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We started at @littleblackbirddc a new wine bar in Cleveland Park where we had great food, drink, and conversation into the evening. We then headed down the street to @atomicbilliards for a whole different experience and to keep the conversation going. I treasure my friendships with @sylviacolella (who had a birthday recently), @districtofchic, and @blonde_inthedistrict they’re the real deal 🥰

My dress is @adamlippes borrowed via @renttherunway and Cheetos with Sauvignon Blanc is a really fun pairing!
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Night and day…

Met three dear friends for an early dinner that went on until after the sun set. Great food and conversation with some great women!

The dress is @adamlippes and I borrowed it from @renttherunway. The bag is @jcrew and a splurge but I regretted not buying it the last time they offered this bag and this color is SO me. I mean, look how great it is with these many years old suede heeled sandals? Meant to be!

This color combination makes me so happy, and this dress was comfy even after a decadent meal. We all deserve to experience comfort and joy with our wardrobes! 💛🩷

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If @thechicks are in town you can bet @debbiefaye78 and I will be there! So when we heard they were coming to @merriweatherpp we were so excited. And their concert did not disappoint. As always, a phenomenal show! If The Chicks come to your neck of the woods I highly recommend you go!

Okay I know you want to know about what we’re wearing! 

My sister’s caftan is from @anthropologie (bought this summer so maybe you can find on resale sites).

I’m wearing a @bananarepublic dress also from this summer with the @universalstandard denim chore jacket and a hat I got from a @madewell collab a year or so ago. I glammed it up with some gold chains and gold drop earrings, but kept it comfy for a night of standing and dancing with @birkenstock sandals.

This was my first big outing since my eye surgery, and with a pocketful of eye drops I felt good (and grateful we splurged for good seats!).

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- The Stunning Push-Up: targeted for the DD+ customer gives amazing lift and great shape under fitted knits.

- The Unbelievable Lift Scoop Balconette: sexy, supportive, and so lightweight!

- The Embraceable Wireless: I’ve recommended this wireless bra for large busts for years and was in need for a new one! 

- The Stunning Support Smooth Balconette: this is the perfect t-shirt bra for large busts with padded straps and disappears under knits

- The Stunning Starlet Multi-Way Strapless: recently improved for more support and more comfort, this wireless bra stays put and gives fab shape

I also picked up some of Soma’s iconic Vanishing Edge panties which keep you line-free. The whole Vanishing collection is genius. I loved being able to donate my gently used bras at my local Soma boutique to give to those in need. We all deserve a lift and Soma strives to achieve that. It’s why I’ve been a fan and customer for years and am honored to partner with them. Soma is the perfect fitting bra solution. Visit the link in my bio to shop and to find your local Soma boutique! #SomaPartner #SomaBraFit #SomaStartsWithMe
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Still recovering from my eye surgery but feeling more myself. Getting dolled up helps me feel me. Bright colors and bold jewelry have been signature Alison since I was a kid! 

Sweater: @favorite.daughter 
Earrings: Amazon
Necklace: @_jennybird (old)
Ring: @realmfinejewelry 
Bra: @lovebravissimo 
Lipstick: @glossier 
Pins as “cufflinks”: vintage

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It was so funny and so quick I couldn’t not share! I bought this @hulkenbag a year ago and use it all the time. Carting shoot supplies, groceries, packing for road trips, and carting donations. This weekend @thenewdealcafe in @cityofgreenbelt hosted a community clothing swap so I made sure my family and I went through our summer wardrobes to gather that which we no longer needed or fit.

This wasn’t the first clothing swap and folks in town know my style (and my job) so there were some waiting for my arrival. Look how fast I cleared out this big bag! Speaking of the bag one other swap attendee said she got herself a Hulken after seeing mine in action!

It’s so great to know our old clothes are getting a good life and this bag makes carting them to the cafe so easy! I got my Hulken on Amazon, it comes in other colors and sizes too: https://amzn.to/48iTY4Y yep the bag is as great as all those ads you see on social media, I’m a big fan!
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Oscar was a rescue and came with some… quirks. Over the years we have come to understand him and he has come to trust us. He’s a diva, a snuggler, he could play catch for hours, and he’s my husband’s shadow. 

We’ve never had a small breed dog before and it’s a whole different experience. But we adore Oscar and couldn’t imagine our life without him! Thank you for coming into our life Oskie McGoskie! 🐾❤️
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Outfit Posts, Winter · January 2, 2013

Wednesday: Back in Black

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Sweater: Ann Taylor (years old) | Pants: Ann Taylor (similar) | Necklace: Got in Key West | Heels: Boutique 9 | Silver Cuff | Coat: Via Spiga | Scarf: Ann Taylor (similar) | Bag: Sabina (similar)

It's back to work for me! I went in the office the day after Christmas and did a few hours at home over the past week or so, but otherwise have been off and it was GLORIOUS! I feel recharged and ready for work, though spending so much QT with Emerson made it SUPER hard to leave her today. Last night she said she was scared of the dark even with her Twilight Turtle so she got in bed with us for a couple hours. I slept fine, but I guess she kept kicking and scratching Karl so he took her back to her room where she slept soundly the rest of the night. Guess she just needed a bit of reassurance!

Lately I have just wanted to wear a lot of black, don't know if it's my inner rock star crying out, a bit of laziness, or color overload. When I did my outfit recap post, I realized how very much color I have worn this year. While I adore color and think people look better in colors they love, I think I was fighting something with the color – fighting depression, anger, jealousy, the blogosphere… something. Lately I just want to chill and enjoy the moment and am finding it easier in darker shades and an attention to detail, shapes, and fabrics. We'll see how 2013 goes… I know color won't disappear any time soon, but I think I've outgrown colorblocking and Rainbow Brite-esque ensembles.  I'm not gloomy, I'm just reassessing!

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  1. Thrift Store Mama says

    January 4, 2013 at 1:50 pm

    I’ve been thinking about this post, so much so that I wanted to go back and leave a comment days after I read it (I normally read blogs on my iPad but find it too hard to comment). So you reference fighting the blogosphere and jealousy and I just wanted to make sure that you remember that there are nice, regular people who read your blog and love it. Checking in with your blog and reading your words helps me remember to make a little extra effort most days when I’m getting dressed. Being dressed better makes me feel better which makes me eat healthier which contributes to feeling better which contributes to a more positive outlook. That’s the explanation I gave my husband about why I signed up for Gwynnie Bee and every word of it is true. Whether I wear heels, or a blazer, or a chunky silver bracelet to make herself stand taller, I learned those things from you !

    So you can wear whatever color you want – just keep posting !

    Reply
    • Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

      January 4, 2013 at 2:07 pm

      Aww thank you so much! It’s true, for every one icky person in the blogosphere there seems to be a thousand amazing people I encounter and so many like you thanks to this blog. Your comment totally made my day, and interacting with you here is always wonderful. THANK YOU!!!!

      Reply
  2. Happinessatmidlife says

    January 3, 2013 at 1:19 am

    I love how the statement totally stands out in this black outfit! Happy New Year!

    Alice
    http://www.happinessatmidlife.com

    Reply
  3. Hayley says

    January 3, 2013 at 12:51 am

    I’ve seen you wear lots of black before but for some reason this outfit really brings out the color of your hair! Love.

    Reply
  4. TheStyleConfessions says

    January 2, 2013 at 11:53 pm

    Oh gosh, me too with the black! I did a lot if colr this year too. It was fun, but it wasn’t always successful. Black on black is so comforting. Love your jeans.

    Reply
  5. Virginia Blum says

    January 2, 2013 at 9:36 pm

    I almost never wear black near my face, but I have to say that I love that sweater. I can see why it’s still in your closet even though it’s “years” old!

    Reply
  6. Hems for Her, a.k.a. Katie says

    January 2, 2013 at 9:35 pm

    You look totally bad ass! I love this look.

    Reply
  7. The Fashionable ESQ says

    January 2, 2013 at 9:25 pm

    Hello pretty lady! I like this look style and look on you a lot. I have been hunting down pants like yours for a long time – and cannot find any that are quite right. I rock all black pretty frequently!

    http://www.thefashionableesq.blogspot.com/

    Reply
  8. Jennifer says

    January 2, 2013 at 9:14 pm

    Like you and many of your commenters, I’ve been blacking out myself lately, even though I also love color and made a big effort to wear more of it and less black near my face. I generally choose between bold accessories and bold colors (not both), and my choices have gone more to accessories lately. I look forward to seeing what comes next, and I’m glad you had the right clothing to do battle and am even more glad that you don’t feel that you need to do battle at the moment.

    Reply
  9. versatile style by tracey says

    January 2, 2013 at 8:10 pm

    Well you do have color with those red gloves and purple scarf….I love your necklace and think the black background is perfect to let it be the showpiece.

    Reply
  10. Sydney says

    January 2, 2013 at 5:11 pm

    Happy new year! You look fab in your black get-up! Esp loving the chunky necklace and two toned pants.

    Reply
  11. bubu says

    January 2, 2013 at 4:17 pm

    Looks great! I generally like a lot of color too, but after the madness of the holidays am craving some peace and quiet in clothes as well as the rest of life – today is all black and gray… I imagine in a couple of weeks the bleakness of winter will send me running back to the bright colors!

    Reply
  12. EvaNadine says

    January 2, 2013 at 4:03 pm

    ive also been feeling the black lately. i used to be a “find something you like, buy it in every color, quantity-over-quality” sorta gal, but since my weight loss and having to replace basically my whole wardrobe, im paying a lot more attention to fit and little details that make pieces special. ive been honing my personal style more than ever before. and of course, youre one of my style mentors. 🙂

    Reply
  13. Eat.Style.Play says

    January 2, 2013 at 3:16 pm

    Um okay first your outfits is badass but lemme say, you look gorgeous today! It’s like you’re glowing! Not that you don’t look great everyday!

    Reply
  14. Eleanorjane says

    January 2, 2013 at 3:02 pm

    Looking sassy! Love the outfit and feel free to wear whatever you feel like. 🙂

    Reply
  15. Une femme says

    January 2, 2013 at 1:52 pm

    This is a great look for you! And I love that coat. I’m Back in Black today too and “I feel alright!”

    Reply
  16. dc style factory says

    January 2, 2013 at 1:50 pm

    the necklace!!! love the whole outfit and as a creature of the night myself…i applaud your bringin’ it back to black. 🙂 honestly i never feel more sleek and sexy than when i am in all black with some great shoes and great jewelry. you look amazing!

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Scenes from a Friday night…

We started at @littleblackbirddc a new wine bar in Cleveland Park where we had great food, drink, and conversation into the evening. We then headed down the street to @atomicbilliards for a whole different experience and to keep the conversation going. I treasure my friendships with @sylviacolella (who had a birthday recently), @districtofchic, and @blonde_inthedistrict they’re the real deal 🥰

My dress is @adamlippes borrowed via @renttherunway and Cheetos with Sauvignon Blanc is a really fun pairing!

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Night and day…

Met three dear friends for an early dinner that went on until after the sun set. Great food and conversation with some great women!

The dress is @adamlippes and I borrowed it from @renttherunway. The bag is @jcrew and a splurge but I regretted not buying it the last time they offered this bag and this color is SO me. I mean, look how great it is with these many years old suede heeled sandals? Meant to be!

This color combination makes me so happy, and this dress was comfy even after a decadent meal. We all deserve to experience comfort and joy with our wardrobes! 💛🩷

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If @thechicks are in town you can bet @debbiefaye78 and I will be there! So when we heard they were coming to @merriweatherpp we were so excited. And their concert did not disappoint. As always, a phenomenal show! If The Chicks come to your neck of the woods I highly recommend you go!

Okay I know you want to know about what we’re wearing! 

My sister’s caftan is from @anthropologie (bought this summer so maybe you can find on resale sites).

I’m wearing a @bananarepublic dress also from this summer with the @universalstandard denim chore jacket and a hat I got from a @madewell collab a year or so ago. I glammed it up with some gold chains and gold drop earrings, but kept it comfy for a night of standing and dancing with @birkenstock sandals.

This was my first big outing since my eye surgery, and with a pocketful of eye drops I felt good (and grateful we splurged for good seats!).

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If I close my eyes you can’t tell one is still bloodshot 😜

Still recovering from my eye surgery but feeling more myself. Getting dolled up helps me feel me. Bright colors and bold jewelry have been signature Alison since I was a kid! 

Sweater: @favorite.daughter 
Earrings: Amazon
Necklace: @_jennybird (old)
Ring: @realmfinejewelry 
Bra: @lovebravissimo 
Lipstick: @glossier 
Pins as “cufflinks”: vintage

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Happy gotcha day, Oscar! Four years ago he came into our life and we are so happy to have in our family!

Oscar was a rescue and came with some… quirks. Over the years we have come to understand him and he has come to trust us. He’s a diva, a snuggler, he could play catch for hours, and he’s my husband’s shadow. 

We’ve never had a small breed dog before and it’s a whole different experience. But we adore Oscar and couldn’t imagine our life without him! Thank you for coming into our life Oskie McGoskie! 🐾❤️

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I can see clearly now…

Actually I can’t, but things after my retina surgery are much improved! My next appointment is in a month and I’m cleared to get back into the world (with some restrictions to protect my eye).

With a sclera buckle, it changes your eye shape and now I am nearsighted again (I had lasik a few years ago). Once the eye is stabilized I can get glasses or contacts but until then I’m 20/20 in one eye and right now 20/60 in the other. But the eye is healing beautifully and I feel positive!

And I could see clearly enough to fall for this poppy-colored cotton jumpsuit from @pistoladenim. It comes in a few colors but this one is my favorite. I went with XL (im@a 14, sometimes 16) and likely could have sized down but I enjoy the relaxed fit and the drawstring waistband to create shape. And hello zipper closure making it super easy to get on and off!

My husband took this photo right after my eye appointment, I think it reflects my positive attitude and feeling of hope! 🧡

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I’ll be a bit quiet on here and other channels because I had eye (retinal) surgery this past weekend. I was having what I thought were ocular migraines but come to find out I was experiencing lattice degeneration, which is thinning/holes in the retina. I had surgery Saturday for my right eye and later on they’ll work on the left eye, which isn’t as bad and can be remedied by laser, in office.

I share not because I’m Mrs. Frizzle meets Iris Apfel as I recuperate at home, but because this whole thing has been a lesson on trusting my gut. And I want to remind you to do the same.

As we get older our bodies can feel like strangers. Things are constantly changing and it’s easy to just assume your annual physical will catch anything wrong. But if you slow down and listen to your body you’ll know when things are just a sign of aging and life and what seems unusual. That nagging issue may be something more serious.

And if you’re seeing flashing lights, floaters, spiderwebs or other odd eye things get checked out ASAP. It may be nothing but take it from me, it may actually be something. ❤️

Okay, going back to my big sunglasses caftan recuperation life!

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Ladies who lunch…

While in Savannah, I made sure to get lunch reservations for me and E at @theoldepinkhouse she loves the color pink, historic homes, and ghost stories so it was a perfect choice! 

Built in 1789 on Reynolds Square, there are stories of guests seeing ghosts, cutlery and wine bottles moving along with an elegant and truly delicious dining. 

While we didn’t see any apparitions, we did have a lovely lunch with impeccable service and after toured all floors of the home. I highly recommend a visit if you’re visiting Savannah!

My dress is from @cosstores (no longer available); hat is @furtalk and bag is @talbotsofficial (no longer available).

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Scenes from a week in Savannah… 

The three of us (and our dog Oscar!) had a warm and humid but wonderful time exploring Savannah, Georgia earlier this month. Our daughter visited this gorgeous city last summer with her @girlscouts troop but wanted to return to experience more. We let her choose our adventures and play your guide and it was awesome. We cannot wait to visit again, though next time it won’t be August 🥵

For more of our trip check the “Savannah” highlight on my profile page!

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Stripes are always right…

Y’all know I love stripes and when @universalstandard came out with their Breton-stripe dresses and tops I HAD to try them! As expected, the quality is stellar, the fit boosts my confidence, and I appreciate the range of colors (5 different stripes to choose from) and sizes (00-50). For reference, I’m wearing XS but preferred S for the top and I usually wear a 14 or XL in other brands.

The tote is @able and it’s a soft yet durable leather that just looks better with time. This color (cognac) is one that transitions nicely from summer to fall. 

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