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Counteract the gray days with cozy colorful clothes! 🌈 This cashmere sweater set is the prettiest teal and I loved how it looked with this candy pink Chesterfield coat. All are from @anntaylor one of my favorite places to shop because Ann has petites over a size 12. Also all of these items are on sale!

While I did receive these clothes as a gift from Ann Taylor I am under no obligation to share with you. This is what I wore to work and when I saw these colors against the green of my building door I had to prop up my phone and capture the color combo!

This sweater is a classic and with the skirt is created a dress effect you can style with tall boots, ankle boots and tights, or dress down with sneakers. I linked to other pieces in this color that would also look dreamy with this skirt, as well as other gorgeous colorful coats.

For reference I am wearing the coat in XL petite and the sweater set in L. I am 5’3” and usually wear a 14/16

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Just got back from a 4-night getaway with my sister @debbiefaye78 at @curacaomarriottbeachresort. It was a last-minute planned trip that ended up being perfect. We weren’t ready to celebrate Thanksgiving without our mom and this escape what just what our hearts needed. 

I’ll be sharing more once I finally unpack my suitcase and organize my photos and thoughts; but I couldn’t not share this picture from yesterday morning. Debbie and I got up early to enjoy some of the day at the resort before flying home to DC. We had the infinity pool to ourselves, finished our books, and relaxed before a long day of travel. 🌴
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It’s hard when you’re petite and most models aren’t; you have no idea how clothes, especially jeans will fit. To promote @universalstandard’s Denim Drive sale, the company sent me two pairs of jeans of my choice. And I chose to make this video to show how they fit on my 5’3” body. I am usually a 14/32 in jeans but at Universal Standard I wear a 12 because they’re super stretchy and generously sized. 

With jeans as low as $35 in sizes 00-40, this is a sale not to be missed. And use code INFS-BFALISON10 for an additional 10% off sitewide!

The Farrah Flare is a favorite because at my height, most flare jeans will lose what makes them special once hemmed. At a 30” inseam these are great with low heels or lug soles.

The Etta is a straight jean with a vintage fit. If in doubt size down. They’re also super stretchy and the 28” inseam (they also come in 31”) works with my boots and sneakers.

While I was provided the apparel in this Reel for free, I was not paid or contracted to create this content. Consider it a PSA for my fellow shorties shopping this fab denim sale!

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Thanks to @talbotsofficial I’m ready for the holidays! #AD

I love Talbots for holiday fashion and this season’s new arrivals do not disappoint. And for Black Friday the entire site is 40% off with free shipping on orders $150+. Until noon, you also receive 50% off 1 regular price item!

I ordered pieces from the Talbots Holiday Collection and found great quality, great style, and great versatility. How cute is the Breton stripe bateau neck with the removable feather cuffs? The metallic plaid patio skirt is so fun, and these two dresses can glam up or dress down with a change of footwear and bag. For reference, I am wearing everything in either XL or 16 petite.

The ivory cords are also Talbots; the black trousers are from last year’s Talbots Holiday Collection showing how Talbots has lasting style. I’ve linked to exact or very similar in my LTK shop. Follow my shop @wardrobe_oxygen on the @shop.ltk app to shop this post and get my exclusive app-only content! https://liketk.it/4oDJF

#mytalbots modernclassicstyle #wondersoftheseason #ltkover40 #ltkplussize #ltkmidsize #blackfridaysale
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@somaintimates makes it easy to shop for a range of personas this holiday season! #AD With gift guides for a range of personality types, you can easily find great gifts for your loved ones. I was drawn to the creative one, loving the rich colorful florals, luxe satin, lace trim, and of course Soma’s iconic Cool Nights sleepwear! Visit Soma’s gift guide for tips on finding the perfect present this holiday season. #SomaGiftGuide #SomaStartsWithMe
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Working on the weekend is far more enjoyable when it’s in my office 💚

Perimenopause and the pandemic and homeschooling made our row home feel even smaller. So when neighbors revitalized an office building in our town center and offered individual offices for rent, I felt it would be good for business and personally. And I kept it when the world opened up and our kid went back to public school because it helps me have a clear start and end to the work day, but also because I created a space I really enjoy.

This weekend I went to the office to shoot some content. And once I was finished I enjoyed just sitting here, watching the light change. I think I may switch the furniture around, switch up the energy. I love that I can do that without consulting another or having another person’s opinions matter.

When you have a family, things go from me to we. I don’t regret leaving Corporate America to do this full time, but I do miss being part of a team. And I missed having an office, a place away from home that’s just for me. 

I wish more communities would offer rental offices like @thegranitebuilding. With reasonably affordable monthly rates, it doesn’t have to just be business owners who get office spaces. It can be a place to work on a hobby or craft, a place to WFH that’s not home, or a place to just read and write and nap undisturbed. A literal room of one’s own. Because sometimes a person needs time to be a me and not a we. 💚
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You’re never too old for a Rory Gilmore sweater… this cotton fisherman sweater is from @llbean and inspired by @marielle.elizabeth I shopped the men’s department for a better size range. The influencer influenced the influencer!

The jeans are @landsend I got last year and I’m glad they brought them back this year in several washes, inseam lengths, and plus sizes. If in doubt, size down. They will shrink in length slightly but not anywhere else, they’re super comfy and stretchy but don’t stretch out. 

Kept the collegiate vibe going with a trucker cap, HOKAs, and my trusty commuter bag for years: the large @dagnedover Dakota backpack!

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It’s Cozy Season, and @tjmaxx is here to update our wardrobes with stylish accessories and apparel from the best brands for less. #AD

I recently visited tjmaxx.com and was so impressed with the array of elevated designer labels, on-trend looks, and the best prices. This pearl-encrusted beanie is from a woman designer I have admired for years; tjmaxx.com has the matching gloves and other pieces from this label to make a great set for yourself or to gift another. These earrings I’ve seen from the same designer at department stores; in fact I own other earrings from this label and paid much more for them. I should have checked T.J.Maxx first! And this cozy poncho is the perfect layer for late fall in the DC area.

I love how the winter white pieces elevate my existing closet. And pearls can be worn for day or glam up for evening. I can see many ways I’ll be styling these designer accessories from #tjmaxx all season long!

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My husband has a special backpack he fills with weight to wear while hiking; it’s called rucking. I wear a @dagnedover Dakota and fill it with my laptop, my iPad, a full water bottle, and my purse and walk to work; it’s called commuting. 💁🏻‍♀️

But seriously, I’ve had this backpack for five years. It has been shoved under plane seats, in overstuffed car trunks, under feet in the passenger seat. I’ve worn it as I’ve walked miles in major cities and from my house to my town center. My daughter also has a Dagne Dakota; it survived middle school and continues to work through camping, sleepovers, and road trips. It’s genially designed, comfortable, and can take a beating and still look great.

As for the rest of the look, the vest (XL) is a new purchase from @athleta; the Rainier tights (L) are also Athleta but two years old. The purple top is @nike and about a decade old. Hat is @llbean and it’s on sale for less than $15. And my trusty @hoka sneakers that have had their own set of adventures.

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Fashion Advice · September 29, 2020

The World is on Fire, Why is Fashion so Beige?

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2020 pandemic style: soft fabrics in the color of overly cooked vegetables. the goal: luxe retreat. the reality: sweatshirt sadness. Extended-size looks from Eileen Fisher, Soma, Girlfriend, Banana Republic, Madewell, and Universal Standard

Why has fashion decided that muted and drab colors are chic? We’re in a damn pandemic, the world is literally on fire, we’re sick of our homes and our closets, and retailers say you know what I think you’ll want? Taupe! Eggplant! Heather gray! Oatmeal! Clay! Maybe we’ll get a little wild with a dusty navy or asparagus green, but we think you want clothing to look like the food that you refused to eat as a kid. Seriously, why is fashion so beige?

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Brands that either use older models or target older customers: Eileen Fisher, Garnet Hill, J.Jill, M.M.LaFleur, Talbots, and Universal Standard

It’s even worse when you’re a “woman of a certain age.” Sure, as the flush is less prominent in our cheeks and our hair loses some of its color, many find that navy looks better with our skin than black and cream instead of snow white. But these earth tones make most of us look like we’re ready to wither up and scatter in the breeze like dried leaves in fall.

You know what else looks great with older skin and hair? Jewel tones. Where the hell are the jewel tones? Why can’t we have peacock blue instead of a dusty teal? Berry in place of eggplant? Pumpkin and goldenrod instead of rust and clay?

You may also like: The Best Clothing Retailers for Women over 40

When retailers show women in these muted neutrals, they show them in front of a dropcloth tied to a tree or in a well-lit loft, sun dappling the model’s face as she looks upward, as though she just finished a set of sun salutations. She is relaxed, she is at peace, she isn’t at a shoot with a photographer at least six feet apart, she is at a resort, a spa, a retreat.

If she isn’t outside in front of that now-cliché ‘demic dropcloth or hanging out alone in an empty apartment, she is on a dock or leaning against the wood beam of a cabin or screened-in porch, usually with a mug of tea in her hand. 

Want to know where I am? I’m sitting cross-legged in a Freecycled IKEA EKTORP armchair in my bedroom because my husband is downstairs swearing as he tries to repair our refrigerator and our daughter has taken over my home office as her virtual classroom. This is not elegant, this is not a retreat, this is not vacation. And wearing a sweater the color of baby poop will not transport me to Sedona or Bali or an NYC loft.

Why is Fashion so Beige? Who decided, oh a pandemic, let's wear baby food!

When we want to ignore what is going on around us, we don’t need oatmeal cashmere joggers to do so. We already have those clothes, they're just in black and gray from last season. We have those faded sweatpants and the stretched-out sweater that has muted with washings. We don't need to pay for new versions of that packaged as “chic loungewear.”

And am I the only one who finds is more enjoyable to do yoga in my living room, jog around the block, or hop on my Peloton in some energizing color? I don't think so.  And when we need to pull ourselves together for work, studies have proven that many bright colors help you look like a leader, like someone to trust, and heck, it looks a lot better during a Zoom!

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ELOQUII and J. Crew, two retailers I could always rely on for having great colors in plus sizes, has even gone the drab route this season. These are images I didn't seek out, but were front and center on their website advertising new arrivals.Top row ELOQUII blouse with jeans, skirt with blouse, blouse with pants. Bottom row J. Crew coat with chinos, blazer with jeans, jeans with tank and blazer

When you are a larger size, you’re even more starving for color. For years, retailers have shamed plus-sized women by offering either black or the most hideous and garish prints. Just as some retailers have recognized that women over a size 12 exist, the fashion trends change to where all sizes are now wearing the sad offerings that plus-sized women have had to deal with for decades.

Pantone called it before the pandemic happened – we would want tranquility. Colors of the sand and sky. But along with these soft, tranquil shades Pantone suggested Rhubarb and Bayberry and Glistening Grape and Water Nymph. And hell, the Pantone Color of the Year is Classic Blue which seems to be forgotten for Cornhusk, Stucco, Peach Quartz, and Faded Jade.

You may also like: How to Wear Pantone's Color of the Year

Life may suck right now but our wardrobes don't have to reflect that. We’re not pea soup or baby poop or dried up leaves or the color of water after cleaning your brushes during an art project. We need to feel joy, have energy, be motivated to keep pushing forward.

We deserve clothes that are fun to wear, bring color to our cheeks, and make it enjoyable to get dressed, even if it’s to go from the bedroom to the kitchen table for yet another Zoom session.

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A few colors I'd love to see as options in fashion for all sizes. And think how lovely these colors would look with the soft neutrals that are already on the scene!

Whether it’s a cocktail dress or a pair of joggers, I’d love to be able to find these kinds of colors at my favorite size-inclusive retailer. Give me a higher-end t-shirt that flatters curves, a pair of joggers, a hoodie, a tunic, knit pull-on pants, and a pair of leggings in a luxe heavyweight jersey with nice drape. Sweaters with pretty necklines that are machine washable and not transparent. A heavyweight longer cardigan with patch pockets and an optional self-belt and a matching sweater tee that doesn’t have a band at the hem.

Give me some elevated wardrobe staples that can mix or match for hanging out on the couch, heading into the office, running to Target, or just gussying up for that 500th Zoom meeting. I don’t think I am alone in hoping the future is healthier, kinder, and full of optimistic color.

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Comments

  1. Janelle Robbins says

    September 18, 2021 at 12:36 pm

    You read my mind! They wonder why the fashion industry is suffering. It is not rocket science. It is hard to spend money on fashion when the colors you look great in come out every three years. Great article.

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  2. Nada Manley says

    December 6, 2020 at 9:58 am

    Amen, amen, and amen!!! I laughed and nodded through this whole piece. Soooo good!

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  3. E E Deere says

    October 4, 2020 at 3:48 pm

    I couldn’t believe my eyes when I saw the Garnet Hill catalog, mentioned in the first comment. Even the bedding was dominated by shades of brown. How about a world where retailers offer clothes in a variety of flattering colors? I’d take fewer styles and more color range.
    I happened to look at Pure Collection (English, they promote cashmere but I like their merino sweaters and pencil skirts), and they are promoting color, lots of color. Kettlewell works for me too.

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  4. Maggie Morris says

    October 1, 2020 at 12:12 pm

    I agree with you, however, for the exception that proves the rule, so to speak, I found a beautiful teal moto jacket, shirt and sweater at Chicos. This is a great color for me, a redhead so I’m happy, happy!

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  5. Terrylee says

    September 30, 2020 at 7:45 am

    amen!

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  6. Christine says

    September 29, 2020 at 11:03 pm

    Gosh yes — just flipped through the latest Garnet Hill catalog today and everything looked so dusty and tentative that I wondered if the printer made a mistake. Dull colors, same old shapes and styles, making even their lovely young models look dull and subdued.

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  7. Jessica Valadie says

    September 29, 2020 at 8:04 pm

    If I ran the world, there would be clothing in all colors from vibrant to muted in all seasons and through all trend cycles. Alas, it is not to be. While I sit and wait for my obnoxious brights to come back, I’ll just go watch Trinny Woodall’s feed on Instagram for color inspiration. Totally different body type from me and a different aesthetic, style wise, but I do love her approach to and enthusiasm for COLOR of all kinds.

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  8. Judy Dempsey says

    September 29, 2020 at 5:53 pm

    Frustrated, just went to kettlewell.com, took color quiz, found out i am a winter and amazingly, i loved all the colors and already wear most. Hair is white/silver, dark coloring and get compliments all the time. Now i would just like to go down a size healthwize. Love your blog Allison, keep on keepin on!

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  9. Nicole Kowalski says

    September 29, 2020 at 5:38 pm

    Here’s the thing: whether you can wear these colors or not, most of them will not stay in style. Those pale muddy pinks and greens? Nope. Why? Very few people love them and they don’t coordinate well with other basics. Muddy colors are fine as accents, but do they work well with basics many of us have? Not really. They make me nauseous.

    I like a lot of browns, but they also go out of style. So, knowing that, I won’t buy. We’re not going anywhere where we need to be up to date. So, wearing navy and color isn’t going to matter. I mean, the grocery store clerk doesn’t care.

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  10. Kaffesoester says

    September 29, 2020 at 3:50 pm

    This is spot on! I too have lost quite a bit weight, and now need to replace my entire rainbow coloured wardrobe. What a challenge :-/

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  11. yasmara says

    September 29, 2020 at 3:20 pm

    I do like a drab olive green and eggplant has always been one of my favorite colors, but for the rest, I completely agree!

    I feel like my gut reaction is, “Stop trying to make clay and oatmeal work.”

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    • house of coocher says

      January 18, 2023 at 1:28 pm

      I was overdosing on the washed-out dyes of the Fall/Winter 2023 shows on Youtube and trying to think of a phrase for the unflattering non-color scheme that has taken over.

      “Faded camel?” “Washed zinc?” But you hit the grayed-out nail on the head with “clay and oatmeal” Good job.

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  12. Celia says

    September 29, 2020 at 2:49 pm

    I was trying to find an old article that talked exactly about how in difficult economic times(or troubled times) the fashion industry resorts to beiges and browns. Although it was a trend we could feel coming this unheard of 2020 just made it more visible faster.
    If I look around my neighborhood/my coworkers/my group of friends fashion brands will do better with these color choices as I am usually the bright pink sweater odd one out.
    As a 46 year old I can hear the silent messaging around me that I should become invisible and it bothers me that fashion on a global level keeps sending this message(this year more than ever) that I should accept my irrelevance with quiet dignity.
    I do have the coloring for most of these neutrals and quiet teals, however , the message that we are placidly sitting on a dock by the lake sipping our tea bothers me no end.
    We are relevant, we are in our home offices dealing with business as usual while trying to maintain our children safe and healthy( both in body and mind). I would like to see women of all ages portrayed for what they are and how strong they are.

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  13. Cameron Barry says

    September 29, 2020 at 2:18 pm

    Thanks, Alison. I’m not a big fan of color for my own wardrobe, but I’ve been adding more and looking at all those drab shades you posted nearly put me to sleep. Coincidentally, I just got an email from a company I love, Zuri (shopzuri.com). I may even have found out about them from you. They don’t have many styles (just one dress and one shirt style, both flatteringly cut and available in up to size 2X), but the fabrics, ethically produced and sewn in different African countries, are gorgeous. I don’t have a professional relationship with them–I’m just a fan.

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  14. joannawnyc says

    September 29, 2020 at 2:07 pm

    I am bemused as I did not know that eggplant was a neutral. I find neutrals soothing (specifically, cream/ivory/winter white/some tans) and have the coloring to pull it off. But nobody should HAVE to wear those colors because they can’t find anything else. Too bad EverybodyWorld isn’t for every body.

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  15. hmbalison says

    September 29, 2020 at 1:58 pm

    This post and this year’s colors are why I love shopping Ebay and Poshmark and ThreadUp.

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  16. SusieG says

    September 29, 2020 at 1:27 pm

    Spot on, my dear! It is with those very thoughts in mind that I recently scheduled a color analysis appointment. My style has been floundering and I’m hopeful that pulling together flattering colors that suit me and coordinate might be the answer. I’ll let you know how it goes …

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  17. Annette Kuusinen says

    September 29, 2020 at 12:33 pm

    Thank you for the smile today. Around 15 years ago I realized how much I love to wear colors – typically vibrant colors. It definitely makes shopping challenging. I find my self wishing that some children’s clothes were made for adults. I hadn’t even realize that this was the current trend. Now I’ll be sure to chuckle whenever I see this season’s palettes.

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  18. KC says

    September 29, 2020 at 12:09 pm

    These drab colors ( for me!) make me so very thankful I can sew!! I do like some RTW but the older I get ( 60) the less I am willing to compromise.

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  19. Leu2500 says

    September 29, 2020 at 11:38 am

    This must be why I bought a kimono-like topper from Chico’s. The base is black, but then it has all these flowers painted in watercolors over it: reds & corals, bright blue/turquoise/purple, etc. & I actually found a silky teal tee from US to go with it. The idea was I could wear it after work for pretend happy hour/cheese plate time. I’m thinking abut wearing it for the debate tonight.

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  20. Trish says

    September 29, 2020 at 10:40 am

    I have long wanted a Primary.com for adults – quality basics in a rainbow of colors and wide range of sizes that don’t get discontinued after 6 months.

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    • Michele says

      September 29, 2020 at 11:16 am

      YES.

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    • Helena Claire says

      September 29, 2020 at 12:16 pm

      Sounds like a business opportunity for somebody.

      I used to go to Lands’ End or LL Bean for that, but their colors are not much better right now.

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      • Kate says

        September 29, 2020 at 1:05 pm

        Agreed with this whole thread!

        Land’s End / LL Bean colors look like scrubs in a children’s hospital. They scream, “Honey, let me make you comfortable”–not “I’m a leader, take me seriously.” Too bad since their stuff is such good quality.

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    • Lisa S. says

      September 29, 2020 at 1:31 pm

      From your keyboard to the VC’s ears.

      Primary.com did some t-shirts this past spring but what I really want are the same attractive basics I buy for my child — colorful (and reversible!) swimsuit separates, a breton dress with pockets, cotton flannel drop-waist dresses with pockets, striped t-shirts that channel the 1980s preppy vibe. Their whole approach is *chef’s kiss*.

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  21. Michele says

    September 29, 2020 at 10:31 am

    AMEN Allie!!! The world is depressing enough right now without all these wardrobe “options” in truly depressing colors. I am actually about to paint one wall in my bedroom a very cheery, saturated reddish-purple because I need COLOR and energy to get through these times. Really appreciate this post as it expresses how I have been feeling!

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  22. Charlene Lammers says

    September 29, 2020 at 10:12 am

    This is why I haven’t bought anything new for fall. I’m home but I want bright colors to keep me happy. Also, I let my hair go grey so you put me in those colors I will look like death. I need the jewel tones to pop my hair color. Hopefully, they figure it out.

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  23. kiki iber says

    September 29, 2020 at 9:58 am

    OMG!! I love you even more after this blog!! As an Italian ( well half and half British) I am ALWAYS disappointed in the drabness of the colours!! WHY OH WHY are we so scared of colour?? Colour brings JOY!! and I am sorry but I don’t think that mousey colours help us as we age AT ALL> they just make us dissappear even more which I am sure that this fairly ageist society is very happy with. Personally, I feel, that as we women get older we get richer , wiser , more interesting, bolder, clearer and braver!!Let’s have some colour to promote that!! ( Thankfully Cabi has made a few pieces that are a lovely ZING of colour and I’m not saying that because I am a stylist) Sadly – I live in Minnesota and most people barely bother dressing up at all.
    Keep up the good work – I ADORE YOU!!!

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  24. Mary Beth says

    September 29, 2020 at 9:47 am

    Yes! I want my wardrobe to bring me joy and energy because the world is giving me heartbreak and exhaustion.

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    • Michele says

      September 29, 2020 at 10:33 am

      Ditto Mary Beth!

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  25. Lane says

    September 29, 2020 at 9:40 am

    I think this is why the Land’s End and J.Crew fall catalogs always appealed to me so much. I wear so much black and camel throughout the year, that when they drop their sweaters in every color of the rainbow, I want to buy them all!

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  26. Ev says

    September 29, 2020 at 9:40 am

    Preach! This really made my day – thank you, Allie. I am a very unhappy winter who is usually forced to choose between navy and black because I can’t wear the other colors offered. So I don’t buy at all.
    I have gone to the Kettlewell site and most of the winter colors are sold out, because I am not the only unhappy winter out there this season. Also I need petite sizing, just to make it more complicated. So I will sit this one out.

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    • Barb says

      September 29, 2020 at 10:58 am

      Amen! I too am petite and a winter. In addition, I’ve let my hair go gray during these Covid months. I need and crave jewel tones—sweaters (v-neck or scoop and NOT crewneck), a new casual winter jacket. I haven’t had much luck yet.

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    • Jacquie says

      September 29, 2020 at 3:02 pm

      I’m with you Ev, petite winter and so locked out. Fortunately I can wear some reds, but this years reds have been more rusty , or just too dark for me. Ah well, next year.

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  27. Bette says

    September 29, 2020 at 9:28 am

    I’m sitting here in a black sweatshirt, black leggings, and a black sports bra. While I agree, in theory, that color uplifts, I find myself wearing a uniform every day that simplifies my choices and calms my nerves. I love black.

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  28. Cindy says

    September 29, 2020 at 9:28 am

    I so agree. When I saw the pantone colours for fall I thought they showed a great combination of neutrals and jewel tones….but retailers havent seemed to pick up as many of the jewel tones. Always have been my favourites for fall.

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  29. Suzy says

    September 29, 2020 at 9:02 am

    So true! I have been growing out my hair and its now a beautiful silver plus I’ve lost 25 lbs. So I’m searching on line for new clothes and so frustrated both because I no longer know my size and because the colors are so blah. I’m trying to figure out my size and my best coloring choices for silver hair – retailers are not helping!

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  30. Krista says

    September 29, 2020 at 8:37 am

    yay! It’s not just me. It doesn’t matter to me what season or world events. I love color! Drab colors do no one a favor. I know fashion is between a rock and a hard place right now, but is this really the best they can do?

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  31. Dee says

    September 29, 2020 at 8:29 am

    It’s all about your own point of view. I am thrilled with finding browns, rusts, and other earthy colors in stores. These are the colors that look best on me and I am in that “woman of a certain age” demographic. For a change clothing is being offered in colors other than the requisite black, gray, or red. It is frustrating to shop and find all the items you like aren’t offered in shades that look good on you, which happens all the time for me. I bought three tops yesterday for my WFH/casual wardrobe: olive, goldenrod, and a pattern shades of brown and eggplant. I am thrilled with these items and can’t wait for cooler weather so I can wear them. Now I’m hoping to find a pair of comfy pants in a brown shade. The colors that are washed out or muted aren’t appealing but several of your picture examples above I think look wonderful.

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    • amanda says

      September 29, 2020 at 10:35 am

      Yes, it’s been nice for people who like earth tones! And I see it as an extension of the early 90s being back, fashion-wise (all those shackets and oversized blazers we’re seeing now). And I don’t really see beige taking over. Some of the examples above are totally washed out (for my skin tone, anyway), but some of them are nice. And these retailers aren’t solely offering warn neutrals. Universal Standard has also added a beautiful emerald green and a storm blue as options to several of their pieces. And J Crew continues to offer their rainbow of colors in sweaters.

      I don’t know, the tone here just strikes me as a little judgy? Like, this year has been hard for everyone, for many different reasons, and we should all seek joy where we can find it! Let people wear their earth tone without being compared to mushy vegetables! Personally, when I’m in a bout of clinical depression (like right now), I just want to wear a black uniform to simplify one thing (like one commenter noted above).

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    • Laura says

      September 29, 2020 at 11:50 am

      Yeah, I think it’s just the way color trends were trending even pre-pandemic; we’ve had many years of gray/black being the default, then a bit of navy snuck its way in, so brown was going to come back around next. Alison obviously doesn’t like those colors and finds them blah and depressing, but I think they’re soothing and a nice change.

      I personally am a summer so I don’t wear full-on earth tones, but I do suit muted but clear, so it’s nice to see more options in the oatmeal/taupe world, seafoam, medium blue, medium green, violet, etc, rather than just jewel tones and primary colors, which make me feel like a little kid forced into a uniform.

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    • Sally says

      September 29, 2020 at 1:10 pm

      I love a good rant, but it is pretty obvious this was written by a woman with winter coloring who is not accustomed to what many women experience as the norm year in and year out…living in a clothing market dominated by a color palette that doesn’t suit you.

      Just this weekend I was texting my mom about the terrific soft colors I had been able to purchase…soft indigo, soft blue, a pinkish-coral, a pale aloe/olive green, darker olive green, dusky teal, berry-burgundy, light navy, pale yellow, a cool chocolate brown (and note: not a beige piece in the lot). I was marveling at how nice it is to finally be able to start migrating my wardrobe away from too many brights toward these more muted tones that don’t overpower my pale skin/blonde hair/green eyed self and that feel/look good on my 46 year old plus size body. And she (pale/grey/blue/70s/size 14) was like, Oh god, yes, I remember when jewel tones were all we could find!

      The bit about everybody now experiencing the sad plus-size offerings of yesteryear was pretty surprising, since I cannot remember ever feeling like the fashion world wanted to shame me for my size by providing a variety of lovely items in light neutrals, warm neutrals, and soft/muted colors. Black and garish prints (embellishments! all the sequins and rhinestones! zebra AND leopard print together! bright purple! the very cheapest polyester fabric! Tops that can do double duty as tents!) were spot on.

      Also, we are just a couple days short of October. If there is ever a time for “mushy vegetable colors”…or, you know, earth tones…isn’t this it?

      I think we all agree that we would like the market to provide all the diversity…all the sizes, shapes, colors, fabrications, price points, etc. And it is sad to see that not happening. But from where I stand, the current market is not offering as much a reduction in variety as a shift from one kind of homogeneity to another…from a limited palette dominated black/jewel tones to one with a stronger representation of soft/earth tones.

      Winter ladies, never fear! I would bet money that you will get to experience your usual color palette privilege soon enough. For now, maybe you can just think of it as a brief moment where other people get a rare opportunity to revitalize their wardrobes with garments in colors that are not, in fact, “sad” or reminiscent of “baby poop”…but are colors that suit them beautifully.

      Said with love, truly. Well, love and a little snark, yes. 🙂

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    • Anna D. says

      September 29, 2020 at 2:20 pm

      I agree with all this! I personally can’t really wear earthy neutrals, but I know lots of people who can, and I do like them for home decor, when I don’t always want the high energy in-your-face contrast of really bright colors. It’s just another turn in the fashion cycle – some years neons are up, other years neutrals are. I’m always sort of saddened when people dismiss colors as “baby poop” because so many of them are wonderful, complex, murky hues.

      I also really agree about how plus size clothing tends to be black + GREAT BIG BOLD PRINTS. I think it’s great for plus-sized people to wear those if that’s their choice, no matter what size; I just personally really hate super-contrast-y clothes and never wear big prints.

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      • Karin says

        October 1, 2020 at 8:39 pm

        I hate beige with the fire of a thousand suns, but thanks for bringing up a good point that browns/tans are often pretty hard to find.
        Also, it will be a lot easier not to spend money this fall if all the clothes are this brown!
        Ps whoever posted Kettlewell, OMG, thank you!!!! What a great idea.

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  32. Charlee says

    September 29, 2020 at 8:29 am

    Hear, hear! I love jewel tones, hate oatmeal and clay and beige, all of which make me look…beige! Let’s mix neutrals like charcoal, black or espresso with brights, reds, fuscia, emerald or cobalt and deep berries, plums, wines!

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  33. Kathy says

    September 29, 2020 at 8:28 am

    Have you checked out Kettlewell? http://www.kettlewell.com Clothes are organized by your seasonal palette, and they have over 300 of them. I purchased several in a winter palette and am thrilled!

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    • Kathy says

      September 29, 2020 at 8:30 am

      sorry, it’s https://www.kettlewellcolours.co.uk

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    • Janine says

      September 29, 2020 at 11:09 am

      As someone with a winter complexion, I had no idea this site existed and am excited to check it out! I love blue-purple shades and have been struggling to find much of anything. The pickings are slim most years and almost nonexistent this year.

      And I so appreciate this entire post. I feel like the seasons are really hit or miss on jewel tones, and sometimes, I have to work really hard to find those few key pieces I’m looking for in the colors I want. I thought it was just me. These days, I have noticed that color brightens my mood and have tried to put on something bright each day, be it a tee, a cardigan, or a pair of earrings.

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  34. Sheila Harden says

    September 29, 2020 at 8:15 am

    Cabi has some great bright colors this season – purple, teal, and their new limited edition has bright yellow and orange!

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  35. Ellen Greenway says

    September 29, 2020 at 8:10 am

    Yes, I completely agree! I’ve noticed this lately too and I’m tired of black being the only good option. I already have everything in the world in black! I’m pale and look terrible in beige and pastels. Are retailers thinking we all need to calm down or something? I don’t get it. Thanks for writing this, Allie, it made me laugh AND feel validated!

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  36. Ann Marie says

    September 29, 2020 at 7:40 am

    Yes to all this!! I was thinking the same thing every time I walk into a store lately. I am 38 years old and have a “winter” skin tone. I cannot wear these colors without looking like death. Also, when it gets dark and cold, I want color and shine! Neutrals may be OK when it is hot and sunny out and you are trying to stay cool but in the depths of winter stuck at home, no thank you! Luckily I have plenty of clothes from last year since it doesn’t seem I will be doing any shopping this year.

    With that said, I recently bought two portofino shirts from Express for only $25 each. They are a rich burgundy and a rich dark green in a button up style. I haven’t gotten them yet but they look luxe and will be good for video conference meetings, not to mention they are not too hot for a steam-heated apartment. These are the only shirts I could find that have some actual color.

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  37. Judy says

    September 29, 2020 at 7:10 am

    THANK YOU!!!!! I am trying to judiciously shop smaller retailers, etc but I do not want to look like a lump of oatmeal or pureed veggies. I am thinking now may be the time to sharpen my secondhand shopping skills and try to find some color there.

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Working on the weekend is far more enjoyable when it’s in my office 💚

Perimenopause and the pandemic and homeschooling made our row home feel even smaller. So when neighbors revitalized an office building in our town center and offered individual offices for rent, I felt it would be good for business and personally. And I kept it when the world opened up and our kid went back to public school because it helps me have a clear start and end to the work day, but also because I created a space I really enjoy.

This weekend I went to the office to shoot some content. And once I was finished I enjoyed just sitting here, watching the light change. I think I may switch the furniture around, switch up the energy. I love that I can do that without consulting another or having another person’s opinions matter.

When you have a family, things go from me to we. I don’t regret leaving Corporate America to do this full time, but I do miss being part of a team. And I missed having an office, a place away from home that’s just for me. 

I wish more communities would offer rental offices like @thegranitebuilding. With reasonably affordable monthly rates, it doesn’t have to just be business owners who get office spaces. It can be a place to work on a hobby or craft, a place to WFH that’s not home, or a place to just read and write and nap undisturbed. A literal room of one’s own. Because sometimes a person needs time to be a me and not a we. 💚

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You’re never too old for a Rory Gilmore sweater… this cotton fisherman sweater is from @llbean and inspired by @marielle.elizabeth I shopped the men’s department for a better size range. The influencer influenced the influencer!

The jeans are @landsend I got last year and I’m glad they brought them back this year in several washes, inseam lengths, and plus sizes. If in doubt, size down. They will shrink in length slightly but not anywhere else, they’re super comfy and stretchy but don’t stretch out. 

Kept the collegiate vibe going with a trucker cap, HOKAs, and my trusty commuter bag for years: the large @dagnedover Dakota backpack!

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My husband has a special backpack he fills with weight to wear while hiking; it’s called rucking. I wear a @dagnedover Dakota and fill it with my laptop, my iPad, a full water bottle, and my purse and walk to work; it’s called commuting. 💁🏻‍♀️

But seriously, I’ve had this backpack for five years. It has been shoved under plane seats, in overstuffed car trunks, under feet in the passenger seat. I’ve worn it as I’ve walked miles in major cities and from my house to my town center. My daughter also has a Dagne Dakota; it survived middle school and continues to work through camping, sleepovers, and road trips. It’s genially designed, comfortable, and can take a beating and still look great.

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Another day of early voting for our city election, another outfit I wore as an election judge! 🗳️

I got this sweater set from @mmlafleur last spring and it continues to be a favorite. The color and popcorn stitch makes it wearable three seasons of the year. I’ve styled it with gold heels and dramatic gold earrings, with sneakers and a crossbody belt bag, and more than once with knee-high boots and a scarf at my throat. The color works with brown and black boots, the skirt silhouette and length with heels and flats. These brown riding boots are from @duoboots and almost a decade old. The scarf belonged to my dad; I have a feeling it was styled with a leisure suit back in the day!

I may have been more dressed up than other election judges but I think seeing democracy in action is a cause to celebrate! 🇺🇸

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I’ve been an election judge (AKA poll worker) for several years but this year I decided to take it a step further and join my city’s Board of Elections. I’m passionate about fair and accessible elections for all. The Board is acting as election judges for early voting so it’s great to use my previous experience on a city level!

I believe voting is a special occasion and I dressed the part. The puff sleeve sweater and pants are from @anntaylor; these pants are the same ones from the suit I wore earlier this week. I added a beloved @hermes scarf as a belt and silver hoops (they belonged to my mom) as a hint of shine.

If your area is having an election this coming week; I implore you to vote. Your voice deserves to be heard. And please ensure your neighbors know of the election and where to vote. 🇺🇸

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Always fun to see my name in lights! 💡 I was a panelist at the annual @jaofcentralmd Leading Ladies event that connects local high schoolers with women in business. My panel was on using social media for promoting one’s business or personal brand. Along with other social media experts, we guided students and adults on how to create compelling and engaging social content and together created content for the conference’s feed. It was fun and I loved being able to share my almost two decades of personal and professional experience!

The dress code for the conference was business professional and since the event’s theme color was pink, they encouraged us to wear the color. 

This @anntaylor suit has been a favorite since late summer. I’ve dressed it down with a white tank and sneakers and glammed it up with a silk cami and gold heeled sandals. I love how Ann Taylor has petite suiting up to size 16; I know I’m not the only short curvy girl who desires suits and professional attire!

For this event I chose a berry-colored microfiber tank from @lovechicos. I own several of these tanks; they wear like iron and the tight weave and subtle shine make them great shells under suits. 

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Sharing this from my #iPadOS17 thanks to @apple! A bit belated with all that has been going on lately but I’m really enjoying using an iPad to improve how I work, stay organized, and find new ways to be creative. Can I just say that editing video on an iPad instead of a phone is a game changer!

Recently, I attended an event at the gorgeous Apple Carnegie Library hosted by @flourishplanner_ to learn ways to make the most of #iOS17 and it was awesome. I brought my new iPad and learned about the new wallpaper, stickers, and organizing tools.

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My family and I have loved going to The New Deal Cafe for all these years. Grabbing coffee with friends, having a meal, seeing an amazing band, participating in an open mic or one of their Reel and Meal events. So @debbiefaye78, our mom, and I got tickets and even chipped in for a plaque from us “Ashpes Girls.” 

Our mom passed before she could attend the event; we asked our like a sister best friend @shellymingram to join us in her place and we had a great time, dancing all night as our mom would have, connecting with neighbors, and supporting a local business we all love so much.

As for the outfit, the dress is @ronnykobo the bag is @ganni and I borrowed both from @renttherunway The shoes I’ve had for years and the gold metal mask I found on Amazon and liked how it could mold to my face and not put pressure on my still-healing eye.

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The biggest fashion trend this fall is a return to classics. For decades I have turned to @talbotsofficial for quality classics with style.  This season, Talbots has a fantastic range of pants to update the wardrobe. 

I love how these @talbotsofficial ivory stretch corduroy straight leg pants elevate closet classics! Available in Misses, Petite, Plus, Plus Petite, Curvy, and in 10 colors, these cords are a chic alternative to jeans and just as easy care! I can run errands and have a bit of quiet time with an ebook and a coffee with comfort and style. 

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