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The perfect red for the holiday season 💄

I love a red lipstick, especially in winter. It adds brightness to gray days and skin not exposed to the sun. Look in my dressing table and you’ll find at least a dozen different red lipsticks. But this winter my go-to red is “Relax” by @flyte.70 

Glossy but not sticky, long wearing but not drying, the Flyte.70 L+L.LipLacquer feels like a lip balm. One layer is a hint of color and shine; add more layers for more pigment, gloss, and impact. This isn’t the only Flyte.70 lip color I have and love; I regularly wear “Fast Car” which is a modern version of the brown lipsticks we loved in the 90s that looks so good with the neutrals popular right now.

And with products named after songs from the 80s and 90s I couldn’t not use this Frankie Goes to Hollywood song for this lip color!

This isn’t paid, it’s a PSA because I know it’s hard to find good red lip colors. And @flyte.70 is a U.S.-based woman-owned ethical beauty brand created specifically for U.S. grown women and I find the quality stellar.

Use code WOXYGEN15 for 15% off your order at Flyte.70

The quickest and cheapest way to update your wardrobe for the holidays is with a glossy red lip! 💄

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The tree is trimmed! 🎄

When I was a single gal, I had the prettiest tree with a color story and theme. 20 years later, my tree is a hodgepodge of inherited ornaments, gifts from loved ones, and handmade pieces from both my childhood and by my child. And I think each year it veers further from the original concept the more beautiful it becomes!

My daughter and I donned our Santa hats, turned on the holiday playlist, a Yule log on the TV, and spent the afternoon getting our home into the Christmas spirit.

When she was little, my husband would pick her up so she could place the star on top of the tree. Now that she’s taller than I am, when he got home he just put his arm around her as she used the library stool to reach the top. Some traditions need to be modified with time but they’re still special! ⭐️

Top is a feather trimmed Breton from @talbotsofficial; the scarf as a belt is also Talbots but a few years old. The jeans are @landsend and the blanket on the chair in the second photo is by artist  @zanderschlacter
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My therapist recommended I walk outside more as I grieve the recent loss of my mom.

When it was time to pay for my mom’s funeral, the credit card I had in my wallet was my @bananarepublic Mastercard. I’ve had this card for decades because over the years, most of our family have worn some Gap brand. From onesies to tuxedos, we’ve updated our wardrobes with points.

And I got a serious chunk of points for charging my mom’s funeral expenses on my Banana card.

I decided to use them to buy clothes for winter outdoor walking. Nothing motivates me more than a chance to put together a cute outfit. This cute look is from @athleta, one of the few activewear brands that fits both my size and my style.

My Athleta purchase arrived on my doorstep and that day, a neighbor reached out, inviting me to join a group of women in our community who were supporting, not competing, to move 100k. I immediately said yes and signed up. 

This past week I hit 100k. And this past week week it has been two months she has been gone. I’m still going 💪 

Wearing XL. For reference I’m 5’3” and usually wear a size 14.

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Normalizing the normal everyday outfit…

It was a day of running errands, running to the office, and then running into friends. It rained off and on so I wanted shoes for potential puddles and a coat that wouldn’t soak through but also keep me warm.

The sweater is @universalstandard; I bought it thinking it was a bold purple but the color was off on the site and I got plum. But I think I like this better. I’m wearing a S. This is my second of this cardigan, it is super soft, dense, and holds up to washing. My other one I got a year ago and still wear all the time.

The jeans are @oldnavy and while they’re not perfect and stretch out throughout the day they were around $18 and I like the wash and weight of the denim. I’m wearing a 14 Short.

The boots are old Docs, the coat I got at @talbotsofficial last winter, and the bag is @maxwellscottuk and I’ve had for almost a decade. Earrings are @_jennybird, necklace is @gorjana. 

Disclosure: the coat was gifted last year but remains a favorite. The necklace was also gifted about a year ago but I keep wearing because I like it and it has held up quality-wise. The rest I bought. 

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Counteract the gray days with cozy colorful clothes! 🌈 This cashmere sweater set is the prettiest teal and I loved how it looked with this candy pink Chesterfield coat. All are from @anntaylor one of my favorite places to shop because Ann has petites over a size 12. Also all of these items are on sale!

While I did receive these clothes as a gift from Ann Taylor I am under no obligation to share with you. This is what I wore to work and when I saw these colors against the green of my building door I had to prop up my phone and capture the color combo!

This sweater is a classic and with the skirt is created a dress effect you can style with tall boots, ankle boots and tights, or dress down with sneakers. I linked to other pieces in this color that would also look dreamy with this skirt, as well as other gorgeous colorful coats.

For reference I am wearing the coat in XL petite and the sweater set in L. I am 5’3” and usually wear a 14/16

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Just got back from a 4-night getaway with my sister @debbiefaye78 at @curacaomarriottbeachresort. It was a last-minute planned trip that ended up being perfect. We weren’t ready to celebrate Thanksgiving without our mom and this escape what just what our hearts needed. 

I’ll be sharing more once I finally unpack my suitcase and organize my photos and thoughts; but I couldn’t not share this picture from yesterday morning. Debbie and I got up early to enjoy some of the day at the resort before flying home to DC. We had the infinity pool to ourselves, finished our books, and relaxed before a long day of travel. 🌴
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It’s hard when you’re petite and most models aren’t; you have no idea how clothes, especially jeans will fit. To promote @universalstandard’s Denim Drive sale, the company sent me two pairs of jeans of my choice. And I chose to make this video to show how they fit on my 5’3” body. I am usually a 14/32 in jeans but at Universal Standard I wear a 12 because they’re super stretchy and generously sized. 

With jeans as low as $35 in sizes 00-40, this is a sale not to be missed. And use code INFS-BFALISON10 for an additional 10% off sitewide!

The Farrah Flare is a favorite because at my height, most flare jeans will lose what makes them special once hemmed. At a 30” inseam these are great with low heels or lug soles.

The Etta is a straight jean with a vintage fit. If in doubt size down. They’re also super stretchy and the 28” inseam (they also come in 31”) works with my boots and sneakers.

While I was provided the apparel in this Reel for free, I was not paid or contracted to create this content. Consider it a PSA for my fellow shorties shopping this fab denim sale!

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Thanks to @talbotsofficial I’m ready for the holidays! #AD

I love Talbots for holiday fashion and this season’s new arrivals do not disappoint. And for Black Friday the entire site is 40% off with free shipping on orders $150+. Until noon, you also receive 50% off 1 regular price item!

I ordered pieces from the Talbots Holiday Collection and found great quality, great style, and great versatility. How cute is the Breton stripe bateau neck with the removable feather cuffs? The metallic plaid patio skirt is so fun, and these two dresses can glam up or dress down with a change of footwear and bag. For reference, I am wearing everything in either XL or 16 petite.

The ivory cords are also Talbots; the black trousers are from last year’s Talbots Holiday Collection showing how Talbots has lasting style. I’ve linked to exact or very similar in my LTK shop. Follow my shop @wardrobe_oxygen on the @shop.ltk app to shop this post and get my exclusive app-only content! https://liketk.it/4oDJF

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Outfit Posts, Summer · May 31, 2011

My Wardrobe Today – Weekend Wear

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When reader Grace mentioned in my last post's comments that I usually dress up on this blog I asked my husband to snap a couple pics this weekend of my casual look. I am one to dress up whenever possible (yep, I'm the chick in the heels and dress at every shower, party, and family get-together), I do have a pretty casual side on weekends. I live in a bit of a “hippie” community and like to attend casual events like cookouts and music festivals, so I feel most comfortable sans pearls and structured handbags when stepping out on my personal time.

Friday I got out of work a bit early and dashed inside, switched out my outfit for a weather-appropriate sundress. My husband, Emerson and I headed to the cafe in town for a beer, light dinner, and to see neighbors and friends.

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Dress – Ann Taylor LOFT
Belt – Old Navy (no longer available)
Flip flops – J. Crew (no longer available)
Aviators – Ray-Ban (similar)
Silver cuff

On Emerson:
Stroller – Maclaren “Volo”ir?t=whaevewomneei 20&l=btl&camp=213689&creative=392969&o=1&a=B003JQLG4Q
Dress and shoes – Old Navy
Water bottle – Camelbakir?t=whaevewomneei 20&l=btl&camp=213689&creative=392969&o=1&a=B0043835M0 (we have so many of these – one on each floor of the house, Emerson-sized ones, I have one at work – best way to stay hydrated all day!)

This dress seemed like a winner but started failing throughout the night; the hem started unraveling, and the straps stretched in just the few hours wearing it where I had to keep adjusting them and still ended up having my bra on display.  I also felt it ran very high waisted and looked naked without a belt.  A bit of a fail, though I have some other LOFT winners (stay tuned!).

Sunday we did our weekly trip to the farmer's market – it too is walking distance so I dressed for the trek and weather. You can see one of my L.L. Bean Boat and Tote bags on my shoulder – we have been discussing these bags on Facebook after me mentioning them in my recent article on Savings.com – such a great purchase, they come in sizes to fit anything from a handbag to luggage, and have such classic style.

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“Make Art not War” tee shirt – gift (available here)
Shorts – Old Navy (don't seem to be online any more, though were still in stores on Saturday)
Hat – purchased in Tennessee last year en route to Bonnaroo
Boots – DUO “Bern”
Aviators – Ray-Ban (similar)
Silver hoops
Tote bag – L.L. Bean

On Emerson:
Top, shorts, and sandals – Childrens Place
Hat – REI (seriously the BEST toddler hat! Lightweight, huge brim even blocks the neck and back, air vents, chin strap that is adjustable, adjustable size that should fit her until she's 5, and she doesn't mind wearing it!)

Sunday afternoon we went to a cookout; no pics but it was a variation of what I am wearing today (stay tuned).  Orange knit dress, brown belt, green earrings, and the brown flip flops in the first picture.

Monday we went for breakfast and then to another cookout; I wore this dress from Old Navy in pink with an olive tank underneath, navy bead necklace and my flip flops (all from J. Crew).  Hated the dress and want to burn it after wearing.  Purchased it for Bonnaroo and was testing it out but found it a complete fail – too wide of a neck, too long of straps, the layers stick to each other after washing and keep clinging (and clinging to my underwear) and it looks like a maternity dress.  Still searching for another two Bonnaroo sundresses…

My weekends are usually in dresses with flip flops or boots: something that is easy to put on, lets me chase a toddler but not look like a complete slob.  I have had a hard time finding weekend-worthy dresses this year; last year's are too big and the pre-Emerson ones are far too short.  I am not a fan of my bod in shorts, but it has been so hot lately it is insane to try to wear full-length pants.  Right now I have a pair of white shorts, these cutoffs and a looser/longer/more distressed pair of cutoffs; wouldn't mind a pair that is a bit more stylish.  I tried these on at Ann Taylor and they were gorgeous, but too short for my age and legs.  If you have great gams, you should check them out!

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  1. Grace Mitchell says

    August 9, 2011 at 11:20 pm

    You look gorgeous in casual clothes!

    Have you looked for dresses at Target? I haven’t tried anything on, but a couple I liked when I saw them were:
    http://www.target.com/Mossimo-Draped-Elastic-Waist-Dress/dp/B004FQWH9C/ref=br_1_17?ie=UTF8&id=Mossimo%20Draped%20Elastic%20Waist%20Dress&node=1104830&searchSize=30&searchView=grid5&searchPage=2&sr=1-17&qid=1306857032&rh=sleeve_type%3ASleeveless&searchBinNameList=style_name%2Csleeve_type%2Ccollar_style-bin%2Clifestyle-bin%2Ctarget_com_size-bin%2Ctarget_com_primary_color-bin%2Cprice%2Ctarget_com_brand-bin&searchRank=salesrank&frombrowse=1

    and 

    http://www.target.com/Mossimo-Strappy-Maxi-Dress-Explosion/dp/B004I14O6I/ref=br_1_26?ie=UTF8&id=Mossimo%20Strappy%20Maxi%20Dress%20Explosion&node=1104830&searchSize=30&searchView=grid5&searchPage=2&sr=1-26&qid=1306857032&rh=sleeve_type%3ASleeveless&searchBinNameList=style_name%2Csleeve_type%2Ccollar_style-bin%2Clifestyle-bin%2Ctarget_com_size-bin%2Ctarget_com_primary_color-bin%2Cprice%2Ctarget_com_brand-bin&searchRank=salesrank&frombrowse=1

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  2. nestbliss says

    June 6, 2011 at 12:06 am

    oh I love how you are wearing the boots I need to do that! Your right your baby does need a fan!

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  3. Anonymous says

    June 5, 2011 at 3:08 am

    Wow Sandy – you’re a bitch.

    Allie, you look always look great!

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  4. Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

    June 3, 2011 at 6:59 pm

    By all means, I would be happy if you did! 🙂

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  5. Jill Erickson says

    June 3, 2011 at 6:57 pm

    I am IN LOVE with your Sunday outfit.  I will probably copy it at some point.  Just so ya know.

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  6. Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

    June 1, 2011 at 11:21 am

    Nothing wrong with letting the straps show at Bonnaroo!  Right now I only have beige and black bras and the straps are pretty thick so having them show will make me look dreadful.  Hrm… have to think.  And thanks for the pic!

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  7. Sandy says

    June 1, 2011 at 9:01 am

    Yikes – that cowboy look is nasty!!! Not sure the legs are good enough for those shorts either.

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  8. Misty says

    June 1, 2011 at 2:09 am

    I actually have a aqua bluish bra, and it will just have to show. When I wore them to work, I had a cardigan that covered the straps, I haven’t worn them sans sleeves yet, but I figure since I bought them for Bonnaroo, no one will mind my bra strap showing. I do think strapless would work though. II feel like they come up decently high. P

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  9. Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

    June 1, 2011 at 1:06 am

    Sweet!

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  10. Lee says

    June 1, 2011 at 1:00 am

    Excellent.  All they have left are XS, S and L, so Large it is!

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  11. Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

    June 1, 2011 at 12:24 am

    It’s a large 🙂

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  12. Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

    June 1, 2011 at 12:24 am

    Ooh may have to check that out, but how do you wear with a bra?  Strapless?

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  13. Misty says

    May 31, 2011 at 10:20 pm

    I bought this dress in the color picture, solid aqua, and the yellowish print.http://oldnavy.gap.com/browse/product.do?cid=68334&vid=1&pid=839441&scid=839441062
    All for Bonnaroo, but I have been wearing them to work with a cardigan over them. You might try them…
    It sounds like you guys had a nice weekend! Love E’s hat.  

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  14. Lee says

    May 31, 2011 at 9:19 pm

    Ali — love the Make Art Not War t-shirt.  What size is yours? 

    Reply
  15. Jennifer says

    May 31, 2011 at 7:40 pm

    You look so fantastic!  You are an inspiration.

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  16. Jennifer says

    May 31, 2011 at 7:40 pm

    You look so fantastic!  You are an inspiration.

    Reply
  17. Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

    May 31, 2011 at 5:25 pm

    I am almost tempted to go to the store and see if I just got a bad dress; but I know that with my chest those straps will keep getting too long with wear.  Ah well, shall keep searching! 

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  18. Rheh1986 says

    May 31, 2011 at 5:19 pm

    Allie,

    I LOVE that dress on you!  Sorry to hear it didn’t work well – I have tried it on twice in the coral color and have been waiting for it to go on sale.  Though I also found it to be high waisted.  What I did like was that it was not an empire waist.  Completely agree with Meredith – I feel so uncomfortable in the empire waist dresses and it is very hard to find a dress that flatters.  At 48 I am past wanting to look pregnant.  I also think that dresses are the way to go in the hot, sticky weather!

    As always thanks for sharing!  Love your taste in clothes!

    Betsy

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  19. MeredithJC says

    May 31, 2011 at 4:25 pm

    I also have the dress that you mention you got from Old Navy in navy blue that you wore on Monday (I have it in the grape purple).  I generally like it but feel like it makes me look pregnant.  I have a smallish frame but empire dresses always give me that look and I feel like it’s accentuated because I’m short.  I’m having a really hard time finding summer sundresses that aren’t empire waist and have thick enough straps for a bra.  

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  20. Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

    May 31, 2011 at 3:56 pm

    Cute!  I like the maxi dress.  Neither of these dresses are at my local Target; the selection there is dreadful.  Might have to make an order…

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  21. Grace Mitchell says

    May 31, 2011 at 3:51 pm

    You look gorgeous in casual clothes!

    Have you looked for dresses at Target? I haven’t tried anything on, but a couple I liked when I saw them were:
    http://www.target.com/Mossimo-Draped-Elastic-Waist-Dress/dp/B004FQWH9C/ref=br_1_17?ie=UTF8&id=Mossimo%20Draped%20Elastic%20Waist%20Dress&node=1104830&searchSize=30&searchView=grid5&searchPage=2&sr=1-17&qid=1306857032&rh=sleeve_type%3ASleeveless&searchBinNameList=style_name%2Csleeve_type%2Ccollar_style-bin%2Clifestyle-bin%2Ctarget_com_size-bin%2Ctarget_com_primary_color-bin%2Cprice%2Ctarget_com_brand-bin&searchRank=salesrank&frombrowse=1

    and 

    http://www.target.com/Mossimo-Strappy-Maxi-Dress-Explosion/dp/B004I14O6I/ref=br_1_26?ie=UTF8&id=Mossimo%20Strappy%20Maxi%20Dress%20Explosion&node=1104830&searchSize=30&searchView=grid5&searchPage=2&sr=1-26&qid=1306857032&rh=sleeve_type%3ASleeveless&searchBinNameList=style_name%2Csleeve_type%2Ccollar_style-bin%2Clifestyle-bin%2Ctarget_com_size-bin%2Ctarget_com_primary_color-bin%2Cprice%2Ctarget_com_brand-bin&searchRank=salesrank&frombrowse=1

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The tree is trimmed! 🎄

When I was a single gal, I had the prettiest tree with a color story and theme. 20 years later, my tree is a hodgepodge of inherited ornaments, gifts from loved ones, and handmade pieces from both my childhood and by my child. And I think each year it veers further from the original concept the more beautiful it becomes!

My daughter and I donned our Santa hats, turned on the holiday playlist, a Yule log on the TV, and spent the afternoon getting our home into the Christmas spirit.

When she was little, my husband would pick her up so she could place the star on top of the tree. Now that she’s taller than I am, when he got home he just put his arm around her as she used the library stool to reach the top. Some traditions need to be modified with time but they’re still special! ⭐️

Top is a feather trimmed Breton from @talbotsofficial; the scarf as a belt is also Talbots but a few years old. The jeans are @landsend and the blanket on the chair in the second photo is by artist  @zanderschlacter

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Just got back from a 4-night getaway with my sister @debbiefaye78 at @curacaomarriottbeachresort. It was a last-minute planned trip that ended up being perfect. We weren’t ready to celebrate Thanksgiving without our mom and this escape what just what our hearts needed. 

I’ll be sharing more once I finally unpack my suitcase and organize my photos and thoughts; but I couldn’t not share this picture from yesterday morning. Debbie and I got up early to enjoy some of the day at the resort before flying home to DC. We had the infinity pool to ourselves, finished our books, and relaxed before a long day of travel. 🌴

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Working on the weekend is far more enjoyable when it’s in my office 💚

Perimenopause and the pandemic and homeschooling made our row home feel even smaller. So when neighbors revitalized an office building in our town center and offered individual offices for rent, I felt it would be good for business and personally. And I kept it when the world opened up and our kid went back to public school because it helps me have a clear start and end to the work day, but also because I created a space I really enjoy.

This weekend I went to the office to shoot some content. And once I was finished I enjoyed just sitting here, watching the light change. I think I may switch the furniture around, switch up the energy. I love that I can do that without consulting another or having another person’s opinions matter.

When you have a family, things go from me to we. I don’t regret leaving Corporate America to do this full time, but I do miss being part of a team. And I missed having an office, a place away from home that’s just for me. 

I wish more communities would offer rental offices like @thegranitebuilding. With reasonably affordable monthly rates, it doesn’t have to just be business owners who get office spaces. It can be a place to work on a hobby or craft, a place to WFH that’s not home, or a place to just read and write and nap undisturbed. A literal room of one’s own. Because sometimes a person needs time to be a me and not a we. 💚

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My husband has a special backpack he fills with weight to wear while hiking; it’s called rucking. I wear a @dagnedover Dakota and fill it with my laptop, my iPad, a full water bottle, and my purse and walk to work; it’s called commuting. 💁🏻‍♀️

But seriously, I’ve had this backpack for five years. It has been shoved under plane seats, in overstuffed car trunks, under feet in the passenger seat. I’ve worn it as I’ve walked miles in major cities and from my house to my town center. My daughter also has a Dagne Dakota; it survived middle school and continues to work through camping, sleepovers, and road trips. It’s genially designed, comfortable, and can take a beating and still look great.

As for the rest of the look, the vest (XL) is a new purchase from @athleta; the Rainier tights (L) are also Athleta but two years old. The purple top is @nike and about a decade old. Hat is @llbean and it’s on sale for less than $15. And my trusty @hoka sneakers that have had their own set of adventures.

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Another day of early voting for our city election, another outfit I wore as an election judge! 🗳️

I got this sweater set from @mmlafleur last spring and it continues to be a favorite. The color and popcorn stitch makes it wearable three seasons of the year. I’ve styled it with gold heels and dramatic gold earrings, with sneakers and a crossbody belt bag, and more than once with knee-high boots and a scarf at my throat. The color works with brown and black boots, the skirt silhouette and length with heels and flats. These brown riding boots are from @duoboots and almost a decade old. The scarf belonged to my dad; I have a feeling it was styled with a leisure suit back in the day!

I may have been more dressed up than other election judges but I think seeing democracy in action is a cause to celebrate! 🇺🇸

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Nov 4

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Early voting poll worker style 🗳️

I’ve been an election judge (AKA poll worker) for several years but this year I decided to take it a step further and join my city’s Board of Elections. I’m passionate about fair and accessible elections for all. The Board is acting as election judges for early voting so it’s great to use my previous experience on a city level!

I believe voting is a special occasion and I dressed the part. The puff sleeve sweater and pants are from @anntaylor; these pants are the same ones from the suit I wore earlier this week. I added a beloved @hermes scarf as a belt and silver hoops (they belonged to my mom) as a hint of shine.

If your area is having an election this coming week; I implore you to vote. Your voice deserves to be heard. And please ensure your neighbors know of the election and where to vote. 🇺🇸

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Nov 2

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Always fun to see my name in lights! 💡 I was a panelist at the annual @jaofcentralmd Leading Ladies event that connects local high schoolers with women in business. My panel was on using social media for promoting one’s business or personal brand. Along with other social media experts, we guided students and adults on how to create compelling and engaging social content and together created content for the conference’s feed. It was fun and I loved being able to share my almost two decades of personal and professional experience!

The dress code for the conference was business professional and since the event’s theme color was pink, they encouraged us to wear the color. 

This @anntaylor suit has been a favorite since late summer. I’ve dressed it down with a white tank and sneakers and glammed it up with a silk cami and gold heeled sandals. I love how Ann Taylor has petite suiting up to size 16; I know I’m not the only short curvy girl who desires suits and professional attire!

For this event I chose a berry-colored microfiber tank from @lovechicos. I own several of these tanks; they wear like iron and the tight weave and subtle shine make them great shells under suits. 

The look fit the theme but was also comfortable. I was glad to share my expertise and encourage others to see how they can donate their time and knowledge to a local @juniorachievementusa #JALeadingLadies #JALeadingLadies2023 #JACMD #JuniorAchievment

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Oct 18

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Sharing this from my #iPadOS17 thanks to @apple! A bit belated with all that has been going on lately but I’m really enjoying using an iPad to improve how I work, stay organized, and find new ways to be creative. Can I just say that editing video on an iPad instead of a phone is a game changer!

Recently, I attended an event at the gorgeous Apple Carnegie Library hosted by @flourishplanner_ to learn ways to make the most of #iOS17 and it was awesome. I brought my new iPad and learned about the new wallpaper, stickers, and organizing tools.

As for my look, the dress is from @bananarepublic’s summer collection. Kept it comfy with a pair of Samba sneakers and held down the volume of the dress with my black recycled leather @ganni crossbody. Added an old @_jennybird link necklace and a silver cuff I’ve had since the ‘90s.

#todayatapple #genxstyle #midsizestyle #midsizefashion #size14 #over40style

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Oct 17

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I love an excuse to dress up, especially if it’s for a good cause! This weekend was the @thenewdealcafe Masquer-AID fundraiser to support this independent cafe, art gallery, and live music venue in @cityofgreenbelt.

My family and I have loved going to The New Deal Cafe for all these years. Grabbing coffee with friends, having a meal, seeing an amazing band, participating in an open mic or one of their Reel and Meal events. So @debbiefaye78, our mom, and I got tickets and even chipped in for a plaque from us “Ashpes Girls.” 

Our mom passed before she could attend the event; we asked our like a sister best friend @shellymingram to join us in her place and we had a great time, dancing all night as our mom would have, connecting with neighbors, and supporting a local business we all love so much.

As for the outfit, the dress is @ronnykobo the bag is @ganni and I borrowed both from @renttherunway The shoes I’ve had for years and the gold metal mask I found on Amazon and liked how it could mold to my face and not put pressure on my still-healing eye.

And I know y’all will ask because I received so many DMs this weekend when I shared this event in my Stories… my sister’s dress is from @eshakti she bought it a few years ago and it’s even more gorgeous in person!

#newdealcafe #greenbeltisgreat #onlyingreenbelt #midsizestyle #genxstyle #over40style #greenbeltmd

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