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Okay I know you want to know about what we’re wearing! 

My sister’s caftan is from @anthropologie (bought this summer so maybe you can find on resale sites).

I’m wearing a @bananarepublic dress also from this summer with the @universalstandard denim chore jacket and a hat I got from a @madewell collab a year or so ago. I glammed it up with some gold chains and gold drop earrings, but kept it comfy for a night of standing and dancing with @birkenstock sandals.

This was my first big outing since my eye surgery, and with a pocketful of eye drops I felt good (and grateful we splurged for good seats!).

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Still recovering from my eye surgery but feeling more myself. Getting dolled up helps me feel me. Bright colors and bold jewelry have been signature Alison since I was a kid! 

Sweater: @favorite.daughter 
Earrings: Amazon
Necklace: @_jennybird (old)
Ring: @realmfinejewelry 
Bra: @lovebravissimo 
Lipstick: @glossier 
Pins as “cufflinks”: vintage

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It was so funny and so quick I couldn’t not share! I bought this @hulkenbag a year ago and use it all the time. Carting shoot supplies, groceries, packing for road trips, and carting donations. This weekend @thenewdealcafe in @cityofgreenbelt hosted a community clothing swap so I made sure my family and I went through our summer wardrobes to gather that which we no longer needed or fit.

This wasn’t the first clothing swap and folks in town know my style (and my job) so there were some waiting for my arrival. Look how fast I cleared out this big bag! Speaking of the bag one other swap attendee said she got herself a Hulken after seeing mine in action!

It’s so great to know our old clothes are getting a good life and this bag makes carting them to the cafe so easy! I got my Hulken on Amazon, it comes in other colors and sizes too: https://amzn.to/48iTY4Y yep the bag is as great as all those ads you see on social media, I’m a big fan!
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Happy gotcha day, Oscar! Four years ago he came into our life and we are so happy to have in our family!

Oscar was a rescue and came with some… quirks. Over the years we have come to understand him and he has come to trust us. He’s a diva, a snuggler, he could play catch for hours, and he’s my husband’s shadow. 

We’ve never had a small breed dog before and it’s a whole different experience. But we adore Oscar and couldn’t imagine our life without him! Thank you for coming into our life Oskie McGoskie! 🐾❤️
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I can see clearly now…

Actually I can’t, but things after my retina surgery are much improved! My next appointment is in a month and I’m cleared to get back into the world (with some restrictions to protect my eye).

With a sclera buckle, it changes your eye shape and now I am nearsighted again (I had lasik a few years ago). Once the eye is stabilized I can get glasses or contacts but until then I’m 20/20 in one eye and right now 20/60 in the other. But the eye is healing beautifully and I feel positive!

And I could see clearly enough to fall for this poppy-colored cotton jumpsuit from @pistoladenim. It comes in a few colors but this one is my favorite. I went with XL (im@a 14, sometimes 16) and likely could have sized down but I enjoy the relaxed fit and the drawstring waistband to create shape. And hello zipper closure making it super easy to get on and off!

My husband took this photo right after my eye appointment, I think it reflects my positive attitude and feeling of hope! 🧡

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A decade ago I was working full time in an office and was promoted to manage a good portion of my department. My blog was doing quite well, I was featured in local and national publications and websites. I was embracing what I felt to be a polished professional with an edgy vibe. Less color, more interesting accessories, and my first semi-designer bag (I still have that leopard print mini M.A.C. In the back of my closet). 

I have come to embrace color and have way less black in my closet now, but a lot of these looks are timeless and I would wear now… just likely with lower heels! 😂

Do you recall what you were wearing a decade ago? How similar is it to how you dress now?

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Fashion Advice · October 28, 2022

Thanksgiving Looks for Grown-ass Women

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Dude, wasn't it just Labor Day? And now I am shivering in my house in socks and a fleece refusing to turn on the heat and admit it's October. But Halloween is upon us and that is the beginning of the snowball that is the holiday season. Before you get caught in the avalanche, check your closet. Nothing is worse than a wardrobe panic hours before a house full of people. So it's early, but I am going to offer some suggestions for Thanksgiving looks for us grown women.

What Makes a Thanksgiving Look for Grown Women Different?

What makes a Thanksgiving look for grown women different from other folks? It has nothing to do with trends and I hope by now you know I believe any person of any age can wear whatever the eff they want. What I'm talking about with a grown-woman Thanksgiving outfit is:

  1. You don't overheat in it. No polyester or acrylic, no high necks, no need for a pair of control undies. Whether it's racing around the kitchen or trying to survive a hot flash, Thanksgiving is not the time to be overheating.
  2. It won't attract gravy. You know what I'm talking about. Those chest ruffles, that cowl neck, those lantern sleeves, those fashionable details that will brush over the turkey, collect crumbs, and get darn close to catching on fire from the tapers in the centerpiece.
  3. It's functional. Unless you are a guest at a large or catered event, there's a good chance you will be active. You'll be helping to pull things from the oven, set the table, refill glasses, grab a bag of ice from the garage, or maybe take a post-meal walk around the block. You have pockets to hold your phone, or your tissues, or your lip balm.
  4. You don't have to futz with it. You can go to the bathroom without being double-jointed. And you can leave the bathroom without a full-length mirror, knowing your outfit won't be discombobulated. You don't have to keep tucking and re-buttoning and adjusting. It's not something to stress over all night.
  5. It's appropriate for the situation. For some, Thanksgiving is a time to get all decked out. For others, it's a big family meal after a game of touch football. There is no one way to celebrate Thanksgiving in the United States; you want to dress to be able to enjoy the occasion as much as possible. I promise you that, as a grown woman, participating is far more attractive than any ensemble from your closet.

Essentially, you deserve comfort and joy this holiday season. May your outfit fill you with comfort and joy, and may this article help you achieve just that.

What Does It Mean For an Outfit to Be Appropriate to a Situation?

What does it mean for an outfit to be appropriate to a situation? I'm not talking about dress codes and formality, I am talking about function. A functional outfit will increase the comfort and joy quotient of Thanksgiving or any other occasion this season.

Do you get hot easily, especially in crowds or with relatives? Then my friend, that before style or figure flattery or impressing your snobby cousin takes priority when picking out a Thanksgiving look. Don't set yourself up, grown women know confidence comes with being comfortable and you will not be comfortable in that angora sweater.

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Do your feet get fussy? Take care of the hardest working part of your body, especially on a holiday. Get yourself some comfy holiday shoes. No, I am not saying switch from heels to flats but consider a comfy holiday shoe. Think an elevated version of a slipper, a velvet mule or loafer, or even a fresh pair of your favorite comfort shoes, kept just for special occasions, maybe even decked out with some crystals (search YouTube “how to embellish sneakers with crystals” and you'll find lots of tutorials).

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If you love heels, find heels that love you in return. Cushioned insoles, block heels, ergonomic design… holiday are more joyous when you're comfortable. Keep that mantra going: comfort and joy, comfort and joy. You deserve comfort and joy this holiday season.

So What Does a Grown Woman Wear for Thanksgiving?

I'm going to share some Thanksgiving looks for grown women that are ideas. Again, remember you need to dress appropriately to YOUR situation, not mine, and not a TV show or a magazine or your favorite influencer. There is no wrong way to Thanksgiving.

1: Blouse (or Elevated Sweater) and Trousers (or Dark Jeans)

The mainstay of the “don't need a dress but can't wear sweats” event, a blouse and trousers. The only change I'd say in 2022 is your blouse should be an actual blouse, and not a polyester pullover embellished with lace or sparkles or ruffles. Those days are gone. If you feel more comfortable in a knit pullover, I recommend something more like a sweater than a poly or jersey top. You will look more polished in 2022.

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Bottom row, left to right: one (2-22) | two (XXS-3XL) | three (14-28) | four (2-20/22) | five (XS-XXL)

Depending on your personal style aesthetic, this blouse may be a printed button-front shirt tucked into cords, or this blouse may be a sheer ruffled confection over a camisole and silk shantung cigarette pants. It may be a matched set: printed shirt over wide-leg pants or it may be plaid trousers with a silk tee. The point is this look is a step up from Business Casual, and it is okay to be a little bit “more” due to it being a holiday.

When I mean “more,” this means you can be a bit more colorful, a bit more dressy, a bit more fantastical, a bit more matchy-matchy. For example, I find Thanksgiving a perfect time to wear a sparkly brooch that may seem hokey a week prior.

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If your Thanksgiving is more the kind where you'll be outside around a fire pit, working the grill, or watching the kids play, it may be the right event for a blouse and dark jeans. And depending on the situation, that blouse may be replaced by an elevated sweater.

With jeans, I'd keep them a darker wash or a color so the look is more family holiday than everyday. Bypass the skinny jean for a straight, wide-leg or bootcut alternative to look modern and be comfortable. Blouses can be tucked in or out; the same with sweaters. If you choose a sweater I recommend one that feels elevated: an interesting neckline, embellishment, a more luxe yarn, a holiday color or theme.

2: Sweater Dressing

No better time than Thanksgiving to be cozy. This is a great time for a sweater dress or a sweater and matching skirt or pants. What's great about sweater dressing is it's so good with boots. Tall boots (flat or any heel height), cowboy boots, taller ankle boots (with matching tights or bare), even combat boots look chic with a sweater dress.

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Along with this, a sweater with matching long cardigan or duster is also great for the holidays. Paired with a dark-colored bottom it's a cozy classic. You can go with a pant (straight to wide leg) or a skirt. I would pass on the leggings unless you know they're best for your occasion; trends are going looser and a wider leg may look more modern (and make it easier when it comes to footwear).

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Bottom row, left to right: one (XXS-XXL + petite) | two (XXS-XXL + petite) | three (cardigan, shell, pants sizes 0-22) | four (10-34/36) | five (0X-3X)

Consider an autumnal color to feel festive. While the colors of falling leaves are always on trend for Thanksgiving, I would also add in there jewel tones (you'll see a lot of purples and teals in stores) and don't be afraid to add a festive scarf, brooch, necklace, or earrings.

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3: Shirtdress (or Blousedress)

Switch out that floral-printed rayon shift or dress with an elasticized waist with a shirtdress. It's a bit more elevated, a bit more sophisticated, but can be just as comfortable and will feel festive.

There are a lot of styles of shirtdresses; for Thanksgiving one that isn't fitted on the bottom half and hits around the knees to the ankles is a safe bet. It could be taffeta or twill, corduroy or denim, matte jersey or silk. It could feel modern or retro. Go with a print or a solid, just the style of this dress will feel seasonally and holiday appropriate.

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A blousedress is the same concept as a shirtdress, but instead of focusing on the buttoning down the front, it has a more subtle closure but the details of a blouse. Tie neck, ruffle-trim, smocked yoke, puffed sleeves, all those pretty details of a blouse are found this season in dresses of varying lengths.

A wrap dress is an alternative that is great for such occasions. Just look for a style that has a neckline you find comfortable to wear even if you are sitting. Often a dress that looks lovely standing in a fitting room or in front of your bedroom mirror changes and ends up with a lower neckline once seated.

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Choose a dress that has a fuller skirt that hits at knee or longer so you can bend down to open the oven, sit on the floor with the kids and play, wear slip shorts instead of shapewear, and have pockets deep enough to hold your essentials. I recommend a fabric that doesn't crease easily since you will be sitting.

What About [Enter Other Kind of Look Here]?

I am not an expert on every part of this country, every culture, every community. Keep in mind the holidays are about comfort and joy and repeat that mantra as you choose an outfit that is comfortable and makes you feel some joy.

Maybe it's a football jersey and leggings because your family equates Thanksgiving to football. Maybe it's a tunic-length sweater with a giant turkey on the front because it's your signature outfit. Maybe your family goes all out for the holiday and it wouldn't be Thanksgiving without sequins. Maybe you feel most comfortable in your favorite dress, or your favorite pants. Or maybe your family tradition is wearing pajamas to the dinner table.

If I didn't mention it, it doesn't mean it's a Thanksgiving look faux pas. There is no wrong way to do Thanksgiving, don't let the media think you need to change anything about you or your traditions. You do you, you wear what brings you comfort and joy, but don't be afraid to have a little fun. That's one of the perks of being a grown woman, we have fewer f*cks to give but we still give a sh*t so we can do things like wear turkey sweaters or a Thanksgiving-themed dress or sparkly brooches shaped like squirrels.

Comfort and Joy

The holidays are around the corner. Life is already hard and this time of year can be extra stressful. As you add things to your social calendar or your closet, repeat the mantra, “comfort and joy.” If it's not providing comfort and joy, do you really need it? Give yourself some time to breathe, know a dress won't change your life (or your in-law's opinion of you), and with this space give yourself grace and time to take it all in. Because just as it feels like Labor Day was just last week, before we know it the season will be over.

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  1. Krista says

    November 7, 2022 at 8:54 am

    I’m a bit late with this comment, but I second the shoes! My blingy slip on sneakers are so fun. And I’m comfy. I know it’s a day of running in and out (smoked turkey is the best) football, crazy dogs and too much food. I’ll be in something sleeveless with extra setting spray for the win!

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  2. Zaeobi says

    October 30, 2022 at 9:53 am

    Whilst we don’t celebrate Thanksgiving in this part of the world, I appreciate that most of the outfits here would work for any ‘festive family dinner’ (a situation with which I’m sure most folk are familiar). Thanks for emphasising comfy joy!

    Also wanted to say thanks for the revamp of the product photos – seeing them in both vertical & horizontal rows makes it easy to scroll each ‘block’ of images on mobile at once. The overlapping model photos work too. Thanks for taking audience feedback on the chin – it’s nice to know we’re listened to here, Allie 🙂

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  3. Amy Scott says

    October 29, 2022 at 7:41 am

    This was so helpful! The last several years I have worn short sleeves or 3/4 length sleeves in an autumnal color. One year I wore a short sleeved mustard velvet top from Old Navy. It was perfect! Last year I wore a loose, cooling fabric blouse in autumn colors and jeans. I get hot because I am standing around an in law”s kitchen and I am drinking alcohol to deal with family – lol. That equals hot! This year I would like to wear a dress and boots, but the weather will be my first determining factor.

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  4. ErinG says

    October 28, 2022 at 6:29 pm

    Great article! Made me think of my mother in law who wore a cardigan with knit apple cores all over it every Thanksgiving since I met her 18 years ago. A few years ago aI mentioned it to the kids a few years ago and they asked her- she told them, “I like to wear it for Thanksgiving- I’ve worn it for more than 20 years.” Last Thanksgiving, she didn’t wear the sweater! One of my boys asked her why – and she said, “I decided I didn’t want to wear it for Thanksgiving anymore.”
    She is very much not interested in fashion, clothes, accessories, etc, and this whole line of thought was so incredibly foreign to me!

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  5. Rebecca says

    October 28, 2022 at 3:09 pm

    I love sweater dresses but they don’t love me because of my prominent tummy (I was recently measured at my gym and my waist is 37″ and my hip 41″–the antithesis of hourglass and the typical women’s body), but I will be wearing a knit sweater and skirt set for Thanksgiving (empty nesters who will be eating out, so I can rock a boot with a heel and dress more warmly than if I were slaving in a kitchen!). I got mine a couple years ago from a Dutch company called Studio MYR and the skirt in particular is cut perfectly (and knit skirts usually have elastic waists), but I also got one at the last Nordstrom anniversary sale from Club Monaco and I was thinking of the set you, Alison, got from MMLaFleur. I just think knit sets are chic but comfortable with forgiving waists, and the tops often help me conceal my tummy.

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  6. Susan L says

    October 28, 2022 at 12:10 pm

    So, I have an undergarment question. I recently bought an Eileen Fisher knit dress, and being between sizes and on the advice of the sales lady, I bought the smaller size. Now a need a light shaper to smooth the rolls on the side of my hips- with legs for thigh chafing too. Thoughts?

    Also, in one of the photos above, one of the dresses is styled with nice sneakers. Is it ok to have a bare leg? Being 5’4”, the dress on me is not a midi as shown on the model haha.

    Thanks sooooo much!!

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    • Alison Gary says

      October 28, 2022 at 12:31 pm

      I have this underbust shaper from TC Intimates I love because it’s bike shorts and I can wear my standard bra and things are super smooth without looking like a stuffed sausage.

      Link: https://wo2.us/3fh7248

      Spanx and some other brands carry similar. It has an open gusset so you can use the bathroom. Different brands design these gussets differently, not all work for all so do a squat test before wearing (a PSA for all).

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    • RoseAg says

      November 1, 2022 at 7:27 pm

      It seems wrong to have an Eileen Fisher dress that requires shapewear.
      How about a pair of Granny Panties, a full slip and tights?
      The high waisted panties will cover your tummy roles, the slip will keep everything slip-sliding over curves, and the tights will sub in for bike shorts.

      Heck, it’s Eileen Fisher, you could even do footless leggings.

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      • Susan L says

        November 2, 2022 at 12:10 pm

        Good thoughts. It’s a knit dress so when I washed it, I pulled out the tighter area which helped a lot. My 3rd baby was 10.1 lbs and my silhouette has never been the same. I like the idea of slip-sliding! Thanks

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  7. Bernice Ezell says

    October 28, 2022 at 11:31 am

    Great article! A joy to read
    Both informative and comical
    Greatly appreciate the examples.

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  8. Laura says

    October 28, 2022 at 11:05 am

    Alison, this was a great roundup but even better is your encouraging advice to focus on -NOT the clothes per se- comfort and joy. Thank you!

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I can see clearly now…

Actually I can’t, but things after my retina surgery are much improved! My next appointment is in a month and I’m cleared to get back into the world (with some restrictions to protect my eye).

With a sclera buckle, it changes your eye shape and now I am nearsighted again (I had lasik a few years ago). Once the eye is stabilized I can get glasses or contacts but until then I’m 20/20 in one eye and right now 20/60 in the other. But the eye is healing beautifully and I feel positive!

And I could see clearly enough to fall for this poppy-colored cotton jumpsuit from @pistoladenim. It comes in a few colors but this one is my favorite. I went with XL (im@a 14, sometimes 16) and likely could have sized down but I enjoy the relaxed fit and the drawstring waistband to create shape. And hello zipper closure making it super easy to get on and off!

My husband took this photo right after my eye appointment, I think it reflects my positive attitude and feeling of hope! 🧡

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I’ll be a bit quiet on here and other channels because I had eye (retinal) surgery this past weekend. I was having what I thought were ocular migraines but come to find out I was experiencing lattice degeneration, which is thinning/holes in the retina. I had surgery Saturday for my right eye and later on they’ll work on the left eye, which isn’t as bad and can be remedied by laser, in office.

I share not because I’m Mrs. Frizzle meets Iris Apfel as I recuperate at home, but because this whole thing has been a lesson on trusting my gut. And I want to remind you to do the same.

As we get older our bodies can feel like strangers. Things are constantly changing and it’s easy to just assume your annual physical will catch anything wrong. But if you slow down and listen to your body you’ll know when things are just a sign of aging and life and what seems unusual. That nagging issue may be something more serious.

And if you’re seeing flashing lights, floaters, spiderwebs or other odd eye things get checked out ASAP. It may be nothing but take it from me, it may actually be something. ❤️

Okay, going back to my big sunglasses caftan recuperation life!

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Ladies who lunch…

While in Savannah, I made sure to get lunch reservations for me and E at @theoldepinkhouse she loves the color pink, historic homes, and ghost stories so it was a perfect choice! 

Built in 1789 on Reynolds Square, there are stories of guests seeing ghosts, cutlery and wine bottles moving along with an elegant and truly delicious dining. 

While we didn’t see any apparitions, we did have a lovely lunch with impeccable service and after toured all floors of the home. I highly recommend a visit if you’re visiting Savannah!

My dress is from @cosstores (no longer available); hat is @furtalk and bag is @talbotsofficial (no longer available).

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Scenes from a week in Savannah… 

The three of us (and our dog Oscar!) had a warm and humid but wonderful time exploring Savannah, Georgia earlier this month. Our daughter visited this gorgeous city last summer with her @girlscouts troop but wanted to return to experience more. We let her choose our adventures and play your guide and it was awesome. We cannot wait to visit again, though next time it won’t be August 🥵

For more of our trip check the “Savannah” highlight on my profile page!

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Stripes are always right…

Y’all know I love stripes and when @universalstandard came out with their Breton-stripe dresses and tops I HAD to try them! As expected, the quality is stellar, the fit boosts my confidence, and I appreciate the range of colors (5 different stripes to choose from) and sizes (00-50). For reference, I’m wearing XS but preferred S for the top and I usually wear a 14 or XL in other brands.

The tote is @able and it’s a soft yet durable leather that just looks better with time. This color (cognac) is one that transitions nicely from summer to fall. 

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Aug 27

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The family that wears @printfresh together stays together 🥰

Use code wardrobe_oxygen for 15% off your order of size-inclusive organic cotton sleepwear, dresses, bags & more https://glnk.io/qk04/wardrobe-oxygen

I’ve been raving about my Printfresh pajamas for years, my family also wanted to try them. Thank you Printfresh for gifting these for our annual three generation girls’ getaway to Rehoboth Beach, DE. We had a great time and being all matchy matchy in our pajamas was a fun addition! 🐅🍃🥰

#printfresh #printfreshpajamas #printfreshpartner

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Shuts laptop until Monday… #RehobothBeach

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