What to Wear to a Movie Premiere or Similar Social Event?

I had a reader reach out to me – she is petite, has soft curves, is over 40 and attending a documentary movie premiere.  She wasn't sure what to wear and wanted my advice:

“I've been invited to a movie premiere in a few weeks, and I have no idea what to wear. Part of this stems from the fact that I've never been to a premiere before. But I don't think this is going to be a stereotypical Hollywood-type event–it's for a documentary, and it's being held in [an historic theatre in a popular city in the US] and may have some famous folks there. Adding to the dilemma is that I have a short, curvy body with a soft belly, soft arms, and a big booty, plus I'm in my early 40s and have entered that sort of “invisible” period you wrote about recently.”

What to Wear to a Movie Premiere or Similar Social Event?

This reader wrote to me just as I finished playing dress-up in my bedroom with some new pieces I added to my closet. I do this when I get new clothes – I try them on with things I already own, trying to envision where I’d wear such a look and if the pieces are worthy of staying part of my wardrobe. I just received the Tresa Wide Leg Pants from Universal Standard (they now come in petite!) and they surprised me. Online they look fluid but more like a pant I could style with a turtleneck sweater and boots or a blouse and flats for the office. However, these pants have the same weight and sheen as the silky Viva Boatneck from the same brand that I wore in this post. These pants may work for the office, but they also want to be worn for chic and dressier occasions.

If you pair the Tresa Wide Leg in navy with the Viva Boatneck also in navy, it gives the effect of a jumpsuit with the custom fit and ease when using the facilities. But a column of color provides a more sophisticated and dressier effect. Black is overdone, especially by those over 40. Navy is a softer, more surprising color that is trending for fall.

collage of a navy silky tee with navy wide leg silky pants, gold long chain earrings, a gold cuff, blue snakeskin clutch, and gold snakeskin slingback flats

Shop the collage: blouse | pants | earrings | bracelet | clutch purse | shoes

This also creates a pretty simple yet elegant base to showcase your personality.  Above, I styled the pieces in a way I would likely wear it – statement earrings and a cuff bracelet in gold, a subtly patterned clutch that nods to current trends, and a shoe that won't leave feet screaming by the end of the night while still fitting with the aesthetic of the ensemble and the event. 

Shop the collage: blazer | pants | camisole | ring | clutch purse | shoes

For this look, I used a pantsuit, which is a hot trend and is now available at so many different retailers.  Unlike a work suit, this one has drape, trendy details like the belt, and is a festive color.  While the model has it styled with a black tank, I'd recommend you choose a top that either is hidden under the jacket or is a color very close to the jacket (pink, mauve, lighter or darker plum) and a dressy fabric (no beading or sequins, but a silk, satin, or crepe is a good choice). The pink cami in the collage I own; in fact, I own three of these camis and appreciate they are machine washable and have adjustable straps. If you prefer a more traditional or masculine vibe for your suiting, choose a dressy button-front shirt in crisp white or a silky shirt in a color close to the suit and unbutton as many buttons as you feel comfortable with. Since the jacket has such detail, keep the earrings shorter (or go without and instead highlight a statement ring).

Shop These Two Looks:

Key Points When Dressing for Such Occasions:

  • The bag doesn't exactly match and this is on purpose.  As I mentioned in my fall color trends post, elegance is now achieved when NOT matching.  Having your bag match your outfit, or your earrings, or your shoes in 2019 can age you and also cheapen the entire ensemble.  A subtle pattern like snakeskin is a way to buy one bag that will go with multiple looks.  
  • There is no sparkle, just shine.  When you aren't sure of the dress code, I recommend choosing shine and steering away from sparkle.  Sparkle says evening, it says formal, or it says disco.  Shine says elegance and can be worn any time of day.  It catches the light and looks luxe but will also look appropriate if people show up in jeans with a fancy blouse and heels.
  • Column of color.  Whether it's a jumpsuit, a dress, or a blouse with trousers, a column of color will create an effect that is more expensive, more sophisticated, and more dressy. A column of color also distracts from the shape of the body letting the ensemble be the focus.
  • Distraction where you want it. Uncomfortable with your midsection? Nothing better than a sash at the waist in the same color as the garment to camouflage without looking like you're trying to.  Trust me, a tucked-in top and a sash at your waist or a dress or suit with a belt will look better in person and in pictures than a loose or straight shift where your body becomes one solid shape. 
  • Be realistic with your footwear.  Are you going to be able to wear 4″ heels all night?  If so, rock the heck out of those fabulous shoes.  But if you don't normally wear heels, a movie premiere or social event isn't the time to start.  Both of these looks can work with a flat shoe.  If it's the middle of the summer, go with a metallic sandal (and either a fresh pedicure or buffed and groomed tootsies).  If it's cooler out, look for a flat that has dressy details.  A D'Orsay/cut-out side, slingback, metallic finish, metallic or embellished details will add formality without foot pain. If you have specific foot needs and can't find shoes that have these details, look for a shoe that matches the color of the ensemble and is in a textile that blends in (for evening look for patent leather or a dressy fabric; for daytime consider leather, suede, or microfiber).
  • Pockets for the pose.  Not used to being at events where you're going to be photographed?  I can't recommend pockets enough.  Yes pockets!  Put one hand in a pocket, the other hand can hold your bag.  Put one foot in front of the other, both feet on the ground but your weight on the back foot. You now have something to do with your hands while showcasing your look with an angle that usually photographs well.  Don't shove your hands in the pockets, slide them in just to before your wrist, hands flat so the fabric doesn't bunch. Shoulders up, back, then down so you have good posture but look relaxed. 

You don't have to wear these exact outfits, but I hope they can provide some inspiration for a way to dress in an elegant, stylish manner for an event such as a movie premiere without having to contort your body, kill your feet, or feel awkward.  If not these concepts, keep in mind the column of color with a jumpsuit, midi- or maxi-length dress (not too much volume), a pantsuit, or a camisole or blouse with matching trousers.  This is a look that can be achieved at most any pricepoint, personal style aesthetic, and size.  But the most important accessory to wear is a smile – hope you have a great time!

Shop Columns of Color Outfits:

 

22 Comments

  1. Monica
    August 23, 2019 / 10:50 pm

    Thank you for this post – I’ve got 2 events coming up next month and no time or energy to shop! I’ve been wanting a navy jumpsuit since last year, but my extra long torso makes them tough to find. I’m thinking the navy US pieces for the faux jumpsuit look is the way to go. I love the drape of both and can see getting a lot of use out of them as separates too. I can’t tell from the US site, do you really think those pieces are the same color navy?!

    • Monica
      August 25, 2019 / 8:49 pm

      So I totally just clicked through your blog and bought them anyway (and the black Avenir dress as a back up)! Thank you for introducing me to US. Hoping you do a review of their new boots soon too! 😉

      • Monica
        August 28, 2019 / 7:47 pm

        Reporting back – the blues do no match! 🙁

        • August 28, 2019 / 9:05 pm

          NOOOO! Oh no that’s horrible! Mine hasn’t arrived yet for me to try. That’s a major disappointment and missed opportunity on their behalf.

  2. Patricia
    August 23, 2019 / 2:14 pm

    Timely! Next week is a big party where I live with live band, professional dancers, fancy appetizers on trays, buffet, tent over the outside dance floor and cocktail attire encouraged.
    I’m going to pull out my dressy capsule and get playful with it.

  3. August 23, 2019 / 9:22 am

    This is SO helpful! Thank you!

  4. Lee
    August 22, 2019 / 1:06 pm

    Reading this makes me wish I had something to dress up for! 🙂 Alison, you are so good at coming up with gorgeous outfits that can be worn by real women. This pantsuit idea, with comfortable shoes too—awesome!

    • August 22, 2019 / 2:08 pm

      Thank you, I’m glad you like it!

  5. Gwendolyn Z. Green
    August 22, 2019 / 12:45 pm

    I just love reading your fashion tips. I are so inclusive and I love that about you. Thank you so much for writing a fashion and lifestyle blog that ALL of us can use. You are to be commended

    • Gwendolyn Z. Green
      August 22, 2019 / 12:47 pm

      I meant to say “You are so inclusive and I love that about you.”

  6. b
    August 22, 2019 / 12:43 pm

    “Ankle”? Did you mean wrist?

    • August 22, 2019 / 2:07 pm

      Oh goodness I did! Off to fix, thanks for letting me know!

  7. Marlene Rizzo
    August 22, 2019 / 11:57 am

    Your suggestions are spot on. Love these looks!

    • August 22, 2019 / 2:09 pm

      Thanks Marlene, glad you like them!

  8. Luanne
    August 22, 2019 / 11:16 am

    Ordered the Eloqui suit, hope that it is not sold out. I have bought so many things on your recommendation, and have been happy with all of them. I don’t think I have bought anything on the recommendation of any other influencer – they just don’t speak to me like you do. I hope you are getting some reward for all of this!

    • August 22, 2019 / 2:10 pm

      Aww thank you! If you use my links I may receive a commission/percentage of your purchase. I find things like this fun, dressing an imaginary person and life. I have had success with ELOQUII in the past; their suits were always a bit too long for me/made for taller folks but the fit and styling are on point. Hope it works for you!

      • Luanne
        August 23, 2019 / 7:10 pm

        I have to tell you that I already received the suit and, although it is too long, it will look great after being shortened. I can’t believe that it was delivered to my home in Canada after only one day!

  9. Alison
    August 22, 2019 / 10:34 am

    I have been hesitant to consider a jumpsuit or dressy pantsuit look but you’ve articulated why to do so very well, I believe I am convinced! Appreciate all the info on shoes too as I am rather limited in what I can wear.

    • August 22, 2019 / 2:12 pm

      I’m glad the post resonated with you! As for the purple suit, I almost styled them with these rose gold loafers ( http://bit.ly/2NqQV3A ), but figured I’d have some variety in the shoes to get people’s styling creative juices flowing! But pants-based looks are great for feeling fierce and stylish while also wearing comfortable footwear!

  10. Melissa Stamos
    August 22, 2019 / 6:24 am

    These looks are so fun! I have a hard time getting out of my comfort zone, both of these looks are enticing. Thank you for sharing them with us.

    Melissa S in AVL

    • August 22, 2019 / 2:12 pm

      I’m glad you like them, Melissa!

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