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Night and day…

Met three dear friends for an early dinner that went on until after the sun set. Great food and conversation with some great women!

The dress is @adamlippes and I borrowed it from @renttherunway. The bag is @jcrew and a splurge but I regretted not buying it the last time they offered this bag and this color is SO me. I mean, look how great it is with these many years old suede heeled sandals? Meant to be!

This color combination makes me so happy, and this dress was comfy even after a decadent meal. We all deserve to experience comfort and joy with our wardrobes! 💛🩷

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If @thechicks are in town you can bet @debbiefaye78 and I will be there! So when we heard they were coming to @merriweatherpp we were so excited. And their concert did not disappoint. As always, a phenomenal show! If The Chicks come to your neck of the woods I highly recommend you go!

Okay I know you want to know about what we’re wearing! 

My sister’s caftan is from @anthropologie (bought this summer so maybe you can find on resale sites).

I’m wearing a @bananarepublic dress also from this summer with the @universalstandard denim chore jacket and a hat I got from a @madewell collab a year or so ago. I glammed it up with some gold chains and gold drop earrings, but kept it comfy for a night of standing and dancing with @birkenstock sandals.

This was my first big outing since my eye surgery, and with a pocketful of eye drops I felt good (and grateful we splurged for good seats!).

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- The Stunning Push-Up: targeted for the DD+ customer gives amazing lift and great shape under fitted knits.

- The Unbelievable Lift Scoop Balconette: sexy, supportive, and so lightweight!

- The Embraceable Wireless: I’ve recommended this wireless bra for large busts for years and was in need for a new one! 

- The Stunning Support Smooth Balconette: this is the perfect t-shirt bra for large busts with padded straps and disappears under knits

- The Stunning Starlet Multi-Way Strapless: recently improved for more support and more comfort, this wireless bra stays put and gives fab shape

I also picked up some of Soma’s iconic Vanishing Edge panties which keep you line-free. The whole Vanishing collection is genius. I loved being able to donate my gently used bras at my local Soma boutique to give to those in need. We all deserve a lift and Soma strives to achieve that. It’s why I’ve been a fan and customer for years and am honored to partner with them. Soma is the perfect fitting bra solution. Visit the link in my bio to shop and to find your local Soma boutique! #SomaPartner #SomaBraFit #SomaStartsWithMe
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If I close my eyes you can’t tell one is still bloodshot 😜

Still recovering from my eye surgery but feeling more myself. Getting dolled up helps me feel me. Bright colors and bold jewelry have been signature Alison since I was a kid! 

Sweater: @favorite.daughter 
Earrings: Amazon
Necklace: @_jennybird (old)
Ring: @realmfinejewelry 
Bra: @lovebravissimo 
Lipstick: @glossier 
Pins as “cufflinks”: vintage

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It was so funny and so quick I couldn’t not share! I bought this @hulkenbag a year ago and use it all the time. Carting shoot supplies, groceries, packing for road trips, and carting donations. This weekend @thenewdealcafe in @cityofgreenbelt hosted a community clothing swap so I made sure my family and I went through our summer wardrobes to gather that which we no longer needed or fit.

This wasn’t the first clothing swap and folks in town know my style (and my job) so there were some waiting for my arrival. Look how fast I cleared out this big bag! Speaking of the bag one other swap attendee said she got herself a Hulken after seeing mine in action!

It’s so great to know our old clothes are getting a good life and this bag makes carting them to the cafe so easy! I got my Hulken on Amazon, it comes in other colors and sizes too: https://amzn.to/48iTY4Y yep the bag is as great as all those ads you see on social media, I’m a big fan!
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Oscar was a rescue and came with some… quirks. Over the years we have come to understand him and he has come to trust us. He’s a diva, a snuggler, he could play catch for hours, and he’s my husband’s shadow. 

We’ve never had a small breed dog before and it’s a whole different experience. But we adore Oscar and couldn’t imagine our life without him! Thank you for coming into our life Oskie McGoskie! 🐾❤️
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Actually I can’t, but things after my retina surgery are much improved! My next appointment is in a month and I’m cleared to get back into the world (with some restrictions to protect my eye).

With a sclera buckle, it changes your eye shape and now I am nearsighted again (I had lasik a few years ago). Once the eye is stabilized I can get glasses or contacts but until then I’m 20/20 in one eye and right now 20/60 in the other. But the eye is healing beautifully and I feel positive!

And I could see clearly enough to fall for this poppy-colored cotton jumpsuit from @pistoladenim. It comes in a few colors but this one is my favorite. I went with XL (im@a 14, sometimes 16) and likely could have sized down but I enjoy the relaxed fit and the drawstring waistband to create shape. And hello zipper closure making it super easy to get on and off!

My husband took this photo right after my eye appointment, I think it reflects my positive attitude and feeling of hope! 🧡

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Fashion Advice · July 24, 2012

Summer Sartorial Rules for Corporate America

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These days it can be confusing when trying to dress for the office. With retailers showing “secretary” dresses that hardly cover one's behind, painted-on pants paired with blazers, and cleavage-baring blouses with suits, you wonder what actually is acceptable these days. Add to this a sweltering hot summer, and one could easily stray in the wrong sartorial direction. From one corporate employee to another, here’s some rules on summer office fashion that apply to you whether you’re a cubicle dweller or reside in the corner office.
summer office fashion mistakes

Even if they’re metallic or beaded, they’re still flip flops. And if they’re flip flops, they don’t belong in the office. Period.

A cardigan doesn’t make a strapless dress work-appropriate. Seriously ladies, we can still tell it is strapless. This also goes for low-cut dresses, spaghetti straps, and every other dress more appropriate for happy hour on the terrace than the boardroom.

If I couldn’t wear spaghetti straps when working at the mall, you can’t wear them to the office. When I worked in apparel, even at trendy companies like Express, we had a dress code. That dress code restricted many things like sneakers, but it also restricted revealing attire such as spaghetti straps. If I couldn’t be a 21-year old in Express with spaghetti straps, you sure as heck shouldn’t be an adult with them at work. It’s just not professional.

Even if your bra strap is the same color as your tank, it doesn’t make it invisible. A peach racerback tank with peach bra straps is still a shirt exposing bra straps. A navy x-back sundress with a navy traditional bra is still a dress exposing your lingerie. I commend your attempt, but it’s still not appropriate for the office.

Hemlines shouldn’t rise with the temperature. Your skirt should be near your knee, not near your rear. If you can’t bend down to pick up your pen or sit on a standard chair without fear of flashing, your skirt is too short.

A hoodie is not an appropriate layer for offices that blast the A/C. Even if it’s cashmere, if it zips up the front, has two pockets and a hood, it’s not professional looking. Switch to a cardigan, pashmina, or soft jacket.

White is almost always transparent. I personally think thin white cotton and twill and light-colored linen should not be worn to the office, but if you do, wear with skin-colored seamless undergarments. No lace, no bows, no stripes, and not even sheer (the better to see the cotton crotch and waistband, my dear). If it’s a dress, wear a slip, if in doubt, don’t wear it to work.

Cleavage isn’t appropriate, no matter the season. Somehow, those who understand office attire let everything literally hang out come summer. Low-cut tanks, deep Vs on wrap dresses, strapless tops under cardigans… and none of it is appropriate for the office. If you wouldn’t show your décolleté in December, you also shouldn’t in July.

Dress code still applies. If it’s business casual, that means nice pants and skirts with refined tops or a simple dress. It does not mean chino Bermudas, seersucker sundresses with flip flops, logoed tee shirts with capris, tropical printed maxis with beaded sandals, or super-short cotton skirts with ribbed tanks. This is your office, not a tiki bar. You can beat the heat without dressing for Margaritaville.

Dress for respect. Again, this is your place of work. This is how you pay your rent, buy groceries and gas, and where you should be striving to move up the corporate ladder. Dress the part, no matter how hot it is outside.

For some suggestions on appropriate office attire, please visit:

  • Dressing for Respect in the Office
  • What Not to Wear Your First Week of Work 
  • Ask Allie: Summer Office Attire with Sleeves
  • Ask Allie: Summer Office Attire
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  1. alice says

    July 31, 2012 at 1:51 am

    Thanks!

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  2. alice says

    July 31, 2012 at 1:51 am

    I work in the lab.  Technically open toed shoes are not allowed in labs but this has never been seriously enforced in any of the labs I’ve ever worked in (undergrad, grad, now postdoc).  

    Reply
  3. G. says

    July 27, 2012 at 1:26 am

    Thank you thank you thank you. I agree with basically all of these, and am often appalled at “experienced” professionals who don’t adhere to these rules.

    Reply
  4. Xhristinap says

    July 26, 2012 at 5:29 pm

    Yes!  The slip thing is huge!  I think we’ve gotten out of the habit of wearing one, but so many retailers are getting cheap on fabric.  I found this the case with even Stylemint.  You really have to be careful and test out everything in front of a window to make sure it’s not sheer (and if it is, make sure you wear a slip).

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  5. Xhristinap says

    July 26, 2012 at 5:23 pm

    I think the rule should be – no cleavage.   I have very little to begin with, so I guess that’s why it’s rarely an issue for me.  But never have I seen someone’s spaghetti or bra straps flash under a cardigan…unless they’re running really fast (in which case, they’re probably shouldn’t be wearing a dress to begin with).   If I have a business meeting, I dress more conservatively, but for a day spent in front of the computer, I see no issue with a dress and a cardi (even if it has spaghetti straps).

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  6. Cynthia Washburn says

    July 26, 2012 at 3:48 am

    As soon as I saw that article, I thought about you and Belle from Capitol Hill Style and could picture you both shaking your heads. 

    Obviously, nobody at Lucky has ever worked anywhere but at a fashion magazine if they think any of those clothes are “work appropriate”. 

    Reply
  7. Miss Matilda says

    July 25, 2012 at 4:36 pm

     I got married 10 years ago and people were in shock I found a dress with sleeves. It was unheard of. It was hot damn too. No poofy in sight.

    Reply
  8. Ana says

    July 25, 2012 at 4:34 pm

    I got married almost three years ago and I absolutely did not want a strapless dress.  I hate the way my arms and the fat around my shoulders looks in a strapless dress. I didn’t even know I had pudge there!  I found a gorgeous tank style dress and I loved it and so did my husband.  I love that no one can tell WHEN I got married, too!

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  9. April S. says

    July 25, 2012 at 4:30 pm

    I work in an academic science environment as well, and sandals are always a no-no – we have to wear long pants and closed-toe shoes at all times due to health/safety codes.  I’m curious – do you work in a lab environment, or are you in an office?  

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  10. Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

    July 25, 2012 at 4:21 pm

     Yep, I got married 8 years ago and it was either strapless, halter, or had a lace jacket over strapless.  Oooh Sonia, I bet your dress was gorgeous!

    Reply
  11. Sonia says

    July 25, 2012 at 4:20 pm

    I got married 10 years ago and strapless gowns were EVERYWHERE!  But, I was able to find a “spring” wedding dress that had was fitted, long and had two straps.  My husband couldn’t stop smiling when he saw it! 

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  12. Lexa Lemieux says

    July 25, 2012 at 4:08 pm

    I think some strapless wedding dresses are lovely; I really don’t want to offend anyone.  BUT, I do find the fact that it is the default 1. not right for most body shape and 2. repetitive as hell. 

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  13. anya says

    July 25, 2012 at 4:00 pm

    I bought a straples wedding dress and added straps manually. And then changed my mind and added a single halter strap. Still, very frustrating.

    Reply
  14. MissRae33813 says

    July 25, 2012 at 3:52 pm

    I totally appreciate your point of view but I do I think a cardigan can cover a lot of things and look appropriate. Look in the mirror and you will know. I am a lawyer in a government office and for office days ( as opposed to court), I routinely substitute a cardigan for a jacket over any number of tops. I have a million of them. Of course, I wear appropriate undergarments. Oh- And I do slip off my heels at my desk and go barefoot slipping them back on when needed. Saves the feet.

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  15. Miss Matilda says

    July 25, 2012 at 3:50 pm

    One more for the list.

    YOU MUST WEAR UNDERWEAR AND A BRA. MUST.

    I can’t believe it needs to be said but there is this one person I see…. 

    I disagree about the hoodie but I wear mine “fancy” so eh. As a general it probably isn’t a good idea if you are too causal otherwise.

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  16. Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

    July 25, 2012 at 3:39 pm

    It really depends. I wear some sandals like that to work, but others I have I feel are too casual. I have some leather flip flops, same style as rubber ones but with braided leather for the thong part and I wore them to work once and then felt they were too casual. However, I have flat leather sandals of the same brand and color that are a thong but with an ankle strap and they seem to be a bit more polished and work-appropriate.

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  17. alice says

    July 25, 2012 at 3:33 pm

    I was wondering if thong sandals or strappy flat sandals would be considered appropriate (not flip flops, something rather sturdier/dressier that does not make that awful sound when you walk).  I work in an academic science environment so the dress code is definitely nonexistent, but I am just curious!  Interestingly, while everyone is fairly dressed down (except me), sexy is something I NEVER see.  

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  18. Deanna says

    July 25, 2012 at 2:33 pm

    I Love this and couldn’t agree more. I work in management at a large manufacturing company and will split my day between my office, 72 degrees, and the production floor, 104 degrees. If I can make it through the summer sans miniskirts, shorts, and spaghetti straps anyone can.

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  19. kathy says

    July 25, 2012 at 2:28 pm

    Such a great comment! I got married 22 years ago and wore a long-sleeved dress (it was November) but you can’t even find a wedding dress right now with even spaghetti straps. WHO decided that the strapless dress was the ONLY way to go when getting married?!?

    Reply
  20. J Alba says

    July 25, 2012 at 2:27 pm

    Thanks for this post. I do appreciate them and find it extremely helpful for me when trying to decide what should and shouldn’t be in my office attire wardrobe.

    Reply
  21. Anamarierk says

    July 25, 2012 at 2:24 pm

    I’m an attorney in a law firm in Minneapolis , which has a very casual culture, dress code included.  My biggest pet peeves – being asked why I’m “so dressed up” on a daily basis – I have my own version of business casual; the flip flops on Fridays (and sometimes other days); and BARE FEET IN A LAW OFFICE most days of the week.  I’ve mentioned this to our HR/office manager (male) and he has asked people to stop, but figures there are more important issues.  Like keeping the refrigerator stocked with sodas and emptying the office dishwasher.  Seriously.

     

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  22. Lexa Lemieux says

    July 25, 2012 at 1:54 pm

    The tyranny of the strapless dress in general needs to end. How many people do they actually look good on and how many women have an appropriate bra that they aren’t always tugging at when wearing said dress?  VERY FEW.

    Reply
  23. Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

    July 25, 2012 at 1:39 pm

     AMEN!

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  24. Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

    July 25, 2012 at 1:39 pm

     Geez, no shoes? That’s just gross!

    Reply
  25. Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

    July 25, 2012 at 1:39 pm

     Unfortunately, Lucky is a magazine I adored a decade ago and now I find to be in the ranks of Glamour – pointless, bad advice, and just encouraging women to worry too much about things that aren’t very important.  Did an intern without any real office experience write that piece? With many of the garments they suggested, if my employee came to work in them I would possibly send them home or down the street to Gap or Ann Taylor for a new outfit!

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  26. kathy says

    July 25, 2012 at 1:38 pm

    This is so timely for me. I work in a tiny nonprofit, and our dress code is officially business casual, but some of the women I work with think it’s “whatever you would wear to the gym.” In the winter, I’d sometimes wear a nice pair of trouser jeans, a nice top, and a jacket, and a coworker of mine would always point out that I was wearing jeans. (We can wear jeans on Fridays, although I tend to dress them up too.)  Meanwhile, she’s in wrinkled, baggy khakisand an ill fitting top, and I just want to say, “Come stand next to me and tell me who looks better.” 

    I have been especially disgusted this summer with the dress of some of my coworkers. Flip flops are rampant here and it drives me nuts to hear “flip flip flip” when they walk by my office. Then they complain at lunch that no one respects them! Really? Why not, do you think? Perhaps if you weren’t wearing something out of Flashdance every day and showed up in something professional, people might be more likely to listen to you. 

    My job is a dead end job right now, but that doesn’t mean I’m going to just give up on my appearance. I take pride in the way I dress and regardless of what everyone else thinks is acceptable, I’ll keep dressing appropriately for an office environment.

    Thanks as always for such a great post!

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  27. Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

    July 25, 2012 at 1:36 pm

     LOL when I worked in IT, the dress code seemed to be tee shirts depicting comic book characters, hoodies, wrinkled too-short khakis, white socks and Adidas flops so I totally know what you’re saying! 🙂  Of course there are exceptions to the rule, but even when I worked with the coders, I still dressed in the way I felt was appropriate and respectful to the firm and clients and I think it helped me get to where I am now :).  And hear hear, keep it G-rated at the office!

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  28. Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

    July 25, 2012 at 11:13 am

    No apologies needed, I love discussion in the comments & liked reading your point of view. Thank you!

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  29. racheliacovou says

    July 25, 2012 at 10:36 am

    I agree with most of this, though I do think there can be some leeway depending on the time/place. 
    I work in a large, corporate environment, but like Xhristinap I may be happy to wear spaghetti straps in the office (though with a heavy duty strapless bra – I am a 32DD and well versed in supportive-but-not-showy undergarments!)  I wouldn’t, however, go to a client meeting wearing just a strappy dress.  I always keep a cardigan or blazer at my desk, just in case, and more often than not always have it on anyway (it does get very cold with the AC!) 
     
    Similarly, I am happy to go sans tights in the summer if I’m just having a day at my desk, but I always keep flesh coloured tights in case of an impromptu meeting.  I hate them, but I would never go to a client bare legged – maybe that’s just me, but I think it looks really unprofessional.  Recently some of my colleagues have started wearing leggings (actually banned on our dress code policy!) – AWFUL.  So revealing and inappropriate!

    I’m 26.  My usual summer wardrobe is narrow ankle length trousers, a sleeveless/short sleeved top (usually in a non-jersey fabric) that covers my cleavage, a cardigan/blazer for the chill of the
    AC, and heels.  I would always plan to wear a suit/very smart, conservative dress to see clients.

    Apologies for the long comment!

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  30. Anne Hill says

    July 25, 2012 at 8:27 am

     I think you have an amazing blog. :)I am actually in need for this  info. .. thanks a lot for the share..

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  31. A. says

    July 25, 2012 at 3:02 am

    oh. my. goodness. i work in a very casual workplace for half of my work week and i would never be caught dead in a miniskirt there, no matter how demure my top was. i work with one girl that regularly wears short shorts, belly-revealing tops, and strapless tops and dresses. she’s many years younger than i am and this is more of a summer job for her, as opposed to a career in my case, but i still think that she makes inappropriate work outfit decisions.

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  32. Guest says

    July 25, 2012 at 1:08 am

    This is fantastic!  I would add to this that no matter how hot it is, you should always wear the proper undergarments.  Unless you are a 12 year old, a supportive, well-concealed, bra is not an option, it’s mandatory.  And, while we’re at it, wear a slip (or half slip) with that thin fabric.  Call me old fashioned, but I don’t need to see everything as you walk down the hall.  Most offices are air conditioned, so there’s no reason to under-dress.

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  33. Lynne DeVenny says

    July 25, 2012 at 12:22 am

    Good stuff this. And no flip-flops. It’s hard to believe some peeps still have to be told this 🙁

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  34. crtfly says

    July 25, 2012 at 12:17 am

    I had another comment. My biggest pet peeve along these lines is the insistence of some employees on going barefoot in the office. It might feel really good on the tootsies on a super hot day, but it is a health and safety issue. Even at our casual offices, if someone from HR had seen these barefoot employees, they would have been written up. Yes, they had ‘shoes’  (flip flops0 with them, but they left them under their desks.

    If they had a foot injury while barefoot, I’m not sure that Workers’ Comp would completely cover them. They’re fortunate that they didn’t find out. The relevant supervisors had to get a bit rough with them to get them to wear shoes.

    Chris

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  35. crtfly says

    July 25, 2012 at 12:10 am

    Thank you Allie!

    I don’t care how young and how fantastic a body a woman has. If she wants to be considered as a possible future Director, VP, or even CEO, better to be dressed professionally. Sexy clothes might get her plenty of date requests but not likely that corner office.

    I have a friend who is a beautiful natural blonde. She looks like a princess out of a Scandinavian fairy tale. Especially when she was very young, she had a difficult time getting the male employees and bosses to take her seriously. She is brilliant, creative, and talented. Only wearing rather conservative suits every day gave her a fighting chance.

    Chirs

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  36. Cynthia Washburn says

    July 25, 2012 at 12:09 am

    And for heaven’s sake, don’t take advice from Lucky Magazine – which should be obvious from the headline, but I’m worried that there are girls out there who read this and decided that micro minis were okay to wear to work as long as they put on a more demure top. Just.no. 

    http://www.luckymag.com/blogs/luckyrightnow/2012/06/How-To-Wear-As-Little-As-Possible-To-Work-and-Still-Look-Professional#slide=1 

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  37. Trystan L. Bass says

    July 25, 2012 at 12:02 am

    Well, in Silicon Valley, the hoodie is considered everyday office wear year-round (see: Mark Zuckerberg ;-), & flip-flops are no big deal. That’s the dregs of hacker culture for you, & mostly on guys who have no sense of style anyway! But I do agree, summer is no excuse to show skin at work — keep it G-rated, please.

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  38. Sonia says

    July 24, 2012 at 11:24 pm

    High five to YOU, Allie!  Call me old-fashioned (okay, an old school old lady) but strapless dresses, flip flops, sheer blouses, super skin tight pants or jeans, that layered look with straps showing prominently beneath a stretched-out looking large top…UGH!   

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  39. SarahHulbertStyle says

    July 24, 2012 at 10:45 pm

    Amen, Allie! Amen! We need to show that that we are talented and capable women who use our brains and our talents (not our lady parts hangin’ outta our clothes) to climb the corporate ladder. I am busty, so the bra one is tough for me, but I go to great lengths to make sure that people are noticing my eyes, my smile, and my work ethic -not my inappropriate VPL. 

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  40. Asnixon says

    July 24, 2012 at 10:44 pm

    I should post this in our work bathroom. I can’t believe the girls with incredible educations and good jobs dress like tramps. Today I had turn my face to hide my expression at the short skirt, camisole type top and flat flip flops, on the same person…with a higher level position than me, and 15 years younger, maybe it’s an age thing

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  41. April S. says

    July 24, 2012 at 10:43 pm

    I agree with all the above.  Even in offices where the dress code is loose, I find that erring on the side of professional is the best way to go.  I always think of dressing for the job I want, not necessarily the job I have.  And even if you are not aiming for the corner office, it never hurts to project a professional appearance whatever your position.

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  42. Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

    July 24, 2012 at 10:42 pm

    The problem is that for every woman who wears a spaghetti strap garment properly, there are six who think a shelf bra of a tank is enough support for her C-cups, has inches of cleavage on display, has the cardigan constantly flying open to show not only the straps but her bra, or wears something more appropriate for an evening wedding under that J. Crew Jackie cardigan. There are always those who show there are exceptions to the rule, but those women are few and far between and rarely does one realize when she is the one who isn’t carrying it off.

    I have worked in industries as varied as construction, government, retail, publically-traded corporations and tiny nonprofits and I don’t think any of the things I listed are appropriate in any of those industries. Like you, I have seen women who can wear such items in a proper manner, but they are quite rare.

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  43. Debbie says

    July 24, 2012 at 10:22 pm

    I think it’s even harder in offices like mine where our dress code specifically says that flip flops are okay – the line is so fine to begin with that’s it’s really easy to cross it.

    The skirt-length rule (closer to your knees than your rear – I love it!), no cleavage and no visible bra straps should be no-brainers even in a casual-casual office like mine. But I see it every single day – and not just from the interns or young assistants.

    I hate to have to add that backless tops also should not be worn in the office. Even if you’re wearing a demi-cami to hide your bra straps.

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  44. Xhristinap says

    July 24, 2012 at 9:45 pm

    Oh, I don’t know.  These “rules” are a bit hars in some respects.  I guess it depends on your industry, but in my opinion, spaghetti straps with a cardigan and some nice accessories (to dress it up) can be office appropriate.

    I would add something about appropriate heels too.  I can’t believe the extreme heels people sometimes wear to the office – not hidden platforms….platforms bordering on stripper shoes…the kind they can’t even walk gracefully in.  Now there’s a true “don’t”.

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Night and day…

Met three dear friends for an early dinner that went on until after the sun set. Great food and conversation with some great women!

The dress is @adamlippes and I borrowed it from @renttherunway. The bag is @jcrew and a splurge but I regretted not buying it the last time they offered this bag and this color is SO me. I mean, look how great it is with these many years old suede heeled sandals? Meant to be!

This color combination makes me so happy, and this dress was comfy even after a decadent meal. We all deserve to experience comfort and joy with our wardrobes! 💛🩷

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If @thechicks are in town you can bet @debbiefaye78 and I will be there! So when we heard they were coming to @merriweatherpp we were so excited. And their concert did not disappoint. As always, a phenomenal show! If The Chicks come to your neck of the woods I highly recommend you go!

Okay I know you want to know about what we’re wearing! 

My sister’s caftan is from @anthropologie (bought this summer so maybe you can find on resale sites).

I’m wearing a @bananarepublic dress also from this summer with the @universalstandard denim chore jacket and a hat I got from a @madewell collab a year or so ago. I glammed it up with some gold chains and gold drop earrings, but kept it comfy for a night of standing and dancing with @birkenstock sandals.

This was my first big outing since my eye surgery, and with a pocketful of eye drops I felt good (and grateful we splurged for good seats!).

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If I close my eyes you can’t tell one is still bloodshot 😜

Still recovering from my eye surgery but feeling more myself. Getting dolled up helps me feel me. Bright colors and bold jewelry have been signature Alison since I was a kid! 

Sweater: @favorite.daughter 
Earrings: Amazon
Necklace: @_jennybird (old)
Ring: @realmfinejewelry 
Bra: @lovebravissimo 
Lipstick: @glossier 
Pins as “cufflinks”: vintage

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Happy gotcha day, Oscar! Four years ago he came into our life and we are so happy to have in our family!

Oscar was a rescue and came with some… quirks. Over the years we have come to understand him and he has come to trust us. He’s a diva, a snuggler, he could play catch for hours, and he’s my husband’s shadow. 

We’ve never had a small breed dog before and it’s a whole different experience. But we adore Oscar and couldn’t imagine our life without him! Thank you for coming into our life Oskie McGoskie! 🐾❤️

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I can see clearly now…

Actually I can’t, but things after my retina surgery are much improved! My next appointment is in a month and I’m cleared to get back into the world (with some restrictions to protect my eye).

With a sclera buckle, it changes your eye shape and now I am nearsighted again (I had lasik a few years ago). Once the eye is stabilized I can get glasses or contacts but until then I’m 20/20 in one eye and right now 20/60 in the other. But the eye is healing beautifully and I feel positive!

And I could see clearly enough to fall for this poppy-colored cotton jumpsuit from @pistoladenim. It comes in a few colors but this one is my favorite. I went with XL (im@a 14, sometimes 16) and likely could have sized down but I enjoy the relaxed fit and the drawstring waistband to create shape. And hello zipper closure making it super easy to get on and off!

My husband took this photo right after my eye appointment, I think it reflects my positive attitude and feeling of hope! 🧡

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I’ll be a bit quiet on here and other channels because I had eye (retinal) surgery this past weekend. I was having what I thought were ocular migraines but come to find out I was experiencing lattice degeneration, which is thinning/holes in the retina. I had surgery Saturday for my right eye and later on they’ll work on the left eye, which isn’t as bad and can be remedied by laser, in office.

I share not because I’m Mrs. Frizzle meets Iris Apfel as I recuperate at home, but because this whole thing has been a lesson on trusting my gut. And I want to remind you to do the same.

As we get older our bodies can feel like strangers. Things are constantly changing and it’s easy to just assume your annual physical will catch anything wrong. But if you slow down and listen to your body you’ll know when things are just a sign of aging and life and what seems unusual. That nagging issue may be something more serious.

And if you’re seeing flashing lights, floaters, spiderwebs or other odd eye things get checked out ASAP. It may be nothing but take it from me, it may actually be something. ❤️

Okay, going back to my big sunglasses caftan recuperation life!

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Ladies who lunch…

While in Savannah, I made sure to get lunch reservations for me and E at @theoldepinkhouse she loves the color pink, historic homes, and ghost stories so it was a perfect choice! 

Built in 1789 on Reynolds Square, there are stories of guests seeing ghosts, cutlery and wine bottles moving along with an elegant and truly delicious dining. 

While we didn’t see any apparitions, we did have a lovely lunch with impeccable service and after toured all floors of the home. I highly recommend a visit if you’re visiting Savannah!

My dress is from @cosstores (no longer available); hat is @furtalk and bag is @talbotsofficial (no longer available).

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Scenes from a week in Savannah… 

The three of us (and our dog Oscar!) had a warm and humid but wonderful time exploring Savannah, Georgia earlier this month. Our daughter visited this gorgeous city last summer with her @girlscouts troop but wanted to return to experience more. We let her choose our adventures and play your guide and it was awesome. We cannot wait to visit again, though next time it won’t be August 🥵

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Stripes are always right…

Y’all know I love stripes and when @universalstandard came out with their Breton-stripe dresses and tops I HAD to try them! As expected, the quality is stellar, the fit boosts my confidence, and I appreciate the range of colors (5 different stripes to choose from) and sizes (00-50). For reference, I’m wearing XS but preferred S for the top and I usually wear a 14 or XL in other brands.

The tote is @able and it’s a soft yet durable leather that just looks better with time. This color (cognac) is one that transitions nicely from summer to fall. 

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The family that wears @printfresh together stays together 🥰

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I’ve been raving about my Printfresh pajamas for years, my family also wanted to try them. Thank you Printfresh for gifting these for our annual three generation girls’ getaway to Rehoboth Beach, DE. We had a great time and being all matchy matchy in our pajamas was a fun addition! 🐅🍃🥰

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