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If @thechicks are in town you can bet @debbiefaye78 and I will be there! So when we heard they were coming to @merriweatherpp we were so excited. And their concert did not disappoint. As always, a phenomenal show! If The Chicks come to your neck of the woods I highly recommend you go!

Okay I know you want to know about what we’re wearing! 

My sister’s caftan is from @anthropologie (bought this summer so maybe you can find on resale sites).

I’m wearing a @bananarepublic dress also from this summer with the @universalstandard denim chore jacket and a hat I got from a @madewell collab a year or so ago. I glammed it up with some gold chains and gold drop earrings, but kept it comfy for a night of standing and dancing with @birkenstock sandals.

This was my first big outing since my eye surgery, and with a pocketful of eye drops I felt good (and grateful we splurged for good seats!).

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For years I’ve trusted @somaintimates for the right bras and the right fit but it had been a while since I visited a Soma boutique to try on all the styles they currently have for a large bust. I must say I was impressed! Knowledgeable staff, extensive collection in larger sizes, and some of the most comfortable and innovative bras in up to H cups! Each body is different but what I loved:

- The Stunning Push-Up: targeted for the DD+ customer gives amazing lift and great shape under fitted knits.

- The Unbelievable Lift Scoop Balconette: sexy, supportive, and so lightweight!

- The Embraceable Wireless: I’ve recommended this wireless bra for large busts for years and was in need for a new one! 

- The Stunning Support Smooth Balconette: this is the perfect t-shirt bra for large busts with padded straps and disappears under knits

- The Stunning Starlet Multi-Way Strapless: recently improved for more support and more comfort, this wireless bra stays put and gives fab shape

I also picked up some of Soma’s iconic Vanishing Edge panties which keep you line-free. The whole Vanishing collection is genius. I loved being able to donate my gently used bras at my local Soma boutique to give to those in need. We all deserve a lift and Soma strives to achieve that. It’s why I’ve been a fan and customer for years and am honored to partner with them. Soma is the perfect fitting bra solution. Visit the link in my bio to shop and to find your local Soma boutique! #SomaPartner #SomaBraFit #SomaStartsWithMe
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Earrings: Amazon
Necklace: @_jennybird (old)
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Bra: @lovebravissimo 
Lipstick: @glossier 
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It was so funny and so quick I couldn’t not share! I bought this @hulkenbag a year ago and use it all the time. Carting shoot supplies, groceries, packing for road trips, and carting donations. This weekend @thenewdealcafe in @cityofgreenbelt hosted a community clothing swap so I made sure my family and I went through our summer wardrobes to gather that which we no longer needed or fit.

This wasn’t the first clothing swap and folks in town know my style (and my job) so there were some waiting for my arrival. Look how fast I cleared out this big bag! Speaking of the bag one other swap attendee said she got herself a Hulken after seeing mine in action!

It’s so great to know our old clothes are getting a good life and this bag makes carting them to the cafe so easy! I got my Hulken on Amazon, it comes in other colors and sizes too: https://amzn.to/48iTY4Y yep the bag is as great as all those ads you see on social media, I’m a big fan!
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Oscar was a rescue and came with some… quirks. Over the years we have come to understand him and he has come to trust us. He’s a diva, a snuggler, he could play catch for hours, and he’s my husband’s shadow. 

We’ve never had a small breed dog before and it’s a whole different experience. But we adore Oscar and couldn’t imagine our life without him! Thank you for coming into our life Oskie McGoskie! 🐾❤️
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I can see clearly now…

Actually I can’t, but things after my retina surgery are much improved! My next appointment is in a month and I’m cleared to get back into the world (with some restrictions to protect my eye).

With a sclera buckle, it changes your eye shape and now I am nearsighted again (I had lasik a few years ago). Once the eye is stabilized I can get glasses or contacts but until then I’m 20/20 in one eye and right now 20/60 in the other. But the eye is healing beautifully and I feel positive!

And I could see clearly enough to fall for this poppy-colored cotton jumpsuit from @pistoladenim. It comes in a few colors but this one is my favorite. I went with XL (im@a 14, sometimes 16) and likely could have sized down but I enjoy the relaxed fit and the drawstring waistband to create shape. And hello zipper closure making it super easy to get on and off!

My husband took this photo right after my eye appointment, I think it reflects my positive attitude and feeling of hope! 🧡

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A decade ago I was working full time in an office and was promoted to manage a good portion of my department. My blog was doing quite well, I was featured in local and national publications and websites. I was embracing what I felt to be a polished professional with an edgy vibe. Less color, more interesting accessories, and my first semi-designer bag (I still have that leopard print mini M.A.C. In the back of my closet). 

I have come to embrace color and have way less black in my closet now, but a lot of these looks are timeless and I would wear now… just likely with lower heels! 😂

Do you recall what you were wearing a decade ago? How similar is it to how you dress now?

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Fashion Advice, Underpinnings and Sleepwear · October 21, 2019

The Best Plus Size Bras and Underwear for Grown Women

This article may contain affiliate links; if you click on a shopping link and make a purchase I may receive a commission. As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases. 

Wardrobe Oxygen surveyed over 500 of her readers to find the best plus size bras, underwear, and other intimates for grown women

I LOVED Glamour Magazine's feature on plus size fashion. However, their picks for the best plus size fashion skewed a bit… young. Nothing wrong with that, Glamour is a magazine catered to younger Millenials. But what about us grown women? Those of us over 35, and maybe over 65? We have different fashion needs and different economic means. 

I wanted to see what plus-size grown women wear and love so I created my own survey for Wardrobe Oxygen where over 500 women shared their thoughts, their style desires, and the best places to find plus size fashion for grown women.  For this post, I am focusing on the results for the best plus size bras, panties, shapewear, and other intimates.  

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What Are The Best Plus Size Bras?

The Best Plus Size Bras Brands

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Shop the Top 10 Best Plus Size Bra Brands:
#1: Cacique | #2: Soma| #3: Wacoal | #4: Elomi | #5: Glamorise | #6: Prima Donna | #7: Auden by Target | #8: Natori | #9: Warner's | #10: Chantelle

Lane Bryant's in-house brand Cacique was by far the most popular brand mentioned for having the best plus size bras. Many Wardrobe Oxygen readers commented that their bras have improved in the past year in regard to fit, style, and comfort. 

Soma was the second most favorite bra brand, but some commented that their band size selection was too limited.  Wacoal was in third place, many sharing they first heard about the brand from Oprah and have been wearing it for decades. Those who need larger cup and/or band sizes raved about Prima Donna and Glamorise for their selection. 

“It is so difficult for me to find bras where the straps don’t slip off. The best style I have found is Wacoal 855192 Basic Beauty Full Figure Bra because the straps are attached closer to the center in the back. It is a very comfortable style unless one of the underwires escapes and starts poking me.”

“The Matilda bra from Elomi is the best bra I’ve ever worn. It is comfortable, has great lift, and creates nice cleavage. They’re pricey but so worth it.”

“Third Love 24/7 Full Coverage is the ONLY bra that doesn’t gap, make the girls conical, or just serve as a glorified shelf. The online chat was my lifesaver to find my best fit. Took some time but free exchanges made all the difference.”

“Prima Donna has the most beautiful and luxurious bras for large busts. They aren't cheap but they make me feel beautiful and womanly.”

“Elomi. Other brands claiming to be plus-size don’t have nearly large enough cup sizes.”

“I think Torrid is great for bras! The Torrid Back Smoothing Plunge Bra is the best!”

“After reading the A Bra That Fits Reddit, the bra that works for each woman will be different based on her shape. But Panache and Chantelle have been game-changers for me personally.”

“I am a recent convert to Soma bras. They are the first in years I can comfortably wear all day.”

The Best Plus Size Sports Bras Brands

best plus size sports bra

Shop the Top 10 Plus Size Sports Bra Brands:
#1: Brooks Moving Comfort | #2: Cacique | #3: C9 | #4: Enell | #5: Elomi | #6: Wacoal | #7: Panache | #8: Glamorise | #9: Natori | #10: Freya

The top answer isn't in the graph above. Most entries were from women saying they haven't found a decent plus sized sports bra.  Knowing from my previous posts and reviews about sports bras, there is nothing more personal than the fit and support of a sports bra for large busts.  One person's Holy Grail is another's fail. 

The most popular entry was for Brooks and their Moving Comfort Bras.  Several specifically called out the Juno bra as their favorite.

In second place was Cacique by Lane Bryant and Lane Bryant in general, with several specifically mentioning their High-Impact Max Support Wicking Sport Bra.  Many raved about the price and fit of Champion's line for Target called c9. 

“The Enell bra is sold as the last resort bra on the Title Nine website. My girls don't move a centimeter.”

“The Brooks Juno is the only sports bra I have ever bought that doesn't hurt and gives the support I need.”

“I really like C9, it is the Target version of Champion. They are just as good as fancy ones I bought at department stores.”

“If you have boobs, you need at least three hooks on the back of your sports bra. Lane Bryant makes these and they WORK!”

“Panache has a sports bra with underwire and it is AMAZING! I ran a 10K no problem, I wear it to CrossFit, I wear it to dance class. My breasts don't go ANYWHERE.”

“Glamorise has a wire-free sports bra that looks great and comes in a 48 H (my size)”

Wardrobe Oxygen surveyed over 500 of her readers to find the best plus size bras, underwear, and other intimates for grown women

What Are the Best Plus Sized Underwear and Shapewear?

The Best Plus Size Underwear Brands

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Shop the Top Ten Plus Size Underwear Brands:
#1: Jockey | #2: Cacique | #3: Soma | #4: Duluth Trading Company | #5: Torrid | #6: Wacoal | #7: Vanity Fair | #8: Hanky Panky | #9: Aerie | #10: Just My Size

There were as many passionate votes for a specific style of underwear from a brand as there were votes where women stated they don't care and just buy what is on sale or they can pick up at Target or Walmart.  It's clear that underwear isn't as important to many plus size women as their bras.  That being said, there were some clear leaders. 

Jockey had the most votes, with specific mentions for their No Panty Line Promise and Elance collections.  The second most popular brand was Lane Bryant and their Cacique brand, but few replies about a specific style.

Soma was the third most popular, but several commented that they felt bad even mentioning the brand since they only go up to XXL. Soma's Vanishing Edge collection was by far the most popular style mentioned.  Duluth Trading was the brand with the most passionate responses for fit, quality, and comfort. 

“Duluth – no really! I am slowly converting all my friends they are the BEST!”

“For underwear, to be specific: Aerie – the high-waisted lace undies, in black. SWOON.”

Soma [vanishing] edge panties“, after trying them I won't wear any other kind.”

“I don't know if Ex Officio makes plus size. I am a 14/16 pants and wear an L. Love their Give N Go Bikini Brief for day to day and working out.” (FYI Ex Officio goes up to 2XL)

“Jockey #61683 [Elance] are perfect under dresses for summer.”

“I swear by Soma Vanishing Edge though I feel bad mentioning since they only go up to XXL. I am a 22 and wear their XXL.”

The Best Plus Size Shapewear Brands

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Shop the Top Nine Plus Size Shapewear Brands:
#2: Spanx | #3: Assets | #4: Jockey | #5: Maidenform | #6: Soma | #7: Shapermint | #8: Nancy Ganz | #9: Yummie | #10: TC Intimates

I gotta say, I love that the #1 answer for this question was that women don't wear shapewear!  For those who desire shapewear for specific situations or because it makes them more comfortable, the top answer was Spanx, though many said they wear it because they don't know of any other brand.

Several shared that in place of traditional shapewear they like slipshorts or slips to smooth without compression; their favorites were Thigh Society and Jockey.

“I rarely wear shapewear but I have an open bust bodysuit from Spanx just in case a dress needs it.”

“I don't like shapewear but I do like Jockey Skimmies for smoothing me out.”

“The only shapewear I own are Power Panties [from Spanx]. Go up a size and you will get smoothing without the stomach pains.”

“TC has a high waist panty like Spanx but I find it fits better.”

You mentioned an open bust bodysuit from TC Fine Intimates several years ago. THANK YOU. It's the only shapewear that is comfortable, won't roll down, and works with any bra.”

“I hate shapewear but I needed it for a bridesmaid's dress. I found bike shorts with straps that go over the shoulders from Assets at Target. It stayed in place and no panty lines!”

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What is the Best Product to Prevent Thigh Chafing?

Best Products for Preventing Chub Rub or Thigh Chafing

What is the best product to prevent chub rub? 500 plus sized women were surveyed to find the most effect product for preventing thigh chafing by Wardrobe Oxygen, an over 40 fashion blog

Shop the Top Ten Products for Preventing Thigh Chafing:
#1: Jockey Skimmies | #2: Megababe Thigh Rescue | #3: Monistat Gel | #4: Bodyglide | #5: Thigh Society | #6: Snag Shorts | #7: Undersummers | #8: Skindura Secret Shield | #9: Soma Smoothing Short | #10: TomboyX Boy Shorts 

I must say I was looking forward to these results. I used Jockey Skimmies for years, in recent years I was introduced to Thigh Society which is a small Canadian woman-owned business with an extensive size range and variety of lengths and types (my favorite are the cooling slipshorts which are thin and silky and don't give muffin top).  I have tried a few topical products like Megababe and was curious if there were any great products on the market I was unfamiliar with.

The two I hadn't heard of were the two that received the most passionate responses:

  • I've heard about the awesomeness that is Snag Tights but didn't know they had a short aptly named Chub Rub Shorts. They're made with yarns to keep you cool and wick away moisture, have a cotton gusset, and a unique size chart that measures not just by clothing size but height. I appreciate the photos of people of varying sizes and heights in the products at Snag to help you see how they may work on your body. 
  • Skindura Secret Shield is a product from a brand called Skindura that was created by a woman who dealt with chub rub and wanted to find a solution. Many of the responses voting for Skindura raved about the simple yet effective ingredient list (jojoba esters, fractionated coconut oil, octyl palmitate a palm oil derivative, comfrey) and that it is a small business with amazing customer service. Secret Shield is waterproof, vegan, and free of petroleum, animal by-products, or silicone.  

“Just discovered Body Glide and it has changed my life!”

“The Thigh Society are my fave anti-chafe shorts after much trial and error with other brands – don’t roll, don’t make noise, not sweaty, excellent size chart with inclusive sizing, can be machine washed and dried. Amazing.”

“I used to wear Under Summers but after finding Snag Chub Rub Shorts I can't look back. Best fit, best price, best everything!”

“I love Katie Sturino and I love Megababe. It saved my summer in Italy!”

Wardrobe Oxygen surveyed over 500 of her readers to find the best plus size bras, underwear, and other intimates for grown women

Where to Buy The Best Plus Size Bras

This was not a question on the Wardrobe Oxygen survey, but many shared their thoughts on where to buy the best plus size bras and their tips on successful bra shopping: 

  • Bare Necessities was by far the most popular retailer to buy the best plus size bras – they have the most brands, the most band sizes, extensive customer reviews, and easy shipping and return policies. 
  • HerRoom was another winner for where to shop for the best plus size bras, offering plenty of size and color range.
  • Several suggested my favorite tip for bra shopping – find the bra you love, then search for more of them on Amazon and/or eBay.  Once you know your size, brand, and style, search it on one of those sites and you may find previous season colors brand new but for less. 
  • Many who love Soma recommended you get sized at one of their stores to know what size you are in this specific brand. While Soma has more sizes in back and in drawers, many said the best selection of larger cups and band sizes is online. Sign up for Soma's emails and you'll know when they're having sales.
  • If you don't have a store near you to help you be sized, check out the Reddit A Bra That Fits calculator. It will help you get accurate sizing from the comfort of your own home.  

If you didn't get a chance to fill out the survey, feel free to share your recommendations for the best plus size bras, intimates, and products for thigh chafing in the comments below!

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  1. Allena Rissa says

    April 15, 2020 at 2:59 am

    Hey Alison, this is such a great post! Thanks for compiling this and sharing this with us 🙂

    Reply
  2. Karen says

    October 21, 2019 at 1:41 pm

    What a great project you’ve taken the time to put together. Thank you (and your readers) for introducing me to Duluth Trading Co. for underwear! I never would have known. Some of their underwear looks like a version of Ex-Officio’s but DTC offers much more variety in color and sizes.

    As someone who used to wear a 36JJ I can say this is a much needed project though I mainly purchased my bras from Bravissimo (and now they’ve got a US site but were UK only when I purchased from them). I really didn’t have much choice as US online stores carried the same bra brands and models as Bravissimo but did not go up to the sizes I needed.
    That was quite frustrating. I write in past tense because two years ago I got a breast reduction and am now a 40D, but I’m still benefiting from your survey. Incidentally, I knew when I was told I had almost 8 lbs of breast tissue removed that I did the right thing! I feel so much lighter.

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    • Alison Gary says

      October 22, 2019 at 9:46 am

      I can recall a decade ago struggling to find bras to fit, and clothes for large busts. Now there are so many more options! So glad Bravissimo now sells to the US!

      Reply
  3. Kaffesoester says

    October 21, 2019 at 9:49 am

    Thank you so much for this incredible project! Now I wish someone would do a European version, since most of the brands are US only. Anyway, can’t wait to see the results of more categories, hoping there will be a few brands available on the other side of “the pond”! 😀

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    • allison says

      October 21, 2019 at 10:10 am

      Try Bravissimo

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      • Kaffesoester says

        October 21, 2019 at 10:17 am

        Oh, I haven’t heard of that – Thanks, I most certainly will! 🙂

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        • Alison Gary says

          October 22, 2019 at 9:47 am

          Bravissimo is great, so is Marks & Spencer. They are really working on increasing their size range and their variety of models in regard to size, age, and ethnicity is refreshing!

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          • Kaffesoester says

            October 25, 2019 at 7:08 am

            Thank you Alison! I know M&S, it’s a favourite of mine, both for underwear, coats and jackets as well as for their policies on climate and labour rights. I can’t bear to think how difficult shopping in the UK is going to be after Brexit! My British knickers could very well be among the casualties!!! 🙁

  4. Cee says

    October 21, 2019 at 9:36 am

    I love the fact that women were actually LISTENED TO! No doubt it took work and lots of time to sort out all the statistics/comments/info from this survey, but it is clear that you heard us.

    Since I first discovered your blog a little over 2 years ago at age 66, I have since lost 120 pounds (keto). I am now a size 12 but wear a 40DD bra and am at an age where gravity/major weight loss have graced me with loose skin. Your blog is always my first ‘go to’ when I have a question or need advice about clothing-inner or outerwear, and your sales posts are always apprecaited and looked forward to.

    Thank you for having a forum for women with REAL bodies.

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      October 21, 2019 at 9:39 am

      Oh this makes me so happy! I am glad to be such a resource. Fashion doesn’t stop being fun, important, or just necessary once we hit a certain age or size. We all deserve to feel great and look great and what works for a 20-something won’t always work for a 50-something!

      Reply
  5. Loree says

    October 21, 2019 at 9:27 am

    Being over 50 (but don’t want to be frumpy) and plus-sized (aNd learning to own and lovebirds my body), I think I’ve found my favorite blog! Your style and candid reviews are right up my alley and I feel like I’m finally getting tools to build a wardrobe I can like and maybe even love, even though that last part feels like a stretch goal! Thanks for all your hard work!

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      October 21, 2019 at 9:37 am

      I am so glad! Fashion is tough, if I can offer tools to simplify it for you… well there’s nothing better! Thank you!

      Reply
    • Allison says

      October 21, 2019 at 12:18 pm

      This IS truly the best blog! Alison is consistent would good info, as well as thoughtful writing. She is candid and real and so relatable. Glad you found her!

      Reply
      • Loree says

        October 21, 2019 at 3:21 pm

        Me too! And I’m glad she links her blog from FB and IG!

        Reply
        • Alison Gary says

          October 22, 2019 at 9:47 am

          Thank you!

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      • Alison Gary says

        October 22, 2019 at 9:47 am

        Thank you so much!

        Reply
  6. Krista says

    October 21, 2019 at 8:30 am

    Wow. You went all in on this project and I love you for it. Looking forward to more posts with the results. In the meantime, I’m going to the Snag website to check out some new shorts.

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      October 21, 2019 at 9:10 am

      This was so fun to put together. It was great to learn about new brands and read honest thoughts from women in a range of sizes, ages, and lifestyles. I’m so honored so many participated and that I can share this wealth of information with all of you!

      Reply
    • Sonia says

      October 23, 2019 at 3:59 pm

      Awesome blog, Allie! I wish I was able to contribute to the results. This one is definitely a keeper.

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      • Alison Gary says

        October 24, 2019 at 10:26 am

        Thank you Sonia!

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If @thechicks are in town you can bet @debbiefaye78 and I will be there! So when we heard they were coming to @merriweatherpp we were so excited. And their concert did not disappoint. As always, a phenomenal show! If The Chicks come to your neck of the woods I highly recommend you go!

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My sister’s caftan is from @anthropologie (bought this summer so maybe you can find on resale sites).

I’m wearing a @bananarepublic dress also from this summer with the @universalstandard denim chore jacket and a hat I got from a @madewell collab a year or so ago. I glammed it up with some gold chains and gold drop earrings, but kept it comfy for a night of standing and dancing with @birkenstock sandals.

This was my first big outing since my eye surgery, and with a pocketful of eye drops I felt good (and grateful we splurged for good seats!).

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Still recovering from my eye surgery but feeling more myself. Getting dolled up helps me feel me. Bright colors and bold jewelry have been signature Alison since I was a kid! 

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Earrings: Amazon
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Happy gotcha day, Oscar! Four years ago he came into our life and we are so happy to have in our family!

Oscar was a rescue and came with some… quirks. Over the years we have come to understand him and he has come to trust us. He’s a diva, a snuggler, he could play catch for hours, and he’s my husband’s shadow. 

We’ve never had a small breed dog before and it’s a whole different experience. But we adore Oscar and couldn’t imagine our life without him! Thank you for coming into our life Oskie McGoskie! 🐾❤️

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I can see clearly now…

Actually I can’t, but things after my retina surgery are much improved! My next appointment is in a month and I’m cleared to get back into the world (with some restrictions to protect my eye).

With a sclera buckle, it changes your eye shape and now I am nearsighted again (I had lasik a few years ago). Once the eye is stabilized I can get glasses or contacts but until then I’m 20/20 in one eye and right now 20/60 in the other. But the eye is healing beautifully and I feel positive!

And I could see clearly enough to fall for this poppy-colored cotton jumpsuit from @pistoladenim. It comes in a few colors but this one is my favorite. I went with XL (im@a 14, sometimes 16) and likely could have sized down but I enjoy the relaxed fit and the drawstring waistband to create shape. And hello zipper closure making it super easy to get on and off!

My husband took this photo right after my eye appointment, I think it reflects my positive attitude and feeling of hope! 🧡

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I’ll be a bit quiet on here and other channels because I had eye (retinal) surgery this past weekend. I was having what I thought were ocular migraines but come to find out I was experiencing lattice degeneration, which is thinning/holes in the retina. I had surgery Saturday for my right eye and later on they’ll work on the left eye, which isn’t as bad and can be remedied by laser, in office.

I share not because I’m Mrs. Frizzle meets Iris Apfel as I recuperate at home, but because this whole thing has been a lesson on trusting my gut. And I want to remind you to do the same.

As we get older our bodies can feel like strangers. Things are constantly changing and it’s easy to just assume your annual physical will catch anything wrong. But if you slow down and listen to your body you’ll know when things are just a sign of aging and life and what seems unusual. That nagging issue may be something more serious.

And if you’re seeing flashing lights, floaters, spiderwebs or other odd eye things get checked out ASAP. It may be nothing but take it from me, it may actually be something. ❤️

Okay, going back to my big sunglasses caftan recuperation life!

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Aug 30

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Ladies who lunch…

While in Savannah, I made sure to get lunch reservations for me and E at @theoldepinkhouse she loves the color pink, historic homes, and ghost stories so it was a perfect choice! 

Built in 1789 on Reynolds Square, there are stories of guests seeing ghosts, cutlery and wine bottles moving along with an elegant and truly delicious dining. 

While we didn’t see any apparitions, we did have a lovely lunch with impeccable service and after toured all floors of the home. I highly recommend a visit if you’re visiting Savannah!

My dress is from @cosstores (no longer available); hat is @furtalk and bag is @talbotsofficial (no longer available).

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Scenes from a week in Savannah… 

The three of us (and our dog Oscar!) had a warm and humid but wonderful time exploring Savannah, Georgia earlier this month. Our daughter visited this gorgeous city last summer with her @girlscouts troop but wanted to return to experience more. We let her choose our adventures and play your guide and it was awesome. We cannot wait to visit again, though next time it won’t be August 🥵

For more of our trip check the “Savannah” highlight on my profile page!

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Stripes are always right…

Y’all know I love stripes and when @universalstandard came out with their Breton-stripe dresses and tops I HAD to try them! As expected, the quality is stellar, the fit boosts my confidence, and I appreciate the range of colors (5 different stripes to choose from) and sizes (00-50). For reference, I’m wearing XS but preferred S for the top and I usually wear a 14 or XL in other brands.

The tote is @able and it’s a soft yet durable leather that just looks better with time. This color (cognac) is one that transitions nicely from summer to fall. 

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Aug 27

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The family that wears @printfresh together stays together 🥰

Use code wardrobe_oxygen for 15% off your order of size-inclusive organic cotton sleepwear, dresses, bags & more https://glnk.io/qk04/wardrobe-oxygen

I’ve been raving about my Printfresh pajamas for years, my family also wanted to try them. Thank you Printfresh for gifting these for our annual three generation girls’ getaway to Rehoboth Beach, DE. We had a great time and being all matchy matchy in our pajamas was a fun addition! 🐅🍃🥰

#printfresh #printfreshpajamas #printfreshpartner

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Shuts laptop until Monday… #RehobothBeach

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