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If @thechicks are in town you can bet @debbiefaye78 and I will be there! So when we heard they were coming to @merriweatherpp we were so excited. And their concert did not disappoint. As always, a phenomenal show! If The Chicks come to your neck of the woods I highly recommend you go!

Okay I know you want to know about what we’re wearing! 

My sister’s caftan is from @anthropologie (bought this summer so maybe you can find on resale sites).

I’m wearing a @bananarepublic dress also from this summer with the @universalstandard denim chore jacket and a hat I got from a @madewell collab a year or so ago. I glammed it up with some gold chains and gold drop earrings, but kept it comfy for a night of standing and dancing with @birkenstock sandals.

This was my first big outing since my eye surgery, and with a pocketful of eye drops I felt good (and grateful we splurged for good seats!).

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For years I’ve trusted @somaintimates for the right bras and the right fit but it had been a while since I visited a Soma boutique to try on all the styles they currently have for a large bust. I must say I was impressed! Knowledgeable staff, extensive collection in larger sizes, and some of the most comfortable and innovative bras in up to H cups! Each body is different but what I loved:

- The Stunning Push-Up: targeted for the DD+ customer gives amazing lift and great shape under fitted knits.

- The Unbelievable Lift Scoop Balconette: sexy, supportive, and so lightweight!

- The Embraceable Wireless: I’ve recommended this wireless bra for large busts for years and was in need for a new one! 

- The Stunning Support Smooth Balconette: this is the perfect t-shirt bra for large busts with padded straps and disappears under knits

- The Stunning Starlet Multi-Way Strapless: recently improved for more support and more comfort, this wireless bra stays put and gives fab shape

I also picked up some of Soma’s iconic Vanishing Edge panties which keep you line-free. The whole Vanishing collection is genius. I loved being able to donate my gently used bras at my local Soma boutique to give to those in need. We all deserve a lift and Soma strives to achieve that. It’s why I’ve been a fan and customer for years and am honored to partner with them. Soma is the perfect fitting bra solution. Visit the link in my bio to shop and to find your local Soma boutique! #SomaPartner #SomaBraFit #SomaStartsWithMe
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If I close my eyes you can’t tell one is still bloodshot 😜

Still recovering from my eye surgery but feeling more myself. Getting dolled up helps me feel me. Bright colors and bold jewelry have been signature Alison since I was a kid! 

Sweater: @favorite.daughter 
Earrings: Amazon
Necklace: @_jennybird (old)
Ring: @realmfinejewelry 
Bra: @lovebravissimo 
Lipstick: @glossier 
Pins as “cufflinks”: vintage

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It was so funny and so quick I couldn’t not share! I bought this @hulkenbag a year ago and use it all the time. Carting shoot supplies, groceries, packing for road trips, and carting donations. This weekend @thenewdealcafe in @cityofgreenbelt hosted a community clothing swap so I made sure my family and I went through our summer wardrobes to gather that which we no longer needed or fit.

This wasn’t the first clothing swap and folks in town know my style (and my job) so there were some waiting for my arrival. Look how fast I cleared out this big bag! Speaking of the bag one other swap attendee said she got herself a Hulken after seeing mine in action!

It’s so great to know our old clothes are getting a good life and this bag makes carting them to the cafe so easy! I got my Hulken on Amazon, it comes in other colors and sizes too: https://amzn.to/48iTY4Y yep the bag is as great as all those ads you see on social media, I’m a big fan!
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I had to see… I asked my husband how often he thinks about the Roman Empire, and then asked our 14-year-old 😂
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Happy gotcha day, Oscar! Four years ago he came into our life and we are so happy to have in our family!

Oscar was a rescue and came with some… quirks. Over the years we have come to understand him and he has come to trust us. He’s a diva, a snuggler, he could play catch for hours, and he’s my husband’s shadow. 

We’ve never had a small breed dog before and it’s a whole different experience. But we adore Oscar and couldn’t imagine our life without him! Thank you for coming into our life Oskie McGoskie! 🐾❤️
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I can see clearly now…

Actually I can’t, but things after my retina surgery are much improved! My next appointment is in a month and I’m cleared to get back into the world (with some restrictions to protect my eye).

With a sclera buckle, it changes your eye shape and now I am nearsighted again (I had lasik a few years ago). Once the eye is stabilized I can get glasses or contacts but until then I’m 20/20 in one eye and right now 20/60 in the other. But the eye is healing beautifully and I feel positive!

And I could see clearly enough to fall for this poppy-colored cotton jumpsuit from @pistoladenim. It comes in a few colors but this one is my favorite. I went with XL (im@a 14, sometimes 16) and likely could have sized down but I enjoy the relaxed fit and the drawstring waistband to create shape. And hello zipper closure making it super easy to get on and off!

My husband took this photo right after my eye appointment, I think it reflects my positive attitude and feeling of hope! 🧡

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#throwbackthursday to what I wore 10 years ago in September…

A decade ago I was working full time in an office and was promoted to manage a good portion of my department. My blog was doing quite well, I was featured in local and national publications and websites. I was embracing what I felt to be a polished professional with an edgy vibe. Less color, more interesting accessories, and my first semi-designer bag (I still have that leopard print mini M.A.C. In the back of my closet). 

I have come to embrace color and have way less black in my closet now, but a lot of these looks are timeless and I would wear now… just likely with lower heels! 😂

Do you recall what you were wearing a decade ago? How similar is it to how you dress now?

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Lifestyle · March 13, 2021

Weekend Reads #144b

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I miss the ocean.

This has been a tough week. I think many of you can relate. The reality that comes with a one-year anniversary of the ‘demic hit me like a ton of bricks (or like a week of terrible sleep). It made me realize how incredibly exhausting this year has been.

Last March, I was fearful about the future of this blog. Would people shop? Is writing about fashion during a ‘demic tone deaf? I hustled all year to keep Wardrobe Oxygen going, to offer content I wanted to see on the Internet, hoping you would too.

It worked, 2020 was my most profitable year yet and so far 2021 has been good. So I am allowing myself to rest.

I am not stopping the blog, but I am going to give myself the gift of time, space, and rest. For example, this week I published a time-consuming blog post and balanced it with taking two days off content. I have said no to over 50% of the sponsored brand opportunities I've received and will continue to do so. I'm taking breaks from Instagram, posting less, and not stressing out about the algorithm.

When I shared my 2020 blogging recap, I said if in 2021 I make just $1 more than 2020 I'd see it as successful. But this is the kind of job where you see what your peers are doing, you have experts telling you that if you do X you will earn Y, and everyone is hustling hustling hustling. And all that noise kept me pushing farther than I really needed to.

I am not in this job to be rich, I am in this job to have freedom, yet I put myself into a work prison this past year. My new goal is to find ways to scale back and allow myself to be a human again, a mother, a wife, a friend while not sacrificing the quality of content.

And I see the quickest way to that goal is writing about what I care about, not what I am paid to write. To share what feels right, not what some so-called expert says is right. My hope is none of you will see any difference, but I and those I love will. This year has been hella hard and while we can see light at the end of the tunnel, that tunnel is still mightly long. The key to surviving is taking rests, and finding ways to stay motivated and find fun.

We'll see how I do with this challenge; writing it down makes it harder to ignore.

Weekend Reads

Why Americans can’t quit Girl Scout cookies. (The Lily; and if you need Girl Scout cookies a certain Cadette who lives in my house is selling them through the 14th)

Were you obsessed with the TV show LOST? I was just thinking about it the other day and this article popped up in my Twitter feed: An oral history of Lost’s daring, divisive finale, our last truly communal broadcast TV experience. (Vulture)

The incredible, indelible legacy of Sylvia Hunt. (Food & Wine)

Essential oils may be wreaking havoc on your skin. (New York Times)

Yet again, Gabrielle Blair has me furiously nod my head. I read the Twitter thread, and loved the recap on her blog. We need more information about perimenopause. (Design Mom)

I was a teen troll against incels on 4Chan. (GEN for Medium)

If six different Wardrobe Oxygen readers recommend this striped shirt, is that a sign?

The bizarre tale of the world's last lost tourist, who thought Maine was San Francisco. (SFGate)

If the hymen is unrelated to virginity, why do women bleed the first time they have sex? (The Vajenda)

How one Manhattan boarding house became the epicenter of 20th-century celebrity and glamour. (Town & Country)

Abandoning masks now is a terrible idea. The 1918 pandemic shows why. (The Washington Post)

Alumni of the oldest high school for African Americans west of the Mississippi River, which includes Tina Turner, are again fighting for the school's survival, extolling its symbolism and importance, and fueled by a deep pride in its history. (NPR)

How a Calypso anthem became the surreal centerpiece of Beetlejuice. (Pitchfork)

Friendship insecurity has gotten worse for many women, especially during the colder months. (The Lily)

I've had a few requests for skorts. I think they're brilliant for spring and summer. Sure, they're lovely for tennis and golf but also for grocery shopping, hiking, hanging out in the backyard, and all sorts of activities! Some size-inclusive styles that get great reviews:

  • Miami Fitwear, a POC woman-owned company that manufactures all their products in-house in Texas just came out with skorts in two lengths sizes XXS-4X in nine colors and they have pockets! Use WARDROBEOXYGEN15 to get 15% off one order.
  • Athleta now is available up to 3XL and that includes their skort selection. The Soho and Brooklyn skorts are the two that readers recommend more than any others. Thank you Athleta for showing these skorts on more than one body size/shape.
  • Duluth Trading is much more than work clothes; they have a great selection of skorts that come highly rated and are available up to size 26.
  • Talbots always has a great selection of skorts for activities and for style. Talbots offers petite, plus, and plus petite ensuring a great fit.
  • Chico's is a great place to look if you want a longer skort that looks more like a skirt. They offer petites, talls, and regular sizes to 20/22 and WO2 readers share they find the size runs roomy.
  • J.Jill is also another destination where you can find longer skorts that look more like traditional streetwear skirts. J.Jill offers Misses, Petite, Tall and Plus up to size 4X.

If you've been following the drama about actor Armie Hammer, this is for you: The fall of Armie Hammer: a family saga of sex, money, drugs, and betrayal. (Vanity Fair)

And finally, thank you to reader Amy for sending this beautiful piece with a beautiful reminder for all of us. (Heard in London)

Hear/See/Read

A tale of two documentaries about female musical artists:

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In one week, we watched the New York Times documentary about Britney Spears on Hulu and the Apple TV documentary about Billie Eilish. The combination was extremely powerful, and as a parent, I couldn't help but focus on how the difference in the parents really affected the outcomes of their children.

You have likely already heard a lot about the Britney Spears documentary. There have been many think pieces about this film, so I won't share my own. But I will share that watching this documentary will change how you look at celebrity gossip. And it will also have you thinking about her lack of adult/guardian/parental support throughout her career.

Immediately after we finished Framing Britney Spears, we watched The World's a Little Blurry, the doc about Billie Eilish. Talk about a drastic difference in how a teenager experiences fame, as well as how a family is involved in that teen's life and career.

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Eilish wasn't even 18 when she went on tour and achieved fame, but she toured with family members, who were seen in every situation, were working hard to advocate for her, and keep her healthy and safe.

Over the years my kid has said she wants to be a singer, an actress, a politician, a public figure of some sort. I can't help but think of the Lindsay Lohans and Britney Spears of the world. But watching this Billie Eilish doc made me realize that doesn't have to be the only route for child stars.

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The World's A Little Blurry also gave me even more respect for Billie Eilish and her brother, Finneas. These are some mad talented young adults, and it's so clear to see how their style of music, videos, and fashion were ahead of their time. Now the world is replicating what these two did in Finneas' bedroom five years ago. It's worth a watch, even if you don't especially like her music, to know the kids are going to be okay if we as adults provide an accepting, supportive, and secure environment for them to thrive.

All The Other Things I Watched

I only shared Punky Brewster last week, so I have some catching up to do!

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KiKi Layne and Eddie Murphy star in COMING 2 AMERICA Photo: Quantrell D. Colbert © 2020 Paramount Pictures

As a family, we watched Coming to America so we'd be caught up for the sequel, Coming 2 America. Both are available on Amazon Prime. I read so many meh reviews about the sequel but my entire family and I found it so fun. It was beautiful and funny, and sometimes cheesy, and I loved the flashbacks, the return of so many characters and actors, and the phenomenal cameos.

Also, Jermaine Fowler, who plays Lavelle, grew up here in Prince George's County, Maryland in Hyattsville, and it's great to see a local person succeed!

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Still watching Yellowstone, which is so addictive and so good. We're savoring it with only one or two episodes a week. And you know I looked up who made this coat that the character Beth is wearing: it's a collab between Pendleton and Lindsey Thornburg and costs a cool $1,395.00. I saw plenty of “dupes” out there when searching for this coat, but those are counterfeit fast fashion pieces. I bet sewists out there could make something similar without ripping off the original designers!

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And if there is one thing to watch that I recommend over all the rest of this… it's Moxie, a new movie on Netflix directed by and starring Amy Pohler. Okay, she's more a supporting role, but she's the name that will get people intrigued. And this movie is fantastic (and totally cool to watch with your teens and older tweens).

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Moxie stars Hadley Robinson as Vivian, a shy 16-year-old who finds inspiration from her mother’s Riot Grrl past, anonymously publishes a zine that sparks a school-wide coming-of-rage revolution. The cast is amazing, the topics covered are important, and there were little nuggets of empowerment at every turn. The relationship between Vivian and her boyfriend, between Vivian and her mom, of girls supporting all who identify as girls, intersectionality, #MeToo, and much more.

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My 6th grader was beyond obsessed with the film, totally shipped Vivian and Seth, wanted to be friends with all the girls, and it got her back into writing furiously in her diary every evening (actually the Billie Eilish doc started it, but this kept her going). It made me want to dig into the attic and see what old zines and photos I may have forgotten.

For Your Entertainment

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Noga Erez is an Israeli singer-songwriter and producer who isn't afraid to share her thoughts on politics, society, and life in general through her music. Encouraged by her parents at a young age to channel her anxiety and energy into creativity, she began with dance classes but soon took up the piano. When she joined the Israeli military (Israel has mandatory conscription) she did so as a musician.

Erez's first album, Off the Radar came out in 2017 to rave reviews. Her song, “Dance While You Shoot” was used in an Apple commercial.

Erez's latest album, KIDS, is an homage to her parents that raised her, and to parents everywhere who “shape the future” we live in. It is being released at the end of this month, but a few singles with videos have already been released, including this one that had me positively riveted. I recommend watching with captioning on to capture all the lyrics.



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  1. Stacey K says

    March 15, 2021 at 11:26 am

    My husband and I both loved Moxie! It was pretty eye-opening for my husband to see what it’s like for girls as they’re growing up – the misogyny we were taught to ignore when we were that age. We don’t have kids but we have three nieces who we adore, who each have the ability to change the world in their own way. I’m going to make sure they watch this movie.

    We also watched the heartbreaking Britney Spears documentary. I was never really a fan, but found myself crying at the way she was absolutely terrorized by the paparazzi and the way she has been completely taken advantage of. As a fellow Gen-Xer I highly recommend Kid 90, Soleil Moon Frye’s new documentary. It’s a powerful look into the lives of young Hollywood stars growing up in the ’90s.

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  2. Jax says

    March 14, 2021 at 1:08 am

    Please do take a break for yourself. Your health and wellbeing are the most important. We’ll still be loyal readers.

    Reply
    • Jax says

      March 14, 2021 at 1:50 am

      OMG, the perimenopause blog post is SO GOOD and ON TARGET.

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  3. Nicole Kowalski says

    March 13, 2021 at 8:49 pm

    Sorry you had a tough week. Just letting you know how much it means to a lot of us to have had your voice around during this unexpectedly hard year.

    I was just looking back over the year and realizing that many of my “on repeat” clothing beauty items were Ali recs! Two pairs of the Soma black joggers with zippers; a jumpsuit from Anthro I found because of your sale alerts and your example of looking so darn cute in them; an oversized cardigan to throw over everything; two new pairs of Soma PJs with snuggly cardigans, and Colleen Rothschild Retinol Oil every night.

    And of course, your work on social and racial justice was eye opening and thought inducing. Have always worked for and voted for Democrats, so not hard to follow your lead on Biden/Harris, but damn, what a relief when they won.

    Sending loads of gratitude your way!

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    • Nicole Kowalski says

      March 13, 2021 at 8:51 pm

      P.S. Also a big fan of Jermaine Fowler’s. A few years ago, we somehow stumbled onto Friends of the People, a comedy skit show he was part of, and it’s hilarious. Became a big fan of Jermaine’s and Lil’ Rel because of that show!

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  4. RoseAG says

    March 13, 2021 at 7:52 pm

    The Madewell post was interesting. There are some situations where in-person shopping is best and I think your experiene highlights why in-person shopping can be useful.
    Sometimes you just need to try a whole boatload of things on to find the right fit.

    Reply
  5. Christine says

    March 13, 2021 at 4:20 pm

    Thank you for the great article recs, as always!

    Reply
  6. Samantha Stephens says

    March 13, 2021 at 2:46 pm

    Ali, where I live weekend reads hits my feedly on a Sunday morning. It is something I look forward to every week. Thank you for your considered and curated collection of interesting and informed articles. Life here in NZ is surprisingly normal and I really feel for people in other parts of the world who are still extremely affected by Covid. Take care and thank you for being such a wonderful part of my online world. Sam xo

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  7. ErinG says

    March 13, 2021 at 12:29 pm

    I am confident that your followers will live any changes you choose to make!
    Unfortunately I don’t have Apple TV but I listened to True Story with Tig and Cheryl about the Billie Eilish documentary and they had her Mom on it. Worth a listen! (This is probably the only ep of True Story that actually discusses the documentary- just in case you decide to keep listening… it is laugh out loud funny every week!)

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  8. Linda M says

    March 13, 2021 at 12:11 pm

    Totally understand your needing to step back. Running your own business is a lot of pressure. I appreciate your brutal honesty, essential in a good writer, which you definitely are. Keep it real, and keep owning your voice. I think a more thorough blog post followed by a short rest is just fine. I will still be here, and I respect you for deciding there is a line.

    Reply
  9. Susan L says

    March 13, 2021 at 10:32 am

    You are one of the few bloggers that I still follow. I really like how ethical you are. And I really wish I had more information on perimenopause during that time it would have helped me. Thank you for being here.

    Reply
  10. LA says

    March 13, 2021 at 9:08 am

    I only follow a couple of bloggers, however you were my first! You are a REAL woman with passion and great things to share..I appreciate that. Do what you LOVE and the money will come. LOVE what you do and happiness will prevail!
    Nuf said!

    Reply
  11. Karen says

    March 13, 2021 at 7:54 am

    Since you asked “ If six different Wardrobe Oxygen readers recommend this striped shirt, is that a sign?”, yup it sure is, of great marketing….

    Reply
    • Barbara says

      March 13, 2021 at 4:12 pm

      For me, the purchase of the Amazon shirt had nothing to do with marketing. I have been actively searching for black/white striped tee for (literally) years! I tried ones from many different brands at every price point. None of them worked for me. Most Breton styles are too short and/or too boxy on me, while regular tee shirts are too clingy. I stumbled across the Amazon shirt and ordered it, expecting it to be another reject (I never buy clothes on Amazon). I was honestly shocked when it arrived and fit exactly the way I wanted. As a bonus, the mostly cotton fabric is soft and comfortable. I have since bought 2 more. Sometimes, something is just that good.

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Still recovering from my eye surgery but feeling more myself. Getting dolled up helps me feel me. Bright colors and bold jewelry have been signature Alison since I was a kid! 

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Earrings: Amazon
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Happy gotcha day, Oscar! Four years ago he came into our life and we are so happy to have in our family!

Oscar was a rescue and came with some… quirks. Over the years we have come to understand him and he has come to trust us. He’s a diva, a snuggler, he could play catch for hours, and he’s my husband’s shadow. 

We’ve never had a small breed dog before and it’s a whole different experience. But we adore Oscar and couldn’t imagine our life without him! Thank you for coming into our life Oskie McGoskie! 🐾❤️

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I can see clearly now…

Actually I can’t, but things after my retina surgery are much improved! My next appointment is in a month and I’m cleared to get back into the world (with some restrictions to protect my eye).

With a sclera buckle, it changes your eye shape and now I am nearsighted again (I had lasik a few years ago). Once the eye is stabilized I can get glasses or contacts but until then I’m 20/20 in one eye and right now 20/60 in the other. But the eye is healing beautifully and I feel positive!

And I could see clearly enough to fall for this poppy-colored cotton jumpsuit from @pistoladenim. It comes in a few colors but this one is my favorite. I went with XL (im@a 14, sometimes 16) and likely could have sized down but I enjoy the relaxed fit and the drawstring waistband to create shape. And hello zipper closure making it super easy to get on and off!

My husband took this photo right after my eye appointment, I think it reflects my positive attitude and feeling of hope! 🧡

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I’ll be a bit quiet on here and other channels because I had eye (retinal) surgery this past weekend. I was having what I thought were ocular migraines but come to find out I was experiencing lattice degeneration, which is thinning/holes in the retina. I had surgery Saturday for my right eye and later on they’ll work on the left eye, which isn’t as bad and can be remedied by laser, in office.

I share not because I’m Mrs. Frizzle meets Iris Apfel as I recuperate at home, but because this whole thing has been a lesson on trusting my gut. And I want to remind you to do the same.

As we get older our bodies can feel like strangers. Things are constantly changing and it’s easy to just assume your annual physical will catch anything wrong. But if you slow down and listen to your body you’ll know when things are just a sign of aging and life and what seems unusual. That nagging issue may be something more serious.

And if you’re seeing flashing lights, floaters, spiderwebs or other odd eye things get checked out ASAP. It may be nothing but take it from me, it may actually be something. ❤️

Okay, going back to my big sunglasses caftan recuperation life!

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Aug 30

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Ladies who lunch…

While in Savannah, I made sure to get lunch reservations for me and E at @theoldepinkhouse she loves the color pink, historic homes, and ghost stories so it was a perfect choice! 

Built in 1789 on Reynolds Square, there are stories of guests seeing ghosts, cutlery and wine bottles moving along with an elegant and truly delicious dining. 

While we didn’t see any apparitions, we did have a lovely lunch with impeccable service and after toured all floors of the home. I highly recommend a visit if you’re visiting Savannah!

My dress is from @cosstores (no longer available); hat is @furtalk and bag is @talbotsofficial (no longer available).

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Aug 29

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Scenes from a week in Savannah… 

The three of us (and our dog Oscar!) had a warm and humid but wonderful time exploring Savannah, Georgia earlier this month. Our daughter visited this gorgeous city last summer with her @girlscouts troop but wanted to return to experience more. We let her choose our adventures and play your guide and it was awesome. We cannot wait to visit again, though next time it won’t be August 🥵

For more of our trip check the “Savannah” highlight on my profile page!

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Aug 28

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Stripes are always right…

Y’all know I love stripes and when @universalstandard came out with their Breton-stripe dresses and tops I HAD to try them! As expected, the quality is stellar, the fit boosts my confidence, and I appreciate the range of colors (5 different stripes to choose from) and sizes (00-50). For reference, I’m wearing XS but preferred S for the top and I usually wear a 14 or XL in other brands.

The tote is @able and it’s a soft yet durable leather that just looks better with time. This color (cognac) is one that transitions nicely from summer to fall. 

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#usinthewild #bretonstripes #midsizestyle #midsizefashion #size14 #over40style

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Aug 27

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The family that wears @printfresh together stays together 🥰

Use code wardrobe_oxygen for 15% off your order of size-inclusive organic cotton sleepwear, dresses, bags & more https://glnk.io/qk04/wardrobe-oxygen

I’ve been raving about my Printfresh pajamas for years, my family also wanted to try them. Thank you Printfresh for gifting these for our annual three generation girls’ getaway to Rehoboth Beach, DE. We had a great time and being all matchy matchy in our pajamas was a fun addition! 🐅🍃🥰

#printfresh #printfreshpajamas #printfreshpartner

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Aug 12

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Shuts laptop until Monday… #RehobothBeach

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