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We started at @littleblackbirddc a new wine bar in Cleveland Park where we had great food, drink, and conversation into the evening. We then headed down the street to @atomicbilliards for a whole different experience and to keep the conversation going. I treasure my friendships with @sylviacolella (who had a birthday recently), @districtofchic, and @blonde_inthedistrict they’re the real deal 🥰

My dress is @adamlippes borrowed via @renttherunway and Cheetos with Sauvignon Blanc is a really fun pairing!
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Night and day…

Met three dear friends for an early dinner that went on until after the sun set. Great food and conversation with some great women!

The dress is @adamlippes and I borrowed it from @renttherunway. The bag is @jcrew and a splurge but I regretted not buying it the last time they offered this bag and this color is SO me. I mean, look how great it is with these many years old suede heeled sandals? Meant to be!

This color combination makes me so happy, and this dress was comfy even after a decadent meal. We all deserve to experience comfort and joy with our wardrobes! 💛🩷

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If @thechicks are in town you can bet @debbiefaye78 and I will be there! So when we heard they were coming to @merriweatherpp we were so excited. And their concert did not disappoint. As always, a phenomenal show! If The Chicks come to your neck of the woods I highly recommend you go!

Okay I know you want to know about what we’re wearing! 

My sister’s caftan is from @anthropologie (bought this summer so maybe you can find on resale sites).

I’m wearing a @bananarepublic dress also from this summer with the @universalstandard denim chore jacket and a hat I got from a @madewell collab a year or so ago. I glammed it up with some gold chains and gold drop earrings, but kept it comfy for a night of standing and dancing with @birkenstock sandals.

This was my first big outing since my eye surgery, and with a pocketful of eye drops I felt good (and grateful we splurged for good seats!).

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For years I’ve trusted @somaintimates for the right bras and the right fit but it had been a while since I visited a Soma boutique to try on all the styles they currently have for a large bust. I must say I was impressed! Knowledgeable staff, extensive collection in larger sizes, and some of the most comfortable and innovative bras in up to H cups! Each body is different but what I loved:

- The Stunning Push-Up: targeted for the DD+ customer gives amazing lift and great shape under fitted knits.

- The Unbelievable Lift Scoop Balconette: sexy, supportive, and so lightweight!

- The Embraceable Wireless: I’ve recommended this wireless bra for large busts for years and was in need for a new one! 

- The Stunning Support Smooth Balconette: this is the perfect t-shirt bra for large busts with padded straps and disappears under knits

- The Stunning Starlet Multi-Way Strapless: recently improved for more support and more comfort, this wireless bra stays put and gives fab shape

I also picked up some of Soma’s iconic Vanishing Edge panties which keep you line-free. The whole Vanishing collection is genius. I loved being able to donate my gently used bras at my local Soma boutique to give to those in need. We all deserve a lift and Soma strives to achieve that. It’s why I’ve been a fan and customer for years and am honored to partner with them. Soma is the perfect fitting bra solution. Visit the link in my bio to shop and to find your local Soma boutique! #SomaPartner #SomaBraFit #SomaStartsWithMe
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Still recovering from my eye surgery but feeling more myself. Getting dolled up helps me feel me. Bright colors and bold jewelry have been signature Alison since I was a kid! 

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Earrings: Amazon
Necklace: @_jennybird (old)
Ring: @realmfinejewelry 
Bra: @lovebravissimo 
Lipstick: @glossier 
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This wasn’t the first clothing swap and folks in town know my style (and my job) so there were some waiting for my arrival. Look how fast I cleared out this big bag! Speaking of the bag one other swap attendee said she got herself a Hulken after seeing mine in action!

It’s so great to know our old clothes are getting a good life and this bag makes carting them to the cafe so easy! I got my Hulken on Amazon, it comes in other colors and sizes too: https://amzn.to/48iTY4Y yep the bag is as great as all those ads you see on social media, I’m a big fan!
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We’ve never had a small breed dog before and it’s a whole different experience. But we adore Oscar and couldn’t imagine our life without him! Thank you for coming into our life Oskie McGoskie! 🐾❤️
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Fashion Advice, Swimwear · June 30, 2017

Summer Style Essentials for the Beach and Pool

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Summer Style Essentials for the Beach and PoolIt’s hot out, and the best way to beat the heat is heading to the local pool or beach. However, when you don’t feel confident about your figure this may not sound like the most enjoyable adventure. First things first, no one is scrutinizing your body like you do. Second, what you wear and bring can really improve your confidence and mental outlook on the experience. Below are the items I own, use, and love to feel great, look great, and be well prepared for days at the pool or beach:

A Quality Bathing Suit

I believe in paying for quality bras… and also quality bathing suits. Bathing suits can seem ridiculously priced, but when you find one that lifts, firms, camouflages, and brings confidence, it’s worth all the money in the world. But like bras, you can’t expect to find a great fit at any old retailer and what works for your best friend/cousin/favorite blogger may not be right for you.

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Don’t be afraid to order multiple styles and even sizes in the same style from retailers with free shipping and returns. You may be a 16 in one brand, a 12 in another, and even in the same brand another style may fit better in a size or two smaller or larger. Also go through the customer reviews; I often find the best reviews are those that are 2, 3, or 4 stars because these usually are free of emotion and full of facts as to why the suit is almost but not quite right for them.

What Style Swimsuit is Best?

I don’t believe there is a certain style of suit you should wear when you’ve reached a certain age or if you have a certain body shape. I do believe that many suits created to hide troublesome body parts can actually make the wearer look older and bigger. I recommend trying not just what you think will make you comfortable, but something slightly outside of your comfort zone.

I’m a fan of strapless one-piece suits for those with smaller or firmer breasts; with or without a skirt it’s a great option that’s flirty, flattering, and draws attention up to your face. I find the types made for compressing the midsection do even better with supporting the bustline.  Most come with a removable strap you can put on when you want to swim laps or take a dive into the surf.  I have the ‘Ray of Light' Avanti bandeau suit from Miraclesuit and find it supportive and flattering; J. Crew makes a really flattering bandeau one-piece that comes in larger cup sizes and a long torso option.

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Bikinis are surprisingly flattering for a variety of figures. These days you can find tops with wide straps, cup sizing, and plenty of support. Many bra brands also make swimwear and they come with great details like shaped cups, removable padding, adjustable straps, and wider bands for support.

If a bikini top isn’t a comfortable option for you, a tankini top is a great alternative. Especially for those who are different sizes on top and bottom or those with a long or short torso, a two-piece suit can give you a more custom fit.  Lands' End has a great selection of separates to mix and match for the perfect bikini or tankini for you.

As for bottoms, high waist styles are back with rouching, control panels, boyshort-style lower leg openings, skirts and skorts, and even waists that go up over your ribcage. For a smooth look, consider the super high waist bottoms under a tankini; the layered fabric also helps the top from rolling up.  I have this one from Magicsuit and love how it goes all the way up to under my bust, to turn a bikini top into what looks like a one-piece, or keeping my tankini tops in place and preventing muffin top.

There’s plenty of retro inspired swimsuits these days which is a great way to get coverage with plenty of style. Rouched torsos to whittle and disguise the midsection, skirts and more conservative leg openings, wider straps, and fun prints can all be found at a variety of retailers and this concept looks great on bodies of all shapes, sizes, and ages.  I love the Esther Williams collection of swimsuits that evoke her iconic style and come in standard and plus sizes.

Don’t sacrifice functionality for style. These days there’s plenty of styles that will let you swim laps, body surf, chase after little ones, and still look great. I’m a fan of Lands’ End Tugless one-piece suits which are a classic style, figure flattering, and you don’t have to worry about wedgies or slipping straps.

A Fabulous Swimsuit Cover-up

No matter your figure, a swimsuit cover-up is a wise purchase. While you technically can make do with an old tee shirt or dress, a piece made specifically for this purpose will likely be made with a shape to flatter and properly cover, and be of a fabric that handles moisture, sun, and sand.

For years my cover-up was one of my husband’s old button-front shirts. He’s over a foot taller than I so his XL Tall oxfords covered my rear without being a tent. However, this year I decided to get this cover-up shirt from Tommy Bahama and it’s a gamechanger. The lightweweight fabric dries super quickly and catches every beach breeze, the sleeves aren’t so long that I have giant donuts of fabric at each elbow, and it just looks more elegant. I’ve even worn it as a regular shirt, buttoned up over leggings and even tied at the waist with jeans and casual skirts.

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A cover-up is a way to show your personality. Love color and sparkle? Don’t be afraid of a fabulous caftan. More sporty? A French terry pullover or romper is a great choice. A cotton caftan in cheery colors is perennially preppy chic and available in a variety of pricepoints (I have one from Needham Lane and like it very much). If you’re comfortable with your top half but not your bottom, wide-leg drawstring pants in linen, cotton voile, chiffon, or lace are a chic alternative (and also look great paired with a coordinating tank or button-up tied at the waist). Cover-ups in crisp cotton or cotton voile dry much faster than jersey and don’t cling in humidity.

A Flip Flop Alternative

Anyone who has read this blog for more than one season knows I don’t like traditional flip flops. They’re not good for your feet, they’re not really good protection, they look cheap, and they make the worst sound when you walk. There’s plenty of footwear available out there that can provide more support, more style, and still be able to survive the summer elements of salt, sand, water, mud, and more.

This summer, my flip flop alternative is the Birkenstock Arizona Essential. Completely coated in washable EVA, these shoes have been a great choice at the ocean and the neighborhood pool. I chose white, which has been easy to keep bright with soap and water and the occasional swipe of a Magic Eraser. I also wear these on weekends with midi and maxi sundresses, boyfriend shorts, and linen pants.

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Consider a flip flop with more structure; brands like OluKai and Reef make attractive flip flops and sandals that are water friendly.  Vionic makes flip flops that are good for arch support and plantar fasciitis.

Sun Protection

Whether you love bathing in the rays or hiding in the shade, it’s important to protect yourself from the sun. The sun will cause wrinkles, reduce elasticity, increase freckles and age spots, emphasize the look of stretch marks and cellulite… and oh yeah it can also cause cancer. There’s no excuse in this day and age to go out in the sun without proper protection.

Don’t Skimp on SPF

The number of SPF is how many times longer you can stay in the sun than without sunscreen. This doesn’t mean that SPF 60 will prevent a tan and SPF 6 will protect equally yet give you more of a tan. It also doesn’t mean a higher SPF will last longer on your skin. You should be applying at least the equivalent of a shot glass worth of water-resistant sunscreen to your body; it's best to apply it at least 15 minutes before going outside. Reapply every two hours or after sweating or going in the water.  Spray sunscreens make it easier to reach all parts of you, but it’s easier to miss a spot. I like using both, starting first with the lotion on face, shoulders, décolleté and spots that get the most sun like tops of thighs, upper arms, and tops of feet. Then I hit everywhere with the spray. Formulas made for babies and children are usually very light on fragrance, gentle to skin, and water resistant.

Sunglasses are a Must

Sunglasses are an accessory that can really make your look. Luckily these days it’s easy to find stylish shades that are also hardworking. Companies like Zenni offer stylish options for prescription lenses for less, and companies like Lens Direct have designer brands available for prescription sunglasses. Maui Jim makes stylish sunglasses with incredibly polarized lightweight lenses that are amazing for driving, outside sports, or just seeing the beauty of nature.

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One of the best pair of sunglasses I ever owned I found at a truck stop in Kentucky. You don’t need to spend a lot for sunglasses, but it’s worth it to spend time to find a truly perfect pair for your personal style and face shape, and buy a backup pair. I have a large face and find Ray-Ban 62mm aviator sunglasses to be the right choice for me. It’s a style that is classic; I’ve been wearing them for a decade and don’t feel the need to switch them out with current trends. Finding a classic style or a brand that fits your face nicely makes purchasing replacements easier and increases your personal style.

Hats are Hip

I am so glad hats are back in fashion, there’s no reason not to wear one when you’re out in the sun! While previous seasons have been very specific about trends, this summer it seems all styles are a go. I have an old Panama hat I wear to the pool and beach; since it’s not new I don’t mind if it gets a bit sandy or splashed with chlorinated water. It’s a bit loose on me so it’s easy to pile all my hair up in it to keep it off my neck. I have a packable hat that is great for shoving into a suitcase to have on hand for a tropical getaway, and a classic straw fedora I wear with sundresses and shorts for day outings and trips to the farmer’s market.

Hats are also an accessory where you can find them at most any pricepoint. However, if all the hats in Target look wonky on your head, don’t discount hats altogether. Sometimes with hats, price does matter when it comes to fit and style. The old Panama hat I wear I bought at Loehman’s when I was in 8th grade; it’s proof that quality can be worth it in the long run. When you have a hat that fits and flatters, you’re more likely to wear it, not only upping your style quotient but also protecting yourself from the sun’s harmful rays.

A Bag Just for the Occasion

For years I made do with a Lands’ End canvas tote when heading to the pool or beach. I have a few of the and it didn’t seem to make sense to buy a separate bag. That is, until Scout send me their Original Deano tote. The bag is lighter weight, it keeps it shape whether full or empty, I can rinse it if something spills in it, I don’t freak out if it gets wet or sandy or salty. It protects the contents from the elements, and its structure keeps everything in place (unlike a canvas bag where everything falls to the bottom center).

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I keep the Scout tote with my beach towels so it’s easy to find and pack up. I never use it for groceries or the farmers market so it’s always at the ready. While you don’t need this specific bag, look for one that coordinates nicely with your swimsuit and coverup (because, why not?), is lightweight, has a size and structure that works with your lifestyle, and can handle salt, chlorine, sun, splashes, or sand.  Mesh and woven bags are great for letting items air out and filtering out sand; if a fabric bag be sure it can easily be laundered.

A Grown Up Beach Towel

One of the best gifts I ever received was a beach towel from Lands’ End. In my favorite color, this towel was monogrammed with my name. I received it over a decade ago. It’s oversized, super thick, and even with years and years of washings, dryings, hanging over balconies dripping with salt or chlorine, being stuck too long in a trunk while damp, and being used in an emergency to dry off a wet dog, it looks almost new. When you’re prepared for the event, you have more confidence. Accessories add polish and complete a look. And yes, a towel in this situation can be seen as an accessory!

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I can’t rave about Lands’ End towels enough. However, it’s not the only place for high quality and nicely sized towels. Boll & Branch makes some of the nicest beach towels that hold up beautifully. Kassatex makes amazing beach towels and they can be found at a variety of retailers. I’ve found amazing towels at TJ Maxx and Marshall’s too.

The Completed Look

I use the examples throughout the post to show how a pulled together look can really show confidence and style, and also draw attention away from your figure. These three selections aren’t size specific or age specific, they are specific to one’s personal style and taste. You deserve to have fun this summer. If your figure is holding you back, consider indulging, not punishing it. You never know, a new pool outfit may be just what the doctor’s ordered!

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  1. Mary says

    July 5, 2017 at 10:34 am

    You are so right about how many of the suits meant to “disguise” trouble areas just make you look frumpy and heavier! If more coverage makes you more comfortable for practicality or modesty reasons, that’s great, but if we could get out of this mindset of less skin showing=skinnier looking=better, that would do us all some good!

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    • Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

      July 5, 2017 at 11:06 am

      Agreed!

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  2. Little Black"domicile"! says

    July 3, 2017 at 5:52 pm

    You are making even the holdouts want to have several beach get ups in the closet!-Laurel

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    • Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

      July 5, 2017 at 11:05 am

      Thanks!

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  3. Patricia says

    July 1, 2017 at 7:59 am

    Good reminder that it’s worth spending a little more on a chic suit that makes one feel great. And accessorizing it properly with an equally chic cover up and beach bag. I’m worth it!
    Now time to dig thru all my old suits and send a bunch to the thrift store…

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    • Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

      July 5, 2017 at 11:02 am

      That’s a great task Patricia!

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  4. Lee4 says

    June 30, 2017 at 1:21 pm

    Great post! You are so good at this! As someone who does not like the way I look in a swimsuit, I’m also someone who loves pool & beach time. I started buying Lands End tankinis with the mini swim skirts about 10 years ago and have been so happy with them. The quality is excellent–I’ve still got all of them b/c they really hold up well. I make sure to wash on gentle (usually in a bag) and air dry. This year I ordered a similar style from Talbots & it seems to be of the same quality. Wearing the swim skirt makes me feel better b/c I don’t like my hips, so I’m a tad more covered. The mini one is my favorite (rather than the regular skirt) b/c it seems a little less dowdy. I don’t want to miss out on summer fun & you’re so right about finding a suit that makes us feel good!

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    • Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

      July 5, 2017 at 11:02 am

      Yes to all of this!

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Met three dear friends for an early dinner that went on until after the sun set. Great food and conversation with some great women!

The dress is @adamlippes and I borrowed it from @renttherunway. The bag is @jcrew and a splurge but I regretted not buying it the last time they offered this bag and this color is SO me. I mean, look how great it is with these many years old suede heeled sandals? Meant to be!

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If @thechicks are in town you can bet @debbiefaye78 and I will be there! So when we heard they were coming to @merriweatherpp we were so excited. And their concert did not disappoint. As always, a phenomenal show! If The Chicks come to your neck of the woods I highly recommend you go!

Okay I know you want to know about what we’re wearing! 

My sister’s caftan is from @anthropologie (bought this summer so maybe you can find on resale sites).

I’m wearing a @bananarepublic dress also from this summer with the @universalstandard denim chore jacket and a hat I got from a @madewell collab a year or so ago. I glammed it up with some gold chains and gold drop earrings, but kept it comfy for a night of standing and dancing with @birkenstock sandals.

This was my first big outing since my eye surgery, and with a pocketful of eye drops I felt good (and grateful we splurged for good seats!).

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If I close my eyes you can’t tell one is still bloodshot 😜

Still recovering from my eye surgery but feeling more myself. Getting dolled up helps me feel me. Bright colors and bold jewelry have been signature Alison since I was a kid! 

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Earrings: Amazon
Necklace: @_jennybird (old)
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Actually I can’t, but things after my retina surgery are much improved! My next appointment is in a month and I’m cleared to get back into the world (with some restrictions to protect my eye).

With a sclera buckle, it changes your eye shape and now I am nearsighted again (I had lasik a few years ago). Once the eye is stabilized I can get glasses or contacts but until then I’m 20/20 in one eye and right now 20/60 in the other. But the eye is healing beautifully and I feel positive!

And I could see clearly enough to fall for this poppy-colored cotton jumpsuit from @pistoladenim. It comes in a few colors but this one is my favorite. I went with XL (im@a 14, sometimes 16) and likely could have sized down but I enjoy the relaxed fit and the drawstring waistband to create shape. And hello zipper closure making it super easy to get on and off!

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I’ll be a bit quiet on here and other channels because I had eye (retinal) surgery this past weekend. I was having what I thought were ocular migraines but come to find out I was experiencing lattice degeneration, which is thinning/holes in the retina. I had surgery Saturday for my right eye and later on they’ll work on the left eye, which isn’t as bad and can be remedied by laser, in office.

I share not because I’m Mrs. Frizzle meets Iris Apfel as I recuperate at home, but because this whole thing has been a lesson on trusting my gut. And I want to remind you to do the same.

As we get older our bodies can feel like strangers. Things are constantly changing and it’s easy to just assume your annual physical will catch anything wrong. But if you slow down and listen to your body you’ll know when things are just a sign of aging and life and what seems unusual. That nagging issue may be something more serious.

And if you’re seeing flashing lights, floaters, spiderwebs or other odd eye things get checked out ASAP. It may be nothing but take it from me, it may actually be something. ❤️

Okay, going back to my big sunglasses caftan recuperation life!

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Aug 30

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Ladies who lunch…

While in Savannah, I made sure to get lunch reservations for me and E at @theoldepinkhouse she loves the color pink, historic homes, and ghost stories so it was a perfect choice! 

Built in 1789 on Reynolds Square, there are stories of guests seeing ghosts, cutlery and wine bottles moving along with an elegant and truly delicious dining. 

While we didn’t see any apparitions, we did have a lovely lunch with impeccable service and after toured all floors of the home. I highly recommend a visit if you’re visiting Savannah!

My dress is from @cosstores (no longer available); hat is @furtalk and bag is @talbotsofficial (no longer available).

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Aug 29

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Scenes from a week in Savannah… 

The three of us (and our dog Oscar!) had a warm and humid but wonderful time exploring Savannah, Georgia earlier this month. Our daughter visited this gorgeous city last summer with her @girlscouts troop but wanted to return to experience more. We let her choose our adventures and play your guide and it was awesome. We cannot wait to visit again, though next time it won’t be August 🥵

For more of our trip check the “Savannah” highlight on my profile page!

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Aug 28

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Stripes are always right…

Y’all know I love stripes and when @universalstandard came out with their Breton-stripe dresses and tops I HAD to try them! As expected, the quality is stellar, the fit boosts my confidence, and I appreciate the range of colors (5 different stripes to choose from) and sizes (00-50). For reference, I’m wearing XS but preferred S for the top and I usually wear a 14 or XL in other brands.

The tote is @able and it’s a soft yet durable leather that just looks better with time. This color (cognac) is one that transitions nicely from summer to fall. 

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