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September 30, 2008
Attention Old Navy & Banana Republic Card Holders...
I Hate Style Books
I hate style books. I have dozens at home, and almost every time I purchase one I want to kick myself. Yes, there are a few out there that offer some worthy and unique advice, but the majority are utter crap and cruel. Cruel? I said this to a friend today and she thought I was being harsh. Well let’s take a portion from a new book, Nina Garcia’s The One Hundred: A Guide to the Pieces Every Stylish Woman Must Own Bootie Call (a chapter discussing the merits of ankle booties) • When wearing with pants, keep the colors the same. Black pants tucked into black booties will elongate the leg and make you feel fabulous.• When wearing with miniskirts, try them with Black Opaque Tights (#10) to keep your line going and going and going. Unless you have fabulous legs, illusion is our master craft. • Make sure the bootie does not cut off straight at the ankle like a traditional bootie – these boots are made to be worn under pants and will chop off the leg and make it look stumpy. • It is a great alternative to the pump – always consider it if the pump seems too safe. • The bootie is a classic way to mix the masculine with the feminine, so don’t be afraid to flaunt a little femininity when you have this more masculine shoe on. One must mix it to risk it… In general, the woman who purchases and reads this book is one who feels as though she does not possess a sense of style, thinks she is not fashionable and is looking for advice. Black pants tucked into black booties… well what type of black pants? Can one wear her black twill chinos? Black polyester pants that she wears to the nightclub? Black suiting trousers? And can any ankle bootie work? The previous page mentions Louboutin and Prada as bootie designers… not really brands that most women can afford (or even find at her local mall). So are we looking for a pull-on style? One that laces up? Chunky heel? Wedge heel? Stiletto heel? Flat boot? Suede or leather or microfiber? How about contrast stitching or trim? A miniskirt with black tights and black booties. A miniskirt? Well she does mention in another part of the book that a miniskirt may be too short, but black opaque tights makes a very short skirt fashionably skirt. So this look of mini skirt, black tights and booties will work for the office? And since this works with miniskirts, that means it can look good with my denim skirt? How about my purple floral rayon skirt that shrunk a bit in the wash but is still cute? ![]() Okay, so now we hear we don’t want a bootie that cuts straight across and the illustration shows one that dips down in front, is black with a stiletto heel and a red collar of sorts around the ankle (see illustration above, taken directly from her book). Is this the style of boot we should be looking for? This is the boot we should wear with black tights and denim miniskirts or with our black chinos?Hitting up the most widely accessible retailers for American women (Payless, Target, Wal Mart, Zappos and Macy’s), the only boots I could find under $100 that seemed to slightly fit the description Nina Garcia gave (black, ankle bootie, not a straight cut, black) were these pleated suede numbers from Abaete for Payless (left), and the “Darcy” bootie by Alfani (Found at Macy’s) (right). So next, Nina tells us that this boot can replace classic black pumps. So pretty much, one can get the Darcy bootie (which has a two-tone look JUST like the bootie that Nina suggests) and be able to wear it with black pants tucked in them, pair it with black tights and a denim mini skirt, or wear them to a wedding this weekend with a black crepe sheath dress and pearls! Awesome! Please know I am saying this with pure sarcasm, and that I don't think either boot pictured would work for what Nina is suggesting. On top of all this bootie confusion, what if the woman is 4’11”? Or maybe she is 6’2”? What if she is a size 16? Has a size 12 foot? What if she is 21? Or what if she is 71? How is this “wardrobe staple” advice? I’ll admit it, I have seen some women look utterly fabulous with black pants tucked into boots like these. Thing is, the woman usually works in a creative field, has legs a mile long, wears a single-digit clothing size, and knows that the pants need to be very skinny and the boot a little bit of slouch/definition to actually look cool and appropriate. The same holds for the bootie with a mini – she already knows that this will look best with a solid colored dress or skirt of either a substantial fabric or a sparkly cocktail fabric (lame, sequins). She also knows how short is short, and what would be appropriate for her workplace. Finally, she would rock the heck out of those boots with an LBD, but she knows the look is for the wedding of her artist cousin’s Big Day in Chicago, not the one of her college roommate who lives in the next town and is a private-school teacher. However, women read these books, try their darndest to emulate the stylish author with what they have available – a far smaller budget, limited shopping locations, a far more traditional social calendar, a more conservative or casual work environment, and a body that is usually not built thanks to home-delivered Zone diets, a nutritionist, yoga instructor and personal trainer. The reader gathers that which she can afford or replicate on the list, feeling that if she at least has a few Hanes tee shirts or an H&M trench she will be that much closer to style success. However style doesn’t come with what you collect, or what list you follow. Yes, even I have a list but I know it won’t necessarily work for all women and I know it doesn’t create instant style. My list is created for those who do not know exactly where to start – my hope is it is a canvas, a survival kit so all women have a base wardrobe. Style does not come from aviator sunglasses or diamond studs, style does not come from imitating another. Style comes from getting to know and understand yourself, your life, your body, your mind. Having a base wardrobe helps free up the mind to get creative and personal; it takes guesswork out of every day. It forces you to think… what will make this simple sweater and pants combination more ME? I adore Nina Garcia – I find her style to be unique yet full of class, I love her brutal honesty and view on Project Runway, and always gobble up her articles in Elle. However Nina Garcia’s books (and the books by many celebrities and celebrity stylists) are more so Chick Lit than reference; they are a peek into a fabulous world of a fashion editor or actress who jet-sets, works in a field where daring fashion is expected, and has drinks with celebutantes. To read Garcia’s list of one hundred items that create style is to peek into her closet and her life, not to help one find her own sense of style. The problem is America is full of women who are confused. Dove tells us to love our bodies yet stores predominately sell clothing for a different shaped person. We are told to manage our money, yet are told that we can’t be chic without an It Bag. We are celebrated for being intelligent, and trashed for not donning the latest fashions. Magazines, television shows, even the news informs us of what is hot, what is a must-have without considering finances or lifestyle. We are bombarded with products to make us look younger, be thinner, pretend to be richer, attempt to imitate the latest hot celebrity. All these so-called “style” books just add to the frustration and confusion, and it’s just plain cruel. It’s taking advantage of these confused women, stealing away their precious pennies in hopes of finding Fashion Nirvana between the pages. I know that most women I encounter are just trying to figure out how to get through the day looking presentable and appropriate, not what to wear to a black tie gala or a trip to Ibiza. And most women I encounter can’t or wouldn’t wear half of the things suggested on must-have lists or as style savers. Point is, enjoy the books as you would a great piece of Chick Lit, or even a coffee table art book. See the beauty, get lost inn the fantasy, and even use it for a bit of inspiration. But know that most of these style books are not gospel, and are normally not written for the average woman. Some books that I have found to actually be helpful: The Pocket Stylist: Behind-the-Scenes Expertise from a Fashion Pro on Creating Your Own Look Simple Isn't Easy: How to Find Your Personal Style and Look Fantastic Every Day! Color Me Beautiful |
September 25, 2008
Review: Petite and Tall at Old Navy!
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September 23, 2008
Great for Tim Gunn, Not For You
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September 11, 2008
Ask Allie - Fighting That Office Chill
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Worth The Money – My Love Affair with Duo Boots
Thank you for your email. I have had a look at your blog and seen how pleased you were with your Bern boots, so I’m very sorry that you have had these sizing problems since. Um, how often do you encounter such personalized, caring and detailed customer service from a company? The letter was longer, and mentioned that she visited my blog, saw the Bern boots on me and agreed they were a good fit, looked up the size of the Berns that I kept to ensure I re-ordered the right calf size, and even offered free shipping on the next pair that I ordered. This is why I return to Duo. I am so impressed with their dedication to their clients, the quality of their product, the variety of styles, and that they seem to really care about me, and not just my money. I haven’t chosen a replacement pair, but do know when I do… you will all get a full review of them! |
September 9, 2008
Product Review – Bamboo U
Shirts from Bamboo U are 70% bamboo and 30% organic cotton. They use natural water-based inks for their silk-screening and do a great job of limiting packaging and marketing materials – advertising their company without tearing down a bunch of trees in the process. I have washed my shirt three times, have line and machine dried it and each time it comes out looking like new and feeling just as soft. Interested in getting your own Bamboo U shirt? Check them out at myspace.com/bamboou or this article at Bio-Based News. |
September 8, 2008
Ask Allie: Linen after Labor Day, Updating a Casual Wardrobe, Preventing the Muffin Top
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Today Only - 30% off at Banana Republic!
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September 3, 2008
Ask Allie - Fabrics that Compliment Knee High Boots
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NY Fashion Week from a Real Woman's Perspective
Many women hate fashion because they can't see it work for them. Not many of us are a size 00 and six feet tall (nor have an unlimited budget for couture and designer duds). Fashion is for the rich, the thin, the superficial, right? Miranda Priestly: You go to your closet and you select out, oh I don't know, that lumpy blue sweater, for instance, because you're trying to tell the world that you take yourself too seriously to care about what you put on your back. But what you don't know is that that sweater is not just blue, it's not turquoise, it's not lapis, it's actually cerulean. You're also blithely unaware of the fact that in 2002, Oscar De La Renta did a collection of cerulean gowns. And then I think it was Yves St Laurent, wasn't it, who showed cerulean military jackets? I think we need a jacket here. And then cerulean quickly showed up in the collections of eight different designers. Then it filtered down through the department stores and then trickled on down into some tragic Casual Corner where you, no doubt, fished it out of some clearance bin. However, that blue represents millions of dollars and countless jobs and so it's sort of comical how you think that you've made a choice that exempts you from the fashion industry when, in fact, you're wearing the sweater that was selected for you by the people in this room. From a pile of stuff.Point of this quote (thank you IMDB) is that fashion DOES affect all of us, whether we care to admit it or not. To attempt to shun such a major industry because us square pegs do not fit into its round holes only does ourselves a disservice. My dear friend Sarah Conley of the blog StyleIT has worked in the fashion industry since her college days majoring in Apparel Studies at the University of Arkansas. Like most of us Americans, Sarah is not the shape of a supermodel, and doesn't have the income of one either. She has spent most of her career behind the keyboard of her Mac reporting on the latest trends, but always felt a bit self-conscious when at the tents of Bryant Park for New York Fashion Week. This year Sarah decided to get out from behind the laptop and document her experince at New York Fashion Week as a plus-sized woman. From September 3-12, she will be providing video and blog recaps of her experiences in the tents. When retailers got word of her project, they jumped at the chance at sponsoring her. She will be sporting fashions from great companies like Old Navy, Lane Bryant, Figleaves, IGIGI, Barefoot Tess, Silhouettes, b&lu and more. I am so thrilled for Sarah and cannot WAIT for these recaps! I encourage you to visit StyleIT and see her updates from the tents... and see for yourself that fashion CAN work for every woman! |





























