Tomorrow morning I have my weekly appointment and will find out how dilated I am.
No real stuff going on that makes me think labor is happening soon - none of the symptoms, not even any Braxton Hicks. Just tired and achy and antsy. Hip joints, back and knees are getting a bit sick of this state of pregnancy, but mentally I am okay if she sticks around a few more days or so.
House is almost complete. Supposedly the kitchen sink and counters will be installed tomorrow - this is the third date they have given us and it sucks to have a kitchen almost complete except for open drawers and exposed dishwasher and no water. Sigh.
They have completed one coat of paint in the nursery, just need a second coat, chair rail, install the fan light and clean up the wood floors and it will be complete.
Once it's finished I will take pictures; I just feel like right now it doesn't look great because there's pantry and kitchen stuff in the living room, a dozen cans of paint and our old fridge in the dining room, stacks of stuff awaiting furniture in the office, etc.
It's hard because I see so much I want to do and cannot do it because I am on bed rest. Each time I go downstairs I take a handful of plates and kitchen stuff; when I come upstairs I bring some laundry or books. But that's all I can do and I wake at 3am making lists of what needs to be accomplished before the baby arrives. :)
On the fashion front, it's pretty sad. I am down to very few items that fit me and are comfortable - my Old Navy ponte trousers are still a staple; I usually match them with some jersey or tee shirt style top from Gap or Old Navy. Though my blood pressure is under control, I still have swollen ankles and feet so I am living in slippers, Crocs or bare feet around the house and am... *GASP* leaving the house in the Crocs. I know! I hate myself for doing it, but I just don't have anything else left that still fits and I just can't stomach purchasing shoes now that may be the wrong size in a couple of weeks.
Hair is air dry except for the bangs to encourage the curl. Makeup is Philosophy's The Supernatural mineral foundation in Beige, The Clinique shadow duo in Like Mink, Cover Girl LashBlast mascara in Rich Black and either Clinique Long Wear lipstick in Beauty or Bare Escentuals Buxom lip gloss in Dolly. I keep these pieces in my purse because my dressing table is not put together and I keep my purse next to my bed for easy access.
Hope everyone is well and enjoying the holiday season!
December 29, 2008
December 25, 2008
Merry Christmas!
To those that celebrate this holiday, I wish you a Merry Christmas!
Not much is new here... still on bedrest, still no baby. The house is going well - yesterday they installed the kitchen cabinets and appliances. No sink or counters, but the fridge, range and microwave are working! We should have the rest within a week. It's really coming together which is exciting.
Christmas had me cheat on bedrest - we went to my mom's for breakfast and to open presents. We then came home so I could take a long nap, and we went back for dinner and hanging out. We kept the crowd small this year since we didn't know what state I would be in (and if we would have an additional family member). Just immediate family.
Got some fun things - two surprisingly stylish nursing clothing (a tank and a dress), a ton of knee high socks from my sister (I ADORE knee socks under trousers and tall boots and she got me the coolest patterns), I got the Nars Monoi Body Glow II which is so decadent and smells like elegant summer. Five years ago we only received seven place settings of our wedding flatware from Crate & Barrel and I received three more sets which was wonderful. Got some other lovely things, and was glad to see people happy with what I bought them. :)
Ruckus got a rope twisted frisbee of sorts from my mom and was gnawing on it earlier and is now napping on the floor with his face and paw protectively over it. I ordered him an LL Bean dog bed to celebrate the new house but it hasn't yet arrived. We're listening to some new CDs my husband got (NIN, Kings of Leon, Legendary Pink Dots, PJ Harvey, TV on the Radio).
Yesterday our new mattress arrived. Embarrassed to admit it, but we have been sleeping on a mattress that we inherited from my husband's mom... and she passed away a bit over a decade ago. I have been waking up in pain, and he has been having back and neck issues. We figured a new mattress was a better investment than regular massages and chiropractor appointments so we researched, price compared and finally got one. This morning was the first time in MONTHS that I woke up and was able to walk instead of hobble to the bathroom. We decided this was a better purchase than new living room furniture, so we will be enjoying our "new" home with our old furniture for a while longer. No worries... today as I waited for my husband to finish letting the dog out/play with him outside before we returned to my mom's house, I sat at my dining table facing my new kitchen, marveling at all the light, the angles, the colors, the beauty of it. And really, I love it even with my old just-out-of-college IKEA furniture that hardly fills the space. Just having all the room and conveniences of a modern home is so wonderful.
I think they will finish the baby's room before Monday so we can bring the crib, clothes and all the baby stuff from my mom's and settle in. Pretty exciting!
I don't know how much I will be online this holiday week, but I will try to at least post (or have my sister post for me) when the baby arrives! :) If I don't speak to you beforehand, happy new year everyone! Have fun, be safe and be well!
Not much is new here... still on bedrest, still no baby. The house is going well - yesterday they installed the kitchen cabinets and appliances. No sink or counters, but the fridge, range and microwave are working! We should have the rest within a week. It's really coming together which is exciting.
Christmas had me cheat on bedrest - we went to my mom's for breakfast and to open presents. We then came home so I could take a long nap, and we went back for dinner and hanging out. We kept the crowd small this year since we didn't know what state I would be in (and if we would have an additional family member). Just immediate family.
Got some fun things - two surprisingly stylish nursing clothing (a tank and a dress), a ton of knee high socks from my sister (I ADORE knee socks under trousers and tall boots and she got me the coolest patterns), I got the Nars Monoi Body Glow II which is so decadent and smells like elegant summer. Five years ago we only received seven place settings of our wedding flatware from Crate & Barrel and I received three more sets which was wonderful. Got some other lovely things, and was glad to see people happy with what I bought them. :)
Ruckus got a rope twisted frisbee of sorts from my mom and was gnawing on it earlier and is now napping on the floor with his face and paw protectively over it. I ordered him an LL Bean dog bed to celebrate the new house but it hasn't yet arrived. We're listening to some new CDs my husband got (NIN, Kings of Leon, Legendary Pink Dots, PJ Harvey, TV on the Radio).
Yesterday our new mattress arrived. Embarrassed to admit it, but we have been sleeping on a mattress that we inherited from my husband's mom... and she passed away a bit over a decade ago. I have been waking up in pain, and he has been having back and neck issues. We figured a new mattress was a better investment than regular massages and chiropractor appointments so we researched, price compared and finally got one. This morning was the first time in MONTHS that I woke up and was able to walk instead of hobble to the bathroom. We decided this was a better purchase than new living room furniture, so we will be enjoying our "new" home with our old furniture for a while longer. No worries... today as I waited for my husband to finish letting the dog out/play with him outside before we returned to my mom's house, I sat at my dining table facing my new kitchen, marveling at all the light, the angles, the colors, the beauty of it. And really, I love it even with my old just-out-of-college IKEA furniture that hardly fills the space. Just having all the room and conveniences of a modern home is so wonderful.
I think they will finish the baby's room before Monday so we can bring the crib, clothes and all the baby stuff from my mom's and settle in. Pretty exciting!
I don't know how much I will be online this holiday week, but I will try to at least post (or have my sister post for me) when the baby arrives! :) If I don't speak to you beforehand, happy new year everyone! Have fun, be safe and be well!
December 19, 2008
Online Addictions
One thing with being pregnant and then being on bed rest... your laptop becomes your dearest friend.
Yes, it is great to IM with friends, visit Facebook and see what is up with old classmates, chat on message boards and check email... but the shopping it totally heavenly.
I started Christmas shopping in July because I knew as I got closer to the holidays I wouldn't have the mind or the time to shop. At least 80% of my shopping was done online- better prices, better variety and usually I could get free shipping, or at least a kick-back from Ebates to balance the shipping fee.
Well it expanded - the only maternity clothes I purchased in an actual brick and mortar store were a pair of pants from Target. Everything else was online. For the baby - we decided to cloth diaper and each paycheck I would scour the 'net for some fabulous sale or gently used stock to add to my collection.
And then Drugstore.com... oh how I love you so. First, you are partnered with Ebates so I get money back for each purchase. Second, your prices are usually cheaper than Target or CVS. Third, you always give me money towards a purchase or free shipping to lure me back. Fourth, you are partnered with Beauty.com so I can get witch hazel, designer cologne for my husband, red raspberry leaf teabags, prenatal vitamins, foundation primer and bubble bath all in one shipment to my house. Oh, and FAST shipping too!
Then there are sites like Etsy that are worse than meth - so terribly addictive. Not just for adorable baby things, but holiday gifts, eco-friendly home products, and one of a kind jewelry and fashions.
Now that I am bed-ridden and we do not have a TV in our bedroom (and due to the remodel we currently do not have channels/cable available on our only TV which resides in the living room), I am a huge fan of sites like Hulu.com, instant watch films on Netflix, and other sites that let me catch up with what is going on with my favorite series (today my husband and I snuggled in bed and caught the season finale of Dexter).
Yesterday after my weekly maternity appointment, my Mom and I went to the mall down the street to grab dinner at California Pizza Kitchen. She dropped me off at the curb because even at 8:30 on a Thursday, the parking lot was insane. The wait was 15 minutes for a table (far less than Cheesecake Factory or Macaroni Grill), and the mall was PACKED with people carrying bags and bags and bags. Everyone looked exhausted, stressed, and over the holiday spirit. I thought about my presents that arrived via USPS and UPS that I wrapped earlier in the day. The only stress was worrying that the delivery guy would still drop off the package at my torn up construction site of a yard.
It is a sad world we live in where so many people are recluses, hiding in their homes and living out their social lives via places like SecondLife. However I don't think that modern technology is all bad. I worked retail for a very long time and spent almost a decade of my life experiencing the holiday season from the insides of a mall. I thought it would feel amazing to be on the other side of that cash wrap once I left the field. Not so much... in fact once I left retail I almost completely left the mall. I think I visit a classic mall less than five times a year. This year I went three times - once before I was pregnant, once with my friend to help her find new trousers and update her wardrobe, and once on Black Friday where I stayed for less than two hours and didn't purchase a single thing. Social interaction is not at its best in the shopping arena and I feel that the time and stress I save from shopping online gives me more opportunity to have proper quality time with quality people.
I type this as my husband takes his shower; I have a Netflix movie queued up in another tab and have just lotioned up my face, hands and feet for bed with creams from Body Shop online and Drugstore.com. The sheets and comforter on my bed, the curtains on my windows, the yoga pants I wear and even the laptop I am using all came from online shopping. It's a pretty grand existence - one that is far less stressful, frazzled or full thanks to my scary online addictions. :)
Yes, it is great to IM with friends, visit Facebook and see what is up with old classmates, chat on message boards and check email... but the shopping it totally heavenly.
I started Christmas shopping in July because I knew as I got closer to the holidays I wouldn't have the mind or the time to shop. At least 80% of my shopping was done online- better prices, better variety and usually I could get free shipping, or at least a kick-back from Ebates to balance the shipping fee.
Well it expanded - the only maternity clothes I purchased in an actual brick and mortar store were a pair of pants from Target. Everything else was online. For the baby - we decided to cloth diaper and each paycheck I would scour the 'net for some fabulous sale or gently used stock to add to my collection.
And then Drugstore.com... oh how I love you so. First, you are partnered with Ebates so I get money back for each purchase. Second, your prices are usually cheaper than Target or CVS. Third, you always give me money towards a purchase or free shipping to lure me back. Fourth, you are partnered with Beauty.com so I can get witch hazel, designer cologne for my husband, red raspberry leaf teabags, prenatal vitamins, foundation primer and bubble bath all in one shipment to my house. Oh, and FAST shipping too!
Then there are sites like Etsy that are worse than meth - so terribly addictive. Not just for adorable baby things, but holiday gifts, eco-friendly home products, and one of a kind jewelry and fashions.
Now that I am bed-ridden and we do not have a TV in our bedroom (and due to the remodel we currently do not have channels/cable available on our only TV which resides in the living room), I am a huge fan of sites like Hulu.com, instant watch films on Netflix, and other sites that let me catch up with what is going on with my favorite series (today my husband and I snuggled in bed and caught the season finale of Dexter).
Yesterday after my weekly maternity appointment, my Mom and I went to the mall down the street to grab dinner at California Pizza Kitchen. She dropped me off at the curb because even at 8:30 on a Thursday, the parking lot was insane. The wait was 15 minutes for a table (far less than Cheesecake Factory or Macaroni Grill), and the mall was PACKED with people carrying bags and bags and bags. Everyone looked exhausted, stressed, and over the holiday spirit. I thought about my presents that arrived via USPS and UPS that I wrapped earlier in the day. The only stress was worrying that the delivery guy would still drop off the package at my torn up construction site of a yard.
It is a sad world we live in where so many people are recluses, hiding in their homes and living out their social lives via places like SecondLife. However I don't think that modern technology is all bad. I worked retail for a very long time and spent almost a decade of my life experiencing the holiday season from the insides of a mall. I thought it would feel amazing to be on the other side of that cash wrap once I left the field. Not so much... in fact once I left retail I almost completely left the mall. I think I visit a classic mall less than five times a year. This year I went three times - once before I was pregnant, once with my friend to help her find new trousers and update her wardrobe, and once on Black Friday where I stayed for less than two hours and didn't purchase a single thing. Social interaction is not at its best in the shopping arena and I feel that the time and stress I save from shopping online gives me more opportunity to have proper quality time with quality people.
I type this as my husband takes his shower; I have a Netflix movie queued up in another tab and have just lotioned up my face, hands and feet for bed with creams from Body Shop online and Drugstore.com. The sheets and comforter on my bed, the curtains on my windows, the yoga pants I wear and even the laptop I am using all came from online shopping. It's a pretty grand existence - one that is far less stressful, frazzled or full thanks to my scary online addictions. :)
December 17, 2008
Holding On To The Past
I become emotionally attached to clothing. I think many of us do - I surely see it when I do closet clean-outs and wardrobe makeovers. People who cling to dresses three sizes too small, jeans with zipper ankles, Doc Martens, concert tee shirts because they remind the owner of a happy occasion.
With a max of four possible weeks left in this pregnancy, I have started packing up some of my maternity clothes. I know a few pieces will still be worn a couple weeks after the baby, but I packed up the items from the warmer months, or the pieces that just won't be likely to be worn any time soon (hello skirt suit and tankini).
My plan was to sell that which I didn't really love, and carefully pack that which I did in the attic. I try to inventory that which goes in the attic - I make a list which goes at the top of the container for easy reference, and label the outside of the container so I don't have to yank open everything to find last summer's shorts.
Well a friend found out recently that she is pregnant and due in June. I just can't let these nice clothes sit in an attic until whenever, if ever I get pregnant again. So I re-invetorized my maternity wardrobe, not separating for sale. I figure I will let her use whatever works for her, and then afterwards decide what to sell.
As my husband slept, I put my pregnancy insomnia to good use and locked myself in my closet (oh yeah baby, I so need to take a picture of my new closet for you guys - I can sit in it!) and re-went through all my maternity clothes that will not be in current rotation. Some I hardly realized I even owned, some I won't miss (hello white jeans from Ann Taylor Loft that seemed to grow a size with every washing), and some... well some almost made me tear up.
As with regular wardrobes, there are just some pieces you purchase without much of a thought that become a major part of your life. For me, it was my pink print matte jersey dress from Motherhood.
It was August, I went to Rehoboth Beach with my mom and sister for our annual girls' getaway. We stopped at the Motherhood Maternity outlet. I have despised maternity clothing stores my entire pregnancy and just looked at the over crowded racks of acrylic sweaters and wanted to run as fast as I could. My sister however started digging through racks, trying to find great style at a great bargain. She came across this dress. It was my size, and it was only $9.99. I am not one for loud prints, but I decided to try it.
It fit, and it was cute.
Two months later, it still fit and still was cute.
If it weren't 40 degrees outside, it would most likely still be worn, still fit and still be cute.
This dress was an easy go-to piece for me. It flattered my pregnant figure, it was cheery colors, it didn't itch or bind but made me look appropriate for baby showers, nights out, work, and anything where yoga pants weren't allowed. Every time I wore it, I received compliments from strangers. People told me I was a cute pregnant person, and my skin was glowing. Each time I put it on, my husband would smile and tell me how beautiful I was pregnant.
It's so tempting to keep it in the closet... maybe I can still carry it off with a cardigan and leggings? Maybe it would still fit post-baby? Should I really lend it to a friend - what if it gets damaged?
Then I think of those tapered jeans, sequined tanks and fuzzy snowflake sweaters in the closets of my clients and friends. Those pieces that people hang on to from when they were smaller, younger, more daring, more sociable. They hardly ever see the light of day, and if the owner does get down to that size or back to that lifestyle - the item no longer is flattering or stylish. This dress, which got me through so much of my pregnancy may be something I find utterly repulsive in a couple of years. This dress, which brought me confidence and happiness could provide joy for another mother-to-be instead of collecting dust in my closet or attic.
Some times I think about clothes I no longer own and wish I still had them. Why did I get rid of my The Smiths tee shirt? Those perfectly worn vintage jeans from Moondoggies in College Park, that ivory Victorian lace blouse I used to wear with just a simple bra (oh yeah, the early '90s - but I could sport it now with a camisole!)? Then I remember - I got rid of them because it was time. I know I don't donate and toss willy-nilly, so there must have been a good reason. Maybe they were damaged, maybe they went out of fashion, maybe my memories of the garment are better than the actual thing.
Maybe we all are holding onto the past in our closets. Last night I took everything from my old closet and moved it into my new one, switching our dry cleaning hangers for proper ones, having everything hang in the right direction, and re-examining that which I felt deserved precious closet real estate. I ended up removing about five items that just were not proper style or quality. The year is ending, just a couple of weeks and we will be in 2009. What in your closet is not worthy of your new year self?
With a max of four possible weeks left in this pregnancy, I have started packing up some of my maternity clothes. I know a few pieces will still be worn a couple weeks after the baby, but I packed up the items from the warmer months, or the pieces that just won't be likely to be worn any time soon (hello skirt suit and tankini).
My plan was to sell that which I didn't really love, and carefully pack that which I did in the attic. I try to inventory that which goes in the attic - I make a list which goes at the top of the container for easy reference, and label the outside of the container so I don't have to yank open everything to find last summer's shorts.
Well a friend found out recently that she is pregnant and due in June. I just can't let these nice clothes sit in an attic until whenever, if ever I get pregnant again. So I re-invetorized my maternity wardrobe, not separating for sale. I figure I will let her use whatever works for her, and then afterwards decide what to sell.
As my husband slept, I put my pregnancy insomnia to good use and locked myself in my closet (oh yeah baby, I so need to take a picture of my new closet for you guys - I can sit in it!) and re-went through all my maternity clothes that will not be in current rotation. Some I hardly realized I even owned, some I won't miss (hello white jeans from Ann Taylor Loft that seemed to grow a size with every washing), and some... well some almost made me tear up.
As with regular wardrobes, there are just some pieces you purchase without much of a thought that become a major part of your life. For me, it was my pink print matte jersey dress from Motherhood.
It was August, I went to Rehoboth Beach with my mom and sister for our annual girls' getaway. We stopped at the Motherhood Maternity outlet. I have despised maternity clothing stores my entire pregnancy and just looked at the over crowded racks of acrylic sweaters and wanted to run as fast as I could. My sister however started digging through racks, trying to find great style at a great bargain. She came across this dress. It was my size, and it was only $9.99. I am not one for loud prints, but I decided to try it.
It fit, and it was cute.
Two months later, it still fit and still was cute.
If it weren't 40 degrees outside, it would most likely still be worn, still fit and still be cute.
This dress was an easy go-to piece for me. It flattered my pregnant figure, it was cheery colors, it didn't itch or bind but made me look appropriate for baby showers, nights out, work, and anything where yoga pants weren't allowed. Every time I wore it, I received compliments from strangers. People told me I was a cute pregnant person, and my skin was glowing. Each time I put it on, my husband would smile and tell me how beautiful I was pregnant.
It's so tempting to keep it in the closet... maybe I can still carry it off with a cardigan and leggings? Maybe it would still fit post-baby? Should I really lend it to a friend - what if it gets damaged?
Then I think of those tapered jeans, sequined tanks and fuzzy snowflake sweaters in the closets of my clients and friends. Those pieces that people hang on to from when they were smaller, younger, more daring, more sociable. They hardly ever see the light of day, and if the owner does get down to that size or back to that lifestyle - the item no longer is flattering or stylish. This dress, which got me through so much of my pregnancy may be something I find utterly repulsive in a couple of years. This dress, which brought me confidence and happiness could provide joy for another mother-to-be instead of collecting dust in my closet or attic.
Some times I think about clothes I no longer own and wish I still had them. Why did I get rid of my The Smiths tee shirt? Those perfectly worn vintage jeans from Moondoggies in College Park, that ivory Victorian lace blouse I used to wear with just a simple bra (oh yeah, the early '90s - but I could sport it now with a camisole!)? Then I remember - I got rid of them because it was time. I know I don't donate and toss willy-nilly, so there must have been a good reason. Maybe they were damaged, maybe they went out of fashion, maybe my memories of the garment are better than the actual thing.
Maybe we all are holding onto the past in our closets. Last night I took everything from my old closet and moved it into my new one, switching our dry cleaning hangers for proper ones, having everything hang in the right direction, and re-examining that which I felt deserved precious closet real estate. I ended up removing about five items that just were not proper style or quality. The year is ending, just a couple of weeks and we will be in 2009. What in your closet is not worthy of your new year self?
December 16, 2008
Green IS the New Black
Hey guys, bed-ridden Allie here going a bit out of her mind. :) I miss blogging, so I decided to write about something I have gotten more passionate about over the years - finding ways to be green and frugal while still maintaining style and fun in life.
Yes, it really is possible to marry the two. One does not have to grow out her armpit hair and cover B.O. with patchouli to be eco-friendly and wallet-friendly. In fact, many green efforts can be quite beautiful.
1. Crunchy Clean. This stuff is AWESOME. It is a laundry detergent sold on Etsy and Hyena Cart. You need very little (1-2 tablespoons per large load) and it smells utterly divine. There are so many fragrances to choose from – I had Baby Bee and it smelled like baby clothes but was nice for adult garments too. Got a… rosemary and bergamot that I didn’t like because it was too masculine but now have Crisp & Candied for the holiday season and it is delish. The line also has a special detergent for cloth diapers that cleans without soap buildup (causes cloth diapers to repel moisture). The cost ends up being like 35 cents per load – far cheaper than any decent detergent at the grocery store. Also it is shipped with little packaging – less waste (the seller even will give you 50 cents off your next order if you return the bag from the previous order). I currently keep it in the plastic bag, but once the laundry room is finished will go to Goodwill to get some old glass candy jars to store the product nicely.
2. Dryer Balls. Fabric softener makes fabric less absorbent and sometimes irritates the skin (and are extra bottles and shipping costs). Dryer sheets are just extra waste. What to do to prevent static cling but be eco friendly? Dryer balls.
Dryer balls can come in various forms - nubby rubber, vented plastic, tightly wound wool yarn, etc. When they go in the dryer with your clothes, they help fabrics move, prevent static ling and creasing. Once can also use tennis balls but they make quite a racket (har har, I said RACKET). Dryer balls are a gentler version.
Another option is if your washer offers a rinse cycle – a tiny bit of vinegar will prevent most static cling and keep your fabrics nice and soft!
3. Dr. Bronner's Castile Soap
. One bottle can wash your body, your hands, your husband’s hair, your sink, your tub, your baby’s bum, your makeup brushes, your dog, and more. It’s a soap made from essential oils so it doesn’t strip and isn’t full of scary chemicals.
My husband likes the peppermint for his body, I prefer the citrus or almond scents for me. I use the peppermint with baking soda to clean the bathroom, the unfragranced to wash Ruckus. 10% Dr. Bronner’s and 90% water mixed in a foaming hand soap container will replace your Softsoap, Method or Dial. One drop will remove all oils and product from the most expensive of makeup brushes. My husband uses this stuff to wash his hair (he’s low maintenance) and it cleans it without drying it out. You need very very little to get the job done.
I personally love being able to take the bottle of body wash, squeeze some on the tub, sprinkle down some baking soda, push around a sponge, rinse and immediately be able to take a bath. No worries that I am soaking in weird chemicals or tub filth. I also like that if I wash Ruckus, I don’t worry that he will wash himself and end up lapping up leftover soap.
4. Make Your Own Stock. How awesome does your house smell on Thanksgiving? Well you can have that great smell on a more regular basis while getting rid of random vegetable scraps, turkey and chicken carcasses and leftovers AND fill your freezer with lovely homemade stock (which will make food taste great AND make your freezer work less hard to keep everything else cold).
Get some heavy-duty freezer bags. It’s worth it to splurge on the good ones because you can reuse these bags a couple times. Put the date on the front with a sharpie, grease pencil, etc. Then as you cook, fill these bags with scraps. Cut up celery? Dump the soggy pieces, the rough edges, the base into the bag. Same with carrots, the leftover pieces of an onion, the ends of peppers. Those mushrooms that are no longer firm but not yet icky? Don’t toss them, put them in the freezer bag. Also add the leftover baby carrots that got rubbery or white, stems from fresh herbs, fresh spinach that started to wilt, edges of tomatoes that weren’t pretty enough for the salad and most any produce that would otherwise be tossed. Before you toss anything in the bag, be sure it’s clean, and it’s cut up into at least 1” chunks (makes it easier when you get around to actually making the stock).
When you have filled two gallon bags, you’re pretty much ready to start making stock (you may only need one bag if you are making a meat-based stock).
For vegetarian stock:
1. In a heavy stock pot, add a tablespoon or so of olive oil and heat.
2. Sauté the harder veggies (carrots, celery, onions, peppers), garlic and any herbs. If you don’t have all this stuff collected in your bags, you may wish to add a couple cloves of garlic, 2 bay leaves, some fresh thyme and parsley for base flavor.
3. When everything is soft, add a couple quarts of water and a teaspoon of salt. Then add any soft vegetables (spinach leaves, tomatoes).
4. Bring to a boil, then simmer at least 30 minutes (I sometimes let it go almost an hour)
5. Strain through cheesecloth and discard vegetables.
I then store it in Ziploc freezer bags, writing on the front the date and how many cups are in each bag. I usually store 2-3 cups per bag because that is how much I use in a recipe. And yes, those Ziploc baggies get washed and reused for the next go-round.
Before I became a vegetarian, I would make chicken stock every time I had roasted a chicken for a meal. Nothing better to fully get your money’s worth from a bird!
Ingredients:
• 2 1/2 pounds bony chicken pieces (usually worked to just have the chicken carcass that still had some meat and stuff still on it)
• 2 celery ribs with leaves, cut into chunks, 2 medium carrots, cut into chunks, 2 medium onions, quartered (again easily collected in the freezer with previous recipes)
• 2 bay leaves
• 1/2 teaspoon dried rosemary, crushed
• 1/2 teaspoon dried thyme
• 8 whole peppercorns
• 2 quarts cold water
Directions:
1. Place all ingredients in a large stock pot.
2. Slowly bring to a boil; reduce heat.
3. Skim foam.
4. Cover and simmer for 2 hours.
5. Strain broth.
6. Refrigerate overnight so you can skim the fat from the surface.
7. Store in freezer bags just like the veggie stock.
5. Make Your Own Dish Rags. What do you do with old tee shirts? Do you donate them to Goodwill? Throw them in the trash? Lots of time really ratty clothing that is donated is tossed in the trash. Keep stuff from the landfill and reduce your use of paper towels by making those old tees into dish and cleaning rags.
I cut off the side seams, the hem, and right across the sleeves so I end up with two squares/triangles. Then depending on if it is my husband’s XXL tee or my fitted female tee, I may cut it smaller. I usually end up with a couple of pieces a bit larger than the size of a standard paper towel. I don’t serge or hem the edges and never have trouble with fraying. I fold them up and stick them in a pail under the sink, in a drawer, a few in the linen closet upstairs. Then when I need to dust, clean up a spill, wash the dog bowl I grab one. I know some people who keep them always moist in a cleaning solution, but that seems messy and gross to me.
These rags are super handy. They are soft enough to work on delicate surfaces, they pick up dust really well, hold onto cleansers and suds nicely, help polish silver, are awesome at getting rid of the icky dust that accumulates on mini blinds and fan blades, and they can be tossed in the wash and dry super fast (I usually don’t put them in the dryer, just hang them over the dishtowel rack or a shower curtain rod and they are dry soon after). I even use them as napkins when we have messy and casual food like pizza or subs. The only thing I find they suck at is cleaning glass – even after several washes they are prone to dropping lint.
This really can be done with many other garments, but I find tees to be those that are the easiest to cut up, the fastest to go bad in the wardrobe, and the least likely to be resalable at the local thrift store and the sturdiest after many washes.
6. Bring Your Own Bag to Stores. Yes, we all know we are supposed to bring bags to the grocery store. But what about Target? Sephora? Bed, Bath and Beyond?
Nine times out of ten, I find that whatever I buy can usually fit in my purse. A lot of times things that are too big for my purse are really no easier carried with a bag (hello toilet paper, six pack of beer, small electronic already in a box). For all other times, I carry a bag IN my bag.
One year for Christmas I got one of these nylon totes that scrunches up into its own little carrying bag so it’s as small as a compact umbrella. I hardly ever used this bag except for travel – always nice to have an extra carry-on if vacation shopping got out of hand. Well now I tuck it in my purse and whip it out at any store. It’s not really a good size for groceries, but it’s perfect when purchasing one sweater, a few cosmetics, new light switch covers at Home Depot, etc. I bet already in your home you have some little tote that can fold up to almost nothing and fit in your purse!
Another great idea is to make a few produce bags. Hopefully by now you are carrying your own bags to the grocery store, but you are probably still bagging up your produce in those flimsy plastic bags that usually go straight into the trash. You don’t need to be crafty to make up some bags out of mesh, tulle, etc. to use for your apples and oranges. The bags don’t even need a drawstring – if you place them correctly in the cart and in your bag for the way home, your veggies and fruit will be protected just fine. Really, just need to sew three sides like a pillowcase – you can even have one side a print and the other a mesh (just enough for the cashier to see what you are buying).
I also found Reuseable Produce Bags
at Amazon.
And really, stop and think about it. If you are purchasing just two grapefruit, no bag is needed at all. You will wash your produce when you get home, after having people manhandle it in the store, a trip on the conveyor belt and then in your bag heading home is not going to cause any worse of contamination. Most times we don’t use a produce bag at all – we save the reusable ones for things like grapes, tomatoes, leafy greens and other things that can get bruised or fall apart if not properly bagged.
7. Frequent your Local Farmers Market. For the most gorgeous produce, the most savory coffee, the freshest eggs and meats, the prettiest flowers, the coolest crafts and the tastiest breads don’t head to your local Whole Foods – find your nearby farmers market! Farmers markets are no longer just tomatoes and corn – they have such an amazing variety of everything imaginable. Heirloom versions of produce you only see on the Food Network, rare varieties of unexpected fruit, super yum bakery goods, mine even has coffee and ice cream!
Everything is very fresh, nothing is covered in wax, and you are buying that which is in season and grown on the vine. Many celebs this day are doing diets where they only eat what is grown locally and in season – this isn’t to be pretentious. It has been shown that the body is healthier and happier when eating what is correct for your specific region and season. This is also good because you are cutting down on fuel costs to refrigerate and transport food across the country (or countries), and packing materials.
Don’t forget to bring your chic shopping bag with you!
8. Carry Your Own Cup. Every coffee shop these days seems to give you some sort of deal for bringing your own cup – then why the heck don’t you do it? Even if they don’t, your own insulated travel mug is going to keep that java warm and lovely far longer than the paper one from the retailer.
I carry a Camelbak sippy water bottle with me everywhere – it’s water tight, holds 32 ounces, is a pretty teal color and keeps my pregnant self hydrated without spending dough and filling landfills with buying bottled water. At the beginning of the day I fill it with ice and a bit of water – it melts through the day giving me cold water when I need it. I carry it in a part of my bag where condensation is not a problem.
At work, I have my own coffee mug and choose to save dough by using the Starbucks-brand coffee that they have for the kitchen machines. Nothing lovelier than walking through the wintry streets of DC with a steaming cup of coffee from my favorite coffee place, but I can save several bucks (and lots of waste) by waiting until I get to work.
9. Bring Your Lunch. So easy to head to the nearby Au Bon Pain or Burger King for a quick lunch… but it’s not always the most healthy and not always the cheapest option. On top of it, you’re always ending up with tons of paper products going into the trash – from receipt to sandwich wrapper to salt packet to extra napkins.
When you bring your own lunch, you know you won’t find some stranger’s hair in your soup, you won’t have hidden oils and fats, you have more portion control, and it’s better for the planet. Bag lunches don’t have to be bologna sandwiches in paper bags – one can get quite elegant or fun with lunch preparation.
I have seen blogs just about bento lunches, vegan bag lunches, and elegant Mediterranean meals. I know I have the most joy from my lunch when I vary up what I bring. A microwavable container of minestrone soup, a piece of sourdough bread, a slice of cheese, a small square of dark chocolate, a couple olives. Leftovers seem so much nicer when in nice containers and with a cloth napkin. At my job, we have all sorts of fab condiments in the communal kitchen and fridge – from wasabi mayonnaise to pickled ginger to balsamic vinegar. If your office doesn’t do this – ask if your fellow brown-baggers if they would be interested. Saves money, saves waste, makes brown bagging better!
10. Think Before You... do most anything! When you go out to eat, how many napkins do you grab? After reading your paper (or drink your beverage or remove your meal from cardboard), do you put it in a recycling bin or the regular trash? Do you really need to buy cases of bottled water, or would your lifestyle work with a water filtration pitcher or sink attachment? Why throw all those socks and small items in the dryer - hang them over the shower curtain rod and they will be dry by next morning. Unplug those cell and iPod chargers when not in use. Buy in bulk when it makes sense (I have elegant stainless canisters for bulk-purchased brown rice, oatmeal, polenta, flour and beans). Turn down the thermostat just one degree - you won't feel it but your utility bill will. Give your hair a vacation - one day a week let it air dry instead of hitting it with the tools. Visit your local thrift store before Target - amazing the things you can find there (hello Williams Sonoma stainless measuring cups, Crate & Barrel plates, quirky pint glasses from local pubs, etc.). Do a fashion swap day with friends - everyone bring that which they no longer wear and shop from one another's wardrobes. Hit up eBay before you hit up the mall. Amazing what you can do that is so easy, but makes so much sense!
There are so so SO many other ideas - I would love to hear what some of you guys do! :)
Go green with organic plant oils from Melvita
Yes, it really is possible to marry the two. One does not have to grow out her armpit hair and cover B.O. with patchouli to be eco-friendly and wallet-friendly. In fact, many green efforts can be quite beautiful.
1. Crunchy Clean. This stuff is AWESOME. It is a laundry detergent sold on Etsy and Hyena Cart. You need very little (1-2 tablespoons per large load) and it smells utterly divine. There are so many fragrances to choose from – I had Baby Bee and it smelled like baby clothes but was nice for adult garments too. Got a… rosemary and bergamot that I didn’t like because it was too masculine but now have Crisp & Candied for the holiday season and it is delish. The line also has a special detergent for cloth diapers that cleans without soap buildup (causes cloth diapers to repel moisture). The cost ends up being like 35 cents per load – far cheaper than any decent detergent at the grocery store. Also it is shipped with little packaging – less waste (the seller even will give you 50 cents off your next order if you return the bag from the previous order). I currently keep it in the plastic bag, but once the laundry room is finished will go to Goodwill to get some old glass candy jars to store the product nicely.
2. Dryer Balls. Fabric softener makes fabric less absorbent and sometimes irritates the skin (and are extra bottles and shipping costs). Dryer sheets are just extra waste. What to do to prevent static cling but be eco friendly? Dryer balls.
Dryer balls can come in various forms - nubby rubber, vented plastic, tightly wound wool yarn, etc. When they go in the dryer with your clothes, they help fabrics move, prevent static ling and creasing. Once can also use tennis balls but they make quite a racket (har har, I said RACKET). Dryer balls are a gentler version.
Another option is if your washer offers a rinse cycle – a tiny bit of vinegar will prevent most static cling and keep your fabrics nice and soft!
3. Dr. Bronner's Castile Soap
. One bottle can wash your body, your hands, your husband’s hair, your sink, your tub, your baby’s bum, your makeup brushes, your dog, and more. It’s a soap made from essential oils so it doesn’t strip and isn’t full of scary chemicals.My husband likes the peppermint for his body, I prefer the citrus or almond scents for me. I use the peppermint with baking soda to clean the bathroom, the unfragranced to wash Ruckus. 10% Dr. Bronner’s and 90% water mixed in a foaming hand soap container will replace your Softsoap, Method or Dial. One drop will remove all oils and product from the most expensive of makeup brushes. My husband uses this stuff to wash his hair (he’s low maintenance) and it cleans it without drying it out. You need very very little to get the job done.
I personally love being able to take the bottle of body wash, squeeze some on the tub, sprinkle down some baking soda, push around a sponge, rinse and immediately be able to take a bath. No worries that I am soaking in weird chemicals or tub filth. I also like that if I wash Ruckus, I don’t worry that he will wash himself and end up lapping up leftover soap.
4. Make Your Own Stock. How awesome does your house smell on Thanksgiving? Well you can have that great smell on a more regular basis while getting rid of random vegetable scraps, turkey and chicken carcasses and leftovers AND fill your freezer with lovely homemade stock (which will make food taste great AND make your freezer work less hard to keep everything else cold).
Get some heavy-duty freezer bags. It’s worth it to splurge on the good ones because you can reuse these bags a couple times. Put the date on the front with a sharpie, grease pencil, etc. Then as you cook, fill these bags with scraps. Cut up celery? Dump the soggy pieces, the rough edges, the base into the bag. Same with carrots, the leftover pieces of an onion, the ends of peppers. Those mushrooms that are no longer firm but not yet icky? Don’t toss them, put them in the freezer bag. Also add the leftover baby carrots that got rubbery or white, stems from fresh herbs, fresh spinach that started to wilt, edges of tomatoes that weren’t pretty enough for the salad and most any produce that would otherwise be tossed. Before you toss anything in the bag, be sure it’s clean, and it’s cut up into at least 1” chunks (makes it easier when you get around to actually making the stock).
When you have filled two gallon bags, you’re pretty much ready to start making stock (you may only need one bag if you are making a meat-based stock).
For vegetarian stock:
1. In a heavy stock pot, add a tablespoon or so of olive oil and heat.
2. Sauté the harder veggies (carrots, celery, onions, peppers), garlic and any herbs. If you don’t have all this stuff collected in your bags, you may wish to add a couple cloves of garlic, 2 bay leaves, some fresh thyme and parsley for base flavor.
3. When everything is soft, add a couple quarts of water and a teaspoon of salt. Then add any soft vegetables (spinach leaves, tomatoes).
4. Bring to a boil, then simmer at least 30 minutes (I sometimes let it go almost an hour)
5. Strain through cheesecloth and discard vegetables.
I then store it in Ziploc freezer bags, writing on the front the date and how many cups are in each bag. I usually store 2-3 cups per bag because that is how much I use in a recipe. And yes, those Ziploc baggies get washed and reused for the next go-round.
Before I became a vegetarian, I would make chicken stock every time I had roasted a chicken for a meal. Nothing better to fully get your money’s worth from a bird!
Ingredients:
• 2 1/2 pounds bony chicken pieces (usually worked to just have the chicken carcass that still had some meat and stuff still on it)
• 2 celery ribs with leaves, cut into chunks, 2 medium carrots, cut into chunks, 2 medium onions, quartered (again easily collected in the freezer with previous recipes)
• 2 bay leaves
• 1/2 teaspoon dried rosemary, crushed
• 1/2 teaspoon dried thyme
• 8 whole peppercorns
• 2 quarts cold water
Directions:
1. Place all ingredients in a large stock pot.
2. Slowly bring to a boil; reduce heat.
3. Skim foam.
4. Cover and simmer for 2 hours.
5. Strain broth.
6. Refrigerate overnight so you can skim the fat from the surface.
7. Store in freezer bags just like the veggie stock.
5. Make Your Own Dish Rags. What do you do with old tee shirts? Do you donate them to Goodwill? Throw them in the trash? Lots of time really ratty clothing that is donated is tossed in the trash. Keep stuff from the landfill and reduce your use of paper towels by making those old tees into dish and cleaning rags.
I cut off the side seams, the hem, and right across the sleeves so I end up with two squares/triangles. Then depending on if it is my husband’s XXL tee or my fitted female tee, I may cut it smaller. I usually end up with a couple of pieces a bit larger than the size of a standard paper towel. I don’t serge or hem the edges and never have trouble with fraying. I fold them up and stick them in a pail under the sink, in a drawer, a few in the linen closet upstairs. Then when I need to dust, clean up a spill, wash the dog bowl I grab one. I know some people who keep them always moist in a cleaning solution, but that seems messy and gross to me.
These rags are super handy. They are soft enough to work on delicate surfaces, they pick up dust really well, hold onto cleansers and suds nicely, help polish silver, are awesome at getting rid of the icky dust that accumulates on mini blinds and fan blades, and they can be tossed in the wash and dry super fast (I usually don’t put them in the dryer, just hang them over the dishtowel rack or a shower curtain rod and they are dry soon after). I even use them as napkins when we have messy and casual food like pizza or subs. The only thing I find they suck at is cleaning glass – even after several washes they are prone to dropping lint.
This really can be done with many other garments, but I find tees to be those that are the easiest to cut up, the fastest to go bad in the wardrobe, and the least likely to be resalable at the local thrift store and the sturdiest after many washes.
6. Bring Your Own Bag to Stores. Yes, we all know we are supposed to bring bags to the grocery store. But what about Target? Sephora? Bed, Bath and Beyond?
Nine times out of ten, I find that whatever I buy can usually fit in my purse. A lot of times things that are too big for my purse are really no easier carried with a bag (hello toilet paper, six pack of beer, small electronic already in a box). For all other times, I carry a bag IN my bag.
One year for Christmas I got one of these nylon totes that scrunches up into its own little carrying bag so it’s as small as a compact umbrella. I hardly ever used this bag except for travel – always nice to have an extra carry-on if vacation shopping got out of hand. Well now I tuck it in my purse and whip it out at any store. It’s not really a good size for groceries, but it’s perfect when purchasing one sweater, a few cosmetics, new light switch covers at Home Depot, etc. I bet already in your home you have some little tote that can fold up to almost nothing and fit in your purse!
Another great idea is to make a few produce bags. Hopefully by now you are carrying your own bags to the grocery store, but you are probably still bagging up your produce in those flimsy plastic bags that usually go straight into the trash. You don’t need to be crafty to make up some bags out of mesh, tulle, etc. to use for your apples and oranges. The bags don’t even need a drawstring – if you place them correctly in the cart and in your bag for the way home, your veggies and fruit will be protected just fine. Really, just need to sew three sides like a pillowcase – you can even have one side a print and the other a mesh (just enough for the cashier to see what you are buying).
I also found Reuseable Produce Bags
at Amazon.And really, stop and think about it. If you are purchasing just two grapefruit, no bag is needed at all. You will wash your produce when you get home, after having people manhandle it in the store, a trip on the conveyor belt and then in your bag heading home is not going to cause any worse of contamination. Most times we don’t use a produce bag at all – we save the reusable ones for things like grapes, tomatoes, leafy greens and other things that can get bruised or fall apart if not properly bagged.
7. Frequent your Local Farmers Market. For the most gorgeous produce, the most savory coffee, the freshest eggs and meats, the prettiest flowers, the coolest crafts and the tastiest breads don’t head to your local Whole Foods – find your nearby farmers market! Farmers markets are no longer just tomatoes and corn – they have such an amazing variety of everything imaginable. Heirloom versions of produce you only see on the Food Network, rare varieties of unexpected fruit, super yum bakery goods, mine even has coffee and ice cream!
Everything is very fresh, nothing is covered in wax, and you are buying that which is in season and grown on the vine. Many celebs this day are doing diets where they only eat what is grown locally and in season – this isn’t to be pretentious. It has been shown that the body is healthier and happier when eating what is correct for your specific region and season. This is also good because you are cutting down on fuel costs to refrigerate and transport food across the country (or countries), and packing materials.
Don’t forget to bring your chic shopping bag with you!
8. Carry Your Own Cup. Every coffee shop these days seems to give you some sort of deal for bringing your own cup – then why the heck don’t you do it? Even if they don’t, your own insulated travel mug is going to keep that java warm and lovely far longer than the paper one from the retailer.
I carry a Camelbak sippy water bottle with me everywhere – it’s water tight, holds 32 ounces, is a pretty teal color and keeps my pregnant self hydrated without spending dough and filling landfills with buying bottled water. At the beginning of the day I fill it with ice and a bit of water – it melts through the day giving me cold water when I need it. I carry it in a part of my bag where condensation is not a problem.
At work, I have my own coffee mug and choose to save dough by using the Starbucks-brand coffee that they have for the kitchen machines. Nothing lovelier than walking through the wintry streets of DC with a steaming cup of coffee from my favorite coffee place, but I can save several bucks (and lots of waste) by waiting until I get to work.
9. Bring Your Lunch. So easy to head to the nearby Au Bon Pain or Burger King for a quick lunch… but it’s not always the most healthy and not always the cheapest option. On top of it, you’re always ending up with tons of paper products going into the trash – from receipt to sandwich wrapper to salt packet to extra napkins.
When you bring your own lunch, you know you won’t find some stranger’s hair in your soup, you won’t have hidden oils and fats, you have more portion control, and it’s better for the planet. Bag lunches don’t have to be bologna sandwiches in paper bags – one can get quite elegant or fun with lunch preparation.
I have seen blogs just about bento lunches, vegan bag lunches, and elegant Mediterranean meals. I know I have the most joy from my lunch when I vary up what I bring. A microwavable container of minestrone soup, a piece of sourdough bread, a slice of cheese, a small square of dark chocolate, a couple olives. Leftovers seem so much nicer when in nice containers and with a cloth napkin. At my job, we have all sorts of fab condiments in the communal kitchen and fridge – from wasabi mayonnaise to pickled ginger to balsamic vinegar. If your office doesn’t do this – ask if your fellow brown-baggers if they would be interested. Saves money, saves waste, makes brown bagging better!
10. Think Before You... do most anything! When you go out to eat, how many napkins do you grab? After reading your paper (or drink your beverage or remove your meal from cardboard), do you put it in a recycling bin or the regular trash? Do you really need to buy cases of bottled water, or would your lifestyle work with a water filtration pitcher or sink attachment? Why throw all those socks and small items in the dryer - hang them over the shower curtain rod and they will be dry by next morning. Unplug those cell and iPod chargers when not in use. Buy in bulk when it makes sense (I have elegant stainless canisters for bulk-purchased brown rice, oatmeal, polenta, flour and beans). Turn down the thermostat just one degree - you won't feel it but your utility bill will. Give your hair a vacation - one day a week let it air dry instead of hitting it with the tools. Visit your local thrift store before Target - amazing the things you can find there (hello Williams Sonoma stainless measuring cups, Crate & Barrel plates, quirky pint glasses from local pubs, etc.). Do a fashion swap day with friends - everyone bring that which they no longer wear and shop from one another's wardrobes. Hit up eBay before you hit up the mall. Amazing what you can do that is so easy, but makes so much sense!
There are so so SO many other ideas - I would love to hear what some of you guys do! :)
Go green with organic plant oils from Melvita
December 12, 2008
What to Wear When Working From Home
Many readers write to me, stating that my staples and many of my posts do not work for them because they either work from home, or are stay at home mothers or wives. As someone who never did work from home, I would always respond back that there is life outside of your house and you should be prepared; anyway you will feel better and be more productive if you are well turned out.
I often got responses back that I didn't know what I was talking about; to be in your home comfort is key, style is not important.
Well I am now working from home, on semi-bedrest no less. As I type this I am in my bedroom, my laptop on a tray table. I have been like this for a bit and will be until my baby arrives. Once she arrives I have six weeks of maternity leave at home and a couple of transition weeks - working from home, part time working at the office until I return back as a full-time office employee.
As I type this, I am in black ponte trousers, a gray silky jersey empire-waist top, black socks and diamond stud earrings. My hair has been blown out, I am wearing tinted moisturizer, rosy lipstick and mascara. There is a good chance I will see no one but my dog and husband all day, and that the only time I leave this bed is to use the rest room or refill my water bottle.
However when I started working from home, I relished in the idea of not having to worry about my attire. I often worked the day in a variation of what I slept in - knits, sweats, garments better made for my Saturday yoga classes. It was fun, decadent to not put on a bra, not "do" my hair, and just be comfortable.
My schedule was one day working from home, next day working from the office. I started noticing that the days I had to go to the office, I was dreading them. I wasn't dreading the office or the work, but the need to pull myself together and look professional. I started having more difficulty pulling together a decent outfit from the clothing I already owned and knew so well. The days I worked form home seemed to drag on longer than necessary - often because I would get distracted with a non-work Web site or the desire to do housework instead of payroll work.
I decided that each morning that I felt well, I would try to pull myself together. Shower, an easy wash-and-wear hairstyle (for me is letting the hair air dry with a tiny bit of product and then come back later to smooth the bangs for 5 seconds with a round brush and dryer), small bit of makeup to make me look alive (amazing what a quick swipe of blush and mascara can do for the face). As for clothing, well I wasn't going to endure bedrest in constricting denim, but I could do it with dresses and leggings, and pants made out of knits.
My morning routine is less than ten minutes because for me, showering at night works better with my schedule. Those ten minutes each morning make me a more productive at-home employee, have less concern with having to leave the house last minute or sign for a package when the UPS driver comes to the door. With my exterior organized, my interior seems to be more organized as well. I feel less tired, less sluggish, and more receptive to visitors.
The easiest way to be polished at home, is to start with the purchases. Be careful with every purchase you make - can it handle time on the floor, in bed, and to be accidently tossed in the dryer by your spouse? Keep away from that which will fade, requires ironing or special washing instructions. Also keep away from that which resembles gym attire, sleepwear, or something that your husband would wear. It's better to have less that is quality than more that is junk. As you find great durable and flattering pieces, donate those which aren't up to snuff.
A few pieces I have found to be great while being at home:
Old Navy's Stretch Ponte Mid-Rise Wide-Leg Trousers - I love love love these trousers. They look elegant, but they are made of fabric that is as comfy as sweats. The fabric is heavy enough to hide lumps and bumps and look work-worthy. They have a classic waistband and zipper, but they don't dig into your tummy, even when sitting or reclining. They are machine washable - I usually hang them to dry, but they have also gone in the dryer when I have been in a rush and they haven't pilled, shrunk or faded.
I usually despise slash pockets, but these lie pretty nicely. Best of all - they come in petite and tall lengths! $34.50, currently only available in black. Get yourself two pairs so you have some ready while the other pair is in the wash.
J. Crew Merino Sweaters - Their turtlenecks are cozy while looking elegant, the crewnecks are a stylish alternative to a sweatshirt, and the v-necks add femininity to your simple outfit. Unlike cotton, merino usually keeps it shape and color through many wears and washes. Unlike cashmere, it's usually at a reasonable price point. The tight weave glides over curves, isn't itchy like shetland and looks polished. Come winter, I often layer with a tencel, silk or fine jersey tee or camisole underneath (a silk undershirt is incredibly warm without bulk). Black and gray are always chic, but bright colors are always nice to see and wear. Consider a jewel tone that pleases your eye - it will go with black, gray, camel, denim and other neutrals just as nicely as a more subtle or predictable color. Though the sweaters usually say Dry Clean Only, I have always washed my merinos on the gentle cycle in the machine with Woolie or a gentle landry wash, and either hung them up on a padded hanger or lay them on a towel on top of the dryer to dry. This specific merino turtleneck has select colors on sale for $39.99 - not too shabby!
Wrap Sweaters - This one is from Target. Wrap sweaters are great because they offer the layer you want, but flatter your feminine shape far better than a sweater coat or hoodie. This could work over a nursing tank, a cami, a tee, a turtleneck all with ease and look elegant and feminine. Sweaters and tops that wrap to the side give the illusion of a smaller waist; lightweight sweaters add warmth without bulk to your frame, and again this is a great way to add a pop of color to your basic neutrals. This specific sweater is under $25; I have found great wrap sweaters at Gap, Ann Taylor, Nordstrom, Macy's, and more usually under $50. Another ting - if the sweater is layered over a cami or tank, you don't have to wash it as often. Have a Tide to Go pen at the ready, and you can get more miles between washes!
Mossimo Ultra Soft Long-Sleeved V-Neck Sweaters - I learned about this sweater from another blogger and agree that they are fab! They are super cozy and soft like cashmere, but far less in cost. They come in a good range of colors and seem to flatter a variety of shapes of women.
Very nice with trousers, jeans or even with a simple pencil skirt for church or dinner out. Layer with a cami or tee, dress up with a strand of pearls or a scarf tucked into the neckline. You very well may find that a sweater like this will get more wear and bring far more joy than your most snuggly fleece pullover!
Lands End Fine Gauge Twinsets - Lands End is awesome - they have the best selection of colors, most of their pieces are made of great quality and are easy to wash, their pieces run a bit big, they have an amazing return policy and their styles are classic without being dowdy.
A very easy way to look polished is by wearing a twinset - the shortsleeved crewneck and matching cardigan from Lands End is a great choice. I was mine in the wash on the gentle cycle and hang it up to dry overnight. The colors never fade, the shape maintains, and it dresses up or down nicely. Pair the set with capris in spring, wool blend trousers in winter, a pencil or a-line skirt for brunch, toss the cardigan over a sundress on breezy summer evenings, wear the crewneck alone with trousers and pearls for a simple Business Casual look. Again, consider a cheery color that will bring sunshine to a dreary winter day. Lands End carries most styles in petite, plus, and other extended sizes. The cardigan is $39.50 and I think worth every penny. Keep up with the site, Lands End often adds pieces to this line of fabric so you can get things like sleeveless shells or 3/4 sleeve cardigans come summer and turtlenecks come winter.
Merona Black Leggings - Okay, the leggings under the dress look is gone and done. It was hip for a season and now it looks pretty dated and desperate on most. The thing is, the look is pretty awesome when you are at home. Suddenly you can get on the floor with the kids, chill in bed, hang out at the playground and more without worrying about a breeze. A dress in knit or matte jersey with black leggings and ballet flats is still more chic than a velour jumpsuit or your husband's favorite hoodie. If paired with a solid color dress that has a simple silhouette, the look can be artsy and elegant. I love wearing my black leggings with a dove gray dress and a long scarf at the neck; my friend's weekend look is a black jersey dress with bell sleeves, black leggings, red ballet flats and a long silver necklace with red pendant. She looks polished, but is jsut as comfortable as she would be in her pajamas.
These leggings are less than $10 and get the job done. They aren't miracle workers, but they will last you through a season quite nicely.
What to Avoid:
Memorable Prints - It's hard to wear the same things week after week if they are so unique. Find creativity in your going out pieces, or your accessories. Choose great colors, flattering neutrals, and then detail piecves to add personality.
Bedazzlement - Just because a tee shirt has fake gems at the neckline does not mean it's fun or cool. In all honesty, most embellishment (embroidery, jewels, grommets, patches, accent fabrics, ribbons) makes the garment look cheap, not more stylish. Again, find your style with actual accessories to have versatility, style and polish.
Logos - A woman of style NEVER advertises what brand she is wearing. Style comes from the garment itself, NOT the designer.
Anything that Sheds, Pills, Fades or Creases - This means most khakis, cotton button-downs, angora blends, low percentage of cashmere blends, some silk blends, and cheap knits. If the black jersey already has a slight tint of gray or green, you can be sure that it will head further int hat direction after a few washes. Knits with at least 5% of lycra or a synthetic are less likely to shrink thank 100% cotton.
Be honest with yourself. If you don't have time to blow dry your hair after a shower, will you have time to properly iron that oxford shirt? If the answer is no, then don't buy it in the first place. It won't smooth out from wearing or if you pull it down and press it between you and the car seat. Stay with knits and synthetics if your lifestyle doesn't give you the time for ironing.
Polo Shirts - Unless you have a very slight frame or a slightly athletic build, these shirts are NOT flattering on women. Yes, they make feminine cut ones, but they still are not as flattering as a basic knit. The collar shortens the neck, the sleeve rounds shoulders and draws attention to larger arms, the neckline makes a large bust look matronly and a small bust look more obvious. The cut is usually too boxy or too tight at the belly, and the length is more often than not at the worst part of a woman's body (somewhere around the middle of her bum or right at the love handles). Want to get away from the tee with a creative knit? Try a wrap style, one with puffed sleeves and a scoop neck, one with lantern sleeves or a notched neck.
Cropped Cargo Chinos - These do not flatter a woman's frame in any way; the shortened length makes calves look bigger and legs look longer. The extra pockets add bulk (and usually end up wrinkled after the first wash). Want the cargo pockets for day tripping at the park or in the woods? Go with a jacket or a full-length pant or even a small backpack or sling. Want the cropped look? Consider a heavy jersey, a ponte fabric or a synthetic in the same fabric as a jacket or cardigan for something just as comfortable but far more flattering.
I often got responses back that I didn't know what I was talking about; to be in your home comfort is key, style is not important.
Well I am now working from home, on semi-bedrest no less. As I type this I am in my bedroom, my laptop on a tray table. I have been like this for a bit and will be until my baby arrives. Once she arrives I have six weeks of maternity leave at home and a couple of transition weeks - working from home, part time working at the office until I return back as a full-time office employee.
As I type this, I am in black ponte trousers, a gray silky jersey empire-waist top, black socks and diamond stud earrings. My hair has been blown out, I am wearing tinted moisturizer, rosy lipstick and mascara. There is a good chance I will see no one but my dog and husband all day, and that the only time I leave this bed is to use the rest room or refill my water bottle.
However when I started working from home, I relished in the idea of not having to worry about my attire. I often worked the day in a variation of what I slept in - knits, sweats, garments better made for my Saturday yoga classes. It was fun, decadent to not put on a bra, not "do" my hair, and just be comfortable.
My schedule was one day working from home, next day working from the office. I started noticing that the days I had to go to the office, I was dreading them. I wasn't dreading the office or the work, but the need to pull myself together and look professional. I started having more difficulty pulling together a decent outfit from the clothing I already owned and knew so well. The days I worked form home seemed to drag on longer than necessary - often because I would get distracted with a non-work Web site or the desire to do housework instead of payroll work.
I decided that each morning that I felt well, I would try to pull myself together. Shower, an easy wash-and-wear hairstyle (for me is letting the hair air dry with a tiny bit of product and then come back later to smooth the bangs for 5 seconds with a round brush and dryer), small bit of makeup to make me look alive (amazing what a quick swipe of blush and mascara can do for the face). As for clothing, well I wasn't going to endure bedrest in constricting denim, but I could do it with dresses and leggings, and pants made out of knits.
My morning routine is less than ten minutes because for me, showering at night works better with my schedule. Those ten minutes each morning make me a more productive at-home employee, have less concern with having to leave the house last minute or sign for a package when the UPS driver comes to the door. With my exterior organized, my interior seems to be more organized as well. I feel less tired, less sluggish, and more receptive to visitors.
The easiest way to be polished at home, is to start with the purchases. Be careful with every purchase you make - can it handle time on the floor, in bed, and to be accidently tossed in the dryer by your spouse? Keep away from that which will fade, requires ironing or special washing instructions. Also keep away from that which resembles gym attire, sleepwear, or something that your husband would wear. It's better to have less that is quality than more that is junk. As you find great durable and flattering pieces, donate those which aren't up to snuff.
A few pieces I have found to be great while being at home:
Old Navy's Stretch Ponte Mid-Rise Wide-Leg Trousers - I love love love these trousers. They look elegant, but they are made of fabric that is as comfy as sweats. The fabric is heavy enough to hide lumps and bumps and look work-worthy. They have a classic waistband and zipper, but they don't dig into your tummy, even when sitting or reclining. They are machine washable - I usually hang them to dry, but they have also gone in the dryer when I have been in a rush and they haven't pilled, shrunk or faded.I usually despise slash pockets, but these lie pretty nicely. Best of all - they come in petite and tall lengths! $34.50, currently only available in black. Get yourself two pairs so you have some ready while the other pair is in the wash.
J. Crew Merino Sweaters - Their turtlenecks are cozy while looking elegant, the crewnecks are a stylish alternative to a sweatshirt, and the v-necks add femininity to your simple outfit. Unlike cotton, merino usually keeps it shape and color through many wears and washes. Unlike cashmere, it's usually at a reasonable price point. The tight weave glides over curves, isn't itchy like shetland and looks polished. Come winter, I often layer with a tencel, silk or fine jersey tee or camisole underneath (a silk undershirt is incredibly warm without bulk). Black and gray are always chic, but bright colors are always nice to see and wear. Consider a jewel tone that pleases your eye - it will go with black, gray, camel, denim and other neutrals just as nicely as a more subtle or predictable color. Though the sweaters usually say Dry Clean Only, I have always washed my merinos on the gentle cycle in the machine with Woolie or a gentle landry wash, and either hung them up on a padded hanger or lay them on a towel on top of the dryer to dry. This specific merino turtleneck has select colors on sale for $39.99 - not too shabby!
Wrap Sweaters - This one is from Target. Wrap sweaters are great because they offer the layer you want, but flatter your feminine shape far better than a sweater coat or hoodie. This could work over a nursing tank, a cami, a tee, a turtleneck all with ease and look elegant and feminine. Sweaters and tops that wrap to the side give the illusion of a smaller waist; lightweight sweaters add warmth without bulk to your frame, and again this is a great way to add a pop of color to your basic neutrals. This specific sweater is under $25; I have found great wrap sweaters at Gap, Ann Taylor, Nordstrom, Macy's, and more usually under $50. Another ting - if the sweater is layered over a cami or tank, you don't have to wash it as often. Have a Tide to Go pen at the ready, and you can get more miles between washes!
Mossimo Ultra Soft Long-Sleeved V-Neck Sweaters - I learned about this sweater from another blogger and agree that they are fab! They are super cozy and soft like cashmere, but far less in cost. They come in a good range of colors and seem to flatter a variety of shapes of women.Very nice with trousers, jeans or even with a simple pencil skirt for church or dinner out. Layer with a cami or tee, dress up with a strand of pearls or a scarf tucked into the neckline. You very well may find that a sweater like this will get more wear and bring far more joy than your most snuggly fleece pullover!
Lands End Fine Gauge Twinsets - Lands End is awesome - they have the best selection of colors, most of their pieces are made of great quality and are easy to wash, their pieces run a bit big, they have an amazing return policy and their styles are classic without being dowdy.A very easy way to look polished is by wearing a twinset - the shortsleeved crewneck and matching cardigan from Lands End is a great choice. I was mine in the wash on the gentle cycle and hang it up to dry overnight. The colors never fade, the shape maintains, and it dresses up or down nicely. Pair the set with capris in spring, wool blend trousers in winter, a pencil or a-line skirt for brunch, toss the cardigan over a sundress on breezy summer evenings, wear the crewneck alone with trousers and pearls for a simple Business Casual look. Again, consider a cheery color that will bring sunshine to a dreary winter day. Lands End carries most styles in petite, plus, and other extended sizes. The cardigan is $39.50 and I think worth every penny. Keep up with the site, Lands End often adds pieces to this line of fabric so you can get things like sleeveless shells or 3/4 sleeve cardigans come summer and turtlenecks come winter.
Merona Black Leggings - Okay, the leggings under the dress look is gone and done. It was hip for a season and now it looks pretty dated and desperate on most. The thing is, the look is pretty awesome when you are at home. Suddenly you can get on the floor with the kids, chill in bed, hang out at the playground and more without worrying about a breeze. A dress in knit or matte jersey with black leggings and ballet flats is still more chic than a velour jumpsuit or your husband's favorite hoodie. If paired with a solid color dress that has a simple silhouette, the look can be artsy and elegant. I love wearing my black leggings with a dove gray dress and a long scarf at the neck; my friend's weekend look is a black jersey dress with bell sleeves, black leggings, red ballet flats and a long silver necklace with red pendant. She looks polished, but is jsut as comfortable as she would be in her pajamas.These leggings are less than $10 and get the job done. They aren't miracle workers, but they will last you through a season quite nicely.
What to Avoid:
Memorable Prints - It's hard to wear the same things week after week if they are so unique. Find creativity in your going out pieces, or your accessories. Choose great colors, flattering neutrals, and then detail piecves to add personality.
Bedazzlement - Just because a tee shirt has fake gems at the neckline does not mean it's fun or cool. In all honesty, most embellishment (embroidery, jewels, grommets, patches, accent fabrics, ribbons) makes the garment look cheap, not more stylish. Again, find your style with actual accessories to have versatility, style and polish.
Logos - A woman of style NEVER advertises what brand she is wearing. Style comes from the garment itself, NOT the designer.
Anything that Sheds, Pills, Fades or Creases - This means most khakis, cotton button-downs, angora blends, low percentage of cashmere blends, some silk blends, and cheap knits. If the black jersey already has a slight tint of gray or green, you can be sure that it will head further int hat direction after a few washes. Knits with at least 5% of lycra or a synthetic are less likely to shrink thank 100% cotton.
Be honest with yourself. If you don't have time to blow dry your hair after a shower, will you have time to properly iron that oxford shirt? If the answer is no, then don't buy it in the first place. It won't smooth out from wearing or if you pull it down and press it between you and the car seat. Stay with knits and synthetics if your lifestyle doesn't give you the time for ironing.
Polo Shirts - Unless you have a very slight frame or a slightly athletic build, these shirts are NOT flattering on women. Yes, they make feminine cut ones, but they still are not as flattering as a basic knit. The collar shortens the neck, the sleeve rounds shoulders and draws attention to larger arms, the neckline makes a large bust look matronly and a small bust look more obvious. The cut is usually too boxy or too tight at the belly, and the length is more often than not at the worst part of a woman's body (somewhere around the middle of her bum or right at the love handles). Want to get away from the tee with a creative knit? Try a wrap style, one with puffed sleeves and a scoop neck, one with lantern sleeves or a notched neck.
Cropped Cargo Chinos - These do not flatter a woman's frame in any way; the shortened length makes calves look bigger and legs look longer. The extra pockets add bulk (and usually end up wrinkled after the first wash). Want the cargo pockets for day tripping at the park or in the woods? Go with a jacket or a full-length pant or even a small backpack or sling. Want the cropped look? Consider a heavy jersey, a ponte fabric or a synthetic in the same fabric as a jacket or cardigan for something just as comfortable but far more flattering.
December 11, 2008
Thursday
Ah the glamorous fashion of a woman who lounges in bed all day... (and you KNEW I just couldn't stay away!!!)It really sucks to work from one's bed. Try to lie on your back, raise your feet, have a giant belly and type on a laptop. Yeah, not too successful. My mom is coming over today with a tray table so we can see if that may help a bit with the situation.
So wearing my gray jersey summer maternity dress from Old Navy and my oyster colored pashmina from Pashmina International.
Hair is wash and wear - I am hoping with this time I can train it to be curly again.
No makeup - my skin has really freaked out the past couple of days so I am also taking this time to let it breathe. As for shoes, to get around the construction I am sporting my sister's pair of Crocs (so glam).
Here's a picture of where I am spending my time - my new bedroom. Obviously haven't had the time to properly decorate it (it was just finished Saturday), Ruckus and I hide out here all day (that's what the sleeping bag is for - he has multiple beds of sorts all over the house so he doesn't lie down in sawdust).You can see how I am tied to my ethernet cable because I didn't expect to be working from home consistently at this point and my work laptop is not configured to use any wireless except that of my company. Today a good friend is coming to put a cable plug into the wall near the nightstand so I won't have a trip hazard in the middle of the room.
But it's a very nice room... will be even nicer when the closet is complete, it has curtains and a new duvet, and no construction workers coming through to finish the bathroom. :)
As for the rest of the remodel - it is going very well and should be finished before Christmas. My friend and her boyfriend came over last night to bring me food and hang out and she was amazed at the change. Living here each day I see change, but I forgot how tiny and off-kilter our old house used to be. One reader asked about the age of our house - it was built in 1948, but is part of a co-op so they have forced strict standards on these houses so no issues with lead paint, asbestos, that weird old insulation that looks like dust, etc. All been taken care of before we ended up being the homeowners.
Right now there is a guy in the new master bath grouting the tile he laid yesterday, another guy in what was our old bedroom (now office) painting the second coat of leaf green to the walls. Two guys downstairs laying the remainder of the bamboo flooring that will span from front door, through dining room to living room at end of house. They have the box for the half bath's sink out so that may be installed today as well.
What is left:
- Trim for the new living room
- Install the kitchen floor
- Install new kitchen cabinets and appliances (arriving Monday)
- Finish the half bath/laundry closet combo (can't wait to have a washer and dryer again!)
- Paint nursery, add trim, wall socket and put fan light in ceiling (room currently only has a wall light and only one electric socket in the whole room)
- Finish concrete steps to front door and install exterior lights
To do if time before Christmas, if not on hold until after baby is here and Spring comes:
- Reattach old deck
- New floor for original bathroom
Our house was purchased almost a decade ago at a time that was truly a buyer's market. This seems like a large remodel and it is... but it is cheaper than purchasing a new home and will be a far sounder investment for us. I am so happy to be able to continue our memories and life experiences in this house we already loved - now just having it large enough to fully enjoy it as a family!
December 10, 2008
On a Break...
Went to the midwife yesterday and my blood pressure is very high.
I am on partial bedrest and now have to work from home.
Right now I am in an old black scoop tee and gray cropped yoga pants - both from Old Navy. I'm not feeling all that chic or stylish right about now. My house is a mess since it is all under construction (except my bedroom where I am camping out) so everything is covered with dust, my bathroom looks worse than truck stop from contractors tromping through there... point is I am not sure when I will be posting my looks again.
My due date had changed to January 2, 2009. I hope she stays in there as long as she needs - if it's until after Christmas all the better because the house will be complete by Christmas. Also... I got her a onesie that says "Capricorn" on it so I hope she doesn't arrive until after the 22nd. :)
I will post on occasion - catch up on some product reviews, let you know how the baby and I are doing, etc.
If I don't get the chance, I hope everyone has a happy and healthy holiday season!!!
Much love to all you fab folks,
Allie
I am on partial bedrest and now have to work from home.
Right now I am in an old black scoop tee and gray cropped yoga pants - both from Old Navy. I'm not feeling all that chic or stylish right about now. My house is a mess since it is all under construction (except my bedroom where I am camping out) so everything is covered with dust, my bathroom looks worse than truck stop from contractors tromping through there... point is I am not sure when I will be posting my looks again.
My due date had changed to January 2, 2009. I hope she stays in there as long as she needs - if it's until after Christmas all the better because the house will be complete by Christmas. Also... I got her a onesie that says "Capricorn" on it so I hope she doesn't arrive until after the 22nd. :)
I will post on occasion - catch up on some product reviews, let you know how the baby and I are doing, etc.
If I don't get the chance, I hope everyone has a happy and healthy holiday season!!!
Much love to all you fab folks,
Allie
December 8, 2008
Pregnancy Must-Haves
Every woman's pregnancy and body is different. however as I near the end of my own pregnancy, I thought I would offer to you a few items that made this life experience that more pleasant. Feel free to comment and provide your own pregnancy must-haves!
1. NARS Blush in Orgasm
. I know, I have worn this for almost four years but I never loved it more than I did during this pregnancy. Everyone says you get this pregnant “glow,” but especially during the first trimester when you’re trying to not toss your cookies on your keyboard, you are completely devoid of any glow or color (other than green).
Orgasm is a peachy-pink shade that works on so many different skin tones (pale wintry Allie, spent too much time at the beach Allie, fading tan Allie, tan in a bottle Allie, etc.) and has that perfect bit of shimmer – little enough to wear during the day, but enough to make your flaky dry and sallow skin look dewy and fresh.
The color lasts all day, one compact lasts for YEARS (I am JUST replacing my compact this month after purchasing it for my 30th birthday), and when I wear it people say I have “The Glow.”
2. Laura Mercier's Flawless Face Kit
. Bought on a whim. This kit really works in making the face look natural yet finished. Great instructions, great bag to hold everything, all the size to be carry-on-luggage worthy, lasts all day. For my skin, I chose the kit in Sand. You can read a more detailed review by me here.
3. Ina May's Guide to Childbirth
. This book may seem too far-out, too hippie, too radical for many. So be warned. However for me, it was utterly empowering. When I found out I was pregnant, I didn’t have a regular OB/GYN. I had changed insurances (for the better) and it was right around the time that I had to schedule my annual. I did what any intelligent pregnant woman would do – I asked friends, Googled reviews, read reviews in local papers and periodicals and then made an appointment with the best one who was associated with the best hospital that was a reasonable distance from my job and home.
This is a great route for many, and the doctors from this practice were very good and very knowledgeable. Something just didn’t click with me. Lurking on a pregnancy message board, I heard about this book and bought it used on Amazon. I didn’t know anything about The Farm, I knew little about natural childbirth (outside of trying to go at it in a hospital without an epidural), and had never heard of Ina May.
After only a few of the true stories in this book, I switched to a group of midwives who had a practice that was connected to a hospital (can go natural but if anything goes wrong, I am minutes from L&D). I went from fearing labor to seeing it as a rite of passage. I felt empowered, proud to be a woman, part of this sisterhood. I felt more connected to this pregnancy, this body and this little person growing inside of me. I started craving knowledge and gobbled up every book, documentary, article and message board I could find.
This route is not for all and I am not one to try to sway people or force people to see my side. Many people have also said they found this book to be very scary, weird, and mean if you are considering a hospital birth. However if you are curious about reading real-life experiences of women who have had natural births… you may get as much from this book that I did.
4. Naturalizer's Creston Flat
. I love heels, and feel uncomfortable in flats. However my husband is a photographer and I am often his assistant, running around weddings and events and standing on my feet for hours. I bought these flats over a year ago just for photo shoots. I thought they were dowdy and made me look shorter and heavier than I already am. They were worn only a handful of times before my pregnancy.
As my pregnancy went on, my feet started to change. At first, it was just a bit more pain than usual after a day in 3” heels. Next, I lost some of my stability and felt awkward in anything that wasn’t a wedge, a chunk heel or a flat. By third trimester, my feet had grown a half a size. Now rounding out my pregnancy, my feet are a size an a half bigger and far wider than they were even a month ago. I pretty much fit a shoebox better than I do a shoe. I have tried dozens of shoes – online retailers who specialize in comfort and wide shoes, footwear boutiques and mall shops with very little success.
Today in my 37th week, I am sporting the heck out of those Naturalizer Creston flats. They are one of the only shoes I have found to be comfortable and fit all day. The soft leather grows with my feet as I swell, and retracts when I do. The look is simple and can work with dresses or pants. The sole is good and grippy – I feel safe even on slightly slippery days. The footbed is heavily padded so I feel relatively comfy even after many hours. These shoes were a chance purchase and now are worth their weight in gold. So much, I wish I had also purchased them in another color!
5. Sofft's "Veronica" Mary Jane
. Another chance purchase. I just couldn’t let go of heels and had heard great reviews about Sofft so I bought these online in brown suede.
You would never think it, but these cuties are the only shoes, other than the Creston flats, that I can still fit into and wear comfortably. I wore them Saturday night when I went to DC for a friend’s birthday dinner. I wore them Thanksgiving, to my baby shower, and at least once a week to work.
The heel is not very high and it’s scalloped so the weight is well distributed. The footbed is super comfy, the sole is rubbery, flexible and grips nicely. The strap has elastic hidden under the cute flower so it grows when my foot swells later in the day. The style and height makes them cute with dresses or even with trousers.
I purchased them in brown suede; I found the suede to be more flexible and accommodating than the leather version. How amazing to find shoes that get regular compliments AND baby the heck out of your feet? I adore these shoes and post-pregnancy am considering purchasing another pair in a different color.
6. Chantelle Senso Seamless Bra
. I adored this bra pre-pregnancy for its ability to lift, separate, completely disappear under lightweight and light-colored knits and give enough padding for nip coverage without adding to my size. I usually despise molded cup bras, but this one always seemed tailor made for my figure. The nude color is very close to my skin tone, the straps are stretchy enough to not dig, but stiff enough to give good support. Same with the band (many people find this bra to seem too small at first – try it for a bit, it seems to mold to your shape instead of being super stretchy like most bras).
When my breasts started growing with pregnancy, I looked for cheap larger bras. I went from a 36D to a 38E and it wasn’t in one fell swoop. To keep purchasing new bras each size would cost a small fortune. I bought bras on sale, bras from lower-end brands, and thought it was fine. They were comfortable, they got the job done…
Then I saw a picture of myself wearing one of these cheap, comfy bras (the Gap tee shirt bra that was on sale). The look was horrible. My breasts looked horrible – bit in an unflattering way, spread out, sort of pendulous (you can see the look here). I always loved my breasts, but this picture made me embarrassed.
So I bit the bullet and bought the Chantelle Senso in my new larger size. It hurt to drop so much money on a bra that wouldn’t fit me for a long while but I just couldn’t take looking giant and sloppy. For those who haven’t been pregnant, even though you tell your pregnant friend she doesn’t look fat, she will feel fat. Her face rounds out, her arms grow, her breasts grow (and for many of us, everything else in between will also grow and soften). If I could at least keep my bust looking perky, I could feel better about my appearance.
The bra was worth every penny – I suddenly looked slimmer, my breasts no longer ached at the end of the day, my clothes fit better. My décolleté looked as it did pre-pregnancy and I gained confidence. The bra hid under everything – semi-sheer sweaters, lightweight knits, white cotton shirts. It was one less thing to worry about during the maternity period.
I am currently wearing the Senso; this is my fourth Senso bra. I wash them by hand or in a lingerie bag on the gentle cycle of the washer. They hang to dry, but they get ten times more wear than any other bra in my collection and wear out. I hope they never discontinue it for they have a lifetime customer with me!
7. Ingrid & Isabel's BellaBand
. I didn’t “get” this item for a long time. I hate the layered look and am not one to sport it on a regular basis. IT seemed to be a tee-shirt extender that would hide the fact that my non-maternity pants were unbuttoned. Why did I need an overpriced piece of lycra to do what a ponytail elastic (looped around button hole to extend the button hole) could do?
Then I tried it. No longer did my pants bunch, did the button show through my shirt. As I got larger, the BellaBand helped keep too large maternity pants up, and extended non-maternity ones through most of my second trimester. Crappy roll-waist maternity trousers stayed high on the belly, lowrise waistbands no longer showed off skin when I sat down, and I was able to wear it high enough that it never showed with outfits (preventing the teenage look of layered tees). I even wore the BellaBand over my bust under dresses as décolleté coverage/in place of a cami. Post-pregnancy, I know it will be worn to keep up pants, and to cover the tummy while breastfeeding.
I bought mine in black since the majority of my pants and wardrobe are that color. I know there are cheaper versions out there, but I loved knowing that this little piece of Lycra maintained its color, its shape, its durability through many washings. Having that reassurance made it worth the price.
8. Old Navy’s Ponte Knit Maternity Trousers. Awww boo Old Navy for discontinuing this item. If it weren’t for these trousers, I may have not left my home in the third trimester.
I have often wrote on this blog about my love of ponte knit – it’s heavier than other knits, refined and has a dressier look than jersey fabrics. Since it is a knit, it has stretch. Since it has weight, it doesn’t cling and glides over bumps and curves. It can be machine washed, usually matches ponte garments from other retailers, and works year-round. I have dresses, suiting, skirts and pants of this fabric and thought though most of my pregnancy, “Why doesn’t someone make a maternity line from this fabric?”
My sister found these pants on the Old Navy Web site and I ordered a pair. They are a slightly wide leg that is comfortable even with swelling and hip growth. The waistband is like a yoga pant – wide and of the same fabric. There are two patch pockets on the front and two besom pockets on the back. They stay up even in the last few weeks, match my ponte garments from places like Ann Taylor and Banana Republic, go in the washer and dryer and are completely work-appropriate.
Many pregnant women get to a point where chino and denim are no longer comfortable. When you still have to look presentable for an office environment, items like these are a Godsend. I found a similar item from Liz Lange for Target
, but found the length too long for anyone under 5’5” and the fabric to be far thinner (looking more like yoga pants than proper trousers). Hello maternity fashion designers – this is a potential goldmine! Make some trousers in black, brown, charcoal, ivory and possibly navy… add lengths and an extended size range and you will have so many happy pregnant customers. Offer some coordinating jackets and we would be utterly ecstatic! Until then, I will still love Old Navy for offering such an item, even if it was only for a short time.
9. Neutrogena Body Oil
. When I was in my first trimester and many smells made me ill, this was one smell that seemed to calm me. When I got PUPPP in my third trimester, it was one of the only products that seemed to soothe the itchies. When stretch marks started to itch and hurt, nothing felt better than to rub them with Neutrogena Body Oil after a shower. I would pour it in a bath when I would have severe itching and insomnia - the smell and the soft feel would relax me and let me sleep a couple more hours.
This has been a product I return to every couple of years. I try out new products, covetable lines, but usually come back to Neutrogena Body Oil. It absorbs quickly, is gentle on my sensitive winter skin, the smell doesn't compete with my perfume, my husband likes the smell, I like the feel and look of my skin when using it, it is versatile, and I love how I can grab a bottle at my local Target. It's a product I could see being in my bathroom even 20 years from now.
10. My DayRunner
. When you are pregnant, your brain disappears... at least part of it does. It's very slow and very subtle; suddenly one day you forget where your friend's house is located, what time your doctor's appointment is, what is the date of your grandmother's birthday. I had Outlook, I had my cell phone's calendar, I had the calendar in the kitchen that my husband and I had used for years to reind one another of events we both had to attend. It worked very well and I never double booked or forgot an occasion.
Then my second trimester arrived and my brain left. I forgot passwords to Web sites and would take elevators to wrong floors. Next thing, I couldn't recall what day Halloween fell on. I bought an agenda book - one small enough to fit in my purse, but large enough that I could add pages and customize to my needs. I added all the addresses and phone numbers I needed in case I lost my cell (which happened once with this Baby Brain), added necessary passwords in code so if I forgot them, I could refresh my memory. I added the most basic of dates like my husband's birthday, the baby's due date, the days I worked from home. I added work appointments in case I got stuck somewhere without Internet. I made lists of what needed to be done and put dates on them so I knew what I was thinking when.
I think my DayRunner kept me from losing my job or a single friend.
An agenda book may not be what you need, but do prepare for the slow loss of brain cells while pregnant. Just as many women swear they are not acting crazy due to PMS (and then admit it was the hormones talking after the event took place), pregnant women will swear they are not becoming forgetful. Be good to yourself, your friends, your coworkers and figure out some sort of system that will keep your life in order when your mind has lost it. It will probably also come in handy post-baby to organize family events, play groups, day care, doctor appointments and more. If you get one that has the rings where you can add pages, you can add little clear sheets to show off pictures of your new bundle of joy too. :)
1. NARS Blush in Orgasm. I know, I have worn this for almost four years but I never loved it more than I did during this pregnancy. Everyone says you get this pregnant “glow,” but especially during the first trimester when you’re trying to not toss your cookies on your keyboard, you are completely devoid of any glow or color (other than green).Orgasm is a peachy-pink shade that works on so many different skin tones (pale wintry Allie, spent too much time at the beach Allie, fading tan Allie, tan in a bottle Allie, etc.) and has that perfect bit of shimmer – little enough to wear during the day, but enough to make your flaky dry and sallow skin look dewy and fresh.
The color lasts all day, one compact lasts for YEARS (I am JUST replacing my compact this month after purchasing it for my 30th birthday), and when I wear it people say I have “The Glow.”
2. Laura Mercier's Flawless Face Kit. Bought on a whim. This kit really works in making the face look natural yet finished. Great instructions, great bag to hold everything, all the size to be carry-on-luggage worthy, lasts all day. For my skin, I chose the kit in Sand. You can read a more detailed review by me here.3. Ina May's Guide to Childbirth
. This book may seem too far-out, too hippie, too radical for many. So be warned. However for me, it was utterly empowering. When I found out I was pregnant, I didn’t have a regular OB/GYN. I had changed insurances (for the better) and it was right around the time that I had to schedule my annual. I did what any intelligent pregnant woman would do – I asked friends, Googled reviews, read reviews in local papers and periodicals and then made an appointment with the best one who was associated with the best hospital that was a reasonable distance from my job and home.This is a great route for many, and the doctors from this practice were very good and very knowledgeable. Something just didn’t click with me. Lurking on a pregnancy message board, I heard about this book and bought it used on Amazon. I didn’t know anything about The Farm, I knew little about natural childbirth (outside of trying to go at it in a hospital without an epidural), and had never heard of Ina May.
After only a few of the true stories in this book, I switched to a group of midwives who had a practice that was connected to a hospital (can go natural but if anything goes wrong, I am minutes from L&D). I went from fearing labor to seeing it as a rite of passage. I felt empowered, proud to be a woman, part of this sisterhood. I felt more connected to this pregnancy, this body and this little person growing inside of me. I started craving knowledge and gobbled up every book, documentary, article and message board I could find.
This route is not for all and I am not one to try to sway people or force people to see my side. Many people have also said they found this book to be very scary, weird, and mean if you are considering a hospital birth. However if you are curious about reading real-life experiences of women who have had natural births… you may get as much from this book that I did.
4. Naturalizer's Creston Flat. I love heels, and feel uncomfortable in flats. However my husband is a photographer and I am often his assistant, running around weddings and events and standing on my feet for hours. I bought these flats over a year ago just for photo shoots. I thought they were dowdy and made me look shorter and heavier than I already am. They were worn only a handful of times before my pregnancy.As my pregnancy went on, my feet started to change. At first, it was just a bit more pain than usual after a day in 3” heels. Next, I lost some of my stability and felt awkward in anything that wasn’t a wedge, a chunk heel or a flat. By third trimester, my feet had grown a half a size. Now rounding out my pregnancy, my feet are a size an a half bigger and far wider than they were even a month ago. I pretty much fit a shoebox better than I do a shoe. I have tried dozens of shoes – online retailers who specialize in comfort and wide shoes, footwear boutiques and mall shops with very little success.
Today in my 37th week, I am sporting the heck out of those Naturalizer Creston flats. They are one of the only shoes I have found to be comfortable and fit all day. The soft leather grows with my feet as I swell, and retracts when I do. The look is simple and can work with dresses or pants. The sole is good and grippy – I feel safe even on slightly slippery days. The footbed is heavily padded so I feel relatively comfy even after many hours. These shoes were a chance purchase and now are worth their weight in gold. So much, I wish I had also purchased them in another color!
5. Sofft's "Veronica" Mary Jane. Another chance purchase. I just couldn’t let go of heels and had heard great reviews about Sofft so I bought these online in brown suede.You would never think it, but these cuties are the only shoes, other than the Creston flats, that I can still fit into and wear comfortably. I wore them Saturday night when I went to DC for a friend’s birthday dinner. I wore them Thanksgiving, to my baby shower, and at least once a week to work.
The heel is not very high and it’s scalloped so the weight is well distributed. The footbed is super comfy, the sole is rubbery, flexible and grips nicely. The strap has elastic hidden under the cute flower so it grows when my foot swells later in the day. The style and height makes them cute with dresses or even with trousers.
I purchased them in brown suede; I found the suede to be more flexible and accommodating than the leather version. How amazing to find shoes that get regular compliments AND baby the heck out of your feet? I adore these shoes and post-pregnancy am considering purchasing another pair in a different color.
6. Chantelle Senso Seamless Bra. I adored this bra pre-pregnancy for its ability to lift, separate, completely disappear under lightweight and light-colored knits and give enough padding for nip coverage without adding to my size. I usually despise molded cup bras, but this one always seemed tailor made for my figure. The nude color is very close to my skin tone, the straps are stretchy enough to not dig, but stiff enough to give good support. Same with the band (many people find this bra to seem too small at first – try it for a bit, it seems to mold to your shape instead of being super stretchy like most bras).When my breasts started growing with pregnancy, I looked for cheap larger bras. I went from a 36D to a 38E and it wasn’t in one fell swoop. To keep purchasing new bras each size would cost a small fortune. I bought bras on sale, bras from lower-end brands, and thought it was fine. They were comfortable, they got the job done…
Then I saw a picture of myself wearing one of these cheap, comfy bras (the Gap tee shirt bra that was on sale). The look was horrible. My breasts looked horrible – bit in an unflattering way, spread out, sort of pendulous (you can see the look here). I always loved my breasts, but this picture made me embarrassed.
So I bit the bullet and bought the Chantelle Senso in my new larger size. It hurt to drop so much money on a bra that wouldn’t fit me for a long while but I just couldn’t take looking giant and sloppy. For those who haven’t been pregnant, even though you tell your pregnant friend she doesn’t look fat, she will feel fat. Her face rounds out, her arms grow, her breasts grow (and for many of us, everything else in between will also grow and soften). If I could at least keep my bust looking perky, I could feel better about my appearance.
The bra was worth every penny – I suddenly looked slimmer, my breasts no longer ached at the end of the day, my clothes fit better. My décolleté looked as it did pre-pregnancy and I gained confidence. The bra hid under everything – semi-sheer sweaters, lightweight knits, white cotton shirts. It was one less thing to worry about during the maternity period.
I am currently wearing the Senso; this is my fourth Senso bra. I wash them by hand or in a lingerie bag on the gentle cycle of the washer. They hang to dry, but they get ten times more wear than any other bra in my collection and wear out. I hope they never discontinue it for they have a lifetime customer with me!
7. Ingrid & Isabel's BellaBand. I didn’t “get” this item for a long time. I hate the layered look and am not one to sport it on a regular basis. IT seemed to be a tee-shirt extender that would hide the fact that my non-maternity pants were unbuttoned. Why did I need an overpriced piece of lycra to do what a ponytail elastic (looped around button hole to extend the button hole) could do?Then I tried it. No longer did my pants bunch, did the button show through my shirt. As I got larger, the BellaBand helped keep too large maternity pants up, and extended non-maternity ones through most of my second trimester. Crappy roll-waist maternity trousers stayed high on the belly, lowrise waistbands no longer showed off skin when I sat down, and I was able to wear it high enough that it never showed with outfits (preventing the teenage look of layered tees). I even wore the BellaBand over my bust under dresses as décolleté coverage/in place of a cami. Post-pregnancy, I know it will be worn to keep up pants, and to cover the tummy while breastfeeding.
I bought mine in black since the majority of my pants and wardrobe are that color. I know there are cheaper versions out there, but I loved knowing that this little piece of Lycra maintained its color, its shape, its durability through many washings. Having that reassurance made it worth the price.
8. Old Navy’s Ponte Knit Maternity Trousers. Awww boo Old Navy for discontinuing this item. If it weren’t for these trousers, I may have not left my home in the third trimester.
I have often wrote on this blog about my love of ponte knit – it’s heavier than other knits, refined and has a dressier look than jersey fabrics. Since it is a knit, it has stretch. Since it has weight, it doesn’t cling and glides over bumps and curves. It can be machine washed, usually matches ponte garments from other retailers, and works year-round. I have dresses, suiting, skirts and pants of this fabric and thought though most of my pregnancy, “Why doesn’t someone make a maternity line from this fabric?”
My sister found these pants on the Old Navy Web site and I ordered a pair. They are a slightly wide leg that is comfortable even with swelling and hip growth. The waistband is like a yoga pant – wide and of the same fabric. There are two patch pockets on the front and two besom pockets on the back. They stay up even in the last few weeks, match my ponte garments from places like Ann Taylor and Banana Republic, go in the washer and dryer and are completely work-appropriate.
Many pregnant women get to a point where chino and denim are no longer comfortable. When you still have to look presentable for an office environment, items like these are a Godsend. I found a similar item from Liz Lange for Target
, but found the length too long for anyone under 5’5” and the fabric to be far thinner (looking more like yoga pants than proper trousers). Hello maternity fashion designers – this is a potential goldmine! Make some trousers in black, brown, charcoal, ivory and possibly navy… add lengths and an extended size range and you will have so many happy pregnant customers. Offer some coordinating jackets and we would be utterly ecstatic! Until then, I will still love Old Navy for offering such an item, even if it was only for a short time.
9. Neutrogena Body Oil. When I was in my first trimester and many smells made me ill, this was one smell that seemed to calm me. When I got PUPPP in my third trimester, it was one of the only products that seemed to soothe the itchies. When stretch marks started to itch and hurt, nothing felt better than to rub them with Neutrogena Body Oil after a shower. I would pour it in a bath when I would have severe itching and insomnia - the smell and the soft feel would relax me and let me sleep a couple more hours.This has been a product I return to every couple of years. I try out new products, covetable lines, but usually come back to Neutrogena Body Oil. It absorbs quickly, is gentle on my sensitive winter skin, the smell doesn't compete with my perfume, my husband likes the smell, I like the feel and look of my skin when using it, it is versatile, and I love how I can grab a bottle at my local Target. It's a product I could see being in my bathroom even 20 years from now.
10. My DayRunner
. When you are pregnant, your brain disappears... at least part of it does. It's very slow and very subtle; suddenly one day you forget where your friend's house is located, what time your doctor's appointment is, what is the date of your grandmother's birthday. I had Outlook, I had my cell phone's calendar, I had the calendar in the kitchen that my husband and I had used for years to reind one another of events we both had to attend. It worked very well and I never double booked or forgot an occasion.Then my second trimester arrived and my brain left. I forgot passwords to Web sites and would take elevators to wrong floors. Next thing, I couldn't recall what day Halloween fell on. I bought an agenda book - one small enough to fit in my purse, but large enough that I could add pages and customize to my needs. I added all the addresses and phone numbers I needed in case I lost my cell (which happened once with this Baby Brain), added necessary passwords in code so if I forgot them, I could refresh my memory. I added the most basic of dates like my husband's birthday, the baby's due date, the days I worked from home. I added work appointments in case I got stuck somewhere without Internet. I made lists of what needed to be done and put dates on them so I knew what I was thinking when.
I think my DayRunner kept me from losing my job or a single friend.
An agenda book may not be what you need, but do prepare for the slow loss of brain cells while pregnant. Just as many women swear they are not acting crazy due to PMS (and then admit it was the hormones talking after the event took place), pregnant women will swear they are not becoming forgetful. Be good to yourself, your friends, your coworkers and figure out some sort of system that will keep your life in order when your mind has lost it. It will probably also come in handy post-baby to organize family events, play groups, day care, doctor appointments and more. If you get one that has the rings where you can add pages, you can add little clear sheets to show off pictures of your new bundle of joy too. :)
Ask Allie - Peeptoe Shoes and Legwear?
Hi Allie, What do you think about pantyhose or opaque tights with peep toe heels? Are both absolute no-no's? I can't stand Sarah Palin, but thanks to her I've now discovered the world of Naughty Monkey shoes. I live in Baltimore and am considering going bare-legged while wearing peep toe shoes. Thoughts? (apologies if you're a Palin fan) :) Amy
Hey Amy:
Well hope this doesn't offend any other readers, but I can't stand her either! However Naughty Monkey DOES have some utterly adorable shoes!
As for your question:
Pantyhose with peeptoes - bad
Tights with peeptoes - doable
Tights with peeptoes - doable
... as long as you keep a contrast - like black tights and red shoes, red tights and black shoes, texture tights and solid heels, etc. If you make it look purposeful, it works. It's hip, it's funky, it's fun.
UPDATE: It seems that in the UK tights and pantyhose are synonymous; I believe this is causing some confusion. :) When I state tights, I mean opaque legwear, as seen in the images in this post. When I mention pantyhose, I am writing about sheer legwear, sometimes that comes in a color but is most regularly seen as attempting to match the color of the wearer's skin.
The difference is in denier; most stockings are around a denier of 5; the higher the number the more opaque (up to around 80). Usually, retailers will note on the packaging if what you are purchasing is considered tights or pantyhose. Often you can find the denier on the back of the package.
Pantyhose used to be a given with most skirts and tights but have become quite dated in the past few years. Yes, you will occasionally see celebs and socialites wear them, but they run a fine line between looking stylish and tacky. I find they are best worn for conservative environments or by True Fashionistas.
A reinforced toes is NEVER acceptable in an open toe shoe, no matter the type of legwear.
This Weekend and Monday
Saturday we ran a few errands, my husband taught yoga, did some laundry at my mom's and then we went to my dear friend's house. She and her fiancé just bought a house together and it is awesome. It's an older house in a really lovely older neighborhood and in great condition.
After that, we dashed home to get ready for another friend's birthday dinner. We went to Filomena in Georgetown, and it was my first time there. The decor was insane, my sister described it as though "Christmas threw up on it." But the food was great, the crowd was fun, and it was so nice to spend time with the Birthday Boy and other friends. It snowed that night and Georgetown was so pretty. Everyone went out after dinner, but preggo moi wasn't up for it so we were home before 11pm.
Attire:
Old Navy maternity - Black matte jersey polo collar dress
Limited - Two ivory and wood beaded necklaces (one broke that night when it got caught on the bathroom stall door)
H&M - Silver necklace
Silver cuff
Sofft - Brown suede Mary Janes
Hair: Washed and conditioned, dried with round brush and diffuser
Beauty: Philosophy - The Supernatural in Beige, Nars - Blush in Orgasm, Body Shop - Shimmer Cubes in Warmth, Cover Girl - LashBlast mascara in Rich Black, Avon - Glimmersticks in Black, Bare Escentuals - Buxom lip gloss in Dolly
Sunday, we ran around all day doing stuff for the house. We picked out bathroom tile, got a new vacuum because ours died, did a ton of cleaning and moved into our new bedroom. Hooray! So the day was spent in a pair of Old Navy ponte pants and a scoop tee.
Monday, I am back at the office.
Attire:
Old Navy maternity - Gray jersey top, black ponte trousers
H&M - Silver necklaces
Naturalizer - Creston flats in black
Hair: Next day, bedhead tamed with curling iron
Beauty: Philosophy - The Supernatural in Beige, Nars - Blush in Orgasm, Benefit - Lipstick in Bouquet Dive, Clinique - Shadow duo in Like Mink (lighter color), Maybelline - UltraLiner in Black, Cover Girl - LashBlast mascara in Black
After that, we dashed home to get ready for another friend's birthday dinner. We went to Filomena in Georgetown, and it was my first time there. The decor was insane, my sister described it as though "Christmas threw up on it." But the food was great, the crowd was fun, and it was so nice to spend time with the Birthday Boy and other friends. It snowed that night and Georgetown was so pretty. Everyone went out after dinner, but preggo moi wasn't up for it so we were home before 11pm.
Old Navy maternity - Black matte jersey polo collar dress
Limited - Two ivory and wood beaded necklaces (one broke that night when it got caught on the bathroom stall door)
H&M - Silver necklace
Silver cuff
Sofft - Brown suede Mary Janes
Hair: Washed and conditioned, dried with round brush and diffuser
Beauty: Philosophy - The Supernatural in Beige, Nars - Blush in Orgasm, Body Shop - Shimmer Cubes in Warmth, Cover Girl - LashBlast mascara in Rich Black, Avon - Glimmersticks in Black, Bare Escentuals - Buxom lip gloss in Dolly
Sunday, we ran around all day doing stuff for the house. We picked out bathroom tile, got a new vacuum because ours died, did a ton of cleaning and moved into our new bedroom. Hooray! So the day was spent in a pair of Old Navy ponte pants and a scoop tee.
Monday, I am back at the office.
Old Navy maternity - Gray jersey top, black ponte trousers
H&M - Silver necklaces
Naturalizer - Creston flats in black
Hair: Next day, bedhead tamed with curling iron
Beauty: Philosophy - The Supernatural in Beige, Nars - Blush in Orgasm, Benefit - Lipstick in Bouquet Dive, Clinique - Shadow duo in Like Mink (lighter color), Maybelline - UltraLiner in Black, Cover Girl - LashBlast mascara in Black
December 5, 2008
Friday
Attire:
Gap Maternity - Gray silky jersey top
Old Navy Maternity - black ponte trousers
Silver cuff
Hair: Washed and conditioned night before, air dry, straightened in AM with round brush and dryer
Beauty: Philosophy - The Supernatural foundation in Beige, Nars - Blush in Orgasm, Clinique - Shadow duo in Like Mink, Long Wear lipstick in Beauty (eaten off by time this picture was taken), Cover Girl - LashBlast mascara in Rich Black
December 4, 2008
Wednesday and Thursday
Wednesday:
Attire:
Old Navy Maternity - Black long sleeved wrap tee, black chinos
Naturalizer - Creston flats in Black
Unknown - Purple silk scarf
H&M - Silver necklaces
Silver cuff bracelet
Hair: Washed and conditioned night before, air dry, straightened with round brush and dryer in the morning, BioSilk to smooth
Beauty: Philosophy - The Supernatural foundation in Beige, Nars - Blush in Orgasm, Bare Escentuals - Buxom lip gloss in Dolly, Maybelline - Shadow quad in Mocha Motion, Body Shop - Eye Color in Soft Black, Avon - Luxury eye liner in Eggplant, Cover Girl - LashBlast mascara in Rich Black
Thursday:
Today I am working from home again; left leg is in pretty bad shape so I can't walk on it and have to keep it up. I am in lovely yoga pants, a black ribbed tank and my berry colored hoodie. Glamour, pure glamour.
Old Navy Maternity - Black long sleeved wrap tee, black chinos
Naturalizer - Creston flats in Black
Unknown - Purple silk scarf
H&M - Silver necklaces
Silver cuff bracelet
Hair: Washed and conditioned night before, air dry, straightened with round brush and dryer in the morning, BioSilk to smooth
Beauty: Philosophy - The Supernatural foundation in Beige, Nars - Blush in Orgasm, Bare Escentuals - Buxom lip gloss in Dolly, Maybelline - Shadow quad in Mocha Motion, Body Shop - Eye Color in Soft Black, Avon - Luxury eye liner in Eggplant, Cover Girl - LashBlast mascara in Rich Black
Thursday:
Today I am working from home again; left leg is in pretty bad shape so I can't walk on it and have to keep it up. I am in lovely yoga pants, a black ribbed tank and my berry colored hoodie. Glamour, pure glamour.
December 2, 2008
Stain Removal - Recipe for Success
One tablespoon of classic Dawn liquid – the blue stuff
One cup of hydrogen peroxide
Dab onto stain with a clean cloth or sponge.
This can remove red wine, blood, yellowed stains from sweat and deodorant, grass, even stains that have been laundered and are old.
On Thanksgiving we tried this with an old off-white muslin tablecloth with a blue, tan and berry colored pattern. A glass of Zinfandel spilled over a large portion of the fabric. After trying all the classic remedies (like cancel red wine with white wine) and having little success, I went onto Google and found a few recipes.
The recipe above got the most traffic and comments online, and was the only one that worked. And boy did it work: without even rinsing the red was COMPLETELY gone, the print was not affected; it didn’t bleach the off-white color. It was as though the wine was never spilled.
Online it says you can use this on most any type of stain with success and virtually no damage. I am totally going to try this on all my old frustrating stains and have these ingredients on hand for the next time that I have a spill!
One cup of hydrogen peroxide
Dab onto stain with a clean cloth or sponge.
This can remove red wine, blood, yellowed stains from sweat and deodorant, grass, even stains that have been laundered and are old.
On Thanksgiving we tried this with an old off-white muslin tablecloth with a blue, tan and berry colored pattern. A glass of Zinfandel spilled over a large portion of the fabric. After trying all the classic remedies (like cancel red wine with white wine) and having little success, I went onto Google and found a few recipes.
The recipe above got the most traffic and comments online, and was the only one that worked. And boy did it work: without even rinsing the red was COMPLETELY gone, the print was not affected; it didn’t bleach the off-white color. It was as though the wine was never spilled.
Online it says you can use this on most any type of stain with success and virtually no damage. I am totally going to try this on all my old frustrating stains and have these ingredients on hand for the next time that I have a spill!
Tuesday
The belly is getting big, as are the arms, the legs, the breasts, the chins... I was shocked to find out I only gained seven pounds this past month - it feels more (and looks more) like 20. Went to the midwife yesterday, all if fine and weight if fine, so I guess I shouldn't worry or stress about it. I just feel like a whale, and I now snore even if I drift off to sleep (happens when your breasts practically touch your chin). Barely anything fits - I have the two pairs of ponte pants from Old Navy and picked up another pair from Liz Lange for Target (not as thick or nice). At home I wear old pre-pregnancy yoga pants. A couple dresses fit but most are too short now to wear without leggings or tights. It's also too cold most days to walk around town in bare legs (I put on leggings with this outfit just to walk to work). Only a month left!
Attire:
Merona for Target - Gray ponte dress
Pashmina International - Oyster pashmina
H&M - Silver necklaces
Silver cuff
Naturalizer - Creston flats in Black
Hair:Day Two, just brushed
Beauty: Philosophy - The Supernatural foundation in Beige, Clinique - Like Mink shadow duo (the lighter color); Almost Lipstick in Black Honey (on lips and cheeks), Maybelline - UltraLiner in Black, Cover Girl - LashBlast mascara in Rich Black
Thanksgiving
Attire:
Olian Maternity - Brown print jersey wrap dress
Sofft - Brown suede Mary Janes
Ann Taylor - Gold hoops, necklace and "twig" bangles
Hair: Day Two, smoothed with curling iron
Beauty: Laura Mercier - Flawless Face Kit in Sand, Nars - Blush in Orgasm, Clinique - Eye Shadow duo in Like Mink, Bare Escentuals - Buxom Lip Gloss in Dolly, Cover Girl - LashBlast mascara in Rich Black, Avon - Luxury Eye Liner in Black
Thanksgiving was nice. We were going to sleep in but were unexpectedly woken by the contractors. They decided to work a half day on Thanksgiving because they want the house complete before the baby arrives. Awww! So we got dressed, headed to Starbucks for a quick breakfast pick-up, then got my sister from the Metro and headed to my mom's house.
My mom had a full house: me, my sister, my husband, my mom's boyfriend, my friend Shelly and her fiance Mike, my cousin Leslie and her boyfriend David, and our friends Heather, Joe, and Jake. All kinds of fabu food - I usually make at least the classic Green Bean Casserole, but this year neither I nor my house was up for it. We brought a local bakery's blueberry pie, but everyone else brought so many delicious dishes. People always ask what my husband and I do for Thanksgiving considering we are vegetarians. When you think about it, the only things that are meat-related are the turkey, any stuffing that may have been in the turkey, and the gravy. My sister made vegetarian stuffing for us, and there was Green Bean Casserole, sweet potatoes with marshmallows, mashed potatoes, butternut squash, cranberry relish, rolls, pickles, olives, pearl onions and cranberry bread. For dinner we had some pumpkin-based dessert that was yum, pies of apple, pecan and blueberry; ice cream and fruit. Plenty for us vegetarians!!!
Thanksgiving is one of my favorite holidays - gathering of friends and family, celebrating that which is good in life, and sharing good food with good souls. It was really lovely.
Casual Wednesday
Attire:
Old Navy Maternity - Black tee
Old Navy - Wide leg yoga pants, raspberry hoodie
Crocs - Thanks to my sister who loaned me hers since I grew out of mine
Hair: Washed and conditioned, dried with paddle brush and round brush at ends and bangs
Beauty: Laura Mercier - Tinted moisturizer, Nars - Blush in Orgasm, Cover Girl - LashBlast mascara in Rich Black
December 1, 2008
Back Tomorrow...
Sorry I have been MIA, due to the house remodel a line was cut and we haven't had Internet or phone for about a week. We're trying to fix it; in the mean time I am typing from my mom's.
I was out of work on Wednesday due to severely swollen feet and hip pain. All is fine, blood pressure is good so the swelling is just gravity in full force. Gotta keep the feet up more (easier said than done when the house is in upheaval and I still am working...).
Thanksgiving was lovely - we had 11 people at my mom's house and it was a great time. I hope everyone else had as nice of a holiday.
Friday I got a prenatal massage (present to myself) which really has helped with the back spasms, hip pain and all over wellbeing. If anyone lives in the Columbia/Baltimore, MD area and is looking for a great masseuse, send me an email. Very impressed! Afterwards I met up with my mom and sister at Columbia Mall where I did about 30 minutes of window shopping (all Christmas shopping is being done on the Internet), and then we went to Cheesecake Factory where I had my very favorite dish - the roasted artichoke! After my sister and I went to a few shops looking at lighting fixtures for the house and crashed early.
Saturday, I can hardly remember it. Oh yes, the contractors were there and we just needed a break from drywall dust and hammering. We spent the day at my mom's - kept my feet up, drank lots of water, watched some TV, took a nap and got much needed R&R.
Sunday, the contractors took the day off (these guys are hard working - they even worked on Thanksgiving!) so my husband and I got a day to examine paint chips in the rooms, take a nap, watch TV, do a bit of cleaning and chilling.
Today I took PTO because my midwife appointment was at 11am and an hour away from work. Just got back - all is well and I am healthy as a horse, measuring right, yadda yadda. I will now be having weekly appointments! I am at my mom's checking in with work email and paying bills but plan on going to home to lift up these poor swollen feet and getting some other stuff done. Tomorrow I am back to work so will be posting pictures from the past week or so.
See you then! :)
I was out of work on Wednesday due to severely swollen feet and hip pain. All is fine, blood pressure is good so the swelling is just gravity in full force. Gotta keep the feet up more (easier said than done when the house is in upheaval and I still am working...).
Thanksgiving was lovely - we had 11 people at my mom's house and it was a great time. I hope everyone else had as nice of a holiday.
Friday I got a prenatal massage (present to myself) which really has helped with the back spasms, hip pain and all over wellbeing. If anyone lives in the Columbia/Baltimore, MD area and is looking for a great masseuse, send me an email. Very impressed! Afterwards I met up with my mom and sister at Columbia Mall where I did about 30 minutes of window shopping (all Christmas shopping is being done on the Internet), and then we went to Cheesecake Factory where I had my very favorite dish - the roasted artichoke! After my sister and I went to a few shops looking at lighting fixtures for the house and crashed early.
Saturday, I can hardly remember it. Oh yes, the contractors were there and we just needed a break from drywall dust and hammering. We spent the day at my mom's - kept my feet up, drank lots of water, watched some TV, took a nap and got much needed R&R.
Sunday, the contractors took the day off (these guys are hard working - they even worked on Thanksgiving!) so my husband and I got a day to examine paint chips in the rooms, take a nap, watch TV, do a bit of cleaning and chilling.
Today I took PTO because my midwife appointment was at 11am and an hour away from work. Just got back - all is well and I am healthy as a horse, measuring right, yadda yadda. I will now be having weekly appointments! I am at my mom's checking in with work email and paying bills but plan on going to home to lift up these poor swollen feet and getting some other stuff done. Tomorrow I am back to work so will be posting pictures from the past week or so.
See you then! :)
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