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Fashion Advice, Footwear · September 17, 2020

How to Style Knee-High Boots for 2020

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Knee-high boots have been a popular fashion trend almost consistently for over a decade. Few fashion trends have such staying power. Why have tall boots remained popular for so long? For the same reason that many fashion trends last and occasionally overstay their welcome – it’s a trend that is accessible to a variety of body types and budgets. Knee-high boots were practically a women’s fashion must-have from 2005-2015. But after a decade, the trend began to feel very tired. The style went from sleek heeled styles and classic riding boots to all sorts of fabrics covered with studs and buckles and plenty of stretch panels worn with a uniform of very skinny stretchy jeans and either a tunic sweater or a button-front shirt topped with a faux fur, quilted, or puffer vest. The trend had been so overdone there were memes made about it.

In 2017 I wrote a post about how knee-high boots were no longer in style and it angered a lot of people. The thing is, I never said to get rid of your knee-high boots. I suggested styling them in a fresh way or possibly retiring them for a while. If you didn’t own such boots already, to not buy them at that time. Well it’s almost 2020 and now is the time to take your knee-high boots out of storage and if you were wanting a pair, I recommend shopping now while there is plenty of selection. Recently I shared my picks for stylish wide-calf boots to give you some shopping inspiration.  Below I share ways to style knee-high boots for 2020 – the outfits are similar but have specific details that make the looks modern; I share how the trends have changed.

The Old Way of Styling Knee-High Boots

There were two ways that knee-high boots were styled in most of the 2000's and 2010's – either with short skirts and dresses having knees exposed, or slipped over skinny jeans and styled with lots of layers.

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Some outfits from the archives showing how I styled knee-high boots before 2017: lots of layers on top with skinny jeans and often a very large bag.

The most popular way to wear knee-high boots during this era was what we now mock as “basic”. Knee-high boots styled with jeans or leggings and lots of layers. Think the cliché “Christian Girl Autumn” of blanket scarves, floppy hats, and steaming cups of pumpkin spice latte.  Where I live, knee-high boots were quite popular with skinny jeans, plaid flannel shirts, and puffer or faux fur vests (I was known to rock this combination from time to time) which also inspired its own meme. 

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Looks from the archives where my kneecaps were shivering in the cold.

The other way knee-high boots were styled was with short skirts and dresses with knees and often a bit of thigh exposed.  More often than not these looks were styled with bare legs.  Hosiery went out of style for a bit during this time unless it was tights in a statement color, so boots were often put with looks that didn't necessarily benefit from them just to stay warm. 

How to Style Knee-High Boots Now

The way knee-high boots are stylish in 2019 is the way they were stylish before the late ‘00s and early teens. Think about how style icons across the decades wore such boots or would have worn such boots if they owned them. They are worn to keep one warm; they are tall enough to slip under a longer skirt to have no bare skin. They are worn slipped over pants and jeans when riding horses or being outdoors because they are fantastic wind protection and a fabric that can withstand a lot. The difference are the details.

collage of black knee high boots styled with a gray sweater and bagShop the Look: sweater | jeans | boots | earrings | watch | bag

At first glance, this look appears similar to how knee-high boots were styled a few years ago.  But the difference is the details.  The sweater is lightweight, not bulky and worn either tucked in or fitted and skimming the body.  The jeans (which I own and love) are not skin-tight and have a higher rise which is a current trend.  Having the boots and the jeans the same color elongates the leg and looks more luxe.  Previously, the bag would have been chosen to match the color of the boots.  Having the bag and accessories instead coordinate with the top makes the outfit airier and light while also giving a feeling of modern luxury.

how to style knee high boots in 2020Shop the Look: dress | boots | bag | bracelet | earrings

I've thought for over a decade that leopard print is a neutral; well this season has deemed snakeskin to also be a neutral.  Not only that, it looks extra fresh and fashionable when mixed with other patterns.  Previously, such boots would be styled with a short black dress and black tights, or black leggings and a black sweater to let the boots earn the spotlight.  Make printed boots modern by letting them blend into the background and complement another pattern.  Florals, paisleys, and graphic prints all look great with snakeskin and other subtly patterned knee-high boots.  Since the pattern mixing is busy, keep the rest of your look simple a classic.  High-shine gold jewelry that is classic with an edge, and a traditional-looking handbag in a color to pick up the dress print is a perfect addition and makes the print mixing purposeful. 

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Shop the Look: blazer | shirt | jeans | boots | earrings | necklace

Boots are still great slipped over skinny jeans, but to make the outfit modern, go classic.  Instead of waterfall jackets, long sweater coats, puffer vests, and blanket scarves add some tailoring and an equestrian feel.  Tweed, plaid, and wool blazers are popular this season and look so right with the riding boots that may already be residing in your closet.  While a few years ago the trend would be to wear the blazer over a Breton striped tee, this season consider pairing it with something more traditional like a button-front shirt (I have this one and love how it doesn't wrinkle, stretches, and looks fresh right out of the dryer while being comfy even under a blazer).  Consider skinny jeans with a higher rise; button fly jeans have returned and offer an interesting outfit detail while also slimming the midsection. 

styling knee high boots with a skirt

Shop the Look: sweater | skirt | boots | bag | earrings | watch

The '70s inspired look of a boot with a midi skirt is very on trend, and a cozy warm trend too!  Whether it's a wool a-line or a pleated silky fabric like the one featured above, this is a way to keep yourself completely covered while still looking dressy and work-appropriate.  Continuing with a popular trend, I balanced the softness of the skirt with a thicker, shorter sweater.  Half-tuck the sweater in front and leave the back loose to draw attention to the waist while still looking relaxed.  I liked the monochromatic effect, but there is no need to do this; feel free to wear what colors you like or even have a patterned skirt.  This look is best with a slim-fitting boot with at least a 1″ heel.  I went with a beige suede which is a popular finish for knee-high boots this season, but honestly, any color, finish, and heel style can work with this concept.

The four looks above aren't radically different from how we styled knee-high boots 5-10 years ago.  The difference is the details – the fit, the silhouette, the subtle switch in patterns and cuts.  The best way to make the knee-high boots in your closet feel modern is to ensure they fit well, look for ways that they can blend into your outfit instead of stealing the spotlight, and be sure they are in great condition. Take them to the cobbler to get reheeled, resoled, and a good polishing.  Consider insoles for comfort (I personally love these and have them in several pairs of boots; they also come with a wool shearling version). 

What Kind of Knee-High Boots Should I Buy?

If you’re a grown-ass woman, you should be wearing grown-ass shoes. Go ahead and scrimp on jeans and t-shirts and denim jackets and casual dresses. But shoes are one place you should spend money. Not only do you deserve a comfortable shoe, but you’re too old to be wearing cheap leather alternatives and weird embellishments. Unless you are against leather, get leather. If it’s too expensive, wait. And make sure that leather is quality leather – thick enough that the shafts won’t slide down mid-day, a smooth finish that can handle being polished like grown-ass women do with their leather shoes, hardware and heels that would have looked at home in 1972 as well as 2022.  

When Do I Need Knee-High Boots with Heels?

Heels equal dressy in most situations. Adding a heel will read dressy and be a better pairing for skirts and in the workplace. A turtleneck sweater with jeans and flat boots – casual and comfy for a weekend of running errands. A turtleneck sweater with jeans and heeled boots – a chic look you can wear to brunch or to a creative workplace. A heeled boot adjusts the shape and appearance of one’s legs, making boots that are a bit shorter on the calf look more proportional.

That being said, heels are not necessary. A flat boot with a slim silhouette and almond-shaped toebox can still look quite polished. However, it’s even more imperative that the boot fits well. Cobblers can narrow boot shafts and some will even custom shape the shaft so it perfectly skims your leg from calf to ankle. Bulk-creating details like buckles above the ankle, elastic gussets, cuffs, and lacings will make a boot look less dressy and will also reduce its versatility.

What Color Knee-High Boot Should I Get?

What color you buy has everything to do with your existing closet and your goals for wearing the boots. A modern look right now is to have your boot match or be in the same color story as your pants, skirt, and/or hosiery. A snakeskin print chiffon dress with brown tights and brown boots. A teal sweater with black jeans and black boots. A camel blazer with cream jeans and brown boots. Gray suede boots with gray jeans and an ivory sweater. You get the idea. The low-contrast look is not only leg-lengthening but modern and definitely not 2015.

How Tall Should My Boot Be?

As I shared in my stylish wide-calf boots post, you should measure not only the calf width of your legs, but also the length from below the knee to the top of your heel. Everyone’s legs are different heights and you want to have boots at a stylish and comfortable height.

When you are petite, you may find knee-high boots bow out at the top like pirate boots, or they get caught in the back of your knee when walking or sitting. This means the boot is too tall. However, I think a boot just under the knee looks best on my short and wide-calf legs so I had a cobbler take my boots that looked like they belonged to Blackbeard and tailor them for a perfect fit. They have become the most-worn boots in my wardrobe.

When you are tall, you may find boots hit at an odd point on your calf muscle. Luckily, right now there is no specific height for boots so you can either rock that height if you like it, or look for a higher shaft. There are many styles of just over the knee boots with a lower back that look quite chic as traditional knee-high boots on taller legs.

Unless it fits your personal style, I don’t recommend right now buying half-height boots that hit mid- to low-calf muscle. That length is hard to wear not just because it can shorten and thicken the look of a leg, but because it’s harder to style. Knee-high boots are an investment and it makes sense to pick a style that is versatile and classic.

Do I Need Knee-High Boots in My Wardrobe?

Absolutely not.  What is great about fashion right now is that it's fluid.  In the past, you would look dated if you had the wrong heel shape, the wrong pant leg opening, the wrong width of blazer lapel.  Style now is about knowing yourself and expressing it through your wardrobe.  No one needs knee-high boots, only purchase them if they fit your personal style.

The most important aspect for style these days is fit.  If you do not have a tailor or cobbler, visit your city's NextDoor or go to Yelp and look for one.  Whether a dress or a boot is from Walmart or Saks Fifth Avenue, it will look more stylish if it fits you correctly.  When items don't fit right off the rack (or right out of the shoe box), it's not because there is something wrong with you.  Nobody, except the brand's fit model, can wear clothes off the rack and have them look perfect.  Celebrities and fashionistas – they look great not because they wear designer clothing but because they get everything, boots included, tailored to fit.  Buy fewer items, buy slowly looking for the best quality and style you can find, and spend the money to get them tailored.  You'll end up with a smaller but more stylish and versatile wardrobe!

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  1. Tara says

    December 30, 2020 at 11:46 am

    I love my tall boots, but find that I wear them most with skirts and cropped pants/jeans. At 5’10”, I have a lot of floods. I will wear a short bootie or the tall boots when there is snow. I have had tall boots for nearly 20 years. I own 3 pair currently.

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  2. Christine says

    December 30, 2020 at 11:41 am

    That last outfit, the green midi skirt and sweater and tall pale boots – it just sings my name, if only I ever have a reason to dress up again. I finally gave away my tall boots (which were from, uh, about 1999) a couple of years ago, but some day I’ll get another pair.

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  3. sdl says

    December 16, 2020 at 3:35 pm

    You look like an UNHEALTHY poorly groomed potatoe. Take a mirror instead of claming platitudes such as Potatoes are awsome..

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    • a fan says

      December 17, 2020 at 8:10 am

      You sound like an UNPLEASANT ill-mannered d*ckhead. Take a dictionary instead of throwing insults at people — and vegetables. Learn spelling.

      Reply
  4. hiujopoi says

    December 16, 2020 at 10:01 am

    you look like a fat potato

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    • Steph says

      December 16, 2020 at 10:18 am

      Potatoes are awesome. And fat potatoes are the best ones. Also, you’re a dick.

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      • Mary Beth says

        December 16, 2020 at 10:50 am

        Agreed! I love fat potatoes, but not asshole Internet trolls.

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  5. Susan M Willis says

    December 23, 2019 at 5:36 pm

    Age has nothing to do with it.I see older women who look so much better in tall boots than a younger overweight woman.I say if you like it no matter your age and you have the body rock it.What works for you might not be appropriate for a person who wears western.So age has nothing to do with it.I would understand if you were giving advise to an older woman as you said a grown ass woman wearing a bikini or mini skirt.I believe it is more about how you look in the boots.So I don’t agree. Back in the day women wore boots at any age.I wouldn’t wear a pair of boots unless they were leather.

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    • Alison Gary says

      December 23, 2019 at 6:06 pm

      Huh? I can’t tell if this is a legit comment, or if it’s an attempt to fill my comment field with spam links. My link field doesn’t show up on my site so that didn’t work and if it’s a legit comment I don’t think you read the piece. I’m hella confused.

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      • Martine Shamzin says

        August 7, 2020 at 7:02 am

        Its very obviously a legit comment. Perhaps its meant for a different article. They seem to think you don’t recommend wearing boots for people of a certain age.

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  6. Alison says

    December 14, 2019 at 11:54 am

    Thanks! I have a couple pairs in my closet that I have not pulled out in a couple years, I will think of this going forward.

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    • Alison Gary says

      December 23, 2019 at 12:05 pm

      Awesome, glad you liked the post!

      Reply
  7. PAULA SPIZZIRI says

    December 12, 2019 at 1:39 pm

    I just bought the Inc riding boots you had in your boot post a week or so ago on sale at Macy’s, so this post is timely. Thanks!

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    • Alison Gary says

      December 23, 2019 at 12:05 pm

      My pleasure, Paula!

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  8. Lisa says

    December 11, 2019 at 3:11 pm

    This post is awesome, thanks! I live in an area with a long, cold winter so my boot wardrobe is extensive and I really appreciate the styling tips.

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    • Alison Gary says

      December 23, 2019 at 12:05 pm

      I’m glad you found it helpful, Lisa!

      Reply
  9. ErinG says

    December 10, 2019 at 7:51 pm

    Great timing on this!! Yesterday I wore my tall brown riding boots with a short corduroy skirt and sweater. I kept looking at it in the mirror thinking, “This just looks dated”. I wore it anyway but was sooo glad to read this post!!! Also – I had a dream last night about shopping for corduroy pants?!?!?! Can u update us on corduroy soon?!

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    • Alison Gary says

      December 23, 2019 at 12:06 pm

      I know people love corduroy… it’s just not my thing and never has been. I like it on others, but I’m not sure why I don’t wear it myself especially since it’s back in style!

      Reply
  10. Derrick ridge says

    December 10, 2019 at 7:02 pm

    I sure do appreciate it I sure do appreciate it

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  11. Alma Aguirre says

    December 10, 2019 at 6:10 pm

    .oxygen

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  12. Christine says

    December 10, 2019 at 4:50 pm

    That last outfit with the green skirt and the cream boots has me drooling.
    (It also has nothing to do with my life and I would have no chance to wear it, but I love looking at it.)

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    • Alison Gary says

      December 10, 2019 at 6:39 pm

      It was pretty fun to put together and had me thinking… no Alison you don’t need this. But it’s so pretty!

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  13. Katelin L Brewer Colie says

    December 10, 2019 at 3:11 pm

    I love tall boots and never gave them up- just styled them differently as you suggest. In addition like the look of heeled tall boots with a flare or bootcut pant.

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    • Alison Gary says

      December 10, 2019 at 6:39 pm

      Boots do look good with a bit of a flare on the pant hem that’s for sure!

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      • Katelin says

        December 10, 2019 at 9:34 pm

        I also love my tall boots with cropped wide leg pants. And I love your archive photos showing past trends. What an awesome dataset.

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  14. Ann says

    December 10, 2019 at 12:07 pm

    What a great (informative, actually useful) post pointing out how to update the “look.” Really very helpful. Thank you!

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    • Alison Gary says

      December 10, 2019 at 6:40 pm

      Thanks, Ann I’m glad you liked it!

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  15. Krista says

    December 10, 2019 at 9:22 am

    I love my tall boots. Always have. Thanks for ways to update them so they’re better.

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    • Alison Gary says

      December 10, 2019 at 6:40 pm

      My pleasure, glad you liked it!

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  16. k-t says

    December 10, 2019 at 9:06 am

    <3 Thank you for putting this together for us.

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    • Alison Gary says

      December 10, 2019 at 6:40 pm

      So glad you liked it!

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  17. Bette says

    December 10, 2019 at 8:56 am

    Thanks for giving me permission NOT to buy or wear knee-high boots, LOL. I’ve tried hundreds of styles and simply cannot find one that fits my height, calf size, style, or sensibility. The one pair I did buy (under duress) made me so uncomfortable — physically AND psychically — I gave them away after a month. Call me highly sensitive (!), but the feel of the leather on my ankles and the unyielding grip on my calf and movement of the whole thing as I walked drove me insane. I’ll stick to ankle boots!

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    • Alison Gary says

      December 10, 2019 at 6:40 pm

      For sure! Wear what makes you happy and comfortable, that’s the most stylish thing!

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  18. Michele says

    December 10, 2019 at 8:19 am

    Such a helpful and timely post, Allie. Thank you!!

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    • Alison Gary says

      December 10, 2019 at 6:40 pm

      My pleasure, Michele!

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  19. Leu2500 says

    December 10, 2019 at 8:01 am

    I wore that 70s look in the 70s. Thankfully the big shoulder pads haven’t come back.

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    • Alison Gary says

      December 10, 2019 at 6:41 pm

      Just wait, I think they’ll be back next year. They’ve started showing already. Fashion is SO cyclical, but I’m so glad we don’t have to embrace every trend!

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Met three dear friends for an early dinner that went on until after the sun set. Great food and conversation with some great women!

The dress is @adamlippes and I borrowed it from @renttherunway. The bag is @jcrew and a splurge but I regretted not buying it the last time they offered this bag and this color is SO me. I mean, look how great it is with these many years old suede heeled sandals? Meant to be!

This color combination makes me so happy, and this dress was comfy even after a decadent meal. We all deserve to experience comfort and joy with our wardrobes! 💛🩷

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Sep 21

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If @thechicks are in town you can bet @debbiefaye78 and I will be there! So when we heard they were coming to @merriweatherpp we were so excited. And their concert did not disappoint. As always, a phenomenal show! If The Chicks come to your neck of the woods I highly recommend you go!

Okay I know you want to know about what we’re wearing! 

My sister’s caftan is from @anthropologie (bought this summer so maybe you can find on resale sites).

I’m wearing a @bananarepublic dress also from this summer with the @universalstandard denim chore jacket and a hat I got from a @madewell collab a year or so ago. I glammed it up with some gold chains and gold drop earrings, but kept it comfy for a night of standing and dancing with @birkenstock sandals.

This was my first big outing since my eye surgery, and with a pocketful of eye drops I felt good (and grateful we splurged for good seats!).

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Sep 19

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If I close my eyes you can’t tell one is still bloodshot 😜

Still recovering from my eye surgery but feeling more myself. Getting dolled up helps me feel me. Bright colors and bold jewelry have been signature Alison since I was a kid! 

Sweater: @favorite.daughter 
Earrings: Amazon
Necklace: @_jennybird (old)
Ring: @realmfinejewelry 
Bra: @lovebravissimo 
Lipstick: @glossier 
Pins as “cufflinks”: vintage

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Sep 11

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Happy gotcha day, Oscar! Four years ago he came into our life and we are so happy to have in our family!

Oscar was a rescue and came with some… quirks. Over the years we have come to understand him and he has come to trust us. He’s a diva, a snuggler, he could play catch for hours, and he’s my husband’s shadow. 

We’ve never had a small breed dog before and it’s a whole different experience. But we adore Oscar and couldn’t imagine our life without him! Thank you for coming into our life Oskie McGoskie! 🐾❤️

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Sep 8

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I can see clearly now…

Actually I can’t, but things after my retina surgery are much improved! My next appointment is in a month and I’m cleared to get back into the world (with some restrictions to protect my eye).

With a sclera buckle, it changes your eye shape and now I am nearsighted again (I had lasik a few years ago). Once the eye is stabilized I can get glasses or contacts but until then I’m 20/20 in one eye and right now 20/60 in the other. But the eye is healing beautifully and I feel positive!

And I could see clearly enough to fall for this poppy-colored cotton jumpsuit from @pistoladenim. It comes in a few colors but this one is my favorite. I went with XL (im@a 14, sometimes 16) and likely could have sized down but I enjoy the relaxed fit and the drawstring waistband to create shape. And hello zipper closure making it super easy to get on and off!

My husband took this photo right after my eye appointment, I think it reflects my positive attitude and feeling of hope! 🧡

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Sep 5

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I’ll be a bit quiet on here and other channels because I had eye (retinal) surgery this past weekend. I was having what I thought were ocular migraines but come to find out I was experiencing lattice degeneration, which is thinning/holes in the retina. I had surgery Saturday for my right eye and later on they’ll work on the left eye, which isn’t as bad and can be remedied by laser, in office.

I share not because I’m Mrs. Frizzle meets Iris Apfel as I recuperate at home, but because this whole thing has been a lesson on trusting my gut. And I want to remind you to do the same.

As we get older our bodies can feel like strangers. Things are constantly changing and it’s easy to just assume your annual physical will catch anything wrong. But if you slow down and listen to your body you’ll know when things are just a sign of aging and life and what seems unusual. That nagging issue may be something more serious.

And if you’re seeing flashing lights, floaters, spiderwebs or other odd eye things get checked out ASAP. It may be nothing but take it from me, it may actually be something. ❤️

Okay, going back to my big sunglasses caftan recuperation life!

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Aug 30

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Ladies who lunch…

While in Savannah, I made sure to get lunch reservations for me and E at @theoldepinkhouse she loves the color pink, historic homes, and ghost stories so it was a perfect choice! 

Built in 1789 on Reynolds Square, there are stories of guests seeing ghosts, cutlery and wine bottles moving along with an elegant and truly delicious dining. 

While we didn’t see any apparitions, we did have a lovely lunch with impeccable service and after toured all floors of the home. I highly recommend a visit if you’re visiting Savannah!

My dress is from @cosstores (no longer available); hat is @furtalk and bag is @talbotsofficial (no longer available).

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Aug 29

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Scenes from a week in Savannah… 

The three of us (and our dog Oscar!) had a warm and humid but wonderful time exploring Savannah, Georgia earlier this month. Our daughter visited this gorgeous city last summer with her @girlscouts troop but wanted to return to experience more. We let her choose our adventures and play your guide and it was awesome. We cannot wait to visit again, though next time it won’t be August 🥵

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Aug 28

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Stripes are always right…

Y’all know I love stripes and when @universalstandard came out with their Breton-stripe dresses and tops I HAD to try them! As expected, the quality is stellar, the fit boosts my confidence, and I appreciate the range of colors (5 different stripes to choose from) and sizes (00-50). For reference, I’m wearing XS but preferred S for the top and I usually wear a 14 or XL in other brands.

The tote is @able and it’s a soft yet durable leather that just looks better with time. This color (cognac) is one that transitions nicely from summer to fall. 

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