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Night and day…

Met three dear friends for an early dinner that went on until after the sun set. Great food and conversation with some great women!

The dress is @adamlippes and I borrowed it from @renttherunway. The bag is @jcrew and a splurge but I regretted not buying it the last time they offered this bag and this color is SO me. I mean, look how great it is with these many years old suede heeled sandals? Meant to be!

This color combination makes me so happy, and this dress was comfy even after a decadent meal. We all deserve to experience comfort and joy with our wardrobes! 💛🩷

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Okay I know you want to know about what we’re wearing! 

My sister’s caftan is from @anthropologie (bought this summer so maybe you can find on resale sites).

I’m wearing a @bananarepublic dress also from this summer with the @universalstandard denim chore jacket and a hat I got from a @madewell collab a year or so ago. I glammed it up with some gold chains and gold drop earrings, but kept it comfy for a night of standing and dancing with @birkenstock sandals.

This was my first big outing since my eye surgery, and with a pocketful of eye drops I felt good (and grateful we splurged for good seats!).

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Sweater: @favorite.daughter 
Earrings: Amazon
Necklace: @_jennybird (old)
Ring: @realmfinejewelry 
Bra: @lovebravissimo 
Lipstick: @glossier 
Pins as “cufflinks”: vintage

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This wasn’t the first clothing swap and folks in town know my style (and my job) so there were some waiting for my arrival. Look how fast I cleared out this big bag! Speaking of the bag one other swap attendee said she got herself a Hulken after seeing mine in action!

It’s so great to know our old clothes are getting a good life and this bag makes carting them to the cafe so easy! I got my Hulken on Amazon, it comes in other colors and sizes too: https://amzn.to/48iTY4Y yep the bag is as great as all those ads you see on social media, I’m a big fan!
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And I could see clearly enough to fall for this poppy-colored cotton jumpsuit from @pistoladenim. It comes in a few colors but this one is my favorite. I went with XL (im@a 14, sometimes 16) and likely could have sized down but I enjoy the relaxed fit and the drawstring waistband to create shape. And hello zipper closure making it super easy to get on and off!

My husband took this photo right after my eye appointment, I think it reflects my positive attitude and feeling of hope! 🧡

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Outfit Posts, Winter · January 30, 2018

Cashmere Tunic and Skinny Jeans at the District Wharf

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When traveling home from Charleston I was thinking about what I am most comfortable wearing when on travel. Heading to the airport I usually wear a blazer with a bit of stretch, a refined knit top, knit pants, and a cool scarf. But when I am heading home I am more relaxed and usually just want to be able to throw something on but not LOOK as though I just threw something on.

Knit pants or stretchy jeans, the heaviest shoes I packed, and something slouchy, soft, yet purposeful looking. As soon as I got home from Charleston I googled “Off the Shoulder Cashmere Sweater.” Something longer, something oversized, something not black but still neutral.

what to wear to the airport over 40

Searching I found Naked Cashmere. This looked oversized enough that it would fit even though I am usually a 14W with sweaters. At first glance, none of the colors appealed to me, but I thought for travel “Musk” (the color I am wearing here) would be a good color that would look luxe with black, grey, white, cream, and denim. Long enough I could wear with leggings and not appear half-dressed.

over 40 travel outfit

No, this sweater isn't cheap but not bad for cashmere and I am of the mindset in 2018 that I am buying far less, but making smarter decisions.

the wharf dc
the wharf dc swings

And I am super duper impressed with the quality of this cashmere. It's ridiculously soft, lofty, high quality, nice and thick and hasn't gotten fuzzy or pilled. Sure it's less than a week old but I've already worn it three times. Sunday night we spent at the DC Wharf (review to come) and it was great to have this sweater in my suitcase to throw on the lounging in the room, and I even threw it over my gym tee and leggings to look more pulled together when we went down for the hotel breakfast.

swings at the dc wharf

I like this sweater enough that I would again buy from Naked Cashmere. And yes, this sweater is extremely oversized; while it's likely less off the shoulder for larger figures this sweater could comfortably fit a 16 and depending on your shape, an 18 (the brand considers an L to be a 12/14).

naked cashmere sweater review

These photos were taken at the District Wharf, a new destination in Washington DC along the Potomac River. President George Washington envisioned this federal city as a political capital and maritime center. In 1791 Pierre Charles L’Enfant designed the street layout of what is now Southwest Washington DC with a major inland seaport. Early in the 19th century, the Wharf enjoyed popularity as a site for fine residences and businesses, including the opening of the Maine Avenue Fish Market in 1805. The Maine Avenue Fish Market is America's oldest operating fish market. With its grand opening in October 2017 and still being developed, the District Wharf is a great place for water activities, fine dining, shopping, and living, along with a wide variety of live music, cultural events, and festivals.

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  1. Lorena says

    February 14, 2018 at 10:53 am

    Beautiful color scheme… and I am loving your hair Ally!

    Reply
  2. Kirsty says

    February 2, 2018 at 12:26 pm

    Interested to know how you care for your cashmere. Do you hand wash?

    The potential faff of caring for cashmere always puts me off.

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      February 2, 2018 at 12:28 pm

      I usually dry clean it and hand spot clean between visits.

      Reply
  3. Chris says

    January 30, 2018 at 7:43 pm

    One more thing. Your suitcase is on sale today for a great price, in case anyone is interested.

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      February 2, 2018 at 12:30 pm

      Awesome!

      Reply
  4. Chris says

    January 30, 2018 at 7:25 pm

    The sweater is gorgeous but too expensive for me.

    Nevertheless, I want to ask you about deodorant. When wearing an expensive knit garment next to your skin, do you worry about deodorant damaging or staining the garment? What product(s) do you use? Do you hand wash or dry clean?

    Thank you!

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      February 2, 2018 at 12:30 pm

      I don’t, I haven’t had much issue. I was using natural deodorants but I started smelling like cat pee no matter which brand I tried so went back to the old stuff. Right now it’s Certain Dri at night and the occasional Degree during the day. For cashmere, I let it air out, spot clean hand wash, and then dry clean.

      Reply
  5. Chris says

    January 30, 2018 at 7:13 pm

    And what building houses the wonderful stairway with the luminescent globes on cables?

    You look so wonderful with bangs. Please keep them for awhile.

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      February 2, 2018 at 12:28 pm

      This is the Canopy by Hilton hotel at the DC Wharf, working on the review now! 🙂

      Reply
  6. ClaraT says

    January 30, 2018 at 1:56 pm

    Super cute look for travel (or for anything, really). But those heels! Adorable, but are they actually comfy for long walks through the airport (and for sitting for hours)? Genuinely curious because my feet *have* to feel great for travel, which so often means sneakers–so even if they are ‘dressy’ (non athletic) sneakers, the look is instantly more casual.

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      January 30, 2018 at 2:03 pm

      For this look the travel was by car but usually I wear a pair of ankle boots with a low block heel. I love L’Amour des Pieds for super comfy boots that don’t look frumpy. Cushioning, arch support, plenty of room in the toebox, and buttery leather. My current pair isn’t available but these are the ones currently on sale at Nordstrom: http://bit.ly/2DMCUFU

      Reply
      • ClaraT says

        January 30, 2018 at 8:14 pm

        Thanks for the reply and the link 🙂

        Reply
  7. Kris says

    January 30, 2018 at 10:19 am

    Hi Alie – you look great in that sweater; beautiful. I have almost given up on cashmere as so often too cheap/pilly. And looked at some other sweaters on the site and they do have a “luxe” look as you say.

    I really enjoying reading your blog – and I’m a bit frustrated by the constant pop-up ads. I am constantly clicking so that I can read the content without being distracted. Is there any way to get rid of these to up reader enjoyment (don’t notice this as a problem on other sites)?

    Reply
    • Alison at Wardrobe Oxygen says

      January 30, 2018 at 10:30 am

      Oh wow there should NOT be pop-ups, only in-content and at the footer. Can you take a screenshot and send to me?l and let me know what browser? I’ll make sure they’re gone.

      Reply
  8. Tamara says

    January 30, 2018 at 10:03 am

    I love the sweater! One thing I’ve noticed is you occasionally do an off the shoulder look. How do you manage the bra strap problem? I’m big enough busted that no bra is not an option, but you never seem to have a bra strap showing (or saggy boobs). What’s the secret?

    Reply
    • Alison at Wardrobe Oxygen says

      January 30, 2018 at 10:32 am

      A strapless bra! I need to do a lingerie update post but I’ve found one that holds me up and is comfortable for several hours (yesterday I wore until maybe 4pm). I’ll go see which one it is but think it’s either Fantasie or Chantelle a molded cup style from Nordstrom.

      Reply
      • Tamara says

        January 30, 2018 at 10:46 am

        Oh yes! Please do a lingerie post! That would be very helpful to me, especially if there are some budget friendly options.

        Reply
    • Roons says

      January 31, 2018 at 7:46 am

      Thank you for the question, I was thinking the same thing.
      Alison-thank you for the prompt reply, looking forward to the post. A comfortable strapless bra… who would have thought such a thing actually existed!

      Reply
  9. Linda B says

    January 30, 2018 at 9:33 am

    Thanks for this great idea for comfy traveling–and every day life!

    Reply

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Night and day…

Met three dear friends for an early dinner that went on until after the sun set. Great food and conversation with some great women!

The dress is @adamlippes and I borrowed it from @renttherunway. The bag is @jcrew and a splurge but I regretted not buying it the last time they offered this bag and this color is SO me. I mean, look how great it is with these many years old suede heeled sandals? Meant to be!

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Okay I know you want to know about what we’re wearing! 

My sister’s caftan is from @anthropologie (bought this summer so maybe you can find on resale sites).

I’m wearing a @bananarepublic dress also from this summer with the @universalstandard denim chore jacket and a hat I got from a @madewell collab a year or so ago. I glammed it up with some gold chains and gold drop earrings, but kept it comfy for a night of standing and dancing with @birkenstock sandals.

This was my first big outing since my eye surgery, and with a pocketful of eye drops I felt good (and grateful we splurged for good seats!).

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If I close my eyes you can’t tell one is still bloodshot 😜

Still recovering from my eye surgery but feeling more myself. Getting dolled up helps me feel me. Bright colors and bold jewelry have been signature Alison since I was a kid! 

Sweater: @favorite.daughter 
Earrings: Amazon
Necklace: @_jennybird (old)
Ring: @realmfinejewelry 
Bra: @lovebravissimo 
Lipstick: @glossier 
Pins as “cufflinks”: vintage

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Happy gotcha day, Oscar! Four years ago he came into our life and we are so happy to have in our family!

Oscar was a rescue and came with some… quirks. Over the years we have come to understand him and he has come to trust us. He’s a diva, a snuggler, he could play catch for hours, and he’s my husband’s shadow. 

We’ve never had a small breed dog before and it’s a whole different experience. But we adore Oscar and couldn’t imagine our life without him! Thank you for coming into our life Oskie McGoskie! 🐾❤️

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I can see clearly now…

Actually I can’t, but things after my retina surgery are much improved! My next appointment is in a month and I’m cleared to get back into the world (with some restrictions to protect my eye).

With a sclera buckle, it changes your eye shape and now I am nearsighted again (I had lasik a few years ago). Once the eye is stabilized I can get glasses or contacts but until then I’m 20/20 in one eye and right now 20/60 in the other. But the eye is healing beautifully and I feel positive!

And I could see clearly enough to fall for this poppy-colored cotton jumpsuit from @pistoladenim. It comes in a few colors but this one is my favorite. I went with XL (im@a 14, sometimes 16) and likely could have sized down but I enjoy the relaxed fit and the drawstring waistband to create shape. And hello zipper closure making it super easy to get on and off!

My husband took this photo right after my eye appointment, I think it reflects my positive attitude and feeling of hope! 🧡

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I’ll be a bit quiet on here and other channels because I had eye (retinal) surgery this past weekend. I was having what I thought were ocular migraines but come to find out I was experiencing lattice degeneration, which is thinning/holes in the retina. I had surgery Saturday for my right eye and later on they’ll work on the left eye, which isn’t as bad and can be remedied by laser, in office.

I share not because I’m Mrs. Frizzle meets Iris Apfel as I recuperate at home, but because this whole thing has been a lesson on trusting my gut. And I want to remind you to do the same.

As we get older our bodies can feel like strangers. Things are constantly changing and it’s easy to just assume your annual physical will catch anything wrong. But if you slow down and listen to your body you’ll know when things are just a sign of aging and life and what seems unusual. That nagging issue may be something more serious.

And if you’re seeing flashing lights, floaters, spiderwebs or other odd eye things get checked out ASAP. It may be nothing but take it from me, it may actually be something. ❤️

Okay, going back to my big sunglasses caftan recuperation life!

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While in Savannah, I made sure to get lunch reservations for me and E at @theoldepinkhouse she loves the color pink, historic homes, and ghost stories so it was a perfect choice! 

Built in 1789 on Reynolds Square, there are stories of guests seeing ghosts, cutlery and wine bottles moving along with an elegant and truly delicious dining. 

While we didn’t see any apparitions, we did have a lovely lunch with impeccable service and after toured all floors of the home. I highly recommend a visit if you’re visiting Savannah!

My dress is from @cosstores (no longer available); hat is @furtalk and bag is @talbotsofficial (no longer available).

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Scenes from a week in Savannah… 

The three of us (and our dog Oscar!) had a warm and humid but wonderful time exploring Savannah, Georgia earlier this month. Our daughter visited this gorgeous city last summer with her @girlscouts troop but wanted to return to experience more. We let her choose our adventures and play your guide and it was awesome. We cannot wait to visit again, though next time it won’t be August 🥵

For more of our trip check the “Savannah” highlight on my profile page!

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The tote is @able and it’s a soft yet durable leather that just looks better with time. This color (cognac) is one that transitions nicely from summer to fall. 

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