The Friday Shop

the friday shop

I took the second half of Wednesday and yesterday off the blog and social (except for Twitter) because with such important news happening in our country, I didn't want to be a distraction. Over this ‘demic, I have been happy to be a distraction while also providing thoughtful and helpful content, but some days… we need to be aware. And what happened at the Capitol on Wednesday and the news about it yesterday, that should have been your focus.

It's hard to know how to handle content when you're a fashion blogger and the world is on fire. I live just a few miles from the D.C. city limits and have friends who work inside The Capitol and in buildings in the area. I have friends who dealt with American terrorists terrorizing them and their neighborhoods this week. I am disgusted, but sadly not surprised.

And unfortunately, I know this week isn't the end of their disrespect for our country, our laws and Constitution, and their hatred, vandalism, and violence. We all need to continue through this. We have to get up each day, we have to get to work. We change sizes and lifestyles and priorities, and with it our wardrobes also change.

I will continue to share the same content I always have, but when I feel it is a distraction from what we as a people need to focus on, will remove my voice from the chatter. As I shared Wednesday night on Instagram Stories, privilege is being able to enjoy a distraction in the midst of unrest. And privilege is what has brought upon this American travesty.

From the Mailbag

bra fitting during covid
Image via Cacique, which has a page to help you find your bra size at home

“I am in desperate need of a bra fitting and new bras. What are my options with Covid?”

I think many of us are finding that after several months with a different lifestyle we are in need of a proper bra fitting. Even without a major pandemic across the globe, we all should be fitted for bras once a year as our size changes with activity level, age, weight loss and gain, gravity, and much much more.

If you are comfortable enough to shop in person, my recommendation is finding a bra speciality boutique in your area. Any that are open are making efforts to keep the experience as safe as possible. Some examples of intimates boutiques in this area:

  • A La Mode Intimates, which is in Annapolis and Fells Point, is a boutique I have visited more than once (though visits were before the ‘demic) that has a beautiful and functional range of intimates in a beautiful range of sizes. A La Mode Intimates is recommending appointments. Face masks are required in-store at all times, and they have limited in-store capacity.
  • Cherry Blossom Intimates is a boutique in Glenarden, Maryland that specializes in breast health and is co-founded by a board-certified breast cancer surgeon and the only physician who is a certified mastectomy fitter. They offer 200 different intimates sizes for those who have and have not gone through breast cancer and/or surgery and with 3-D printing technology offer silicone prosthetic breasts that look like the breast a customer has lost to breast cancer. You must make an appointment to shop Cherry Blossom Intimates; masks must be worn, and they are reducing the number of customers in the store at one time. They have a whole page breaking down their safety protocol.
  • Trousseau is a boutique in Vienna, Virginia that is award-winning for its 20+ years of bra-fitting expertise. Trousseau is one of the largest independently owned specialty bra stores in North America. This intimates shop is limited the number of clients in the store at a time, are constantly sanitizing surfaces, requiring masks, and you will have your temperature checked and hand sanitized upon arrival.
  • Coupe de Foudre, an award-winning bra boutique in Washington, D.C. is only seeing clients by appointment and only one customer is allowed in the store at a time. The area is regularly sanitized and the entire staff is wearing masks at all times.

That being said, I fully respect the desire to not entire a store, no matter their ‘demic protocol. For that situation, I cannot recommend the Reddit subgroup A Bra That Fits enough.

Reddit can be overwhelming for those unfamiliar with this site. No worries, you don't need an account or to do anything but read to benefit from A Bra that Fits. This link will provide you with a Beginner's Guide to A Bra that Fits.

That too can be a lot to digest, so if you scroll through it and just can't deal with it all, head over to their bra calculator at this link. This link will tell you how to measure yourself accurately, you enter your measurements and a few additional details and will be provided your bra size. I have used this calculator many times as have Wardrobe Oxygen readers and community members and have found it very accurate, even more accurate than some bra fitters at stores.

My Current Favorite Bras:

Sale Alert

Equilibria CBD: 50% off Subscriptions

I shared at the end of December that Equilibria CBD had a sale of 50% off with new subscriptions. I just found out that they extended this sale through today/Friday, January 8th. Use this link and code wardrobeoxygen50 at checkout to get 50% off a new subscription.

equilibria promo code 50

I am a fan of Equilibria CBD over other CBD brands because of the quality and customer service. I came to this CBD brand as a skeptic; read my original Equilibria CBD review. Equilibria CBD is sourced from a single farm, and the land was fallow before they began growing hemp for their CBD. This is an organic farm, so you are getting a consistent and quality product. Also, every Equilibria customer has access to a Dosage Specialist; you get a phone call with a CBD expert to discuss how the products are working for you, what your goals are with CBD, and any questions you have about the products, effects, or CBD in general.

Subscriptions make sense not only because it's cheaper (50% cheaper the first month and 20% cheaper every month after that), but because CBD works best if you use it consistently. I take CBD orally every day and it helps with anxiety, sleep, and especially inflammation. I now use CBD topically on my back and knees before workouts; my husband takes it orally for workouts to prevent inflammation.

I even signed my mom up for a subscription during this promo, I think it's such a good deal. There were some questions when I originally shared this deal and got clarification from Equilibria:

  • If you receive an error message when trying to use the discount code, remove the code from the coupon code box as our system may have automatically applied it. This may fix the error.
  • The 50% discount code is half off the retail price when you purchase the subscription, not 50% off your entire purchase.
  • To get this discount you need to either use this link (which should automatically enter the code and you'll see it in a mint green box at the top of your shopping cart) or my code which is wardrobeoxygen50.
  • I shared with a few of you in my Instagram DMs when you asked about this deal if you used Equilibria a while ago but now want to subscribe. Did you know that periods don't matter in Gmail email addresses and because of this, you technically have multiple email addresses? Confusing? Check out this article from the New York Times on the subject. This is just a super helpful tip that I learned a bit ago and have used for multiple situations.

Talbots: Red Hanger Sale

If you haven't shopped the Talbots Red Hanger sale before, you are missing out. The sales are amazing on really amazing merchandise. Through the 24th, Talbots has an extra 50% off markdowns, PLUS sweaters as low as $19.99 and pants as low as $29.99.

I own a lot of Talbots; over the years it has remained one of my favorite clothing retailers for fit, quality, and classic style that morphs into whatever personal style I feel like rocking. This is a sale where you do not want to wait because once it's sold it's gone. So don't get angry if my picks are no longer in stock; I wrote this last night to be as close as possible to launch time but I can't control what people buy.

talbots red hanger sale
A few of the items I own from Talbots that are part of the Red Hanger Sale

What I own from Talbots that is on sale and what I think:

  • This turtleneck sweater, which you can see in this blog post. It has held up nicely. For my comfort, I find it too thick for layering but may be too lightweight for those who live here in the Mid-Atlantic and anywhere colder. Though, those in colder climates are likely more comfortable layering sweaters under jackets and other sweaters.
  • These pants, which are in the same blog post, I think are a sleeper hit. A super chick and curve-friendly cut, a color that works year round, they'd be great with a blazer and Breton tee with loafers, a blouse and flats, a silky cami and heeled sandals come summer.
  • This merino v-neck, which you can see in this blog post. If in doubt, size up. I think it's a nice weight for merino and well crafted.
  • This merino ‘Sabrina' sweater, which you can see in this Instagram photo. This is a lovely sweater, the details make it dressier and perfect with a skirt for an event or for the office.
  • This striped sweater, which you can see in this blog post. I also recommend sizing up if in doubt, but this is a lovely sweater I wear often (and it's good for layering if you're into that).
  • This cashmere sweater, which you can see in this blog post, this blog post, and this blog post. Clearly a favorite.
  • This blazer, which I have in red from last year and you can see on me in this blog post. It's the kind of blazer you can rock for years because it's so elegant and classic.
  • This jean jacket. Talbots makes amazing jean jackets, like seriously. I like it better than J. Crew, better than Madewell.
  • Talbots Slim Ankle Jeans, which I have here and here and here. They are a great fit, some of my favorite jeans (though not stretchy enough to wear when hanging out at home).
  • These jeans, which also come in this wash. You can see me wear them this blog post and this blog post and worn pretty regularly.
  • The Talbots Hampshire Pant I have owned several over the years; they are the pants in this Instagram post. They are a great ankle pants that can dress up and down, aren't too snug but look modern, and I've bought Hampshires one year and found a matching blazer a different season. I wear my standard size (14P) in them.

But don't think these are the only gems in the Talbots Red Hanger Sale. It's truly worth a look.

What I Bought and What I Thought

woman in a denim jacket and black knit joggers crossing the street
I'm wearing these joggers in the photo (cabi Pivot, no longer available) right now as I type this blog post!

Y'all have had some suggestions when I wrote about searching for the best joggers. And so I have ordered a few pairs that are available in extended sizing for a comprehensive review. My search is for joggers that are polished enough to be streetwear but are still comfy enough to wear hanging out at home.

I expected this review post to go live this week but with the issues with shipping, only about half have arrived. And spoiler alert, I don't like any of them enough to keep them. I'm spoiled by my cabi Pivot joggers.

The ones I have received are either thick like old school sweatpants or thin and best for hanging out at home or worn on very firm young bodies. I do believe any age person can wear anything they want, but I also know that with age comes gravity, and it can determine which kinds of fabrics and cuts are the most enjoyable and empowering to wear. But a few are still in transit, so maybe they are my Holy Grail joggers… stay tuned!

fatboy inflatable lounger review

I mentioned this Fatboy inflatable lounger in my gift guide for college students. Santa ended up bringing it for my kid this year. No shame, I really wanted one for myself, thinking of hanging out at the beach, in the backyard, and if music festivals ever happen again.

This is pretty cool. It's durable enough to have a tween treat it like a bouncy house and not break. It does lose air if it's jumped all over, but not through seams, just through the closure, which doesn't affect the product integrity. The only thing to note is you likely won't be able to fill it with air while indoors. To get it fully inflated, you need to spin it around in the air. We ended up inflating it outside and then bringing it in to enjoy.

GE LED night light

Okay this is kind of random but we got two of these night lights. We received a night light that looks like a Christmas tree as a gift this year and we put it up in the living room. We ended up liking that we had a night light on the bottom floor. Now that our kid is an age where she will occasionally wake before us or roam around the house alone, it's nice to have some light downstairs without having to flip a switch. So after the holidays, we went to look for a replacement non-holiday night light that looked nice.

It looks like a farmhouse light, it has a sensor so it doesn't turn on until it's dark, and you can control how dim or bright you like it. And if you so desire, you can change it to some fun color. It's also LED, so no bulbs to replace and it doesn't get hot. We decided to get a two-pack to put the other in the downstairs half bath/laundry room, which is where this photo was taken (if you want to see more of this bathroom, here's an old post showing it). The photo has a cameo of our bidet, which we looooove and I mention in this post.

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7 Comments

  1. Jacquie
    January 8, 2021 / 6:31 pm

    Alison, I just want to let you know that to me, you are more than just a style advisor. Your view on things beyond fashion is one of the reasons I subscribed. To be honest on Wednesday, with all the chaos and fear, I was actually looking for your voice to calm my emotional reactions to the horrifying news and images. Weird? Maybe, nevertheless true. I respect your decision to lay low, but I just want to let you know that you are “very special”. 😀

  2. Linda B
    January 8, 2021 / 11:39 am

    I really appreciate how you approached the past few days of absolute craziness. Even more, I appreciate your recognition that you had the privilege to watch the horrors of the insurrection from the safety of home–and that one of the really huge roots of that attempted coup was white privilege. Racism has been one of the biggest drivers of Trumpism all along, along with a mind-boggling level of avarice. I have been thinking about this since Wednesday. I am so disgusted and angry. We have so much work to do. . . I also have a level of hope for the future. I swing back and forth. . .

    I apologize if this is off topic from shopping. . .

  3. Jane
    January 8, 2021 / 10:44 am

    I really appreciate your approach to this week’s events. This is pre-pandemic, but I had a great experience at Trousseau when I threw up my hands at the A Bra That Fits site and went for a re-fitting. I’m not keen on an in-person fitting right now, so I’ll have to give ABTF another try, but at the time, they were really keen on lace bras (as opposed to molded cup) for fit, and I also had to do a lot of ordering and returns to figure out what fit my shape. An in-person fitting with an expert is a breeze. But times have changed.

    I also had a great experience at Le Bustiere Boutique in DC; that was for lingerie, but I believe they carry all types of bras and are a black-owned business, so I intend to head there when I am ready to go for an in-person refitting.

  4. Bette
    January 8, 2021 / 10:29 am

    My tried and true bra shop in the DC area — Sylene in Friendship Heights — recently closed for good. The store owners had personally measured and fit women ranging from celebrity to ordinary, specializing in breast cancer patients, including Nancy Reagan. The closing marked the end of an era for me and so many others. Here’s a great article about the store:

    https://www.washingtonpost.com/local/sylene-closing/2020/10/15/50e6e14e-0e9d-11eb-8a35-237ef1eb2ef7_story.html

  5. Sara C.
    January 8, 2021 / 10:01 am

    I hope many bra stores are allowing curbside pickup with an easy to understand return policy. For myself, I would not at this point in time go do something as intimate as a true bra fitting session during COVID. But if I had an intimates store I wanted to support, I might call on the phone, explain why I felt I needed new bras (weight gain or loss, feeling that my back strap was riding up, bras are just old, whatever) and share my current size and brand situation, and let them package up six or eight bras for me to take home and try (or perhaps even to come into the store and try, alone, without someone coming in to the fitting room to fit me and help me out). I offer this thought because I know there’s a silent, large group of us out here who are not down with advice to do any indoors in person less than six foot stuff. But I also love to support local businesses and bricks and mortar generally, so I keep working on ways to do that.

  6. E E Deere
    January 8, 2021 / 9:38 am

    I have shopped at Coupe de Foudre and have been so pleased with the fitting and with the pretty bras, great service.

  7. Judith M.
    January 8, 2021 / 9:08 am

    I LOVED, LOVED, LOVED shopping for intimates at Bra-La-La in Fulton, near Columbia, MD, when I lived in Annapolis and on the Eastern Shore. According to their website, they are open, maybe by appointments. The ladies there always made me comfortable. I never felt any judgment for not having a “model” body, let alone a plus body. They carry a wide selection of sizes, and absolutely delicious garments. I can’t say enough good things about the ladies, and the store. Shopping there was more than worth the drive. Bra-La-La is in a shopping center at 8180 Maple Lawn Boulevard, Fulton, MD, 301-776-6007, https://bra-la-la.com.

    I miss the ladies and the shop. My first big in-person purchase 10 years ago was to get a few (many) nice things after I met “the one” while traveling. I was so nervous and told the ladies about it—divorced over 20 years, almost terrified about entering a relationship after not dating for so long, and feeling more than a little uncomfortable about the intimate side. They were very supportive and we had many laughs during that prolonged shopping session. When I got home, the first thing I did was show my neighbor all the goodies over the back fence. I visited Bra-La-La several more times to increase my stock before moving to FL after getting married. I’d love for them to have a Tampa/Clearwater FL store, but that’s a wish too far.

    I hope my comments help some of the Wardrobe Oxygen readers in finding a wonderful intimates experience.

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