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My sister’s caftan is from @anthropologie (bought this summer so maybe you can find on resale sites).

I’m wearing a @bananarepublic dress also from this summer with the @universalstandard denim chore jacket and a hat I got from a @madewell collab a year or so ago. I glammed it up with some gold chains and gold drop earrings, but kept it comfy for a night of standing and dancing with @birkenstock sandals.

This was my first big outing since my eye surgery, and with a pocketful of eye drops I felt good (and grateful we splurged for good seats!).

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This wasn’t the first clothing swap and folks in town know my style (and my job) so there were some waiting for my arrival. Look how fast I cleared out this big bag! Speaking of the bag one other swap attendee said she got herself a Hulken after seeing mine in action!

It’s so great to know our old clothes are getting a good life and this bag makes carting them to the cafe so easy! I got my Hulken on Amazon, it comes in other colors and sizes too: https://amzn.to/48iTY4Y yep the bag is as great as all those ads you see on social media, I’m a big fan!
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I can see clearly now…

Actually I can’t, but things after my retina surgery are much improved! My next appointment is in a month and I’m cleared to get back into the world (with some restrictions to protect my eye).

With a sclera buckle, it changes your eye shape and now I am nearsighted again (I had lasik a few years ago). Once the eye is stabilized I can get glasses or contacts but until then I’m 20/20 in one eye and right now 20/60 in the other. But the eye is healing beautifully and I feel positive!

And I could see clearly enough to fall for this poppy-colored cotton jumpsuit from @pistoladenim. It comes in a few colors but this one is my favorite. I went with XL (im@a 14, sometimes 16) and likely could have sized down but I enjoy the relaxed fit and the drawstring waistband to create shape. And hello zipper closure making it super easy to get on and off!

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I have come to embrace color and have way less black in my closet now, but a lot of these looks are timeless and I would wear now… just likely with lower heels! 😂

Do you recall what you were wearing a decade ago? How similar is it to how you dress now?

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Outfit Posts, Fall · October 24, 2019

Where to Buy the Best Cashmere Sweaters for Women?

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There's something about fall where I gravitate towards warm neutrals.  It's like I want to match nature with autumnal hues seen in the drying grasses and falling leaves. It's the time of year where I love wearing camel, gold jewelry, cream, ivory, and brown leather with pops of pumpkin, scarlet, and emerald.  

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sweater | jeans | boots | belt | scarf | bracelet | earrings

woman in cream jeans and a camel cashmere sweater leaning against a log cabin

Sweater: Halogen (large) | Jeans: Slim Ankle Jeans c/o Talbots (12P) | Belt: Beast Belt c/o cabi (L) | Scarf: Deidre Scarf c/o cabi (old; similar concept) | Bracelet: Tudor Cuff c/o cabi | Earrings: Quinn Hoops c/o Jenny Bird | Boots: c/o DUO Boots (old; similar)

woman in a camel colored sweater, cream jeans, and brown knee-high boots walking towards the camera

I love the Nordstrom in-house brand Halogen… but I don't love their cashmere sweaters.  They start off super soft and lovely but they pill like nobody's business.  Also, I don't get the not quite tunic, not quite standard length with the split hem.  If you wear it untucked it hits at a really weird spot on many people; if you tuck it in you can't blouse it out much or else the splits will show.  I'll be honest, I bought this sweater (again, because I owned this same Halogen cashmere sweater in 2016 which is why I know these sweaters aren't great) with an old gift card for a sponsored post going live next Wednesday.  I like the color of camel, I like the softness, I like that it's not super bulky and figured it would work with a few looks and I'd just baby it.  Maybe it's better quality three years later? I wore it for two shoots – this one and the one you'll see next week.  Then I went to lunch, ran some errands, came home and took off the jeans and switched into knit pants to work on my computer and by the end of the day I had a bald spot under one arm and the sides of my boobs were coated in fuzz balls.  That's complete BS, Halogen.  So I returned it.  I want to be completely honest with you.  I know some of you like this sweater but for my shape and how I move, it sucked back in 2016 and it still sucks in 2019. But you know what cashmere I have that I love? I find these to be the best cashmere sweaters for women:

  • I do love Everlane.  It's not as soft, but it holds up really well.  I have one from last year that even accidentally went into the gentle cycle and still looks good.  Here is my original Everlane cashmere sweater review.
  • I love Talbots' Audrey Sweater.  It's thicker and more fitted with a unique neckline, but I love the softness and the shape.  It does pill some, but nothing like Halogen.  I have one from last year I still rock and enjoy.  You can see me in the Talbots Audrey Sweater with tux pants, and the cashmere sweater with a Universal Standard trench coat. In this post, I am wearing the second Audrey cashmere sweater I got for this year.
  • I think L.L.Bean makes great cashmere – it's not the softest you'll experience but it still feels nice and will hold up well.
  • Lands' End also makes durable cashmere sweaters. 
  • When I have found Nordstrom Signature cashmere on sale I have loved it and worn it to death. 
  • I have now-discontinued cashmere sweater styles from Universal Standard that I positively adore; I gave my mom this sweater from them and it felt to be the same exact weight and quality.
  • I've had many of you rave about J.Jill for cashmere. 

My Picks for the Best Cashmere Sweaters for Women:
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All great choices, better than Halogen.  If I have inspired you to buy Halogen cashmere, I am sorry.  I won't be suggesting it any longer.  If you have a cashmere brand you swear by share it in the comments so we can all be better consumers.  I don't care what a sweater costs, if it can't survive a single day of average activity, it's a waste.  And such waste can't be donated, it's sent off to the landfill. For years I didn't buy cashmere because I couldn't deal with the care it requires.  I stuck to merino wool, which looks polished, can oftentimes be machine washed on gentle, and is less likely to pill.  I bought a Nordstrom Signature cashmere sweater on clearance and was hooked on cashmere.  And clearly from my list above I've tried several brands.  Cashmere isn't worth it if it can't survive your life.  You don't need cashmere in your life, even though every blog and website will be pushing it hardcore from now until Christmas Eve. You deserve clothing that can survive the day, clothing that deserves your hard-earned money.  Thank you for coming to my TED Talk.

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So let's talk about the rest of the look.  These jeans from Talbots, I already have them in blue and asked for them in cream.  Like white jeans, these are a lighter-weight denim than the blue, but not so stretchy that you end up looking like you're wearing a diaper at the end of the day. I think I'm best with a 12 regular with these for the rise; these hit right where I go in which sort of makes me look a bit lumpy.  I always forget, knowing I need to size down but not that I need to lengthen up. But besides that, I like them.  They, unlike the sweater, held up pretty well and looked great (and were the same size and length) after a trip through the washer and dryer.  FYI, Talbots has their Friends and Family sale going on through October 27th, use FRIENDS at checkout and get 30% off your order.

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When I put this outfit together I didn't even realize three accessories were from cabi until I started pulling links.  The scarf is from 2017 and continues to be one of my favorites.  You can see it when I wore the cabi scarf as a belt in the summer of 2017. I bet there are other times I've worn it on the blog, I just couldn't find them right away.  The belt and bracelet are from this season.  I like that the cuff has a hinge so it's easy to get on and off.  And the belt… well I am not ashamed to admit there are three warm leopard calfhair belts in my closet.  I have this one, a slightly slimmer one with a lighter background print I got on clearance from Ann Taylor a few seasons ago, and then a skinny belt from… likely Halogen or Ann Taylor.  And I wear all three.  Leopard is a neutral!

woman in cream jeans and a camel cashmere sweater leaning against a log cabin

These boots show how my body has changed since I started lifting weights five mornings a week.  I have always had big calves.  Like I laugh at 16″ and even 18″ circumference boots because they are no match for my legs. My shins/ankles were even more of an issue, being so thick that even 20″ boots wouldn't zip up over them.  After two years of weight lifting I still need a wide calf… but I can fit into a 17″ boot AND it will zip up over my ankles! These boots are now all slouchy on my ankles because I don't fill them out and the calves so loose I didn't even realize one was folded over during the shoot. When I got these DUO boots back in 2014 (oh gosh, look at that ridiculous outfit I put together because I had to showcase knee-high leather boots in July while sporting a broken arm) they weren't tight but they fit perfectly. Two years later when I was a larger clothing size, they were very snug over thicker jeans. And now… I am wondering if my cobbler may be able to do a nip and tuck here and there!  If you follow me on Instagram Stories you may notice that each Monday I share a post-gym selfie and state my weight.  I weigh only 10 pounds less now than I did when I was a size 16, and am almost the same exact weight I was in this 2014 blog post.  Weight does not determine size, and your weight does not determine your worth.  And I thank you for coming to my second TED Talk, LOL. 

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Comments

  1. Barbara says

    October 28, 2019 at 6:55 pm

    I stopped buying cashmere because so much of it pills the second you put it on. I’ve switched over to Merino and love the ones i have from Universal Standard, and a New Zealand brand called Glowing Sky (www.glowingsky.co.nz) In fact, I have to remember to leave room in my suitcase for some new additions.

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    • Alison Gary says

      November 4, 2019 at 6:34 pm

      Merino is amazing. It truly is one of the best materials!

      Reply
    • Bette says

      February 25, 2020 at 1:05 pm

      I completely agree. Below, I recommended Talbots cashmere, but I retract my recommendation! After only a few months of wear, my beautiful Talbots cashmere v-neck tunics look like rags. The quality is simply not there. I’m mad I spent so much money on these sweaters. In fact, I think I’ll return them to make a point. No refund, only a protest.

      Reply
  2. Jane says

    October 28, 2019 at 12:30 pm

    I bought a sweater depiller off amazon for $20. Because even good cashmere pills with wear. It is life changing. I had some sweaters that were looking a bit meh and it fixed them up.

    Everlane is my go to for cashmere but I have also heard great things about Marks and Spencer.

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    • Alison Gary says

      November 4, 2019 at 6:35 pm

      Brilliant! I need to find my depiller, it’s deep in my linen closet!

      Reply
  3. Cindy says

    October 28, 2019 at 10:46 am

    Several years ago I bought a summer-weight cashmere sweater from LL Bean. I live in the South so cashmere can be a little too warm for me. That sweater pilled like crazy! I let the cat sleep on it.

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    • Kayla Jackson says

      October 28, 2019 at 11:35 am

      I love cashmere from Lord and Taylor. Their sweaters are sized for petites, plus, and misses. The quality is great! I too hate piling and it’s never been a problem. Colors are gorgeous and they wear well.

      Reply
  4. Blondie says

    October 26, 2019 at 2:23 pm

    I have mostly just given up on cashmere because I cannot find anything that doesn’t get destroyed too fast and I like merino wool (almost always Uniqlo). I have had a few of Ann Taylor’s 95% wool, 5% cashmere sweaters last okay through a few years of heavy wear, and I bought a Magaschoni cashmere sweater on consignment last year that has had minimal pilling after one year of heavy wear. If you can afford $300 sweaters or find one secondhand!

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  5. Amy says

    October 26, 2019 at 8:53 am

    Love this post! I’m always looking for good cashmere. I’ve found that Vince is the best – but only the heavier sweaters. (I don’t think it works when they try to make cashmere thin). They are expensive but worth it. I’ll be the one minor dissenter on Nordstrom Signature. I have three tunic length cashmere turtlenecks from last year. Incredibly soft and lovely but they’ve pilled like crazy. Maybe I just create too much friction? 🙂 Going to take a sweater shaver to them and see what I can do.

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    • Alison Gary says

      October 26, 2019 at 11:31 am

      I didn’t buy any Nordstrom Signature, I do hope they didn’t reduce the quality and it was just a fluke!

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      • Jenny says

        October 26, 2019 at 8:13 pm

        “I bought a Nordstrom Signature cashmere sweater on clearance and was hooked on cashmere.” I don’t mean to nitpick, but that’s a direct quote from this post. Perhaps you meant it was years ago so it’s not relevant anymore.

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        • Alison says

          October 27, 2019 at 11:21 am

          Yes that’s what I meant, I didn’t buy any this year but I have several pieces from years prior and that’s what got me hooked on cashmere after poo-poohing it for the first years of this blog. Good catch!

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  6. Laura says

    October 25, 2019 at 11:01 am

    Boden cashmere is very nice. Thick and soft. Few sales, but worth waiting for.

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      October 26, 2019 at 11:31 am

      Thank you for letting us know, sounds like I need to try Boden!

      Reply
    • Erin says

      October 27, 2019 at 10:33 pm

      I too like Boden cashmere. Holds up nicely!

      Reply
  7. Kim D. Smith says

    October 25, 2019 at 1:10 am

    I have purchased a couple of Halogen sweaters from Nordstrom.
    I agree with the consensus that they are the worst quality.
    They are not a good value at any price as they pilled badly after one wearing.
    I should of returned but I will wear them to cook spaghetti.
    Purchased a few Eileen Fisher sweaters when they were on deep discount.
    Much better but the best cashmere I purchased a zillion years ago was from Macy’s, a Ralph Lauren twin set.
    Think my granddaughter “borrowed” the cardigan but I still have the T-shirt style shell.
    I find the moths only eat the good stuff.
    If it ever gets cold in San Diego I will be stirring my sauce in cashmere .

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    • Alison Gary says

      October 26, 2019 at 11:32 am

      I can’t think of any better way to make spaghetti!

      Reply
  8. Roons says

    October 24, 2019 at 9:14 pm

    The Everlane sweaters… what is the arm length like? I always buy petite for the arms and shoulders.
    Totally agree on Halogen – the last couple of years have gone downhill. I have an old Ann Taylor Cashmere (8 yrs old) still looks awesome- not sure if recent quality is the same. Anyone know?

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    • Alison Gary says

      October 26, 2019 at 11:34 am

      I’m 5’3″ and if I let them just go straight they cover most of my hands. I usually push up my sleeves like in my Everlane sweater post, but I have worn them down and the cuffs keep them from getting in the way. I don’t want to assume about Ann Taylor but in the past 8 years they were bought by another company and the quality went down for a lot of their products. I haven’t tried their cashmere though.

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      • Roons says

        October 27, 2019 at 9:16 am

        Thank you for the info – willing to try with such great reviews.

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  9. Jane says

    October 24, 2019 at 9:13 pm

    Thanks. If you have done any reading, you know that cashmere has come down in price over the last 20 years. It was once a luxury but is now available at much lower price points. About 20 years ago Chinese and Mongolian farmers began massive production. This has been bad for the environment and the result is lower prices and lower quality.

    https://www.npr.org/sections/parallels/2016/12/09/504118819/how-your-cashmere-sweater-is-decimating-mongolias-grasslands

    Still I love the fabric and will try to find a few quality pieces at what I can afford.

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    • Alison Gary says

      October 26, 2019 at 11:34 am

      Thank you for this.

      Reply
  10. Kristina says

    October 24, 2019 at 8:21 pm

    Is there any way to fix a cashmere sweater that has some moth holes? I hate to get rid of sweaters that are in otherwise good condition.

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    • MK says

      October 25, 2019 at 11:40 am

      Yes, though it’s generally expensive (and can be hard to find – I ended up mailing mine to someone!). Look for a place that does “reweaving.”

      Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      October 26, 2019 at 11:35 am

      There is a place called Alterknit I met with a few years ago, they do a great job but they’re not cheap: https://www.wardrobeoxygen.com/how-to-care-for-sweaters-knitwear/

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  11. Cynthia says

    October 24, 2019 at 5:55 pm

    I don’t wear cashmere (or any sweaters) because I am always hot, but my best friend wears Lord & Taylor cashmere crew neck sweaters and loves them, so much so that I think of them as her signature look. She likely has 10 or 12.

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    • Alison Gary says

      October 26, 2019 at 11:35 am

      That’s a great choice for a signature look!

      Reply
  12. Lisa says

    October 24, 2019 at 2:18 pm

    I have had the same problem with cashmere. My best luck has been with Neiman Marcus Cashmere Collection which occasionally goes on sale for a decent price. It has held up the best of all of my sweaters. I have some Lord and Taylor that has endured but it seems to depend on the year as not all of it wears the same. Talbots and Everlane are also in my stash. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!

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    • Alison Gary says

      October 26, 2019 at 11:36 am

      And thank you for your recommendations!

      Reply
  13. Teresa says

    October 24, 2019 at 2:15 pm

    I’ve had great luck with Garnet Hill ‘s cashmere. It’s pricey but I always pick up a piece or two when they are on sale. Great quality!

    Reply
    • Lisa S says

      October 24, 2019 at 5:09 pm

      Agreed, but with caveats. I have found with the Garnet Hill that you have to be wary of their thinner cashmere* but their cashmere tees (available in summer) and the boxy cropped pullovers they have now have both held up beautifully for me. It’s well worth stalking on sale, and their cashmere goes on sale regularly.

      Land’s End has not offered this product for nigh unto a decade, but their cashmere long-sleeved tees used to be AMAZING for style (very modern, slim cut), quality and price. I had two that wore for nearly a decade until they gave up the ghost, and when I bought a boatneck cashmere sweater from them in, like, 2013 or so, it developed the dreaded armpit holes in a matter of months. Ugh, if you’re listening, Land’s End, bring back the cashmere long-sleeved tee!

      * I had one 3/4-sleeved cashmere sweater that wore a hole in the arm near the armpit after only a few months! What? And I have never had good luck with their gloves.

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      • Alison Gary says

        October 26, 2019 at 11:37 am

        Thank you both for these recommendations and warnings!

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  14. Ali says

    October 24, 2019 at 1:17 pm

    I love both these TED talks. I have had a GAP cashmere sweater that held up decently for the price, something on clearance from Nordstrom Rack that was glorious but I thought it was clean when I put away for season and it came out with mothholes, and now a Lands End one that seems to be holding up nicely.

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    • Alison Gary says

      October 26, 2019 at 11:36 am

      It seems the clearance pieces often end up the best! So sorry it ended up with moth holes!

      Reply
  15. MK says

    October 24, 2019 at 11:59 am

    Anyone have experience with Boden’s cashmere?

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    • Alison Gary says

      October 24, 2019 at 12:19 pm

      Yes, someone shared below it is quite good! 🙂

      Reply
  16. Martha says

    October 24, 2019 at 11:19 am

    I too have had good luck with Nordstrom Signature, Eileen Fisher, and Pure. I also had a sweater from Vince that was pricey, but I wore it for a decade with minimal pilling. I have also ‘invested’ in some plain cardigans from Eric Bompard. I’ve only had the oldest for 5 years, but so far they are holding up beautifully, and such gorgeous colors!

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    • Alison Gary says

      October 24, 2019 at 12:19 pm

      Thank you for these suggestions!

      Reply
    • Annemarie says

      October 24, 2019 at 7:53 pm

      Pure also has a repair service, so for about $30, you can get any holes fixed. I haven’t tried it, but sounds great to me.

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      • Alison Gary says

        October 26, 2019 at 11:37 am

        Brilliant!

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    • Eliza says

      October 31, 2019 at 10:23 pm

      Eric Bompard is amazing. Almost all of my cashmere is from EB and they’ve held up beautifully for years. Their v-neck sweaters are a staple in my winter wardrobe.

      Also, their size charts are dead-on, so ordering from France is pretty risk-free.

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  17. Polly says

    October 24, 2019 at 11:16 am

    Another recommendation for Lord and Taylor – pretty standard styles, but they have lots of colors. I’ve also had luck with Bloomingdale’s, their C by Bloomingdale’s line. Not super heavy, but nice enough. Both places have excellent sales on cashmere around Black Friday and then again close to and after Christmas.

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    • Alison Gary says

      October 24, 2019 at 12:19 pm

      Thank you for this!

      Reply
    • SusieG says

      October 24, 2019 at 1:09 pm

      I will second Lord & Taylor! I bought one from a consignment shop and have worn it for two years with minimal pilling. Also agree that there’s are super-basic … but that’s kind of fine with cashmere. Don’t hesitate if you find it used online or in a thrift store.

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  18. Caro says

    October 24, 2019 at 11:15 am

    I have an older Charter Club cashmere sweater that is closely stitched & maybe got 3 pills. It’s amazing. The cut is straight though & I’ve put on weight, so I’m going to send it on but it was cozy for a long time.

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    • Alison Gary says

      October 24, 2019 at 12:23 pm

      Good recommendation, thank you!

      Reply
    • Ahna says

      October 29, 2019 at 3:10 pm

      Only the older/vintage Charter Club -I still have a Johnny collar one (15+ years looks great), but the crew neck (bought 10 years ago) looked awful within a season regardless of care. Haven’t bought since. Look at the knit- if it is super cloud soft it is probably loose twist/knit and will break your heart. Look for a good tight yarn and knit.
      I also have an old (15yr) AT that still looks gorgeous. If only we knew then …

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      • Caro says

        October 30, 2019 at 3:29 pm

        Wow. That is great information, thank you. I will stop looking at their offerings & hopefully can find older cashmere at a resale store. Whew. Pilly & poorly made cashmere is not worth our time.

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  19. Shamika says

    October 24, 2019 at 10:43 am

    I love this look and your honesty about the fashions you try out. This was so insightful because I’m looking into purchasing my first cashmere sweater this season and now I know one brand to stay away from! Awesome post!

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    • Alison Gary says

      October 24, 2019 at 12:23 pm

      Thank you Shamika!

      Reply
  20. Marisa says

    October 24, 2019 at 10:09 am

    I have an Eileen Fisher cashmere cardigan that I bought on deeeeep clearance and it is the most incredible cashmere I’ve ever owned. Thick, soft, and after a year of heavy usage, no pilling. I can’t afford them at full price (more power to you if you can) but if I ever see one that’s at all doable for me again, I would snatch it up.

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    • Alison Gary says

      October 24, 2019 at 12:24 pm

      I forgot about Eileen Fisher, all of the brand’s stuff is good, but yes I too seek out sales!

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    • Karen says

      October 24, 2019 at 12:43 pm

      Thanks for the info regarding EF cashmere. I’ve had my eye on one but don’t want to pay full price either. I’m waiting patiently for the sale to come around at some point and hope they still have my size.

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    • Jessica says

      October 24, 2019 at 1:52 pm

      You could also try the EF renew site for lower prices on things if you are game for secondhand merchandise. I’ve heard good things about the quality of the products purchased here.

      https://www.eileenfisherrenew.com/shop/search?q=cashmere

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  21. CG says

    October 24, 2019 at 10:03 am

    This look is so cute.

    I’ve had good luck with cashmere from Banana Republic. Very soft, and a negligible amount of pilling.

    Please remind me of the source of the lipstick you’re wearing. I think I need that.

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    • Alison Gary says

      October 24, 2019 at 12:24 pm

      Oh that’s good to know, thank you! As for the lipstick it’s Lancome Cerise with Fenty Gloss Bomb in the original color (sort of a beigey shimmer).

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      • CG says

        October 24, 2019 at 12:37 pm

        Ah — just double-checked the label on the sweater I was thinking of and it’s J Crew, not Banana. Says “Italian Cashmere” for whatever that’s worth.

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  22. Christine Petersen says

    October 24, 2019 at 10:02 am

    Jcrew used to rock cashmere – back in the mid 2000’s but used to, no longer. It now pulls and grows holes overnight. Also say no to bloomies… looks so good but wears so bad.

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    • Alison Gary says

      October 24, 2019 at 12:25 pm

      Right? J. Crew was the BEST for sweaters but not for over a decade. Such a shame.

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  23. Grace says

    October 24, 2019 at 10:01 am

    I’m so glad to tead this— I DID buy a halogen cashmere tunic on your recommendation, and on deep discount. Loved the blue color and it was soft, though thinner than I had imagined (my first cashmere!) Holy pill-o-rama. Wore it like 3 times and figured I must be doing something wrong!
    Last year I bought a cashmere sweater (cream colored, the only color left, even though I rarely wear white because I am such a mess!) from Nordstrom signature. It’s thicker, better, softer, I get tons of compliments and no pills after 8 wears so far!
    This is why I trust you and keep reading… you are honest and work hard to be transparent.
    Now I want a camel sweater.

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    • Alison Gary says

      October 24, 2019 at 12:26 pm

      Oh gosh I am so sorry about that! And isn’t Nordstrom Signature so luxe? I have a cashmere cableknit dress from them and I live in it all winter long with fleece tights and tall boots!

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  24. Tanya Foster says

    October 24, 2019 at 9:24 am

    I LOVE this look on you Alison. So classic!
    xoxo- Tanya
    http://www.tanyafoster.com

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    • Alison Gary says

      October 24, 2019 at 10:01 am

      Thank you Tanya!

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  25. Bette says

    October 24, 2019 at 9:10 am

    I love Talbots cashmere shawls and have several from previous years — they are incredibly thick and durable, and have survived (thrived) being thrown into a travel bag many times. I’m not a fan of the Audrey sweater, though, as the 3/4 length sleeves and tight fit of the sweater make me (tall) look as though I’m wearing a sweater that shrank.

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    • Bette says

      October 24, 2019 at 9:15 am

      Adding: I can’t believe this is still available, but here’s my absolute favorite cashmere purchase this year. What a bargain, and so incredibly soft and versatile. Don’t be put off by the word “ruffle,” it’s not really a ruffle. The reviewers all agree.

      https://shopstyle.it/l/9szD

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      • Alison Gary says

        October 24, 2019 at 10:03 am

        Oooh thanks for sharing this Bette!

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    • Alison Gary says

      October 24, 2019 at 10:02 am

      I do think the Audrey is a very specific style and I can see how it’s not for everyone and likely is awkward on taller people. Agree with their shawls, they’re fantastic!

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  26. Karen says

    October 24, 2019 at 9:04 am

    Pure Collection has great cashmere (not sure how size inclusive), but the sweaters last for years and i wash in my machine under gentle cycle with no issues

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    • Alison Gary says

      October 24, 2019 at 10:03 am

      Awesome, thank you for sharing this brand Karen!

      Reply
  27. Roberta says

    October 24, 2019 at 9:00 am

    Have been wearing Talbot’s cashmere for at least 10 years. It has held up pretty well. I do take good care of it and it does get dry cleaned. But, I love their choice of styles!

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    • Alison Gary says

      October 24, 2019 at 10:03 am

      Agree! They have a nice mix of classic and then unique pieces!

      Reply
  28. Laurel says

    October 24, 2019 at 8:58 am

    OMG, same! I had that exact sweater and it pilled like CRAZY. So I donated it while it still had some threads left under the arms. I do love my Nordstrom Signature cashmere sweater, as well as two Audreys by Talbots. And this year I bought a J. Jill cashmere tunic and so far, so good. Love your honesty!

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    • Alison Gary says

      October 24, 2019 at 10:03 am

      Thanks Laurel!

      Reply
  29. Tippy says

    October 24, 2019 at 8:28 am

    I’ve had good luck with the Lord & Taylor cashmere sweaters.

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      October 24, 2019 at 10:04 am

      You know what, so have I and I completely forgot about them! I had a black crewneck that did awesome for two years until it accidentally went into the wash. Good call! http://bit.ly/2odI2QH

      Reply
  30. Melanie Wolff says

    October 24, 2019 at 8:26 am

    Have you tried the JCrew cashmere? I’ve been looking to invest in a good cashmere sweater this season.

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    • Alison Gary says

      October 24, 2019 at 10:05 am

      I haven’t had the best experience with it in recent years, though I have a 12-year old J. Crew sweater that is amazing. Others may have different experiences but I find it stretches out and pills.

      Reply
  31. Joan says

    October 24, 2019 at 8:18 am

    Totally agree about Halogen cashmere! I purchased 4 last year and couldn’t believe how quickly they pilled. They’ll be relegated to wearing around the house now, nothing more. So disappointing.

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      October 24, 2019 at 10:06 am

      Such a shame, because I have Halogen cashmere accessories like scarves and hats that are amazing quality and all other clothing, including leather, that I have gotten from Halogen has been great!

      Reply
  32. Linda says

    October 24, 2019 at 8:17 am

    I am wondering if you could share what lifting routine you have used to reduce your calves.

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      October 24, 2019 at 10:12 am

      I never planned to reduce my calves, and when my trainer had me do things like calf raises I was terrified that they would get bigger! Every Monday is Leg Day at my gym. I do squats, lunges, and reverse lunges now with a barbell but started off with dumbells. I do leg extensions and leg presses on machines, leg curls, side lunges, calf raises, and occasionally do run intervals (one minute run, one minute jog/fast walk). Nothing specifically towards the calves but the weight training (30 minutes 5 days a week) has totally changed the shape of my body for the better. My shoulders are more defined, my stomach is smaller, my breasts are a bit lifted, my forearms and wrists are slimmer, ankles slimmer, even my feet are a bit slimmer! I haven’t written lately about my workout routine but previous posts can be found at https://www.wardrobeoxygen.com/tag/health-and-wellness/

      Reply
      • Caro says

        October 30, 2019 at 3:34 pm

        I was so proud of you when you posted about your training program. The strength (inner & outer) you have developed has been a really cool thing to watch. Thanks so much for your honesty!

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  33. ErinG says

    October 24, 2019 at 7:48 am

    Another timely post! I am checking out a consignment store today that has a cashmere section!! I’ll definitely be looking for the brands you mention.

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      October 24, 2019 at 10:13 am

      Awesome, glad to be a resource!

      Reply
  34. karen says

    October 24, 2019 at 6:31 am

    i’ve been pretty happy with a Boden Cashmere sweater i got last year. i know that they are not as size inclusive as many of the brands you’ve listed, l believe they go up to a XL, but are still worth a call out. As you’ve meantioned, i’ve loved the Nordstrom signature cashmere sweater that i got 2 years ago. One key is to look for thick, multi ply yarns.

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      October 24, 2019 at 10:13 am

      Agree, the multiply makes the difference. Thanks for recommending Boden, I haven’t tried their cashmere yet!

      Reply

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