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Scenes from a Friday night…

We started at @littleblackbirddc a new wine bar in Cleveland Park where we had great food, drink, and conversation into the evening. We then headed down the street to @atomicbilliards for a whole different experience and to keep the conversation going. I treasure my friendships with @sylviacolella (who had a birthday recently), @districtofchic, and @blonde_inthedistrict they’re the real deal 🥰

My dress is @adamlippes borrowed via @renttherunway and Cheetos with Sauvignon Blanc is a really fun pairing!
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Night and day…

Met three dear friends for an early dinner that went on until after the sun set. Great food and conversation with some great women!

The dress is @adamlippes and I borrowed it from @renttherunway. The bag is @jcrew and a splurge but I regretted not buying it the last time they offered this bag and this color is SO me. I mean, look how great it is with these many years old suede heeled sandals? Meant to be!

This color combination makes me so happy, and this dress was comfy even after a decadent meal. We all deserve to experience comfort and joy with our wardrobes! 💛🩷

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If @thechicks are in town you can bet @debbiefaye78 and I will be there! So when we heard they were coming to @merriweatherpp we were so excited. And their concert did not disappoint. As always, a phenomenal show! If The Chicks come to your neck of the woods I highly recommend you go!

Okay I know you want to know about what we’re wearing! 

My sister’s caftan is from @anthropologie (bought this summer so maybe you can find on resale sites).

I’m wearing a @bananarepublic dress also from this summer with the @universalstandard denim chore jacket and a hat I got from a @madewell collab a year or so ago. I glammed it up with some gold chains and gold drop earrings, but kept it comfy for a night of standing and dancing with @birkenstock sandals.

This was my first big outing since my eye surgery, and with a pocketful of eye drops I felt good (and grateful we splurged for good seats!).

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For years I’ve trusted @somaintimates for the right bras and the right fit but it had been a while since I visited a Soma boutique to try on all the styles they currently have for a large bust. I must say I was impressed! Knowledgeable staff, extensive collection in larger sizes, and some of the most comfortable and innovative bras in up to H cups! Each body is different but what I loved:

- The Stunning Push-Up: targeted for the DD+ customer gives amazing lift and great shape under fitted knits.

- The Unbelievable Lift Scoop Balconette: sexy, supportive, and so lightweight!

- The Embraceable Wireless: I’ve recommended this wireless bra for large busts for years and was in need for a new one! 

- The Stunning Support Smooth Balconette: this is the perfect t-shirt bra for large busts with padded straps and disappears under knits

- The Stunning Starlet Multi-Way Strapless: recently improved for more support and more comfort, this wireless bra stays put and gives fab shape

I also picked up some of Soma’s iconic Vanishing Edge panties which keep you line-free. The whole Vanishing collection is genius. I loved being able to donate my gently used bras at my local Soma boutique to give to those in need. We all deserve a lift and Soma strives to achieve that. It’s why I’ve been a fan and customer for years and am honored to partner with them. Soma is the perfect fitting bra solution. Visit the link in my bio to shop and to find your local Soma boutique! #SomaPartner #SomaBraFit #SomaStartsWithMe
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Earrings: Amazon
Necklace: @_jennybird (old)
Ring: @realmfinejewelry 
Bra: @lovebravissimo 
Lipstick: @glossier 
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It was so funny and so quick I couldn’t not share! I bought this @hulkenbag a year ago and use it all the time. Carting shoot supplies, groceries, packing for road trips, and carting donations. This weekend @thenewdealcafe in @cityofgreenbelt hosted a community clothing swap so I made sure my family and I went through our summer wardrobes to gather that which we no longer needed or fit.

This wasn’t the first clothing swap and folks in town know my style (and my job) so there were some waiting for my arrival. Look how fast I cleared out this big bag! Speaking of the bag one other swap attendee said she got herself a Hulken after seeing mine in action!

It’s so great to know our old clothes are getting a good life and this bag makes carting them to the cafe so easy! I got my Hulken on Amazon, it comes in other colors and sizes too: https://amzn.to/48iTY4Y yep the bag is as great as all those ads you see on social media, I’m a big fan!
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Fashion Advice, Plus Size Fashion · July 27, 2022

How to Disguise a Belly in the Summer: 5 Steps to Feeling More Confident and Looking Your Best

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A reader reached out asking how to disguise a belly in the summer. Below I share her email as well as tips on how to disguise a belly in the summer with what you wear and how to style outfits to not make one's stomach take the spotlight.

I have a large stomach that can easily pass for being seven or more months pregnant if I let it hang out and do not camouflage. Wearing A-line garments is tricky because I inevitably get asked if I'm pregnant.

My “uniform” is slacks, a fitted tee or shirt, and a sweater or jacket, but you can see how this becomes tricky in the summer heat. Also, to accommodate my stomach, my pants often end up baggy in the rear (I have a tiny ass and thin legs). I want pants that fit but don't call attention to my stomach, aren't saggy in the bottom, and that is classic or on trend. My preferred style is classic and polished.

What do you recommend?

This post was originally published in June 2017 and due to reader requests and new styles, was updated in 2022.

Tips on How to Disguise a Belly in the Summer

1. Let's Start with the Bottom Half: Pants, Jeans, and Shorts

Oh pants, they can be such a pain when you have curves. But they’re so versatile and easy to style, and so perfect for so many occasions. When it comes to really great pants in plus size that look classic and polished, I have to recommend the Kady pant from ELOQUII.

It’s made of this thick, tightly-knit doubleweave stretch fabric that looks professional yet can dress down. The fabric is made that it holds its shape, no saggy bum or diaper effect after a day sitting at your desk. They’re an ankle length, which is also flattering and perfect to pair with summer shoes. 

ELOQUII KADY PANTS
The three fits of the ELOQUII ‘Kady' Pant

They come in three lengths as well as three fits – their “Gena” fit is for those who have a fuller midsection and smaller hips and thighs. their “Viola” fit is for those who have hips that are one to two sizes larger than their bust, and their “Regular” fit is for those with hips and bust proportional and a defined waistline.

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Another example of the ELOQUII ‘Kady' Pant on three different body shapes

Shop the ELOQUII Kady Pant:

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If ELOQUII doesn't fit your body well (we're all shaped differently, the problem isn't you but the clothes), check out Universal Standard. Offering sizes 00-40 with several pant styles in petite and tall and hundreds of customer reviews, you may find exactly the right pants to fit your frame.

I am a fan of Universal Standard pants because I feel that they are made for a body with a belly. I can achieve the sleek, slim, and crisp pants look I desire without busting out above the legs.

Universal Standard's color and fabric selection is more limited than ELOQUII, but the quality is stellar and they make for great wardrobe workhorses you can style a variety of ways.

Shop Pants from Universal Standard:

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If you're looking for jeans, I highly recommend Talbots.  I bought a pair of their white ankle jeans and wore them on a cross-country flight I found them so comfortable.  Even more amazing, when I arrived at my destination the jeans weren't stretched out! 

They wash like a dream, come in a dozen different silhouettes, have a curvy fit, long/tall options, petite in straight and plus sizes, pull-on styles, and extensive customer reviews to help you find the right pair for you. 

And if you think Talbots is for a certain age you haven't tried their clothes lately… you'll be pleasantly surprised. 

Shop My Picks for Talbots Jeans:

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Above I share my experience styling a stomach with visuals of different bodies tucking and not tucking in tops.

When it comes to shorts, I know this can be a difficult topic. I like a longer short which will balance the midsection. A color that is lower contrast (white, beige, and faded denim for paler skintones; black, olive, and darker denim for deeper skintones for example) will look stylish and will elongate the figure.

An unexpected place where I have found great shorts that look good, slim the midsection, and are comfortable is Spanx. Yes Spanx! Offering up to size 3X, Spanx has a great Bermuda short that is a 10″ inseam. The Spanx Get Moving Skort is 15″ making it a great length to prevent thigh chafing while still looking modern. And for those who are shorter, their 6″ Get Moving Short is a great option.

Again, I must recommend Talbots for dressing your bottom half. Talbots has a great range of shorts where you can choose rise, length, and curvy or classic fit in misses, petite, plus, and plus petite. As a 5'3″ woman who carries her weight in her belly and rear, I am a fan of their 7″ Perfect Shorts. For taller bodies, their 10.5″ Perfect Short is a bestseller for good reason.

Shop My Picks for Shorts:

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Tops that create the illusion of a waist. Clockwise from top right: Torrid, Avenue, CityChic, Lane Bryant

2. Now Let's Dress the Top Half:

As for tops, steer clear from trapeze or a-line tops like you mentioned, as well as anything with an empire waistline (below the bust, above the natural waist). Those are stereotypically found in maternity fashion. Instead, you want something fitted, or that is gathered to create the effect of a waist at or below your natural waistline.

Surplice or faux wrap style tops and wrap dresses are great for this.  Also, don't be afraid of tops that have a gently elasticized waist or a self-belt at the waist. Instead of adding bulk, it will help create the effect of an hourglass shape. 

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An example of tops that create the effect of a waist. Shop these tops below:

top row: chambray | purple tunic | light yellow-green
middle row: white floral | yellow peplum | dark green floral
bottom row:
blue ruffled | ivory animal print | white

By creating the effect of a waist, whether or not you “go in” in the middle, it will balance the figure thereby minimizing focus on the midsection.

This carousel of images below showcases tops of this type currently available in stores. You can use the arrows to scroll through the images to find a top you like.  Click on the photo and a separate browser window will open directing you to the site offering the top.

Shop Tops To Disguise a Midsection:

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Since you say you have slim legs, I am betting you also have arms that you don’t mind being seen. Showing your arms will not only keep you cool in the summer but also elongate your frame and balance your figure.

Sleeveless, semi-sleeveless with a ruffle covering the top of the shoulder, or even a cap sleeve will likely flatter and look polished. Having that bit of shoulder detail will balance the body and keep the eye looking up. Steer clear of deeply cut armholes, racerbacks, or halters as even when the top is fitted, they create a triangle shape to the body, emphasizing the midsection. 

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Tops that hide a midsection with optical illusions

As for length, I think it’s up to you for comfort. I’ve seen women with large stomachs look phenomenal in tucked-in blouses or tops that hit right at the waistband, while others look better in tops that hit mid-hip. Tunics can be tough as again that’s a length that is popular in maternity fashion; if you prefer some length to cover the rear I say go even longer.

The dress over pants look is back in style (and honestly if you do it right, a style that is never unstylish). Consider longer tops or shorter dresses in lightweight fabrics over slim but structured pants or longer shorts (not leggings, again that’s too typical maternity and not polished) for a very chic and modern look.  

While many style gurus recommend wearing a column of color (same color top as trousers) to slim the figure, I think in this case it may emphasize your belly. Having a top with interest – gathers, a ruffle or drape, a tie neckline, a print – will camouflage your midsection without effort. Prints are our friend as they create an optical illusion. 

I find the best optical illusions come from black and white patterns and they look so crisp with white pants and can winterize easily when the temps cool.  Again, I offer another carousel of tops that create an optical illusion with prints.  

Shop Tops that Create an Optical Illusion at the Midsection:

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And speaking of patterns, they don’t have to be reserved for the top. A fabulously printed pant can draw attention away from your midsection. Especially when paired with a black top (which recesses), this can be a very chic look. I love a black and white printed ankle pant; add a colorful sandal for even more style points and to again draw the eye away from the torso.

3. Consider Your Accessories:

Accessories can make a major difference. As I mentioned, colorful shoes can add style but also bring the eye down. The same holds true for colorful statement earrings. Earrings are better than shorter necklaces or bold bracelets for making a statement as they are farther away from your midsection.

If you do wish to wear a necklace, look for a long chain with a pendant that will elongate the frame. Have fun with sunglasses – big plastic frames, '70s-inspired aviators or rose-tinted shades, anything that creates a bit of a statement while adhering to your personal style.

With bags, a big bulky shoulder bag that hangs at waist- to hip-length will only enlarge that part of the body. And in the summer heat, who wants to lug around a big heavy bag anyway? Consider totes, single strap backpacks to carry lots of gear, and clutch bags when you don’t need to bring much.

4. Find a Tailor:

This is the advice that is the least desired, but the most important to really feel confident with what you wear. Don't expect to have clothing fit you off the rack. No one can dress off the rack. Those celebrities with enviable style? They employ tailors. That really stylish woman in your office? I'll bet she has a tailor. No matter your shape, size, or age, you will look better and feel more comfortable if your clothes are tailored to fit.

Do not wait until you've lost weight or just for your fancier or more expensive pieces; everything in your closet will likely improve with some tailoring. Not only that, when you have clothes that fit your current body, you will have less of a desire or need to shop, and find you achieve more style with fewer items in your closet.

I'm telling you, properly fitting clothing will minimize the appearance of your stomach, make your body look more proportional, improve your posture, and emphasize the parts of you that you want to be the focus. It's a real game-changer.

Shop for the largest part of you, whether it is your stomach, bust, hips, rear, or a combination. Then a tailor (or seamstress or sewist) can modify the rest of the garment to work with, not against you. Start small; have a tailor shorten the hem on a pair of pants or the sleeve on a jacket. But when you find a tailor you trust, they can achieve amazing things. For example, my tailor will take a pair of pants and slightly taper them below my rear and on the sides of pants so there is room for my belly and bum, but no sagginess underneath which just makes those curves look both bigger and less firm.

Where to find a tailor? Check Yelp, ask on your local Facebook page or NextDoor. If there is a bridal shop in town, ask if they have a seamstress who will take outside projects. A local theater likely knows of a seamstress that helps with costumes; that person may also do alterations. If there is a pageant community nearby, they likely know of quality tailors and seamstresses. An unexpected place is a bra boutique; they often have clients who have had body reconstruction and know of individuals who have helped their clients modify their wardrobe to accommodate the change.

This may seem intimidating or overwhelming, but if you keep shopping but feel you still have nothing to wear, if you are uncomfortable in your wardrobe, if you find what is in stores doesn't seem to work with your body… a tailor will transform your relationship with clothes and in the long run save you money. And tailors are like therapists… they have seen everything and your body is nothing weird or awful or bad. You are a client and they want their client to feel great.

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5. The Most Important Styling Tip:

And finally, the most important accessory to wear is confidence. When you feel good, you look good. You stand taller, you have better posture, you rock your outfit, and people notice the whole package, the amazing woman, not one specific body part.

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  1. Lindsey Schroeder says

    May 3, 2022 at 9:37 am

    I just really want the pink dress she’s wearing in the photo!

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  2. Ranger says

    January 29, 2022 at 12:22 am

    I found the article very interesting but, as others, my shape is not ‘regular’. With a large belly, large bust, very short chunky legs and fat ankles, dresses and/or skirts are out for me. I currently live in jeans but when I buy any, I have to take about 10 inches off the length, so any shaping disappears. Dressing tips for very shot people (I am 5 foot tall) would be much appreciated.

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  3. Diana says

    May 29, 2021 at 10:54 am

    The ideas with pictures in this article are very helpful, but here is my scenario. I have a large belly. Along with that, I have had a bilateral mastectomy due to bilateral breast cancer. Having said that, My chest is pretty flat and I have a hard time finding tops or dresses that won’t sag on top, yet will hide my belly. It is a difficult styling issue! Any suggestions? Thank you!

    Reply
  4. Cynthia says

    July 2, 2020 at 5:18 pm

    This is another one of those posts where you read my mind. What excellent, well-researched useful advice! Thanks for sharing all the various examples.

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    • Jane Wismer says

      April 29, 2022 at 11:57 pm

      This is terrific advice! I recently started using a tailor, and it IS A GAME CHANGER! Thanks for sharing!

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  5. Robin OSBORNE says

    May 7, 2020 at 6:51 pm

    For as many women that have commented that they are this shape why can’t plus size clothing designers realize that not all of us are hour glass or pear shaped? So many times I try on plus size clothes, pants in particular and discover that there is room for another person ()k, maybe just a small person, but still.) in the way the thigh portion is cut. I’m 5’2, wear a 38-40 h cup bra and I have a belly. My hips and legs are relatively slim. I have often described my shape as being deep, not wide.

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    • Alison Gary says

      May 8, 2020 at 8:11 am

      Amen! I also would consider myself deep not wide!

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      • Robin O. says

        May 8, 2020 at 6:32 pm

        Oh my! As a retired teacher I am mortified by the typos in my comment. I will most definitely proofread better going forward.

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        • Gail McKelvey says

          July 31, 2020 at 5:18 pm

          Don’t you find the typos worse in sending a text? And those auto corrects, oh my! Your response to your own text did make me laugh!

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    • Cori says

      February 16, 2021 at 3:01 am

      I like to compare my shape to an upside down triangle. A sexy one.

      Reply
    • Misty says

      March 19, 2021 at 1:32 pm

      1000 percent agreed. I’m apple shaped, and have always had issues finding pants that didn’t swallow my thighs & butt, being that I had to buy a larger pant size in order to accommodate my large belly. My stomach is actually larger than my hips!
      I’ve always said… if I ever had the money, I’d start a clothing line —for straight & plus sizes —that accommodated each shape, and not just the main 4. The clothing world REALLY needs this; the plus size area needs a revamping, altogether. I don’t understand why it’s so difficult to create the same styles/design aesthetics in plus–sized clothing, that exists so prominently in straight sizes, without breaking the bank or having to search all over creation!

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      • Susan says

        April 29, 2022 at 8:53 am

        I am this way and I have found Judy Blue Jeans to be the best. They have amazing stretch without sagging in the bum, even the waist band has stretch. I get all of mine at arcrossroads.com I say they are the pants you can wear to eat at the buffet and never have to unbutton when done. Lol

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  6. Debbie says

    June 8, 2019 at 9:48 pm

    Great article! I struggle with this issue all the time. You’ve given me some inspiration!

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  7. Christine Johnson says

    May 21, 2019 at 11:33 pm

    Great post! Anyone struggling with this issue might like to visit whenthegirlsrule.com, a blog wholly devoted to dressing the apple shape.

    Reply
  8. MarlaD says

    May 19, 2019 at 9:08 am

    Belly is definitely my biggest challenge. If you are a dress wearer, this season I discovered the super flattering Karen Kane Chloe dress and I’m in love. Some sites will say this is a swing dress but it is not – it’s a nice a line that skims but creates a shape and has room in the front without volume. And it has pockets! Looks cute with booties or sandals, cardigan or jean jacket. This must be a classic style for Karen Kane since there are a lot available out there that might be from prior seasons, there are some great bargains on Amazon. You can find prints and solids and comes in regular and plus. It’s a shorter style, I am 5’-1” and the XL it hits me right at the top of the knee. Packs up to nothing and doesn’t wrinkle. Honestly? I’ve got six so far.

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    • Nancy says

      July 16, 2019 at 10:05 pm

      Where do you find karen Kane dresses

      Reply
      • Alison Gary says

        July 17, 2019 at 8:30 am

        Karen Kane has a great online site with free shipping on orders $100 and more: http://bit.ly/32AoFAX the brand is also carried at Nordstrom http://bit.ly/2NZwVqA Macy’s http://bit.ly/2NZmgwk and Bloomingdale’s http://bit.ly/2O8RMrU it’s high quality, made in the USA, woman-designed and owned company.

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      • MarlaD says

        July 17, 2019 at 1:38 pm

        Hi Nancy, I have found them on the Karen Kane website, Nordstrom and Macy’s. There is also a hodgepodge available on Amazon, even some of the current styles at reduced prices. I do all my shopping online so I’m not sure what store availability is. They have some fall patterns out on the Nordstrom website right now. Good luck!

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  9. Marie says

    May 17, 2019 at 9:18 am

    This is GREAT post for me as I fall into this category and it’s my never ending dilemma !

    Reply
  10. Cec says

    May 16, 2019 at 11:12 am

    Any skirt/dress suggestions? I had a baby in the fall and am still nursing, so not only do I need tummy disguising but boob access. Also my internal thermostat seems to have reset to hot-all-the-time. Really really over empire waists and wearing my maternity dresses (and really really over people asking me if I’m (still) pregnant!)

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    • Maryn says

      May 17, 2019 at 10:38 am

      The Lands End banded waist fit and flare dress that was shared here recently was my go-to while nursing. I still have a couple in my closet – they pack well for travel, too.

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      • Alison Gary says

        May 17, 2019 at 10:50 am

        Great suggestion, it’s one I wore when nursing as well and continue to wear! https://shopstyle.it/l/3rBy I also did wrap dresses, especially in matte jersey which doesn’t stretch out over time like regular jersey can. It was a long while ago but I found mine at Talbots of all places. But a lot of places carry such dresses and they come in a range of lengths, sleeve lengths, prints, and solids. This one from chaus has elbow-length sleeves and this link is for navy but they have it in a couple other colors: https://shopstyle.it/l/3rDx and this one from Eliza J has a pretty floral print making it great for day weddings and social events: https://shopstyle.it/l/3rCK

        Not what you’re asking for but I had to share this jumpsuit from Loveappella I LOVED when nursing and beyond! https://shopstyle.it/l/3rCO

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    • Lainey says

      May 17, 2019 at 10:54 am

      As someone who has a similar body type to this after having two kids, I find that tucking tops (usually French tuck style) can actually help. It makes it obvious that I’m not pregnant and highlights the fact that I do indeed have a waist, even if it’s not a particularly slender one.

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      • Lainey says

        May 17, 2019 at 10:56 am

        This is weird – meant to post this as a general comment, not a reply to the above comment! Sorry!

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  11. Darlene says

    May 16, 2019 at 10:42 am

    Thank you for taking the time for this post. It’s so helpful to see all the top suggestions too, lots of inspiration to transition to summer! I’m going to check out those eloquii pants, though in going to the website I just learned they closed the location close to me! This is some of my favorite content you do, thanks!

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    • Alison Gary says

      May 17, 2019 at 10:52 am

      I’m sad they closed your nearby store! But do know they’re super easy to deal with for online purchases and returns!

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  12. Barbara says

    May 15, 2019 at 10:08 pm

    I don’t know what shape I am. I have big arms, a big tummy, big boobs and also short fat legs. I’m also just
    5 ft 4in. I wear leggings and jeggings. and most of the time I wear boots and booties in the winter. Summer I wear heels and flats. I wear tops to cover my tummy. I’m kinda a mess.

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    • Alison Gary says

      May 16, 2019 at 10:55 am

      Sounds as though you and I have a similar shape. I am 5’3″ and very… solid. Thick legs, solid arms, large bust, a tummy and a round rear as well. If you go through my outfit posts, especially from a year or two ago, they may help you find inspiration! https://www.wardrobeoxygen.com/category/my-wardrobe-today/

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  13. Carole says

    April 11, 2019 at 3:11 pm

    I have ok arms, large chest, & tummy but small hips and slim legs and ankles. I also have a very short torso, with no waist line., so tucking in is out for me. What shape would I be? And what tops would suit me best.

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    • Alison Gary says

      May 16, 2019 at 10:52 am

      I think you’re wrong in thinking tucking in is out. You may be surprised by how it can work for you. Try what they call a French tuck, where you just tuck in the front at the pant button, and let the rest hang out. It can really create an hourglass shape without exposing a lot.

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  14. Carole says

    April 11, 2019 at 3:09 pm

    I have ok ar, large chest, & tummy but small hips and slim legs and ankles. I also have a very short torso, with no waist line., so tucking in is out for me. What shape would I be? And what tops would suit me best.

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  15. Bev says

    February 11, 2019 at 6:50 pm

    It’s a little hard to see if these clothes really hide the belly when using a very thin model .

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    • Alison Gary says

      February 12, 2019 at 3:54 pm

      No models are used in this post, just flatly products of regular as well as plus sized garments.

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      • Holly says

        May 14, 2019 at 12:26 pm

        ???
        There are a lot of pictures of models above. And most of the models above, whether plus-sized or no, have rather flat stomachs. Bev is correct.

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        • Alison Gary says

          May 14, 2019 at 12:29 pm

          Are you speaking about the widgets that are offering the items at the retailers? I don’t have control over the models that retailers use on their websites. If you visit newer content on my site you will see that I (a woman who does not have a flat stomach) regularly models the clothing myself to give a better feel for how the clothing hangs. All graphics that I have provided in this post are “flat lay” which are images of clothing without bodies.

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          • Holly says

            May 14, 2019 at 12:34 pm

            Gotcha. That’s fair. I’ll check out your newer content for non-flatlay ideas. Thanks!

  16. Elisa says

    April 7, 2018 at 11:55 am

    I cannot figure out my body type. The only way I can think to describe it is a barrel! I am big throughout my back, shoulders, chest and arms. My stomach is big and I have back rolls! I do have long, somewhat shapely legs and an ok butt. Help!!

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    • Emmy says

      August 2, 2018 at 5:42 pm

      Sounds like maybe apple type, that’s what I am…bigger on top, like bigger boobs and tummy, and even when I was skinny, I’ve always had muscular shoulders. Then little more narrow through the hips and butt, and more shapely legs/ calves.

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  17. Heather says

    March 11, 2018 at 6:37 am

    Oh so good to see and read something for us not so perfect body ladies!! I to suffer a large tummy. I find hippy type pants in block and patterned. I have the same in tops .. my style of top is anything with bling or unusual neck or sleeves short and long. All hang loose from my large bust! What do you feel of my style.

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  18. Jayne Rooksberry-Price says

    July 17, 2017 at 7:12 am

    The DP choker wrap top . . . LOVE! The red is a fabulous red, but sure wish it came in more colors! Grabbing it NOW! Thank you!

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    • Jayne Rooksberry-Price says

      July 17, 2017 at 8:10 am

      I’m still shopping and have several more lovely tops in my shopping cart! Do you know how the sizing runs for DP, Allie?

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      • Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

        July 17, 2017 at 8:19 am

        Hi Jayne, I have never actually worn Dorothy Perkins, but I know a lot of bloggers love the brand. From what I’ve read it seems they’re pretty true to size, occasionally veering on generously sized. Let me know how it works out for you!

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      • Jayne Rooksberry-Price says

        July 17, 2017 at 3:18 pm

        Well, ended up not placing my order. While googling about sizing I found several complaints from people ordering in the US and their items being held until they paid an additional fee for customs . . .also, horrible customer service.

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        • Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

          July 17, 2017 at 3:24 pm

          Oh no! I thought they also sold DP at SimplyBe but just checked and nope, at least not now. Sorry to hear that 🙁

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  19. Eleanorjane says

    June 24, 2017 at 11:12 am

    Ha, I have the opposite problem! I actually am 6 months pregnant and want to look pregnant (while not wearing anything too clingy as I have also put on a bit of weight). I find it a bit disturbing that some people who haven’t seen me for months don’t seem to notice my condition even though my stomach is over twice the circumference it used to be! When I mention it, some say they didn’t want to say anything just in case it wasn’t and some genuinely didn’t notice… maybe it goes to show that at least some people really don’t pay that much attention to how we look.

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    • nobodyssister says

      July 7, 2017 at 8:32 pm

      Nobody says anything because they have all been told, “Never ask a woman if she’s pregnant unless (maybe even if) you see a baby emerging from her at that moment.”

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  20. janejetson says

    June 17, 2017 at 10:22 am

    OMG – you are me. In summer I like to wear slim pants, with.a longish tank top and cute sandals (either flat or with a heel). Ankle pants help too. I have a big bust so I need to be careful about that too.

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  21. Linda Poston says

    June 16, 2017 at 6:09 pm

    This is sooooo my problem. Thanks for the ideas!

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  22. DD says

    June 16, 2017 at 1:36 pm

    This is the first time I’ve seen this issue laid out on a fashion site, and with so much detail to boot. Thanks you, this is FANTASTIC.

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    • Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

      June 16, 2017 at 1:57 pm

      So glad you found it a good resource!

      Reply
      • AnnieB says

        May 18, 2019 at 7:47 am

        OMG – finally some help! It is so wonderful to have specific examples! I’m heavy in belly and hips but also have issues because I’m big busted and very short (4’ 10”). Thank you for doing this!!

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  23. shessomelicious says

    June 15, 2017 at 4:04 pm

    Also … tailoring. Fit to your biggest area and have the bum and legs taken in/reshaped if necessary. Very few of us find a perfect fit right off the rack. I think it’s worth it to invest a little more to get a wardrobe that is perfectly shaped for you. The confidence that comes with knowing your clothes fit the best they possibly can is absolutely invaluable.

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  24. Kim Reynolds Rader says

    June 15, 2017 at 3:33 pm

    This is the greatest and most relevant style post I have ever read. Thank you! Also, I want ALL those shirts in the one photo that doesn’t have links.

    Reply
    • Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

      June 15, 2017 at 3:35 pm

      I made the pictures with an idea in mind not thinking that architectural styles was last year and this year is ruffles and I spent a good two hours trying to find similar to no avail. I considered deleting the picture, but then I was thinking these styles always return in style, may be found at more artsy boutiques, places like TJ Maxx that sell last season, and likely will return in style this fall. So frustrating!

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  25. Lisa Whitmore says

    June 15, 2017 at 1:29 pm

    I love this post! Any tips for casual summer clothes to minimize the belly? I’m a teacher so I’m off for the summer, but still don’t want the “when are you due?” question! Thanks for such a fantastic blog.

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    • Piachka says

      June 15, 2017 at 1:45 pm

      Yes ditto this please! I love the post since I’m a classic apple shape. Thin legs and ankles, big bust and belly. I know generally what’s flattering but I love how you have curated it. Id love to see a more casual take too!

      Reply
      • Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

        June 15, 2017 at 3:51 pm

        I’ll try to fit it in, these posts take a lot more time but they are much more rewarding to do! Glad you and @disqus_FvMHXZry73:disqus both liked it!

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  26. sheistolerable says

    June 15, 2017 at 11:48 am

    If the concern is specifically not appearing pregnant for job-related reasons, heels, pointy flats, or other visibly non-comfortable shoes may help too. Anything a pregnant lady wouldn’t want to wear!

    Reply
    • Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

      June 15, 2017 at 3:36 pm

      Great point thank you!

      Reply
  27. Cynthia Peterson says

    June 15, 2017 at 11:48 am

    Wow. So much information packed into this post. Thanks — I have exactly this problem!

    Reply
    • Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen says

      June 15, 2017 at 3:36 pm

      Glad you found it beneficial! 🙂

      Reply

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Scenes from a Friday night…

We started at @littleblackbirddc a new wine bar in Cleveland Park where we had great food, drink, and conversation into the evening. We then headed down the street to @atomicbilliards for a whole different experience and to keep the conversation going. I treasure my friendships with @sylviacolella (who had a birthday recently), @districtofchic, and @blonde_inthedistrict they’re the real deal 🥰

My dress is @adamlippes borrowed via @renttherunway and Cheetos with Sauvignon Blanc is a really fun pairing!

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Night and day…

Met three dear friends for an early dinner that went on until after the sun set. Great food and conversation with some great women!

The dress is @adamlippes and I borrowed it from @renttherunway. The bag is @jcrew and a splurge but I regretted not buying it the last time they offered this bag and this color is SO me. I mean, look how great it is with these many years old suede heeled sandals? Meant to be!

This color combination makes me so happy, and this dress was comfy even after a decadent meal. We all deserve to experience comfort and joy with our wardrobes! 💛🩷

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If @thechicks are in town you can bet @debbiefaye78 and I will be there! So when we heard they were coming to @merriweatherpp we were so excited. And their concert did not disappoint. As always, a phenomenal show! If The Chicks come to your neck of the woods I highly recommend you go!

Okay I know you want to know about what we’re wearing! 

My sister’s caftan is from @anthropologie (bought this summer so maybe you can find on resale sites).

I’m wearing a @bananarepublic dress also from this summer with the @universalstandard denim chore jacket and a hat I got from a @madewell collab a year or so ago. I glammed it up with some gold chains and gold drop earrings, but kept it comfy for a night of standing and dancing with @birkenstock sandals.

This was my first big outing since my eye surgery, and with a pocketful of eye drops I felt good (and grateful we splurged for good seats!).

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If I close my eyes you can’t tell one is still bloodshot 😜

Still recovering from my eye surgery but feeling more myself. Getting dolled up helps me feel me. Bright colors and bold jewelry have been signature Alison since I was a kid! 

Sweater: @favorite.daughter 
Earrings: Amazon
Necklace: @_jennybird (old)
Ring: @realmfinejewelry 
Bra: @lovebravissimo 
Lipstick: @glossier 
Pins as “cufflinks”: vintage

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Happy gotcha day, Oscar! Four years ago he came into our life and we are so happy to have in our family!

Oscar was a rescue and came with some… quirks. Over the years we have come to understand him and he has come to trust us. He’s a diva, a snuggler, he could play catch for hours, and he’s my husband’s shadow. 

We’ve never had a small breed dog before and it’s a whole different experience. But we adore Oscar and couldn’t imagine our life without him! Thank you for coming into our life Oskie McGoskie! 🐾❤️

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I can see clearly now…

Actually I can’t, but things after my retina surgery are much improved! My next appointment is in a month and I’m cleared to get back into the world (with some restrictions to protect my eye).

With a sclera buckle, it changes your eye shape and now I am nearsighted again (I had lasik a few years ago). Once the eye is stabilized I can get glasses or contacts but until then I’m 20/20 in one eye and right now 20/60 in the other. But the eye is healing beautifully and I feel positive!

And I could see clearly enough to fall for this poppy-colored cotton jumpsuit from @pistoladenim. It comes in a few colors but this one is my favorite. I went with XL (im@a 14, sometimes 16) and likely could have sized down but I enjoy the relaxed fit and the drawstring waistband to create shape. And hello zipper closure making it super easy to get on and off!

My husband took this photo right after my eye appointment, I think it reflects my positive attitude and feeling of hope! 🧡

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I’ll be a bit quiet on here and other channels because I had eye (retinal) surgery this past weekend. I was having what I thought were ocular migraines but come to find out I was experiencing lattice degeneration, which is thinning/holes in the retina. I had surgery Saturday for my right eye and later on they’ll work on the left eye, which isn’t as bad and can be remedied by laser, in office.

I share not because I’m Mrs. Frizzle meets Iris Apfel as I recuperate at home, but because this whole thing has been a lesson on trusting my gut. And I want to remind you to do the same.

As we get older our bodies can feel like strangers. Things are constantly changing and it’s easy to just assume your annual physical will catch anything wrong. But if you slow down and listen to your body you’ll know when things are just a sign of aging and life and what seems unusual. That nagging issue may be something more serious.

And if you’re seeing flashing lights, floaters, spiderwebs or other odd eye things get checked out ASAP. It may be nothing but take it from me, it may actually be something. ❤️

Okay, going back to my big sunglasses caftan recuperation life!

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Ladies who lunch…

While in Savannah, I made sure to get lunch reservations for me and E at @theoldepinkhouse she loves the color pink, historic homes, and ghost stories so it was a perfect choice! 

Built in 1789 on Reynolds Square, there are stories of guests seeing ghosts, cutlery and wine bottles moving along with an elegant and truly delicious dining. 

While we didn’t see any apparitions, we did have a lovely lunch with impeccable service and after toured all floors of the home. I highly recommend a visit if you’re visiting Savannah!

My dress is from @cosstores (no longer available); hat is @furtalk and bag is @talbotsofficial (no longer available).

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Scenes from a week in Savannah… 

The three of us (and our dog Oscar!) had a warm and humid but wonderful time exploring Savannah, Georgia earlier this month. Our daughter visited this gorgeous city last summer with her @girlscouts troop but wanted to return to experience more. We let her choose our adventures and play your guide and it was awesome. We cannot wait to visit again, though next time it won’t be August 🥵

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Stripes are always right…

Y’all know I love stripes and when @universalstandard came out with their Breton-stripe dresses and tops I HAD to try them! As expected, the quality is stellar, the fit boosts my confidence, and I appreciate the range of colors (5 different stripes to choose from) and sizes (00-50). For reference, I’m wearing XS but preferred S for the top and I usually wear a 14 or XL in other brands.

The tote is @able and it’s a soft yet durable leather that just looks better with time. This color (cognac) is one that transitions nicely from summer to fall. 

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