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Scenes from a Friday night…

We started at @littleblackbirddc a new wine bar in Cleveland Park where we had great food, drink, and conversation into the evening. We then headed down the street to @atomicbilliards for a whole different experience and to keep the conversation going. I treasure my friendships with @sylviacolella (who had a birthday recently), @districtofchic, and @blonde_inthedistrict they’re the real deal 🥰

My dress is @adamlippes borrowed via @renttherunway and Cheetos with Sauvignon Blanc is a really fun pairing!
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Night and day…

Met three dear friends for an early dinner that went on until after the sun set. Great food and conversation with some great women!

The dress is @adamlippes and I borrowed it from @renttherunway. The bag is @jcrew and a splurge but I regretted not buying it the last time they offered this bag and this color is SO me. I mean, look how great it is with these many years old suede heeled sandals? Meant to be!

This color combination makes me so happy, and this dress was comfy even after a decadent meal. We all deserve to experience comfort and joy with our wardrobes! 💛🩷

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If @thechicks are in town you can bet @debbiefaye78 and I will be there! So when we heard they were coming to @merriweatherpp we were so excited. And their concert did not disappoint. As always, a phenomenal show! If The Chicks come to your neck of the woods I highly recommend you go!

Okay I know you want to know about what we’re wearing! 

My sister’s caftan is from @anthropologie (bought this summer so maybe you can find on resale sites).

I’m wearing a @bananarepublic dress also from this summer with the @universalstandard denim chore jacket and a hat I got from a @madewell collab a year or so ago. I glammed it up with some gold chains and gold drop earrings, but kept it comfy for a night of standing and dancing with @birkenstock sandals.

This was my first big outing since my eye surgery, and with a pocketful of eye drops I felt good (and grateful we splurged for good seats!).

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Still recovering from my eye surgery but feeling more myself. Getting dolled up helps me feel me. Bright colors and bold jewelry have been signature Alison since I was a kid! 

Sweater: @favorite.daughter 
Earrings: Amazon
Necklace: @_jennybird (old)
Ring: @realmfinejewelry 
Bra: @lovebravissimo 
Lipstick: @glossier 
Pins as “cufflinks”: vintage

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This wasn’t the first clothing swap and folks in town know my style (and my job) so there were some waiting for my arrival. Look how fast I cleared out this big bag! Speaking of the bag one other swap attendee said she got herself a Hulken after seeing mine in action!

It’s so great to know our old clothes are getting a good life and this bag makes carting them to the cafe so easy! I got my Hulken on Amazon, it comes in other colors and sizes too: https://amzn.to/48iTY4Y yep the bag is as great as all those ads you see on social media, I’m a big fan!
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Fashion Advice · August 17, 2011

Dressing for Your Date With Destiny

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I am tired. Dog tired. This week is kicking my tail, and it’s only Wednesday. Today I had to get to work pretty early. I knew I had no meetings today, will pretty much be holed up in my office. I even brought my lunch. I would be on the subway so early, I could end up with an entire car to myself, the streets of DC would be pretty empty. I may only bump into a handful of people by 5pm, and I won’t be able to take outfit photos. With that sort of day, it’s tempting to roll out of bed, throw on something “presentable,” toss my hair in a ponytail and head to work.

Instead, I took a shower, put on an outfit I had worn before and knew was flattering and office-appropriate, did a one-minute makeup application of the basics (concealer, mascara, lip color) and headed out the door.

It’s so easy to justify a slob day. You’re tired, you’re hungover, you’re sick. It’s only a trip to the grocery store, you work in IT and don’t interact with humans, it’s raining, you just don’t FEEL like putting forth effort. I’ve been there. Today after two cups of coffee and looking longingly at a can of Diet Coke… I’m there.

The thing is, you never know where your day will take you. Your seemingly quiet work day may be changed by a visit from the CEO or a last-minute client meeting. Your early Sunday morning trip to the market could be the time you bump into your ex… and his new fiancée. You’re just driving your kid to preschool… and am asked to attend a quick parent/teacher meeting about your child’s behavior. You’re walking to the bank and bump into the person who conducted your job interview the day prior, or the person you really liked and went out on a first date with the past weekend.

You can’t predict your future, so you might as well dress for a date with destiny.

This doesn’t mean I expect you to don a party frock and heels on a rainy Saturday when you’re running to Target for a box of tampons. What it means is shopping for and owning a wardrobe that works, even if you don’t want to. What I have found is by limiting my shlubby clothing collection and simplifying my entire wardrobe it’s EASIER to get dressed when your heart isn’t in it:

– When an item gets stained, torn, misshapen, faded or no longer fits it gets removed from the closet. I have a box on the floor of my closet for pieces that need to be fixed, and a bag near my dressing table where I stuff pieces that need to be donated. It’s so easy to just hold pieces in your closet until you get around to fixing or tossing them… but that makes it all the more easy to put that piece on one day and regretting it later.

– Don’t hang wrinkled pieces in the closet. When they come out of the laundry looking like a crumpled paper bag, they go in that “repair” box and stay there until I get the time to iron it. Again, it’s so easy to justify wearing a crumpled garment – I have done it in the past. I tell myself it will get creased just getting to work or to my destination, or that the humidity will steam it out. Nope, a wrinkled from the dryer item looks very different from a pressed garment that got wrinkled with wear. This process prevents the temptation of “making it work.”

– I have one drawer for lounge/gym/painting a piece of furniture and that’s it. If that drawer starts getting stuffed I know it’s time to pare down. No one needs 20 pairs of sweatpants and 50 free swag tee shirts from every 5K race and conference they have attended. If the shirts have sentimental value, consider framing themir?t=whaevewomneei 20&l=btl&camp=213689&creative=392969&o=1&a=B004L5DPOS or making a quilt (or store them elsewhere and switch out the tees every so often).

When I work out or paint, I only wear these clothes. I also change my clothes when I get home from work or an event so I can keep my nice clothes nice. This prevents nice garments from verging into bum around territory, and keeps my lounge clothing drawer streamlined.

– Even the clothes I paint in are flattering. There’s always a need for a Home Depot or Starbucks run when working on a home project. When the yoga pants get stretched out, replace them. Stalk Old Navy sales for replacement pairs – I have never paid more than $15 for a pair and I think their quality is pretty good. When white tees turn yellow or gray, hit them with some sunshine or oxygen bleach or get rid of them. Instead of those swag tees, consider getting some feminine-cut tees in flattering colors – Target and Old Navy are great places to find them for less, and this is one item where I always have success finding when I thrift.

– Buy casual clothes. This is something I didn’t do for quite a long time. It was either sweatpants or silk blouses and I didn’t own any shades of gray. I regretted it. Now I own some shorts, flattering jersey tees and pullovers, comfortable jeans and refined knit pants that can be worn out in public without feeling embarrassment. For summer, I love simple sundresses from H&M and other discount retailers (again another easy thing to find at thrift stores) – they can be thrown in the washer and dryer, worn with a pair of sandals and look like an ensemble while having the comfort and ease of a nightgown.

Can't really tell it was a rough morning thanks to my uniform and choice of color

– Have a uniform. This doesn’t mean every single day you need to wear the same type of ensemble, but it means you have some go-to pieces that you know will work with little effort. For me, it’s merino v-neck sweaters with a pencil skirt or pair of wrinkle-free trousers – I can get dressed in the dark with this combo and feel attractive and put together. Many a very early and dark morning, I have gotten dressed by feel – here’s my Gap Perfect Trousers, here’s a v-neck sweater. I’ll grab my black ankle booties, a necklace or bracelet and I’m pulled together in five minutes.

– Embrace color. If you feel green, you won’t look as green if you are in a flattering hue instead of a neutral or black. You’ll also feel better when you’re looking at your reflection in a pleasing color. For me, it’s pink – be it bubblegum or berry, a pink color will flatter my skintone and lift my spirits.

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How my closet was organized in January – slightly different now but same concept

– Organize your closet. If you open your closet on a rough morning and the first things you see are cocktail dresses and complicated blouses, you’ll get frustrated and seek out your jeans and flip flops.

For me, I find it helpful to have pants and skirts in the center of the closet. To the right are tops, to the left are jackets and cardigans, and then to the left of the jackets are dresses. To the right of the tops are the things I don’t wear on a daily basis – cocktail dresses, interview suits, out of season pieces that won’t survive being boxed in the attic. This way, I can quickly find pieces and get dressed with less stress.

I also find it helpful to have similar hangers throughout the closet. If you have those white plastic tubular hangers, hefty wooden hangers, clear plastic ones that come free with the dress your ordered online and a few of those skinny velvet ones, garments can get lost. For years I have stuck with the plastic hangers you can buy or get free with some retailers – they’re a consistent size, are great for open neck and spaghetti strap pieces, and often “monkey hang” to save space. Lately I have started switching to the slimline velvet hangers, but I am only doing it by category – all my tops first, then all my jackets and cardigans at a separate time when I acquire more. This way I don’t lose my black cardigan because it’s hiding behind my neon yellow linen blazer and black tux jacket.

 
My early-morning look – simple makeup, messy updo with polished bangs
 

– Create an emergency beauty routine. If you’re like me, you don’t have easy wash-and-go hair and you look better with some concealer and blush. And if you’re like me, some days you need to leave your bed but the idea of brushing your hair sounds like torture. When you’re feeling bright and bubbly, try out simplified beauty routines so you have them in your back pocket for days where you don’t feel your best or are short on time.

For me, it’s a messy updo with smoothed sideswept bangs – the messier the better because it will hide roots, grease, and bedhead. I let a few tendrils down so it looks purposeful, and use an iron or my dryer and a round brush to just make the bangs look polished. Takes less than a minute and is way better than a slicked-back ponytail with random bumps missed in haste. As for my face, I focus on what is most obvious – for me it’s the dark circles under my eyes and the redness around my nose and lips. A couple pats of concealer will even my skintone, making me automatically look more awake, healthy, and polished. I find mascara really opens my eyes, and I swear by Burt’s Bees Tinted Lip Balm in Rose for quick color on the lips AND the cheeks (so easy, can apply without a mirror while dashing to your car). I also keep a concealer, travel-sized tube of mascara (they often sell them at the counter of Sephora or come with a gift with purchase) and the Burt’s Bees balmir?t=whaevewomneei 20&l=btl&camp=213689&creative=392969&o=1&a=B004GDSWH0 in my purse so if I can’t get the face on before I head out the door, I can at least do it once I arrive at my destination.

 
What are your tips for looking polished when you don’t feel so fab?

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  1. Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

    December 6, 2011 at 12:36 am

    Thanks Ethna! Once I get my tech-self together I’ll be sure to make one!

    Reply
  2. Ethna says

    December 6, 2011 at 12:36 am

    Heh I really love this post – so much so I tweeted it – I would love to see a video of how you do your hair too

    Reply
  3. Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

    December 6, 2011 at 12:36 am

    My pleasure 🙂

    Reply
  4. Kristen says

    December 6, 2011 at 12:36 am

    “I have one drawer for lounge/gym/painting a piece of furniture and that’s it.”

    What excellent advice. I tend to let mine run over into various drawers, and then I only wear the same things on the top all the time. Time to do some culling! Thanks for the kick in the pants. 🙂

    Reply
  5. Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

    December 6, 2011 at 12:35 am

    Don’t brush, don’t even fingercomb & grab your hair as if you were going to do a quick ponytail but don’t pull the hair through – end up with a loop of tangled bedhead. Then part with both hands and pull taut to. Mthe scalp. I find the higher on the head the more flattering for me & more purposeful looking. Then use fingers to pull out bangs & tendrils. I will blow dry dry hair to smooth or use the curling iron. Don’t curl or smooth the tendrils or you will look goofy/forced. Hope that helps (maybe I should do a video!)

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  6. Anamarie says

    December 6, 2011 at 12:35 am

    I’m personally tired of people using the excuse that it’s too much work to look great all the time.  Of course it takes planning, but that’s the beauty – once you have a closet full of items that are easily interchangeable and look great on you, all your work is done and you just have to get dressed. 

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  7. terria79 says

    December 6, 2011 at 12:35 am

    totally just bookmarked this to my folder. I need to take some of your advise.

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  8. Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

    December 6, 2011 at 12:35 am

    I had to double check to make sure my sister didn’t post this comment. She has almost the same identical kit in her purse and I have been known to use much of it when in a pinch (guess should set up my own, huh?)

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  9. pws says

    December 6, 2011 at 12:35 am

    I love this post!

    I have found that really paying attention to what goes into my purse pays off. There is always a compact, plus lip balm and lipstick. But I also recently put together a small makeup bag containing: Travel size eye cream (which can be used as whole face moisturizer), mascara, a tiny blush compact, retractable powder brush (makes you look more polished than just sponging on powder from a compact, plus you use it for the blush), brow pencil and a small liquid eye shadow in a neutral color. Oh, and an old eye pencil that’s only about 2 inches long. And a pony tail holder and a couple bobby pins.

    This way, I feel like I have my bases covered. I always like my skin to look good first, then a little pop of color on the eyes and cheeks. It takes up almost no room in my purse and I feel a lot more confident knowing I don’t have to go anywhere looking like crap. Even if I woke up a half hour late.

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  10. Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

    December 6, 2011 at 12:35 am

    A red lip can completely transform a face, and an ensemble! Tres chic!

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  11. AJ says

    December 6, 2011 at 12:35 am

    My secret when I feel like crap? Laura Mercier Illuminating tinted moisturizer. It’s expensive, I had to take some deep breaths when I bought it, but it never fails to give me dewy fresh skin. Then I put on something I love that’s comfortable – I’m wearing a burnt orange jersey dress with bell sleeves that’s perfect for what I mean. It’s like wearing a t-shirt, but it’s also adorable. Jewelry, comfortable shoes, caffeine and something peppy on the iPod so I can pretend to be bursting with energy. 

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  12. Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

    December 6, 2011 at 12:35 am

    I’ve been there with the splash of cold water in the office restroom! And I am going to have to check out Pixi’s Succulent Lip Twin in Peony!

    Reply
  13. Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

    December 6, 2011 at 12:35 am

    That’s a good motto for life, when in doubt add heels! 🙂

    Reply
  14. Channon says

    December 6, 2011 at 12:35 am

    Great post.   We are a society that judges a book by its cover, but more importantly for me, I FEEL better when I bother.  Clean hair always makes me feel better, even if it is waving off on its own, icky agenda.  I also like bright colors, a bit of my mineral powder foundation and the Burt’s Bees tinted lip balm I ALWAYS have with me…

    And when in doubt, I add heels. 

    Reply
  15. BiblioMOMia says

    December 6, 2011 at 12:35 am

    Oh, I love love love this whole post.  Because it’s so true.

    My tips?  Pixi’s Succulent Lip Twin in Peony, which I keep in my purse.  With powder, it’s full make-up for me.  A quick, chic, and high ponytail (with a cute JCrew elastic).  A maxi skirt, which feels like sweatpants.  Cute embellished flats.  A REALLY bright colored scarf, which gives my face some color and my outfit some oomph.  Earrings, even simple gold studs.  

    When all else fails, a hearty splash in the face with cold water.  Even in my office restroom.

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  16. Heidi/Closet Coach says

    December 6, 2011 at 12:29 am

    Love those slim-line velvet hangers! They totally helped me squeeze more space out of my tiny 1948 closet.

    I also try to plan my outfits the night before, with varying levels of success. I actually got into this habit when we started doing it with my daughter’s school wear. We laid out her outfit for the next day on the floor; it’s called a “clothes kid” so I started making a Clothes Mommy 🙂 

    Amen to having nice things in *every* category of clothing, not just office wear. I tried to talk about this in my 5 Levels of Working Mom Outfits post (http://www.closet-coach.com/2011/02/15/the-5-levels-of-working-mom-outfits/). You can wear casual jeans, yes, but please not the fraying ones with holes in the knees! 🙂

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  17. Judyharrison says

    December 6, 2011 at 12:28 am

    Even on a “bad” day, you have GREAT hair!! 

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  18. Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

    December 6, 2011 at 12:28 am

    Robin, you are my hero! Back in the day my mom and I both planned our outfits – even had file boxes with the combos down to accessories. I have totally gotten slack with this, and also feel with the blog I need to spice it up occasionally. But it’s SUCH a good idea to save time and reduce stress each morning!

    Reply
  19. Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

    December 6, 2011 at 12:28 am

    Incredible how a curled lash can make you look so much more awake than a regular lash. And Sydney has mastered the topknot for those with thick, long hair! 🙂

    Reply
  20. The Lapsed Victorian says

    December 6, 2011 at 12:28 am

    Thanks for compiling such a thoughtful, smart list of tips, Allie! I really like the idea of keeping schlubby clothes to a minimum. As a serial overdresser, I just don’t feel comfortable wearing sloppy clothes that make me look like I’ve been battling stomach flu.

    I like to throw on a colorful scarf (when it’s not too hot) and some fragrance (preferably something fresh and sweet) to perk
    myself up.

    P.S. Love that Chanel quotation! 🙂

    Reply
  21. Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

    December 6, 2011 at 12:28 am

    My messy updo is after years of trial and error… watch me go chop it off this fall or something and need to learn a new emergency beauty routine!

    Reply
  22. Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

    December 6, 2011 at 12:28 am

    I always feel it’s better than nothing… 1/4 dead is better than 1/2 dead! I agree with you on how much one statement accessory can make the difference.

    Reply
  23. pws says

    December 6, 2011 at 12:28 am

    Allie, I’m a loyal reader and that was my first comment!

    And yes, taking the time to do this is so great. Also, I try to use good brands that I trust. Just grabbing anything from the travel section at Walgreen’s doesn’t always pay off. This travel brush from Stila is a life saver –

    http://www.sephora.com/browse/product.jhtml?id=P151501

    (I got mine on ebay for $3.)

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  24. Patti_NotDeadYetStyle says

    December 6, 2011 at 12:28 am

    Wonderful! You summed it up so well, Allie. The streamlined make-up and “uniform” are such a blessing on those early-work mornings. The hair, I have not quite found an easy way to manage it, but I *have* learned to accept it better  : >

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  25. Allison from Outfitsandstuff says

    December 6, 2011 at 12:28 am

    Simple/ plain outfit with one eye catching accessory, usually a scarf or statement necklace and some lipstick in place of a more complicated beauty routine. I still don’t feel my best on days like that but at least I don’t look half dead!

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We started at @littleblackbirddc a new wine bar in Cleveland Park where we had great food, drink, and conversation into the evening. We then headed down the street to @atomicbilliards for a whole different experience and to keep the conversation going. I treasure my friendships with @sylviacolella (who had a birthday recently), @districtofchic, and @blonde_inthedistrict they’re the real deal 🥰

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Night and day…

Met three dear friends for an early dinner that went on until after the sun set. Great food and conversation with some great women!

The dress is @adamlippes and I borrowed it from @renttherunway. The bag is @jcrew and a splurge but I regretted not buying it the last time they offered this bag and this color is SO me. I mean, look how great it is with these many years old suede heeled sandals? Meant to be!

This color combination makes me so happy, and this dress was comfy even after a decadent meal. We all deserve to experience comfort and joy with our wardrobes! 💛🩷

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If @thechicks are in town you can bet @debbiefaye78 and I will be there! So when we heard they were coming to @merriweatherpp we were so excited. And their concert did not disappoint. As always, a phenomenal show! If The Chicks come to your neck of the woods I highly recommend you go!

Okay I know you want to know about what we’re wearing! 

My sister’s caftan is from @anthropologie (bought this summer so maybe you can find on resale sites).

I’m wearing a @bananarepublic dress also from this summer with the @universalstandard denim chore jacket and a hat I got from a @madewell collab a year or so ago. I glammed it up with some gold chains and gold drop earrings, but kept it comfy for a night of standing and dancing with @birkenstock sandals.

This was my first big outing since my eye surgery, and with a pocketful of eye drops I felt good (and grateful we splurged for good seats!).

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Sep 19

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If I close my eyes you can’t tell one is still bloodshot 😜

Still recovering from my eye surgery but feeling more myself. Getting dolled up helps me feel me. Bright colors and bold jewelry have been signature Alison since I was a kid! 

Sweater: @favorite.daughter 
Earrings: Amazon
Necklace: @_jennybird (old)
Ring: @realmfinejewelry 
Bra: @lovebravissimo 
Lipstick: @glossier 
Pins as “cufflinks”: vintage

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Sep 11

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Happy gotcha day, Oscar! Four years ago he came into our life and we are so happy to have in our family!

Oscar was a rescue and came with some… quirks. Over the years we have come to understand him and he has come to trust us. He’s a diva, a snuggler, he could play catch for hours, and he’s my husband’s shadow. 

We’ve never had a small breed dog before and it’s a whole different experience. But we adore Oscar and couldn’t imagine our life without him! Thank you for coming into our life Oskie McGoskie! 🐾❤️

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Sep 8

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I can see clearly now…

Actually I can’t, but things after my retina surgery are much improved! My next appointment is in a month and I’m cleared to get back into the world (with some restrictions to protect my eye).

With a sclera buckle, it changes your eye shape and now I am nearsighted again (I had lasik a few years ago). Once the eye is stabilized I can get glasses or contacts but until then I’m 20/20 in one eye and right now 20/60 in the other. But the eye is healing beautifully and I feel positive!

And I could see clearly enough to fall for this poppy-colored cotton jumpsuit from @pistoladenim. It comes in a few colors but this one is my favorite. I went with XL (im@a 14, sometimes 16) and likely could have sized down but I enjoy the relaxed fit and the drawstring waistband to create shape. And hello zipper closure making it super easy to get on and off!

My husband took this photo right after my eye appointment, I think it reflects my positive attitude and feeling of hope! 🧡

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Sep 5

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I’ll be a bit quiet on here and other channels because I had eye (retinal) surgery this past weekend. I was having what I thought were ocular migraines but come to find out I was experiencing lattice degeneration, which is thinning/holes in the retina. I had surgery Saturday for my right eye and later on they’ll work on the left eye, which isn’t as bad and can be remedied by laser, in office.

I share not because I’m Mrs. Frizzle meets Iris Apfel as I recuperate at home, but because this whole thing has been a lesson on trusting my gut. And I want to remind you to do the same.

As we get older our bodies can feel like strangers. Things are constantly changing and it’s easy to just assume your annual physical will catch anything wrong. But if you slow down and listen to your body you’ll know when things are just a sign of aging and life and what seems unusual. That nagging issue may be something more serious.

And if you’re seeing flashing lights, floaters, spiderwebs or other odd eye things get checked out ASAP. It may be nothing but take it from me, it may actually be something. ❤️

Okay, going back to my big sunglasses caftan recuperation life!

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Aug 30

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Ladies who lunch…

While in Savannah, I made sure to get lunch reservations for me and E at @theoldepinkhouse she loves the color pink, historic homes, and ghost stories so it was a perfect choice! 

Built in 1789 on Reynolds Square, there are stories of guests seeing ghosts, cutlery and wine bottles moving along with an elegant and truly delicious dining. 

While we didn’t see any apparitions, we did have a lovely lunch with impeccable service and after toured all floors of the home. I highly recommend a visit if you’re visiting Savannah!

My dress is from @cosstores (no longer available); hat is @furtalk and bag is @talbotsofficial (no longer available).

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Aug 29

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Scenes from a week in Savannah… 

The three of us (and our dog Oscar!) had a warm and humid but wonderful time exploring Savannah, Georgia earlier this month. Our daughter visited this gorgeous city last summer with her @girlscouts troop but wanted to return to experience more. We let her choose our adventures and play your guide and it was awesome. We cannot wait to visit again, though next time it won’t be August 🥵

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Aug 28

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Stripes are always right…

Y’all know I love stripes and when @universalstandard came out with their Breton-stripe dresses and tops I HAD to try them! As expected, the quality is stellar, the fit boosts my confidence, and I appreciate the range of colors (5 different stripes to choose from) and sizes (00-50). For reference, I’m wearing XS but preferred S for the top and I usually wear a 14 or XL in other brands.

The tote is @able and it’s a soft yet durable leather that just looks better with time. This color (cognac) is one that transitions nicely from summer to fall. 

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