Bean Boat & Tote of books she had read and was sharing. I thought I read them all, but somehow missed this one. What a wonderful book, I really fell in love with it and all the characters in it.

Page 123 is in the middle of Chapter 6, almost halfway through the novel...

Because I hated lying to August when she was so good to me. Because Rosaleen was probably right about dream worlds. Because I was pretty sure the Virgin Mary was not back there on the peach farm standing in for me the way she'd stood in for Beatrix.


If you read this book, you will see that this is an awesome trio of sentences to choose. The speaker is Lily, a 14-year old girl who had left her home with her nanny Rosaleen to find answers and a loving place. August is the woman who took her in, and had recently told her a story about a young nun named Beatrix who had run away from her convent, came back and wasn't missed because Mary had stepped in her place. Makes far more sense if you read the book, I swear!

I'll now tag Shoegal, Sez Shares, and La Femme Couture!

Thursday

This weekend will be all about getting myself organized. I had an outfit planned out, and then I couldn't find a single pair of tights that weren't footless or argyle. Argh! I gave up on the outfit, and put on this. Pants still fresh from the cleaners, and a sweater that hasn't yet been worn since it was washed. So my hair and makeup don't match this outfit... whatever. I'll know where my tights are by Monday.

Black stretch merino crewneck from Banana Republic, ivory wool blend trousers from Ann Taylor, faux tortoise shell necklace from Target, black booties from Sudini.

Hair is second day - used the iron to smooth and bedhead. No product.

Makeup is Revol ColorStay under eye concealer in Light Medium, philosophy The Supernatural in Beige, Nars blush in Orgasm, Sephora's chubby eye pencil in Gray around lash lines and smudged on lid as shadow. Lashes curled, two coats of Benefit's Bad Gal Lash and one of Imju Fiberwig. On lips is Body Shop Sheer Lipcolor in Sheer Strawberry.

Happy belated Valentine's Day to all of you! Nothing terribly exciting for me and Mr. Allie - went to work, came home, made homemade pizzas (mmm I sauteed red peppers, pepperoncinis, onion and faux pepperoni with a bit of olive oil and crushed red pepper, put it between the sauce and cheese and it was goooood!) and watched Lost. Valentine's Day is not that important of a holiday to me - I feel loved every day of the year by someone and I hope that those I love know my feelings all year long as well. Do know though, I planned on wearing my Nine West Mary Janes with the red heels to celebrate the day!

February 14, 2008

Wednesday

Ice storm warning, Federal government open two hours late yet I still need to get to work on time. I was hoping to be prepared after the night prior where I slipped all over in my high-heeled boots and froze my fingers and wrists and neck off while trying to dig my car out of a Magic Shell of ice at the Metro parking lot. No real need, Wednesday was warmer than Tuesday night - nary an icicle on my car!

Black silk/linen/tencel tee from Banana Republic, cream hooded cable cardigan from Express, patch-pocket cotton bootcut jeans from Gap Outlet, my tan "Bern" boots. I really don't own winter boots... these are my go-tos for icky weather and I just couldn't put on another dress today. I feel as though over jeans they look a bit like prosthetic legs, but it got me to work dry and warm.

Hair was washed and conditioned, and then I used my new wet-to-dry straightener to dry and smooth. Not as quick as the dryer and brush, but far smoother results and no bathroom smelling like burned hair. No products used.

Makeup is Revlon ColorStay under eye concealer in Light Medium, philosophy The Supernatural in Beige, Cargo Matte BeachBlush in Tenerife, Revlon ColorStay shadow quad in Neutral Khakis - the khaki on the lid. Body Shop's eye color in Soft Black in crease and along lash lines. I then used my chubby Sephora eye pencil in gray along the lash lines to enhance the smoky look. Lashes curled, coat of Benefit's Bad Gal Lash and then a coat of Imju Fiberwig. On lips is Revlon Super Lustrous lip gloss in Glossy Rose.

February 13, 2008

Wardrobe Hints for Warm Climates

I’ll admit it, I am NOT a know-it-all. I have only lived in my part of the US, I am not a mother, I am not a gardener, I am not a tall woman so I do not know off-hand the right thing for every woman out there. I often get emails and comments that my suggestions are not appropriate for all women’s lifestyles. Some I disagree with (if you attend weddings and Bar Mitzvas and special events in your life you should own a simple dress) and some I agree with. Recently I was contacted by a member of Pattern Review – an awesome message board of sewers (hello ladies!!!) who suggested some options for those women who live in climates where it is always warm. She being from Texas knows a thing or two about a warm-climate wardrobe! I was happy to hear from an expert on that subject and would like to share her tidbits with you all!

I love clothes, and am forever reading lists suggesting ways to put together a simple wardrobe that can form the basis of your entire closet. But, those lists are usually written for people who live in four-season climates. (Here in central Texas, we joke that we, too, have four seasons: Summer, Almost Summer, It Was Just Summer, and Christmas).

Kidding aside, it was a challenge for me, as a native Midwesterner, to learn how to dress for a warm climate. While I think that the individual articles of clothing each woman needs are going to vary widely according to her job, her taste, and other lifestyle differences, I can at least offer a few tips I’ve learned in seven years of warm-weather dressing:

1) Know When to Shop. Clothing stores have at least four distinct collections each year, which show up about two months before the season in which they’re typically worn in four-season climates. So, stores get their fall sweaters in July, their winter coats in September, etc. That’s great if you live in a four-season climate…and not very convenient if you live somewhere warm, because stores still follow the same merchandising calendar as the rest of the country. Rather than shopping throughout the year, save up and do your shopping for the entire year during February, March, and April, when spring and summer clothes and shoes are on the shelves. (By contrast, shop for winter clothing at the very end of winter, when everything’s on clearance. You only need a few pieces, and because this type of clothing isn’t in high demand there’s usually a pretty good selection still left.)

2) Purchase a Good Swimsuit. It doesn’t matter if you are terrified of water (or your reflection in a swimsuit), the fact is that swimming--and poolside activities like BBQs and ice cream socials—are common social events for young people in the Deep South when the temperature climbs. Chances are, if you refuse to don a bathing suit, you may never see your gaggle of friends. Shop early for the best selection so that you can get one that’s flattering and that you feel really confident in. If you are curvy or hard to fit, skip the department store and try your local underwear boutique first.

Along with a great swimsuit, invest in a flattering cover-up and some flip flops that do not slip and slide when wet (consider brands like Teva, Reef and Merrel that offer athletic-inspired styles).

3) Comfort First. Yes, most of us have watched What Not to Wear and know that jackets and blazers disguise and flatter an apple shape with a large tummy. However when you are factoring in tripe-digit heat, the concept of layers is ridiculous. Comfort should be you first consideration when buying summer clothes. Purchase breathable fabrics: linen, cotton, silk. (Wrinkles are far more acceptable in the South than cooler regions where poly-blends are popular (and realistic) summer fabrics.) Look for silhouettes that skim but don’t cling: remember that you’re going to be sweating so you want shapes that will glide right over an overheated body. Don’t even consider layers when you know you’re going to be outside for a while: one piece on top, one on bottom (or one uber-comfy dress).

4) Layer While Indoors. I know I just said “no layers,” but that’s for outdoors. Indoors it’s often quite chilly as the AC is cranked up much of the year. Lightweight sweaters in cotton or cashmere are pretty and versatile. Thin fabrics are best because they will be tucked into your bag as soon as you leave any building. Find yourself a versatile and pretty cardigan and it will be a wiser choice for this climate than a pashmina or jacket.

4) Be Prepared. This one isn’t about clothing, but it IS about staying cool and comfortable. When northerners ask me about Texas weather, I say, “It’s just like your weather. We also have a season where it can be dangerous to leave the house unprepared or dressed improperly. It’s just that for us, that season is summer.” From April through October, I don’t leave the house without a mini-stick of deodorant, a washcloth (for washing my face or for mopping up sweat), a bottle of water, and a compact of loose powder. I have also noticed that Southern women tend to be VERY well groomed, perhaps because they are less covered-up for much of the year. I’d never had a pedicure until I moved here; now, they’re de rigueur.

5) Capris are Great. Capris and cropped pants are a wardrobe staple in warm climates. Those extra few inches of bare leg are a Godsend, and unlike shorts, they’re work-appropriate. With some skimmers or sandals they transform into casual weekend attire.

6) You Still Need Some Winter Garments. As a native Midwesterner, I know cold, and Central Texas almost never gets cold. The fact that we have whole decades without hard frosts disqualifies us from ever complaining about “cold.” However, if you’re acclimated, 40 degrees Fahrenheit can seem darn chilly. And it gets cold in the South though we act surprised about it every single time. So buy a nice coat in a classic style, and gloves, a hat, and scarf to match. Purchase two or three heavy sweaters in flattering solid colors and a couple pairs of trousers that come all the way to your instep. Invest classic, quality pieces that won’t fall out of fashion quickly, wear them for those few weeks a year that warrant them, and they’ll last you for years.

7) There Are Sandals, and Then There Are Sandals. Sandals are worn most of the year; but not all sandals are created equal. Flip-flops and sparkly little thongs should only be worn in the most casual of environments. My boss’ rule of thumb is a good one: “If you’d wear ‘em to the beach, don’t wear ‘em to work.”

Consider your height and frame when purchasing sandals. Many sandals in the stores the past few seasons are very flat and/or strappy (think the “gladiator” style celebs seem to covet), which works best on slim figures and with floaty lightweight dresses and skirts. Consider a city sandal in a neutral shade and a classic fabric like leather. Having a solid heel, wedge or at least a substantial sole will balance out curvy frames and more substantial fabrics in your outfit. It is possible to find sandals that will go with pants, capris, skirts, AND shorts.

8) Know Your Environment. I live in a very casual city in Texas; one can go to just about any restaurant, even the four-star ones, in jeans. I haven’t worn pantyhose in years; there might actually be a law against them here. Dallas, on the other hand—just three hours north—is far more conservative in terms of fashion; if I’m visiting friends there and know we’re going out to dinner, I bring a skirt.

For example, in my area appropriate attire for a baby shower is khakis and a nice blouse. However, I recently attended a friend’s bridal shower in Louisville and was embarrassingly underdressed in this outfit—all the other women were in dresses, heels, and nice jewelry. If you are new to the area or travelling, don’t be afraid to ask a friend what the “dress code” may be for that town.

9) Makeup. Most people get so much sun here that their skin tone changes a couple of times over the course of a normal year. Even I, with the world’s fairest skin that burns fast and never tans, end up a shade browner in the summer and need a different foundation. Second, you must wear sunscreen every day, no exceptions! A moisturizer with built-in SPF makes this step worry-free. Finally, keep it simple. Makeup slips and slides in high temperatures, so don’t even attempt to maintain several layers of product. Anyway, neutral colors applied lightly look better on sun-kissed skin than heavy makeup does!

10) Enjoy Being a Fashion Plate. Admit it: those of us in the South do have gorgeous weather most of the time. This frees you from ever needing a whole host of clothing that is simply a fact of life for many Americans north of the Mason-Dixon Line: puffy down coats, rainpants, balaclavas, etc. Please enjoy never buying jeans two sizes too big so you can wear long underwear underneath! Revel in the fact that your winter boots can have high heels if you want—a thoroughly impractical thing in icy areas! Raise children who have never once complained about having to cover up their Halloween costumes with giant winter parkas! We’re lucky to live in a climate that rarely interferes with our fashion sense—enjoy it!

The Home of the Future... With a Wardrobe Consultant?

My friend Adam sent me this story and I wanted to share it with all of you. Pretty interesting! What will they think of next... a home that shops for you as well?

Disneyland Revives 'House of Future'

GILLIAN FLACCUSAssociated Press Writer

Source: General Financial/ Business News
Date: February 13, 2008

ANAHEIM, Calif. Millions of Disneyland visitors lined up a half-century ago to catch a glimpse of the future: a home teeming with mind-blowing gadgets such as handsfree phones, wall-sized televisions, plastic chairs, and electric razors and toothbrushes.

The "House of the Future," a pod-shaped, all-plastic dwelling that quickly seemed quaint closed its doors a decade later. Now Disney is set to open a new abode in Tomorrowland - this time in partnership with 21st century technology giants.

The 5,000-square-foot home scheduled to open in May will look like a normal suburban home outside, but inside it will feature hardware, software and touch-screen systems that could simplify everyday living. Lights and thermostats will automatically adjust when people walk into a room. Closets will help pick out the right dress for a party. Countertops will be able to identify groceries set on them and make menu suggestions.

The $15 million home is a collaboration of The Walt Disney Co., Microsoft Corp., Hewlett-Packard Co., software maker LifeWare and homebuilder Taylor Morrison. Visitors will experience the look of tomorrow by watching Disney actors playing a family of four preparing for a trip to China.

"It's much different than a spiel that you would get at a trade show," said Dave Miller, director of alliance development for Walt Disney Parks & Resorts. "We won't get into the bits and the bytes. It will be about the digital lifestyle and how that lifestyle can help you."

The actors will be in a flurry of cooking, packing and picture-taking designed to emphasize cutting-edge features in the home's two bedrooms, living room, kitchen, dining room, study and back yard. Much of the project will showcase a network that makes the house "smart" and follows family members from room to room, even adjusting artwork, to preset personal preferences. When a resident clicks a TV remote, for example, lights will dim, music will shut off and the shades will draw as the network realizes a movie is about to start.

The system will allow residents to transfer digital photos, videos and music among televisions and computers in different rooms at the click of a button. Other applications still in development could include touch-screen technology built into appliances, furniture and countertops, said Joe Belfiore, Microsoft's vice president for entertainment services. In the kitchen, for example, touchpad software on the countertop would be able to identify groceries and produce recipes and meal suggestions. Similar programs could turn a desktop into a computer screen, allowing residents to load photos, music or e-mail onto a cell phone by placing it on the desk. Mirrors and closets could identify clothes and suggest matching outfits, complimentary colors or track what apparel is at the cleaners or in the wash.

The home will also feature new uses for devices that many visitors may already own, as well as technologies that are still five or 10 years down the road, said Mike Seamons, vice president of marketing at LifeWare, which makes home automation software. "If people walk through there and say, 'I don't have anything in this house at all,' then we've totally failed," Seamons said. "We're not waiting for robots to happen in order for it to be a reality."

When it comes to aesthetics, designers decided to stray from the Jetsons-style House of the Future; an all-plastic cross design with four wing-shaped bays that appeared to float. The house was so tough that wrecking balls bounced off it when Disney ripped it down in 1967. The new home will be made of wood and steel and finished in muted browns and beiges, said Sheryl Palmer, president and chief executive of Taylor Morrison in North America. "The 1950s home didn't look like anything, anywhere. It was space-age and kind of cold," she said. "We didn't want the (new) home to intimidate the visitors. We want the house to be real accessible to our guests."

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