Looking for a stylish t-shirt or accessory this season? How about one that also supports a person’s right to choose how to handle their body and life? While the best way is to donate directly to an abortion fund (this…
Help Wanted
The first time I saw a therapist was the summer after high school. My friend Maureen died in a car accident, and just weeks after, my friend PJ, who was also an on-again, off-again beau for a couple of years,…
The American Way
It’s always hard getting back into the real world after a vacation. Especially a vacation where you don’t read the news, don’t watch TV, and truly disconnect. Even harder when you return to the real world we’re living in now….
Size-Inclusive Graphic Tees for a Great Cause: Universal Standard x Planned Parenthood
I don’t do a lot for Mother’s Day on this blog because I know not everyone has a child, and a lot of people have complicated relationships with the women who raised them. But this collaboration between Universal Standard x…
On Birthdays, Racism, and Resilience
My daughter turned 12 Friday. When she woke up, she said, “I hope nothing terrible happens today.” How sad to start a special day with this thought. I had the same thought, considering how domestic terrorists attempted to take over…
What to Wear to Inauguration Day on the National Mall in DC
Planning on attending the Presidential Inauguration? Tips on what to wear to Inauguration Day and for any winter protest or march in DC
Now We Don Our Sartorial Armor
Discussing sartorial armor – the clothing that makes us feel strong during difficult times.
Retail Cancel Culture
I worked retail for many years, for a variety of retailers in a variety of niches but they were essentially all run the same. There were two goals: increase sales and get the thieves out of the store. Theft, AKA…
American Healthcare on Hold: A Year of Health Insurance
Healthcare wasn’t something I thought about; it was something I took for granted. My father worked for the government, so growing up we had great insurance. When I went to college, the ACA and its policy to have young adults covered by…
What to Wear to a Protest March
This post was originally written in December 2016 in preparation for the first Women’s March. Since then, we as Americans have had several reasons to continue marching and protesting. I have since updated this post to be a valuable resource…
A Healthy Dose of Thanks
This month I finally paid off my medical bills, and for that I’d like to thank you. See, I do have insurance. Relatively good insurance. It’s the biggest reason why I have not become a full-time blogger. I know the…
#ThisIs40: I Got an IUD
I started hormonal birth control when I was 18. I lost my virginity and two weeks later I was getting my first pap smear and a prescription for a plastic disc of pills. Over the next decade plus I tried…
