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The perfect red for the holiday season 💄

I love a red lipstick, especially in winter. It adds brightness to gray days and skin not exposed to the sun. Look in my dressing table and you’ll find at least a dozen different red lipsticks. But this winter my go-to red is “Relax” by @flyte.70 

Glossy but not sticky, long wearing but not drying, the Flyte.70 L+L.LipLacquer feels like a lip balm. One layer is a hint of color and shine; add more layers for more pigment, gloss, and impact. This isn’t the only Flyte.70 lip color I have and love; I regularly wear “Fast Car” which is a modern version of the brown lipsticks we loved in the 90s that looks so good with the neutrals popular right now.

And with products named after songs from the 80s and 90s I couldn’t not use this Frankie Goes to Hollywood song for this lip color!

This isn’t paid, it’s a PSA because I know it’s hard to find good red lip colors. And @flyte.70 is a U.S.-based woman-owned ethical beauty brand created specifically for U.S. grown women and I find the quality stellar.

Use code WOXYGEN15 for 15% off your order at Flyte.70

The quickest and cheapest way to update your wardrobe for the holidays is with a glossy red lip! 💄

#over40style #genxstyle #genxbeauty #flyte70
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The tree is trimmed! 🎄

When I was a single gal, I had the prettiest tree with a color story and theme. 20 years later, my tree is a hodgepodge of inherited ornaments, gifts from loved ones, and handmade pieces from both my childhood and by my child. And I think each year it veers further from the original concept the more beautiful it becomes!

My daughter and I donned our Santa hats, turned on the holiday playlist, a Yule log on the TV, and spent the afternoon getting our home into the Christmas spirit.

When she was little, my husband would pick her up so she could place the star on top of the tree. Now that she’s taller than I am, when he got home he just put his arm around her as she used the library stool to reach the top. Some traditions need to be modified with time but they’re still special! ⭐️

Top is a feather trimmed Breton from @talbotsofficial; the scarf as a belt is also Talbots but a few years old. The jeans are @landsend and the blanket on the chair in the second photo is by artist  @zanderschlacter
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My therapist recommended I walk outside more as I grieve the recent loss of my mom.

When it was time to pay for my mom’s funeral, the credit card I had in my wallet was my @bananarepublic Mastercard. I’ve had this card for decades because over the years, most of our family have worn some Gap brand. From onesies to tuxedos, we’ve updated our wardrobes with points.

And I got a serious chunk of points for charging my mom’s funeral expenses on my Banana card.

I decided to use them to buy clothes for winter outdoor walking. Nothing motivates me more than a chance to put together a cute outfit. This cute look is from @athleta, one of the few activewear brands that fits both my size and my style.

My Athleta purchase arrived on my doorstep and that day, a neighbor reached out, inviting me to join a group of women in our community who were supporting, not competing, to move 100k. I immediately said yes and signed up. 

This past week I hit 100k. And this past week week it has been two months she has been gone. I’m still going 💪 

Wearing XL. For reference I’m 5’3” and usually wear a size 14.

I share details on all my looks on the @shop.LTK app. You can use the app or desktop, search for @wardrobe_oxygen or use the link https://liketk.it/4pFaS
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Normalizing the normal everyday outfit…

It was a day of running errands, running to the office, and then running into friends. It rained off and on so I wanted shoes for potential puddles and a coat that wouldn’t soak through but also keep me warm.

The sweater is @universalstandard; I bought it thinking it was a bold purple but the color was off on the site and I got plum. But I think I like this better. I’m wearing a S. This is my second of this cardigan, it is super soft, dense, and holds up to washing. My other one I got a year ago and still wear all the time.

The jeans are @oldnavy and while they’re not perfect and stretch out throughout the day they were around $18 and I like the wash and weight of the denim. I’m wearing a 14 Short.

The boots are old Docs, the coat I got at @talbotsofficial last winter, and the bag is @maxwellscottuk and I’ve had for almost a decade. Earrings are @_jennybird, necklace is @gorjana. 

Disclosure: the coat was gifted last year but remains a favorite. The necklace was also gifted about a year ago but I keep wearing because I like it and it has held up quality-wise. The rest I bought. 

Follow my shop @wardrobe_oxygen on the @shop.LTK app to shop this post and get my exclusive app-only content!

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Counteract the gray days with cozy colorful clothes! 🌈 This cashmere sweater set is the prettiest teal and I loved how it looked with this candy pink Chesterfield coat. All are from @anntaylor one of my favorite places to shop because Ann has petites over a size 12. Also all of these items are on sale!

While I did receive these clothes as a gift from Ann Taylor I am under no obligation to share with you. This is what I wore to work and when I saw these colors against the green of my building door I had to prop up my phone and capture the color combo!

This sweater is a classic and with the skirt is created a dress effect you can style with tall boots, ankle boots and tights, or dress down with sneakers. I linked to other pieces in this color that would also look dreamy with this skirt, as well as other gorgeous colorful coats.

For reference I am wearing the coat in XL petite and the sweater set in L. I am 5’3” and usually wear a 14/16

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#LTKmidsize #ltkover40 #midsizestyle #genxstyle #size14 #midsizepetite #ThisIsAnn
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Just got back from a 4-night getaway with my sister @debbiefaye78 at @curacaomarriottbeachresort. It was a last-minute planned trip that ended up being perfect. We weren’t ready to celebrate Thanksgiving without our mom and this escape what just what our hearts needed. 

I’ll be sharing more once I finally unpack my suitcase and organize my photos and thoughts; but I couldn’t not share this picture from yesterday morning. Debbie and I got up early to enjoy some of the day at the resort before flying home to DC. We had the infinity pool to ourselves, finished our books, and relaxed before a long day of travel. 🌴
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It’s hard when you’re petite and most models aren’t; you have no idea how clothes, especially jeans will fit. To promote @universalstandard’s Denim Drive sale, the company sent me two pairs of jeans of my choice. And I chose to make this video to show how they fit on my 5’3” body. I am usually a 14/32 in jeans but at Universal Standard I wear a 12 because they’re super stretchy and generously sized. 

With jeans as low as $35 in sizes 00-40, this is a sale not to be missed. And use code INFS-BFALISON10 for an additional 10% off sitewide!

The Farrah Flare is a favorite because at my height, most flare jeans will lose what makes them special once hemmed. At a 30” inseam these are great with low heels or lug soles.

The Etta is a straight jean with a vintage fit. If in doubt size down. They’re also super stretchy and the 28” inseam (they also come in 31”) works with my boots and sneakers.

While I was provided the apparel in this Reel for free, I was not paid or contracted to create this content. Consider it a PSA for my fellow shorties shopping this fab denim sale!

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https://liketk.it/4oWOQ #ltkmidsize #ltkplussize #ltkover40 #ltksalealert #uspartner #midsizestyle
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Thanks to @talbotsofficial I’m ready for the holidays! #AD

I love Talbots for holiday fashion and this season’s new arrivals do not disappoint. And for Black Friday the entire site is 40% off with free shipping on orders $150+. Until noon, you also receive 50% off 1 regular price item!

I ordered pieces from the Talbots Holiday Collection and found great quality, great style, and great versatility. How cute is the Breton stripe bateau neck with the removable feather cuffs? The metallic plaid patio skirt is so fun, and these two dresses can glam up or dress down with a change of footwear and bag. For reference, I am wearing everything in either XL or 16 petite.

The ivory cords are also Talbots; the black trousers are from last year’s Talbots Holiday Collection showing how Talbots has lasting style. I’ve linked to exact or very similar in my LTK shop. Follow my shop @wardrobe_oxygen on the @shop.ltk app to shop this post and get my exclusive app-only content! https://liketk.it/4oDJF

#mytalbots modernclassicstyle #wondersoftheseason #ltkover40 #ltkplussize #ltkmidsize #blackfridaysale
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@somaintimates makes it easy to shop for a range of personas this holiday season! #AD With gift guides for a range of personality types, you can easily find great gifts for your loved ones. I was drawn to the creative one, loving the rich colorful florals, luxe satin, lace trim, and of course Soma’s iconic Cool Nights sleepwear! Visit Soma’s gift guide for tips on finding the perfect present this holiday season. #SomaGiftGuide #SomaStartsWithMe
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Fashion Advice, Travel · February 19, 2019

How to Pack Light but With Style

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Wardrobe Oxygen in a red orange trench from Banana Republic with Talbots striped top, Banana Republic ankle jeans, Rothy's flats, Dagne Dover backpack and Delsey spinner suitcase

In the comments of a recent blog post, a reader had a question regarding packing non-clothing items for a trip.  She wanted to know how to pack light but maintain her style.  How to consolidate beauty products and toiletries, shoes and accessories to reduce the number of bags without ending up with bad hair or boring outfits.

Question: How to Pack Light but With Style

“I have a question regarding packing and non-clothing items. I find I can edit my clothes pretty well but it’s the other items I have trouble consolidating – makeup, hair products (including hair straightener), face wash and moisturizer, meds, dental stuff and the list goes on. I am currently packing for a trip to Phoenix and have 4 bags of items: 2 hanging bags (one is for the plane with sanitizing wipes, snacks, hand lotion, earplugs etc.), one make up bag and one bag for the hair straightener that includes hair products. And this doesn’t include my jewelry bag (I try not to bring too much), shoe bag, tote bag and small going out bag. Can you help me with any suggestions?”

In the aughts, I had a job that required me to travel for business at least once a month. It was a great education in learning how to pack light but still look polished for business meetings. Now as a blogger, I often travel for my new business, and have mastered again how to pack light but to still look fashionable and camera-ready for any event on my itinerary. Since your question is about editing and consolidating, I am going to focus on how I pack for trips when I do not check luggage.

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Choose your Luggage Carefully

Your suitcase matters. For years I used a soft rolling suitcase that was a great price on Amazon and it seemed perfectly fine. Sure it tipped over if overly full, maybe it would get caught on cobblestones and practically have to be carried up hills. And yeah, there was that time that I got stuck walking five blocks to my hotel in the pouring rain and the stuff inside got damp and the bag was still damp by time I had my return trip but isn’t that how all suitcases are? A few years ago I treated myself to matching luggage and purchased the Delsey Helium matched set with the expandable International spinner. GAMECHANGER. This bag is worth every penny. The hard shell keeps things dry and protected. The wheels glide over everything from carpet to cobblestone hills; have bounced up and down several flights of steps with no issue. Fully loaded it won’t tip over, even if I rest my second bag on top. No need to drag it behind you, the spinners are so great it will glide next to you without much effort. It’s even lighter weight than my soft-sided suitcase, making it far easier to put in an overhead bin. Even though it’s smaller than domestic specifications for carry-on luggage it remains my favorite for any flight.

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Pack Your Suitcase Properly

My Delsey suitcase has two primary compartments; one is open and one zips shut.  The zippered side I use to hold everything bulky, rough, or heavy.  My toiletries bag (see below), shoes, any books or gadgets not needed until I reach my destination.  I tuck socks and lingerie into shoes, and use sleepwear and gym clothes to fill in any gaps between the items.  Zipping the compartment compresses everything like a giant travel cube.  The zippered cover has a deep zippered pocket on it; in there I carefully fold and slide in any scarves I am taking so they don't get creased.  I also take a flat clutch purse and store necklaces and delicate jewelry in it.  Any large or bulky jewelry I place in the small zippered pouch in the suitcase that is between the two main sections.

Speaking of travel cubes, I use travel cubes on the open side of the suitcase.  Travel cubes really compress your clothing to provide a lot more space in your suitcase. Not only that, it keeps everything organized so it's easy to quickly find something.  I also love travel cubes because they help separate dirty clothes from clean for the trip home.

Universal Standard black overalls with a black cashmere sweater, EVA Birkenstocks, and the Dagne Dover Dakota backpack on Wardrobe Oxygen

Choose your Personal Bag Carefully

For my personal bag, I always take something that can shove under the seat in front of me on the plane yet is stylish enough to be my day bag for the trip. My absolute favorite is the Large Dagne Dover Dakota Backpack for casual trips. Made from neoprene, the bag is soft yet strong, water resistant, and easy to spot clean. The tonal hardware makes it look more sophisticated and stylish than a classic backpack. Brilliantly designed, over seven different pockets, a laptop sleeve, and zipper pouch on a detachable leash will keep everything organized. The padded straps makes it comfortable even when filled to the brim and your hotel is a mile walk away. The only thing missing is a sleeve to slide it over the suitcase handle, but my friend told me about this little gadget that’s less than $10 that does a great job with my backpack and any bag I carry.

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Look for a Toilitries Bag that Protects and Maximizes Space

Over the years I have bought many toilitries bags, and have been gifted several from different brands.  It seems like the best idea is one of those that opens up to hang off a hook.  Thing is, as hotels get updated I find hooks to be fewer and usually in a very inconvienent location.  The best bag I have is like this one – two plastic zippered compartments that fold up and zip again.  It's almost like packing cubes for beauty products because it forces products to line up nicely, reduce bulk, and become a firm rectangle that fits nicely in a suitcase.  The double zippers protect the rest of your luggage if a bottle leaks or explodes.  All I need for a trip is this bag and my Ziploc of liquids; yes I even fit my makeup and even my vitamins and supplements into this case! Not too shabby considering we all know I am not a low-maintenance kind of gal!

Speaking of vitamins and supplements as well as medication, TSA does not require medication to be in original containers and the only medication they check is liquid versions (which should be in your liquids bag). I like a weekly pill organizer to keep things organized; however if my trip is only a day or two I use these pill pouches which take up less space and depending on the kind of medications you take, can be reused.

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How to Pack Liquids for a Quick TSA Check

TSA says all liquids must be in containers 3.4 ounces or less and all of the containers fit in a quart-size Ziploc bag. TSA won’t like me to state this, but I always use a bag larger than quart sized. However, I don't fill it to the brim. While some people purchase clear reusable bags, I like a heavy-duty freezer bag because it can hold more without taking up a lot of real estate in my luggage (and it’s a lot cheaper). I also use the same freezer bag over and over; I know the one right now in my suitcase is over a year old and just dandy. I do keep a second one on hand in my luggage in case it decides to kick the bucket, but they’re remarkably durable and can even be washed and reused if something leaks.

Anything that can remotely be considered a liquid or partially liquid, stick in this bag. I’ve had lip balms, individually-wrapped contact lenses, and mascaras confiscated at the airport so if in doubt, toss it in the clear bag.

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How to Minimize Beauty Products for Traveleling Light

Decant, Decant, Decant

Even better than travel sized versions of your beauty products, decant your favorite toiletries into smaller containers. I have these containers, they’re three years old and still leak free and reliable. I like that they can squish to take up less space when not full and I’ve thrown them in the top rack of my dishwasher and they clean up great. For products like eye cream and primer I decant into contact lens cases. I prefer the screw-top ones because they are leak-proof and they usually have the caps two different colors making it easier to know which one is eye cream and which one is zit cream (a sharpie reminder is also smart).

When Necessary, Buy Travel Sizes

Some things you can’t decant; for those I invest in travel sized versions that I never use except when on travel where space is minimal. I’ve learned from experience not to switch brands to save space in a suitcase; I’d rather not take a pair of shoes than again deal with bad hair and angry skin.  I look for special deals at the holidays when department stores and beauty brands offer gifts with purchase of products I use so I can stock up on the travel sized items I know and love. Amazon often has multipacks for travel sized items; if it's something that can't be refilled like dry shampoo it's smart to buy in bulk and save for future travel. I've also found travel sizes of items like perfume for great prices on eBay.

For dental needs, I go with a travel toothbrush like this one.  It's not my awesome Sonicare, but it takes up less space and no tears if I forget it in my hotel room. For toothpaste, I find travel tubes to be too small for more than a day or two. Instead, when I get almost to the end of a tube, I roll up the end and put it in my toiletries case. I can then use the entire tube (even cut open the bottom of it to get out the dregs) and throw it away at the end of my trip.  I carry a few Colgate Wisps in a sandwich bag in my purse always; they're great for a refresh at the end of your flight or after a spicy meal.  For dental floss, I hoard those tiny containers the dentist gives after your visit and tuck them into my purse and toilitries kit.

Create a Makeup Uniform

I see travel as a time to simplify my beauty routine. Leave home the luminizer, the contouring, the large shadow palette, the color correcting concealers. Think weekend face – groomed yet fresh. Then choose one way to amp it up. For me, I bring 2-3 lip products. A mauvy nude for day, a bold red, and then maybe a gloss to transform the two. For you, it may be a pack of false lashes or a kohl pencil.

I find makeup brushes end up taking up a lot of room because they need to be packed carefully. I try to choose a makeup uniform that requires the fewest brushes thereby saving space and simplifying packing. I usually use powder blush, but this cream blush from Glossier is a pretty awesome replacement and I think it helps create a fresh weekend face. My eye brown pencil has a built-in spooly brush, and I love this stuff from Perricone MD in place of shadow for a fresh well-rested effect.

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Create a Hair Uniform

Sometimes your hair may be soft waves, sometimes you iron it straight, sometimes you use pomade for a slicked-back pony. For traveling light, choose one and make it your signature style for your entire trip. This way, you can bring fewer products and tools.

When possible, consider a mini version of your tools. I use this Aveda brush on the daily, but at The Body Shop I found this travel one that accomplishes the same thing. I have a tiny comb like this which is great for teasing and smoothing bangs and is smaller than what I have at home.  When I used to flat iron my hair, I bought a mini iron like this which saved a ton of space but still got the job done.

I believe in bringing a hat for travel.  Nothing worse than wasting the day trying to wrangle hair not used to the water or the weather.  A beret looks fashionable while hiding rough winter hair; in the summer I prefer a packable fedora or Panama hat.  You may prefer some Bobby pins and an elastic for a purposeful messy updo or an Alice band to help unruly bangs blend into your hair.

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I hope these tips help you.  I also know many of you who read Wardrobe Oxygen are avid travelers; if you have additional great tips do share them in the comments below!

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  1. Tracie says

    February 21, 2019 at 10:24 am

    Thanks for the great information! I’ve got an aluminum Away piece of luggage, but I’ve been thinking about getting a backpack for a three week river cruise in Europe this summer. That Dagne Dover bag will totally fit the bill. I believe I will use it for everything. The other travel items sound great too.

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    • Alison Gary says

      February 21, 2019 at 7:19 pm

      I’ve heard such great things about Away luggage!

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  2. Brenda says

    February 20, 2019 at 12:31 pm

    My best travel tip is carry a small roll of duct tape – useful for so many things – including repairing a suitcase that gets rough handling or the zipper blows.

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    • Alison Gary says

      February 21, 2019 at 7:20 pm

      Genius!

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  3. Téa says

    February 20, 2019 at 11:16 am

    I’d add a nylon shopping bag to the list…I was just in Chicago and every a few stores were charging .07 cents for a plastic bag!! YIKES. Also, I use clear, plastic shower caps to cover my shoes’ bottoms…keeps everything clean.

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    • Alison Gary says

      February 20, 2019 at 12:23 pm

      Great tips, thank you!

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    • Jacqueline says

      February 20, 2019 at 2:01 pm

      I use the thin plastic bags that my newspapers are delivered in during inclement weather. Even my hubby’s larger sneakers fit in these bags.

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    • Barbara says

      February 21, 2019 at 7:14 pm

      Recently moved from Chicago, and it’s a city ordinance/bag tax requiring almost al retailers to charge for any bag (paper or plastic). My new hometown only charges .05. 🙂 Reusable shoppers are small and great to travel with, especially if you’re taking food on a plane or need something to put your wet bathing suit in.

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      • Alison Gary says

        February 21, 2019 at 7:21 pm

        Very smart! I’m writing another post about my travel must-haves and this is on the list!

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        • Barbara says

          February 21, 2019 at 7:29 pm

          Ha…we have almost identical travel must-haves.

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          • Téa says

            February 22, 2019 at 9:56 am

            Barbara – I will never now travel WITHOUT a nylon shopper! I wish my hometown did this! It’s so SIMPLE to have your own bag!!

  4. Laurel says

    February 20, 2019 at 11:10 am

    Great tips! I hadn’t thought of the contact lens cases for eye cream, etc., but that’s genius. I have had mixed luck with the GoToobs – one leaked in my suitcase. 🙁 However, I have the Emme toiletry bag and it came with some great bottles that work well for me. We’re big fans of packing cubes for all the reasons you state. And we have done carry on for two weeks in Europe. It’s all about planning and figuring out what’s important. Your tips are all spot on!

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    • Alison Gary says

      February 20, 2019 at 12:23 pm

      I’m glad you liked it, Laurel!

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  5. Nina says

    February 20, 2019 at 9:51 am

    Very helpful post. Thank you! I love your off-the-shoulder sweater and bracelet you’re wearing in the second photo. Would you mind sharing the brands for those? And your beautiful red coat too?

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    • Alison Gary says

      February 20, 2019 at 12:27 pm

      Oh sure! The photos are from old posts on the blog so not sure what is still in stock. The off the shoulder outfit is at this post: https://www.wardrobeoxygen.com/2018/01/cashmere-off-shoulder-sweater.html the sweater is from a brand called Naked Cashmere. The red coat was seen in this post: https://www.wardrobeoxygen.com/2018/04/wore-travel-style-over-40.html as well as this post: https://www.wardrobeoxygen.com/2016/02/what-i-wore-ann-taylor-orange-topper-trench.html it’s from Ann Taylor but is three years old. This is the closest they have: https://shopstyle.it/l/ZPQ5 this coat from Banana Republic is similar: https://shopstyle.it/l/ZPX7

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  6. juliet brown says

    February 20, 2019 at 5:02 am

    Wow – so many useful ideas, thank you for sharing them. I live in the UK but still even if I cant find the same brands I can replicate.

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    • Alison Gary says

      February 20, 2019 at 12:36 pm

      Glad you found it helpful!

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  7. Linda B says

    February 19, 2019 at 7:39 pm

    Awesome post! Wish I’d see it a few weeks ago. I am currently on a 9 day trip, mostly for work but am adding a jaunt to Seattle to see my son at the end of the week.

    I actually already use a lot of your ideas, but some I hadn’t thought of! And I really need a new suitcase. I’m going to look into getting one like you have. Ditto with the cosmetics case.

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    • Alison Gary says

      February 20, 2019 at 12:39 pm

      Awesome, glad you liked it Linda!

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  8. pat says

    February 19, 2019 at 4:04 pm

    Love your blog. May I ask where you found this beauty red coat please?

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    • Alison Gary says

      February 20, 2019 at 12:44 pm

      Hi Pat! Oh sure! The photos are from old posts on the blog so not sure what is still in stock. The red coat was seen in this post: https://www.wardrobeoxygen.com/2018/04/wore-travel-style-over-40.html as well as this post: https://www.wardrobeoxygen.com/2016/02/what-i-wore-ann-taylor-orange-topper-trench.html it’s from Ann Taylor but is three years old. This is the closest they have: https://shopstyle.it/l/ZPQ5 this coat from Banana Republic is similar: https://shopstyle.it/l/ZPX7

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  9. LynninRI says

    February 19, 2019 at 1:28 pm

    I bought the Delsey when you recommended it…then I bought one for my husband…then we bought the large size to match…lol..
    Today I ordered the travel toothbrushes –
    Thank you for always sharing such great items and ideas!

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    • Alison Gary says

      February 20, 2019 at 1:01 pm

      Oh yay isn’t this bag amazing? So glad you and your husband love them too!

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  10. Cynthia says

    February 19, 2019 at 1:24 pm

    Wow — such great recommendations. Can’t believe I never thought of packing items in my shoes! I have used a cosmetic bag like yours for years; I need a new one but couldn’t find the same style, so thanks for finding one for me. Also, I second Karen’s suggestion for the Travalo perfume atomizer.

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    • Alison Gary says

      February 20, 2019 at 1:03 pm

      Awesome I’ll have to check that atomizer out! As for the cosmetic bag, I was surprised how hard it was to find one online. Mine was a GWP from back when beauty.com was a thing (and before my account was hacked, hundreds charged on my card and my password changed and they didn’t give a damn… good times).

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  11. Christine says

    February 19, 2019 at 12:53 pm

    I bought those same eBags packing cubes about 10 years ago when trying to pack for two adults and two small children in two bags to go to Europe for three weeks. It worked – and the cubes are still going strong, after being used for every vacation since. (We have upgraded to one case each now that they can pull their own.) I am a devotee.

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    • Alison Gary says

      February 21, 2019 at 7:22 pm

      The eBags packing cubes are such a good deal and last forever!

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  12. Karen says

    February 19, 2019 at 12:32 pm

    I recently bought a refillable perfume atomizer for a recent two week trip and it worked great. It is this product and I found it on amazon. https://amzn.to/2XfgbfC Didn’t leak and was easy to transfer perfume from the large bottle to this. Definitely one of my favorite new travel finds!

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    • Alison Gary says

      February 21, 2019 at 7:23 pm

      This atomizer looks awesome thank you for sharing it Karen!

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  13. Karen Weitzman says

    February 19, 2019 at 10:52 am

    Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! This is so helpful and timely! I have been a avid reader and follower for years but I think this was the first comment I ever made and can’t believe how responsive you are! I’m looking forward to packing for my trip now and even have time to do some shopping! Thanks for the links!

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    • Alison Gary says

      February 21, 2019 at 7:23 pm

      Oh my pleasure, I’m glad you found it helpful and I am so glad you commented! <3

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  14. Louise Davies says

    February 19, 2019 at 10:32 am

    Great information but if you are traveling internationally medication needs to be in the original labeled container (particularly Asisa) . Here is the link to the CDC with more information. https://www.cdc.gov/features/travel-medicine/index.html
    You do not want to be overseas and have you medication confiscated.

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    • Alison Gary says

      February 19, 2019 at 10:52 am

      Great point! Since she was going to Arizona I focused on domestic travel but this is an important reminder.

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  15. Louise Davies says

    February 19, 2019 at 10:31 am

    Great information but if you are traveling internationally medication needs to be in the original labeled container (particularly Asisa) . Here is the link to the CDC with more information. https://www.cdc.gov/features/travel-medicine/index.html
    You do not want to be oversees and have you medication confiscated.

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  16. Kaffesoester says

    February 19, 2019 at 10:27 am

    Nice post – makes me have another look at my carry on case as I recognise your description of your old one! As for Ziploc bags I always buy them at IKEA. They’re so cheap and very durable.

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    • Alison Gary says

      February 19, 2019 at 10:53 am

      I’ve never tried the ones from IKEA, thanks for the tip!

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  17. LisaMarie says

    February 19, 2019 at 9:15 am

    Avid traveler for fun and work here! I’ll be updating with your recommendations for sure! I got the Dagne Dover backpack you recommended and dragged it across Asia this summer past…it was my best buddy everywhere I went and looks brand new. And believe me…it got beat up. I’m always struggling to take less… thanks for giving me affirmation to still look great!

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    • Alison Gary says

      February 19, 2019 at 11:07 am

      Oh that’s so great to read! I love the bag so much and it thrills me when my recommendations become faves for others too. I think how much I have abused mine and it still looks great, I have NO other bag that does that! And yes, look good (on your terms) feel good!

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  18. ChroniclyCurly says

    February 19, 2019 at 8:58 am

    This is so timely. I have a quick road trip in 2 weeks and a trip to NYC for college tours 2 weeks after that. Packing light but stylish for both destinations will be a must. I also decant and pack travel sizes of everything. And good luggage is a game changer. We bought Delsey luggage 15 years ago and it’s still going strong! I recently purchased a beautiful vegan leather Urban Originals backpack/purse from Nordstrom (I don’t need laptop size). It’s pretty, roomy with lots of pockets and I won’t have to worry so much about weather since it’s not real leather. I can even put my packable down jacket in this thing. Now to figure out how to pack extra tissues for NYC. This mama isn’t ready for college visits.

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    • Alison Gary says

      February 19, 2019 at 11:08 am

      Awww mama! I can’t believe he’s grown up so fast! I ended up going to a local college but my sister and mom did the college tour trip and it was a really special time for both of them!

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The tree is trimmed! 🎄

When I was a single gal, I had the prettiest tree with a color story and theme. 20 years later, my tree is a hodgepodge of inherited ornaments, gifts from loved ones, and handmade pieces from both my childhood and by my child. And I think each year it veers further from the original concept the more beautiful it becomes!

My daughter and I donned our Santa hats, turned on the holiday playlist, a Yule log on the TV, and spent the afternoon getting our home into the Christmas spirit.

When she was little, my husband would pick her up so she could place the star on top of the tree. Now that she’s taller than I am, when he got home he just put his arm around her as she used the library stool to reach the top. Some traditions need to be modified with time but they’re still special! ⭐️

Top is a feather trimmed Breton from @talbotsofficial; the scarf as a belt is also Talbots but a few years old. The jeans are @landsend and the blanket on the chair in the second photo is by artist  @zanderschlacter

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Just got back from a 4-night getaway with my sister @debbiefaye78 at @curacaomarriottbeachresort. It was a last-minute planned trip that ended up being perfect. We weren’t ready to celebrate Thanksgiving without our mom and this escape what just what our hearts needed. 

I’ll be sharing more once I finally unpack my suitcase and organize my photos and thoughts; but I couldn’t not share this picture from yesterday morning. Debbie and I got up early to enjoy some of the day at the resort before flying home to DC. We had the infinity pool to ourselves, finished our books, and relaxed before a long day of travel. 🌴

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Working on the weekend is far more enjoyable when it’s in my office 💚

Perimenopause and the pandemic and homeschooling made our row home feel even smaller. So when neighbors revitalized an office building in our town center and offered individual offices for rent, I felt it would be good for business and personally. And I kept it when the world opened up and our kid went back to public school because it helps me have a clear start and end to the work day, but also because I created a space I really enjoy.

This weekend I went to the office to shoot some content. And once I was finished I enjoyed just sitting here, watching the light change. I think I may switch the furniture around, switch up the energy. I love that I can do that without consulting another or having another person’s opinions matter.

When you have a family, things go from me to we. I don’t regret leaving Corporate America to do this full time, but I do miss being part of a team. And I missed having an office, a place away from home that’s just for me. 

I wish more communities would offer rental offices like @thegranitebuilding. With reasonably affordable monthly rates, it doesn’t have to just be business owners who get office spaces. It can be a place to work on a hobby or craft, a place to WFH that’s not home, or a place to just read and write and nap undisturbed. A literal room of one’s own. Because sometimes a person needs time to be a me and not a we. 💚

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You’re never too old for a Rory Gilmore sweater… this cotton fisherman sweater is from @llbean and inspired by @marielle.elizabeth I shopped the men’s department for a better size range. The influencer influenced the influencer!

The jeans are @landsend I got last year and I’m glad they brought them back this year in several washes, inseam lengths, and plus sizes. If in doubt, size down. They will shrink in length slightly but not anywhere else, they’re super comfy and stretchy but don’t stretch out. 

Kept the collegiate vibe going with a trucker cap, HOKAs, and my trusty commuter bag for years: the large @dagnedover Dakota backpack!

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My husband has a special backpack he fills with weight to wear while hiking; it’s called rucking. I wear a @dagnedover Dakota and fill it with my laptop, my iPad, a full water bottle, and my purse and walk to work; it’s called commuting. 💁🏻‍♀️

But seriously, I’ve had this backpack for five years. It has been shoved under plane seats, in overstuffed car trunks, under feet in the passenger seat. I’ve worn it as I’ve walked miles in major cities and from my house to my town center. My daughter also has a Dagne Dakota; it survived middle school and continues to work through camping, sleepovers, and road trips. It’s genially designed, comfortable, and can take a beating and still look great.

As for the rest of the look, the vest (XL) is a new purchase from @athleta; the Rainier tights (L) are also Athleta but two years old. The purple top is @nike and about a decade old. Hat is @llbean and it’s on sale for less than $15. And my trusty @hoka sneakers that have had their own set of adventures.

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Another day of early voting for our city election, another outfit I wore as an election judge! 🗳️

I got this sweater set from @mmlafleur last spring and it continues to be a favorite. The color and popcorn stitch makes it wearable three seasons of the year. I’ve styled it with gold heels and dramatic gold earrings, with sneakers and a crossbody belt bag, and more than once with knee-high boots and a scarf at my throat. The color works with brown and black boots, the skirt silhouette and length with heels and flats. These brown riding boots are from @duoboots and almost a decade old. The scarf belonged to my dad; I have a feeling it was styled with a leisure suit back in the day!

I may have been more dressed up than other election judges but I think seeing democracy in action is a cause to celebrate! 🇺🇸

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Early voting poll worker style 🗳️

I’ve been an election judge (AKA poll worker) for several years but this year I decided to take it a step further and join my city’s Board of Elections. I’m passionate about fair and accessible elections for all. The Board is acting as election judges for early voting so it’s great to use my previous experience on a city level!

I believe voting is a special occasion and I dressed the part. The puff sleeve sweater and pants are from @anntaylor; these pants are the same ones from the suit I wore earlier this week. I added a beloved @hermes scarf as a belt and silver hoops (they belonged to my mom) as a hint of shine.

If your area is having an election this coming week; I implore you to vote. Your voice deserves to be heard. And please ensure your neighbors know of the election and where to vote. 🇺🇸

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Always fun to see my name in lights! 💡 I was a panelist at the annual @jaofcentralmd Leading Ladies event that connects local high schoolers with women in business. My panel was on using social media for promoting one’s business or personal brand. Along with other social media experts, we guided students and adults on how to create compelling and engaging social content and together created content for the conference’s feed. It was fun and I loved being able to share my almost two decades of personal and professional experience!

The dress code for the conference was business professional and since the event’s theme color was pink, they encouraged us to wear the color. 

This @anntaylor suit has been a favorite since late summer. I’ve dressed it down with a white tank and sneakers and glammed it up with a silk cami and gold heeled sandals. I love how Ann Taylor has petite suiting up to size 16; I know I’m not the only short curvy girl who desires suits and professional attire!

For this event I chose a berry-colored microfiber tank from @lovechicos. I own several of these tanks; they wear like iron and the tight weave and subtle shine make them great shells under suits. 

The look fit the theme but was also comfortable. I was glad to share my expertise and encourage others to see how they can donate their time and knowledge to a local @juniorachievementusa #JALeadingLadies #JALeadingLadies2023 #JACMD #JuniorAchievment

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Sharing this from my #iPadOS17 thanks to @apple! A bit belated with all that has been going on lately but I’m really enjoying using an iPad to improve how I work, stay organized, and find new ways to be creative. Can I just say that editing video on an iPad instead of a phone is a game changer!

Recently, I attended an event at the gorgeous Apple Carnegie Library hosted by @flourishplanner_ to learn ways to make the most of #iOS17 and it was awesome. I brought my new iPad and learned about the new wallpaper, stickers, and organizing tools.

As for my look, the dress is from @bananarepublic’s summer collection. Kept it comfy with a pair of Samba sneakers and held down the volume of the dress with my black recycled leather @ganni crossbody. Added an old @_jennybird link necklace and a silver cuff I’ve had since the ‘90s.

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I love an excuse to dress up, especially if it’s for a good cause! This weekend was the @thenewdealcafe Masquer-AID fundraiser to support this independent cafe, art gallery, and live music venue in @cityofgreenbelt.

My family and I have loved going to The New Deal Cafe for all these years. Grabbing coffee with friends, having a meal, seeing an amazing band, participating in an open mic or one of their Reel and Meal events. So @debbiefaye78, our mom, and I got tickets and even chipped in for a plaque from us “Ashpes Girls.” 

Our mom passed before she could attend the event; we asked our like a sister best friend @shellymingram to join us in her place and we had a great time, dancing all night as our mom would have, connecting with neighbors, and supporting a local business we all love so much.

As for the outfit, the dress is @ronnykobo the bag is @ganni and I borrowed both from @renttherunway The shoes I’ve had for years and the gold metal mask I found on Amazon and liked how it could mold to my face and not put pressure on my still-healing eye.

And I know y’all will ask because I received so many DMs this weekend when I shared this event in my Stories… my sister’s dress is from @eshakti she bought it a few years ago and it’s even more gorgeous in person!

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