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The perfect red for the holiday season 💄

I love a red lipstick, especially in winter. It adds brightness to gray days and skin not exposed to the sun. Look in my dressing table and you’ll find at least a dozen different red lipsticks. But this winter my go-to red is “Relax” by @flyte.70 

Glossy but not sticky, long wearing but not drying, the Flyte.70 L+L.LipLacquer feels like a lip balm. One layer is a hint of color and shine; add more layers for more pigment, gloss, and impact. This isn’t the only Flyte.70 lip color I have and love; I regularly wear “Fast Car” which is a modern version of the brown lipsticks we loved in the 90s that looks so good with the neutrals popular right now.

And with products named after songs from the 80s and 90s I couldn’t not use this Frankie Goes to Hollywood song for this lip color!

This isn’t paid, it’s a PSA because I know it’s hard to find good red lip colors. And @flyte.70 is a U.S.-based woman-owned ethical beauty brand created specifically for U.S. grown women and I find the quality stellar.

Use code WOXYGEN15 for 15% off your order at Flyte.70

The quickest and cheapest way to update your wardrobe for the holidays is with a glossy red lip! 💄

#over40style #genxstyle #genxbeauty #flyte70
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The tree is trimmed! 🎄

When I was a single gal, I had the prettiest tree with a color story and theme. 20 years later, my tree is a hodgepodge of inherited ornaments, gifts from loved ones, and handmade pieces from both my childhood and by my child. And I think each year it veers further from the original concept the more beautiful it becomes!

My daughter and I donned our Santa hats, turned on the holiday playlist, a Yule log on the TV, and spent the afternoon getting our home into the Christmas spirit.

When she was little, my husband would pick her up so she could place the star on top of the tree. Now that she’s taller than I am, when he got home he just put his arm around her as she used the library stool to reach the top. Some traditions need to be modified with time but they’re still special! ⭐️

Top is a feather trimmed Breton from @talbotsofficial; the scarf as a belt is also Talbots but a few years old. The jeans are @landsend and the blanket on the chair in the second photo is by artist  @zanderschlacter
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My therapist recommended I walk outside more as I grieve the recent loss of my mom.

When it was time to pay for my mom’s funeral, the credit card I had in my wallet was my @bananarepublic Mastercard. I’ve had this card for decades because over the years, most of our family have worn some Gap brand. From onesies to tuxedos, we’ve updated our wardrobes with points.

And I got a serious chunk of points for charging my mom’s funeral expenses on my Banana card.

I decided to use them to buy clothes for winter outdoor walking. Nothing motivates me more than a chance to put together a cute outfit. This cute look is from @athleta, one of the few activewear brands that fits both my size and my style.

My Athleta purchase arrived on my doorstep and that day, a neighbor reached out, inviting me to join a group of women in our community who were supporting, not competing, to move 100k. I immediately said yes and signed up. 

This past week I hit 100k. And this past week week it has been two months she has been gone. I’m still going 💪 

Wearing XL. For reference I’m 5’3” and usually wear a size 14.

I share details on all my looks on the @shop.LTK app. You can use the app or desktop, search for @wardrobe_oxygen or use the link https://liketk.it/4pFaS
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Normalizing the normal everyday outfit…

It was a day of running errands, running to the office, and then running into friends. It rained off and on so I wanted shoes for potential puddles and a coat that wouldn’t soak through but also keep me warm.

The sweater is @universalstandard; I bought it thinking it was a bold purple but the color was off on the site and I got plum. But I think I like this better. I’m wearing a S. This is my second of this cardigan, it is super soft, dense, and holds up to washing. My other one I got a year ago and still wear all the time.

The jeans are @oldnavy and while they’re not perfect and stretch out throughout the day they were around $18 and I like the wash and weight of the denim. I’m wearing a 14 Short.

The boots are old Docs, the coat I got at @talbotsofficial last winter, and the bag is @maxwellscottuk and I’ve had for almost a decade. Earrings are @_jennybird, necklace is @gorjana. 

Disclosure: the coat was gifted last year but remains a favorite. The necklace was also gifted about a year ago but I keep wearing because I like it and it has held up quality-wise. The rest I bought. 

Follow my shop @wardrobe_oxygen on the @shop.LTK app to shop this post and get my exclusive app-only content!

#liketkit #LTKfindsunder50 #LTKover40 #LTKmidsize #midsizestyle #genxstyle #over40style #size14 #usinthewild 
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Counteract the gray days with cozy colorful clothes! 🌈 This cashmere sweater set is the prettiest teal and I loved how it looked with this candy pink Chesterfield coat. All are from @anntaylor one of my favorite places to shop because Ann has petites over a size 12. Also all of these items are on sale!

While I did receive these clothes as a gift from Ann Taylor I am under no obligation to share with you. This is what I wore to work and when I saw these colors against the green of my building door I had to prop up my phone and capture the color combo!

This sweater is a classic and with the skirt is created a dress effect you can style with tall boots, ankle boots and tights, or dress down with sneakers. I linked to other pieces in this color that would also look dreamy with this skirt, as well as other gorgeous colorful coats.

For reference I am wearing the coat in XL petite and the sweater set in L. I am 5’3” and usually wear a 14/16

Follow my shop @wardrobe_oxygen on the @shop.LTK app to shop this post and get my exclusive app-only content! https://liketk.it/4plYr 

#LTKmidsize #ltkover40 #midsizestyle #genxstyle #size14 #midsizepetite #ThisIsAnn
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Just got back from a 4-night getaway with my sister @debbiefaye78 at @curacaomarriottbeachresort. It was a last-minute planned trip that ended up being perfect. We weren’t ready to celebrate Thanksgiving without our mom and this escape what just what our hearts needed. 

I’ll be sharing more once I finally unpack my suitcase and organize my photos and thoughts; but I couldn’t not share this picture from yesterday morning. Debbie and I got up early to enjoy some of the day at the resort before flying home to DC. We had the infinity pool to ourselves, finished our books, and relaxed before a long day of travel. 🌴
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It’s hard when you’re petite and most models aren’t; you have no idea how clothes, especially jeans will fit. To promote @universalstandard’s Denim Drive sale, the company sent me two pairs of jeans of my choice. And I chose to make this video to show how they fit on my 5’3” body. I am usually a 14/32 in jeans but at Universal Standard I wear a 12 because they’re super stretchy and generously sized. 

With jeans as low as $35 in sizes 00-40, this is a sale not to be missed. And use code INFS-BFALISON10 for an additional 10% off sitewide!

The Farrah Flare is a favorite because at my height, most flare jeans will lose what makes them special once hemmed. At a 30” inseam these are great with low heels or lug soles.

The Etta is a straight jean with a vintage fit. If in doubt size down. They’re also super stretchy and the 28” inseam (they also come in 31”) works with my boots and sneakers.

While I was provided the apparel in this Reel for free, I was not paid or contracted to create this content. Consider it a PSA for my fellow shorties shopping this fab denim sale!

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Thanks to @talbotsofficial I’m ready for the holidays! #AD

I love Talbots for holiday fashion and this season’s new arrivals do not disappoint. And for Black Friday the entire site is 40% off with free shipping on orders $150+. Until noon, you also receive 50% off 1 regular price item!

I ordered pieces from the Talbots Holiday Collection and found great quality, great style, and great versatility. How cute is the Breton stripe bateau neck with the removable feather cuffs? The metallic plaid patio skirt is so fun, and these two dresses can glam up or dress down with a change of footwear and bag. For reference, I am wearing everything in either XL or 16 petite.

The ivory cords are also Talbots; the black trousers are from last year’s Talbots Holiday Collection showing how Talbots has lasting style. I’ve linked to exact or very similar in my LTK shop. Follow my shop @wardrobe_oxygen on the @shop.ltk app to shop this post and get my exclusive app-only content! https://liketk.it/4oDJF

#mytalbots modernclassicstyle #wondersoftheseason #ltkover40 #ltkplussize #ltkmidsize #blackfridaysale
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@somaintimates makes it easy to shop for a range of personas this holiday season! #AD With gift guides for a range of personality types, you can easily find great gifts for your loved ones. I was drawn to the creative one, loving the rich colorful florals, luxe satin, lace trim, and of course Soma’s iconic Cool Nights sleepwear! Visit Soma’s gift guide for tips on finding the perfect present this holiday season. #SomaGiftGuide #SomaStartsWithMe
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House and Home, Lifestyle · August 25, 2022

Saatva Mattress Review After Five Years

This article may contain affiliate links; if you click on a shopping link and make a purchase I may receive a commission. As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases. 

honest saatva mattress review by wardrobe oxygen

For the past year or so, my husband and I have been looking for ways to get more sleep and make that sleep higher quality. It doesn’t matter your stress level, your diet, your fitness, if you’re not getting enough sleep nothing will work right. Last year I wrote about how we improved our sleep with new pillows, a gravity blanket, and products to stop snoring. This past year, since adding a regular exercise routine to my life and changing my diet, my snoring has drastically reduced.

We started thinking about replacing our mattress. Our current one is a few years old and while it’s comfortable, we wanted to upgrade to king size. My husband is 6’4” and the queen bed and our tall footboard plus his gravity blanket made the bed feel a bit cramped.

We began researching mattresses and asking friends what they thought about theirs. We didn’t want foam – too hot. No adjustable bed – we didn’t want the seam down the middle and so many friends said after a couple of years they no longer liked theirs. Based on our last mattresses, we knew we didn’t like firm mattresses but still wanted structure and support. We liked having an innerspring mattress and the ability to sit on the side without it sinking. We began researching online, with Consumer Reports, and one of the top mattresses we were considering was Saatva Mattress.

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Saatva mattresses are handcrafted in the USA and made with eco-friendly ingredients like foam made with soy or corn oil, recycled steel, and organic cotton. It’s an innerspring mattress, with individually wrapped coils and lumbar zone technology for spine support. They use high-end materials and are well-crafted but half the price of mattresses at the local store because the company is 100% online.

We decided to save up for a mattress and shop in a year when Saatva reached out and asked if I’d like to try one of their mattresses in exchange for a review on my blog. I confirmed I did not have to write a positive review, and I could write whatever I wanted. This review is completely my thoughts, words, and feelings. I was not paid in addition to receiving the mattress, but if you click on the links in this post and purchase a Saatva mattress I may make a commission. As always, I’d rather have your trust than the commission, and am being completely honest.

Choosing a Saatva Mattress

Saatva has three options for their mattresses – Plush Soft, Luxury Firm, and Firm. I figured we’d want Luxury Firm as it’s the most popular and seems to be a middle ground between soft and firm. However, I did research beyond the Saatva website and found many individuals who found the Luxury Firm too firm. Some of them found the Luxury Firm great at first but after a few weeks found it too firm.

We had a similar experience with a mattress we purchased just before our daughter was born and replaced it with a softer mattress which we preferred, so I decided to go with Plush Soft.

how tall is a saatva mattress honest review

Saatva offers two heights of mattress; 11.5” tall and 14.5” tall. The Saatva website offers a guide to see how the height of the bed will be in comparison to a 5’4” person (only an inch taller than I am). Considering the height of my husband, we went with the taller mattress.

Ordering and Receiving a Saatva Mattress

We went through the same ordering and delivery process as anyone else would, and that service is pretty fantastic. Upon placing the order, I received a text from Saatva where I received a link to my order and confirmed the height of the mattress I desired. The text wasn’t automated, I could call or text back with questions and have them answered by a real person. Once I confirmed I received a text response, and was notified by email when my mattress was ready for delivery. I received a call a couple of days before the mattress was to be delivered to schedule a window of time when the mattress would arrive.

An honest Saatva Mattress review - how was delivery, which firms chosen, and how it has held up

Saatva mattresses come with White Glove Delivery included – this means they won’t just shove the mattress in your front door and be on their way. They will set up your new bed, even your new bed frame if you order one, and if you desire, will take away your old mattress. They called ahead of time to see if they needed to remove an old mattress; we said no as we were passing on our mattress to my mom who had a foam-topped one she hated.

The delivery people are contracted and not Saatva employees but they were very professional and friendly. We hadn’t broken down our current bed and mattress so we declined the White Glove service, but they still made sure to place the mattress and boxspring in a place in our living room where it wouldn’t fall or damage walls or furniture. I regret doing this as it’s not easy to get a king-sized mattress up a narrow stairwell in a 1940’s rowhome. Even if you plan on keeping your old bed, break it down before the new one comes as the delivery people are experts and it will save your back and your walls’ paint job.

how to get a king mattress up stairs

After breaking down our old bed and delivering it to my mom, we got to setting up our new bed. A king-sized bed comes with a two-piece boxspring which was super easy to get up the stairs. The mattress was another story. Thanks to YouTube, we found by using straps that we have in the car for strapping the canoe to our roof, we were able to cinch the mattress in half like a taco and shove it up the stairs.

This didn’t damage the mattress; in fact it really let us see how well-crafted and durable the mattress is (way more than our current mattress which cost twice as much). It’s well-sewn, really sturdy, both looks and feels quite luxe. Even the boxspring is better made than the one for our expensive mattress store mattress.

One Year Later: Our Saatva Mattress Review

The bed is tall; on the bedframe it’s a few inches taller than our old bed but I like it. I feel like royalty in my big bed, and it’s not so tall I can’t easily slide in and out even when half asleep or after an especially rough leg workout at the gym. Since it’s an innerspring mattress, you can sit on the side and it doesn’t sink.

It isn’t a classic pillow-top where it looks as though they sewed a comforter on top of the mattress; everything is contained. I like this, it feels sturdier and we haven’t had any issue with bunching. And while the mattress is tall, deep pocket sheets from any retailer fit very easily on the mattress and a standard fitted sheet fits great over the boxspring as a bedskirt alternative.

honest saatva mattress plush review

I am so glad we chose the Plush Soft option for our mattress. It is soft, like you feel cradled, but not soft like our very old mattress that didn’t support and left me with back aches. We both sleep on our sides the majority of the time but occasionally sleep on our backs, and it’s great for both. I often end up having an arm fall asleep and wake up with numbness and pins and needles; I have had that happen only once since getting the Saatva mattress. And while it’s only been a month, I haven’t experienced any sagging, no shape of our bodies on the mattress, no issues with construction, nothing. We are super happy with our mattress and look forward to bedtime.

Five Years Later Saatva Mattress Review

We have now had this Saatva mattress for over five years so I wanted to return to share how the Saatva mattress has held up and if I still hold true with my positive Saatva mattress review. In 2021 I updated this post unhappy due to the dents in the mattress where the two of us lie (see photo below).

saatva mattress review after three years
A 2021 photo of our bed with the clear dents where the two of us usually sleep

Researching online, such well/sinking seems common for king-sized beds. The reason is that instead of a single boxspring the same size as the mattress, a king mattress is on top of two twin boxsprings. Sinking can be prevented by putting a board between the mattress and boxspring, or buying a single-piece foundation in place of a two-piece boxspring.

Often, one would flip their mattress when they start sinking. The thing is our Saatva mattress has a padded top, and the bottom side of the mattress is a gray industrial fabric that is not comfortable or breathable. We thought we would have to replace our mattress due to these dents, but we've been able to remedy the situation.

Putting a board between the mattress and boxspring in fact, DOES work and evened out about 85% of the dents in the top of the mattress without affecting the comfort in any way. We also invested in an Eight Sleep mattress pad and having that tightly cinched as a mattress topper on the Saatva seemed to smooth out the rest of the dents.

I can see us having many more comfortable years on our Saatva mattress. I believe if we had a Queen sized mattress, we would have been less likely to have such dents in the first place.

Switching From a Queen to a King Mattress

The thing we did have to get used to was having a wider bed. Online measurements don’t make it seem like a big difference but actually, the difference is huge. We measured and had exactly enough room on the same wall to do a king bed as long as the bedframe wasn’t too wide. We have an eclectic style, a mishmash of different woods and styles in our room.

We wanted a true headboard, nothing upholstered, definitely wood and something that didn’t look too specific to a décor style or time period. Oh, and we didn’t have a lot of money to spend. We ended up going with this bed from Wayfair; it got good reviews for being sturdy and we liked that it looked a bit distressed and handmade.

This was our second purchase ever with Wayfair and it went well. The website showed real-time when the purchase would arrive so we didn’t have to twiddle our thumbs during a four-hour window. The driver called when he was a couple miles away. They brought all the boxes for the bed into our home, nothing left on the front porch, and waited as we inspected to ensure all the boxes were there and nothing was visibly damaged.

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The bed was a bit of a pain to put together and we did some MacGyver-ing to make it sturdier. The bed is a headboard, footboard, two side rails, and three slats to hold the mattress in place. One siderail, the metal hook to connect it to the headboard was screwed on crooked and we couldn’t get a good fit; good thing my husband is handy and was able to remove it and set it in the correct location.

There were two pieces of wood as part of the packing material to protect the bed; my husband sawed them off to be the same length as the slats so we’d have more mattress support. The bed also came with three wood blocks to screw to the slats to make legs in the middle of the bed; we took the sawed-off parts from the packing wood and made two more legs for the new slats. But once we did all that, the bed was very sturdy, strong, and looked nice. It also juuuust fit on the wall, a tiny bit tucked behind each bedside chest.

Loon Peak Bear Springs Panel Bed

With the mattress and boxspring on the new bed, it is tall, but I like it. We don’t have nightstands, but a chest of drawers on each side. With our old bed, these chests were at an awful height and I often cracked my head on it when turning in my sleep. Now the chests are at a comfortable height not just for protecting my noggin but grabbing a glass of water or my book.

But the bed is also wide. It’s so wide I sometimes feel I am in bed alone. He can be on his side with the gravity blanket and there’s so much space I don’t even feel his body heat. At first this made me sad and I’d wake up in the middle of the bed as I kept inching towards him in my sleep, but now we find it’s awesome. I set up my side of the bed the way I like it with lots of big pillows and my twin comforter and all that jazz, he’s on his side with his single pillow and gravity blanket and we get amazing sleep. We do start the night spooning, but as we start to actually fall asleep we usually end up moving to our separate nests, though we usually still hold hands.

It’s also taken a while to get used to the width in other ways. Before bed I put on my hand cream, lip balm, and put almond oil on my neck, arms, and décolleté. I then reach over, give him a couple drops as he puts it under his eyes to reduce dark circles. I used to just reach over, now I have to actually get on the bed to reach him.

We also had king-sized blankets and quilt on our queen-sized bed to have more length… now we’re a king and everything feels so short. It’s far harder to wrap the bedding around you like a cocoon. We’ve learned to work with it by having a shared main blanket and quilt, but I have my own sheet and comforter and he has his gravity blanket.

Our Bedroom Reveal

Speaking of bedding, I figured I had to share it with you and with it the updated bed side of our bedroom. For reference, this was my original bedroom reveal post, this post shares the story of our bedside lamps, and this post discusses our bedroom rug and shows more of our bedroom.

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When we got the new bed, we got new bedding as a holiday gift to ourselves.

  • Sheets: The Company Store
  • Silk Pillowcases: Amazon
  • Blanket: Nordstrom
  • Quilt and Shams: Pendleton
  • Pillows: Casper
  • Mattress Pad: Amazon
  • Mattress: Saatva

I mentioned in last year’s post about sleep that Casper pillows don’t last. I was wrong. I didn’t realize how to fluff them. Wash them, throw them in the dryer, and then grab the sides and push in and out like its an accordion. This will make the pillow like new. We’re still using our year-old Casper pillows and purchased two more in king size. FYI, they’re exactly the same pillows, but Casper pillows are cheaper at Target.

The Company Store makes the absolute best bed and bath linens. We got their bamboo cotton sheets which are strong and breathable but smooth and they feel luxe.  They fit the Saatva mattress perfectly.  I use these silk pillowcases; as I mentioned in this blog post about the benefits of silk pillowcases, they help with both my hair and my skin.

bedroom gallery wall

When I worked in an office, I had a huge blank wall that I decorated with a gallery of white framed photos and prints. A few of them have been added above my nightstand. The print is by my friend Julie of Sip & Script, the photo of me and my daughter was shot right after a Revlon campaign I did years ago, the small frame holds a print I received as a gift from cabi when I attended an event with them two years ago.  The top frame is a drawing our daughter did a few years ago that I love.

I hope this Saatva mattress review was helpful to you as you go about researching a new bed. I am happy to answer any questions in the comments that you may have. And if you too own a Saatva mattress, feel free to share your thoughts as well!

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Comments

  1. Pam Cundiff says

    September 9, 2023 at 8:26 pm

    You said you put a board between the two twin box springs. Do you mean like a sheet of plywood the length and width of the mattress, or ???

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  2. Mary says

    August 1, 2023 at 8:12 pm

    Though a subtitle says 5 years, the text following says you’d had the mattress over 3 years. Can you clarify?

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    • Alison Gary says

      August 2, 2023 at 7:05 pm

      Sorry for the confusion, I missed updating that text when I edited the post from 2021 to 2023. I have had the mattress for five years. I have updated the post accordingly.

      Reply
  3. Dawn says

    September 7, 2021 at 12:45 pm

    Great review! We still sleep on a queen so may have to give this mattress a try as we’re due.

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  4. Vicki Kechekian says

    April 21, 2019 at 1:42 pm

    Gosh, this post was so sweet and lovely and filled with good stuff that like a good pastry, I have to divide it into 2 or 3 servings. Thanks for all this great info. I’ve been looking for new pillows, and now have a direction to follow your lead. My sister got the Plush Firm Saatva mattress and replaced it with the Firm Firm. She got great customer service throughout the process and is now happy with her mattress, so paired with your favorable review, Saatva is going to be a contender when it’s time for me to get a new mattress, even though I’m a long-time Stearns and Foster girl. Your bedroom looks like a great marriage of feminine and masculine style and taste.

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  5. Sandra says

    February 6, 2019 at 11:03 am

    Hi Alison, we are one night down with the new Saatva, the soft version since we are both side sleepers, thanks to your review and great information. I used your link! It was good sleep but different. It felt very supportive but still a little firm or maybe stiff? Or maybe our old mattress was just so awful that we were sleeping in the “squished hollows” of the pillow top? How long did it take for you to really feel the mattress was “broken in” and soft? I am guessing a month or so? Thanks!

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    • Alison Gary says

      February 6, 2019 at 3:15 pm

      I felt that too, and soon realized it was because my old mattress was beaten down and molded to our bodies with time and gravity. It was about a month before we no longer realized the difference. 🙂

      Reply
  6. Jax says

    December 19, 2018 at 12:18 am

    Glad that the new mattress is working well. The updated bedroom is lovely.
    Just a tip to couples — I found that switching to individual but matching twin sets of sheets, comforters and light quilts improved our sleeping experience significantly.
    No tugging to get more of the shared blanket and each being warmer in our own covers. Also, we can each be as warmmor as cool as we want to.

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  7. Hilary says

    December 18, 2018 at 5:38 pm

    Perfect timing for this, hubby and I are in the market for a new mattress, and we’ve decided to go from queen to king as well! We even have similar sleeping styles, mainly on our sides, but sometimes back sleepers. This is great info, and I’m going to share the post with him so he can see the info on Saatva. Your room looks great and I love the Bert and Ernie album 🙂

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  8. Emily says

    December 18, 2018 at 4:27 pm

    Hey Allie, quick q! You have a box spring and a separate mattress on top? On a low base? In the UK we just have the one mattress that has the springs inside (maybe 1′ deep?) so I was a bit logistically confused by your new setup! Can you explain a bit more? (It looks great tho!)

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    • Alison Gary says

      December 18, 2018 at 4:36 pm

      Yes, there’s a box spring which is just what is sounds like, a box to offer a bit of height and also spring/cushioning and then the mattress above. And the mattresses here in the US are usually around that deep but some are deeper. The bed is on a low bed frame, which is like a picture frame that the box spring sits right into 🙂

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  9. Donna says

    December 18, 2018 at 4:01 pm

    Your bedroom came together SO well- it looks so comfy and inviting!

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    • Alison Gary says

      December 18, 2018 at 4:37 pm

      Thank you Donna!

      Reply
  10. L H Carter says

    December 18, 2018 at 3:10 pm

    You have writing and blogging talent. This post is the proof of my opinion!
    Mattresses are like car tires: necessary but boring. You made me want to buy a new mattress. And I don’t need one!
    I am now enlightened about this as an online purchase and Saatva has name recognition due to you. Thanks for the info.

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    • Alison Gary says

      December 18, 2018 at 4:37 pm

      Thank you so much!

      Reply
  11. Briana says

    December 18, 2018 at 2:13 pm

    I recently filled out your reader survey, but thought I’d comment since I didn’t think of this at the time I responded. It was a nice change of pace to read about your home decor. Your rejuvenated bedroom is lovely. Thank you for sharing this personal glimpse into your home.

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    • Alison Gary says

      December 18, 2018 at 2:22 pm

      Thank you so much Briana!

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  12. Paula says

    December 18, 2018 at 12:07 pm

    Okay, you just made me order waaayyy more things than I intended to, but as I continued reading your blog today, I got too excited. Thank you for the recommendations…lol I have also decided that I need to redo my bedroom end tables too, yours looks so cute and organized. I intend to save the info on the mattress too. Ours is only a few years old, but I’m needing more comfort than I’m getting. sigh….now just need to convince the husband that we don’t have to keep a mattress for 7 years (Like they suggest) before we can buy a new one!! I think you’re amazing and look forward to reading you blog every.single.day!! Happy Holidays & Merry Christmas!!

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    • Alison Gary says

      December 18, 2018 at 2:23 pm

      Thank you so much Paula! And a happy holidays to you too! <3

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  13. Amy says

    December 18, 2018 at 8:35 am

    I love how this all came together! The room looks cozy and lovely.

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    • Alison Gary says

      December 18, 2018 at 2:24 pm

      Thanks so much Amy!

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The tree is trimmed! 🎄

When I was a single gal, I had the prettiest tree with a color story and theme. 20 years later, my tree is a hodgepodge of inherited ornaments, gifts from loved ones, and handmade pieces from both my childhood and by my child. And I think each year it veers further from the original concept the more beautiful it becomes!

My daughter and I donned our Santa hats, turned on the holiday playlist, a Yule log on the TV, and spent the afternoon getting our home into the Christmas spirit.

When she was little, my husband would pick her up so she could place the star on top of the tree. Now that she’s taller than I am, when he got home he just put his arm around her as she used the library stool to reach the top. Some traditions need to be modified with time but they’re still special! ⭐️

Top is a feather trimmed Breton from @talbotsofficial; the scarf as a belt is also Talbots but a few years old. The jeans are @landsend and the blanket on the chair in the second photo is by artist  @zanderschlacter

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Just got back from a 4-night getaway with my sister @debbiefaye78 at @curacaomarriottbeachresort. It was a last-minute planned trip that ended up being perfect. We weren’t ready to celebrate Thanksgiving without our mom and this escape what just what our hearts needed. 

I’ll be sharing more once I finally unpack my suitcase and organize my photos and thoughts; but I couldn’t not share this picture from yesterday morning. Debbie and I got up early to enjoy some of the day at the resort before flying home to DC. We had the infinity pool to ourselves, finished our books, and relaxed before a long day of travel. 🌴

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Working on the weekend is far more enjoyable when it’s in my office 💚

Perimenopause and the pandemic and homeschooling made our row home feel even smaller. So when neighbors revitalized an office building in our town center and offered individual offices for rent, I felt it would be good for business and personally. And I kept it when the world opened up and our kid went back to public school because it helps me have a clear start and end to the work day, but also because I created a space I really enjoy.

This weekend I went to the office to shoot some content. And once I was finished I enjoyed just sitting here, watching the light change. I think I may switch the furniture around, switch up the energy. I love that I can do that without consulting another or having another person’s opinions matter.

When you have a family, things go from me to we. I don’t regret leaving Corporate America to do this full time, but I do miss being part of a team. And I missed having an office, a place away from home that’s just for me. 

I wish more communities would offer rental offices like @thegranitebuilding. With reasonably affordable monthly rates, it doesn’t have to just be business owners who get office spaces. It can be a place to work on a hobby or craft, a place to WFH that’s not home, or a place to just read and write and nap undisturbed. A literal room of one’s own. Because sometimes a person needs time to be a me and not a we. 💚

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You’re never too old for a Rory Gilmore sweater… this cotton fisherman sweater is from @llbean and inspired by @marielle.elizabeth I shopped the men’s department for a better size range. The influencer influenced the influencer!

The jeans are @landsend I got last year and I’m glad they brought them back this year in several washes, inseam lengths, and plus sizes. If in doubt, size down. They will shrink in length slightly but not anywhere else, they’re super comfy and stretchy but don’t stretch out. 

Kept the collegiate vibe going with a trucker cap, HOKAs, and my trusty commuter bag for years: the large @dagnedover Dakota backpack!

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My husband has a special backpack he fills with weight to wear while hiking; it’s called rucking. I wear a @dagnedover Dakota and fill it with my laptop, my iPad, a full water bottle, and my purse and walk to work; it’s called commuting. 💁🏻‍♀️

But seriously, I’ve had this backpack for five years. It has been shoved under plane seats, in overstuffed car trunks, under feet in the passenger seat. I’ve worn it as I’ve walked miles in major cities and from my house to my town center. My daughter also has a Dagne Dakota; it survived middle school and continues to work through camping, sleepovers, and road trips. It’s genially designed, comfortable, and can take a beating and still look great.

As for the rest of the look, the vest (XL) is a new purchase from @athleta; the Rainier tights (L) are also Athleta but two years old. The purple top is @nike and about a decade old. Hat is @llbean and it’s on sale for less than $15. And my trusty @hoka sneakers that have had their own set of adventures.

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Another day of early voting for our city election, another outfit I wore as an election judge! 🗳️

I got this sweater set from @mmlafleur last spring and it continues to be a favorite. The color and popcorn stitch makes it wearable three seasons of the year. I’ve styled it with gold heels and dramatic gold earrings, with sneakers and a crossbody belt bag, and more than once with knee-high boots and a scarf at my throat. The color works with brown and black boots, the skirt silhouette and length with heels and flats. These brown riding boots are from @duoboots and almost a decade old. The scarf belonged to my dad; I have a feeling it was styled with a leisure suit back in the day!

I may have been more dressed up than other election judges but I think seeing democracy in action is a cause to celebrate! 🇺🇸

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Early voting poll worker style 🗳️

I’ve been an election judge (AKA poll worker) for several years but this year I decided to take it a step further and join my city’s Board of Elections. I’m passionate about fair and accessible elections for all. The Board is acting as election judges for early voting so it’s great to use my previous experience on a city level!

I believe voting is a special occasion and I dressed the part. The puff sleeve sweater and pants are from @anntaylor; these pants are the same ones from the suit I wore earlier this week. I added a beloved @hermes scarf as a belt and silver hoops (they belonged to my mom) as a hint of shine.

If your area is having an election this coming week; I implore you to vote. Your voice deserves to be heard. And please ensure your neighbors know of the election and where to vote. 🇺🇸

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Always fun to see my name in lights! 💡 I was a panelist at the annual @jaofcentralmd Leading Ladies event that connects local high schoolers with women in business. My panel was on using social media for promoting one’s business or personal brand. Along with other social media experts, we guided students and adults on how to create compelling and engaging social content and together created content for the conference’s feed. It was fun and I loved being able to share my almost two decades of personal and professional experience!

The dress code for the conference was business professional and since the event’s theme color was pink, they encouraged us to wear the color. 

This @anntaylor suit has been a favorite since late summer. I’ve dressed it down with a white tank and sneakers and glammed it up with a silk cami and gold heeled sandals. I love how Ann Taylor has petite suiting up to size 16; I know I’m not the only short curvy girl who desires suits and professional attire!

For this event I chose a berry-colored microfiber tank from @lovechicos. I own several of these tanks; they wear like iron and the tight weave and subtle shine make them great shells under suits. 

The look fit the theme but was also comfortable. I was glad to share my expertise and encourage others to see how they can donate their time and knowledge to a local @juniorachievementusa #JALeadingLadies #JALeadingLadies2023 #JACMD #JuniorAchievment

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Sharing this from my #iPadOS17 thanks to @apple! A bit belated with all that has been going on lately but I’m really enjoying using an iPad to improve how I work, stay organized, and find new ways to be creative. Can I just say that editing video on an iPad instead of a phone is a game changer!

Recently, I attended an event at the gorgeous Apple Carnegie Library hosted by @flourishplanner_ to learn ways to make the most of #iOS17 and it was awesome. I brought my new iPad and learned about the new wallpaper, stickers, and organizing tools.

As for my look, the dress is from @bananarepublic’s summer collection. Kept it comfy with a pair of Samba sneakers and held down the volume of the dress with my black recycled leather @ganni crossbody. Added an old @_jennybird link necklace and a silver cuff I’ve had since the ‘90s.

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I love an excuse to dress up, especially if it’s for a good cause! This weekend was the @thenewdealcafe Masquer-AID fundraiser to support this independent cafe, art gallery, and live music venue in @cityofgreenbelt.

My family and I have loved going to The New Deal Cafe for all these years. Grabbing coffee with friends, having a meal, seeing an amazing band, participating in an open mic or one of their Reel and Meal events. So @debbiefaye78, our mom, and I got tickets and even chipped in for a plaque from us “Ashpes Girls.” 

Our mom passed before she could attend the event; we asked our like a sister best friend @shellymingram to join us in her place and we had a great time, dancing all night as our mom would have, connecting with neighbors, and supporting a local business we all love so much.

As for the outfit, the dress is @ronnykobo the bag is @ganni and I borrowed both from @renttherunway The shoes I’ve had for years and the gold metal mask I found on Amazon and liked how it could mold to my face and not put pressure on my still-healing eye.

And I know y’all will ask because I received so many DMs this weekend when I shared this event in my Stories… my sister’s dress is from @eshakti she bought it a few years ago and it’s even more gorgeous in person!

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