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Scenes from a Friday night…

We started at @littleblackbirddc a new wine bar in Cleveland Park where we had great food, drink, and conversation into the evening. We then headed down the street to @atomicbilliards for a whole different experience and to keep the conversation going. I treasure my friendships with @sylviacolella (who had a birthday recently), @districtofchic, and @blonde_inthedistrict they’re the real deal 🥰

My dress is @adamlippes borrowed via @renttherunway and Cheetos with Sauvignon Blanc is a really fun pairing!
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Night and day…

Met three dear friends for an early dinner that went on until after the sun set. Great food and conversation with some great women!

The dress is @adamlippes and I borrowed it from @renttherunway. The bag is @jcrew and a splurge but I regretted not buying it the last time they offered this bag and this color is SO me. I mean, look how great it is with these many years old suede heeled sandals? Meant to be!

This color combination makes me so happy, and this dress was comfy even after a decadent meal. We all deserve to experience comfort and joy with our wardrobes! 💛🩷

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If @thechicks are in town you can bet @debbiefaye78 and I will be there! So when we heard they were coming to @merriweatherpp we were so excited. And their concert did not disappoint. As always, a phenomenal show! If The Chicks come to your neck of the woods I highly recommend you go!

Okay I know you want to know about what we’re wearing! 

My sister’s caftan is from @anthropologie (bought this summer so maybe you can find on resale sites).

I’m wearing a @bananarepublic dress also from this summer with the @universalstandard denim chore jacket and a hat I got from a @madewell collab a year or so ago. I glammed it up with some gold chains and gold drop earrings, but kept it comfy for a night of standing and dancing with @birkenstock sandals.

This was my first big outing since my eye surgery, and with a pocketful of eye drops I felt good (and grateful we splurged for good seats!).

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For years I’ve trusted @somaintimates for the right bras and the right fit but it had been a while since I visited a Soma boutique to try on all the styles they currently have for a large bust. I must say I was impressed! Knowledgeable staff, extensive collection in larger sizes, and some of the most comfortable and innovative bras in up to H cups! Each body is different but what I loved:

- The Stunning Push-Up: targeted for the DD+ customer gives amazing lift and great shape under fitted knits.

- The Unbelievable Lift Scoop Balconette: sexy, supportive, and so lightweight!

- The Embraceable Wireless: I’ve recommended this wireless bra for large busts for years and was in need for a new one! 

- The Stunning Support Smooth Balconette: this is the perfect t-shirt bra for large busts with padded straps and disappears under knits

- The Stunning Starlet Multi-Way Strapless: recently improved for more support and more comfort, this wireless bra stays put and gives fab shape

I also picked up some of Soma’s iconic Vanishing Edge panties which keep you line-free. The whole Vanishing collection is genius. I loved being able to donate my gently used bras at my local Soma boutique to give to those in need. We all deserve a lift and Soma strives to achieve that. It’s why I’ve been a fan and customer for years and am honored to partner with them. Soma is the perfect fitting bra solution. Visit the link in my bio to shop and to find your local Soma boutique! #SomaPartner #SomaBraFit #SomaStartsWithMe
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If I close my eyes you can’t tell one is still bloodshot 😜

Still recovering from my eye surgery but feeling more myself. Getting dolled up helps me feel me. Bright colors and bold jewelry have been signature Alison since I was a kid! 

Sweater: @favorite.daughter 
Earrings: Amazon
Necklace: @_jennybird (old)
Ring: @realmfinejewelry 
Bra: @lovebravissimo 
Lipstick: @glossier 
Pins as “cufflinks”: vintage

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It was so funny and so quick I couldn’t not share! I bought this @hulkenbag a year ago and use it all the time. Carting shoot supplies, groceries, packing for road trips, and carting donations. This weekend @thenewdealcafe in @cityofgreenbelt hosted a community clothing swap so I made sure my family and I went through our summer wardrobes to gather that which we no longer needed or fit.

This wasn’t the first clothing swap and folks in town know my style (and my job) so there were some waiting for my arrival. Look how fast I cleared out this big bag! Speaking of the bag one other swap attendee said she got herself a Hulken after seeing mine in action!

It’s so great to know our old clothes are getting a good life and this bag makes carting them to the cafe so easy! I got my Hulken on Amazon, it comes in other colors and sizes too: https://amzn.to/48iTY4Y yep the bag is as great as all those ads you see on social media, I’m a big fan!
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Oscar was a rescue and came with some… quirks. Over the years we have come to understand him and he has come to trust us. He’s a diva, a snuggler, he could play catch for hours, and he’s my husband’s shadow. 

We’ve never had a small breed dog before and it’s a whole different experience. But we adore Oscar and couldn’t imagine our life without him! Thank you for coming into our life Oskie McGoskie! 🐾❤️
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Fashion Advice, Swimwear · March 28, 2018

Shopping Hits and Misses: Madewell, Boden, Ellos, J. Crew, Amazon

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I told you there'd be a lot of these hits and misses! I haven't even lost 20 pounds since I started working out at the beginning of December, but with the increase in muscle most of my clothes are fitting weird or not fitting at all. My stomach is flatter, which makes a lot of my pants too long and saggy in the crotch. My breasts are smaller (went from a 38F to a 36DD), and while before I was in XL, 0X, 14W, and 16 Petite; now I am best in 14 Petite, L, and sometimes even a 12. A bunch of you have asked over the months for me to have photos with my hits and misses. Part of my Repair Mode is to get rid of the little bit of credit card debt I had and not add to it. Therefore, I am returning items next day so no interest accrues on my card. I missed photos for some of the items listed below, but will try to be more diligent in getting mirror selfies before I pack up and head to the post office.

Wardrobe Goals with these Purchases:

  • Replace my destroyed stripe shirt collection
  • Look for some transitional pieces that will carry me from early spring into summer and possibly fall, find items that will work for the weekend as well as a meeting or blogger event or day at my future coworking space (details TBA!)
  • Find relaxed yet not schlumpy style I can wear while at home, but not have to change when I head out for coffee or errands or to volunteer at my kid's school

Madewell

I have never shopped at Madewell before. Madewell isn't made for big girls. I have one camisole I got from them through Nordstrom and I only took a chance because all the reviews said the top was gigantic and to go down two sizes. Therefore their largest size fit me nicely though it was a bit short thanks to my boobs. But I thought… if I am back into 32 jeans and finding XL sometimes too big… will Madewell now work for me?

Denim Duster Coat – Large

madewell denim trench review

So for a few weeks I've been on the hunt for a denim trench. I wanted something longer than a utility jacket, fewer snaps and pockets and such than a denim jacket. Something more polished, but I could throw over a t-shirt and skinny jeans and flats and look pulled together, or belt over a black tee or turtleneck and leggings and have this chic look that only needs a red lip and maybe some badass earrings. I kept searching and everything was either sketchy cheap made in China companies that I refuse to support, or a million dollars. And then I saw this one, and one from J. Crew (see below). I ordered both. I worried about a Large Regular, but Madewell didn't offer petites and there was no way I was a Medium.

madewell denim duster trench dress reviewWell, this thing is big. I wish it came in Large Petite… but maybe now. Any way you look at it, this is not right. Too long, sleeves too long and full, the whole thing is just bulky. Maybe if it were lighter weight fabric I'd find it valuable enough to tailor, maybe if it had more style? I told my friend that this is cool but in a, “Dude, check out this awesome thing I found at the thrift store I'm going to wear it tonight!” kind of cool. Not in a, “Dude, this thing cost $178 and then I had to spend $100 to tailor it to fit me!” kind of cool. If you are taller, maybe slimmer, maybe have a life where you can wear big-brimmed hats and clogs and can afford $178 denim jackets, this could be great. I love the idea of wearing it like a dress, it does very well in that manner, actually better than as a jacket due to its stiffness. But for me, it's a fail and a reminder to go thrifting.

Wrap Top in Candied Orchids – Large

Oooh, a wrap top in black and white stripes with big red flowers on it. This top is SO ME! I'll wear it with my Universal Standard high-waisted jeans, I'll wear it with shorts this summer, I'll style it with white cropped denim or a black midi skirt. It will be amazing!

madewell Wrap Top in Candied OrchidsExcept that this top doesn't fit. Yes, the sleeves fit, yes my bra is covered and the neckline is flattering. However, the waistband is very snug and rides up every time I move. Also this top is SHORT! This photo is me pointing to my belly button while wearing my highest waist jeans (the Universal Standards). This is crazy, I am not long waisted. It's gotta be the boobs, right? I should have known from my Madewell tank, Madewell doesn't design for boobs. However, if you're smaller, size up and try this top. It's super pretty in person and I think would look chic if it could be oversized on your body. But for me this is a big fail.

Whisper Cotton V-neck Tank – Large

I figured, a sleeveless v-neck striped top would be great now under jackets and great in the summer. I'd throw it on with shorts, maybe knot it with a long hippie skirt, it's nothing mindblowing but a great staple.  And the positive reviews didn't hurt in making the decision to click Purchase.

madewell whisper cotton stripe v-neck t-shirtSeriously, I have found better fit and quality at Walmart. The armholes roll into themselves showing my bra. And I don't know about you, but I despise superfluous boob pockets. What's the point of a patch over my breast, especially when it's such a silly size and such silly placement? Fail.

J. Crew

As I mentioned above, I was on a mission for a denim trench coat and found one at J. Crew that had decent reviews. Not only that, it came in petites. And while I was there, they had 40% off so I ordered some other goodies.

Denim Trench Coat – Large and Petite Large

This trench is verrrrry much like the Madewell one. I got this one in the mail first, and when I got the Madewell one I considered not even trying it on because I feared it was a duplicate (Madewell is owned by J. Crew). I'm glad I tried the Madewell one because it is NOT the same. I liked the Madewell denim wash/finish better, the pockets were better placed, and the fabric had a better drape. Considering how I reviewed the Madewell coat you can tell I didn't like this one.

The Large was too big, bigger than the Madewell one likely by a whole size. It looked like an adult jacket given to a kid to cover her clothes while doing pottery or painting. The wash was lame, that flat light stonewash that has no character and always looks cheap. But the weirdest thing was the pockets. They were so high they were a bit under the waistband and you can't comfortably put your hands in them. Also at that height it took away any waist making you look like a big blue box.

The Large Petite fit me really well. So well, if it was more like the Madewell jacket I would have considered keeping it (J. Crew's was $82.80 with the promo code, far more my speed). I would have had a tailor shorten it, maybe even shorten the sleeves to bracelet length, wash it a kazillion times to soften it, maybe with salt to weather it. But instead it was from some goofy Kirkland denim with pockets hiding under the waistband so I returned it. Fail.

Lurex Wrap Sweater in Navy – Large

I didn't need this sweater so I'm glad it didn't fit. And glad it was itchy. Seriously, this fit similarly to the Madewell wrap top in that it was super short and not made for boobs. I had an entire breast falling out of the neckline. There's no safety pin on this planet that could contain the mess made from this goofy sweater. Fail.

Supersoft Supima T-Shirt in Stripes – Large

This was… fine. It was a relaxed fit striped t-shirt. I didn't need a shirt like this, even on sale for $21.90. If you need a soft striped t-shirt that fits like a t-shirt (I'd compare more to Lands' End tees versus say one from Hanes), this is a nice one and the Large fit me nicely. But for me, it was a miss.

Perfect-fit T-Shirt in Stripe – Large

My friend Carelia from My Small Wardrobe loves these shirts and sizes up for a relaxed fit. Carelia is a stickler for quality so I knew this wouldn't be a bad buy. I went with large because unlike her, I was looking for a more fitted tee to wear under overalls, with blazers, maybe tucked into a skirt. And it worked out! This is a really nice quality shirt, thick but super stretchy and it washes like a dream. You can see it below in my overalls review. Hit!

Double Circle Pendant Necklace in Gold

I ordered this so I could get free shipping. It's nice, and the price was good (with the promo code it was $23.90) but I don't need it. I didn't even take it out of the bubble wrap. I could use that $25 towards a denim trench or sushi or my next manicure. Not terrible, but for me it's a miss.

Boden

Boden's items are often backordered so purchases come in dribbles. This weekend I got a bag with two items, today while writing this I received another bag with two more items. I hope to receive the last piece before the 4th of July. But in all seriousness, Boden's spring collection is worth the wait. The colors, the prints, the fit… if you order the right size most of it is fantastic.

Tie Waist Shirt Dress in Sunset – 14 Regular

This seemed like a perfect dress for spring through summer. Breezy, crisp yet relaxed, could throw on with sandals or dress up with wedges. And pockets! I put it on and before I could even see my reflection, Karl said, “Did you get a job doing the night shift at Saint Elizabeth's?”

boden tie waist shirt dressHe was right, this looked like a uniform, something a nurse may have worn several decades ago. And yet again, a plea to Boden to make petites in sizes larger than 10 because I think this may have been less lame if it was shorter in the torso, sleeves, and length. But yeah, this was a fail.

Supersoft Ballet Back Tee in Stripe – 14

boden supersoft ballet neck striped teeThe goal for this was a comfortable striped shirt that wasn't boring and I think this achieves it. Boden makes great striped shirts, and this one is no different. The back is low, but not so low you can't wear your normal everyday bra. Not too tight to wear untucked, but can also tuck in and blouse out a bit. Hit!

Hampshire 7/8 Pants in Sap Green – 12R

boden hampshire 7/8 pants sap green

In this post I shared I ordered the pants in 14R and they were ginormous. Well, the 12 is tight. Painted on tight. And while an all-green suit on the Boden website looks smart and chic, on me I look like a leprechaun. Maybe if the pants weren't so tight and a bit more structured and an ankle length… but yeah these are a no. Fail.

Rinella Swimsuit in Multi Tropical – 14

I ordered the matching caftan but it hasn't yet arrived. I actually only ordered this suit after seeing the caftan. A few of you have raved about Boden swimwear so I decided to take a chance. I usually buy bathing suits that suck in the gut and have plenty of stuff on top to support the girls but decided to take a risk considering I have a different body this year.

Boden Rinella Swimsuit in Multi Tropical

I'm glad I did. This suit is so cute.There's molded full cups inside which gives shape to my post-nursing and weightloss breasts. The print is an optical illusion and you can't really tell what goes in and what goes out. I haven't worn this in the pool but I danced around and jumped up and down and I didn't get a wedgie and I didn't fall out of the top. I removed the neck strap and jumped around and everything slipped lower but didn't fall out. I wouldn't go swimming without the neck strap, but I could lie on the beach under an umbrella that way and not fear I'd have a wardrobe malfunction. The quality is really nice too, elegant details like the braided strap is long, sturdy, and the same fabric as the suit. The bodice has boning on the sides and completely molded cups, not inserts. I just wonder if by time summer arrives and once it gets wet the 14 may be too big? I decided to order it also in 12 and see which one fits best as we get closer to pool weather.

Amazon

Amazon gives incentives to bloggers who promote buying fashion through them. They get gift cards, free clothing, and various other goodies. I find shopping for fashion on Amazon frustrating and more often than not, a fail. If you search for a term, you get a hot mess of promoted cheap weird stuff with the occasional good thing mixed in. And then that good thing only comes in two sizes and has $24 shipping. I have the most success looking for a specific item – I find something I like at a department store or Zappos and then search brand and style name hoping to find it on Amazon in my size or a lower price.

Daily Ritual Women's Tissue Cotton Short-Sleeve V-Neck T-Shirt, 2-Pack in White and Heather Blue – Large

amazon daily ritual t shirt reviewAmazon provided me with a promo code to get these shirts, usually $20 for the pair, for free. Actually, I could choose from two pages of basics from their in-house brand Daily Ritual but these t-shirts looked like something I could actually use and something that would help me gauge the quality and fit of a brand I was unfamiliar with.

amazon daily ritual fashion reviewI took a risk going with a large considering I didn't know how it fit and am glad I did. These are fitted, perfect to wear under overalls and blazers and tucked into summer skirts. They're 100% cotton and super soft and tissue-weight which means the tendency to be sheer. I find the blue to be opaque, but the white is sheer enough that I'd wear only under something or tucked in (you can see the color of my skin but can't see any of my skin-colored t-shirt bra). I originally gave these shirts a positive review, but after putting the white shirt on again to show the Boden pants with the blazer I have to take it back. I tucked in the shirt and grabbed it to blouse it out and left dents all over the shirt. When I pulled the shirt out of the pants and took it off, the whole thing is crazy misshapen. I haven't washed it yet, but this doesn't seem like a durable shirt that will last. If you wish to baby the heck out of a v-neck, this could be fine as it's a flattering fit and I like the neckline. But even for $20 for a two-pack I think this isn't the best purchase. I wonder how the rest of the line is. Fail.

Carhartt Brewster Overalls – Large Short

carhartt overalls for womenIf you get my weekly newsletter you know I ordered these. I wear overalls a LOT now that I work from home. I wear my baggy beat-up faded ones with band tees when it's nice out and cableknit sweaters when it's not. My Universal Standard overalls are usually paired with a black cashmere crewneck. And then I saw someone on a street style blog in Carhartt overalls and I became obsessed. I justified the purchase because my baggy beat-up faded overalls are starting to get too big.

I like these. I like the dark wash, but that they're not heavy and stiff. I like that there's a zipper on the chest pocket so my iPhone won't fall on the floor when I use the bathroom. I like the reinforced knees and thighs which makes them look interesting and actually functional once I get over wearing overalls and use these for gardening. And I am thrilled to find overalls I don't have to cuff (though a think a single cuff with Birkenstocks this summer would be super cute). I've washed these twice and they look exactly the same (except that bit over the zipper folded up; I could iron it back but I don't really care very much). Hit!

Ellos

As I mentioned in this post, Ellos sent me some clothes for my giveaway blog post and none of them fit. I sent them all back and was smarter with my replacement order. FYI, all of these items were gifted by Ellos without any expectations to review or feature them on the blog or social media.

3/4 Sleeve Knit Maxi Dress in Black – Medium

ellos knit midi dressThis is not the kind of thing I usually wear, but I've found since working from home it's the kind of thing I often wish I had. This is essentially a t-shirt dress but with a more flattering sleeve length. The knit is like many Ellos knits I already own – tightly woven, saturated color, smooth finish, nice stretch. The medium is perfect – not skin tight but not frumpy. I wore this out with knee-high heeled boots and a scarf, but can see me wearing it on weekends with a straw hat and some trendy sneakers. In fact I'm wearing it now as I type it, though I'm not terribly chic by pairing it with my slippers! But this is a nice basic at a nice price (just under $40).

Off the Shoulder Tee in Navy Stripe – 10/12

ellos striped off the shoulder shirt

I have this shirt. I love this shirt. I wore this shirt in this post and I wore it to LA last year and so many places in between. It's been washed and dried and shoved in a beach bag with wet sandy towels and laundered with things like towels that dried off dogs and still looks great. But it's getting a bit big so I asked for the next size down. The next size down is much smaller which creates a completely different effect. Unlike the larger size which isn't really off the shoulder, this one is. But not too off the shoulder, you can easily tuck your bra straps under the neckline and they will stay in place. It's fitted, but not too tight. Similar to the J. Crew striped tee I kept. Hit!

Off-The-Shoulder-Tee in Navy Stripe – 10/12

ellos off the shoulder teeNo, this isn't a duplicate, it's a completely different shirt on the Ellos site. This one has variegated stripes and long sleeves. It also has a scooped hemline. But like the other shirt, in a 10/12 this is the same amount of off the shoulder and the same amount of tightness. I don't love this shirt as much, the sleeves are long on me and untucked I think it looks a bit weird in side profile with the curved hemline. But I like it tucked in and wore it yesterday with the Carhartt overalls (I shared the look on my InstaStories on my Instagram). I may like this better with white jeans. So not 100% hit, but still a hit!

Zip Front Hoodie in Black – Medium

I come home from the gym, have enough time to brush Emerson's hair and teeth and then take her to school. Right now it's cold and I throw my long parka on over my leggings and sweaty t-shirt, but the temps will be rising soon. I wanted something that would cover like my parka but not be so heavy. I was also thinking this was good work from home fashion – pair with black leggings, a cute t-shirt and boots and I could leave the house without looking like I was in my pajamas. And it accomplishes exactly what I hoped. It's not as saturated black as the dress, but it's sweatshirt fabric so it wouldn't look the same and it doesn't look faded. I wore it this past Friday to yoga and afterwards to pick up take-out dinner and didn't feel like I was in gym clothes. I haven't washed it yet (it's in the laundry which explains the lack of photo), but so far it's a hit!

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  1. Elaine Williams says

    December 31, 2021 at 11:04 am

    Thanks so much for your review on Ellos. I just got a catalogue but wasn’t sure about their fit and quality – their on sale prices are out of this World – but I needed more information. Thanks so much for this blog and your honest pictures and reviews. Very helpful!

    Reply
  2. Laure Miller says

    November 17, 2021 at 9:35 am

    You look SMASHING!! Beautiful! I’m a fan of Ellos clothing myself, and thanks for the helpful information on other brands. Currently saving a few dollars to splash out on some Universal Standard. Again, just to be clear – YOU LOOK AMAZING!

    Reply
  3. LauraU says

    October 12, 2020 at 3:33 am

    You’re awesome. I’m glad I stumbled onto your blog. I’m an instant fan!

    Reply
  4. Susie says

    April 1, 2018 at 12:54 pm

    Thanks! Just in time for some spring shopping. I’m trying the overalls, striped Jcrew shirt and ellos maxi. Hope you get credit via your affiliate links 🙂

    Reply
  5. CC says

    March 30, 2018 at 4:09 pm

    I live in NYC and routinely run into a stunning woman who wears tan Carhartt overalls often, with short ankle boots and a leather jacket. I love them, and her, and that you love them too! The overalls and swimsuit are great and look awesome on you.

    Reply
  6. CC says

    March 30, 2018 at 4:09 pm

    I live in NYC and routinely run into a stunning woman who wears tan Carhartt overalls often, with short ankle boots and a leather jacket. I love them, and her, and that you love them too! The overalls and swimsuit are great and look awesome on you.

    Reply
  7. Candice says

    March 29, 2018 at 8:14 pm

    Thanks for doing these type of posts! It is so helpful to see these clothes on a real woman who is not model tall.

    Reply
  8. Julia says

    March 29, 2018 at 3:48 pm

    Oh! Also, I bought a black t shirt maxi dress last year from Torrid. Like you, it was not something I would normally wear, but I LIVED in that thing last summer. It dressed up or down with accessories, I could tie a denim shirt over it for a different look, I used it as a beach coverup, wore to festivals, and considered buying a second one just to wear around the house. Definite wardrobe workhorse.

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  9. Julia says

    March 29, 2018 at 3:22 pm

    I actually love that newer strip shirt from ellos. It looks great on you! I had a boden swimsuit years ago and it was my favorite for so long. I wonder if it would be possible, without divulging too many professional secrets of your trainer, if you could do a post about your workout and eating routine? I know you’re not a workout/weight loss blog, but I think that’s why I’m interested in it, since you’ve found a way to work both into a normal life, not like the fitspo blogs and IG girls.

    Reply
  10. Beth says

    March 29, 2018 at 2:31 pm

    Question – what is the best place for good quality t-shirts for someone who wears a 12/14/16? Those Amazon shirts look good in the photos but I appreciate you sharing that they aren’t good quality. I feel like I pick up t-shirts that then don’t look good/wear well/wash well.

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    • Alison at Wardrobe Oxygen says

      March 29, 2018 at 2:41 pm

      One of my favorite places for T-shirts is Lands’ End. While they won’t have the latest trends, their knits hold up – they keep their shape, don’t pill quickly, and the colors stay saturated. If you haven’t shopped from them I recommend ordering your size and maybe one a size down also (free returns) because they often are a very relaxed shape and often are vanity sized.

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    • Julia says

      March 29, 2018 at 6:06 pm

      Torrid. They go as small as a 10 now, and their t shirts are designed on at least a D cup.

      Reply
  11. Lindsay says

    March 28, 2018 at 5:07 pm

    That Boden swimsuit is adorable on you! And that first striped shirt from Ellos is fab.

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  12. the cape on the corner says

    March 28, 2018 at 2:10 pm

    yes! appreciate the actual photos of these types of posts. it’s helpful to be able to see exactly why you returned/kept something. how strange about that last striped shirt…i liked it much better tucked. and yes to the red dress…petites that fit in the boobs, please! yeesh. that would have been super cute as a more fit n flare. i want to branch out to a shape besides a swing dress, but i feel rather dull in anything but that shape once it’s on b/c of 1) boobs, and 2) stomach. gah!
    b

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    • Alison Gary says

      March 28, 2018 at 2:24 pm

      Now that I am home during daylight hours, these kind of photos are easier. I put the mirror in front of Emerson’s bedroom door so it’s good to do while she’s at school 🙂

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  13. Alison says

    March 28, 2018 at 1:35 pm

    Always enjoys hits and misses! Both gives me inspiration for new items to try and reassures me that I am not the only one who totally strikes out sometimes!

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    • Alison Gary says

      March 28, 2018 at 2:23 pm

      Oh no, we ALL strike out. Nobody is built like the mannequins, and even the mannequins often have their clothes pinned to fit!

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  14. Marti says

    March 28, 2018 at 12:17 pm

    I love the hit or miss!! As mentioned above, I also thought the denim was a bathrobe! Love the way you write, Allie, and as I was thinking the green pants made your bum look very pert (something as I age I notice more) I got a big belly laugh out of your leprechaun description.
    I bought a pair of madewell jeans last summer, boyfriend style, and they have become my fave jeans!
    Thanks for the post – thoroughly enjoyed it.

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    • Alison Gary says

      March 28, 2018 at 2:22 pm

      Ooh I may have to try Madewell jeans when I need another pair! 🙂

      Reply
  15. Cecelia says

    March 28, 2018 at 12:04 pm

    I too love these posts.

    I have a denim trench from the Gap I bought sometime around 2003, wore it everywhere including on my honeymoon in San Francisco (spoiler alert, it’s cold in the summer). Was so excited to fit into it again last summer! Unfortunately I’m pregnant now so who knows if it’ll ever fit again, lol. But keep searching it really makes leggings and a tank top look like an outfit!

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    • Alison Gary says

      March 28, 2018 at 2:21 pm

      I had a denim utility jacket from Gap from around that time and it was such a perfect weight, wash, and detailing. Hrm…. I wonder if it’s in my attic!

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  16. ErinG says

    March 28, 2018 at 11:57 am

    Love these posts! That swimsuit looks amazing on you – and I love your little smile in the pic, too. Congratulations on your success with your journey to strength!

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    • Alison Gary says

      March 28, 2018 at 2:20 pm

      Thank you so much Erin!

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  17. Lee says

    March 28, 2018 at 11:25 am

    Count me in as another fan of these hits and misses posts! They are really helpful. I have the perfect fit t-shirt from J Crew that you got (the striped one) and it developed a hole in the arm pit area after a few months. And, it’s not like I wear it everyday. That irritated me…But, on a happier note, I took advantage of their 40% off 4 items sale last week and replaced my 3/4 sleeve navy/ivory t-shirt and am SO happy! You’d posted about it a few weeks ago, and it reminded me that it’s such a great shirt. My old one had developed holes around the stomach/waist area, so it needed replacing. I’m wearing it now with some olive green ankle pants and I love it–cute and comfortable.

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    • Alison Gary says

      March 28, 2018 at 2:20 pm

      Oh no that sucks about the shirt! And yes, isn’t that 3/4 sleeve shirt perfection? And I have an “evergreen” post I have in the queue about where those holes come from and how to prevent them!

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  18. MarlaD says

    March 28, 2018 at 11:12 am

    Is it just me, or is that denim duster basically a bathrobe? Anyway…you look great! I often try on things that are so off and I tend to blame myself, so it’s good to see you in that pink shirtdress and know I’m not alone! Being short is tough because it’s hard to visualize how something will look if it was a “normal” length. I love the off the shoulder striped top!

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    • Alison Gary says

      March 28, 2018 at 2:18 pm

      Oh yeah, it’s totally a stiff non-absorbent not cozy bathrobe! LOL!

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  19. Elizabeth says

    March 28, 2018 at 11:10 am

    That is a shame about the red shirt dress–it would look cute knee length or even just a few inches shorter. I LOVE that swimsuit! I usually dislike tropical florals but this one is more modern, maybe? Nice hits!

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    • Alison Gary says

      March 28, 2018 at 2:18 pm

      Yeah, I could make the red shirt dress work but it would take a lot of tailoring! And I am the same regarding tropical prints but this print I couldn’t resist!

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  20. Amanda K says

    March 28, 2018 at 11:08 am

    I love that you got overalls from Carhartt! When I taught horseback riding lessons they were my go to brand. Their stuff really lasts. I have some of their “dry fit” shirts, and they are made of a great fabric. Not the shiny sheers of many other brands, and it’s still cool and keeps my arms covered. I love Carhartt and almost wish they did office wear, haha.

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    • Alison Gary says

      March 28, 2018 at 2:10 pm

      I found these because Karl’s gardening pants had worn out. He had some Carhartts and I remembered back in the ’90s he used to have Dickies and Carhartt overalls so I decided to see if they had them for women and these are AWESOME.

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      • Anamarie says

        March 28, 2018 at 9:15 pm

        I bought some insulated/lined Carhartt overalls this winter to wear to fire scenes (I’m an attorney who coordinates fire investigations for my insurance company clients) and it never got cold enough to wear them in MN. I hope they fit next year!

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  21. Leslie says

    March 28, 2018 at 10:59 am

    You may have inspired me to try a striped shirt!

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    • Alison Gary says

      March 28, 2018 at 1:46 pm

      Yay! My work is done! 😉 Seriously though, striped shirts are an awesome wardrobe addition!

      Reply
  22. Christine says

    March 28, 2018 at 10:57 am

    LOVE your hit and misses posts. Several of the links are not working…. Ellos long jacket and perfect t-shirt in stripe.

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    • Alison Gary says

      March 28, 2018 at 1:44 pm

      I think they’re all working now, not sure what happened. Thanks for the heads up!

      Reply
  23. Susan says

    March 28, 2018 at 10:13 am

    Allie–you look great! Your weight loss and body changes are fantastic. I am so proud of you, and I hope you are proud of you, too.

    Love the hits and misses posts as it is fun to see your thought processes and consideration of the fit, quality, etc.

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    • Alison Gary says

      March 28, 2018 at 10:39 am

      Thanks Susan!

      Reply
  24. Morgan says

    March 28, 2018 at 9:37 am

    Ok what is up with J.Crew/Madewell with these short wrap shirts? I ordered the J. Crew one (I have been having really good luck with J. Crew lately for the first time in literal years) and it is so short. Again, like you said, BOOBS. At first, though, I liked it because I thought it looked cute with high waisted pants. Took the tags off and then I went downstairs to scrape snow off my car and my whole boob popped out. I was pulling on it all day until my assistant gave me a safety pin. And yet…the funnel neck shirt in the same sizing fits like a dream. Wassup J. Crew. I have looked at that Madewell one repeatedly but haven’t pulled the trigger, but I might in a larger size.

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    • Alison Gary says

      March 28, 2018 at 10:44 am

      I do love this top and do think if you can size up one or two it would fit nicely!

      Reply
  25. Katie says

    March 28, 2018 at 9:18 am

    I always love the Hits & Misses. I feel like the Amazon two-pack of tees, if it had just been the blue tee for a cheaper price, would have been a Hit because that blue really did look lovely on you.

    I LOVE the Boden swimsuit on you! I always end up defaulting to Lands End for swimsuits and Boden sizing/design ends up being really wonky to me. I went through a period of… probably three or four years where I would order, say, four things from Boden and have to return three, or sometimes the whole order, because the fit was super wonky. Shirts that seemed long on tall models ended up being short, they shrunk hideously in the wash despite being machine washable, etc. I eventually gave up ordering from them entirely but I always have an eye on their swimsuits and their basic Breton tees.

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    • Alison Gary says

      March 28, 2018 at 10:46 am

      I feel sizing has improved with Boden; when I started ordering from them a few years ago I was returning 99% of it. Now, I do better. However, it’s clear I am nowhere shaped like their fit model. Keeping in mind that like Madewell or Lou & Grey these clothes are for longer leaner bodies has helped me narrow down a bit… this order helped me realize their pants are NOT made for me!

      Reply
  26. Monica says

    March 28, 2018 at 8:25 am

    That’s the Boden swimsuit I was talking about in my WO Facebook Group post a couple weeks ago! With your helpful review, now I think it’s a “must order”. Did you feel it ran true-to-size or a little small? (I often find I have to go up in swimsuits because the trunk is too short in my normal size)

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    • Alison Gary says

      March 28, 2018 at 10:48 am

      I think it’s true to size, no running big unless you have very small breasts. I think I am a 14 in swimsuits (spoiler alert I ordered another from Talbots and it should arrive soon, that one too I ordered in 14).

      Reply

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Scenes from a Friday night…

We started at @littleblackbirddc a new wine bar in Cleveland Park where we had great food, drink, and conversation into the evening. We then headed down the street to @atomicbilliards for a whole different experience and to keep the conversation going. I treasure my friendships with @sylviacolella (who had a birthday recently), @districtofchic, and @blonde_inthedistrict they’re the real deal 🥰

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Night and day…

Met three dear friends for an early dinner that went on until after the sun set. Great food and conversation with some great women!

The dress is @adamlippes and I borrowed it from @renttherunway. The bag is @jcrew and a splurge but I regretted not buying it the last time they offered this bag and this color is SO me. I mean, look how great it is with these many years old suede heeled sandals? Meant to be!

This color combination makes me so happy, and this dress was comfy even after a decadent meal. We all deserve to experience comfort and joy with our wardrobes! 💛🩷

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If @thechicks are in town you can bet @debbiefaye78 and I will be there! So when we heard they were coming to @merriweatherpp we were so excited. And their concert did not disappoint. As always, a phenomenal show! If The Chicks come to your neck of the woods I highly recommend you go!

Okay I know you want to know about what we’re wearing! 

My sister’s caftan is from @anthropologie (bought this summer so maybe you can find on resale sites).

I’m wearing a @bananarepublic dress also from this summer with the @universalstandard denim chore jacket and a hat I got from a @madewell collab a year or so ago. I glammed it up with some gold chains and gold drop earrings, but kept it comfy for a night of standing and dancing with @birkenstock sandals.

This was my first big outing since my eye surgery, and with a pocketful of eye drops I felt good (and grateful we splurged for good seats!).

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If I close my eyes you can’t tell one is still bloodshot 😜

Still recovering from my eye surgery but feeling more myself. Getting dolled up helps me feel me. Bright colors and bold jewelry have been signature Alison since I was a kid! 

Sweater: @favorite.daughter 
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Happy gotcha day, Oscar! Four years ago he came into our life and we are so happy to have in our family!

Oscar was a rescue and came with some… quirks. Over the years we have come to understand him and he has come to trust us. He’s a diva, a snuggler, he could play catch for hours, and he’s my husband’s shadow. 

We’ve never had a small breed dog before and it’s a whole different experience. But we adore Oscar and couldn’t imagine our life without him! Thank you for coming into our life Oskie McGoskie! 🐾❤️

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I can see clearly now…

Actually I can’t, but things after my retina surgery are much improved! My next appointment is in a month and I’m cleared to get back into the world (with some restrictions to protect my eye).

With a sclera buckle, it changes your eye shape and now I am nearsighted again (I had lasik a few years ago). Once the eye is stabilized I can get glasses or contacts but until then I’m 20/20 in one eye and right now 20/60 in the other. But the eye is healing beautifully and I feel positive!

And I could see clearly enough to fall for this poppy-colored cotton jumpsuit from @pistoladenim. It comes in a few colors but this one is my favorite. I went with XL (im@a 14, sometimes 16) and likely could have sized down but I enjoy the relaxed fit and the drawstring waistband to create shape. And hello zipper closure making it super easy to get on and off!

My husband took this photo right after my eye appointment, I think it reflects my positive attitude and feeling of hope! 🧡

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I’ll be a bit quiet on here and other channels because I had eye (retinal) surgery this past weekend. I was having what I thought were ocular migraines but come to find out I was experiencing lattice degeneration, which is thinning/holes in the retina. I had surgery Saturday for my right eye and later on they’ll work on the left eye, which isn’t as bad and can be remedied by laser, in office.

I share not because I’m Mrs. Frizzle meets Iris Apfel as I recuperate at home, but because this whole thing has been a lesson on trusting my gut. And I want to remind you to do the same.

As we get older our bodies can feel like strangers. Things are constantly changing and it’s easy to just assume your annual physical will catch anything wrong. But if you slow down and listen to your body you’ll know when things are just a sign of aging and life and what seems unusual. That nagging issue may be something more serious.

And if you’re seeing flashing lights, floaters, spiderwebs or other odd eye things get checked out ASAP. It may be nothing but take it from me, it may actually be something. ❤️

Okay, going back to my big sunglasses caftan recuperation life!

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Ladies who lunch…

While in Savannah, I made sure to get lunch reservations for me and E at @theoldepinkhouse she loves the color pink, historic homes, and ghost stories so it was a perfect choice! 

Built in 1789 on Reynolds Square, there are stories of guests seeing ghosts, cutlery and wine bottles moving along with an elegant and truly delicious dining. 

While we didn’t see any apparitions, we did have a lovely lunch with impeccable service and after toured all floors of the home. I highly recommend a visit if you’re visiting Savannah!

My dress is from @cosstores (no longer available); hat is @furtalk and bag is @talbotsofficial (no longer available).

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Scenes from a week in Savannah… 

The three of us (and our dog Oscar!) had a warm and humid but wonderful time exploring Savannah, Georgia earlier this month. Our daughter visited this gorgeous city last summer with her @girlscouts troop but wanted to return to experience more. We let her choose our adventures and play your guide and it was awesome. We cannot wait to visit again, though next time it won’t be August 🥵

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Stripes are always right…

Y’all know I love stripes and when @universalstandard came out with their Breton-stripe dresses and tops I HAD to try them! As expected, the quality is stellar, the fit boosts my confidence, and I appreciate the range of colors (5 different stripes to choose from) and sizes (00-50). For reference, I’m wearing XS but preferred S for the top and I usually wear a 14 or XL in other brands.

The tote is @able and it’s a soft yet durable leather that just looks better with time. This color (cognac) is one that transitions nicely from summer to fall. 

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