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My therapist recommended I walk outside more as I grieve the recent loss of my mom.

When it was time to pay for my mom’s funeral, the credit card I had in my wallet was my @bananarepublic Mastercard. I’ve had this card for decades because over the years, most of our family have worn some Gap brand. From onesies to tuxedos, we’ve updated our wardrobes with points.

And I got a serious chunk of points for charging my mom’s funeral expenses on my Banana card.

I decided to use them to buy clothes for winter outdoor walking. Nothing motivates me more than a chance to put together a cute outfit. This cute look is from @athleta, one of the few activewear brands that fits both my size and my style.

My Athleta purchase arrived on my doorstep and that day, a neighbor reached out, inviting me to join a group of women in our community who were supporting, not competing, to move 100k. I immediately said yes and signed up. 

This past week I hit 100k. And this past week week it has been two months she has been gone. I’m still going 💪 

Wearing XL. For reference I’m 5’3” and usually wear a size 14.

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Normalizing the normal everyday outfit…

It was a day of running errands, running to the office, and then running into friends. It rained off and on so I wanted shoes for potential puddles and a coat that wouldn’t soak through but also keep me warm.

The sweater is @universalstandard; I bought it thinking it was a bold purple but the color was off on the site and I got plum. But I think I like this better. I’m wearing a S. This is my second of this cardigan, it is super soft, dense, and holds up to washing. My other one I got a year ago and still wear all the time.

The jeans are @oldnavy and while they’re not perfect and stretch out throughout the day they were around $18 and I like the wash and weight of the denim. I’m wearing a 14 Short.

The boots are old Docs, the coat I got at @talbotsofficial last winter, and the bag is @maxwellscottuk and I’ve had for almost a decade. Earrings are @_jennybird, necklace is @gorjana. 

Disclosure: the coat was gifted last year but remains a favorite. The necklace was also gifted about a year ago but I keep wearing because I like it and it has held up quality-wise. The rest I bought. 

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Counteract the gray days with cozy colorful clothes! 🌈 This cashmere sweater set is the prettiest teal and I loved how it looked with this candy pink Chesterfield coat. All are from @anntaylor one of my favorite places to shop because Ann has petites over a size 12. Also all of these items are on sale!

While I did receive these clothes as a gift from Ann Taylor I am under no obligation to share with you. This is what I wore to work and when I saw these colors against the green of my building door I had to prop up my phone and capture the color combo!

This sweater is a classic and with the skirt is created a dress effect you can style with tall boots, ankle boots and tights, or dress down with sneakers. I linked to other pieces in this color that would also look dreamy with this skirt, as well as other gorgeous colorful coats.

For reference I am wearing the coat in XL petite and the sweater set in L. I am 5’3” and usually wear a 14/16

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Just got back from a 4-night getaway with my sister @debbiefaye78 at @curacaomarriottbeachresort. It was a last-minute planned trip that ended up being perfect. We weren’t ready to celebrate Thanksgiving without our mom and this escape what just what our hearts needed. 

I’ll be sharing more once I finally unpack my suitcase and organize my photos and thoughts; but I couldn’t not share this picture from yesterday morning. Debbie and I got up early to enjoy some of the day at the resort before flying home to DC. We had the infinity pool to ourselves, finished our books, and relaxed before a long day of travel. 🌴
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It’s hard when you’re petite and most models aren’t; you have no idea how clothes, especially jeans will fit. To promote @universalstandard’s Denim Drive sale, the company sent me two pairs of jeans of my choice. And I chose to make this video to show how they fit on my 5’3” body. I am usually a 14/32 in jeans but at Universal Standard I wear a 12 because they’re super stretchy and generously sized. 

With jeans as low as $35 in sizes 00-40, this is a sale not to be missed. And use code INFS-BFALISON10 for an additional 10% off sitewide!

The Farrah Flare is a favorite because at my height, most flare jeans will lose what makes them special once hemmed. At a 30” inseam these are great with low heels or lug soles.

The Etta is a straight jean with a vintage fit. If in doubt size down. They’re also super stretchy and the 28” inseam (they also come in 31”) works with my boots and sneakers.

While I was provided the apparel in this Reel for free, I was not paid or contracted to create this content. Consider it a PSA for my fellow shorties shopping this fab denim sale!

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Thanks to @talbotsofficial I’m ready for the holidays! #AD

I love Talbots for holiday fashion and this season’s new arrivals do not disappoint. And for Black Friday the entire site is 40% off with free shipping on orders $150+. Until noon, you also receive 50% off 1 regular price item!

I ordered pieces from the Talbots Holiday Collection and found great quality, great style, and great versatility. How cute is the Breton stripe bateau neck with the removable feather cuffs? The metallic plaid patio skirt is so fun, and these two dresses can glam up or dress down with a change of footwear and bag. For reference, I am wearing everything in either XL or 16 petite.

The ivory cords are also Talbots; the black trousers are from last year’s Talbots Holiday Collection showing how Talbots has lasting style. I’ve linked to exact or very similar in my LTK shop. Follow my shop @wardrobe_oxygen on the @shop.ltk app to shop this post and get my exclusive app-only content! https://liketk.it/4oDJF

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@somaintimates makes it easy to shop for a range of personas this holiday season! #AD With gift guides for a range of personality types, you can easily find great gifts for your loved ones. I was drawn to the creative one, loving the rich colorful florals, luxe satin, lace trim, and of course Soma’s iconic Cool Nights sleepwear! Visit Soma’s gift guide for tips on finding the perfect present this holiday season. #SomaGiftGuide #SomaStartsWithMe
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Working on the weekend is far more enjoyable when it’s in my office 💚

Perimenopause and the pandemic and homeschooling made our row home feel even smaller. So when neighbors revitalized an office building in our town center and offered individual offices for rent, I felt it would be good for business and personally. And I kept it when the world opened up and our kid went back to public school because it helps me have a clear start and end to the work day, but also because I created a space I really enjoy.

This weekend I went to the office to shoot some content. And once I was finished I enjoyed just sitting here, watching the light change. I think I may switch the furniture around, switch up the energy. I love that I can do that without consulting another or having another person’s opinions matter.

When you have a family, things go from me to we. I don’t regret leaving Corporate America to do this full time, but I do miss being part of a team. And I missed having an office, a place away from home that’s just for me. 

I wish more communities would offer rental offices like @thegranitebuilding. With reasonably affordable monthly rates, it doesn’t have to just be business owners who get office spaces. It can be a place to work on a hobby or craft, a place to WFH that’s not home, or a place to just read and write and nap undisturbed. A literal room of one’s own. Because sometimes a person needs time to be a me and not a we. 💚
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You’re never too old for a Rory Gilmore sweater… this cotton fisherman sweater is from @llbean and inspired by @marielle.elizabeth I shopped the men’s department for a better size range. The influencer influenced the influencer!

The jeans are @landsend I got last year and I’m glad they brought them back this year in several washes, inseam lengths, and plus sizes. If in doubt, size down. They will shrink in length slightly but not anywhere else, they’re super comfy and stretchy but don’t stretch out. 

Kept the collegiate vibe going with a trucker cap, HOKAs, and my trusty commuter bag for years: the large @dagnedover Dakota backpack!

Follow my shop @wardrobe_oxygen on the @shop.LTK app to shop this post and get my exclusive app-only content!
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Lifestyle · June 18, 2022

Weekend Reads #204

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Weekend Reads

What is Juneteenth? (PBS)

The Juneteenth flag, explained. (Vox)

White parents rallied to chase a Black educator out of town. Then, they followed her to the next one. (ProPublica)

Lizzo removes “harmful” word from her new song “Grrrls” following ableism criticism. (AV Club)

I heard it was coming but now it's official… Revlon files for Chapter 11 bankruptcy protection. (Axios)

These women say one man terrorized them online for years. Then, they decided to band together. (Vice)

Looking for a good facial sunscreen that is free of octinoxate and oxybenzone but doesn't leave a white cast? I am really loving this moisturizing SPF 30 from Black Girl Sunscreen. Not too fragrant, it plays nice with makeup and doesn't sting my eyes. Also, the price is pretty nice, especially for the quality.

How do we raise kids to fight racism? A Q&A with Ibram X. Kendi. (Washington Post)

I stopped wearing pants in the name of physical comfort, with the emotionally uncomfortable result that I now present as a woman who wears dresses all the time. (Catapult)

How Nike won the cultural marathon. (New York Times)

I'm a Coastal Grandmother. Stop appropriating our culture. (The Atlantic)

Why women over 50 are having a powerful impact on the battle for Roe. (MSNBC)

Did you hear that Universal Standard created a diffusion line for QVC? It's called Form & Line for Universal Standard and it's a collection of wardrobe basics in sizes 4XS-4XL/00-40 with a more wallet-friendly price. I haven't tried the pieces and don't know the fit or quality, but really appreciate the brand offering a lower-price alternative still in their fantastic size-inclusive range. Let me know if you try Form & Line for Universal Standard and your thoughts!

A first look at plans for the new Union Station in D.C. (Washington Post)

Should you double dose Plan B if you weigh more than 70 kg? (The Vajenda)

Budget culture and the Dave Ramseyfication of money. (Culture Study)

It took a hundred years and two gays to decode her diaries. (Messy Nessy Chic)

It's never too late for your first tattoo. (Literary Hub)

Emma Thompson and the challenge of baring all onscreen at 63. (New York Times)

My entire adult life, I’ve wrestled with the too-often-asked question posed by men in my bed and kind old ladies alike: Why are you alone? (Elle)

I've used a menstrual cup off and on my adult life (yes, even with having an IUD) yet I just recently found out they have little sterilizers for them that you can plug in your bathroom! Dude, this makes cup life so much easier. I got this one two months ago and am SUCH a fan. With the tampon shortage, it's nice to know there are gadgets out there that make a cup an easier alternative.

Yes, there is a tampon shortage. Here's why. (Washington Post)

Why ‘Hacks’ star Hannah Einbinder prefers suits and tuxes on the red carpet. (The Hollywood Reporter)

What happens when you come out after 40? (Gloria)

Why does everyone have IBS? (The Drift)

I love my orange tiered midi-length sleeveless cotton dress and folks are always asking if I have found similar. Usually, similar is black, beige, or some muddy color but this is a great alternative from Gap that comes in a great bright color and two cool prints, tall and petite too!

Under NYT ownership, The Athletic lays down “no politics” rule for staff. (Defector)

Queen Latifah wants to have an honest conversation about obesity. (The Root)

Dr. Jane Goodall dares you to think globally. (Elle)

The long shadow of eugenics in America. (New York Times)

Like it or not, Kim Kardashian’s Marilyn Monroe Met Gala stunt sets a precedent. (Back Row)

The International Council of Museums (ICOM) Costume Committee has apologized for its guidelines around wearing historical items from museum collections – prompted by a renowned Māori curator and Te Papa executive member. (Radio New Zealand)

These polar bears have found a way to survive without sea ice. (Washington Post)

And because this came up in multiple conversations I've had the past two weeks… What is the metaverse, exactly? (Wired)

The Soma Semi-Annual Sale is going on through June 28th and this is a fantastic time to stock up on intimates, sleepwear, and casual attire for the entire year. A few of my perennial favorites, as someone who has worked with Soma but also been a customer for over a decade:

  • Cool Nights Sleepwear: Not all of their Cool Nights is on sale, and not all their sleepwear on sale is Cool Nights; I've linked here to sale sleepwear but look for the Cool Nights pieces. If you sleep hot, if you're dealing with hot flashes, and if you just want silky knit lightweight pajamas that look nice and wash well, these are for you. I swear by them and in the summer I LOVE these longer sleep shorts! For reference, I am a busty size 14 and wear Large in Soma (they go up to XXL)
  • Vanishing Edge Cotton Blend Underwear: These undies are a favorite. They hit at a perfect height for me so they don't peek out of pants and don't roll under the tummy. They look pretty but they also are seamless in back so no lines and they don't ride up and give me wedgies. If you prefer a hipster cut, they have those too on sale.
  • Lightest Lift Smooth Perfect Coverage Bra: This is a fantastic summer bra – lightweight, invisible under lightweight knits, adjustable straps for any style of sleeveless top.
  • Enbliss Bralette: If you are a C cup or smaller, this bralette is awesome. Just select colors are on sale, but so worth it!
  • Stunning Support Full Coverage Bra: If you desire lift, this is the bra for you. It will give you a gorgeous shape while still being comfortable. I own a few; they go up to 44 band and G cup.
  • Washable Silk Robe: I love the fit of Soma robes, and this one is so luxe while also being easy-care. This is the link for a cherry red color, and this is the link for a blush/sand color.

See/Hear/Read

This week, a few friends and I got together for dinner at one of our homes and the discussion of “hall passes” came up. You know, the imaginary if you had the opportunity to hook up with a celeb of your choice, who would be so special your partner would be down with the idea.

If I was 25, I'd immediately answer Matthew McConaughey. Likely I'd answer the same at age 35 as well. But I listened to their discussion about Tom Brady, Idris Elba, Clive Owen, Jason Momoa, and Daniel Craig and was like… I don't have a single celeb I think about in that manner.

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And then the next night we began Season 6 of Peaky Blinders and I forgot how much I enjoy looking at Cillian Murphy. I have no desire to “hall pass” with him, but I'd love to spend an evening learning more about his life over a drink while being able to see his facial expressions up close.

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That lighting with that bone structure…

For those who aren't into the show or don't open up Netflix and see them promoting it hard, Peaky Blinders is a series about a crime gang that came to be after WWI, led by the Thomas Shelby, played by Cillian Murphy. The show first aired in 2013 and this final season was delayed due to COVID (we wrapped up watching Season 5 just at the beginning of lockdown). So the return of the sixth and final season is very exciting to those of us who are fans of the show.

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The characters Lizzie, Tommy, and Arthur Shelby

At first glance, Peaky Blinders is not the kind of show I would enjoy. It's a dark and violent series loosely based on a real youth gang from the turn of the 20th century. But my husband was intrigued, I decided to join him for the ride, and in the process, I may have become the bigger fan of the show.

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Anya Taylor-Joy returns to Season 6 and has a fabulous wardrobe and home

I really enjoy the personal dynamics, I'm always intrigued by an antihero (Murphy's character is pretty… complex), the cinematography is fantastic, the costumes are fabulous, the female characters are strong and nuanced. I am so sad about the passing of Helen McCrory who played Polly, one of the fiercest women in the Peaky Blinders cast. She passed before the final season and her spirit is sorely missed.

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For those who have Tom Hardy on their hall pass, he's also in Peaky Blinders!

It sucks that there were two years between seasons. The first episode of this season started and we were a bit confused and forgot a lot of the story, even with watching the recaps and trailers offered by Netflix. But it all came together and we were once again riveted.

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We aren't finished with the season, I think we're on Episode 4. We don't want to gobble it, but savor it a bit since we know it's the end. This season of Peaky Blinders is less violent and artsier with the cinematography and quotable one-liners and I'm not hating on it. They do such a great job of using lighting and angles to make Cillian Murphy's face look even more intriguing. I'm going to be sad when we finish this series.

For Your Entertainment

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This isn't the first I've featured Rina Sawayama in a Weekend Reads. The first time was back in 2019 and I love to see how much her fanbase has grown. Last week I took a Peloton bike ride that had this song and it has been in my head ever since. The video is a perfect accompaniment to it, the lyrics a positive spin on the hellish landscape our country is for those who may not fit the conservative hateful ideal and how everything, even hell, is better with others. And yes to the fun fashion and makeup! I have to say folks, this hell is better with you! ❤️


An FYI About Wardrobe Oxygen and Weekend Reads

This will be my last Weekend Reads until July 16th. I will be working this coming week through Friday, but then will take a mini-sabbatical and complete media fast until I come back to work July 11th. But that's why I made sure to have plenty of links in this issue!

I know I am not the only one feeling utter burnout from our current pace as a society along with all the trauma our country and world is facing. The reason I chose to make blogging my full-time career is because I wanted to get my life back, and I have felt that slipping away the past couple of years.

I have the privilege with this job to make my own schedule, and for my mental health I'm taking a scheduled break so I can come back happier and more inspired. Weekend Reads is the most popular series on Wardrobe Oxygen and receives the most traffic from subscribers and regular readers, so I wanted to let you know first.

Remember the oxygen mask theory – you can't take care of others unless you first take care of yourself. Self care is not stylish and we all need to rest to be fresh to fight another day. I can't wait to see you next month, much love to all of you and I hope, if possible, you too can find time to take a break and rest.

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  1. Michelle says

    June 22, 2022 at 10:46 am

    Enjoy your time off—you deserve it!

    Reply
  2. Jax says

    June 18, 2022 at 12:35 pm

    I’ve been intrigued by Rina Samayama ever since her iconic STFU song and video came out some years ago. Esp for me as an Asian woman! Hit so hard for me, haha. https://youtu.be/XojM2D3F-Dc

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  3. RoseAG says

    June 18, 2022 at 9:57 am

    I love Cillian Murphy’s voice. An ad for a relaxation ap was featuring him and I was tempted!

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I’ll be sharing more once I finally unpack my suitcase and organize my photos and thoughts; but I couldn’t not share this picture from yesterday morning. Debbie and I got up early to enjoy some of the day at the resort before flying home to DC. We had the infinity pool to ourselves, finished our books, and relaxed before a long day of travel. 🌴

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Working on the weekend is far more enjoyable when it’s in my office 💚

Perimenopause and the pandemic and homeschooling made our row home feel even smaller. So when neighbors revitalized an office building in our town center and offered individual offices for rent, I felt it would be good for business and personally. And I kept it when the world opened up and our kid went back to public school because it helps me have a clear start and end to the work day, but also because I created a space I really enjoy.

This weekend I went to the office to shoot some content. And once I was finished I enjoyed just sitting here, watching the light change. I think I may switch the furniture around, switch up the energy. I love that I can do that without consulting another or having another person’s opinions matter.

When you have a family, things go from me to we. I don’t regret leaving Corporate America to do this full time, but I do miss being part of a team. And I missed having an office, a place away from home that’s just for me. 

I wish more communities would offer rental offices like @thegranitebuilding. With reasonably affordable monthly rates, it doesn’t have to just be business owners who get office spaces. It can be a place to work on a hobby or craft, a place to WFH that’s not home, or a place to just read and write and nap undisturbed. A literal room of one’s own. Because sometimes a person needs time to be a me and not a we. 💚

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You’re never too old for a Rory Gilmore sweater… this cotton fisherman sweater is from @llbean and inspired by @marielle.elizabeth I shopped the men’s department for a better size range. The influencer influenced the influencer!

The jeans are @landsend I got last year and I’m glad they brought them back this year in several washes, inseam lengths, and plus sizes. If in doubt, size down. They will shrink in length slightly but not anywhere else, they’re super comfy and stretchy but don’t stretch out. 

Kept the collegiate vibe going with a trucker cap, HOKAs, and my trusty commuter bag for years: the large @dagnedover Dakota backpack!

Follow my shop @wardrobe_oxygen on the @shop.LTK app to shop this post and get my exclusive app-only content!
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My husband has a special backpack he fills with weight to wear while hiking; it’s called rucking. I wear a @dagnedover Dakota and fill it with my laptop, my iPad, a full water bottle, and my purse and walk to work; it’s called commuting. 💁🏻‍♀️

But seriously, I’ve had this backpack for five years. It has been shoved under plane seats, in overstuffed car trunks, under feet in the passenger seat. I’ve worn it as I’ve walked miles in major cities and from my house to my town center. My daughter also has a Dagne Dakota; it survived middle school and continues to work through camping, sleepovers, and road trips. It’s genially designed, comfortable, and can take a beating and still look great.

As for the rest of the look, the vest (XL) is a new purchase from @athleta; the Rainier tights (L) are also Athleta but two years old. The purple top is @nike and about a decade old. Hat is @llbean and it’s on sale for less than $15. And my trusty @hoka sneakers that have had their own set of adventures.

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Another day of early voting for our city election, another outfit I wore as an election judge! 🗳️

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I’ve been an election judge (AKA poll worker) for several years but this year I decided to take it a step further and join my city’s Board of Elections. I’m passionate about fair and accessible elections for all. The Board is acting as election judges for early voting so it’s great to use my previous experience on a city level!

I believe voting is a special occasion and I dressed the part. The puff sleeve sweater and pants are from @anntaylor; these pants are the same ones from the suit I wore earlier this week. I added a beloved @hermes scarf as a belt and silver hoops (they belonged to my mom) as a hint of shine.

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Always fun to see my name in lights! 💡 I was a panelist at the annual @jaofcentralmd Leading Ladies event that connects local high schoolers with women in business. My panel was on using social media for promoting one’s business or personal brand. Along with other social media experts, we guided students and adults on how to create compelling and engaging social content and together created content for the conference’s feed. It was fun and I loved being able to share my almost two decades of personal and professional experience!

The dress code for the conference was business professional and since the event’s theme color was pink, they encouraged us to wear the color. 

This @anntaylor suit has been a favorite since late summer. I’ve dressed it down with a white tank and sneakers and glammed it up with a silk cami and gold heeled sandals. I love how Ann Taylor has petite suiting up to size 16; I know I’m not the only short curvy girl who desires suits and professional attire!

For this event I chose a berry-colored microfiber tank from @lovechicos. I own several of these tanks; they wear like iron and the tight weave and subtle shine make them great shells under suits. 

The look fit the theme but was also comfortable. I was glad to share my expertise and encourage others to see how they can donate their time and knowledge to a local @juniorachievementusa #JALeadingLadies #JALeadingLadies2023 #JACMD #JuniorAchievment

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Sharing this from my #iPadOS17 thanks to @apple! A bit belated with all that has been going on lately but I’m really enjoying using an iPad to improve how I work, stay organized, and find new ways to be creative. Can I just say that editing video on an iPad instead of a phone is a game changer!

Recently, I attended an event at the gorgeous Apple Carnegie Library hosted by @flourishplanner_ to learn ways to make the most of #iOS17 and it was awesome. I brought my new iPad and learned about the new wallpaper, stickers, and organizing tools.

As for my look, the dress is from @bananarepublic’s summer collection. Kept it comfy with a pair of Samba sneakers and held down the volume of the dress with my black recycled leather @ganni crossbody. Added an old @_jennybird link necklace and a silver cuff I’ve had since the ‘90s.

#todayatapple #genxstyle #midsizestyle #midsizefashion #size14 #over40style

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Oct 17

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I love an excuse to dress up, especially if it’s for a good cause! This weekend was the @thenewdealcafe Masquer-AID fundraiser to support this independent cafe, art gallery, and live music venue in @cityofgreenbelt.

My family and I have loved going to The New Deal Cafe for all these years. Grabbing coffee with friends, having a meal, seeing an amazing band, participating in an open mic or one of their Reel and Meal events. So @debbiefaye78, our mom, and I got tickets and even chipped in for a plaque from us “Ashpes Girls.” 

Our mom passed before she could attend the event; we asked our like a sister best friend @shellymingram to join us in her place and we had a great time, dancing all night as our mom would have, connecting with neighbors, and supporting a local business we all love so much.

As for the outfit, the dress is @ronnykobo the bag is @ganni and I borrowed both from @renttherunway The shoes I’ve had for years and the gold metal mask I found on Amazon and liked how it could mold to my face and not put pressure on my still-healing eye.

And I know y’all will ask because I received so many DMs this weekend when I shared this event in my Stories… my sister’s dress is from @eshakti she bought it a few years ago and it’s even more gorgeous in person!

#newdealcafe #greenbeltisgreat #onlyingreenbelt #midsizestyle #genxstyle #over40style #greenbeltmd

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Oct 11

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The biggest fashion trend this fall is a return to classics. For decades I have turned to @talbotsofficial for quality classics with style.  This season, Talbots has a fantastic range of pants to update the wardrobe. 

I love how these @talbotsofficial ivory stretch corduroy straight leg pants elevate closet classics! Available in Misses, Petite, Plus, Plus Petite, Curvy, and in 10 colors, these cords are a chic alternative to jeans and just as easy care! I can run errands and have a bit of quiet time with an ebook and a coffee with comfort and style. 

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https://liketk.it/4kFNi #talbots #mytalbots #talbotspartner #ltkover40 #modernclassicstyle #liketkit #ltkover40

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