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If @thechicks are in town you can bet @debbiefaye78 and I will be there! So when we heard they were coming to @merriweatherpp we were so excited. And their concert did not disappoint. As always, a phenomenal show! If The Chicks come to your neck of the woods I highly recommend you go!

Okay I know you want to know about what we’re wearing! 

My sister’s caftan is from @anthropologie (bought this summer so maybe you can find on resale sites).

I’m wearing a @bananarepublic dress also from this summer with the @universalstandard denim chore jacket and a hat I got from a @madewell collab a year or so ago. I glammed it up with some gold chains and gold drop earrings, but kept it comfy for a night of standing and dancing with @birkenstock sandals.

This was my first big outing since my eye surgery, and with a pocketful of eye drops I felt good (and grateful we splurged for good seats!).

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For years I’ve trusted @somaintimates for the right bras and the right fit but it had been a while since I visited a Soma boutique to try on all the styles they currently have for a large bust. I must say I was impressed! Knowledgeable staff, extensive collection in larger sizes, and some of the most comfortable and innovative bras in up to H cups! Each body is different but what I loved:

- The Stunning Push-Up: targeted for the DD+ customer gives amazing lift and great shape under fitted knits.

- The Unbelievable Lift Scoop Balconette: sexy, supportive, and so lightweight!

- The Embraceable Wireless: I’ve recommended this wireless bra for large busts for years and was in need for a new one! 

- The Stunning Support Smooth Balconette: this is the perfect t-shirt bra for large busts with padded straps and disappears under knits

- The Stunning Starlet Multi-Way Strapless: recently improved for more support and more comfort, this wireless bra stays put and gives fab shape

I also picked up some of Soma’s iconic Vanishing Edge panties which keep you line-free. The whole Vanishing collection is genius. I loved being able to donate my gently used bras at my local Soma boutique to give to those in need. We all deserve a lift and Soma strives to achieve that. It’s why I’ve been a fan and customer for years and am honored to partner with them. Soma is the perfect fitting bra solution. Visit the link in my bio to shop and to find your local Soma boutique! #SomaPartner #SomaBraFit #SomaStartsWithMe
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If I close my eyes you can’t tell one is still bloodshot 😜

Still recovering from my eye surgery but feeling more myself. Getting dolled up helps me feel me. Bright colors and bold jewelry have been signature Alison since I was a kid! 

Sweater: @favorite.daughter 
Earrings: Amazon
Necklace: @_jennybird (old)
Ring: @realmfinejewelry 
Bra: @lovebravissimo 
Lipstick: @glossier 
Pins as “cufflinks”: vintage

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It was so funny and so quick I couldn’t not share! I bought this @hulkenbag a year ago and use it all the time. Carting shoot supplies, groceries, packing for road trips, and carting donations. This weekend @thenewdealcafe in @cityofgreenbelt hosted a community clothing swap so I made sure my family and I went through our summer wardrobes to gather that which we no longer needed or fit.

This wasn’t the first clothing swap and folks in town know my style (and my job) so there were some waiting for my arrival. Look how fast I cleared out this big bag! Speaking of the bag one other swap attendee said she got herself a Hulken after seeing mine in action!

It’s so great to know our old clothes are getting a good life and this bag makes carting them to the cafe so easy! I got my Hulken on Amazon, it comes in other colors and sizes too: https://amzn.to/48iTY4Y yep the bag is as great as all those ads you see on social media, I’m a big fan!
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I had to see… I asked my husband how often he thinks about the Roman Empire, and then asked our 14-year-old 😂
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#ad Go through my archives on Wardrobe Oxygen and one thing is clear: my family and I are a fan of @bombas socks! From their no-slip no-show socks to their iconic crew socks, Bombas makes great socks for the whole family while having a great heart.

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Happy gotcha day, Oscar! Four years ago he came into our life and we are so happy to have in our family!

Oscar was a rescue and came with some… quirks. Over the years we have come to understand him and he has come to trust us. He’s a diva, a snuggler, he could play catch for hours, and he’s my husband’s shadow. 

We’ve never had a small breed dog before and it’s a whole different experience. But we adore Oscar and couldn’t imagine our life without him! Thank you for coming into our life Oskie McGoskie! 🐾❤️
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I can see clearly now…

Actually I can’t, but things after my retina surgery are much improved! My next appointment is in a month and I’m cleared to get back into the world (with some restrictions to protect my eye).

With a sclera buckle, it changes your eye shape and now I am nearsighted again (I had lasik a few years ago). Once the eye is stabilized I can get glasses or contacts but until then I’m 20/20 in one eye and right now 20/60 in the other. But the eye is healing beautifully and I feel positive!

And I could see clearly enough to fall for this poppy-colored cotton jumpsuit from @pistoladenim. It comes in a few colors but this one is my favorite. I went with XL (im@a 14, sometimes 16) and likely could have sized down but I enjoy the relaxed fit and the drawstring waistband to create shape. And hello zipper closure making it super easy to get on and off!

My husband took this photo right after my eye appointment, I think it reflects my positive attitude and feeling of hope! 🧡

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#throwbackthursday to what I wore 10 years ago in September…

A decade ago I was working full time in an office and was promoted to manage a good portion of my department. My blog was doing quite well, I was featured in local and national publications and websites. I was embracing what I felt to be a polished professional with an edgy vibe. Less color, more interesting accessories, and my first semi-designer bag (I still have that leopard print mini M.A.C. In the back of my closet). 

I have come to embrace color and have way less black in my closet now, but a lot of these looks are timeless and I would wear now… just likely with lower heels! 😂

Do you recall what you were wearing a decade ago? How similar is it to how you dress now?

For more of my throwbacks visit #wo2tbt
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Lifestyle · April 6, 2019

Weekend Reads #47b

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So yesterday's post was controversial. And let me tell you, it wasn't easy for me to agree to it. This is what I shared yesterday in the WO2 Community regarding the choice:

I live in a metro area; I am walking distance (not a quick walk but walk if need be) to a Target, a Ross, and several other retailers. Within 30 minutes I can drive to a dozen different malls and town centers. I do not have a rural route address and I am less than a mile from more than one post office and drop-offs for FedEx, UPS, and DHL. On top of that, even at my largest size I could walk into most any mall or visit major retail websites and find something that fits and I can afford with my income.

Writing Wardrobe Oxygen has introduced me to women all over the globe and all over America, and they have taught me that having all of this is not what they all have. And sometimes the brands that I have stuck my nose up at or boycotted are the only brands available to them.

Thrifting is not a possibility for everyone. Not everyone lives near a thrift store, not everyone has a car to get to one. Let's face it, thrifting takes time and not everyone has that kind of time. Working more than one job, being a single parent, being a caregiver, and not everyone has a thrift store near them with good selection of style or items in their size.

Because of this, I am starting to incorporate more brands into Wardrobe Oxygen. A better variety of pricepoints, and those brands are ones with a better variety of sizes. Fashion is already so exclusionary, I don't want Wardrobe Oxygen to be part of the problem.

Don't expect fast fashion, I don't care if a sweater costs $20 or $200 if it's crap I'm not going to wear it or suggest it to you. You can buy junk at Nordstrom, and you can find quality at discount stores. I'll do the digging to be sure what I share, no matter the pricepoint, is worth your hard-earned money.

But what finally made me decide to do the partnership? A reader emailed me in February and asked me for fashion advice. Her husband controls the finances and the only store she is allowed to spend money in is Walmart; could I help her? That made me really stop and think and reassess my stance. I am not going to delete your comments about the brand on that post, I agree with much of what you all wrote. But I stand by my decision. I will also work to find new brands that are inclusive, accessible, and ethical. As always, send me your suggestions, I will try them out on my own dime and if I find the quality is worthy of you, I will happily promote it.

Sale Alert

This weekend is Friends and Family at Lord & Taylor.  Save 30% off almost everything and 15% off most beauty with promo code FRIENDS. 

  • The beauty promo is pretty sweet as L+T carries some amazing brands like Perricone MD, Sigma Beauty (some of the best brushes and at great prices), Laura Mercier, Bobbi Brown, Kiehl's, Dior Beauty, and more that are included.
  • This is a great sale to get your spring and summer handbags. May I suggest:
    • Work-friendly totes from COACH and Lauren Ralph Lauren
    • Chic crossbody bags from Kooba, Urban Originals, and Lauren Ralph Lauren
    • This cute tote that I'm partial to as I have the matching Pendleton blanket
    • I have a very similar evening bag to this one and it was one of my best buys.  Goes with most everything and always garners compliments.
  • It's also a great sale to get fab shoe brands at 30% off. L+T has brands like Naturalizer, Birkenstock (select styles on sale), and Sam Edelman. I'm also partial to these cork shoes from Anne Klein, I love how cork can dress up or down, isn't stiff, and on some skintones ends up blending in nicely.

Madewell has 20% off $100+ and 30% off $200+ with promo code SPEND2SAVE. I love the rainbow trim on this sweatshirt, these sneakers with rainbow detail, this super chic crossbody, and these jeans that just scream summer.

Weekend Reads

Reformation is the latest brand to extend their sizing.  They extended it a year ago and didn't keep it; this time they say it's permanent.  Reformation isn't really my style (I like to wear a bra and not have it show) but I am thrilled to see an ethical clothing company provided clothing in larger sizes. (Glossy) . You can see the entire collection at this link.

Even though this piece is about DC restaurants, it's an important read for all. It goes into accessibility and how many establishments still aren't ADA compliant.  It also shares ways businesses aren't accessible and they could be affecting your business (PDFs are a great example). And the best reason to read this is this quote from Any Arias which ends the article, “You’re either going to get in a horrible car accident or age into disability,” Arias says. “I hate to be that real with people, but that’s the truth. It’s not like disability is never going to touch you because, surprise, it is. Then you’re going to be like, ‘Holy shit, I should have cared more about accessibility.’” (Washington City Paper)

My friend Jessica shared on Facebook that there's a Mrs. Maisel Haggadah!  (CNN) It's not an April Fool's joke, and on Amazon you can purchase Maxwell House products that will come with one copy of the Haggadah.  You better believe I ordered one! 

Last week I shared a piece about Lil Nas X being removed from the Billboard Top Country chart.  Well now he has a remixed version of the song with Billy Ray Cyrus… does that make it country enough? (New York Times)

I know I seem to link to Robin Givhan's writing every week but dude, it's sooo good!  And this one about using “old lady” as a descriptor on Project Runway is a great read. (The Washington Post)

Nearly two out of three workers over the age of 45 have seen or experienced age discrimination on the job. Agism is thriving but what are companies doing about it? (Fast Company)

Hourglass Cosmetics is already a cruelty-free beauty brand, but they're taking it to the next level.  By 2020 the brand will be 100% vegan, making them the first luxury brand to do so. (Glossy)

Women weren't able to join the National Guard until the 1950s; for the first time a state (and in my completely biased opinion, the best state) National Guard is led by an all-woman command and it happened by merit. (The Washington Post)

For Your Entertainment

My friend introduced me to Anderson .Paak a few years ago and I will always be grateful to her for that. So talented, such incredible stage presence (I've now seen him live twice), and hey, how can I not love a guy who buys out a Girl Scout cookie booth! His next album is dropping on the 12th; “Make it Better,” a single off the album that features Smokey Robinson is smooth and romantic and shares the ups and downs of being in love and the work needed to keep a romance going.

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Comments

  1. Angela says

    April 14, 2019 at 2:05 pm

    I’m not a Walmart shopper, but as many readers have stated, it’s got its place. That said, if you don’t personally shop there on a regular basis (or just don’t wear their items…any brand) I don’t see the point of expanding your list of brands for the sake inclusivity. I love that you want to bring more recognition to other brands, but sponsor or no sponsor, if you don’t align with their business practices and values, or just don’t like their stuff, there’s plenty of other bloggers to share their story. As for the comments I saw regarding the high prices of clothing you wear, as well the concerns of sponsored posts…it’s your blog and your narrative. You’re one spot of reference, not a one stop shop. I love the sweet spot of fashion, quality and trends you bring and would hate to see that comprised in an effort to be more inclusive. Ah the bloggers dilemma! Looking forward to seeing how you adjust.

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  2. karen says

    April 6, 2019 at 6:55 pm

    Alison, thank you addressing the controversal Walmart post….frankly i was suprised…i haven’t seen any one complain about your Chico’s post, clearly they have replaced local small womens boutique…i get it, Walmart is big and it changed the way small towns and others shopped, but so did the rail road and the interstate and sears roebuck…and Amazon., which in turn is changing Walmart…

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    • Alison Gary says

      April 6, 2019 at 7:33 pm

      Walmart does more than just replacing small businesses. Over the years they’ve done shifty things with their labor practices and how they manage their money.

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      • Karen says

        April 6, 2019 at 8:59 pm

        I don’t doubt that Walmart had done all you say. My point is that if you look at the pay and scheduling of Chico’s and other national retailers, they have the same policy’s. In addition there have been a lot of complaints about amazons employment policies at their warehouses, not to mention the amount of sales taxes they siphoned out of our state and local governments, but I don’t recall the same outrage when you’ve posted something from amazon

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        • Traci says

          April 9, 2019 at 1:07 pm

          People should not blame Amazon for accepting those tax breaks. They are in the business to make money. They should blame the elected officials that offer those tax breaks to lure Amazon and other big corporations to locate in their cities. That is who they should hold accountable.

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          • Barbara says

            April 25, 2019 at 4:04 pm

            Yes, Part of the Amazon tax issue is incentives that local govts give to locate warehouses, etc. there. But the other issue is sales taxes. Selling via the internet is often (but not always) tax-free, which influenced me to buy on line when living in Chicago and it’s double digit sales tax. But then Chicago doesn’t get that revenue. Tax laws have changed some, but they’ve had to keep up with the way people live now.

  3. Sue Burpee says

    April 6, 2019 at 6:42 pm

    Wow. What an interesting week it’s been on Wardrobe Oxygen. Your readers do not pull any punches with you, and you take it on the chin with courage and honesty. My hat is off to you and to them! Good job all round.

    Honest discussion of both sides of an issue is so healthy. Much better to get erudite and interesting comments from readers, instead of only facile “you look adorable in that outfit” ones. By the way you DID look adorable in that Walmart outfit. 🙂

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    • Alison Gary says

      April 6, 2019 at 7:23 pm

      I’m honored to have such intelligent, informed, and concerned people visit my blog and most people kept it civil and educational (those who didn’t were deleted). I knew it wasn’t going to go over without a fuss, I appreciate those who took the time to speak up and I’m going to leave those comments because they’re not wrong.

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  4. Shannon says

    April 6, 2019 at 3:42 pm

    Alison, thank you for the the original post and the background on your decision. There is a business reason other lines, such as Lord & Taylor, Ellen Degeneres and Eddie Bauer, are deciding to work with other retailers. In fact, there is an EV graphic t-shirt I was thinking of and styling based on some of your ideas. I like what EV stands for and haven’t made a final decision. Your post has not influenced me either way.

    I had a short period of time when I worked in retail because it filled an immediate need I had. Based on this experience, it is hard work. And I know there are quite a few other retailers that do not take care of their employees, not just Walmart. I think this is true for more companies than we would think. And, it is all based on personal perception of what is acceptable or not.

    I work every day on not judging others as I do walk in their shoes. Alison, thanks letting your community have a honest discussion on this and other topics.

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    • Alison Gary says

      April 6, 2019 at 4:20 pm

      I too worked in retail, and saw how horribly people were treated at many retailers that are always given a pass. I saw how much money the exec team brought in while we had our hours cut and cut and cut again. I saw where the clothes were made and could only image how they were treated; some of these brands were part of the Rana Plaza tragedy and they haven’t changed their policies. I see how bookstore after bookstore shutters because of Amazon. I think a lot of brands get a pass because they are too convenient, they did a good job with their marketing and PR, or we just don’t want to give up our cute clothes. Thank you for your comment and perspective, Shannon.

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  5. E E Deere says

    April 6, 2019 at 3:20 pm

    Alison, thank you for the expansion of your consideration of suppliers, and the reasons why. Independent and considered decisions are always a good thing.

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    • Alison Gary says

      April 6, 2019 at 4:24 pm

      Thanks EE.

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  6. Palm K says

    April 6, 2019 at 3:18 pm

    2 Things: I’ll be totally honest-the best fitting pairs of jeans I’ve ever had came from Walmart
    However, one thing in this post chilled me to the bone:

    “A reader emailed me in February and asked me for fashion advice. Her husband controls the finances and the only store she is allowed to spend money in is Walmart”

    99% of domestic violence targets (I prefer the term target to “victim” or “survivor”-) experience financial abuse
    https://www.purplepurse.com/

    I spent the last week sending a thank you to my Rep for voting to reauthorize the Violence Against Women Act and close the boyfriend loophole and advocating for my state to pass a law requiring that Salon professionals get training to recognize and respond to domestic violence. One program: https://mic.com/articles/40895/cut-it-out-non-profit-how-hairdressers-could-help-spot-domestic-violence#.vUdWVwuPz

    Sorry to get so serious…but as I said- that line chilled me to the bone

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    • Alison Gary says

      April 6, 2019 at 3:51 pm

      Me too. It’s not my place to share further information on our discussion but I felt it was important for this audience to realize not everyone has the same financial, life, or domestic situation. Thank you for sharing these links and spreading this information, it is so important. And thank you for reaching out to your rep, I am so glad it happened. The program for stylists is amazing; you can get resources for your salon or school at https://probeauty.org/cutitout/getinvolved/ or call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE

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    • Chris says

      April 8, 2019 at 4:51 pm

      Palm,

      I had an immediate reaction that was the same as yours. I wish that poor woman the very best and I hope she can soon get out of what sounds to be an awful situation. However, I must say that I can’t put the possible abuse off on Walmart. The man could have just as easily insisted on some other store.

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  7. RoseAG says

    April 6, 2019 at 12:02 pm

    The comment in yesterday’s post, suggesting that if you hate Walmart you should be sure you aren’t shopping at Amazon was excellent.

    I’ve had hits and misses shopping at Walmart. To their credit, they don’t just stock little sizes.

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    • Alison Gary says

      April 6, 2019 at 3:39 pm

      Agreed. There are a lot of major corporations doing damage and changing this country in major ways. Some get a pass purely because they make cute clothes or offer cool shows on their streaming app or make lives easier.

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  8. JMS says

    April 6, 2019 at 12:00 pm

    I get what you’re saying, but I also see a big push by Walmart on other fashion blogs over the last two weeks. The timing is perhaps not ideal, because honestly it looked more like your jumping on a deep-pockets bandwagon than your responding to specific reader asks.

    Agree that not shopping with Walmart, or Amazon for that matter, is an option those of us with many shopping opportunities shouldn’t take for granted.

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    • Tala says

      April 6, 2019 at 2:39 pm

      This is how it felt to me too — timing makes it feel inauthentic and just another cog in the marketing campaign.

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      • Alison Gary says

        April 6, 2019 at 2:45 pm

        I don’t have much say in when campaigns come my way. They reached out to me in early March, I chose to have it go live yesterday (they offered between mid-March and end of April). I have ordered items from JC Penney, Maurice’s, and Kohl’s prior to this and things didn’t fit or weren’t worthy of being on the site but I continue to place orders. I have been recommending lower-priced items in my widgets of suggestions since February including Walmart but it hasn’t been as blatant. I’ve been including lower-priced brands in sale alerts as well. I think it’s because this is the first sponsored post and that it’s Walmart that it’s standing out.

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  9. Ev says

    April 6, 2019 at 11:10 am

    FWIW Beth of “Style at a Certain Age” has also done a recent partnership with Walmart.com, with the emphasis on their distribution of Lord & Taylor’s products. I don’t recall if any of her readers complained.

    It seems to me that Walmart is gearing up to take on Amazon, and maybe competition is a good thing?

    I have to feel for the woman with the controlling spouse. Thank you for your compassion and honesty.

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    • Alison Gary says

      April 6, 2019 at 2:49 pm

      My concern with buying through Walmart for retailers like Lord & Taylor and Eddie Bauer is that returns are through that retailer, and from person experience they have not been positive. Walmart claims free shipping and free returns… only on Walmart items. When ordering items for my post, I ordered a pair of Eddie Bauer jeans. When wanting to return them, I found I had to reach out to Eddie Bauer. They didn’t reply to my first two emails, then said here’s the address, you deal with the post office to make the return. I didn’t have an invoice for the item since it came on the same packing slip as Walmart things I was returning and the email confirmation wasn’t terribly informative so it felt like a major risk and expensive to go through all this and return a pair of jeans. This is why I used this campaign to focus on Walmart specific brands.

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  10. Lainey says

    April 6, 2019 at 10:51 am

    I appreciate the “why” behind your Walmart post yesterday, but I think you have to look at the end effect. From the comments section, it’s apparent that you’ve convinced people who aren’t generally Walmart shoppers to shop at Walmart. I think there’s a big difference between answering the email of that woman with some Walmart options and using your public platform to actively promote the store, which has done so much to perpetuate the cycle of poverty (and of people only being able to shop at Walmart).

    I don’t just read blogs of people who share my exact same vantage points. Provided that you continue to share a variety of fashion options, ’ll continue to read and enjoy Wardrobe Oxygen. I just think this is short-sighted, Allie.

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    • Alison Gary says

      April 6, 2019 at 2:51 pm

      I hear you, respect your feelings, and in some ways agree with you. This isn’t going to become a Walmart blog, far from it.

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  11. Krista says

    April 6, 2019 at 9:23 am

    I said I’d would withhold judgement and I did. You made a strong, fair argument. And you are absolutely correct. Wal-Mart might as well be the 6th circle of Purgatory. I dislike it so. Still Wal-Mart is all there is in too many places and all that’s affordable in others. And sometimes it’s just the best place to go for things. At least when I go to Wal-Mart I can go get what I need then get out. Unlike Target.

    Thanks for being willing to stand up and speak up. And for making me take a hard look at where I am.

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    • Alison Gary says

      April 6, 2019 at 2:53 pm

      Thank you Krista

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  12. Kaffesoester says

    April 6, 2019 at 9:07 am

    I love how you fearlessly face controversy! Whatever opinion people have it’s always better to have it out in the open. We have to discuss things before we can change them. Anyway, no matter how much you want to do the right thing, and shop the right places it just isn’t an opportunity to all of us. But with internet access we can all address the companies in e-mails and on social media, and tell them what changes we would like to see in their shops as well as in their manufacturing processes. However, what really appals me is the comment about a husband controlling the wife’s money and where she spends it – that is simply unacceptable. No marriage, no relationship is worth that!

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    • Alison Gary says

      April 6, 2019 at 3:03 pm

      Thank you! As for the woman, not everyone has the ability to leave or want to leave such a relationship. It is not my place to judge nor do I know what kind of life she has. It’s like why I chose to feature other brands; I can’t even begin to know the lives of all my readers but I do know they aren’t all like mine with all the opportunities I have.

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  13. Susan says

    April 6, 2019 at 9:03 am

    I appreciate that you helped the woman with understanding rather than judgement

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    • Ruth says

      April 6, 2019 at 10:05 am

      I came to say the same. I have choices, but not everyone does.

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  14. Makayla says

    April 6, 2019 at 8:40 am

    I like what you are doing. Some women only have access to Wal Mart for shopping, due to where they live, and Wal-Matt has changed to keep up with Amazon. Who knows, maybe if we elect more supportive politicians, Wal-Mart, along with McDonalds and many other retail and fast food businesses, will be forced to pay a living wage. I hope so. I have to say, about the woman whose husband only allows her to shop at Walmart, this is the 21st Century, and women do not have to let men “allow” them to do anything. Anyway, I appreciate your open mindedness and I like it when you show new and affordable options for clothing. I appreciate your honest reviews!

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    • Diane says

      April 6, 2019 at 8:52 am

      I agree with you except for about the woman. Some women are in relationships they cannot leave. Some women have lives we would not want and they have no way of getting out of it.

      Ali, I love your weekend reads and look forward to read them every Saturday.

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      • Alison Gary says

        April 6, 2019 at 3:01 pm

        Thank you Diane!

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      • Leah says

        April 7, 2019 at 4:03 pm

        I am not against shopping at Walmart, although I don’t think I’ve bought clothes for myself there. I have bought baby clothes there and I have bought clothes for my daughter from their G21 line. She went through 2 huge growth spurts in a short period of time and I couldn’t afford to buy her clothes anywhere else.

        I don’t know anyone else’s life and while I have read many things about Walmart’s labour practices, I think people need to shop where they can afford to shop! No judgement from me. I appreciate how you styled the clothes. Maybe we don’t get those clothes at Walmart’s in Canada cause I’ve never seen anything of a similar quality here.

        I feel sad for the lady that wrote to you, though. Red flags everywhere. I hope she is safe and I hope she’s got some rockin new clothes.

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        • Chris says

          April 9, 2019 at 12:09 am

          Leah, Allie,

          I hope the woman reads your blog and realizes there are folks out there who genuinely care about her. I hope that will give her a little boost of support and not make her feel worse.

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          • Alison Gary says

            April 10, 2019 at 10:55 am

            I did make sure she was okay with me sharing this small bit about her and she was in full support.

    • Alison Gary says

      April 6, 2019 at 2:56 pm

      Thank you Makayla

      Reply
  15. Helen M says

    April 6, 2019 at 8:29 am

    Re your opening paragraph for this post: Alison, this is why I am a loyal reader. Your compassion, your thoughtfulness, and your humanity. Thank you for being a role model, for asking risks, putting yourself out there and always being your honest, vulnerable self.

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      April 6, 2019 at 2:55 pm

      Thank you Helen.

      Reply

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If @thechicks are in town you can bet @debbiefaye78 and I will be there! So when we heard they were coming to @merriweatherpp we were so excited. And their concert did not disappoint. As always, a phenomenal show! If The Chicks come to your neck of the woods I highly recommend you go!

Okay I know you want to know about what we’re wearing! 

My sister’s caftan is from @anthropologie (bought this summer so maybe you can find on resale sites).

I’m wearing a @bananarepublic dress also from this summer with the @universalstandard denim chore jacket and a hat I got from a @madewell collab a year or so ago. I glammed it up with some gold chains and gold drop earrings, but kept it comfy for a night of standing and dancing with @birkenstock sandals.

This was my first big outing since my eye surgery, and with a pocketful of eye drops I felt good (and grateful we splurged for good seats!).

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If I close my eyes you can’t tell one is still bloodshot 😜

Still recovering from my eye surgery but feeling more myself. Getting dolled up helps me feel me. Bright colors and bold jewelry have been signature Alison since I was a kid! 

Sweater: @favorite.daughter 
Earrings: Amazon
Necklace: @_jennybird (old)
Ring: @realmfinejewelry 
Bra: @lovebravissimo 
Lipstick: @glossier 
Pins as “cufflinks”: vintage

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Happy gotcha day, Oscar! Four years ago he came into our life and we are so happy to have in our family!

Oscar was a rescue and came with some… quirks. Over the years we have come to understand him and he has come to trust us. He’s a diva, a snuggler, he could play catch for hours, and he’s my husband’s shadow. 

We’ve never had a small breed dog before and it’s a whole different experience. But we adore Oscar and couldn’t imagine our life without him! Thank you for coming into our life Oskie McGoskie! 🐾❤️

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I can see clearly now…

Actually I can’t, but things after my retina surgery are much improved! My next appointment is in a month and I’m cleared to get back into the world (with some restrictions to protect my eye).

With a sclera buckle, it changes your eye shape and now I am nearsighted again (I had lasik a few years ago). Once the eye is stabilized I can get glasses or contacts but until then I’m 20/20 in one eye and right now 20/60 in the other. But the eye is healing beautifully and I feel positive!

And I could see clearly enough to fall for this poppy-colored cotton jumpsuit from @pistoladenim. It comes in a few colors but this one is my favorite. I went with XL (im@a 14, sometimes 16) and likely could have sized down but I enjoy the relaxed fit and the drawstring waistband to create shape. And hello zipper closure making it super easy to get on and off!

My husband took this photo right after my eye appointment, I think it reflects my positive attitude and feeling of hope! 🧡

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I’ll be a bit quiet on here and other channels because I had eye (retinal) surgery this past weekend. I was having what I thought were ocular migraines but come to find out I was experiencing lattice degeneration, which is thinning/holes in the retina. I had surgery Saturday for my right eye and later on they’ll work on the left eye, which isn’t as bad and can be remedied by laser, in office.

I share not because I’m Mrs. Frizzle meets Iris Apfel as I recuperate at home, but because this whole thing has been a lesson on trusting my gut. And I want to remind you to do the same.

As we get older our bodies can feel like strangers. Things are constantly changing and it’s easy to just assume your annual physical will catch anything wrong. But if you slow down and listen to your body you’ll know when things are just a sign of aging and life and what seems unusual. That nagging issue may be something more serious.

And if you’re seeing flashing lights, floaters, spiderwebs or other odd eye things get checked out ASAP. It may be nothing but take it from me, it may actually be something. ❤️

Okay, going back to my big sunglasses caftan recuperation life!

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Ladies who lunch…

While in Savannah, I made sure to get lunch reservations for me and E at @theoldepinkhouse she loves the color pink, historic homes, and ghost stories so it was a perfect choice! 

Built in 1789 on Reynolds Square, there are stories of guests seeing ghosts, cutlery and wine bottles moving along with an elegant and truly delicious dining. 

While we didn’t see any apparitions, we did have a lovely lunch with impeccable service and after toured all floors of the home. I highly recommend a visit if you’re visiting Savannah!

My dress is from @cosstores (no longer available); hat is @furtalk and bag is @talbotsofficial (no longer available).

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Scenes from a week in Savannah… 

The three of us (and our dog Oscar!) had a warm and humid but wonderful time exploring Savannah, Georgia earlier this month. Our daughter visited this gorgeous city last summer with her @girlscouts troop but wanted to return to experience more. We let her choose our adventures and play your guide and it was awesome. We cannot wait to visit again, though next time it won’t be August 🥵

For more of our trip check the “Savannah” highlight on my profile page!

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Stripes are always right…

Y’all know I love stripes and when @universalstandard came out with their Breton-stripe dresses and tops I HAD to try them! As expected, the quality is stellar, the fit boosts my confidence, and I appreciate the range of colors (5 different stripes to choose from) and sizes (00-50). For reference, I’m wearing XS but preferred S for the top and I usually wear a 14 or XL in other brands.

The tote is @able and it’s a soft yet durable leather that just looks better with time. This color (cognac) is one that transitions nicely from summer to fall. 

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The family that wears @printfresh together stays together 🥰

Use code wardrobe_oxygen for 15% off your order of size-inclusive organic cotton sleepwear, dresses, bags & more https://glnk.io/qk04/wardrobe-oxygen

I’ve been raving about my Printfresh pajamas for years, my family also wanted to try them. Thank you Printfresh for gifting these for our annual three generation girls’ getaway to Rehoboth Beach, DE. We had a great time and being all matchy matchy in our pajamas was a fun addition! 🐅🍃🥰

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