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Counteract the gray days with cozy colorful clothes! 🌈 This cashmere sweater set is the prettiest teal and I loved how it looked with this candy pink Chesterfield coat. All are from @anntaylor one of my favorite places to shop because Ann has petites over a size 12. Also all of these items are on sale!

While I did receive these clothes as a gift from Ann Taylor I am under no obligation to share with you. This is what I wore to work and when I saw these colors against the green of my building door I had to prop up my phone and capture the color combo!

This sweater is a classic and with the skirt is created a dress effect you can style with tall boots, ankle boots and tights, or dress down with sneakers. I linked to other pieces in this color that would also look dreamy with this skirt, as well as other gorgeous colorful coats.

For reference I am wearing the coat in XL petite and the sweater set in L. I am 5’3” and usually wear a 14/16

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Just got back from a 4-night getaway with my sister @debbiefaye78 at @curacaomarriottbeachresort. It was a last-minute planned trip that ended up being perfect. We weren’t ready to celebrate Thanksgiving without our mom and this escape what just what our hearts needed. 

I’ll be sharing more once I finally unpack my suitcase and organize my photos and thoughts; but I couldn’t not share this picture from yesterday morning. Debbie and I got up early to enjoy some of the day at the resort before flying home to DC. We had the infinity pool to ourselves, finished our books, and relaxed before a long day of travel. 🌴
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It’s hard when you’re petite and most models aren’t; you have no idea how clothes, especially jeans will fit. To promote @universalstandard’s Denim Drive sale, the company sent me two pairs of jeans of my choice. And I chose to make this video to show how they fit on my 5’3” body. I am usually a 14/32 in jeans but at Universal Standard I wear a 12 because they’re super stretchy and generously sized. 

With jeans as low as $35 in sizes 00-40, this is a sale not to be missed. And use code INFS-BFALISON10 for an additional 10% off sitewide!

The Farrah Flare is a favorite because at my height, most flare jeans will lose what makes them special once hemmed. At a 30” inseam these are great with low heels or lug soles.

The Etta is a straight jean with a vintage fit. If in doubt size down. They’re also super stretchy and the 28” inseam (they also come in 31”) works with my boots and sneakers.

While I was provided the apparel in this Reel for free, I was not paid or contracted to create this content. Consider it a PSA for my fellow shorties shopping this fab denim sale!

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Thanks to @talbotsofficial I’m ready for the holidays! #AD

I love Talbots for holiday fashion and this season’s new arrivals do not disappoint. And for Black Friday the entire site is 40% off with free shipping on orders $150+. Until noon, you also receive 50% off 1 regular price item!

I ordered pieces from the Talbots Holiday Collection and found great quality, great style, and great versatility. How cute is the Breton stripe bateau neck with the removable feather cuffs? The metallic plaid patio skirt is so fun, and these two dresses can glam up or dress down with a change of footwear and bag. For reference, I am wearing everything in either XL or 16 petite.

The ivory cords are also Talbots; the black trousers are from last year’s Talbots Holiday Collection showing how Talbots has lasting style. I’ve linked to exact or very similar in my LTK shop. Follow my shop @wardrobe_oxygen on the @shop.ltk app to shop this post and get my exclusive app-only content! https://liketk.it/4oDJF

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@somaintimates makes it easy to shop for a range of personas this holiday season! #AD With gift guides for a range of personality types, you can easily find great gifts for your loved ones. I was drawn to the creative one, loving the rich colorful florals, luxe satin, lace trim, and of course Soma’s iconic Cool Nights sleepwear! Visit Soma’s gift guide for tips on finding the perfect present this holiday season. #SomaGiftGuide #SomaStartsWithMe
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Working on the weekend is far more enjoyable when it’s in my office 💚

Perimenopause and the pandemic and homeschooling made our row home feel even smaller. So when neighbors revitalized an office building in our town center and offered individual offices for rent, I felt it would be good for business and personally. And I kept it when the world opened up and our kid went back to public school because it helps me have a clear start and end to the work day, but also because I created a space I really enjoy.

This weekend I went to the office to shoot some content. And once I was finished I enjoyed just sitting here, watching the light change. I think I may switch the furniture around, switch up the energy. I love that I can do that without consulting another or having another person’s opinions matter.

When you have a family, things go from me to we. I don’t regret leaving Corporate America to do this full time, but I do miss being part of a team. And I missed having an office, a place away from home that’s just for me. 

I wish more communities would offer rental offices like @thegranitebuilding. With reasonably affordable monthly rates, it doesn’t have to just be business owners who get office spaces. It can be a place to work on a hobby or craft, a place to WFH that’s not home, or a place to just read and write and nap undisturbed. A literal room of one’s own. Because sometimes a person needs time to be a me and not a we. 💚
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You’re never too old for a Rory Gilmore sweater… this cotton fisherman sweater is from @llbean and inspired by @marielle.elizabeth I shopped the men’s department for a better size range. The influencer influenced the influencer!

The jeans are @landsend I got last year and I’m glad they brought them back this year in several washes, inseam lengths, and plus sizes. If in doubt, size down. They will shrink in length slightly but not anywhere else, they’re super comfy and stretchy but don’t stretch out. 

Kept the collegiate vibe going with a trucker cap, HOKAs, and my trusty commuter bag for years: the large @dagnedover Dakota backpack!

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It’s Cozy Season, and @tjmaxx is here to update our wardrobes with stylish accessories and apparel from the best brands for less. #AD

I recently visited tjmaxx.com and was so impressed with the array of elevated designer labels, on-trend looks, and the best prices. This pearl-encrusted beanie is from a woman designer I have admired for years; tjmaxx.com has the matching gloves and other pieces from this label to make a great set for yourself or to gift another. These earrings I’ve seen from the same designer at department stores; in fact I own other earrings from this label and paid much more for them. I should have checked T.J.Maxx first! And this cozy poncho is the perfect layer for late fall in the DC area.

I love how the winter white pieces elevate my existing closet. And pearls can be worn for day or glam up for evening. I can see many ways I’ll be styling these designer accessories from #tjmaxx all season long!

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My husband has a special backpack he fills with weight to wear while hiking; it’s called rucking. I wear a @dagnedover Dakota and fill it with my laptop, my iPad, a full water bottle, and my purse and walk to work; it’s called commuting. 💁🏻‍♀️

But seriously, I’ve had this backpack for five years. It has been shoved under plane seats, in overstuffed car trunks, under feet in the passenger seat. I’ve worn it as I’ve walked miles in major cities and from my house to my town center. My daughter also has a Dagne Dakota; it survived middle school and continues to work through camping, sleepovers, and road trips. It’s genially designed, comfortable, and can take a beating and still look great.

As for the rest of the look, the vest (XL) is a new purchase from @athleta; the Rainier tights (L) are also Athleta but two years old. The purple top is @nike and about a decade old. Hat is @llbean and it’s on sale for less than $15. And my trusty @hoka sneakers that have had their own set of adventures.

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Fashion Advice · October 10, 2014

Recent Purchases: Hits and Misses

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I’m slowly filling in holes in my wardrobe. Though I lost some weight from Whole30 I am still not the same shape and size I was last winter so I need to do a bit of purchasing. I’m also noticing how some of my “classic” items aren’t all that classic. For example, Monday morning I was wearing a cream sweater (see below) with cream trousers and thought brown shoes would be perfect. I went up on a shelf in my closet to pull out my “classic” brown suede booties and realized they have a hidden platform, a weird chunky toe that points up a bit, and the brown is very reddish (these are the booties I’m describing). Yep, they’ll be on eBay before the month is through! Anyway, below are items I have recently tried, some I have loved and kept and others that didn’t make the cut:

Halogen Zip Detail Leather Moto Jacket

Halogen Zip Detail Leather Moto Jacket

I have a green leather jacket, a blue leather jacket, and a fake leather jacket but I really want a black leather one that is a classic fit, classic cut, and can be something I wear for a long time. In high school I had a black biker jacket, I wore it all four years and into college. I still have it, but it’s a very dated silhouette and I’d like a simpler version. This jacket from Halogen appealed to me because there weren’t any funky details, it’s under $300 for real leather, and it comes in petite. A big issue with previously purchased jackets is the sleeves are too long (or with the faux leather, it has bracelet sleeves which makes it hard to wear with long sleeved clothes, and well, faux leather isn’t very warm).

The jacket is well made, and like all the other Halogen leather pieces I own, very soft. This isn’t a classic biker jacket with the notched collar, but with a moto snap collar and then the wide placket to be able to zip up the jacket. The details are subtle so it’s a piece that will stand the test of time. A petite large fit me nicely, and I am usually a generous 12 or slim 14 in coats and need bust space. The sleeves weren’t too tight with a lightweight sweater, and the lining was soft against bare skin.

But I returned it. I didn’t LOVE it, and honestly, it looks so similar to my green leather jacket. It’s a little too polished for what I want; right now I want something that can wear a bit, dress up maybe with a midi skirt, but mainly be what I throw on with a tee shirt and jeans. While this is a great price for a high quality leather jacket, I am still looking for the right one for me.

Halogen Varsity Pleat Skirt

Halogen ‘Varsity' Pleat Skirt

During the Nordstrom Anniversary I purchased this skirt to replace this skirt from Hinge that I wore to DEATH last winter. Yeah, no. The skirt emphasized everything I’d like not emphasized and I realized it’s because the flare is right from the waist. So I returned it and decided to try this skirt from Halogen; the pleats start lower and are better managed (no belly pleating).

This skirt runs small. I purchased a 12 (my normal size in Halogen) and regular (more length for work) and I could hardly pull it over my rear and I couldn’t zip it more than an inch. Oh, and the description doesn’t mention that it’s textured, like a mini waffle weave.

The Vince Camuto Notch Collar Cape is so odd I had to share multiple photos

Vince Camuto Notch Collar Cape

I briefly mentioned this cape in this post, but think it deserves a proper review, especially since I wrote a review over a week ago on Nordstrom and it has yet to be published, and because other Wardrobe Oxygen readers mentioned the same issue with it.

While I own a lot of Vince Camuto and think they’re a great choice to wear runway-inspired trends without spending a ton, they sometimes go too cheap or get a trend completely wrong. This is one of those times. The cape is made out of a suiting-like material (and a cheap scratchy suit at that) and lined only in acetate; this isn’t outerwear but more like a weirdly shaped blazer. And it is weirdly shaped; I ordered a Large and it was huge on me, I looked as though I was in the Talking Heads. On the models the button seems to be near their navels, on me it was closer to my crotch; buttoned the collar gaped and looked cheap and unbuttoned it tented out. The armholes were very low down, I couldn’t get my hands out unless my arms were bent, and then only the first half of my forearms. No way could I reach the pockets. Mega fail.

LOFT Custom Stretch Trouser Pants Marisa Fit

LOFT Custom Stretch Trouser Pants – Marisa Fit

I now own two pairs of these pants. I wore them here in black, and now I also own navy. These pants are the perfect work pant. You can machine wash them (I line dry, I hang by the legs, making a crease and a clean look by matching the seams to one another and using the weight of the pant to make the legs taut), they’re stretchy, yet hold their shape all day and through multiple wears, look professional/pair nicely with blazers, and the lack of lining does make them not as polished but more comfortable for business casual offices. Though they have belt loops, the waistband is very flat so it doesn’t look bulky under fitted knits. The pockets are ridiculous, I can’t even fit a credit card in them but again, no bulk. I purchased the 14 petite and they are a comfortable fit and comfortable length with mid-height heels. The Marisa Fit is best for me because while I have a booty, I don’t have a very hourglass shape. The Julie Fit of these pants is better for curvy frames, and the Zoe Fit is great for straight shapes with smaller booties; they all come in Regular, Petite, and Tall. All this and under $80 (and then LOFT is always having some sort of promotion!).

lands end lofty sweater

Lands’ End 3/4-sleeve Lofty Blend Cable Pullover Sweater

I thought I ordered a Large, I ordered a Medium. It fit, but it fit too well to the point of looking dated.  I think if I exchanged it for Large Petite I’d like it better.  This sweater is very soft, perfect for those who can’t deal with wool and scratchier fabrics. The knit is tight so no need for an under layer for modesty. It looks expensive and elegant, a classic. This sweater would look nice with jeans, but I think can dress up and look quite lovely with a button-front shirt underneath, or paired with a pencil skirt or work trousers. However, I mentioned this sweater in my post where I was looking for a fisherman sweater and this sweater is NOT that. This is a tailored, ladylike sweater. A great sweater, but you won’t be mistaken for Ernest Hemingway in it for sure!

lands end drifter sweater

Lands’ End 3/4-sleeve Button-back Cable Boatneck Drifter Sweater

Gotta love it when the sale item is the one you like best! I cheated a bit with this sweater, I had borrowed the lavender version of it from Gwynnie Bee this summer. From Gwynnie Bee, I ordered a Large and it was a bit too heavy and boxy for me. However, in cream I thought a Large would be quite Hemingway-esque. But like the other Lands’ End sweater I seemed to flake out and ordered a Medium (what I wear in Lands' End for most knits and dresses). When it first came I thought it was too fitted to accomplish my goal, but I tried it with different items in my wardrobe and decided this size is more flattering and versatile. I wore it this weekend sightseeing with my Gap Real Straights rolled like boyfriend jeans and my Converse Shorelines and as mentioned above, wore it to work with cream tropical wool trousers and booties. I’ve styled this sweater at home with my pleated leather skirt and also like it over a denim shirt. It has a boatneck and gold buttons in back which makes it look a bit more expensive and special than a traditional cable, but may limit your styling. At the time of writing this, there were still lots of sizes available in Petite, Regular, and Plus.

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MICHAEL Michael Kors Faux Wrap Maxi Dress

This is not something I needed, but per my post Wednesday, something I bought to hopefully wear to a wedding.  I really wanted this in blue but it was out of stock so I ordered it in black, 12 Petite. I ordered for the wedding, but thought the fabric and style would make it year-round wearable and versatile enough to dress up and down.  Glad I ordered petite because this dress is LONG! Like even in petite I'd need to wear heels to not have a train long. And that's not where the fail ended for me. The sleeves are a weird length (longer on me than in the photo) that look too casual for the rest of the dress (and tight too), the neckline was so low I'd have to pin to hide my bra, and the wrapping in the middle added bulk instead of flattering my curves.  A plus is that it fit nicely in the torso and over my hips and rear; the fabric is opaque and heavy enough to not cling.  I'm glad I didn't get the blue because I may have fallen in love so much with the color I would ignore the faults in the dress.  I think this dress would look far better on someone who is taller, and I think it's made for a woman with her curves below the waist; some hips would really make the skirt flow nicely.

So now I want to hear from you, have you purchased anything lately that is phenomenal? Anything so awful fellow readers should get a warning? I learn so much from all of you, I’d love to know what’s on your radar!

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  1. Alex says

    October 23, 2014 at 7:47 am

    My latest fashion hit: $5 knit mini skirts from H&M. Something I never thought would be a “hit” for me has turned into a wardrobe staple already. Part of this is due to my workplace’s dress code; it is casual as dress codes go but leggings require some sort of skirt (“no leggings as pants”), and these inexpensive stretchy tubes do just the trick. I also like the added coverage over my bum when I’m out and about, and I’m sure I will appreciate that extra layer come wintertime. When I hiked down to my local store this week to pick up a basic black one, I saw they were on a two for $10 deal. The only other option available that fit my wardrobe palette and style was leopard print, in which the biggest size they had was a medium. I am generally wearing a 14 these days.. not so medium. Then I remembered that my existing small collection of these (all size large) tend to stretch out a bit between washes and decided to give the medium a whirl. It totally fits, and the leopard print looks great wrapped around my butt, if I do say so myself. 🙂 I appreciate the little ego boost, H&M! My hips sure haven’t had anything size medium hugging them in years.

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    • Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

      October 23, 2014 at 8:07 am

      Oh your comment made me giggle, I too love those little ego boosts! And thanks for sharing this great deal and tip! 🙂

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  2. fashionforgiants says

    October 13, 2014 at 6:11 pm

    This was a fabulous review! I really enjoyed how thorough it was. I personally like hearing about misses but usually have to depend on the reviews on site; this was great!

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  3. Eleanorjane says

    October 11, 2014 at 5:24 pm

    It hasn’t been cold enough in England (until just this week) for me to think about autumn shopping. I did get an excellent pair of grey floral print jeans from Gap about a month ago but haven’t really bought anything since. Now it’s gotten colder I’m craving burgundy-coloured accessories i.e. shoes and bags.

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  4. Ruth Slavid says

    October 11, 2014 at 5:19 am

    Hi Allie, I am interested that this is the second time in recent posts that you have mentioned wearing something black to a wedding. Am I the only one who has it ingrained that you do not wear black to a wedding? I have done it but it has always been a bright print on a black background and even then, looking back at the photos, I think ‘hmmm, not v wedding appropriate’.

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    • Aimee says

      October 11, 2014 at 11:45 am

      This reminds me of a painful episode in which I wore a black dress to a wedding in the 80’s. In the deep south! I was in college and poor and it was the nicest thing I had. I remember a few stares. Fast-forward to a few weeks ago. Not only did some guests wear black to my cousin’s wedding, but my cousin wore black as well! Granted, she was an older bride, but the point is that times have changed and black is no longer a no-no at a wedding. In fact, it can be quite sophisticated in my opinion.

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    • Clare says

      October 11, 2014 at 9:54 pm

      I am 38 & would never wear black to a wedding. The women of my family all chose a dark color, one appropriate to the season. I don’t consider it a fashion “rule,” just a sign of respect and thoughtfulness not to wear black.

      I think Allie looks great in emerald green.

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      • crtfly says

        October 12, 2014 at 12:13 am

        She does! And in cobalt blue also.
        Chris

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    • Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

      October 14, 2014 at 9:44 am

      The wedding I attended I was not the only one in black, there must have been a dozen others of all ages in the color. I think it’s a cultural/location/religion thing, and in my area black has become quite commonplace and accepted as wedding attire color.

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  5. Texas Aggie Mom says

    October 10, 2014 at 10:57 pm

    I think I just scored a new wardrobe favorite – the Michael Kors high/low maxi dress on sale at Nordstrom in a lightweight black wool blend. It has no waistline seam, which is a real plus for those of us who are long-waisted, and the lines are very flattering. The belt that’s included isn’t one I would wear, but I have plenty of belts that do work. I originally intended to have it hemmed to one length, but may actually keep it as is. It looks just as good with a denim jacket, western belt and cowboy boots as it does with pumps and a brocade evening jacket – possibly the most versatile thing in my closet at this point! I am happier with this than anything I’ve bought in ages. The same order also included a “miss” – the Michael Kors Logo Plate matte jersey dress. Not only did it run very small, but the plate is attached with a piece of brown faux leather that is completely incongruous with the rest of the dress. Oh well, the black wool maxi dress more than makes up for it. It’s supposed to be cool and rainy here tomorrow (finally!) and I know I will spend way too long trying out different looks with this great new wardrobe fave! Allie, thanks for the sweater insights – I’ve been looking at some of the same ones and this info helps a lot! Any idea where I can buy some good quality wool-blend turtlenecks in great colors before they are all sold out? Ann Taylor used to be my “go to” source, but they don’t have any yet. I splurged on one from Brooks Brothers and the color was wrong. I’m wondering if LE or LLB might have something – off to check their websites!

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    • Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

      October 14, 2014 at 9:43 am

      Good question on the turtlenecks, I’ve seen some at J. Crew in the past but don’t know if they have them this year. And I saw that dress and was drooling over it but couldn’t imagine its versatility. Now reading your comment I can, but it’s sold out in my size 🙂

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  6. Kati Rose says

    October 10, 2014 at 7:49 pm

    I’m sad to hear that the cape was a miss! At first glance it looks wonderful – it’s in trend and has the neat cuts to take it up a step. I’m glad I could read a true review so I wouldn’t be swayed by a picture! On to the next hunt then!

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  7. Patricia says

    October 10, 2014 at 4:38 pm

    Thank you for this! Glad to know I’m not the only one hauling things back to the store. My recent hit was a pair of gray jeans from Macy’s. Great fit and great color. Even found long sleeve T to match for interesting options. Still looking for a chocolate brown cable knit sweater (not wool! Issues…). I thought this time of year they’d be everywhere. Nope. My old brown sweater was getting a little stretched out and hit the give away pile.

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  8. Gail Krueger Carriveau says

    October 10, 2014 at 3:00 pm

    Oops! Also have LE military anorak in Green on back order and hoping for good results once received.

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    • Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

      October 10, 2014 at 3:25 pm

      Nice!

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  9. Gail Krueger Carriveau says

    October 10, 2014 at 2:58 pm

    I bought a Banana Republic pendant necklace in August that has gotten quite a bit of wear. Also the Lands End denim jacket

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    • Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

      October 10, 2014 at 3:25 pm

      Ooh must check out that denim jacket!

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  10. Aisha says

    October 10, 2014 at 11:38 am

    I am going through the same thing. I lost a lot of weight in the last year, unfortunately, stress induced. But with that I have to buy some new things especially pants. I have really fallen in love with Lands End offerings. Lot’s of wrinkle free work clothing that is cut well and stylish. I have also fallen in love with ponte because it feels like wearing pajamas at work.

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    • Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

      October 10, 2014 at 11:59 am

      Sorry you’ve gone through a stressful time, A! And I gotta agree with Lands’ End, they’re really bringing their A-game these days. And thank goodness for ponte, best fabric!

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    • Sonia says

      October 10, 2014 at 12:27 pm

      Stress induced weight loss bites ’cause you know that once the stress leaves, the weight will return. I lost 30 lbs. two years ago and was excited after the stress left, that my weight stayed the same. At the same time, I got a new job that required new clothing. I bought tons of new clothing in my new size. Fast forward six months, and none of the clothing fits. Ugh! Kudos to whoever invented ponte, it looks good, feels good and lasts all day without a wrinkle!

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  11. Erin @ Her Heartland Soul says

    October 10, 2014 at 11:20 am

    I love these kinds of posts! I now need to check out Loft pants. I have been having a horrible time finding good dress pants lately!

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  12. Carissa says

    October 10, 2014 at 10:59 am

    Those LOFT pants are my go to even as I have changed sizes over the last few years. The fit is great and I have just purchased them in a different size as needed. It’s nice to have a few pants in my closet that I know I can throw on any day and feel put together. Glad to hear they work for other people because if they ever stopped making them I don’t know what I would do!

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  13. Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

    October 10, 2014 at 10:47 am

    Reader Kate is at work where they block Disqus but she sent me this super helpful email regarding fisherman sweaters: “I wanted to let you know, however, that my go-to for a true,
    classic fisherman sweater has been and continues to be L.L. Bean.
    You can find the older, true wool styles on ebay, etsy and in other
    places that sell vintage but I still like what they have in stock today.

    This is my absolute favorite ( http://www.llbean.com/llb/shop/51737?feat=fisherman-SR0&page=heritage-sweater-irish-fisherman-s-crewneck ) –
    I know it’s mens and therefore a bit boxy, but that doesn’t bother me,
    especially in cold winters. Just size down and it should be slightly
    fitted enough to still work. SO SO SO WARM. I live in the south now so
    it doesn’t do me much good, but I kind of wish I had more chances to
    wear one! And although it’s not a Fisherman sweater, not exactly, this women’s sweater (http://www.llbean.com/llb/shop/85001?feat=611-GN1&page=textured-donegal-sweaters-pullover ) kind
    of has the same feel and heaviness. It may or may not be your style. I
    know with your newest entry you said you kind of found your sweater at
    Lands End (which I also love!) but if you’re still thinking ‘Fisherman’
    and looking, L.L. Bean might be a good place to check!

    By the way – I do NOT recommend the Signature Fisherman Sweater for
    women off of L.L. Bean. Its hem will barely reach the top of your jeans!
    I wish it was about four inches longer and then I think it would be
    worth the investment. Oh, well.”

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  14. Tiffany says

    October 10, 2014 at 10:01 am

    Thanks for sharing both the hits and the misses. It’s somehow comforting to see that you have the same shopping frustrations with fit and just “not quite right” items that I do. Sometimes fashion bloggers give the impression (perhaps non intentionally) that they just effortlessly pick up items that fit and work. Here’s hoping you find the items still on your wish list!

    Reply
    • Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

      October 10, 2014 at 10:19 am

      A little secret – we don’t usually share the misses because no one will buy what we think sucks, and most bloggers get a commission off purchases made from their blog links. Oh no, I have a pile in the corner of my bedroom of things I need to mail or take back to retailers and sometimes the free things brands send me do not fit or flatter. Then the pieces I DO like sometimes need an alteration to properly fit. While we may have more experience with brands which helps us narrow down our choices, we still have the same struggles of most women in finding the perfect wardrobe additions! 🙂

      Reply
      • Clare says

        October 11, 2014 at 9:55 pm

        The “misses” post was actually super helpful. Maybe not profitable, but quite helpful. Thanks.

        Reply

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Just got back from a 4-night getaway with my sister @debbiefaye78 at @curacaomarriottbeachresort. It was a last-minute planned trip that ended up being perfect. We weren’t ready to celebrate Thanksgiving without our mom and this escape what just what our hearts needed. 

I’ll be sharing more once I finally unpack my suitcase and organize my photos and thoughts; but I couldn’t not share this picture from yesterday morning. Debbie and I got up early to enjoy some of the day at the resort before flying home to DC. We had the infinity pool to ourselves, finished our books, and relaxed before a long day of travel. 🌴

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Working on the weekend is far more enjoyable when it’s in my office 💚

Perimenopause and the pandemic and homeschooling made our row home feel even smaller. So when neighbors revitalized an office building in our town center and offered individual offices for rent, I felt it would be good for business and personally. And I kept it when the world opened up and our kid went back to public school because it helps me have a clear start and end to the work day, but also because I created a space I really enjoy.

This weekend I went to the office to shoot some content. And once I was finished I enjoyed just sitting here, watching the light change. I think I may switch the furniture around, switch up the energy. I love that I can do that without consulting another or having another person’s opinions matter.

When you have a family, things go from me to we. I don’t regret leaving Corporate America to do this full time, but I do miss being part of a team. And I missed having an office, a place away from home that’s just for me. 

I wish more communities would offer rental offices like @thegranitebuilding. With reasonably affordable monthly rates, it doesn’t have to just be business owners who get office spaces. It can be a place to work on a hobby or craft, a place to WFH that’s not home, or a place to just read and write and nap undisturbed. A literal room of one’s own. Because sometimes a person needs time to be a me and not a we. 💚

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You’re never too old for a Rory Gilmore sweater… this cotton fisherman sweater is from @llbean and inspired by @marielle.elizabeth I shopped the men’s department for a better size range. The influencer influenced the influencer!

The jeans are @landsend I got last year and I’m glad they brought them back this year in several washes, inseam lengths, and plus sizes. If in doubt, size down. They will shrink in length slightly but not anywhere else, they’re super comfy and stretchy but don’t stretch out. 

Kept the collegiate vibe going with a trucker cap, HOKAs, and my trusty commuter bag for years: the large @dagnedover Dakota backpack!

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My husband has a special backpack he fills with weight to wear while hiking; it’s called rucking. I wear a @dagnedover Dakota and fill it with my laptop, my iPad, a full water bottle, and my purse and walk to work; it’s called commuting. 💁🏻‍♀️

But seriously, I’ve had this backpack for five years. It has been shoved under plane seats, in overstuffed car trunks, under feet in the passenger seat. I’ve worn it as I’ve walked miles in major cities and from my house to my town center. My daughter also has a Dagne Dakota; it survived middle school and continues to work through camping, sleepovers, and road trips. It’s genially designed, comfortable, and can take a beating and still look great.

As for the rest of the look, the vest (XL) is a new purchase from @athleta; the Rainier tights (L) are also Athleta but two years old. The purple top is @nike and about a decade old. Hat is @llbean and it’s on sale for less than $15. And my trusty @hoka sneakers that have had their own set of adventures.

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Another day of early voting for our city election, another outfit I wore as an election judge! 🗳️

I got this sweater set from @mmlafleur last spring and it continues to be a favorite. The color and popcorn stitch makes it wearable three seasons of the year. I’ve styled it with gold heels and dramatic gold earrings, with sneakers and a crossbody belt bag, and more than once with knee-high boots and a scarf at my throat. The color works with brown and black boots, the skirt silhouette and length with heels and flats. These brown riding boots are from @duoboots and almost a decade old. The scarf belonged to my dad; I have a feeling it was styled with a leisure suit back in the day!

I may have been more dressed up than other election judges but I think seeing democracy in action is a cause to celebrate! 🇺🇸

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Early voting poll worker style 🗳️

I’ve been an election judge (AKA poll worker) for several years but this year I decided to take it a step further and join my city’s Board of Elections. I’m passionate about fair and accessible elections for all. The Board is acting as election judges for early voting so it’s great to use my previous experience on a city level!

I believe voting is a special occasion and I dressed the part. The puff sleeve sweater and pants are from @anntaylor; these pants are the same ones from the suit I wore earlier this week. I added a beloved @hermes scarf as a belt and silver hoops (they belonged to my mom) as a hint of shine.

If your area is having an election this coming week; I implore you to vote. Your voice deserves to be heard. And please ensure your neighbors know of the election and where to vote. 🇺🇸

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Always fun to see my name in lights! 💡 I was a panelist at the annual @jaofcentralmd Leading Ladies event that connects local high schoolers with women in business. My panel was on using social media for promoting one’s business or personal brand. Along with other social media experts, we guided students and adults on how to create compelling and engaging social content and together created content for the conference’s feed. It was fun and I loved being able to share my almost two decades of personal and professional experience!

The dress code for the conference was business professional and since the event’s theme color was pink, they encouraged us to wear the color. 

This @anntaylor suit has been a favorite since late summer. I’ve dressed it down with a white tank and sneakers and glammed it up with a silk cami and gold heeled sandals. I love how Ann Taylor has petite suiting up to size 16; I know I’m not the only short curvy girl who desires suits and professional attire!

For this event I chose a berry-colored microfiber tank from @lovechicos. I own several of these tanks; they wear like iron and the tight weave and subtle shine make them great shells under suits. 

The look fit the theme but was also comfortable. I was glad to share my expertise and encourage others to see how they can donate their time and knowledge to a local @juniorachievementusa #JALeadingLadies #JALeadingLadies2023 #JACMD #JuniorAchievment

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Sharing this from my #iPadOS17 thanks to @apple! A bit belated with all that has been going on lately but I’m really enjoying using an iPad to improve how I work, stay organized, and find new ways to be creative. Can I just say that editing video on an iPad instead of a phone is a game changer!

Recently, I attended an event at the gorgeous Apple Carnegie Library hosted by @flourishplanner_ to learn ways to make the most of #iOS17 and it was awesome. I brought my new iPad and learned about the new wallpaper, stickers, and organizing tools.

As for my look, the dress is from @bananarepublic’s summer collection. Kept it comfy with a pair of Samba sneakers and held down the volume of the dress with my black recycled leather @ganni crossbody. Added an old @_jennybird link necklace and a silver cuff I’ve had since the ‘90s.

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I love an excuse to dress up, especially if it’s for a good cause! This weekend was the @thenewdealcafe Masquer-AID fundraiser to support this independent cafe, art gallery, and live music venue in @cityofgreenbelt.

My family and I have loved going to The New Deal Cafe for all these years. Grabbing coffee with friends, having a meal, seeing an amazing band, participating in an open mic or one of their Reel and Meal events. So @debbiefaye78, our mom, and I got tickets and even chipped in for a plaque from us “Ashpes Girls.” 

Our mom passed before she could attend the event; we asked our like a sister best friend @shellymingram to join us in her place and we had a great time, dancing all night as our mom would have, connecting with neighbors, and supporting a local business we all love so much.

As for the outfit, the dress is @ronnykobo the bag is @ganni and I borrowed both from @renttherunway The shoes I’ve had for years and the gold metal mask I found on Amazon and liked how it could mold to my face and not put pressure on my still-healing eye.

And I know y’all will ask because I received so many DMs this weekend when I shared this event in my Stories… my sister’s dress is from @eshakti she bought it a few years ago and it’s even more gorgeous in person!

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The biggest fashion trend this fall is a return to classics. For decades I have turned to @talbotsofficial for quality classics with style.  This season, Talbots has a fantastic range of pants to update the wardrobe. 

I love how these @talbotsofficial ivory stretch corduroy straight leg pants elevate closet classics! Available in Misses, Petite, Plus, Plus Petite, Curvy, and in 10 colors, these cords are a chic alternative to jeans and just as easy care! I can run errands and have a bit of quiet time with an ebook and a coffee with comfort and style. 

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