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Scenes from a Friday night…

We started at @littleblackbirddc a new wine bar in Cleveland Park where we had great food, drink, and conversation into the evening. We then headed down the street to @atomicbilliards for a whole different experience and to keep the conversation going. I treasure my friendships with @sylviacolella (who had a birthday recently), @districtofchic, and @blonde_inthedistrict they’re the real deal 🥰

My dress is @adamlippes borrowed via @renttherunway and Cheetos with Sauvignon Blanc is a really fun pairing!
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Night and day…

Met three dear friends for an early dinner that went on until after the sun set. Great food and conversation with some great women!

The dress is @adamlippes and I borrowed it from @renttherunway. The bag is @jcrew and a splurge but I regretted not buying it the last time they offered this bag and this color is SO me. I mean, look how great it is with these many years old suede heeled sandals? Meant to be!

This color combination makes me so happy, and this dress was comfy even after a decadent meal. We all deserve to experience comfort and joy with our wardrobes! 💛🩷

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If @thechicks are in town you can bet @debbiefaye78 and I will be there! So when we heard they were coming to @merriweatherpp we were so excited. And their concert did not disappoint. As always, a phenomenal show! If The Chicks come to your neck of the woods I highly recommend you go!

Okay I know you want to know about what we’re wearing! 

My sister’s caftan is from @anthropologie (bought this summer so maybe you can find on resale sites).

I’m wearing a @bananarepublic dress also from this summer with the @universalstandard denim chore jacket and a hat I got from a @madewell collab a year or so ago. I glammed it up with some gold chains and gold drop earrings, but kept it comfy for a night of standing and dancing with @birkenstock sandals.

This was my first big outing since my eye surgery, and with a pocketful of eye drops I felt good (and grateful we splurged for good seats!).

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For years I’ve trusted @somaintimates for the right bras and the right fit but it had been a while since I visited a Soma boutique to try on all the styles they currently have for a large bust. I must say I was impressed! Knowledgeable staff, extensive collection in larger sizes, and some of the most comfortable and innovative bras in up to H cups! Each body is different but what I loved:

- The Stunning Push-Up: targeted for the DD+ customer gives amazing lift and great shape under fitted knits.

- The Unbelievable Lift Scoop Balconette: sexy, supportive, and so lightweight!

- The Embraceable Wireless: I’ve recommended this wireless bra for large busts for years and was in need for a new one! 

- The Stunning Support Smooth Balconette: this is the perfect t-shirt bra for large busts with padded straps and disappears under knits

- The Stunning Starlet Multi-Way Strapless: recently improved for more support and more comfort, this wireless bra stays put and gives fab shape

I also picked up some of Soma’s iconic Vanishing Edge panties which keep you line-free. The whole Vanishing collection is genius. I loved being able to donate my gently used bras at my local Soma boutique to give to those in need. We all deserve a lift and Soma strives to achieve that. It’s why I’ve been a fan and customer for years and am honored to partner with them. Soma is the perfect fitting bra solution. Visit the link in my bio to shop and to find your local Soma boutique! #SomaPartner #SomaBraFit #SomaStartsWithMe
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If I close my eyes you can’t tell one is still bloodshot 😜

Still recovering from my eye surgery but feeling more myself. Getting dolled up helps me feel me. Bright colors and bold jewelry have been signature Alison since I was a kid! 

Sweater: @favorite.daughter 
Earrings: Amazon
Necklace: @_jennybird (old)
Ring: @realmfinejewelry 
Bra: @lovebravissimo 
Lipstick: @glossier 
Pins as “cufflinks”: vintage

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It was so funny and so quick I couldn’t not share! I bought this @hulkenbag a year ago and use it all the time. Carting shoot supplies, groceries, packing for road trips, and carting donations. This weekend @thenewdealcafe in @cityofgreenbelt hosted a community clothing swap so I made sure my family and I went through our summer wardrobes to gather that which we no longer needed or fit.

This wasn’t the first clothing swap and folks in town know my style (and my job) so there were some waiting for my arrival. Look how fast I cleared out this big bag! Speaking of the bag one other swap attendee said she got herself a Hulken after seeing mine in action!

It’s so great to know our old clothes are getting a good life and this bag makes carting them to the cafe so easy! I got my Hulken on Amazon, it comes in other colors and sizes too: https://amzn.to/48iTY4Y yep the bag is as great as all those ads you see on social media, I’m a big fan!
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Gift Guides · August 23, 2023

9 Books that Make Great Gifts for Grown-ass Women

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Recently someone asked me on Instagram for my recommendations for books that make great gifts for grown-ass women. While I don't read as often as I would like, I have had some books I found quite powerful in the past year or so. I also have several books on my to-read list that came highly recommended by my friends who are fellow grown-ass women. I think all the books below would be great gifts to give or receive. These aren't necessarily just for women, but books that have proven impactful for women our age.

9 Books That Make Great Gifts for Grown-ass Women

These are all books I have personally read and made a major impact on me. I think they would all make for really great gifts for a loved one, whether or not she is a grown-ass woman. And if you're curious who exactly is a grown-ass woman, I share my thoughts here.

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For the Fitness Enthusiast: Roar by Stacy Sims, PhD

ROAR by Dr. Stacy Sims

My husband listened to a podcast where Dr. Stacy Sims was a guest and said I HAD to listen to it. I get recommendations like this from him weekly and having a different job and lifestyle, I don't have a lot of time to listen to podcasts and usually disregard his recommendations. But he kept pestering me so one day I listened. And I am so glad I did. Stacy Sims' motto is, “Women are not small men” and her book, Roar goes into how to be a strong, healthy woman throughout her entire life.

While Roar is geared towards weightlifters and athletes, I gleaned so much information about how a lot of popular information about weight loss, bone health, food intake, supplements, and sleep are based on men's bodies. Sims offers researched and realistic alternatives to keep us women in our best condition throughout our life, with a focus on our menstrual cycle, hormones, and menopause. She doesn't focus on weight, BMI, or size but instead sees us as athletes, whether our workout is a morning walk around the block or training for our next race or competition.

Roar is a great gift for the friend who is getting into fitness, the friend who is an athlete, the friend who is always trying the next fitness or diet craze, the friend who is experiencing body and performance changes in midlife, the friend who is ready to focus on health instead of size. Sims is smart, supportive, and embracing of different lifestyles and priorities.

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For the Mom Who Isn't Defined by Motherhood: What Kind of Woman by Kate Baer

What Kind of Woman by Kate Baer

A reader gave me What Kind of Woman by Kate Baer, and I found it to be the greatest compliment and honor. I knew of Kate Baer from Instagram; women I followed would often share her poems and quotes and I'd find them beautiful, poignant, and often relatable. I have followed Baer on and off so many times, loving her work but not loving that platform to digest her writings. This book perfectly captures her thoughts and poetry, a curated collection that hit me hard page after page.

This is a small book, not a lot of work for the gift recipient. It's a beautiful book that can be left on a nightstand or coffee table and look cool, but can be flipped open to find a poem that was the exact thing one needed to read at that moment. Body image, relationships, the patriarchy… Baer discusses it all with beautiful poetry.

On What Kind of Woman, Baer often writes about motherhood; this is not a book to give to a person who is childfree or is an empty nester. But it is for the woman who loves her kids, but knows she is much more than just a mother or could benefit from a gentle reminder that will not make her feel bad about herself.

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For Those Ready for Their Second Act: From Strength to Strength by Arthur C. Brooks

From Strength to Strength by Arthur C. Brooks

When I took two weeks off the internet earlier this year, I also read From Strength to Strength by Arthur C. Brooks. Have you ever read a self-help or resource book on just the right topic at just the right time? That was this book for me. Feeling a bit lost with my career, this book helped me not necessarily know my path, but know what I was feeling was normal and I wasn't near an end, but ready for my next curve.

As a grown-ass person, we may be at the height of our career, but even with that impressive title on our business card we may feel hollow, lost, bored, but not ready to retire and sail off into the sunset. We may be wondering what there is to life beyond the title and the career successes, but still need a steady income. That's where From Strength to Strength comes in.

While this book is geared more towards those in the C-Suite, individuals in a variety of jobs (even me, a blogger) can find reassurance, inspiration, and focus from this book. In fact, I keep my copy on my coffee table to pop open on a random page to motivate me and remind me of what I got from From Strength to Strength.

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For Those Who Know We Still Have Lot More To Learn and Do: Do Better: Spiritual Activism for Fighting and Healing from White Supremacy by Rachel Ricketts

Do Better by Rachel Ricketts

I was discussing with my sister how 2020 was a watershed moment for The United States of America, a time when we truly confronted racism and how just a couple of years later, we have fallen back in so many ways. And with a presidential election right around the corner, it's more important than ever to understand our roles in white supremacy and what we can do to fight it.

Do Better: Spirital Activism for Fighting and Healing from White Supremacy is the book to read after reading all the anti-racism bestsellers of 2020. It's what to read when you feel that what you gained from that reading list is starting to fade and you're getting sucked back into simpler times when we pretended things were fine.

It's a good book to read as we head into a new year; it's an extremely challenging but important read.

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For Those Who Feel Creatively Stuck: The Artist's Way by Julia Cameron

The Artist's Way by Julia Cameron

I have completed The Artist's Way by Julia Cameron three times in my life, and each time it was a different and inspiring experience. This is not a book for artists, but for anyone trying to spark their creativity. It is a 12-week program that is easy to incorporate into a busy life (and some of the aspects of the program may very well stick around after the three months).

Especially at our age, we can feel we don't have time for creativity. We are so focused on our jobs, our families, our responsibilities we don't schedule play and art and creativity. And going for so long with such creativity, it can be hard to even feel creative anymore. Take it from me, your creative spirit is still there, and this book can help it grow. I recommend the paper copy of the book, not Kindle. You will want to write notes in margins, fill out worksheets, and highlight paragraphs.

The Artist's Way is a classic, and if you look carefully at the bookshelves of celebrities as they do home tours, you often see a dog-earred copy. Originally published in 2002, this book is seen as beneficial even to seasoned creatives. It's a fantastic gift to give at the start of a new year; an alternative to restrictive resolutions but a path that helps one still achieve goals and dreams… maybe even ones they didn't realize they had before starting the book!

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For Anyone Wondering if This Is All There Is in Life: Disrupt-Her: A Manifesto for the Modern Woman by Miki Agrawal

Distrupt Her by Miki Agrawal

I was going through a period in my life where I was wondering if this was it. This was as good as it was going to get, time slipped through my fingers and it was too late for a do-over, a switch, a change. During this time I ended up going down a rabbit hole and found a retreat for women feeling that way, and the retreat's website had a book list. I was frustrated and tired and looking for some sign and ended up ordering almost every book on that list.

I ended up hating almost every book on that list, except Disrupt-Her. So glad I checked out the books before booking a spot on that retreat! But Distrupt-Her made up for it. It's hard to describe this book; I was looking at online reviews and one said they rolled their eyes at the first couple of chapters but was crying by the end and I think that's a fair assessment.

It's written like a manifesto, with some pages looking more like a vision board and some points feeling terribly woo or self-important. But Distrupt-Her: A Manifesto for the Modern Woman made me do a lot of thinking and had me give myself some grace when I felt like what I should be doing was hustling harder. I think this book would be best appreciated by Gen X and Elder millennials; do not Google the author before reading for best results.

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For a Friend Navigating Grief: The Year of Magical Thinking by Joan Didion

The year of magical thinking by joan didion

Losing loved ones… grief is different for everyone. The relationship with who we lost, the individual themselves, us, and the world around us. When I have lost loved ones, I have gone through many different points but there was often a point after the flowers and cards and casseroles where I have found some solace and sanity in others' stories of loss. And after losing a loved one several years ago, I appreciated The Year of Magical Thinking by Joan Didion.

Not a spoiler; Didion's daughter was in a coma when her husband suddenly died. The Year of Magical Thinking is the author's attempt to make sense of, “weeks and then months that cut loose any fixed idea I ever had about death, about illness … about marriage and children and memory … about the shallowness of sanity, about life itself.“

I do not recommend this book to those who have not only lost someone, but with it had their financial life damaged. It could be easy to hate on Didion and all her privileges when grieving, even though she dealt with such tragedy. But this is a book that isn't trying to make things better; when you're grieving you know no book can fix things and it's nice to read something that agrees with that fact.

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For the Health and Wellness Curious: Breath: The New Science of a Lost Art by James Nestor

Breath by James Nestor

I reviewed this book in a Weekend Reads but found it so powerful I had to add it to this gift guide. James Nestor dealt with chronic nasal congestion and sleep apnea. Looking for a solution, he ended up going on a journey learning about how the breath and how we breathe can affect far more than seasonal allergies and our sleep. He documented this journey in Breath: The New Science of a Lost Art.

The point of Nestor's book is not for everyone to take on all of these methods, but to show how we may have a very narrow concept of what it means to breathe, and how our breath can affect so many aspects of our physical and mental health as well as our appearance, sleep, and temperature tolerance.

This isn't a replacement for modern medicine, but an addition, some food for thought. After reading this, expect to think differently (and think often) about the way you breathe and chew!

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For Someone Who Lost (or is Losing) a Parent: Crying in H Mart: A Memoir by Michelle Zauner

Crying in H Mart by Michelle Zauner

I still have my mom, but I lost my dad when I was just a few years younger than Michelle Zauner was when her mom passed from ovarian cancer. I grew up with few family traditions, we weren't religious, we no real culture beyond being suburban white people on the Eastern Seaboard of the United States. I am almost two decades older than Zauner; even with these differences I felt such a connection to the author's memoir that it took me months to finish Crying in H Mart because it brought up so many memories and thoughts as well as many tears I had to take breaks to process. But I never wanted to give up on this beautiful book.

This book doesn't tell of a charming childhood or perfect parents and I think that is why I loved it so much. I've always found it weird how folks practically deify the deceased, erasing any bad moments or toxic traits. The friction, the challenges, the hills that had to be climbed make us who we are, whether we like it or not, and make the relationships we have with our parents. Erasing the difficult past doesn't erase its impact on us, and Zauner found a way to share the difficulties with her parents while also beautifully understanding and loving her mother.

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9 Books that Make Great Gifts for Grown-ass Women

Any Other Books That Make Great Gifts for Grown-Ass Women?

This book list is not all-inclusive. There were many more I considered (and I totally left out some utterly fantastic fiction and autobiographies and gorgeous coffee table books) but I thought a list of 9 books would be far easier to digest than a list of 99. So I am asking you to share below in the comments your picks for books that make great gifts for grown-ass women and WHY (you know I am always about the why!). You never know, your absolutely favorite read may be THE perfect gift another member of the Wardrobe Oxygen Community has been searching for!

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  1. Susan says

    November 23, 2022 at 8:49 pm

    Martha Beck’s The Way of Integrity is a beautiful guide and personal story of figuring out how to live with meaning, connection, and joy. And fav fiction includes two women authors: Elizabeth Strout andChimandi Ngozi Adichie. Hard to go wrong with anything they have written, but Alice Kitteridge and Noes on Grief are favs.

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  2. Jen says

    November 23, 2022 at 3:26 pm

    Love this list, Alison. Having lost 3 parents in the last 3 years (one per year), I still can’t pick up Crying in H Mart even though my husband brings it up WEEKLY. The Year of Magical Thinking has been on my list for a while too. Over the last six years of intense parent caregiving, I have begun reading romance… an escape! If a grown-ass friend of mine wanted to try the genre, I would gift anything by Jasmine Guillory, but especially Royal Holiday because it shares the love story of someone NOT in their twenties, thirties or even their forties.

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  3. Kathryn Fenner says

    November 23, 2022 at 12:13 pm

    For those dealing with aging parents, or who are getting up there themselves, Atul Gawande’s Being Mortal is a lifesaver.
    For those who just like a great read, Lucy Foley’s The Paris Apartment

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    • Cindy says

      November 23, 2022 at 10:55 pm

      This book helped us navigate the last couple years of our mom’s life. We talked with her about what was important (being able to live in her apartment and watch her beloved Pirates or Steelers.) That’s what gave her joy, and any intervention had to be measured against its ability to keep her there. It is so easy to follow the medical intervention path, and there are many benefits for sure. But Gawande’s book helped us establish a limit. And as a family we remained on the same page.

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  4. Bette says

    November 23, 2022 at 8:51 am

    I loved Crying in H Mart and have given it to several people, including my mom. I was amazed to find the author is a well-known musician: the lead vocalist in the band Japanese Breakfast.

    In the same Asian-American memoir-ish genre, I recommend Beautiful Country by Qian Julie Wang and O Beautiful by Jung Yun.

    These three books have a prominent place on my bookshelf — and I almost never buy or keep books anymore. They are worthy of dusting!

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Met three dear friends for an early dinner that went on until after the sun set. Great food and conversation with some great women!

The dress is @adamlippes and I borrowed it from @renttherunway. The bag is @jcrew and a splurge but I regretted not buying it the last time they offered this bag and this color is SO me. I mean, look how great it is with these many years old suede heeled sandals? Meant to be!

This color combination makes me so happy, and this dress was comfy even after a decadent meal. We all deserve to experience comfort and joy with our wardrobes! 💛🩷

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Still recovering from my eye surgery but feeling more myself. Getting dolled up helps me feel me. Bright colors and bold jewelry have been signature Alison since I was a kid! 

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Happy gotcha day, Oscar! Four years ago he came into our life and we are so happy to have in our family!

Oscar was a rescue and came with some… quirks. Over the years we have come to understand him and he has come to trust us. He’s a diva, a snuggler, he could play catch for hours, and he’s my husband’s shadow. 

We’ve never had a small breed dog before and it’s a whole different experience. But we adore Oscar and couldn’t imagine our life without him! Thank you for coming into our life Oskie McGoskie! 🐾❤️

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And I could see clearly enough to fall for this poppy-colored cotton jumpsuit from @pistoladenim. It comes in a few colors but this one is my favorite. I went with XL (im@a 14, sometimes 16) and likely could have sized down but I enjoy the relaxed fit and the drawstring waistband to create shape. And hello zipper closure making it super easy to get on and off!

My husband took this photo right after my eye appointment, I think it reflects my positive attitude and feeling of hope! 🧡

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I’ll be a bit quiet on here and other channels because I had eye (retinal) surgery this past weekend. I was having what I thought were ocular migraines but come to find out I was experiencing lattice degeneration, which is thinning/holes in the retina. I had surgery Saturday for my right eye and later on they’ll work on the left eye, which isn’t as bad and can be remedied by laser, in office.

I share not because I’m Mrs. Frizzle meets Iris Apfel as I recuperate at home, but because this whole thing has been a lesson on trusting my gut. And I want to remind you to do the same.

As we get older our bodies can feel like strangers. Things are constantly changing and it’s easy to just assume your annual physical will catch anything wrong. But if you slow down and listen to your body you’ll know when things are just a sign of aging and life and what seems unusual. That nagging issue may be something more serious.

And if you’re seeing flashing lights, floaters, spiderwebs or other odd eye things get checked out ASAP. It may be nothing but take it from me, it may actually be something. ❤️

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Ladies who lunch…

While in Savannah, I made sure to get lunch reservations for me and E at @theoldepinkhouse she loves the color pink, historic homes, and ghost stories so it was a perfect choice! 

Built in 1789 on Reynolds Square, there are stories of guests seeing ghosts, cutlery and wine bottles moving along with an elegant and truly delicious dining. 

While we didn’t see any apparitions, we did have a lovely lunch with impeccable service and after toured all floors of the home. I highly recommend a visit if you’re visiting Savannah!

My dress is from @cosstores (no longer available); hat is @furtalk and bag is @talbotsofficial (no longer available).

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Aug 29

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Scenes from a week in Savannah… 

The three of us (and our dog Oscar!) had a warm and humid but wonderful time exploring Savannah, Georgia earlier this month. Our daughter visited this gorgeous city last summer with her @girlscouts troop but wanted to return to experience more. We let her choose our adventures and play your guide and it was awesome. We cannot wait to visit again, though next time it won’t be August 🥵

For more of our trip check the “Savannah” highlight on my profile page!

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Stripes are always right…

Y’all know I love stripes and when @universalstandard came out with their Breton-stripe dresses and tops I HAD to try them! As expected, the quality is stellar, the fit boosts my confidence, and I appreciate the range of colors (5 different stripes to choose from) and sizes (00-50). For reference, I’m wearing XS but preferred S for the top and I usually wear a 14 or XL in other brands.

The tote is @able and it’s a soft yet durable leather that just looks better with time. This color (cognac) is one that transitions nicely from summer to fall. 

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