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Night and day…

Met three dear friends for an early dinner that went on until after the sun set. Great food and conversation with some great women!

The dress is @adamlippes and I borrowed it from @renttherunway. The bag is @jcrew and a splurge but I regretted not buying it the last time they offered this bag and this color is SO me. I mean, look how great it is with these many years old suede heeled sandals? Meant to be!

This color combination makes me so happy, and this dress was comfy even after a decadent meal. We all deserve to experience comfort and joy with our wardrobes! 💛🩷

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If @thechicks are in town you can bet @debbiefaye78 and I will be there! So when we heard they were coming to @merriweatherpp we were so excited. And their concert did not disappoint. As always, a phenomenal show! If The Chicks come to your neck of the woods I highly recommend you go!

Okay I know you want to know about what we’re wearing! 

My sister’s caftan is from @anthropologie (bought this summer so maybe you can find on resale sites).

I’m wearing a @bananarepublic dress also from this summer with the @universalstandard denim chore jacket and a hat I got from a @madewell collab a year or so ago. I glammed it up with some gold chains and gold drop earrings, but kept it comfy for a night of standing and dancing with @birkenstock sandals.

This was my first big outing since my eye surgery, and with a pocketful of eye drops I felt good (and grateful we splurged for good seats!).

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- The Stunning Push-Up: targeted for the DD+ customer gives amazing lift and great shape under fitted knits.

- The Unbelievable Lift Scoop Balconette: sexy, supportive, and so lightweight!

- The Embraceable Wireless: I’ve recommended this wireless bra for large busts for years and was in need for a new one! 

- The Stunning Support Smooth Balconette: this is the perfect t-shirt bra for large busts with padded straps and disappears under knits

- The Stunning Starlet Multi-Way Strapless: recently improved for more support and more comfort, this wireless bra stays put and gives fab shape

I also picked up some of Soma’s iconic Vanishing Edge panties which keep you line-free. The whole Vanishing collection is genius. I loved being able to donate my gently used bras at my local Soma boutique to give to those in need. We all deserve a lift and Soma strives to achieve that. It’s why I’ve been a fan and customer for years and am honored to partner with them. Soma is the perfect fitting bra solution. Visit the link in my bio to shop and to find your local Soma boutique! #SomaPartner #SomaBraFit #SomaStartsWithMe
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If I close my eyes you can’t tell one is still bloodshot 😜

Still recovering from my eye surgery but feeling more myself. Getting dolled up helps me feel me. Bright colors and bold jewelry have been signature Alison since I was a kid! 

Sweater: @favorite.daughter 
Earrings: Amazon
Necklace: @_jennybird (old)
Ring: @realmfinejewelry 
Bra: @lovebravissimo 
Lipstick: @glossier 
Pins as “cufflinks”: vintage

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It was so funny and so quick I couldn’t not share! I bought this @hulkenbag a year ago and use it all the time. Carting shoot supplies, groceries, packing for road trips, and carting donations. This weekend @thenewdealcafe in @cityofgreenbelt hosted a community clothing swap so I made sure my family and I went through our summer wardrobes to gather that which we no longer needed or fit.

This wasn’t the first clothing swap and folks in town know my style (and my job) so there were some waiting for my arrival. Look how fast I cleared out this big bag! Speaking of the bag one other swap attendee said she got herself a Hulken after seeing mine in action!

It’s so great to know our old clothes are getting a good life and this bag makes carting them to the cafe so easy! I got my Hulken on Amazon, it comes in other colors and sizes too: https://amzn.to/48iTY4Y yep the bag is as great as all those ads you see on social media, I’m a big fan!
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Happy gotcha day, Oscar! Four years ago he came into our life and we are so happy to have in our family!

Oscar was a rescue and came with some… quirks. Over the years we have come to understand him and he has come to trust us. He’s a diva, a snuggler, he could play catch for hours, and he’s my husband’s shadow. 

We’ve never had a small breed dog before and it’s a whole different experience. But we adore Oscar and couldn’t imagine our life without him! Thank you for coming into our life Oskie McGoskie! 🐾❤️
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I can see clearly now…

Actually I can’t, but things after my retina surgery are much improved! My next appointment is in a month and I’m cleared to get back into the world (with some restrictions to protect my eye).

With a sclera buckle, it changes your eye shape and now I am nearsighted again (I had lasik a few years ago). Once the eye is stabilized I can get glasses or contacts but until then I’m 20/20 in one eye and right now 20/60 in the other. But the eye is healing beautifully and I feel positive!

And I could see clearly enough to fall for this poppy-colored cotton jumpsuit from @pistoladenim. It comes in a few colors but this one is my favorite. I went with XL (im@a 14, sometimes 16) and likely could have sized down but I enjoy the relaxed fit and the drawstring waistband to create shape. And hello zipper closure making it super easy to get on and off!

My husband took this photo right after my eye appointment, I think it reflects my positive attitude and feeling of hope! 🧡

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Lifestyle · June 3, 2023

Weekend Reads #249

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Weekend Reads #249 | Bona, Charlottesville”, Zanele Muholi, 2015
“Bona, Charlottesville”, Zanele Muholi, 2015 (link)

Weekend Reads #249

If you watched the TV show Lost, you may appreciate this article: Lost illusions: The untold story of the hit show’s poisonous culture. (Vanity Fair)

With plus-size pool parties, body acceptance, more people are showing skin this summer. (USA Today)

Artificial intelligence could lead to extinction, experts warn. (BBC)

Michelle Yeoh, Academy Award-winning actress and advocate offers the Harvard Class of 2023 advice from the multiverse. (Harvard Law Today)

When a building falls, who gets to be saved? (Men Yell At Me)

Why do animals keep evolving into crabs? (Scientific American)

Searching for Meg White. (Elle)

Should we know where our friends are at all times? (Vox)

Maryland students prank school by listing it on Zillow as ‘nice half-working jail'. (HuffPost)

“Quiet Luxury” and its racist implications. (Essence)

Inside the strange world of podcasts made by artificial intelligence, where even creators aren’t sure who wants to hear robot chit-chat. (Wired)

In middle age, they realized they were trans: ‘A lightbulb went off’. (Washington Post – gift article)

Hadestown is coming this week to the National Theatre in DC; use promo code SONGBIRD to save 20% on select seats on Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday performances.

Why so many events have ticket lotteries now. (Axios)

I saw a TikTok from Ladies of Madison Ave. and it was a tour of one of the woman's apartments. She was wearing the most glorious zip-front caftan and shared it was Natori. I too have a Natori zip-front caftan and it's great quality (washed multiple times), great fit, and pockets. Well, Natori is having a sale and many of their caftans are in it with several under $60!

College hoop stars are the real beauty influencers. (Boardroom)

Where did all the tween fashion go? (Teen Vogue)

Our model suggests that global deaths remain 5% above pre-covid forecasts. (The Economist)

Orca attacks may be fueled by revenge. (Newsweek)

To my last period. (Lucille Clifton via Poets.org)

See/Hear/Read

Mrs. Davis on Peacock

We finally finished Mrs. Davis. It started off great, in the middle it got a little long, but it ended strong. So strong, I am using a second Weekend Reads to review and recommend this limited series on Peacock. There are murmurs there will be a Season 2 but honestly, Season 1 wrapped up in a pretty bow and you can enjoy it solo.

Mrs. Davis Celeste and Simone
Celeste (played by Elizabeth Marvel) and Simone (played by Betty Gilpin). Don't you want to know more about Celeste's look? Because I sure do.

Mrs. Davis is about AI taking over the world, which feels very of-the-moment. Essentially, open source AI became so good it was a necessity for every human on the planet with internet access. Some saw it as freedom, others saw it as a prison. Simone, played by Betty Gilpin, believes the latter and is on a quest to end this AI, known in the U.S. as Mrs. Davis. Also quite timely is a part of the show where a whale takes vengeance on boats (see the article above).

cummerbund fashion | Weekend Reads #249
Is that a cummerbund she is wearing with her blazer and button-up shirt? Why yes it is.
Weekend Reads #249 Mrs. Davis
Same outfit, look at that smoky eye, that ring, those earrings that offer a delicate touch to a tough outfit.
Fashion in Mrs. Davis show
I was able to find this meme to show this look better, but it doesn't do it justice.

And Simone's mom Celeste is a style icon. She's not over the top, she's not taut and toned, she's not dripping in diamonds or the latest trends. She's a badass woman with a classic wardrobe that leans towards a life of adventure and travel, experience and education.

Celeste fashion in Mrs. Davis | Weekend Reads #249
Celeste is on a boat, so of course she wears a Breton, a peacoat, and wide leg sailor trousers but it doesn't feel costumey at all. And look at that jaunty pocket square!
Simone in Mrs. Davis
In the background, there is Celeste in her chic look. Seriously, this is how desperate I was to find photos of her fashion!

I think Celeste's style goes under the radar, one because her character is so intense and you focus on her face instead of her wardrobe. But I also think because Celeste, played by Elizabeth Marvel (Elizabeth Holmes' mom in The Dropout, President Elizabeth Keane on Homeland) looks like a 53-year-old woman. Her hair isn't thick and bouncy, her jawline isn't razor sharp, her body… I don't really know jack about her body because she wears clothes that make sense for her life and personality and that means nothing restrictive or exposing a lot of skin.

Celeste in Mrs. Davis show | Weekend Reads #249
Again, you can only see part of her outfit but notice the scarf and classic trench by her side.

I was Googling and there is little about Celeste's fashion. I did find this article that discusses Simone's habit, why it is blue and why it is a jumpsuit. (The Daily Beast) and plenty about the character Wiley's rust-colored jacket, but nothing about the character of Celeste. And even finding photos of her attire in the show proved difficult.

Celeste's look in the final episode
Celeste's look in the final episode; Banana Republic should hire her as their spokesmodel for their current iteration. She's Amelia Earhart meets Katharine Hepburn meets Indiana Jones meets Miranda Priestly.

Costume designer Susie Coulthard took inspiration from Katharine Hepburn, Tyler Durden, and much more for the Mrs. Davis costumes. I'd love to pick her brain about her inspiration for Celeste and where I could buy some of those looks for myself!

For Your Entertainment

Dua Lipa Barbie movie

Unless you're living under a rock or don't use the internet (which clearly you do if you're reading this), the Barbie movie is coming out this summer. Directed by Greta Gerwig and starring Margot Robbie as Barbie and Ryan Gosling as Ken, the more I see about this film the more I want to see it. But the rest of the cast, and what we know of the soundtrack so far, is awesome, including the different formats (including cassette tapes!). Lizzo, Charlie XCX, KAROL G… I could go on but Dua Lipa (who is also in the Barbie movie) released the first single from the movie soundtrack and it's a perfect choice for summer:


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Night and day…

Met three dear friends for an early dinner that went on until after the sun set. Great food and conversation with some great women!

The dress is @adamlippes and I borrowed it from @renttherunway. The bag is @jcrew and a splurge but I regretted not buying it the last time they offered this bag and this color is SO me. I mean, look how great it is with these many years old suede heeled sandals? Meant to be!

This color combination makes me so happy, and this dress was comfy even after a decadent meal. We all deserve to experience comfort and joy with our wardrobes! 💛🩷

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If @thechicks are in town you can bet @debbiefaye78 and I will be there! So when we heard they were coming to @merriweatherpp we were so excited. And their concert did not disappoint. As always, a phenomenal show! If The Chicks come to your neck of the woods I highly recommend you go!

Okay I know you want to know about what we’re wearing! 

My sister’s caftan is from @anthropologie (bought this summer so maybe you can find on resale sites).

I’m wearing a @bananarepublic dress also from this summer with the @universalstandard denim chore jacket and a hat I got from a @madewell collab a year or so ago. I glammed it up with some gold chains and gold drop earrings, but kept it comfy for a night of standing and dancing with @birkenstock sandals.

This was my first big outing since my eye surgery, and with a pocketful of eye drops I felt good (and grateful we splurged for good seats!).

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If I close my eyes you can’t tell one is still bloodshot 😜

Still recovering from my eye surgery but feeling more myself. Getting dolled up helps me feel me. Bright colors and bold jewelry have been signature Alison since I was a kid! 

Sweater: @favorite.daughter 
Earrings: Amazon
Necklace: @_jennybird (old)
Ring: @realmfinejewelry 
Bra: @lovebravissimo 
Lipstick: @glossier 
Pins as “cufflinks”: vintage

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Happy gotcha day, Oscar! Four years ago he came into our life and we are so happy to have in our family!

Oscar was a rescue and came with some… quirks. Over the years we have come to understand him and he has come to trust us. He’s a diva, a snuggler, he could play catch for hours, and he’s my husband’s shadow. 

We’ve never had a small breed dog before and it’s a whole different experience. But we adore Oscar and couldn’t imagine our life without him! Thank you for coming into our life Oskie McGoskie! 🐾❤️

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I can see clearly now…

Actually I can’t, but things after my retina surgery are much improved! My next appointment is in a month and I’m cleared to get back into the world (with some restrictions to protect my eye).

With a sclera buckle, it changes your eye shape and now I am nearsighted again (I had lasik a few years ago). Once the eye is stabilized I can get glasses or contacts but until then I’m 20/20 in one eye and right now 20/60 in the other. But the eye is healing beautifully and I feel positive!

And I could see clearly enough to fall for this poppy-colored cotton jumpsuit from @pistoladenim. It comes in a few colors but this one is my favorite. I went with XL (im@a 14, sometimes 16) and likely could have sized down but I enjoy the relaxed fit and the drawstring waistband to create shape. And hello zipper closure making it super easy to get on and off!

My husband took this photo right after my eye appointment, I think it reflects my positive attitude and feeling of hope! 🧡

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I’ll be a bit quiet on here and other channels because I had eye (retinal) surgery this past weekend. I was having what I thought were ocular migraines but come to find out I was experiencing lattice degeneration, which is thinning/holes in the retina. I had surgery Saturday for my right eye and later on they’ll work on the left eye, which isn’t as bad and can be remedied by laser, in office.

I share not because I’m Mrs. Frizzle meets Iris Apfel as I recuperate at home, but because this whole thing has been a lesson on trusting my gut. And I want to remind you to do the same.

As we get older our bodies can feel like strangers. Things are constantly changing and it’s easy to just assume your annual physical will catch anything wrong. But if you slow down and listen to your body you’ll know when things are just a sign of aging and life and what seems unusual. That nagging issue may be something more serious.

And if you’re seeing flashing lights, floaters, spiderwebs or other odd eye things get checked out ASAP. It may be nothing but take it from me, it may actually be something. ❤️

Okay, going back to my big sunglasses caftan recuperation life!

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Ladies who lunch…

While in Savannah, I made sure to get lunch reservations for me and E at @theoldepinkhouse she loves the color pink, historic homes, and ghost stories so it was a perfect choice! 

Built in 1789 on Reynolds Square, there are stories of guests seeing ghosts, cutlery and wine bottles moving along with an elegant and truly delicious dining. 

While we didn’t see any apparitions, we did have a lovely lunch with impeccable service and after toured all floors of the home. I highly recommend a visit if you’re visiting Savannah!

My dress is from @cosstores (no longer available); hat is @furtalk and bag is @talbotsofficial (no longer available).

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Scenes from a week in Savannah… 

The three of us (and our dog Oscar!) had a warm and humid but wonderful time exploring Savannah, Georgia earlier this month. Our daughter visited this gorgeous city last summer with her @girlscouts troop but wanted to return to experience more. We let her choose our adventures and play your guide and it was awesome. We cannot wait to visit again, though next time it won’t be August 🥵

For more of our trip check the “Savannah” highlight on my profile page!

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Stripes are always right…

Y’all know I love stripes and when @universalstandard came out with their Breton-stripe dresses and tops I HAD to try them! As expected, the quality is stellar, the fit boosts my confidence, and I appreciate the range of colors (5 different stripes to choose from) and sizes (00-50). For reference, I’m wearing XS but preferred S for the top and I usually wear a 14 or XL in other brands.

The tote is @able and it’s a soft yet durable leather that just looks better with time. This color (cognac) is one that transitions nicely from summer to fall. 

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The family that wears @printfresh together stays together 🥰

Use code wardrobe_oxygen for 15% off your order of size-inclusive organic cotton sleepwear, dresses, bags & more https://glnk.io/qk04/wardrobe-oxygen

I’ve been raving about my Printfresh pajamas for years, my family also wanted to try them. Thank you Printfresh for gifting these for our annual three generation girls’ getaway to Rehoboth Beach, DE. We had a great time and being all matchy matchy in our pajamas was a fun addition! 🐅🍃🥰

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