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The perfect red for the holiday season 💄

I love a red lipstick, especially in winter. It adds brightness to gray days and skin not exposed to the sun. Look in my dressing table and you’ll find at least a dozen different red lipsticks. But this winter my go-to red is “Relax” by @flyte.70 

Glossy but not sticky, long wearing but not drying, the Flyte.70 L+L.LipLacquer feels like a lip balm. One layer is a hint of color and shine; add more layers for more pigment, gloss, and impact. This isn’t the only Flyte.70 lip color I have and love; I regularly wear “Fast Car” which is a modern version of the brown lipsticks we loved in the 90s that looks so good with the neutrals popular right now.

And with products named after songs from the 80s and 90s I couldn’t not use this Frankie Goes to Hollywood song for this lip color!

This isn’t paid, it’s a PSA because I know it’s hard to find good red lip colors. And @flyte.70 is a U.S.-based woman-owned ethical beauty brand created specifically for U.S. grown women and I find the quality stellar.

Use code WOXYGEN15 for 15% off your order at Flyte.70

The quickest and cheapest way to update your wardrobe for the holidays is with a glossy red lip! 💄

#over40style #genxstyle #genxbeauty #flyte70
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The tree is trimmed! 🎄

When I was a single gal, I had the prettiest tree with a color story and theme. 20 years later, my tree is a hodgepodge of inherited ornaments, gifts from loved ones, and handmade pieces from both my childhood and by my child. And I think each year it veers further from the original concept the more beautiful it becomes!

My daughter and I donned our Santa hats, turned on the holiday playlist, a Yule log on the TV, and spent the afternoon getting our home into the Christmas spirit.

When she was little, my husband would pick her up so she could place the star on top of the tree. Now that she’s taller than I am, when he got home he just put his arm around her as she used the library stool to reach the top. Some traditions need to be modified with time but they’re still special! ⭐️

Top is a feather trimmed Breton from @talbotsofficial; the scarf as a belt is also Talbots but a few years old. The jeans are @landsend and the blanket on the chair in the second photo is by artist  @zanderschlacter
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My therapist recommended I walk outside more as I grieve the recent loss of my mom.

When it was time to pay for my mom’s funeral, the credit card I had in my wallet was my @bananarepublic Mastercard. I’ve had this card for decades because over the years, most of our family have worn some Gap brand. From onesies to tuxedos, we’ve updated our wardrobes with points.

And I got a serious chunk of points for charging my mom’s funeral expenses on my Banana card.

I decided to use them to buy clothes for winter outdoor walking. Nothing motivates me more than a chance to put together a cute outfit. This cute look is from @athleta, one of the few activewear brands that fits both my size and my style.

My Athleta purchase arrived on my doorstep and that day, a neighbor reached out, inviting me to join a group of women in our community who were supporting, not competing, to move 100k. I immediately said yes and signed up. 

This past week I hit 100k. And this past week week it has been two months she has been gone. I’m still going 💪 

Wearing XL. For reference I’m 5’3” and usually wear a size 14.

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Normalizing the normal everyday outfit…

It was a day of running errands, running to the office, and then running into friends. It rained off and on so I wanted shoes for potential puddles and a coat that wouldn’t soak through but also keep me warm.

The sweater is @universalstandard; I bought it thinking it was a bold purple but the color was off on the site and I got plum. But I think I like this better. I’m wearing a S. This is my second of this cardigan, it is super soft, dense, and holds up to washing. My other one I got a year ago and still wear all the time.

The jeans are @oldnavy and while they’re not perfect and stretch out throughout the day they were around $18 and I like the wash and weight of the denim. I’m wearing a 14 Short.

The boots are old Docs, the coat I got at @talbotsofficial last winter, and the bag is @maxwellscottuk and I’ve had for almost a decade. Earrings are @_jennybird, necklace is @gorjana. 

Disclosure: the coat was gifted last year but remains a favorite. The necklace was also gifted about a year ago but I keep wearing because I like it and it has held up quality-wise. The rest I bought. 

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Counteract the gray days with cozy colorful clothes! 🌈 This cashmere sweater set is the prettiest teal and I loved how it looked with this candy pink Chesterfield coat. All are from @anntaylor one of my favorite places to shop because Ann has petites over a size 12. Also all of these items are on sale!

While I did receive these clothes as a gift from Ann Taylor I am under no obligation to share with you. This is what I wore to work and when I saw these colors against the green of my building door I had to prop up my phone and capture the color combo!

This sweater is a classic and with the skirt is created a dress effect you can style with tall boots, ankle boots and tights, or dress down with sneakers. I linked to other pieces in this color that would also look dreamy with this skirt, as well as other gorgeous colorful coats.

For reference I am wearing the coat in XL petite and the sweater set in L. I am 5’3” and usually wear a 14/16

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Just got back from a 4-night getaway with my sister @debbiefaye78 at @curacaomarriottbeachresort. It was a last-minute planned trip that ended up being perfect. We weren’t ready to celebrate Thanksgiving without our mom and this escape what just what our hearts needed. 

I’ll be sharing more once I finally unpack my suitcase and organize my photos and thoughts; but I couldn’t not share this picture from yesterday morning. Debbie and I got up early to enjoy some of the day at the resort before flying home to DC. We had the infinity pool to ourselves, finished our books, and relaxed before a long day of travel. 🌴
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It’s hard when you’re petite and most models aren’t; you have no idea how clothes, especially jeans will fit. To promote @universalstandard’s Denim Drive sale, the company sent me two pairs of jeans of my choice. And I chose to make this video to show how they fit on my 5’3” body. I am usually a 14/32 in jeans but at Universal Standard I wear a 12 because they’re super stretchy and generously sized. 

With jeans as low as $35 in sizes 00-40, this is a sale not to be missed. And use code INFS-BFALISON10 for an additional 10% off sitewide!

The Farrah Flare is a favorite because at my height, most flare jeans will lose what makes them special once hemmed. At a 30” inseam these are great with low heels or lug soles.

The Etta is a straight jean with a vintage fit. If in doubt size down. They’re also super stretchy and the 28” inseam (they also come in 31”) works with my boots and sneakers.

While I was provided the apparel in this Reel for free, I was not paid or contracted to create this content. Consider it a PSA for my fellow shorties shopping this fab denim sale!

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Thanks to @talbotsofficial I’m ready for the holidays! #AD

I love Talbots for holiday fashion and this season’s new arrivals do not disappoint. And for Black Friday the entire site is 40% off with free shipping on orders $150+. Until noon, you also receive 50% off 1 regular price item!

I ordered pieces from the Talbots Holiday Collection and found great quality, great style, and great versatility. How cute is the Breton stripe bateau neck with the removable feather cuffs? The metallic plaid patio skirt is so fun, and these two dresses can glam up or dress down with a change of footwear and bag. For reference, I am wearing everything in either XL or 16 petite.

The ivory cords are also Talbots; the black trousers are from last year’s Talbots Holiday Collection showing how Talbots has lasting style. I’ve linked to exact or very similar in my LTK shop. Follow my shop @wardrobe_oxygen on the @shop.ltk app to shop this post and get my exclusive app-only content! https://liketk.it/4oDJF

#mytalbots modernclassicstyle #wondersoftheseason #ltkover40 #ltkplussize #ltkmidsize #blackfridaysale
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@somaintimates makes it easy to shop for a range of personas this holiday season! #AD With gift guides for a range of personality types, you can easily find great gifts for your loved ones. I was drawn to the creative one, loving the rich colorful florals, luxe satin, lace trim, and of course Soma’s iconic Cool Nights sleepwear! Visit Soma’s gift guide for tips on finding the perfect present this holiday season. #SomaGiftGuide #SomaStartsWithMe
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Fashion Advice, Gift Guides · November 26, 2018

Cyber Monday: I Own It, You’ll Love It

This article may contain affiliate links; if you click on a shopping link and make a purchase I may receive a commission. As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases. 

Likely most of you have done your shopping this long weekend, but if not there are some amazing deals this Cyber Monday. I did a list of the best sales for Black Friday and many of those promotions are still taking place. So instead of a repeat, here are items I own and love that are part of a Cyber Monday promotion.

talbots petite review

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Talbots: 50% Off First Item, 40% Off The Rest of Your Purchase

With this Talbots sale, no promo code is needed, the discount should show up in your cart.  And if you've read the blog recently or seen my Instagram you know I'm loving Talbots this season.  I adore their broad size range; most everything is available in regular, petite, plus, and petite plus size. Some of the items I own and love:

  • Audrey Cashmere Sweater: Talbots makes great cashmere; it's soft, a nice weight, and doesn't pill.  I have this sweater in navy and wear it all the time; the shape makes it great for wearing untucked with jeans on the weekend or tucked into a sequined skirt for evening or worn over a button-front shirt with trousers for the office. You can see me wear it in this post.
  • Pleated Dot Maxi Skirt: If you follow me on Instagram you know I wore this for Thanksgiving with a Universal Standard Foundation t-shirt and silver jewelry.  I have the skirt in petite and it was the perfect length to wear with flats. I think it would also be chic with a turtleneck sweater or a white shirt! See it on me in this post.
  • Perfect Ponte Blazer: The title is fitting; I think it's so perfect I had included it in Alison's Favorite Things of 2018. You can also see me wear it in this outfit post.
  • Velvet Trim Bi-Stretch Wool Blazer and Matching Pants: This is such a chic pantsuit, it was the base of my holiday capsule wardrobe.  I wore the pants in this outfit post and the suit as a whole on Instagram. This is a suit that will look elegant for years.
  • Black Watch Velvet Trim Blazer: Spoiler alert, this blazer will be in an upcoming outfit post, but those who follow me on Instagram got a preview. This blazer is well-made, well-fitting, and a classic with a modern silhouette. While I put it on with jeans and a t-shirt, this would look chic with a turtleneck and trousers, or even belt it over a sheath dress.
  • Isa Block Heel Pumps – Jewel Embellished: Dressy shoes that are comfortable? They do exist and these are it.  What's great is with the style of these, they'd look good with skirts of all lengths, ankle pants, and longer trousers. They're so new they haven't yet been featured on the blog but they're super comfy, supportive, and elegant.  If the heel is too much for you, they have the same shoe in a flat version.
  • Holiday Brooch Collection – Large Snowflake: Okay, I don't own this exact brooch but I got a similar brooch from Talbots last year and boy is it nice especially for the price.  Heavy, well-crafted, tons of sparkle, so elegant.  It has been a well-loved and worn piece of jewelry and I can see this one being the same.
  • Refined Crepe Blazer and Matching Slim Ankle Pants: Again I don't own this exact suit… but I got almost the same exact one from Talbots last winter (see in this post).  I actually think this one is better because it has an actual button instead of a frog closure. This is a great suit to have in your wardrobe for formal events, and even better to get at such a discount!
  • Luxe Doublecloth Collection Blazer: I have this blazer and it's been featured on the blog many times (the first time was in this post).  It even made it into my first real life capsule wardrobe where I showed how very versatile an ivory blazer can be.  But if ivory isn't your thing, this blazer is also available in red.
  • Italian Luxe Doublecloth Blazer and Matching Barely Boot Trousers: This red suit has been one of the hardest working things in my closet this fall and winter.  I wore the suit with a blush pink cami to my friend Sylvia's birthday brunch, the pants with a hot pink blouse, and the suit with a black cami and leopard pumps.  Not online, I've worn the blazer with a Breton tee and jeans and the pants with a black cashmere turtleneck and black ankle boots.
  • Classic Jean Jacket: This is a great fitting denim jacket in a timeless wash.  You can see me wear it in this outfit post and this outfit post and if you know me in real life you've seen me wear it several times with dresses, t-shirts, sweaters, and more.
  • Slim Ankle Jean – Shadow Stripe: I never thought a pair of “novelty” denim would be worn so much.  The subtle darker stripe on the sides of these jeans elongate the leg and add interest without stealing the spotlight.  They also fit great; you can see them on me in this outfit post and this outfit post.
  • Tartan Plaid Cape: This also is too new to have been photographed but it's amazing. I borrowed my mom's cape back when I broke my arm and have wanted one since.  I love how this one has a vintage vibe but is also completely modern. While not practical for sub-zero days, it looks so chic on a crisp fall or early winter day with a black cashmere turtleneck and is very well made.

dagne dover bag review

Dagne Dover: 20% Off with Promo Code GRATITUDE

I've been a Dagne Dover fan for years, since reader M asked me what I thought of the brand. I hadn't tried the bags, I reached out to them and they sent me one for review.  Since then, I have owned several Dagne Dover bags and find them extremely high quality, well-designed, and stylish.  I've had people call me “The Dagne Dover blogger” and even their CEO said some people have mentioned me and my Dagne reviews to them!  Their 20% sale is a perfect time to try these bags, or to give one as a gift.  My favorites:

  • The Small Allyn Tote: If you're looking for an everyday purse that will keep everything organized and easily accessible, this bag is for you.  While there's a padded sleeve for a tablet or small laptop, I think it's, in general, a great everyday bag that still has room for your purchase or maybe to cart your lunch to work.  You can see me with it in this blog post.
  • The Small Andra Crossbody: When you want a smaller bag but one that can hold all your stuff without having to remove all of it to find your lip balm or keys, this is it.  It's super chic and sleek, gorgeous tumbled leather, lots of cool colors to choose from, and a pocket for everything.  See me wear it in this blog post.
  • The Medium Dakota Backpack: I've raved about this bag many times; it even made my Alison's Favorite Things list.  It's the bag I use when I go to my coworking space, when I need a bag for my flight, when I am on the go and need my laptop, when I want a lightweight backpack.  This post is a proper review, and you can see me wear it in this post.
  • The Legend Tote: This is the signature Dagne Dover bag, and a great one. It looks so chic and polished, it was my fave for when I visited the client site or attended conferences.  It can hold EVERYTHING, won't tip over, has feet so it's stable, straps long enough to fit over your shoulder, and amazing organization. You can see it on me in this post.
  • The Large Allyn Tote: This was my favorite work bag.  The tumbled leather is elegant yet incredibly durable.  The bag could hold my heavy work laptop, cord, phone charger, files, purse essentials, commuting shoes, lunch, and still have space leftover yet be elegant enough to take to a client meeting. This post is an Allyn Tote review and this post compares the Legend Tote to the Allyn Tote.
  • The Card Case: This is the perfect gift.  It's a two-pocket card case that looks elegant and can hold a lot.  One pocket for your cards, one for the ones you collect. It's also a great small wallet and my choice for nights out or small purses. When I had my blog's 10th anniversary, Dagne Dover provided these card holders for the gift bags and so many friends say they're still using and loving their cases!
  • The Landon Carryall: This bag is so darn cool looking, but also so practical. The size Large is my weekender bag, Emerson's sleepover bag, and a great size for carrying on a plane.  The soft neoprene is lightweight and able to shove in an overhead compartment or under a seat.  The pockets keep everything organized; a rarity in a soft duffle.  This is a gender-neutral bag and a great gift for a guy who loves to travel or go to the gym (I'm partial to the gray heather).  Here is my Landon Carryall review.

best cyber Monday sale picks for nordstrom

Nordstrom: Save Up to 60% PLUS $50 Off Orders of $250 and More

I can't recall when Nordstrom has done a promo like this before and I am SO for it!  Nordstrom continues to be one of my favorite places to shop for great selection, free shipping, and free returns no matter the dollar amount.  Nordstrom has amazing gifts, and not just clothing or beauty products. Some of the best kitchen, decor, and bedding purchases I've made are from Nordstrom. Some items in the sale I own:

  • Hydro Flask Coffee Thermos: I love this travel mug so much I featured it in Alison's Favorite Things. This is a fantastic price with some fun colors too.
  • Anthropologie Latte Bowl: I have several of these bowls and they're the perfect size for cereal, chicken soup, or a leftover mishmash from Thanksgiving all covered in gravy.
  • Kendra Scott Birthstone Necklace: I received this as a gift and it's a great size and amount of interest for most any outfit.  This would make a fab gift for anyone 12 and up and the less than $40 price makes it super nice.
  • Le Creuset Tea Kettle: I have this in Palm and it's over a decade old and still looks fresh and works great.  Would be a great gift or addition to your own kitchen.
  • Topshop ‘Dolly' Leather Jacket: I have this leather biker jacket and love it even though I paid full price.  Get it for less (see it on me in this outfit post).
  • Kate Spade ‘Bright Idea' Earrings: I have these in clear/rose and they're the perfect size and amount of sparkle to complete a look. They were a best seller last year on the blog and you can see them on me in this outfit post.
  • Lambskin Leather Gloves: I have two pairs of them, every year they have a different mix of colors.  They've held up beautifully and fit nicely and the price, especially for the quality, is excellent.  I'm wearing my five-year-old purple pair in this outfit post.
  • Mural Slouchy Boyfriend Blazer: This blazer has been offered from Mural for many years and it continues to be stylish and affordable.  See it on me way back in 2015!
  • Halogen Cashmere Crewneck Sweater: This isn't the thickest cashmere sweater but it's soft and cozy and a phenomenal price. You can see me wear my camel one in this post and this post, and my black one in this post and this post.
  • Le Creuset: I love Le Creuset, I use pieces that belonged to my mom, have pieces that are decades old that look new, and the weight and quality are perfect for precise cooking. It's always great to find Le Creuset on sale and most of Nordstrom's extensive collection is. I already mentioned how we have the brand's tea kettle; we also use this stock pot all the time.  I think this set of four mini cocottes would be a welcome gift to many.

chicos review

Chico's 50% Off and Free Shipping with Promo Code 73985

I've been on a major Chico's kick this fall and winter; their current collection has so many great fitting and stylish options!  Below are some items I've recently worn and love:

  • Coolmax Turtleneck: In this outfit post I called it the perfect turtleneck and it really is.  In fact I'm wearing it right now and just pulled it out of the dryer this morning.  Still fits and looks great and keeps me warm without making me overheated. See it in this outfit post.
  • Black Label Pleated Skirt: This chiffon overlay maxi skirt has gold metallic dots on it.  I don't think the photo on the website does it justice so check it out on me in this outfit post.
  • Faux Fur Leopard Print Jacket: Many faux fur coats feel scratchy, are boxy, too thick.  This one feels so soft and silky, isn't too bulky, and drapes beautifully.  You can see it on me in this outfit post.
  • Black Label Cashmere Sweater: This is one of my favorite sweaters this winter.  it's thick and super soft and the asymmetrical silhouette makes it look dressier and more polished. I wore it in this outfit post and it's even the sweater I'm wearing in this video.
  • Faux-Leather Pants: I like these so much, if they came in other colors I'd stockpile them.  They actually look like leather, don't make that weird rubbery swish sound when you walk, and are fully lined in soft jersey which makes them comfy but also warm and cozy on a cold winter's day.  See them on me in this outfit post.
  • Ponte Zip-Back Top: This is one of those things I never think I need but when I have I wear the heck out of.  Thicker and more polished than a t-shirt, yet still able to comfortably tuck in.  It looks refined even when untucked, it fits under a blazer, it makes like a jumpsuit with matching ponte pants, it works all four seasons of the year.  See it on me in this outfit post.
  • So Slimming Juliet Pants: I didn't expect to love these pants as much as I do. They do slim the tummy, they are loose enough to not need a tunic sweater but slim enough to fit under tall boots. They wash up great too!  See them on me in this outfit post.
  • Silky Soft Leopard-Print Blouse: Oh gosh I love this blouse.  I dress it up with black pants, dress it down untucked with jeans, I even wear it with my faux leather front ponte leggings. See it in this post.

eloquii review

ELOQUII: 50% Off with Promo Code CYBER

ELOQUII does stylish plus-sized fashion well, and I especially love them for holidays and special occasions. Their dress selection is on point, these are dresses on sale that I have owned, found well-made, flattering, and all around fab:

  • Flare Sleeve Scuba Dress: I totally poo-poohed this dress until I was asked to wear it for a TV segment about the DC ELOQUII store.  I coldn't believe how flattering it was.  On my height it was a midi dress, but all the seaming was in the right spot. The scuba fabric smooths the body, and if you want to jazz it up it also looks great with a belt.
  • Printed Wrap Maxi Dress: You can see the Navy Floral option on me in this post, and the Hummingbird Floral option in this post.  This is the perfect dress to have in your closet for last-minute situations when you want to look cute and a bit more dressed up than jeans. It's also a great wintertime dress as you can put under it a Thermaskin top and leggings, tall boots, and even a slip to stay warm without ruining the effect.
  • Vertical Stripe Column Dress: This is another dress I didn't think would look good until ELOQUII picked it for me to wear last holiday season on a TV segment.  I couldn't believe how amazing it made my body look. This year the stripes are different but the dress is essentially the same. Another great winter dress as it will look chic even with fleece tights and boots.
  • Brocade and Velvet Puff Sleeve Dress: I wore this dress last winter when I hosted the ELOQUII holiday party at their DC store and it was so cute and made my body look amazing.  This season it has a different brocade pattern but is otherwise the same fab dress.
  • Long Sleeve Printed Fit and Flare Dress: This was one of the saddest things to give up as I lost weight for I LOVED this dress.  It's lightweight and hangs beautifully and feels great and looks so fun and unique and has pockets and well, I could go on and on.  Get this dress, you won't regret it. You can see it on me in this post.

They also have great separates; some pieces from ELOQUII that I've had and love:

  • Draper James for ELOQII Scallop Placket Blouse: This top comes in a 12 which is what I have and regularly wear.  The blouse has a beautiful drape and the navy buttons and scalloped trim give it a unique look.  I've worn this under a blazer, under a sweater, tucked in and left out. I wore it when I was an election judge. It is a bit sheer; depending on your comfort level you may want a cami (I just wear with a skin-colored t-shirt bra).
  • Silky Kimono Top: This top got a lot of wear last winter.  I'd pair it with faux leather front leggings, skinny jeans and ankle booties, and even skinny ankle pants and flats. It's a great top that looks sexy without showing a lot of skin and nips in at the right place to create an hourglass shape. Oh, and the sleeves are super cool.

Draper James for ELOQUII Cape Coat: ELOQUII sent me this cape coat and it's positively darling.  This also comes in size 12 (ELOQUII usually starts at 14).  It looks expensive and is a great option for those who live in warmer climates or for early fall or late spring.  While some capes limit arm movement, this one is made so you can actually function while looking cute.jenny bird earring review

Jenny Bird Jewelry: 30% off with Promo Code BFEVENT

I'm a big fan of Jenny Bird jewelry; they make a statement without being too trendy, or too heavy, or too extreme.  The quality is stellar as is the customer service (I made an order Black Friday and it arrived Saturday; they've also been great with a pair of earrings that I accidentally broke).  Some of the pieces that I own:

  • Large Carmine Hoops: You can see them in this post and this post but I wear them all the time. They make such a statement while still being appropriate for work or casual weekend style.
  • Large Faye Knockers: These are likely the most worn earrings currently in my collection. I wear them almost weekly; I love how they're thin yet a front-facing hoop so they feel more modern than regular hoops. You can see them on me in this outfit post.
  • Edie Hoops: These were the first earrings I ever got from Jenny Bird and still ones I wear quite regularly. They're perfection – not too big, not too small, a modern feel but oh so versatile. You can see them in this post, in this post, and this post.
  • Casita Earrings: No photos of me in these… yet.  These are the earrings I treated myself to on Black Friday and they're lightweight and beautiful and shiny and cool and I am so glad I got them!

soma cyber monday best sales

Soma: 30% Off With Promo Code 36760

I've shared my experience with a bra fitting at Soma, and love them so much I included items from Soma in Alison's Favorite Things. Below are some of my favorite items from Soma:

  • Their Stunning Support Strapless Bra is the most comfortable and supportive strapless bra I've ever owned.  All that and it's not ugly!
  • The Stunning Support Balconette Bra is one of my favorite everyday bras.  It's invisible under clothing, gives great lift and shape, isn't ugly, and is quite comfortable too!
  • Their Vanishing Edge Panties are truly invisible under even leggings and hold up great through many washings.
  • I'm a huge fan of their Embraceable Pajama collection.  A bit thicker than their Cool Nights collection but still cozy, comfy, and beautiful. I love that the pants come in lengths!
  • I am obsessed with their Cool Nights Plush Robe. It's lined in their Cool Nights jersey, the outside is super soft and silky fur-like plushness, it has deep pockets and a little tie inside to keep it closed, as I shared in this post this robe is a form of self-care.
  • Did you know Soma carries clothing? I love their Essential Leggings for lounging, their Smoothing Ponte Pants are favorites I wear working from home and also out and about, and their Yoke Tunics are the softest knit and the seam above the bust keeps them from looking like a tent.  You can see more of their clothing in my Work from Home Wardrobe post.

Target: 15% Off Your Entire Order

Target is offering 15% off your purchase today on Cyber Monday PLUS if you buy one get the second 60% off in the categories of clothing, shoes, and accessories. I don't really have any items I can show on the blog that I bought at Target because my local Target's fashion department is a major disappointment. However, I've shared my picks below:

  • Sherpa Jacket: available in pink and blue, this is a budget-friendly yet highly rated alternative to the teddy coats shown at all the boutiques and department stores.  When it comes to trends like this, I think it makes sense to spend less as it likely won't be worn everyday (but will be loved each time it's worn!). Here's the link for it in plus sizes.
  • Short Faux Fur Jacket: Um hello badass hot pink faux fur jacket that will make everything in your wardrobe look way cooler and more fun. I can't believe it's only $35 and that's BEFORE the Cyber Monday discounts!
  • Leopard Faux Fur Coat: Always a fun way to stay toasty warm.  Here's the links for a plus-size option.
  • Velvet Pleated Midi Skirt: Just the thing to take anything from a black cashmere turtleneck to a favorite band t-shirt and make it look festive for the holidays. Only $27.99 before the discounts.
  • Leopard Print Wrap Coat: I've seen a coat that looks exactly like this one for $200 at Nordstrom.  The belted waist makes this a chic coat for skirts as well as pants and can dress up or down with ease.
  • Tuxedo Blazer: Slip over a cami with jeans or black skinny ankle pants for a going out look.  Pair with a band t-shirt and jeans for the weekend.  Style with a black cashmere turtleneck and ankle pants for a chic holiday party ensemble.
  • Shine Crewneck Pullover Sweater: A sparkly sweater like this is perfect for making work outfits feel festive, turning pants and jeans into a holiday look, and adding sparkle three seasons out of the year without screaming holiday.  Three colors to choose from for less than $30.
  • Plus Size Boucle Cardigan: Get the Barefoot Dreams look and feel for less, and this is a color that is far more festive and flattering!

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  1. Nicole K says

    November 26, 2018 at 3:57 pm

    Hi!
    Just ordered the Dagne Dover backpack. Thanks for the tip! Something I’ve needed for awhile now.

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    November 26, 2018 at 10:34 am

    I have coveted that Topshop moto jacket since your blog post. Got it, can’t wait!!

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Since 2005, Wardrobe Oxygen has offered real-life style advice for grown-ass women. With years of experience as an apparel visual merchandiser and personal shopper, Alison Gary provides advice on how to achieve personal style no matter your age, size, or budget.

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The tree is trimmed! 🎄

When I was a single gal, I had the prettiest tree with a color story and theme. 20 years later, my tree is a hodgepodge of inherited ornaments, gifts from loved ones, and handmade pieces from both my childhood and by my child. And I think each year it veers further from the original concept the more beautiful it becomes!

My daughter and I donned our Santa hats, turned on the holiday playlist, a Yule log on the TV, and spent the afternoon getting our home into the Christmas spirit.

When she was little, my husband would pick her up so she could place the star on top of the tree. Now that she’s taller than I am, when he got home he just put his arm around her as she used the library stool to reach the top. Some traditions need to be modified with time but they’re still special! ⭐️

Top is a feather trimmed Breton from @talbotsofficial; the scarf as a belt is also Talbots but a few years old. The jeans are @landsend and the blanket on the chair in the second photo is by artist  @zanderschlacter

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Just got back from a 4-night getaway with my sister @debbiefaye78 at @curacaomarriottbeachresort. It was a last-minute planned trip that ended up being perfect. We weren’t ready to celebrate Thanksgiving without our mom and this escape what just what our hearts needed. 

I’ll be sharing more once I finally unpack my suitcase and organize my photos and thoughts; but I couldn’t not share this picture from yesterday morning. Debbie and I got up early to enjoy some of the day at the resort before flying home to DC. We had the infinity pool to ourselves, finished our books, and relaxed before a long day of travel. 🌴

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Nov 19

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Working on the weekend is far more enjoyable when it’s in my office 💚

Perimenopause and the pandemic and homeschooling made our row home feel even smaller. So when neighbors revitalized an office building in our town center and offered individual offices for rent, I felt it would be good for business and personally. And I kept it when the world opened up and our kid went back to public school because it helps me have a clear start and end to the work day, but also because I created a space I really enjoy.

This weekend I went to the office to shoot some content. And once I was finished I enjoyed just sitting here, watching the light change. I think I may switch the furniture around, switch up the energy. I love that I can do that without consulting another or having another person’s opinions matter.

When you have a family, things go from me to we. I don’t regret leaving Corporate America to do this full time, but I do miss being part of a team. And I missed having an office, a place away from home that’s just for me. 

I wish more communities would offer rental offices like @thegranitebuilding. With reasonably affordable monthly rates, it doesn’t have to just be business owners who get office spaces. It can be a place to work on a hobby or craft, a place to WFH that’s not home, or a place to just read and write and nap undisturbed. A literal room of one’s own. Because sometimes a person needs time to be a me and not a we. 💚

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You’re never too old for a Rory Gilmore sweater… this cotton fisherman sweater is from @llbean and inspired by @marielle.elizabeth I shopped the men’s department for a better size range. The influencer influenced the influencer!

The jeans are @landsend I got last year and I’m glad they brought them back this year in several washes, inseam lengths, and plus sizes. If in doubt, size down. They will shrink in length slightly but not anywhere else, they’re super comfy and stretchy but don’t stretch out. 

Kept the collegiate vibe going with a trucker cap, HOKAs, and my trusty commuter bag for years: the large @dagnedover Dakota backpack!

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My husband has a special backpack he fills with weight to wear while hiking; it’s called rucking. I wear a @dagnedover Dakota and fill it with my laptop, my iPad, a full water bottle, and my purse and walk to work; it’s called commuting. 💁🏻‍♀️

But seriously, I’ve had this backpack for five years. It has been shoved under plane seats, in overstuffed car trunks, under feet in the passenger seat. I’ve worn it as I’ve walked miles in major cities and from my house to my town center. My daughter also has a Dagne Dakota; it survived middle school and continues to work through camping, sleepovers, and road trips. It’s genially designed, comfortable, and can take a beating and still look great.

As for the rest of the look, the vest (XL) is a new purchase from @athleta; the Rainier tights (L) are also Athleta but two years old. The purple top is @nike and about a decade old. Hat is @llbean and it’s on sale for less than $15. And my trusty @hoka sneakers that have had their own set of adventures.

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Another day of early voting for our city election, another outfit I wore as an election judge! 🗳️

I got this sweater set from @mmlafleur last spring and it continues to be a favorite. The color and popcorn stitch makes it wearable three seasons of the year. I’ve styled it with gold heels and dramatic gold earrings, with sneakers and a crossbody belt bag, and more than once with knee-high boots and a scarf at my throat. The color works with brown and black boots, the skirt silhouette and length with heels and flats. These brown riding boots are from @duoboots and almost a decade old. The scarf belonged to my dad; I have a feeling it was styled with a leisure suit back in the day!

I may have been more dressed up than other election judges but I think seeing democracy in action is a cause to celebrate! 🇺🇸

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Early voting poll worker style 🗳️

I’ve been an election judge (AKA poll worker) for several years but this year I decided to take it a step further and join my city’s Board of Elections. I’m passionate about fair and accessible elections for all. The Board is acting as election judges for early voting so it’s great to use my previous experience on a city level!

I believe voting is a special occasion and I dressed the part. The puff sleeve sweater and pants are from @anntaylor; these pants are the same ones from the suit I wore earlier this week. I added a beloved @hermes scarf as a belt and silver hoops (they belonged to my mom) as a hint of shine.

If your area is having an election this coming week; I implore you to vote. Your voice deserves to be heard. And please ensure your neighbors know of the election and where to vote. 🇺🇸

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Always fun to see my name in lights! 💡 I was a panelist at the annual @jaofcentralmd Leading Ladies event that connects local high schoolers with women in business. My panel was on using social media for promoting one’s business or personal brand. Along with other social media experts, we guided students and adults on how to create compelling and engaging social content and together created content for the conference’s feed. It was fun and I loved being able to share my almost two decades of personal and professional experience!

The dress code for the conference was business professional and since the event’s theme color was pink, they encouraged us to wear the color. 

This @anntaylor suit has been a favorite since late summer. I’ve dressed it down with a white tank and sneakers and glammed it up with a silk cami and gold heeled sandals. I love how Ann Taylor has petite suiting up to size 16; I know I’m not the only short curvy girl who desires suits and professional attire!

For this event I chose a berry-colored microfiber tank from @lovechicos. I own several of these tanks; they wear like iron and the tight weave and subtle shine make them great shells under suits. 

The look fit the theme but was also comfortable. I was glad to share my expertise and encourage others to see how they can donate their time and knowledge to a local @juniorachievementusa #JALeadingLadies #JALeadingLadies2023 #JACMD #JuniorAchievment

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Sharing this from my #iPadOS17 thanks to @apple! A bit belated with all that has been going on lately but I’m really enjoying using an iPad to improve how I work, stay organized, and find new ways to be creative. Can I just say that editing video on an iPad instead of a phone is a game changer!

Recently, I attended an event at the gorgeous Apple Carnegie Library hosted by @flourishplanner_ to learn ways to make the most of #iOS17 and it was awesome. I brought my new iPad and learned about the new wallpaper, stickers, and organizing tools.

As for my look, the dress is from @bananarepublic’s summer collection. Kept it comfy with a pair of Samba sneakers and held down the volume of the dress with my black recycled leather @ganni crossbody. Added an old @_jennybird link necklace and a silver cuff I’ve had since the ‘90s.

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I love an excuse to dress up, especially if it’s for a good cause! This weekend was the @thenewdealcafe Masquer-AID fundraiser to support this independent cafe, art gallery, and live music venue in @cityofgreenbelt.

My family and I have loved going to The New Deal Cafe for all these years. Grabbing coffee with friends, having a meal, seeing an amazing band, participating in an open mic or one of their Reel and Meal events. So @debbiefaye78, our mom, and I got tickets and even chipped in for a plaque from us “Ashpes Girls.” 

Our mom passed before she could attend the event; we asked our like a sister best friend @shellymingram to join us in her place and we had a great time, dancing all night as our mom would have, connecting with neighbors, and supporting a local business we all love so much.

As for the outfit, the dress is @ronnykobo the bag is @ganni and I borrowed both from @renttherunway The shoes I’ve had for years and the gold metal mask I found on Amazon and liked how it could mold to my face and not put pressure on my still-healing eye.

And I know y’all will ask because I received so many DMs this weekend when I shared this event in my Stories… my sister’s dress is from @eshakti she bought it a few years ago and it’s even more gorgeous in person!

#newdealcafe #greenbeltisgreat #onlyingreenbelt #midsizestyle #genxstyle #over40style #greenbeltmd

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