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Counteract the gray days with cozy colorful clothes! 🌈 This cashmere sweater set is the prettiest teal and I loved how it looked with this candy pink Chesterfield coat. All are from @anntaylor one of my favorite places to shop because Ann has petites over a size 12. Also all of these items are on sale!

While I did receive these clothes as a gift from Ann Taylor I am under no obligation to share with you. This is what I wore to work and when I saw these colors against the green of my building door I had to prop up my phone and capture the color combo!

This sweater is a classic and with the skirt is created a dress effect you can style with tall boots, ankle boots and tights, or dress down with sneakers. I linked to other pieces in this color that would also look dreamy with this skirt, as well as other gorgeous colorful coats.

For reference I am wearing the coat in XL petite and the sweater set in L. I am 5’3” and usually wear a 14/16

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Just got back from a 4-night getaway with my sister @debbiefaye78 at @curacaomarriottbeachresort. It was a last-minute planned trip that ended up being perfect. We weren’t ready to celebrate Thanksgiving without our mom and this escape what just what our hearts needed. 

I’ll be sharing more once I finally unpack my suitcase and organize my photos and thoughts; but I couldn’t not share this picture from yesterday morning. Debbie and I got up early to enjoy some of the day at the resort before flying home to DC. We had the infinity pool to ourselves, finished our books, and relaxed before a long day of travel. 🌴
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It’s hard when you’re petite and most models aren’t; you have no idea how clothes, especially jeans will fit. To promote @universalstandard’s Denim Drive sale, the company sent me two pairs of jeans of my choice. And I chose to make this video to show how they fit on my 5’3” body. I am usually a 14/32 in jeans but at Universal Standard I wear a 12 because they’re super stretchy and generously sized. 

With jeans as low as $35 in sizes 00-40, this is a sale not to be missed. And use code INFS-BFALISON10 for an additional 10% off sitewide!

The Farrah Flare is a favorite because at my height, most flare jeans will lose what makes them special once hemmed. At a 30” inseam these are great with low heels or lug soles.

The Etta is a straight jean with a vintage fit. If in doubt size down. They’re also super stretchy and the 28” inseam (they also come in 31”) works with my boots and sneakers.

While I was provided the apparel in this Reel for free, I was not paid or contracted to create this content. Consider it a PSA for my fellow shorties shopping this fab denim sale!

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Thanks to @talbotsofficial I’m ready for the holidays! #AD

I love Talbots for holiday fashion and this season’s new arrivals do not disappoint. And for Black Friday the entire site is 40% off with free shipping on orders $150+. Until noon, you also receive 50% off 1 regular price item!

I ordered pieces from the Talbots Holiday Collection and found great quality, great style, and great versatility. How cute is the Breton stripe bateau neck with the removable feather cuffs? The metallic plaid patio skirt is so fun, and these two dresses can glam up or dress down with a change of footwear and bag. For reference, I am wearing everything in either XL or 16 petite.

The ivory cords are also Talbots; the black trousers are from last year’s Talbots Holiday Collection showing how Talbots has lasting style. I’ve linked to exact or very similar in my LTK shop. Follow my shop @wardrobe_oxygen on the @shop.ltk app to shop this post and get my exclusive app-only content! https://liketk.it/4oDJF

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@somaintimates makes it easy to shop for a range of personas this holiday season! #AD With gift guides for a range of personality types, you can easily find great gifts for your loved ones. I was drawn to the creative one, loving the rich colorful florals, luxe satin, lace trim, and of course Soma’s iconic Cool Nights sleepwear! Visit Soma’s gift guide for tips on finding the perfect present this holiday season. #SomaGiftGuide #SomaStartsWithMe
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Working on the weekend is far more enjoyable when it’s in my office 💚

Perimenopause and the pandemic and homeschooling made our row home feel even smaller. So when neighbors revitalized an office building in our town center and offered individual offices for rent, I felt it would be good for business and personally. And I kept it when the world opened up and our kid went back to public school because it helps me have a clear start and end to the work day, but also because I created a space I really enjoy.

This weekend I went to the office to shoot some content. And once I was finished I enjoyed just sitting here, watching the light change. I think I may switch the furniture around, switch up the energy. I love that I can do that without consulting another or having another person’s opinions matter.

When you have a family, things go from me to we. I don’t regret leaving Corporate America to do this full time, but I do miss being part of a team. And I missed having an office, a place away from home that’s just for me. 

I wish more communities would offer rental offices like @thegranitebuilding. With reasonably affordable monthly rates, it doesn’t have to just be business owners who get office spaces. It can be a place to work on a hobby or craft, a place to WFH that’s not home, or a place to just read and write and nap undisturbed. A literal room of one’s own. Because sometimes a person needs time to be a me and not a we. 💚
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You’re never too old for a Rory Gilmore sweater… this cotton fisherman sweater is from @llbean and inspired by @marielle.elizabeth I shopped the men’s department for a better size range. The influencer influenced the influencer!

The jeans are @landsend I got last year and I’m glad they brought them back this year in several washes, inseam lengths, and plus sizes. If in doubt, size down. They will shrink in length slightly but not anywhere else, they’re super comfy and stretchy but don’t stretch out. 

Kept the collegiate vibe going with a trucker cap, HOKAs, and my trusty commuter bag for years: the large @dagnedover Dakota backpack!

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It’s Cozy Season, and @tjmaxx is here to update our wardrobes with stylish accessories and apparel from the best brands for less. #AD

I recently visited tjmaxx.com and was so impressed with the array of elevated designer labels, on-trend looks, and the best prices. This pearl-encrusted beanie is from a woman designer I have admired for years; tjmaxx.com has the matching gloves and other pieces from this label to make a great set for yourself or to gift another. These earrings I’ve seen from the same designer at department stores; in fact I own other earrings from this label and paid much more for them. I should have checked T.J.Maxx first! And this cozy poncho is the perfect layer for late fall in the DC area.

I love how the winter white pieces elevate my existing closet. And pearls can be worn for day or glam up for evening. I can see many ways I’ll be styling these designer accessories from #tjmaxx all season long!

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My husband has a special backpack he fills with weight to wear while hiking; it’s called rucking. I wear a @dagnedover Dakota and fill it with my laptop, my iPad, a full water bottle, and my purse and walk to work; it’s called commuting. 💁🏻‍♀️

But seriously, I’ve had this backpack for five years. It has been shoved under plane seats, in overstuffed car trunks, under feet in the passenger seat. I’ve worn it as I’ve walked miles in major cities and from my house to my town center. My daughter also has a Dagne Dakota; it survived middle school and continues to work through camping, sleepovers, and road trips. It’s genially designed, comfortable, and can take a beating and still look great.

As for the rest of the look, the vest (XL) is a new purchase from @athleta; the Rainier tights (L) are also Athleta but two years old. The purple top is @nike and about a decade old. Hat is @llbean and it’s on sale for less than $15. And my trusty @hoka sneakers that have had their own set of adventures.

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Fashion Advice · August 21, 2020

The Friday Shop

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Retail News

Across the country, vintage shops are in a fight to save thrifting. (Fashionista)

A look back at the long history of Lord & Taylor. (Retail Dive)

From Black Friday to parking lot pop-ups: 5 ways holiday shopping will change. (Washington Post)

Payless relaunches online, with plans for hundreds of stores. (Retail Dive)

Don't Sweat(pants) It. The House Dress Is Here To Rescue 2020. (NPR)

Fashion to Figure Taps Tess Holliday for their latest Collab. (The Curvy Fashionista)

China offers a glimpse into the post-coronavirus retail industry. (CNBC)

Government shutdowns of “nonessential” retailers were a huge gift for Amazon, Walmart, and Target. (Vox)

From the Mailbag

“I've gained 17 pounds this year and none of my bras fit. I don't feel comfortable entering a store to get fitted.  I found two websites and a YouTube video that show how to measure myself and each time I get a different measurement. One said I was an H cup and I know I am not an H cup!! Do you know a reliable way for me to find out my current bra size?”

Yes!  I dealt with this myself, and also found that every site has a different method which offers a completely different bra size.  By far, the best bra size calculator I've found is this one from the subreddit A Bra That Fits.  Not only do you enter your measurements, but the page shows you how to actually measure your body for an accurate bra size. It's the only bra calculator I've seen that tells you to measure without any clothes or underpinnings on, which IMO makes the most sense.  If you're looking for more virtual assistance with bra fitting and shopping, I recommend visiting A Bra That Fits on Reddit (you do not need to sign up to read the content, only to comment). 

Sale Alert

Zappos is having an awesome sale through Sunday! Zappos VIP customers will earn 10x points on any purchase. It sounds fancy to be a Zappos VIP customer, but it's a free program you can sign up for at this link.  If you are a Zappos VIP and link your Amazon Prime account to Zappos, you will instead earn 11x points. What does all this mean?  It means you earn 10 VIP points for every dollar spent and once you reach 100 points you can redeem for $1 off an order. I've been a Zappos VIP member for a while and it's nice to just shop as usual and at checkout find out you have a couple of dollars in credit to take off your order.  And this weekend because of this 10x/11x boost, that means if you spend $100 you'll get a $10 credit for your next purchase (if you're connected to Amazon that would be an $11 credit). 

  • On top of all this, Zappos is having a sitewide sale; all items on sale can be found at this link.  If you're shopping for yourself, women's sale is at this link and it includes clothes and accessories as well as shoes.  Preparing for back to school? The sale for kids merch is at this link. 
  • I was pleasantly surprised to find J. Crew both available at Zappos and part of this sale! NYDJ is also part of this sale with a great variety of current silhouettes in misses, petite, and plus sizes. If you're looking to replace your bras or switch out to wireless, Zappos has a great selection with popular department store brands; this link narrows it down to all the bras part of the sale that are $50 or less which includes Elomi, Brooks, Spanx, Wacoal, and more. 
  • If you're looking for shoes, I'm loving these glossy Chelsea-style rainboots from Hunter, comfy waterproof slides in fun colors from Oka-B for $13.99, and these badass Doc Marten pull-on boots that will only get more badass with wear and time. 

Thinx is a brand that creates reusable period underwear. Offering a variety of styles and sizes, they are having their major end of summer sale where they have 30% off through the 25th.  This is a great sale and a great time to stock up.  I have underwear from Thinx and have found it effective and reliable and cute too.  My favorite style is High Waist but all of them are great. 

Chico's has 25% off full-priced items with promo code 31421. I've tried out some of their New Arrivals and love the fit, quality, and the style.  Some of my quick picks are this dress and this dress which both look all glam but are super comfy and machine washable, this easy everyday jumpsuit in such a gorgeous color, and these shorts which are cool, comfy, offer coverage and go with everything.

Macy's has 30% off your entire purchase and then an additional 15% off beauty! This is a sale worth checking out because Macy's sells some amazing brands in fragrance, skincare (NuFACE, Sunday Riley, Benefit, Foreo, StriVectin, Estee Lauder & more), hair care and tools (Ouidad, DryBar, ColorWOW, Verb, Pureology & more), and makeup (MAC, Lancome, Stila, NARS, Dior, etc.).

Sephora has a sale through Sunday with $15 off an order of $75 and $20 off an order of $100.  Use code WELCOMEBACK at checkout to get the deal.  Know that you can only use this code once, so don't try to score with multiple orders each with the code… Sephora will shut that down.  But enjoy this deal while it's still available.  If you're looking to try out some high quality Black-owned beauty brands, Sephora offers a few. 

  • Shani Darden is a line of skincare that has a cult following; the retinol is especially coveted by beauty gurus.  Sephora has a mini of the Retinol Reform so you can try it out before shelling out for the full-sized bottle.
  • Briogeo is a clean beauty brand for your hair and scalp that also has a cult following.  Free of sulfates, silicones, phtlates, parabens, DEA, and artificial dyes, Briogeo has different products for any type of hair or scalp. 
  • PatMcGrath is one of the premier makeup experts and is the person behind some of the most iconic beauty looks to walk the fashion runways.  She created her own line of cosmetics and they are high quality, high pigment, and beautifully packaged. 
  • I am a fan of Fenty Beauty, the cosmetics line by Rihanna.  Everything I have tried, even if it wasn't right for my specific skin, has been excellent quality, great formulas, colors, and I adore the packaging.  I have bought this lipgloss and this mattifying translucent blotting powder more than once because it really is stellar. I recently bought two of these matte lipsticks and love how they feel weightless, aren't drying yet last and also work well under a gloss or balm. 
  • Adwoa is another clean haircare brand specifically for curly, kinky, and wavy textures. Non-toxic and gender neutral, Adwoa is focused on hydrating and healing hair and scalp for beautiful results. 
  • BREAD is an Australian haircare brand developed specifically to cater to 3A to 4C curl patterns. BREAD hopes to make haircare and great hair days to be simple and easy with their line of products. 
  • GOLDE believes that great skin comes from within, offering a line of highly-rated smoothie supplements along with face masks made with superfoods. 
  • KNC Beauty is the brand that makes the adorable under-eye and lip masks you're seeing all over social media. Shopping now for holiday gifts?  These are a great choice for the tweens, teens, and young adults in your life (as well as a fun self-care self-gift!). 

What I Bought and What I Thought

After writing the recent posts about performing a closet audit during COVID, how to store clothing, and where to donate clothing during a pandemic, I've been thinking long and hard about my wardrobe.  Even during this time, I find myself buying for what I think I am or what I want to be versus my reality.  I want to be the woman in gauzy house dresses and caftans with big hoop earrings and big curly hair, like a 21st century Mrs. Roper.  But who am I really?  I have become someone who really appreciates some badass activewear.  Sure I wear my dresses and wear the heck out of my white linen pants with Breton striped tees… but more often than not I put on a refined hybrid of activewear and athleisure.

I mentioned in last week's Friday Shop that I got this hoodie from Old Navy in cream and love it.  I've washed it twice and I still love it.  No shrinkage, still same quality.  So I ordered the matching joggers.  I have these camo joggers in Large from Old Navy and they're a whole lot of meh and run snug so I went with XL with the matching cream joggers.  Yeah, they're too big.  Too long, too baggy in the crotch, but I got them during one of those Old Navy sales where they ended up being like $11 so I decided to wash them on hot and put them in the dryer… and of course this is the one time when something from Old Navy does NOT shrink! So they're great quality and they're higher quality and a nicer fabric than the camo joggers from Old Navy, and unlike the camo joggers, they do not run small!

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I wear my black knit joggers a lot, but wanted something a bit more… interesting.  So I ordered these in navy from Athleta in size 14 regular.  And since there was a matching hoodie, I just had to get it as well in size large.  I know I haven't understood the reason why someone would spend more than maybe $40 on a sweatshirt.  I mean come on, sweatshirts are sweatshirts, right?  How is a $35 pair of joggers different from a $100 pair?  Well these explain the difference.  The fabric is stretchy yet firm, silky yet doesn't cling, heavy but not bulky, and feels like I'm wearing a dang expensive pair of sweats. The sweatshirt has super cool seaming to give a great silhouette, the joggers feel custom made, the pattern is super subtle.  I wouldn't have bought it if I didn't have a bunch of Super Cash and discounts I used to essentially get those Old Navy joggers above and a bunch of back-to-school athleisure for my kid for pennies on the dollar and I am so glad that I did.  You may have caught my husband trying on the set to do a “who wore it better” and he's mad they don't have it in his size because it feels so good on. 

What I'm Digging

Clearly, from the last category, I am digging on elevated athleisure.  No cashmere joggers for me, I want my elevation to be beautiful and comfortable, but also machine washable.

 

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  1. Judy says

    August 22, 2020 at 4:18 pm

    Your^e entire family is adorable and you all look like your^ having FUN. Let^s all celebrate big time in November! JUDY in Az.

    Reply
  2. Helene says

    August 22, 2020 at 2:21 pm

    21st Century Mrs. Roper! What a great reference! Made me smile big time.

    Reply
  3. Allison says

    August 21, 2020 at 8:55 pm

    Alison or others, how bad is the VPL with thinx?

    Reply
    • Amanda says

      August 22, 2020 at 4:36 pm

      Depends on the style, but the airs are the thinnest (and also light to med absorption, so not for heavy days).

      Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      August 22, 2020 at 4:39 pm

      I agree with Amanda, the airs will have the least VPL, but all of them do have it so it can be secure around the legs. I keep them for wearing with dresses, tunics, and jeans and then overnight.

      Reply
      • Allison says

        August 22, 2020 at 6:06 pm

        Thank you for following up

        Reply
  4. Stefanie says

    August 21, 2020 at 4:25 pm

    I don’t see the Macy’s 30% off deal, am I missing something?

    Reply
    • Heather says

      August 22, 2020 at 12:59 am

      Came here with the same question…

      Reply
      • Alison Gary says

        August 22, 2020 at 10:12 am

        I’m so sorry, the intel I got said it would happen Friday but it started today.

        Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      August 22, 2020 at 10:11 am

      Ugh, I get these sale alerts ahead of time and then they don’t happen when they are supposed to. It went live today.

      Reply
  5. Joy Anzalone says

    August 21, 2020 at 3:21 pm

    Athleta is a go-to for me. You’re absolutely right about the quality. These items last, fit well, and are easy to care for. The only item I don’t love from them is their casual tops. They seem to pill really quickly.

    Reply
  6. Laurel says

    August 21, 2020 at 2:37 pm

    I think the who wore it better should be an on going feature! Too cute! Throw your daughter in to the mix and what fun we can all have! Happy Weekend!

    Reply
  7. Lee says

    August 21, 2020 at 11:14 am

    I love Zappos! Their fast shipping never fails to impress. I know you didn’t mention the Nordstrom’s Anniversary Sale today, but I always forget that other retailers end up running some really good sales around this time to compete with them. So yay! I’m finding that there are some items I can’t get at Nordstrom’s because of course they are sold out, but I can find other things I need/want from some of my other favorites! Last weekend, I got one of the Soma comfort bras (can’t recall it’s official name) that was on sale for $29. It is amazing! And, since the True & Co. bras are sold out from the Anniversary sale, this was a great option for me. J Crew & Madewell are favorites of mine as well so between their own websites & Zappos, I’m finding some jeans as well. I will enjoy a little bit of retail therapy this weekend!

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  8. Susan L says

    August 21, 2020 at 10:33 am

    I’m giving the Athleta a try. While not looking forward to winter, I do want to have the right items to stay comfortable at home and in my home office.

    Reply
  9. Krista says

    August 21, 2020 at 9:28 am

    Yay for house dresses! I love the a float maxi or caftan in hot summer days. I’ll gladly trade in my joggers for some fab caftans!

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Just got back from a 4-night getaway with my sister @debbiefaye78 at @curacaomarriottbeachresort. It was a last-minute planned trip that ended up being perfect. We weren’t ready to celebrate Thanksgiving without our mom and this escape what just what our hearts needed. 

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Working on the weekend is far more enjoyable when it’s in my office 💚

Perimenopause and the pandemic and homeschooling made our row home feel even smaller. So when neighbors revitalized an office building in our town center and offered individual offices for rent, I felt it would be good for business and personally. And I kept it when the world opened up and our kid went back to public school because it helps me have a clear start and end to the work day, but also because I created a space I really enjoy.

This weekend I went to the office to shoot some content. And once I was finished I enjoyed just sitting here, watching the light change. I think I may switch the furniture around, switch up the energy. I love that I can do that without consulting another or having another person’s opinions matter.

When you have a family, things go from me to we. I don’t regret leaving Corporate America to do this full time, but I do miss being part of a team. And I missed having an office, a place away from home that’s just for me. 

I wish more communities would offer rental offices like @thegranitebuilding. With reasonably affordable monthly rates, it doesn’t have to just be business owners who get office spaces. It can be a place to work on a hobby or craft, a place to WFH that’s not home, or a place to just read and write and nap undisturbed. A literal room of one’s own. Because sometimes a person needs time to be a me and not a we. 💚

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You’re never too old for a Rory Gilmore sweater… this cotton fisherman sweater is from @llbean and inspired by @marielle.elizabeth I shopped the men’s department for a better size range. The influencer influenced the influencer!

The jeans are @landsend I got last year and I’m glad they brought them back this year in several washes, inseam lengths, and plus sizes. If in doubt, size down. They will shrink in length slightly but not anywhere else, they’re super comfy and stretchy but don’t stretch out. 

Kept the collegiate vibe going with a trucker cap, HOKAs, and my trusty commuter bag for years: the large @dagnedover Dakota backpack!

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My husband has a special backpack he fills with weight to wear while hiking; it’s called rucking. I wear a @dagnedover Dakota and fill it with my laptop, my iPad, a full water bottle, and my purse and walk to work; it’s called commuting. 💁🏻‍♀️

But seriously, I’ve had this backpack for five years. It has been shoved under plane seats, in overstuffed car trunks, under feet in the passenger seat. I’ve worn it as I’ve walked miles in major cities and from my house to my town center. My daughter also has a Dagne Dakota; it survived middle school and continues to work through camping, sleepovers, and road trips. It’s genially designed, comfortable, and can take a beating and still look great.

As for the rest of the look, the vest (XL) is a new purchase from @athleta; the Rainier tights (L) are also Athleta but two years old. The purple top is @nike and about a decade old. Hat is @llbean and it’s on sale for less than $15. And my trusty @hoka sneakers that have had their own set of adventures.

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I got this sweater set from @mmlafleur last spring and it continues to be a favorite. The color and popcorn stitch makes it wearable three seasons of the year. I’ve styled it with gold heels and dramatic gold earrings, with sneakers and a crossbody belt bag, and more than once with knee-high boots and a scarf at my throat. The color works with brown and black boots, the skirt silhouette and length with heels and flats. These brown riding boots are from @duoboots and almost a decade old. The scarf belonged to my dad; I have a feeling it was styled with a leisure suit back in the day!

I may have been more dressed up than other election judges but I think seeing democracy in action is a cause to celebrate! 🇺🇸

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Early voting poll worker style 🗳️

I’ve been an election judge (AKA poll worker) for several years but this year I decided to take it a step further and join my city’s Board of Elections. I’m passionate about fair and accessible elections for all. The Board is acting as election judges for early voting so it’s great to use my previous experience on a city level!

I believe voting is a special occasion and I dressed the part. The puff sleeve sweater and pants are from @anntaylor; these pants are the same ones from the suit I wore earlier this week. I added a beloved @hermes scarf as a belt and silver hoops (they belonged to my mom) as a hint of shine.

If your area is having an election this coming week; I implore you to vote. Your voice deserves to be heard. And please ensure your neighbors know of the election and where to vote. 🇺🇸

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Nov 2

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Always fun to see my name in lights! 💡 I was a panelist at the annual @jaofcentralmd Leading Ladies event that connects local high schoolers with women in business. My panel was on using social media for promoting one’s business or personal brand. Along with other social media experts, we guided students and adults on how to create compelling and engaging social content and together created content for the conference’s feed. It was fun and I loved being able to share my almost two decades of personal and professional experience!

The dress code for the conference was business professional and since the event’s theme color was pink, they encouraged us to wear the color. 

This @anntaylor suit has been a favorite since late summer. I’ve dressed it down with a white tank and sneakers and glammed it up with a silk cami and gold heeled sandals. I love how Ann Taylor has petite suiting up to size 16; I know I’m not the only short curvy girl who desires suits and professional attire!

For this event I chose a berry-colored microfiber tank from @lovechicos. I own several of these tanks; they wear like iron and the tight weave and subtle shine make them great shells under suits. 

The look fit the theme but was also comfortable. I was glad to share my expertise and encourage others to see how they can donate their time and knowledge to a local @juniorachievementusa #JALeadingLadies #JALeadingLadies2023 #JACMD #JuniorAchievment

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Oct 18

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Sharing this from my #iPadOS17 thanks to @apple! A bit belated with all that has been going on lately but I’m really enjoying using an iPad to improve how I work, stay organized, and find new ways to be creative. Can I just say that editing video on an iPad instead of a phone is a game changer!

Recently, I attended an event at the gorgeous Apple Carnegie Library hosted by @flourishplanner_ to learn ways to make the most of #iOS17 and it was awesome. I brought my new iPad and learned about the new wallpaper, stickers, and organizing tools.

As for my look, the dress is from @bananarepublic’s summer collection. Kept it comfy with a pair of Samba sneakers and held down the volume of the dress with my black recycled leather @ganni crossbody. Added an old @_jennybird link necklace and a silver cuff I’ve had since the ‘90s.

#todayatapple #genxstyle #midsizestyle #midsizefashion #size14 #over40style

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Oct 17

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I love an excuse to dress up, especially if it’s for a good cause! This weekend was the @thenewdealcafe Masquer-AID fundraiser to support this independent cafe, art gallery, and live music venue in @cityofgreenbelt.

My family and I have loved going to The New Deal Cafe for all these years. Grabbing coffee with friends, having a meal, seeing an amazing band, participating in an open mic or one of their Reel and Meal events. So @debbiefaye78, our mom, and I got tickets and even chipped in for a plaque from us “Ashpes Girls.” 

Our mom passed before she could attend the event; we asked our like a sister best friend @shellymingram to join us in her place and we had a great time, dancing all night as our mom would have, connecting with neighbors, and supporting a local business we all love so much.

As for the outfit, the dress is @ronnykobo the bag is @ganni and I borrowed both from @renttherunway The shoes I’ve had for years and the gold metal mask I found on Amazon and liked how it could mold to my face and not put pressure on my still-healing eye.

And I know y’all will ask because I received so many DMs this weekend when I shared this event in my Stories… my sister’s dress is from @eshakti she bought it a few years ago and it’s even more gorgeous in person!

#newdealcafe #greenbeltisgreat #onlyingreenbelt #midsizestyle #genxstyle #over40style #greenbeltmd

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Oct 11

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The biggest fashion trend this fall is a return to classics. For decades I have turned to @talbotsofficial for quality classics with style.  This season, Talbots has a fantastic range of pants to update the wardrobe. 

I love how these @talbotsofficial ivory stretch corduroy straight leg pants elevate closet classics! Available in Misses, Petite, Plus, Plus Petite, Curvy, and in 10 colors, these cords are a chic alternative to jeans and just as easy care! I can run errands and have a bit of quiet time with an ebook and a coffee with comfort and style. 

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https://liketk.it/4kFNi #talbots #mytalbots #talbotspartner #ltkover40 #modernclassicstyle #liketkit #ltkover40

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