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Night and day…

Met three dear friends for an early dinner that went on until after the sun set. Great food and conversation with some great women!

The dress is @adamlippes and I borrowed it from @renttherunway. The bag is @jcrew and a splurge but I regretted not buying it the last time they offered this bag and this color is SO me. I mean, look how great it is with these many years old suede heeled sandals? Meant to be!

This color combination makes me so happy, and this dress was comfy even after a decadent meal. We all deserve to experience comfort and joy with our wardrobes! 💛🩷

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If @thechicks are in town you can bet @debbiefaye78 and I will be there! So when we heard they were coming to @merriweatherpp we were so excited. And their concert did not disappoint. As always, a phenomenal show! If The Chicks come to your neck of the woods I highly recommend you go!

Okay I know you want to know about what we’re wearing! 

My sister’s caftan is from @anthropologie (bought this summer so maybe you can find on resale sites).

I’m wearing a @bananarepublic dress also from this summer with the @universalstandard denim chore jacket and a hat I got from a @madewell collab a year or so ago. I glammed it up with some gold chains and gold drop earrings, but kept it comfy for a night of standing and dancing with @birkenstock sandals.

This was my first big outing since my eye surgery, and with a pocketful of eye drops I felt good (and grateful we splurged for good seats!).

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- The Stunning Push-Up: targeted for the DD+ customer gives amazing lift and great shape under fitted knits.

- The Unbelievable Lift Scoop Balconette: sexy, supportive, and so lightweight!

- The Embraceable Wireless: I’ve recommended this wireless bra for large busts for years and was in need for a new one! 

- The Stunning Support Smooth Balconette: this is the perfect t-shirt bra for large busts with padded straps and disappears under knits

- The Stunning Starlet Multi-Way Strapless: recently improved for more support and more comfort, this wireless bra stays put and gives fab shape

I also picked up some of Soma’s iconic Vanishing Edge panties which keep you line-free. The whole Vanishing collection is genius. I loved being able to donate my gently used bras at my local Soma boutique to give to those in need. We all deserve a lift and Soma strives to achieve that. It’s why I’ve been a fan and customer for years and am honored to partner with them. Soma is the perfect fitting bra solution. Visit the link in my bio to shop and to find your local Soma boutique! #SomaPartner #SomaBraFit #SomaStartsWithMe
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If I close my eyes you can’t tell one is still bloodshot 😜

Still recovering from my eye surgery but feeling more myself. Getting dolled up helps me feel me. Bright colors and bold jewelry have been signature Alison since I was a kid! 

Sweater: @favorite.daughter 
Earrings: Amazon
Necklace: @_jennybird (old)
Ring: @realmfinejewelry 
Bra: @lovebravissimo 
Lipstick: @glossier 
Pins as “cufflinks”: vintage

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It was so funny and so quick I couldn’t not share! I bought this @hulkenbag a year ago and use it all the time. Carting shoot supplies, groceries, packing for road trips, and carting donations. This weekend @thenewdealcafe in @cityofgreenbelt hosted a community clothing swap so I made sure my family and I went through our summer wardrobes to gather that which we no longer needed or fit.

This wasn’t the first clothing swap and folks in town know my style (and my job) so there were some waiting for my arrival. Look how fast I cleared out this big bag! Speaking of the bag one other swap attendee said she got herself a Hulken after seeing mine in action!

It’s so great to know our old clothes are getting a good life and this bag makes carting them to the cafe so easy! I got my Hulken on Amazon, it comes in other colors and sizes too: https://amzn.to/48iTY4Y yep the bag is as great as all those ads you see on social media, I’m a big fan!
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We’ve never had a small breed dog before and it’s a whole different experience. But we adore Oscar and couldn’t imagine our life without him! Thank you for coming into our life Oskie McGoskie! 🐾❤️
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Actually I can’t, but things after my retina surgery are much improved! My next appointment is in a month and I’m cleared to get back into the world (with some restrictions to protect my eye).

With a sclera buckle, it changes your eye shape and now I am nearsighted again (I had lasik a few years ago). Once the eye is stabilized I can get glasses or contacts but until then I’m 20/20 in one eye and right now 20/60 in the other. But the eye is healing beautifully and I feel positive!

And I could see clearly enough to fall for this poppy-colored cotton jumpsuit from @pistoladenim. It comes in a few colors but this one is my favorite. I went with XL (im@a 14, sometimes 16) and likely could have sized down but I enjoy the relaxed fit and the drawstring waistband to create shape. And hello zipper closure making it super easy to get on and off!

My husband took this photo right after my eye appointment, I think it reflects my positive attitude and feeling of hope! 🧡

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Outfit Posts, Spring, The Business of Blogging · April 27, 2017

What I Wore: Day Two of the rewardStyle Conference

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pink pantsuit banana republicjacket | pants | shell | shoes | bag | sunglasses


banana republic pink wool pantsuitJacket: Banana Republic (16) | Pants: Banana Republic (14 petite) | Shell: LOFT (XL) | Shoes: ASOS (similar) | Bag: ALLSAINTS | Sunglasses: Ray-Ban

Though I call this Day Two, it's really the first actual day of the conference. Breakfast started at 8, and my schedule was packed until the evening. I knew this Banana Republic pantsuit would do me well. I originally planned on wearing it with my grey Bombelle tee but when I put it on that morning, there was a stain on the front I somehow missed when laundering it. Glad I brought backup clothing! I recently bought this cami from LOFT and I adore it. The XL is big, but I liked it too much to return it (I ended up going back and buying it in a couple other colors and prints, this time in L). With it, some strappy wide width heels from ASOS that are surprisingly comfortable and my ALLSAINTS tote which was big enough to carry everything I needed for seminars and classroom sessions.

acai bowl at rsthecon 2017Breakfast was acai bowls and coffee. So trendy, so fashun. Glad I packed a few KIND bars in my luggage. From 9-12 we sat in a ballroom and listened to various panelists. It was entertaining, but not really informative. A few from rewardStyle, a few from the dating app Bumble, and Baxter Box, Co-founder and CEO of rewardStyle. The stage was cool – three giant LED screens that changed with the presentations and chic white leather furniture for the panels.  There was no aisle from the side door to the room and we of course sat in the row in front of the door so it got awkward at breaks.  I left my laptop in my room and took notes with my orange journal; I find I retain more when writing instead of typing and am more likely to look back at it than notes in Microsoft Word.  I was glad to have my room right upstairs when I saw the bathroom line at the breaks.

Notes from the Morning Session:

  • There are over 12,000 influencers and 4,000 brands part of rewardStyle.  Over 100,000 have applied to be part of rS.  For those who think this company is fading away you're dead wrong.
  • There were over 10 nationalities at the conference.  There were a lot of Asian bloggers there and it was so fun to meet them and get to know their blogging community!
  • The new LikeToKnow.it app (available for Apple and Android) is pretty badass. Do you ever screenshot something you see on Facebook, Instagram, or websites? Screenshotting is hot, even in the latest iOS for Apple there's a screenshot folder on your phone.  Now with the LikeToKnow.it app, if the photo was loaded into LikeToKnow.it by me or another rS influencer, if you have the app and take a screenshot you'll be able to instantly find out details of the photo.  Also from the blogger standpoint it's awesome because even if someone steals your photo or a brand regrams your photo, if someone uses this app, they'll get the details straight from you and you'll still be the one to get commission if someone buys from the photo.  I'll delve more into this in a future post.
  • The blog is NOT dead.  They bring in the most traffic, the most revenue, the most conversions.  We don't own our Instagram, Facebook, or Snapchat content.  If they go the way of MySpace, we have no control.  Our blog is our home base, the one thing we do own.  I loved hearing this; while social is fun, my favorite place to be is right here at the blog.  It's the best interaction and where I feel I can be the most myself.
  • Good advice for any entrepreneur – don't do it unless it adds users, adds value, and adds revenue.  No need to jump on every bandwagon if it doesn't provide these three for your business!

After the panels, we all tromped out of the hotel and across the street to Shake Shack. Shake Shack is right next to a green with picnic tables, bocce ball, and trees. We lined up for a free buffet of sandwiches, fries, iced tea, Arnold Palmers, and bottles of water. While at our seats, Shake Shack staff came around and offered us cups of frozen custard.  A lot of people were psyched, they never had Shake Shack before.  This chain is in DC, I've had it before, but I must say I was impressed they shut down the place at lunchtime for this event.

animated 0421201711180047Banana Republic hosted the event; there was a selfie wall with a photo booth that took Boomerang GIFs and a display of flowers in buckets with the occasional bucket filled with Banana Republic scarves. Me, Susan, Jennifer, and Cathy… we couldn't resist! We got in line and had the photo above taken at the station; you can see the three of them wearing their Banana Republic scarves!  And those who follow me on Instagram, next week I plan to have a giveaway on there and one of the many things in the prize is the scarf I got at the event!

pink pantsuit banana republicThe whole place was set up for photo ops; blankets and pillows on the ground, Adirondack chairs, buckets of flowers, cute bikes. I gotta say, it was really entertaining to watch bloggers set up their photos, especially those who took advantage of the blankets and pillows on the ground!  Cathy and Susan both captured some photos of my outfit. The pictures make it look so grand, but really it was hot and muggy out and that doesn't mix well with burgers and fries. Cathy and I thought we saved a table for all of our friends but a group of Asian bloggers took it (miscommunication, they weren't trying to be jerks). Also I must say this is the first time when I noticed my size in comparison to the other bloggers.  As you might have guessed, most of the audience was slim  I was one of a handful of women there over a size 12, and I was feeling hot and sticky in my blazer but the last thing I wanted the way I was feeling was to take it off and be in a slightly-too large spaghetti strap cami with my over-40 arms eating fast food in the background of their photos.

I'm so grateful to my blogging buddies who kept this conference fun – Susan was so funny screaming, “You're mahvelous, dahling, work it!” while I was getting my photos; Cathy was my buddy the whole time, and after eating she and I caught up with some of the other over-40 bloggers in a shaded corner of the outdoor area where we all laughed and relaxed.  I know a lot had to do with being hot and tired (I only got 4 hours of fitful sleep the night prior), but I was glad when the lunch was over.

After lunch, we headed back to the hotel where we all had different schedules. Classroom sessions, brand meetings, and breaks where we could go to the networking hall and meet with the brands sponsoring the conference. rewardStyle set each of us up with three brands and we had ten minutes of one-on-one time with them; we didn't get to choose the brands. We were told to come prepared with media kits and conversion rates. I was dreading these, I despise pitching myself and hate talking numbers and I didn't fully get why I was paired with all three of the brands I got.

Colleen Rothschild at the rewardStyle Conference 2017 with Wardrobe OxygenMy first session was with Colleen Rothschild, a skincare brand I use and love and have a bit of a relationship with already. I came back to the same ballroom we were in that morning, though now it was set up with little high-top round tables with bar-height chairs.  You came to the door, told an rS employee who you had a meeting with, and they'd escort you to the table where one or more brand reps and an rS rep were sitting.  My one-on-one was not with a rep from the company but Colleen herself and her husband! This was so cool to me; I'm a fan of the beauty line, I use the Cleansing Balm every night, I follow Colleen on social media, and now I was meeting her in person. Yes, she really is that gorgeous in real life with that beautiful of skin and she's so nice and engaging. Her husband was great, and it was fun chatting with them and getting to know more about upcoming products and them getting to know more about all of you.

I then had a classroom session; it was about marketing yourself and was led by Alex Williamson of Bumble and blogger Courtney Kerr of Kerrently. Fun fact: Alex is the daughter of Cathy, the woman behind the blog The Middle Page! Again, I found this classroom session to be entertaining and inspiring but not really informative. But inspiration can go a long way. It was great to listen to two successful women talk about how kindness and paying it forward and recognizing your audience is a key to success. There's a lot of inflated egos in the blogosphere; it was refreshing to be told that nice girls finish first. If you followed my InstaStories from the event you know I got a bit emotional after it. I've been off my game, feeling stressed and low. The session reminded me of how blessed I am to have all of you here in this community, and so many of you who I have gotten to know and consider friends. How Wardrobe Oxygen has made my life richer, happier, more colorful because of the people I've connected with through it. So while I hardly wrote a single thing down in this session, I'm glad I attended.

Next was my second brand meeting, this time with L'Occitane. I've been a fan of the brand for many years, and almost worked for the company in 2004 when I left The Body Shop (I declined their offer and got a 9-5 job). I met with Christine from the company, who was so full of energy and enthusiasm. Like Colleen Rothschild, I didn't need my conversion rates or media kit, Christine already knew about me and the blog. We chatted about product, about the Wardrobe Oxygen audience, and it was a fun meeting. In fact, we even hugged at the end of the session!

rebecca minkoff leo tie dyeI was finished for the day and was feeling pretty pooped. I went up to my room to get ready for the evening affair. Sigh. I spent the day in heels and a strapless bra and all I felt like wearing was the hotel-issued terry bathrobe. However a shower revived me. It wasn't enough to get me to put back on a strapless bra (I was planning on wearing this City Chic high-low hem dress) but I did put back on the heels with my Myne LA ‘Heidi' dress. I bought this dress a few years ago and it has served me well.  I styled it with these amazing silver earrings from ASOS I bought a couple months ago, a silver metal belt also from ASOS I already owned, and my Rebecca Minkoff Leo clutch. Again, it paid to have backup clothing!

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Dress: MYNE (10) | Belt: ASOS (M/L) | Earrings: ASOS | Bag: Rebecca Minkoff | Shoes: ASOS (similar)

That night was a cocktail party in an open-air courtyard of sorts at The Crescent, hosted by Bumble. There was a yellow carpet that led us to the party, leather couches and chairs set up for lounge areas, a giant Lite Brite to play with, a fortune teller, passed hors d'ourves and champagne, and an open bar. The fashion was fascinating – there was everything from denim shorts to ball gowns. It's clear the rules for cocktail party attire have been relaxed, at least for this event.

over 40 bloggers at rewardstyle conference 2017 rstheconI hung out with fellow over-40 bloggers Deborah, Maria, Jennifer, Susan, Cathy, and Beth and while we had fun, after an hour we were over it and desiring more food than chicken on skewers and mini cheeseburgers. The Capital Grille had one of its doors right in the courtyard where the party was held, so we headed over there for dinner. We could have talked all night, but we left around 10:30 so we could rest up for Day Three.

What I Learned at Day Two of the RewardStyle Conference:

  • LikeToKnow.it isn't the devil. I've shied from using this tool but I learned how it has changed, improved, and is actually quite cool. Stay tuned, I'll be sharing more about it.
  • Nothing beats a handwritten thank you note. I'm going to be ordering postcards with my branding on them to send to brands, to readers, to PR people. They're so nice to work with me or chat with me, I want them to know I appreciate them.
  • Leave the laptop in your hotel room. Unless that's how you think and process, it's not worth lugging around the weight all day.  They did have a lab where techs would install rewardStyle widgets on your site; I didn't choose to do that but if I did I would have likely raced up to my room to drop the laptop off for the rest of the day.
  • Anything goes with fashion. During the day, I saw women in jeans and tank tops, and women in bodycon dresses and skyhigh heels. I felt good in my suit and got a lot of compliments, but it's totally okay to go to this conference in a sundress and sandals or your favorite denim.  Same with the cocktail party – a real variety of fashion and I felt perfectly lovely in my years-old dress.  What stood out in a sea was those who marched to the beat of their own drum – maybe you're a tomboy, or you rock vintage… don't stop your style for this conference.
  • Bring backup clothes. They may get dirty, you may change your mind, you may be sick and tired of strapless bras. Whatever it is, don't be afraid to overpack. It IS a fashion event after all!
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Comments

  1. Little Red says

    April 29, 2017 at 7:52 pm

    Love that suit! It’s right up my alley both shape wise and color wise.

    Reply
  2. Hanna says

    April 28, 2017 at 7:10 am

    Hi Allison,
    I usually do not comment on your blog, but have been following for a number of years.
    And I just wanted to confirm, that at least for me as a reader, it is not about being thin/young/overly pretty.
    It is not even about covering a special bodytype/style…it is more about having an authentic and relatable voice and an enjoyable writing style.
    While your fashion/style advice do not work for me in any way (first of all I have a totally different body type, I do not live in the US, am a little younger, and my work environment requires doctors to wear scrubs, so no work wear posts apply, and I have three (+ one on the way) small kids, that call for more sporty outfits off work), I like your voice, I love, that you are a blogger with a “real job” (don´t know one single blog, that didn´t lose its appeal after the blogger became a full time blogger), that you are honest about your struggles with blogging and life, you are witty and funny, and you almost always seem to be very open and honest about your sponsored content, and choose sponsors, that seem to fit your blog well mostly. And you balance a full time job, a young daughter, and a successful blog, and I totally admire that!
    So thanks for providing content worthwhile reading, and don´t let pretty/thin/tall/etc disencourage you ever 🙂
    All the best,
    Hanna
    PS: less posts, but your own are always a better option in my book – I missed the announcement about your assistant, and it took me a while, to figure out, that no, you did not start to talk about yourself in third person, but someone else was writing those (to me personally totally empty) posts. I was quite happy, when the guest posts ended….but that is a personal opinion, that others might disagree on.

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  3. Leah says

    April 27, 2017 at 11:41 pm

    I love that you guys ended up at Capital Grille (one of my favorite restaurants)! That’s one thing that’s nice about getting older – appreciating spending time with a small group in a sophisticated setting. It’s been a long time since I’ve seen Susan but she is fun and lovely and has so many things to talk about. Glad you had a great time!

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  4. crtfly says

    April 27, 2017 at 4:25 pm

    Allie,

    I attended a conference this month in Texas also, Austin. Fortunately it was all inside a beautiful air conditioned conference center. After the classes for the day were over, I went outside. There were not enough rooms at the conference rate in the conference hotel for all attendees, so I had to get a room elsewhere. I walked back to where I was staying, Fortunately, I could take my time and I was dressed for comfort.

    I live in a cool, foggy, coastal climate so I don’t do well in the heat and humidity of Texas. I am somewhat surprised it is that hot in April.

    Chris

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  5. crtfly says

    April 27, 2017 at 3:55 pm

    Allie,

    Even among a group of very stylish women, you shine out. I feel bad that you put so much pressure on yourself to be perfect. But you did achieve it. You are sooooo amazing!

    One thing that my Sweetie and I agree on when it comes to dressing: People look the most attractive when they discover and wear their own best look. You have honed that concept to a fine art.

    Chris

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    • Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

      April 27, 2017 at 3:55 pm

      I didn’t put much pressure on me, just stress that I didn’t have time. It was all perfect!

      Reply
  6. GlamorousandGeeky says

    April 27, 2017 at 3:46 pm

    love your style!! looks like you had so much fun!!

    Reply
    • Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

      April 27, 2017 at 3:56 pm

      I did!

      Reply
  7. Lee4 says

    April 27, 2017 at 3:44 pm

    Looking great in that pantsuit & dress! I’ve been looking forward to reading this all day. Behind-the-scenes write ups are always interesting. Thanks for sharing with us.

    Reply
    • Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

      April 27, 2017 at 3:56 pm

      My pleasure!

      Reply
  8. crtfly says

    April 27, 2017 at 3:40 pm

    I am curious and interested in the business aspects, not for the fashion aspect but business in general. Did you eventually figure out why they paired you with the brands they did? How do they decide?

    Chris

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    • Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

      April 27, 2017 at 3:56 pm

      Even brands didn’t understand the pairings!

      Reply
  9. Lindsay says

    April 27, 2017 at 2:40 pm

    The City Chic dress that you originally planned to wear is very pretty but I personally LOVE the way you styled the Myne dress even more. The earrings, clutch, and belt are perfection! And I bet the silk was so comfy after a long day.

    Reply
    • Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

      April 27, 2017 at 3:56 pm

      Thank you and I agree, I felt great in it!

      Reply
  10. giocurl says

    April 27, 2017 at 1:58 pm

    I just started viewing your site and have to say I am a fan. I appreciate your honesty on how you were feeling at the event and your interpretation of it all and the fact you pushed yourself past your comfort zone. You took what you needed and left the rest, appreciating the experience of it all and what more could you ask for?? I can only imagine how uncomfortable I would feel in a sea of 20 something fashion bloggers. I love the black dress you chose to wear over the “planned” dress. You look fabulous!! Looking forwarding to following you and would love to see some more links to your style in missy sizes.

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    • Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

      April 27, 2017 at 2:18 pm

      Thank you so much!

      Reply
  11. LoriM says

    April 27, 2017 at 1:22 pm

    I’m really enjoying your report on this conference, partly for your skeptical tone – ha! It’s been so fun to see you with the other over-40 bloggers I follow (Jennifer and UneFemme).

    I can’t imagine the pressure to look perfect, though. I mean of course that’s (all of) your THING, but it sounds like hell to me. I’m so glad you found some friends there (do I sound like a Mom?).

    I’ve had better luck with Like to Know it recently, but I’m still not sure I get the screen shot thing. That means a screen shot of a pic ON INSTAGRAM, posted BY someone who’s registered with LTKI – right? Not just ANY screen shot. I’ll keep experimenting. Since I sit at a desk all day I mostly check Instagram via the web, and I don’t think the screen shots will work that way. The “likes” do, though – very slick.

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    • Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

      April 27, 2017 at 1:41 pm

      The photo needs to be uploaded to LTK by the owner for the screenshot to work. But you can do a screenshot on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, even a website but it has to be the one originally stored in LTK for the app to capture the info. For example, the photo above of me in my sunglasses smiling and looking to the side – I posted that on Instagram and LTK. However, this version was being wonky so I had to edit it a bit – rotate, crop, that sort of thing and likely it won’t then capture in the LTK app.

      I put the perfection pressure on myself, no one else was doing it. By the end of the second day my hair was a mess and I didn’t care, and to get ready I just added more makeup to my face rather than washing and starting fresh. It’s all self-imposed pressure unless you’re representing a brand. Granted we make our living by our appearance, but we control our audience’s expectations.

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    • crtfly says

      April 27, 2017 at 3:44 pm

      Me too Lori! Sounds like hell to me, heat and all. I’d feel more comfortable speaking before a scientific society or Congress and I am an introvert!

      Chris

      Reply
  12. Kate K says

    April 27, 2017 at 1:11 pm

    I have just loved what you wore to this conference. That pink suit! You looked amazing.

    On a random note: I’m standing up in a wedding in October and I have to wear a black dress (with no other direction or requirements which is a blessing and a curse.) And seriously, all I want to wear is that Myne dress… and it’s nowhere to be found! Any chance you’d be interested in doing a round up of similar dresses (or just letting me borrow it or buy it from you? ;))

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    • Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

      April 27, 2017 at 1:52 pm

      This dress is very lightweight; if I was wearing indoors in the evening I would wear a slip. I even brought a slip to wear to this event but I was too hot and tired to care and add layers. When i was in a wedding that time of year I got a wrap maxi dress and it was AWESOME because it didn’t show sweat, didn’t wrinkle, wasn’t transparent, stretched, and it flattered me. This dress is kinda hard when it comes to shoes because of the harem pant style. Something like this sleeveless wrap maxi from Boden: http://bit.ly/2qk0DpH or for silk, this super simple but flattering one from Eileen Fisher on sale: http://bit.ly/2qjHVyA or this longer one from Natalie Deayala: http://bit.ly/2qjCKhS or this also Natalie Deayala one with the tie neck: http://bit.ly/2qk1PJH could all be personalized with a belt, with earrings, etc. and wear again. That EF one is really calling to me in a color just to have for life!

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      • Kate K says

        April 27, 2017 at 2:01 pm

        Oh my gosh. You’re amazing! This is so above and beyond. I do think a wrap maxi dress might be the best option (and I always love the way Boden structures their dresses) but yes, that EF is beautiful and so versatile! You really are the best, Allie. Thank you for your generosity and your spot on style.

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        • Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

          April 27, 2017 at 2:19 pm

          My pleasure!

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  13. Claire says

    April 27, 2017 at 11:16 am

    Thank you for sharing your experience at the RewardStyle conference and for your lovely photos. You look wonderfully chic and confident.

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    • Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

      April 27, 2017 at 1:52 pm

      Thanks Claire!

      Reply
  14. Patricia says

    April 27, 2017 at 8:35 am

    Your hot pink pant suit really sung out! Thank goodness for back up clothes but no way I’d spend all day in a strapless bra AND heels. I get it that this is a style conference and you really had to step up … but next time do it in a regular bra and comfy shoes. Okay, this is just me talking but I’d be grouchy all day long! Kudos to you for doing it with a smile.

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    • Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

      April 27, 2017 at 9:57 am

      Both weren’t that bad… but it had been 10 hours in the heat in them and I was dunzo!

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  15. Jodie Filogomo says

    April 27, 2017 at 8:25 am

    I have read quite a bit of research that your brain processes better when you write things down instead of typing them!! So you’re right on track with that!!
    I love the idea of bringing back up clothes, of course, I’m not a light packer to start with….LOL
    Jodie
    http://www.jtouchofstyle.com

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    • Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

      April 27, 2017 at 9:56 am

      I didn’t make any attempt to pack light for this trip!

      Reply
  16. Melissa DeBock says

    April 27, 2017 at 8:12 am

    I adore your style and you are always one of two blogs I look to first. Continue doing what you are doing! You are great!!!

    Reply
    • Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

      April 27, 2017 at 9:56 am

      Thanks Melissa!

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Since 2005, Wardrobe Oxygen has offered real-life style advice for grown-ass women. With years of experience as an apparel visual merchandiser and personal shopper, Alison Gary provides advice on how to achieve personal style no matter your age, size, or budget.

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Night and day…

Met three dear friends for an early dinner that went on until after the sun set. Great food and conversation with some great women!

The dress is @adamlippes and I borrowed it from @renttherunway. The bag is @jcrew and a splurge but I regretted not buying it the last time they offered this bag and this color is SO me. I mean, look how great it is with these many years old suede heeled sandals? Meant to be!

This color combination makes me so happy, and this dress was comfy even after a decadent meal. We all deserve to experience comfort and joy with our wardrobes! 💛🩷

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If @thechicks are in town you can bet @debbiefaye78 and I will be there! So when we heard they were coming to @merriweatherpp we were so excited. And their concert did not disappoint. As always, a phenomenal show! If The Chicks come to your neck of the woods I highly recommend you go!

Okay I know you want to know about what we’re wearing! 

My sister’s caftan is from @anthropologie (bought this summer so maybe you can find on resale sites).

I’m wearing a @bananarepublic dress also from this summer with the @universalstandard denim chore jacket and a hat I got from a @madewell collab a year or so ago. I glammed it up with some gold chains and gold drop earrings, but kept it comfy for a night of standing and dancing with @birkenstock sandals.

This was my first big outing since my eye surgery, and with a pocketful of eye drops I felt good (and grateful we splurged for good seats!).

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If I close my eyes you can’t tell one is still bloodshot 😜

Still recovering from my eye surgery but feeling more myself. Getting dolled up helps me feel me. Bright colors and bold jewelry have been signature Alison since I was a kid! 

Sweater: @favorite.daughter 
Earrings: Amazon
Necklace: @_jennybird (old)
Ring: @realmfinejewelry 
Bra: @lovebravissimo 
Lipstick: @glossier 
Pins as “cufflinks”: vintage

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Happy gotcha day, Oscar! Four years ago he came into our life and we are so happy to have in our family!

Oscar was a rescue and came with some… quirks. Over the years we have come to understand him and he has come to trust us. He’s a diva, a snuggler, he could play catch for hours, and he’s my husband’s shadow. 

We’ve never had a small breed dog before and it’s a whole different experience. But we adore Oscar and couldn’t imagine our life without him! Thank you for coming into our life Oskie McGoskie! 🐾❤️

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I can see clearly now…

Actually I can’t, but things after my retina surgery are much improved! My next appointment is in a month and I’m cleared to get back into the world (with some restrictions to protect my eye).

With a sclera buckle, it changes your eye shape and now I am nearsighted again (I had lasik a few years ago). Once the eye is stabilized I can get glasses or contacts but until then I’m 20/20 in one eye and right now 20/60 in the other. But the eye is healing beautifully and I feel positive!

And I could see clearly enough to fall for this poppy-colored cotton jumpsuit from @pistoladenim. It comes in a few colors but this one is my favorite. I went with XL (im@a 14, sometimes 16) and likely could have sized down but I enjoy the relaxed fit and the drawstring waistband to create shape. And hello zipper closure making it super easy to get on and off!

My husband took this photo right after my eye appointment, I think it reflects my positive attitude and feeling of hope! 🧡

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I’ll be a bit quiet on here and other channels because I had eye (retinal) surgery this past weekend. I was having what I thought were ocular migraines but come to find out I was experiencing lattice degeneration, which is thinning/holes in the retina. I had surgery Saturday for my right eye and later on they’ll work on the left eye, which isn’t as bad and can be remedied by laser, in office.

I share not because I’m Mrs. Frizzle meets Iris Apfel as I recuperate at home, but because this whole thing has been a lesson on trusting my gut. And I want to remind you to do the same.

As we get older our bodies can feel like strangers. Things are constantly changing and it’s easy to just assume your annual physical will catch anything wrong. But if you slow down and listen to your body you’ll know when things are just a sign of aging and life and what seems unusual. That nagging issue may be something more serious.

And if you’re seeing flashing lights, floaters, spiderwebs or other odd eye things get checked out ASAP. It may be nothing but take it from me, it may actually be something. ❤️

Okay, going back to my big sunglasses caftan recuperation life!

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Ladies who lunch…

While in Savannah, I made sure to get lunch reservations for me and E at @theoldepinkhouse she loves the color pink, historic homes, and ghost stories so it was a perfect choice! 

Built in 1789 on Reynolds Square, there are stories of guests seeing ghosts, cutlery and wine bottles moving along with an elegant and truly delicious dining. 

While we didn’t see any apparitions, we did have a lovely lunch with impeccable service and after toured all floors of the home. I highly recommend a visit if you’re visiting Savannah!

My dress is from @cosstores (no longer available); hat is @furtalk and bag is @talbotsofficial (no longer available).

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Scenes from a week in Savannah… 

The three of us (and our dog Oscar!) had a warm and humid but wonderful time exploring Savannah, Georgia earlier this month. Our daughter visited this gorgeous city last summer with her @girlscouts troop but wanted to return to experience more. We let her choose our adventures and play your guide and it was awesome. We cannot wait to visit again, though next time it won’t be August 🥵

For more of our trip check the “Savannah” highlight on my profile page!

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Stripes are always right…

Y’all know I love stripes and when @universalstandard came out with their Breton-stripe dresses and tops I HAD to try them! As expected, the quality is stellar, the fit boosts my confidence, and I appreciate the range of colors (5 different stripes to choose from) and sizes (00-50). For reference, I’m wearing XS but preferred S for the top and I usually wear a 14 or XL in other brands.

The tote is @able and it’s a soft yet durable leather that just looks better with time. This color (cognac) is one that transitions nicely from summer to fall. 

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The family that wears @printfresh together stays together 🥰

Use code wardrobe_oxygen for 15% off your order of size-inclusive organic cotton sleepwear, dresses, bags & more https://glnk.io/qk04/wardrobe-oxygen

I’ve been raving about my Printfresh pajamas for years, my family also wanted to try them. Thank you Printfresh for gifting these for our annual three generation girls’ getaway to Rehoboth Beach, DE. We had a great time and being all matchy matchy in our pajamas was a fun addition! 🐅🍃🥰

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