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And I could see clearly enough to fall for this poppy-colored cotton jumpsuit from @pistoladenim. It comes in a few colors but this one is my favorite. I went with XL (im@a 14, sometimes 16) and likely could have sized down but I enjoy the relaxed fit and the drawstring waistband to create shape. And hello zipper closure making it super easy to get on and off!

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Fashion Advice · January 13, 2009

Hot Fashion For 2009

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All the stylish men will be sporting black jersey Moby Wrapsir?t=whaevewomneei 20&l=as2&o=1&a=B001ISJW4S this Spring.

Baby accessory is sold separately…

I just thought this was too cute.
We received this baby carrier at our shower – thought it was a good choice for a 5'3″ mom and a 6'5″ dad. My husband shows that it does work on a variety of body types and Emerson is snug as a bug in a rug against Daddy's chest!

Daddy's off to wash a load of dirty diapers while Mommy takes a cat nap until the next feeding…

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  1. Jane says

    January 21, 2009 at 10:00 pm

    Congratulations.

    Reply
  2. Marian says

    January 19, 2009 at 2:01 pm

    aww think the baby carrier is so cute. Emerson Elaine is a perfect name for such a beautiful baby!
    Congratulations to you and your hubby.May God bless baby and keep her safe.
    big kiss,
    Marian

    Reply
  3. Karen says

    January 18, 2009 at 4:42 am

    Woah, that’s your hubby? Cuute!

    My husband wears the Moby wrap too, although it’s not quite as hunky-looking. It’s usually over a sweatshirt.

    Great carrier, we love it!

    Reply
  4. *Tanyetta* says

    January 17, 2009 at 12:41 am

    sooooo sweeeet! Congrats!

    Husband that does laundry too? That’s what I’m talking about! I love that so much. That’s sofakinghaute 🙂

    Congrats again! Rest up my dear 🙂

    Reply
  5. budgetchic says

    January 16, 2009 at 5:05 pm

    Ahhhh that is sooo cute, dad you got the most precious thing in the world right there! Hi Emerson!

    Reply
  6. Anonymous says

    January 16, 2009 at 4:35 pm

    When do we get a glimpse of the babe with her Mama? I’m sure you look lovely. New Mama bliss and all. 🙂

    Reply
  7. Tara Incognita says

    January 16, 2009 at 3:45 am

    I am so glad he is recovered…as I bet he is, too! I told my husband and he said, “Man, he is NOT the first guy to get physically exhausted from the ordeal!” People act like men can just hang on with you forever and being in the hospital that long, it is likely he picked up a bug.

    I am glad you posted this. I tried 2 slings and neither worked for me. I have back issues, though, so maybe that was it…? I saw upthread someone posted about a kind they used with their 2 year old, so maybe it isn’t too late. My son LOVES TO BE HELD and it would be nice to have some free hands.

    Reply
  8. Emma says

    January 16, 2009 at 2:12 am

    That is soooo adorable!! Your baby and daddy are gorgeous!!

    Reply
  9. hearthappy says

    January 14, 2009 at 10:56 pm

    That is the cutest thing … Congratulations, you guys make one happy family. Daddy and Emerson are too cute for words.

    Reply
  10. Anonymous says

    January 14, 2009 at 1:54 pm

    Congratulations!!! Emerson is beautiful!

    Reply
  11. Sarah R says

    January 14, 2009 at 1:00 pm

    There is nothing sexier than a dad holding his baby. My favorite pics of my husband are when he’s holding one or all of our babies. Sniff…brings back memories!

    Reply
  12. Gervy says

    January 14, 2009 at 9:20 am

    6 ft 5! Why do you short girls have to fall for the tall men?! It is a fab photo, and he is looking much healthier than he sounded in your birthing story. Did he find out what was wrong with him, or was it just flu/allergic to childbirth?

    x

    Reply
  13. Anonymous says

    January 14, 2009 at 6:36 am

    Congratulations on your beautiful baby. Your husbands smile is radiant, just glowing. Take care of yourself.

    Reply
  14. sewcrazy says

    January 14, 2009 at 12:24 am

    What a happy dad! So wonderful to see.

    Reply
  15. Jenny says

    January 14, 2009 at 12:04 am

    LOVE the sling! When Emerson gets bigger, try an Ergo — the waist and chest straps take the weight off your shoulders and we used ours until our daughter was almost 2. My husband is 6’2″ and I’m 5’8″, so it works well with different heights, too. Can’t wait to see you wearing it!

    Reply
  16. kh says

    January 13, 2009 at 9:09 pm

    I’ve told my husband before that there is nothing hotter than a man wearing a baby. 😉 That is a great picture! Your hubby is a keeper for sure.

    Reply
  17. Nanette says

    January 13, 2009 at 8:17 pm

    The Moby (and baby-wearing husbands) is awesome! I have three! (Mobys, not baby-wearing husbands.)

    Reply
  18. Patricia says

    January 13, 2009 at 6:44 pm

    Is she wearing eyebrow pencil already?! ;0) That’s one perfect eyebrow. She has your eyes. Those are cute photos, thanks for posting.

    Reply
  19. Randa says

    January 13, 2009 at 5:59 pm

    That is so cute! I want one now and I mean the whole package, please: baby, husband, and the Moby Wraps.

    :0]

    Reply
  20. Emily @ Live Renewed says

    January 13, 2009 at 5:21 pm

    Your hubby is awesome for letting you post those pics of him!! I once took pictures of my hubby wearing our baby in a sling and he wouldn’t let me put them on my blog! 🙁
    Thanks for sharing your thoughts about natural birthing, breastfeeding, baby wearing and cloth diapering with the mainstream world. Hopefully your views will catch on more!
    Would love to hear how you like the cloth diapers – which ones do you use?

    Reply
  21. Julianne says

    January 13, 2009 at 5:16 pm

    Your daughter is so precious. I really admire the way you are doing things. I am a mom of two, former L & D nurse and Lactation consultant. I am so glad you can accept that things didn’t go as you had planned. Your planning was the best, but things do happen.

    I also used cloth diapers with both of my children and still wouldn’t do it any other way. I do not like disposables and never have.
    Breastfeeding is a gift with long term benefits, some of which you cannot readily see. Check out my link to attachment parenting.I also used the sling for years, it really helps distribute the weight

    I hope things go well for you. If you ever have any questions please feel free to email me. I am so happy for you and your hubby.

    Reply
  22. Christina Lee says

    January 13, 2009 at 4:49 pm

    LOVE IT!!!! you are blessed with a wonderful (and gorgeous)family-and what a birthing story!!!!!!

    Reply
  23. Christina says

    January 13, 2009 at 4:03 pm

    My sister-in-law has one and LOVES it!!! Congrats again!!!

    Reply
  24. Boutique Girl says

    January 13, 2009 at 3:08 pm

    That is too CUTE! And here was me worrying that we were never going to hear from you – but you are still keeping in touch!

    Reply

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