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Night and day…

Met three dear friends for an early dinner that went on until after the sun set. Great food and conversation with some great women!

The dress is @adamlippes and I borrowed it from @renttherunway. The bag is @jcrew and a splurge but I regretted not buying it the last time they offered this bag and this color is SO me. I mean, look how great it is with these many years old suede heeled sandals? Meant to be!

This color combination makes me so happy, and this dress was comfy even after a decadent meal. We all deserve to experience comfort and joy with our wardrobes! 💛🩷

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If @thechicks are in town you can bet @debbiefaye78 and I will be there! So when we heard they were coming to @merriweatherpp we were so excited. And their concert did not disappoint. As always, a phenomenal show! If The Chicks come to your neck of the woods I highly recommend you go!

Okay I know you want to know about what we’re wearing! 

My sister’s caftan is from @anthropologie (bought this summer so maybe you can find on resale sites).

I’m wearing a @bananarepublic dress also from this summer with the @universalstandard denim chore jacket and a hat I got from a @madewell collab a year or so ago. I glammed it up with some gold chains and gold drop earrings, but kept it comfy for a night of standing and dancing with @birkenstock sandals.

This was my first big outing since my eye surgery, and with a pocketful of eye drops I felt good (and grateful we splurged for good seats!).

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- The Embraceable Wireless: I’ve recommended this wireless bra for large busts for years and was in need for a new one! 

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Still recovering from my eye surgery but feeling more myself. Getting dolled up helps me feel me. Bright colors and bold jewelry have been signature Alison since I was a kid! 

Sweater: @favorite.daughter 
Earrings: Amazon
Necklace: @_jennybird (old)
Ring: @realmfinejewelry 
Bra: @lovebravissimo 
Lipstick: @glossier 
Pins as “cufflinks”: vintage

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This wasn’t the first clothing swap and folks in town know my style (and my job) so there were some waiting for my arrival. Look how fast I cleared out this big bag! Speaking of the bag one other swap attendee said she got herself a Hulken after seeing mine in action!

It’s so great to know our old clothes are getting a good life and this bag makes carting them to the cafe so easy! I got my Hulken on Amazon, it comes in other colors and sizes too: https://amzn.to/48iTY4Y yep the bag is as great as all those ads you see on social media, I’m a big fan!
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Actually I can’t, but things after my retina surgery are much improved! My next appointment is in a month and I’m cleared to get back into the world (with some restrictions to protect my eye).

With a sclera buckle, it changes your eye shape and now I am nearsighted again (I had lasik a few years ago). Once the eye is stabilized I can get glasses or contacts but until then I’m 20/20 in one eye and right now 20/60 in the other. But the eye is healing beautifully and I feel positive!

And I could see clearly enough to fall for this poppy-colored cotton jumpsuit from @pistoladenim. It comes in a few colors but this one is my favorite. I went with XL (im@a 14, sometimes 16) and likely could have sized down but I enjoy the relaxed fit and the drawstring waistband to create shape. And hello zipper closure making it super easy to get on and off!

My husband took this photo right after my eye appointment, I think it reflects my positive attitude and feeling of hope! 🧡

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Lifestyle · December 21, 2019

Weekend Reads #84

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The holiday rush is over.  The seasonal sponsored posts and gift guides have been published, the gifts have been purchased. My daughter finished her last day of school and doesn't return until next decade.  We have our traditional Christmas Eve and Christmas Day family activities and even booked a little getaway for New Year's. Other than continuing heathcare woes (yep, I thought it was all resolved last weekend reads but nope), I feel so… free.

I suck at being a holiday blogger.  I have grand plans of plotting out gift guides so they're ready to run every Friday from the beginning of November to just before Christmas.  Booking sponsored posts early, creating holiday content early so it can run itself most of December.  And it never happens and I freak out and mid-December I say, “screw it” and end the whole thing early.  And usually, I look back and am not glad about the missed revenue but glad about not turning Wardrobe Oxygen into Christmas Central for two to three months.  I'm going to plan 2020's holiday season better – not with more content planned early, but quality content that isn't centered around gift guides and sequined cocktail dresses.  I really enjoyed making my self-care gift guide this year.  It was whipped together pretty quickly without any agenda.  I want to make more content like that.  And while sequined cocktail dresses bring in all the likes on Instagram, looking at my analytics what resonates better with you are fun holiday earrings, a red cashmere sweater, maybe a dressy pantsuit that can still be worn beyond December.  Instead of feeling bad about missed opportunities, I'm going to see this as great research on how to make next year even better.

The rest of the year is going to be a mixed bag of content on Wardrobe Oxygen.  Nothing sponsored, nothing planned, likely a lot of random thoughts turned into posts (and of course there will be Weekend Reads next Saturday).  I already started one waxing poetic about my Nespresso machine (LOLOLOL but for realz tho) and one recapping my business in 2019.  I look forward to free-flowing thoughts, a bit of a palate cleanser to hit the ground running with fab content for 2020 – my 15th year of Wardrobe Oxygen and it will also be my 45th year on this planet!  If you celebrate any holidays this time of year, I hope they are very happy and you find some time for yourself amongst the madness. 

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Last week on Instagram Stories I mentioned the hashtag #okayboomer.  And this upset a few boomers who follow me.  This hashtag isn't about an age, but a mindset.  It's an important hashtag to understand because it goes beyond stereotypes like “When I was your age…” to our current political climate.  In my stories and to those who replied with anger, I suggested reading this article about “OK boomer” and I am leaving it here as well because I think it clarifies it well. (Vox)

If you think you're aware of your kid's actions on social media just because you follow their accounts or chat with them about it or even log into their account from time to time… you're not.  I encourage you to read this piece. (Medium)

I loved reading about the sentimental pieces of cookware owned by DC-based chefs. (City Paper)

Refinery29 has a series called Money Diaries where they share a week of an anonymous person, how much they make, their bills, and what they spend on an average day.  I usually hate it, they're often people who come from money or make way more than what I make and spend on ridiculous things and just seem so materialistic.  But this one, this is a good one on so many levels and a must-read. (Refinery29)

2019 was the year of the newsletter.  While I unsubscribed from emails from many retailers, I subscribed to many more newsletters about all sorts of topics.  One of the most interesting ones I get is FWIW from ACRONYM which breaks down weekly the amount of money spent by presidential candidates on advertising, what kind of advertising, and where. 

It's not you.  Clothing sizes are broken. (Wall Street Journal but I believe this link will let you read it one time without the paywall)

Speaking of broken and clothing, a profile of three GenZ shoppers that will make your eco-friendly capsule-loving heart break. (New York Times)

You could say this is about Minecraft, a popular video game, but it's really about grief, parenting, and growth. (Narratively) 

A top tier of editors, photographers, stylists and buyers once decided which designers and which trends would dictate a season. But that validation no longer carries the same weight with customers. (Business of Fashion)

And for some good news… Women make up the majority of U.S. medical students for the first time. (Today)

And finishing up Weekend Reads with the 19 most important moments for women in 2019. (Elle)

While content will be a bit lean the rest of the year, there will be Weekend Reads next Saturday.  It makes me happy that this series has become so popular.  I really enjoy putting it together and chatting with you all about the articles, music, and daily life updates!

For Your Entertainment

Orville Peck.  I can't share much info on this artist because it's not really out there.  How album came out this year, he's this interesting mix of Roy Orbison and KD Lang and Chris Isaak and he wears this fringed mask all the time and his real name is not Orville Peck.  Based on visible tattoos, some have figured out who he really is, but it doesn't really matter.  He's clearly a music nerd, he loves country music, but his take on the genre is completely modern while also harking back to its roots. His voice is amazing, his style is one of a kind, his songs are haunting, and this video is so artistic I had to share it.

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  1. Stacie says

    December 24, 2019 at 12:20 am

    The Money Diaries you shared is simply amazing. So much love and joy from someone I think many people would look down on for lifestyle, choices, etc. Thank you so much.
    Regarding “Ok, Boomer…” I offer the advice we give my four year old when someone calls him a name.
    “Mama, so-and-so called me a baby.”
    Us: “Are you a baby?”
    “No.”
    Us. “Then why do you care?”
    People only have power over you that you give them.

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  2. Krista says

    December 22, 2019 at 3:32 pm

    I think Weekend Reads is becoming one of my favorite things. As a disabled woman, I often wonder what would happen to me if I were to lose my husband. The money diaries story out so much into perspective. Especially how life is often wrapped up in your attitude and outlook. Several of these stories were eye opening and thought provoking.

    Looking forward to next weekend!

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      December 23, 2019 at 10:17 am

      Thank you so much Krista! <3

      Reply
  3. Michaelle says

    December 22, 2019 at 3:09 pm

    The money diaries piece really made me think, thank you.

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      December 23, 2019 at 10:17 am

      Right? It’s like I found it at the right time in the middle of this holiday chaos. I am glad you also enjoyed it.

      Reply
  4. Suzanne says

    December 22, 2019 at 11:13 am

    I hope Chicos, Talbots and Soma are as disappointed in you as I am for your boomer comment, since that is a major segment of their customer base. I hoped name calling would be below your standard, but I was wrong.

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      December 23, 2019 at 10:17 am

      Hi Suzanne, I encourage you to join others in the discussion below. I am not a fan of the “cancel culture” that has run rampant this year and hope you wouldn’t try to “cancel” me or my career because of a hashtag used in a single Instagram Story slide that expired within 24 hours and without discussing it with me. I am really grateful to those who were upset by my use of it that did reach out, helped me understand their anger and educated me so I can pass on that education and understanding.

      Reply
  5. Lynn says

    December 22, 2019 at 10:03 am

    Feeling your Nespresso love and looking forward to what you have to say about that!

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      December 23, 2019 at 10:14 am

      LOL hopefully it will go live this week! Just need a couple photos to throw in the post!

      Reply
  6. Lee says

    December 21, 2019 at 7:17 pm

    Alison, I love Weekend Reads so much & eagerly wait for it on Saturdays! It may take me all weekend to get to each link, but that’s part of the fun. So sorry to hear the health insurance problems remain problematic. Why must health insurance in this country be SO damn hard? On a lighter note, I enjoy Money Diaries (I’m very nosy!) & had just recently read the one you highlighted. It was refreshing! I hope you & your family enjoy your holidays, including the get-away. Looking forward to future blog posts!

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      December 23, 2019 at 10:13 am

      Thank you, Lee and happy holidays!

      Reply
  7. Claire says

    December 21, 2019 at 4:06 pm

    I always look forward to your Weekend Reads. Thank you for sharing such interesting links. This is what makes you a genuine Influencer, capital I intended, and not just an extended commercial. I would gladly pay for a subscription to your blog for this kind of content.

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      December 23, 2019 at 10:13 am

      Thank you so much Claire!

      Reply
  8. MonicaR says

    December 21, 2019 at 11:53 am

    Thank you so much for posting the money diary link. It was the perfect antidote to the rampant commercialism that this season always brings. That woman’s gratitude and positivity brought tears to my eyes. Also, whatever you decide to post is cool with me. Your blog feels more like chatting with a friend to me, which is why I value it.

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      December 23, 2019 at 10:12 am

      Thank you so much!

      Reply
  9. Paula Morton says

    December 21, 2019 at 11:14 am

    I will be happy reading whatever you put out in your blog. It’s always interesting and there’s always something there to make one think. I normally just scroll through blogs that feature so much Black Friday, Cyber Monday and Christmas hauls/sales links and such. It does get boring after a while, and I just have to say ENOUGH after a while. Looking forward to the New Year, new ideas and anything else in your upcoming blog. Happy holidays and many blessings to you and the family for the new year!

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      December 23, 2019 at 10:12 am

      Thank you so much Paula, happiest of holidays to you! <3

      Reply
  10. Mariana says

    December 21, 2019 at 11:04 am

    I read the “OK boomer” piece, and although it raises a lot of good and fair points, it still appears to me as “anti-” boomer -“boomers failing to realize…”, “boomers failing to understand…”… I hear you say that isn’t about an age, but a mindset. But the reality is “boomer” directly references people in a specific age group (me 🙂 ). The article seems to fail to recognize, or at least acknowledge, that the generational divide is not new to our history. Show me one generation which isn’t misunderstood by the previous/next. I went through it (and still am). That’s not an excuse to not continue to strive for understanding, reconciliation, solutions, but this article almost exclusively focuses on why one side is right and other wrong. I guess as I’m on the wrong side of that divide, yes, I’m sensitive to what feels like an attack. As a target of ageism and beginning to feel the affects of how I’m sure my mother felt as she aged out of the new, cool generation, it hurts. It’s a daily assault in the media, at the office, at the mall, in our homes. I wish for “world peace”, beginning with those we live amongst and with, and dismissive retorts are not the mechanism to promote those aims. I applaud efforts to listen and dialogue, and realize that is a much more difficult and wearying task. We need to KOKO – keep on keepin’ on!

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    • Mariana says

      December 21, 2019 at 11:10 am

      PS This piece referenced in the Vox article is a more erudite way to explain what I’m feeling. 🙂 https://www.washingtonpost.com/outlook/2019/11/13/problem-with-ok-boomer/

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      • Alison Gary says

        December 23, 2019 at 10:07 am

        This was a fantastic piece, Mariana, and I am so glad you shared it. Since sharing the hashtag that one moment on Instagram Stories I’ve been delving more into this. I both get why boomers are angry about the hashtag, but have also seen so many examples of those angry reacting in a way that is… I hate to say it, stereotypical to the meme. I appreciate your outlook and conviction and appreciate you taking the time to educate me and others. Seriously, thank you.

        Reply
    • Leu2500 says

      December 21, 2019 at 11:23 am

      It also treats the boomer generation as homogeneous, which it isn’t.

      Reply
      • Chris says

        December 22, 2019 at 4:57 am

        Agreed. There is no standard boomer any more than there is a standard millennial. Humans are so varied. I don’t think they can be corralled by age any more than they can be corralled by gender.

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      • Linda B says

        December 22, 2019 at 10:17 am

        Born in 1957, I am definitely a baby boomer. But I actually totally get the frustration with my generation, because often I share it. My politics, values and lifestyle align more with my children and their cohort. I have many friends that would say the same. So I definitely agree that the boomers aren’t monolithic–but those who are acting as the article describes deserve some constructive criticism. I am pretty critical myself.

        I find myself frequently saying that it is precisely the younger generations, epitomized by Greta Thunberg, that give me hope that humanity may survive. . . And I am very invested in this survival, with a 6 month old granddaughter! However, I will point out that another of the articles that Alison posted a link to, the one about the three young women and their choices to spend so much money on throwaway clothes, is a picture that not everything is rosy with the younger people.

        As always, I am so very grateful Alison for the Weekend Reads. Have a wonderful holiday week with your family!

        Reply
        • Alison Gary says

          December 23, 2019 at 10:11 am

          I love your comment, Linda. I think the whole 2000’s have been spent with think pieces to fill the 24-hour news cycle about the failures of the Millenials, and now the failures of GenZ that it was a given there would be some retaliation, especially after the results of the 2016 presidential election and who voted for what. I don’t think all boomers fit one category, I do think this is history repeating itself because every young generation finds those above them to be out of touch and the reason for their struggles. But I also feel that this has come because of two decades of poking a stick at two generations that have been seen as lazy, entitled, materialistic, and delicate even though their accomplishments despite their struggles have proven otherwise time and time again. But me using the hashtag is just continuing the divide and I regret using it last weekend.

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          • Jane says

            December 23, 2019 at 5:57 pm

            As an older Millennial, and one who often doesn’t feel a part of that generation, I wanted to say thank you, Alison, for engaging in thoughtful conversation about the generational divide. I agree with those commenters saying that we should all be focusing on the issues, not the artificial divide among the generations. But I also agree with Alison that ‘OK Boomer’ comes as a response to negative generalizations about younger generations. It seems to me that when Millennials started to question the lot they’d been handed, facing poor financial prospects in particular, numerous Boomers publicly shut that down as lazy and entitled instead of taking a hard look at the issues. I hear that the Millennial response feels similarly harsh, but I see it as a call to older generations to really hear the issues and help us to solve them.

  11. Bette says

    December 21, 2019 at 8:53 am

    Wow, the Money Diaries piece was so good. Thank you for bringing it to our attention.

    Happy holidays to you and your family. I love the idea of a NYE break, and hope it’s enjoyable for all.

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      December 23, 2019 at 10:02 am

      Thank you and happy holidays to you too, Bette!

      Reply
  12. Briana says

    December 21, 2019 at 7:10 am

    I haven’t even read the whole post. But I’m so excited to hear what you say about Nespresso. I’ve never been a coffee drinker, but as I strive to give up Diet Coke I’ve been exploring my options and got turned on to these machines when I enjoyed the one in our suite during a recent girls trip. Can’t wait for all your new content for the remainder of the year and into the new decade!

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    • Alison Gary says

      December 23, 2019 at 10:02 am

      I had one in my room when I went on a business trip to Pasadena and also fell in love and this fall a friend’s machine totally left me obsessed. I’ll likely have it go live this week!

      Reply

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Okay I know you want to know about what we’re wearing! 

My sister’s caftan is from @anthropologie (bought this summer so maybe you can find on resale sites).

I’m wearing a @bananarepublic dress also from this summer with the @universalstandard denim chore jacket and a hat I got from a @madewell collab a year or so ago. I glammed it up with some gold chains and gold drop earrings, but kept it comfy for a night of standing and dancing with @birkenstock sandals.

This was my first big outing since my eye surgery, and with a pocketful of eye drops I felt good (and grateful we splurged for good seats!).

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Still recovering from my eye surgery but feeling more myself. Getting dolled up helps me feel me. Bright colors and bold jewelry have been signature Alison since I was a kid! 

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Earrings: Amazon
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We’ve never had a small breed dog before and it’s a whole different experience. But we adore Oscar and couldn’t imagine our life without him! Thank you for coming into our life Oskie McGoskie! 🐾❤️

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I can see clearly now…

Actually I can’t, but things after my retina surgery are much improved! My next appointment is in a month and I’m cleared to get back into the world (with some restrictions to protect my eye).

With a sclera buckle, it changes your eye shape and now I am nearsighted again (I had lasik a few years ago). Once the eye is stabilized I can get glasses or contacts but until then I’m 20/20 in one eye and right now 20/60 in the other. But the eye is healing beautifully and I feel positive!

And I could see clearly enough to fall for this poppy-colored cotton jumpsuit from @pistoladenim. It comes in a few colors but this one is my favorite. I went with XL (im@a 14, sometimes 16) and likely could have sized down but I enjoy the relaxed fit and the drawstring waistband to create shape. And hello zipper closure making it super easy to get on and off!

My husband took this photo right after my eye appointment, I think it reflects my positive attitude and feeling of hope! 🧡

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I’ll be a bit quiet on here and other channels because I had eye (retinal) surgery this past weekend. I was having what I thought were ocular migraines but come to find out I was experiencing lattice degeneration, which is thinning/holes in the retina. I had surgery Saturday for my right eye and later on they’ll work on the left eye, which isn’t as bad and can be remedied by laser, in office.

I share not because I’m Mrs. Frizzle meets Iris Apfel as I recuperate at home, but because this whole thing has been a lesson on trusting my gut. And I want to remind you to do the same.

As we get older our bodies can feel like strangers. Things are constantly changing and it’s easy to just assume your annual physical will catch anything wrong. But if you slow down and listen to your body you’ll know when things are just a sign of aging and life and what seems unusual. That nagging issue may be something more serious.

And if you’re seeing flashing lights, floaters, spiderwebs or other odd eye things get checked out ASAP. It may be nothing but take it from me, it may actually be something. ❤️

Okay, going back to my big sunglasses caftan recuperation life!

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Ladies who lunch…

While in Savannah, I made sure to get lunch reservations for me and E at @theoldepinkhouse she loves the color pink, historic homes, and ghost stories so it was a perfect choice! 

Built in 1789 on Reynolds Square, there are stories of guests seeing ghosts, cutlery and wine bottles moving along with an elegant and truly delicious dining. 

While we didn’t see any apparitions, we did have a lovely lunch with impeccable service and after toured all floors of the home. I highly recommend a visit if you’re visiting Savannah!

My dress is from @cosstores (no longer available); hat is @furtalk and bag is @talbotsofficial (no longer available).

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Scenes from a week in Savannah… 

The three of us (and our dog Oscar!) had a warm and humid but wonderful time exploring Savannah, Georgia earlier this month. Our daughter visited this gorgeous city last summer with her @girlscouts troop but wanted to return to experience more. We let her choose our adventures and play your guide and it was awesome. We cannot wait to visit again, though next time it won’t be August 🥵

For more of our trip check the “Savannah” highlight on my profile page!

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Stripes are always right…

Y’all know I love stripes and when @universalstandard came out with their Breton-stripe dresses and tops I HAD to try them! As expected, the quality is stellar, the fit boosts my confidence, and I appreciate the range of colors (5 different stripes to choose from) and sizes (00-50). For reference, I’m wearing XS but preferred S for the top and I usually wear a 14 or XL in other brands.

The tote is @able and it’s a soft yet durable leather that just looks better with time. This color (cognac) is one that transitions nicely from summer to fall. 

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The family that wears @printfresh together stays together 🥰

Use code wardrobe_oxygen for 15% off your order of size-inclusive organic cotton sleepwear, dresses, bags & more https://glnk.io/qk04/wardrobe-oxygen

I’ve been raving about my Printfresh pajamas for years, my family also wanted to try them. Thank you Printfresh for gifting these for our annual three generation girls’ getaway to Rehoboth Beach, DE. We had a great time and being all matchy matchy in our pajamas was a fun addition! 🐅🍃🥰

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