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If @thechicks are in town you can bet @debbiefaye78 and I will be there! So when we heard they were coming to @merriweatherpp we were so excited. And their concert did not disappoint. As always, a phenomenal show! If The Chicks come to your neck of the woods I highly recommend you go!

Okay I know you want to know about what we’re wearing! 

My sister’s caftan is from @anthropologie (bought this summer so maybe you can find on resale sites).

I’m wearing a @bananarepublic dress also from this summer with the @universalstandard denim chore jacket and a hat I got from a @madewell collab a year or so ago. I glammed it up with some gold chains and gold drop earrings, but kept it comfy for a night of standing and dancing with @birkenstock sandals.

This was my first big outing since my eye surgery, and with a pocketful of eye drops I felt good (and grateful we splurged for good seats!).

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- The Unbelievable Lift Scoop Balconette: sexy, supportive, and so lightweight!

- The Embraceable Wireless: I’ve recommended this wireless bra for large busts for years and was in need for a new one! 

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- The Stunning Starlet Multi-Way Strapless: recently improved for more support and more comfort, this wireless bra stays put and gives fab shape

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If I close my eyes you can’t tell one is still bloodshot 😜

Still recovering from my eye surgery but feeling more myself. Getting dolled up helps me feel me. Bright colors and bold jewelry have been signature Alison since I was a kid! 

Sweater: @favorite.daughter 
Earrings: Amazon
Necklace: @_jennybird (old)
Ring: @realmfinejewelry 
Bra: @lovebravissimo 
Lipstick: @glossier 
Pins as “cufflinks”: vintage

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It was so funny and so quick I couldn’t not share! I bought this @hulkenbag a year ago and use it all the time. Carting shoot supplies, groceries, packing for road trips, and carting donations. This weekend @thenewdealcafe in @cityofgreenbelt hosted a community clothing swap so I made sure my family and I went through our summer wardrobes to gather that which we no longer needed or fit.

This wasn’t the first clothing swap and folks in town know my style (and my job) so there were some waiting for my arrival. Look how fast I cleared out this big bag! Speaking of the bag one other swap attendee said she got herself a Hulken after seeing mine in action!

It’s so great to know our old clothes are getting a good life and this bag makes carting them to the cafe so easy! I got my Hulken on Amazon, it comes in other colors and sizes too: https://amzn.to/48iTY4Y yep the bag is as great as all those ads you see on social media, I’m a big fan!
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I had to see… I asked my husband how often he thinks about the Roman Empire, and then asked our 14-year-old 😂
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Happy gotcha day, Oscar! Four years ago he came into our life and we are so happy to have in our family!

Oscar was a rescue and came with some… quirks. Over the years we have come to understand him and he has come to trust us. He’s a diva, a snuggler, he could play catch for hours, and he’s my husband’s shadow. 

We’ve never had a small breed dog before and it’s a whole different experience. But we adore Oscar and couldn’t imagine our life without him! Thank you for coming into our life Oskie McGoskie! 🐾❤️
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I can see clearly now…

Actually I can’t, but things after my retina surgery are much improved! My next appointment is in a month and I’m cleared to get back into the world (with some restrictions to protect my eye).

With a sclera buckle, it changes your eye shape and now I am nearsighted again (I had lasik a few years ago). Once the eye is stabilized I can get glasses or contacts but until then I’m 20/20 in one eye and right now 20/60 in the other. But the eye is healing beautifully and I feel positive!

And I could see clearly enough to fall for this poppy-colored cotton jumpsuit from @pistoladenim. It comes in a few colors but this one is my favorite. I went with XL (im@a 14, sometimes 16) and likely could have sized down but I enjoy the relaxed fit and the drawstring waistband to create shape. And hello zipper closure making it super easy to get on and off!

My husband took this photo right after my eye appointment, I think it reflects my positive attitude and feeling of hope! 🧡

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#throwbackthursday to what I wore 10 years ago in September…

A decade ago I was working full time in an office and was promoted to manage a good portion of my department. My blog was doing quite well, I was featured in local and national publications and websites. I was embracing what I felt to be a polished professional with an edgy vibe. Less color, more interesting accessories, and my first semi-designer bag (I still have that leopard print mini M.A.C. In the back of my closet). 

I have come to embrace color and have way less black in my closet now, but a lot of these looks are timeless and I would wear now… just likely with lower heels! 😂

Do you recall what you were wearing a decade ago? How similar is it to how you dress now?

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Lifestyle · February 19, 2022

Weekend Reads #188

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Weekend Reads

Stevie Nicks is still living her dream. (New Yorker)

The best way to learn online? Be a lurker. (Wired)

Art Nouveau’s obsession with the peacock. (Messy Nessy Chic)

Piecing together the green burial movement. (Bitter Southerner)

The Beijing Olympics are the first to use 100 percent artificial snow. What does that actually mean? (Vox)

The millions of people stuck in pandemic limbo. (The Atlantic)

The thing no one told me about egg freezing. (Gloria)

The second best thing about getting doxed by white supremacists. (Washington Post Magazine)

In America, a smile is like a résumé. I was afraid mine wasn’t closing the deal. (New York Times)

Are you mentally ill, or very unhappy? Psychiatrists can’t agree. (The New Statesman)

How to reclaim normal life without being ‘done'. (The Atlantic)

Lauren Ezersky is still New York’s most unjaded fashion journalist. (Vogue)

Nearly a quarter of Americans get news from podcasts. (Pew Research Center)

So often I have folks contact me asking me what style of jeans don't need to be hiked up after sitting, and won't stretch out. And my response? There are no perfect jeans. There is tailoring which helps a bit… and there is Beltaway. If you have jeans that are pretty great but you seem to have to hike up or won't stay up during the day this belt is fantastic. No metal (you can wear through a metal detector), no stiffness, just a heavyweight elastic and an easy-to-use plastic buckle that won't dig in when you sit. They come in a range of colors, widths, and styles for less than $20 and are so streamlined you can wear fitted untucked tops and it won't show. I've had at least one in my wardrobe for over a decade; my mom and sister and friends now have them and even my husband loves them!

Fashion’s latest “It” destination is the metaverse. (Elle)

Fashion Fair is back. (The Cut)

How to break up with your hairdresser, therapist and more. (The Washington Post)

The rise of the over-50 fashion mentors. (New York Times Magazine)

The horror, the horror of the Peloton not-even-plateau. (Culture Study)

Appreciating the orgasm as an act of self care. (Vogue)

An unlikely group of influencers on TikTok is using cheeky skits and viral songs to change our relationship to mortality. (The Atlantic)

I met Jennifer Mendelsohn way back in the early aughts through The Knot, as we were planning our Maryland-based weddings around the same time. We joined several other local brides after our weddings in a Yahoo (or was it Microsoft?) group and became friends and have stayed in touch thanks to social media. She went from badass journalist and ghostwriter to badass genealogy sleuth. She is having a virtual class on genealogy that's only $40 and I think would be fantastic for any of you also fascinated by your geneology and wondering how to learn more about your history.

So the Oscars are becoming the People's Choice Awards? (The Hollywood Reporter)

Their bionic eyes are now obsolete and unsupported. (IEEE Spectrum)

The case for Nicole Kidman's ‘Vanity Fair' cover. (Back Row)

This article was shared more by folks I follow on Twitter than anything else this week and I guess I'm an old because this all feels exhausting and repetitive and try-hard and been there, done that. A vibe shift is coming. (The Cut)

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See/Hear/Read

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Do you have shows you've watched that have affected you ever since? LOST is one for me. I often catch myself referencing it, seeing situations through a LOST lens, seeing actors now as who they were in that cast. For example, I live in a cooperative and the staff drives around in white vans; to this day when we see one going by my husband and I say, “There goes the Dharma Initiative.” I love those shows that have impact, even a decade later.

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There is Lori Petty in this future so it can't be all bad!

And I feel that Station Eleven (HBO Max) is one of those shows. My husband and I started watching it last week and we are obsessed. We're constantly referencing it, thinking about it, dreaming about it. But before you consider it, I need to give you a warning.

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Jeevan and young Kirsten… the story of them two (and Frank) is pretty great. I am being vague on purpose, I won't spoil this for anyone!

This show is based on a 2014 novel of the same and the topic in 2014 felt dystopian and in 2022 hits seriously close to home. In fact, I don't think I could have watched it prior to now. The show depicts life during and up to 20 years after a major flu epidemic that quickly wipes out most of the earth's human population. The first episode left me shaking and tearful and really hit my husband hard too.

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One positive, that post-apocalyptic fashion is pretty fierce!

But the story, the acting, the way it bounces from the time of the event to 20 years in the future to times in between, it's so intriguing, so powerful, you just want to see and know more.

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Meet the Traveling Symphony

I have been feeling very… numb lately. Apathetic. And it concerns me but I feel like I'm just overloaded by news, by content, by politics, by everything. I have been soothing myself with cute and cheesy and funny and colorful, but I found Station Eleven was like a big slap in the face that made me open back up my eyes to this existence, and how I can and need to be present, be connected, be a positive force.

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Kirsten loves her knives…

Don't think this is a show all about death and destruction. In fact, I found as I went through episodes I gained hope. Not finished with the series and seeing an MA rating, I went to Commonsense Media to see if it was appropriate for my 13-year-old. Commonsense Media says 14+ but know that rating isn't for gore or sex or even a lot of swear words but because of the dark and grim topic. Violence is mentioned or inferred but not blatant. Individuals of different races, ages, genders, sexual orientations, and abilities are positively represented.

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Matilda Lawler, who plays young Kirsten is phenomenal.

Like a good book where you feel you almost are the protagonist after a night of staying up to read that final chapter, the next day after watching Station Eleven I can feel very Kiersten or Jeevan or another character that was the focus of that episode. It's heavy, but sometimes we need to carry heavy things to remember we still have the ability. And how beautiful life can be, even with such weight.

I haven't read the book… yet. I've heard from many of you (I shared on IG Stories already that I saw this) that you loved the book and it's in the queue.

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I don't listen to podcasts often, it just doesn't fit with my current lifestyle. But my husband is a huge fan of Rich Roll and asked me to do him a favor and take an hour or so and maybe shower and get dressed but otherwise do nothing else and listen to this episode. And now I am asking you to do the same.

Rich Roll's podcasts are so incredibly long; this one is over two hours and I just couldn't finish it. I showered, I brushed my teeth, I did my face, I got dressed, and I still spent a huge chunk of time just sitting and listening and didn't finish (and actually began to fall asleep) but what I did listen to was worth it.

Essentially, if you are like me and you lack focus and drive and feel just angry about things and burned out and overwhelmed… it's not your fault. And this interview with Johann Hari goes into why we're like this, what's causing it, and what things we can do to improve our situation.

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Another podcast I have been listening to for a while and have been trying to listen to Season 2 of Under the Influence. Journalist and mom Jo Piazza used Season 1 to understand the mommy influencer world and see if she could make it as a parenting influencer. What she learned is that the influencers aren't the issue, the platforms like Instagram and Facebook are.

Season 2, Piazza is delving into how problematic these social media platforms are especially for women. She interviews female influencers, individuals who have stood up for women's rights, and is looking to create a women's day off off Instagram to show Meta/Facebook/Instagram the power of women and how we deserve more respect and rights.

As someone who has been having a bit of an existential crisis regarding her role in social media and the influencer sphere, Season 2 of Under the Influence is really speaking to me and making me think hard about how I want to craft the future of Wardrobe Oxygen (don't worry it doesn't mean ending it). If you are an influencer or a consumer of influencer content on social media, I encourage you to take a listen.

For Your Entertainment

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Amythyst Kiah is a Tennessee-based award-winning singer/songwriter who has collaborated with some of the greats and like me, may have never heard of before now. Born in Chattanooga, Tenessee in 1986, Kiah never felt like she fit in. Befriending a high school classmate who introduced her to Tori Amos and Nine Inch Nails, she saw that there was more to music. Upon graduation, she enrolled in East Tennessee State University, where she completed the Bluegrass, Old-Time, and Country Music Studies program and joined the school’s marquee old-time band. She began touring regionally, with her dad as her tour manager.

Kiah released her first album in 2013, an EP in 2016, and was in the group Our Native Daughters which released an album in 2018. Her latest album, Wary + Strange, came out last year. The song “Black Myself” off that album earned a Grammy nomination for Best American Roots Song. She has performed with Moby, Rihannon Giddens, have received accolades from Variety and Rolling Stone… and it's time for more folks to experience the power and beauty that is Amythyst Kiah:


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  1. Shen Dove says

    February 22, 2022 at 2:33 pm

    Your roundups are still a favorite! I learn something new each time I read them. I haven’t watched Station Eleven yet but the novel has lived rent free in my head since 2016.

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      February 23, 2022 at 2:37 pm

      Thank you so much Shen, and so great to “see” you!

      Reply
  2. Nicole Kowalski says

    February 20, 2022 at 7:38 pm

    You are so good at curating these weekend reads! Started watching Station Eleven and agree with your assessment. The actors are so good.

    The Nicole Kidman Vanity Fair cover–I don’t think I care that a 54 year old bared her torso. It’s that the outfit infantilizes women and keeps pushing that “sexy child” look which I think is kinda demeaning at best. And we know women who have money, resources, good genes, etc. can look great over 50. The problem is “great” = “young.” I still maintain that ageism is the only acceptable “ism”. People who are otherwise steeping themselves in understanding racism or gender issues, will make “old” jokes.

    If we’re lucky, we’ll all get old!

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  3. harmonybat says

    February 20, 2022 at 5:27 am

    Ask A Mortician on YouTube has a ton of information about green burial and mortality in general. And her book Will My Cat Eat My Eyeballs? is frigging delightful. I want to read her other books now!

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      February 20, 2022 at 12:59 pm

      Thank you for these suggestions!

      Reply
  4. Cathi says

    February 20, 2022 at 1:47 am

    Station Eleven cracked me open. I cried during most of the episodes, and the finale – whew. It was a lot, but I look forward to returning to it in the future.

    A movie I thought your family might like is CODA – I don’t know how you would feel about some of the content for Emerson, but it was really sweet and affirming. Movies with music seem to make the movie just that much better 🙂

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      February 20, 2022 at 12:59 pm

      YES! CODA was amazing, we loved it as a family!

      Reply
  5. Anne says

    February 20, 2022 at 12:54 am

    Enjoyed Weekend Reads as always, and what a small world! I’ve been in a book club with Jennifer M’s brother Andrew for the past 30+ years. They are a very funny group of siblings.

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      February 20, 2022 at 12:59 pm

      That’s amazing, what a small world!

      Reply
  6. Joanne says

    February 19, 2022 at 5:35 pm

    Thanks for another collection of great weekend reads Alison. A question about the Beltaway, I can’t see from the photos if it requires belt loops on the jeans to work? Many of my plus size jeans are pull-on with elastic for at least part of the waistband and they have no belt loops. Not a lot of choice here. They are always sliding down and it drives me mad! I’ve thought about making some loops to stitch onto my jeans so I can hitch them up with a belt.

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    • Alison Gary says

      February 20, 2022 at 1:01 pm

      Tehcnically no, it’s heavyweight elastic that makes the belt itself. I have used it on jumpsuits and dresses without beltloops and it sort of grips to fabric to stay in place. I have also used it to blouse out tops without tucking them in. However, I think it would need to be over something either loose or high waisted so it won’t shift and slide above the waistband of the pants with wear.

      Reply
  7. Jane says

    February 19, 2022 at 10:29 am

    Thanks for another outstanding Weekend Reads.

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      February 20, 2022 at 1:01 pm

      Thanks Jane, it means a lot that you like it!

      Reply
  8. Bette says

    February 19, 2022 at 9:36 am

    Thanks for mentioning Under the Influence and your own existential crisis re social media. I receive your newsletter and love it. I read every letter and click many of your links to “earn my keep.” At the same time, I left social media for good several years ago and don’t intend to go back, for many of the reasons described above (and everywhere). I appreciate your acknowledging the role of influencers in today’s society, esp among women.

    Reply
  9. Boerumama says

    February 19, 2022 at 9:21 am

    can you please post the Cut article about the vibe shift w/o the paywall?

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      February 19, 2022 at 9:28 am

      https://lifehacker.com/how-to-get-past-a-paywall-to-read-an-article-for-free-1847800292

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I can see clearly now…

Actually I can’t, but things after my retina surgery are much improved! My next appointment is in a month and I’m cleared to get back into the world (with some restrictions to protect my eye).

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And I could see clearly enough to fall for this poppy-colored cotton jumpsuit from @pistoladenim. It comes in a few colors but this one is my favorite. I went with XL (im@a 14, sometimes 16) and likely could have sized down but I enjoy the relaxed fit and the drawstring waistband to create shape. And hello zipper closure making it super easy to get on and off!

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I’ll be a bit quiet on here and other channels because I had eye (retinal) surgery this past weekend. I was having what I thought were ocular migraines but come to find out I was experiencing lattice degeneration, which is thinning/holes in the retina. I had surgery Saturday for my right eye and later on they’ll work on the left eye, which isn’t as bad and can be remedied by laser, in office.

I share not because I’m Mrs. Frizzle meets Iris Apfel as I recuperate at home, but because this whole thing has been a lesson on trusting my gut. And I want to remind you to do the same.

As we get older our bodies can feel like strangers. Things are constantly changing and it’s easy to just assume your annual physical will catch anything wrong. But if you slow down and listen to your body you’ll know when things are just a sign of aging and life and what seems unusual. That nagging issue may be something more serious.

And if you’re seeing flashing lights, floaters, spiderwebs or other odd eye things get checked out ASAP. It may be nothing but take it from me, it may actually be something. ❤️

Okay, going back to my big sunglasses caftan recuperation life!

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Aug 30

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Ladies who lunch…

While in Savannah, I made sure to get lunch reservations for me and E at @theoldepinkhouse she loves the color pink, historic homes, and ghost stories so it was a perfect choice! 

Built in 1789 on Reynolds Square, there are stories of guests seeing ghosts, cutlery and wine bottles moving along with an elegant and truly delicious dining. 

While we didn’t see any apparitions, we did have a lovely lunch with impeccable service and after toured all floors of the home. I highly recommend a visit if you’re visiting Savannah!

My dress is from @cosstores (no longer available); hat is @furtalk and bag is @talbotsofficial (no longer available).

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Aug 29

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Scenes from a week in Savannah… 

The three of us (and our dog Oscar!) had a warm and humid but wonderful time exploring Savannah, Georgia earlier this month. Our daughter visited this gorgeous city last summer with her @girlscouts troop but wanted to return to experience more. We let her choose our adventures and play your guide and it was awesome. We cannot wait to visit again, though next time it won’t be August 🥵

For more of our trip check the “Savannah” highlight on my profile page!

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Aug 28

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Stripes are always right…

Y’all know I love stripes and when @universalstandard came out with their Breton-stripe dresses and tops I HAD to try them! As expected, the quality is stellar, the fit boosts my confidence, and I appreciate the range of colors (5 different stripes to choose from) and sizes (00-50). For reference, I’m wearing XS but preferred S for the top and I usually wear a 14 or XL in other brands.

The tote is @able and it’s a soft yet durable leather that just looks better with time. This color (cognac) is one that transitions nicely from summer to fall. 

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#usinthewild #bretonstripes #midsizestyle #midsizefashion #size14 #over40style

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Aug 27

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The family that wears @printfresh together stays together 🥰

Use code wardrobe_oxygen for 15% off your order of size-inclusive organic cotton sleepwear, dresses, bags & more https://glnk.io/qk04/wardrobe-oxygen

I’ve been raving about my Printfresh pajamas for years, my family also wanted to try them. Thank you Printfresh for gifting these for our annual three generation girls’ getaway to Rehoboth Beach, DE. We had a great time and being all matchy matchy in our pajamas was a fun addition! 🐅🍃🥰

#printfresh #printfreshpajamas #printfreshpartner

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Aug 12

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Shuts laptop until Monday… #RehobothBeach

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