Open
The perfect red for the holiday season 💄

I love a red lipstick, especially in winter. It adds brightness to gray days and skin not exposed to the sun. Look in my dressing table and you’ll find at least a dozen different red lipsticks. But this winter my go-to red is “Relax” by @flyte.70 

Glossy but not sticky, long wearing but not drying, the Flyte.70 L+L.LipLacquer feels like a lip balm. One layer is a hint of color and shine; add more layers for more pigment, gloss, and impact. This isn’t the only Flyte.70 lip color I have and love; I regularly wear “Fast Car” which is a modern version of the brown lipsticks we loved in the 90s that looks so good with the neutrals popular right now.

And with products named after songs from the 80s and 90s I couldn’t not use this Frankie Goes to Hollywood song for this lip color!

This isn’t paid, it’s a PSA because I know it’s hard to find good red lip colors. And @flyte.70 is a U.S.-based woman-owned ethical beauty brand created specifically for U.S. grown women and I find the quality stellar.

Use code WOXYGEN15 for 15% off your order at Flyte.70

The quickest and cheapest way to update your wardrobe for the holidays is with a glossy red lip! 💄

#over40style #genxstyle #genxbeauty #flyte70
Open
The tree is trimmed! 🎄

When I was a single gal, I had the prettiest tree with a color story and theme. 20 years later, my tree is a hodgepodge of inherited ornaments, gifts from loved ones, and handmade pieces from both my childhood and by my child. And I think each year it veers further from the original concept the more beautiful it becomes!

My daughter and I donned our Santa hats, turned on the holiday playlist, a Yule log on the TV, and spent the afternoon getting our home into the Christmas spirit.

When she was little, my husband would pick her up so she could place the star on top of the tree. Now that she’s taller than I am, when he got home he just put his arm around her as she used the library stool to reach the top. Some traditions need to be modified with time but they’re still special! ⭐️

Top is a feather trimmed Breton from @talbotsofficial; the scarf as a belt is also Talbots but a few years old. The jeans are @landsend and the blanket on the chair in the second photo is by artist  @zanderschlacter
Open
My therapist recommended I walk outside more as I grieve the recent loss of my mom.

When it was time to pay for my mom’s funeral, the credit card I had in my wallet was my @bananarepublic Mastercard. I’ve had this card for decades because over the years, most of our family have worn some Gap brand. From onesies to tuxedos, we’ve updated our wardrobes with points.

And I got a serious chunk of points for charging my mom’s funeral expenses on my Banana card.

I decided to use them to buy clothes for winter outdoor walking. Nothing motivates me more than a chance to put together a cute outfit. This cute look is from @athleta, one of the few activewear brands that fits both my size and my style.

My Athleta purchase arrived on my doorstep and that day, a neighbor reached out, inviting me to join a group of women in our community who were supporting, not competing, to move 100k. I immediately said yes and signed up. 

This past week I hit 100k. And this past week week it has been two months she has been gone. I’m still going 💪 

Wearing XL. For reference I’m 5’3” and usually wear a size 14.

I share details on all my looks on the @shop.LTK app. You can use the app or desktop, search for @wardrobe_oxygen or use the link https://liketk.it/4pFaS
Open
Normalizing the normal everyday outfit…

It was a day of running errands, running to the office, and then running into friends. It rained off and on so I wanted shoes for potential puddles and a coat that wouldn’t soak through but also keep me warm.

The sweater is @universalstandard; I bought it thinking it was a bold purple but the color was off on the site and I got plum. But I think I like this better. I’m wearing a S. This is my second of this cardigan, it is super soft, dense, and holds up to washing. My other one I got a year ago and still wear all the time.

The jeans are @oldnavy and while they’re not perfect and stretch out throughout the day they were around $18 and I like the wash and weight of the denim. I’m wearing a 14 Short.

The boots are old Docs, the coat I got at @talbotsofficial last winter, and the bag is @maxwellscottuk and I’ve had for almost a decade. Earrings are @_jennybird, necklace is @gorjana. 

Disclosure: the coat was gifted last year but remains a favorite. The necklace was also gifted about a year ago but I keep wearing because I like it and it has held up quality-wise. The rest I bought. 

Follow my shop @wardrobe_oxygen on the @shop.LTK app to shop this post and get my exclusive app-only content!

#liketkit #LTKfindsunder50 #LTKover40 #LTKmidsize #midsizestyle #genxstyle #over40style #size14 #usinthewild 
https://liketk.it/4pDXG
Open
Counteract the gray days with cozy colorful clothes! 🌈 This cashmere sweater set is the prettiest teal and I loved how it looked with this candy pink Chesterfield coat. All are from @anntaylor one of my favorite places to shop because Ann has petites over a size 12. Also all of these items are on sale!

While I did receive these clothes as a gift from Ann Taylor I am under no obligation to share with you. This is what I wore to work and when I saw these colors against the green of my building door I had to prop up my phone and capture the color combo!

This sweater is a classic and with the skirt is created a dress effect you can style with tall boots, ankle boots and tights, or dress down with sneakers. I linked to other pieces in this color that would also look dreamy with this skirt, as well as other gorgeous colorful coats.

For reference I am wearing the coat in XL petite and the sweater set in L. I am 5’3” and usually wear a 14/16

Follow my shop @wardrobe_oxygen on the @shop.LTK app to shop this post and get my exclusive app-only content! https://liketk.it/4plYr 

#LTKmidsize #ltkover40 #midsizestyle #genxstyle #size14 #midsizepetite #ThisIsAnn
Open
Just got back from a 4-night getaway with my sister @debbiefaye78 at @curacaomarriottbeachresort. It was a last-minute planned trip that ended up being perfect. We weren’t ready to celebrate Thanksgiving without our mom and this escape what just what our hearts needed. 

I’ll be sharing more once I finally unpack my suitcase and organize my photos and thoughts; but I couldn’t not share this picture from yesterday morning. Debbie and I got up early to enjoy some of the day at the resort before flying home to DC. We had the infinity pool to ourselves, finished our books, and relaxed before a long day of travel. 🌴
Open
It’s hard when you’re petite and most models aren’t; you have no idea how clothes, especially jeans will fit. To promote @universalstandard’s Denim Drive sale, the company sent me two pairs of jeans of my choice. And I chose to make this video to show how they fit on my 5’3” body. I am usually a 14/32 in jeans but at Universal Standard I wear a 12 because they’re super stretchy and generously sized. 

With jeans as low as $35 in sizes 00-40, this is a sale not to be missed. And use code INFS-BFALISON10 for an additional 10% off sitewide!

The Farrah Flare is a favorite because at my height, most flare jeans will lose what makes them special once hemmed. At a 30” inseam these are great with low heels or lug soles.

The Etta is a straight jean with a vintage fit. If in doubt size down. They’re also super stretchy and the 28” inseam (they also come in 31”) works with my boots and sneakers.

While I was provided the apparel in this Reel for free, I was not paid or contracted to create this content. Consider it a PSA for my fellow shorties shopping this fab denim sale!

Follow my shop @wardrobe_oxygen on the @shop.LTK app to shop this post and get my exclusive app-only content!
https://liketk.it/4oWOQ #ltkmidsize #ltkplussize #ltkover40 #ltksalealert #uspartner #midsizestyle
Open
Thanks to @talbotsofficial I’m ready for the holidays! #AD

I love Talbots for holiday fashion and this season’s new arrivals do not disappoint. And for Black Friday the entire site is 40% off with free shipping on orders $150+. Until noon, you also receive 50% off 1 regular price item!

I ordered pieces from the Talbots Holiday Collection and found great quality, great style, and great versatility. How cute is the Breton stripe bateau neck with the removable feather cuffs? The metallic plaid patio skirt is so fun, and these two dresses can glam up or dress down with a change of footwear and bag. For reference, I am wearing everything in either XL or 16 petite.

The ivory cords are also Talbots; the black trousers are from last year’s Talbots Holiday Collection showing how Talbots has lasting style. I’ve linked to exact or very similar in my LTK shop. Follow my shop @wardrobe_oxygen on the @shop.ltk app to shop this post and get my exclusive app-only content! https://liketk.it/4oDJF

#mytalbots modernclassicstyle #wondersoftheseason #ltkover40 #ltkplussize #ltkmidsize #blackfridaysale
Open
@somaintimates makes it easy to shop for a range of personas this holiday season! #AD With gift guides for a range of personality types, you can easily find great gifts for your loved ones. I was drawn to the creative one, loving the rich colorful florals, luxe satin, lace trim, and of course Soma’s iconic Cool Nights sleepwear! Visit Soma’s gift guide for tips on finding the perfect present this holiday season. #SomaGiftGuide #SomaStartsWithMe
  • Fashion
    • Capsule Wardrobes
    • Outfit Posts
  • Beauty
    • Skincare
    • Curly Hair
  • Lifestyle
    • Perimenopause
    • Health and Wellness
    • Travel
  • Subscribe
  • Exclusive Promo Codes
  • Home
  • Exclusive Promo Codes
  • About
    • Contact
    • Work with Me
    • Privacy Policy
  • Fashion
    • Capsule Wardrobes
    • Outfits
    • Plus Size Fashion
    • Denim
    • Footwear
    • Activewear
    • Swimwear
    • Underpinnings and Sleepwear
  • Beauty
    • Curly Hair
    • Skincare
  • Lifestyle
    • Perimenopause
    • Travel
    • The Business of Blogging

Wardrobe Oxygen

Real-life style for grown women

  • Home
  • Exclusive Promo Codes
  • About
    • Contact
    • Work with Me
    • Privacy Policy
  • Fashion
    • Capsule Wardrobes
    • Outfits
    • Plus Size Fashion
    • Denim
    • Footwear
    • Activewear
    • Swimwear
    • Underpinnings and Sleepwear
  • Beauty
    • Curly Hair
    • Skincare
  • Lifestyle
    • Perimenopause
    • Travel
    • The Business of Blogging

Fashion Advice, Capsule Wardrobes · July 30, 2019

Capsule Wardrobe: One Week, One Bag

This article may contain affiliate links; if you click on a shopping link and make a purchase I may receive a commission. As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases. 

collage of clothing with text capsule wardrobe

I have been sharing our family road trip on Instagram Stories and several have DMed asking me what I packed to wear. We spent three nights in Philadelphia, two nights in New York City, and two nights right outside of Boston before we came to Vermont. One week of city sightseeing, lots of walking in the heat and spending several hours away from our room with the occasional nice meal out. While we have our car for this trip, we didn’t want to have a ton of clothes to deal with so we each packed a capsule wardrobe to fit in one carry-on sized bag (I fit it all in the Tom Bihn Aeronaut). Because our Vermont part of the trip is so different from the first half, I am going to focus this capsule wardrobe on the time visiting cities. Below I share my one-week vacation capsule wardrobe, how I mixed and matched, and where each look was worn.

collage of clothing on a white background

What I Packed: One Week, One Carry-on, Three Cities

Below I share links to the exact items I took and the sizes that fit me; if the item is no longer in stock I linked to something similar:
Blue dress (XS Petite) | Red dress (XS Petite) | Olive chino shorts (LP) | Navy no-iron linen shirt (14; sold out – similar) | White no-iron linen shirt (2) | Cropped wide-leg jeans (14 Short) | Black sleeveless dress (L) | Black jumpsuit (L) | Floral suntop (XL; rented through RTR Unlimited) | Black tunic tank (L) | Black lightweight capri leggings (L) | Black flats | Silver leather sandals | White sneakers | Phone case on chain | Black backpack | Gold earrings | Silver hoop earrings | Silver long pendant (old; similar) | Silver cuff (old; budget-friendly version) | Sunglasses (not shown but in collages below) | bandana

350

Sample Outfits from the Capsule Wardrobe

Below I share graphics of some of the outfits I wore or could have worn from my capsule wardrobe. With 11 separates, I created 18 looks though there are many other looks possible with this combination of clothing. To view the slideshow, click on any thumbnail and use the arrows to navigate. Either use the X or click outside the slideshow to return to this screen.

outfit1
outfit2
outfit3
outfit4
outfit5
outfit6
outfit7
outfit8
outfit9
outfit10
outfit11
outfit12
outfit13
outfit14
outfit15
outfit16
outfit17
outfit18

Day 1 : DC to Philadelphia

  • Drive to Philadelphia: Blue dress, silver sandals, silver hoops and cuff
  • Dinner in the city: Red dress, black flats, gold earrings, iPhone holder on chain

This day is proof of how versatile this dress is.  I usually don't put duplicates in a capsule wardrobe, but this dress glams up or dresses down so easily.  While it's as comfortable as a t-shirt, the asymmetrical hemline and gathering give it elegance.  With sandals, it's casual and with flats, it dresses up for dinner at a nice restaurant.  This dress comes in sizes 0-40, regular and petite lengths.

The iPhone on a chain is my equivalent of a clutch purse, but tourist version.  The chain dresses it up, I can wear it crossbody or as a shoulder bag.  I also purchased this additional pouch to attach to it; the case itself has a pocket for ID and cards but the pouch can hold my lipgloss, cash, and other essentials.  I love Bandolier cases, they all come with straps and pockets, but there are a variety of styles, colors, and sizes for different phones.  You can shop some styles at this link.

mother and daughter standing in front of fountain at logan circle in philadelphia

Day 2: Sightseeing in Philadelphia

  • Sightseeing: Black sleeveless dress, white sneakers, black backpack, silver hoops and cuff, black sunglasses, iPhone case on chain

I’ve had this dress since last summer and adore it; here you can see me wear it with a denim jacket. It has washed up nicely (gentle cycle, line dry), is comfortable, but the wrap detail and asymmetrical hemline keep it from looking boring. With a pair of slip shorts underneath. I’m really loving the cooling version from Thigh Society which has two rises, available up to 4XL, and free shipping on all orders over $50 (yes you too international readers!). I was comfortable walking miles in the heat. I wore these sneakers with these insoles recently to a music festival and the combination kept my feet happy all day. And they were great for walking around Philly too. Here is the link to my arch support insoles review. I’ve had this backpack for a couple of years and it’s great for travel. The all-black hardware and branding make it look sleek, the padded straps are comfortable even when worn for hours with heavy weight in it, and the pockets make it easy to keep things organized. Here is my original Dagne Dover Dakota backpack review.

Since we were staying at the Windsor Suites which has a full kitchen and it rained that evening, we made dinner in our hotel room and enjoyed playing “Head’s Up” as a family and I just wore my pajamas!

woman in navy linen shirt and olive chino shorts standing in front of the Liberty Bell

Day 3: More of Philadelphia

  • Sightseeing: Navy linen shirt, chino shorts, white sneakers, black backpack, gold earrings, black sunglasses

Our second day in Philadelphia had the occasional rain shower and was incredibly humid. Linen was a perfect choice for keeping as comfortable as possible in the weather. I brought along this raincoat which shoved into the backpack with my daughter’s raincoat just fine when it was dry, yet when it rained it looked polished. By the time we finished our day, we were all soaking wet from rain and sweat; I hand washed the shorts and hung them to dry but threw the shirt into the laundry bag.

woman in black dress and flat shoes taking a mirror selfie

Day 4: Philadelphia to NYC

  • Drive to NYC and then sightseeing: Black jumpsuit, silver sandals, silver hoops, silver cuff, black sunglasses, iPhone case on chain
  • Dinner: Black sleeveless dress, black flats, silver hoops and cuff, iPhone case on chain

This jumpsuit is a super lightweight almost gauzy fabric; with the loose fit it's very comfortable in the heat and it doesn't wrinkle.  My black bra strap was skinny enough to hide into the strap of the jumpsuit. These sandals are on their second summer and broken in where I can walk a mile with comfort.   For dinner, switching out the white sneakers for black flats made the dress from the first day in Philly appropriate for an Italian restaurant.

These flats are fantastic; they aren't super dressy but they blend in and are so comfortable I can walk a mile in them without pain.  They also have great grip on slick sidewalks. If you are interested in learning more about these unique flats, read my honest LISSOM flats review.

woman in black tank dress and leggings taking a mirror selfie

Day 5: Sightseeing in NYC

  • Visiting Coney Island and sightseeing in the city: black tank tunic, black capri leggings, white sneakers, black backpack, silver pendant, silver cuff, black sunglasses
  • Dinner and sightseeing: red dress, silver pendant and cuff, silver sandals, iPhone on chain

This look with a denim jacket is one of my favorite looks to wear for flights. The leggings are lightweight, the tank is dress length on me. I usually wear with my LISSOM flats or Birkenstocks but since we’d do a lot of walking I chose the sneakers. This was comfortable, not too heavy, and the jewelry dressed it up enough for lunch at a lovely restaurant on the water.

The same look I wore the first night in Philadelphia, but because it was a more casual restaurant I switched out the flats for the Birks. It was a good outfit after to wear walking down to South Street Seaport. Again, a pair of slipshorts underneath prevented chafing.

Day 6: NYC to Boston

  • Drive to Boston: red dress, silver sandals
  • Dinner: black jumpsuit, silver sandals, silver cuff and hoops

Typical me, I spilled some marinara on my dress the night before. I spot cleaned in the hotel sink and it dried while wearing it.

We grabbed dinner at a sushi place in the town where our hotel was just outside the city. Nothing super fancy, the jumpsuit was comfortable and easy.

woman taking mirror selfie wearing navy linen shirt and cropped jeans

Day 7: Sightseeing in Boston

  • Sightseeing: floral top, chino shorts, white sneakers, gold earrings, black backpack
  • Dinner: Jeans, navy linen shirt, silver sandals, silver earrings and cuff

A warm and sunny day in Boston, I decided to wear this top which is fun and girly but provides great airflow. This was the day with plenty of walking and not a lot of shade and thanks to sunscreen, I was comfortable and dressed in line with everyone else enjoying the city on that Saturday.

The shirt turned out remarkably well for being washed in a sink; it was a bit crumpled so I rolled the sleeves and knotted it at the waist to make it look purposeful. Silver hoops to match the shoes, this was a good look for a bistro in town.

woman in white linen shirt and cropped jeans standing in a phone booth

Day 8: Boston to Vermont

Drive to Vermont: jeans, white linen shirt, turquoise bandana, silver sandals

Dinner: husband's black crewneck t-shirt, turquoise bandana, jeans, silver sandals

I tucked and bloused out the shirt and tied a turquoise bandana at my throat for fun. This was comfortable on the ride and a good choice as we dropped off our bags and immediately went to an event with our relatives. It was a performance in a field, I was able to easily kick off my shoes and be comfortable on a blanket in the grass. However, we got caught in a rainstorm and the white shirt became as sheer as tissue paper. I ran to the car where I grabbed a solid black t-shirt that belonged to my husband, changed into that (tucked in, bloused out more in the back than the front).  Dinner was at our relatives’ house where we grilled so I didn’t see a need to change.

Now that we are in Vermont, the dress code is far more relaxed. I expect I’ll be spending the whole time in shorts, tanks and tees, sneakers or Birkenstocks, and the occasional sweatshirt in the evening. I actually packed a packing cube of items just for Vermont. Since it was separate, we could leave it in the car and not have to lug it into each hotel along the way. In it, I had one pair of shorts, three pairs of underwear, three pairs of socks, one bra, two pairs of casual or workout pants, a second bathing suit, water shoes, and a sweatshirt. This way, if we didn’t have immediate access to laundry I’d have some fresh clothes for the first half of the trip.  This also affected how much I had in my bag; I wanted pieces that would also work in Vermont.  If I wasn't heading to Vermont I likely would not have packed the jeans or the white linen shirt.

Tips for Packing Less on a Trip: Fewer Clothes but More Style

  • Plan Outfits Before You Leave. Even if you don’t know the exact agenda or the weather, knowing how outfits are styled beforehand will make life easier. Know that this bag or these shoes go with the outfit so there is no guessing game and you can spend your time on enjoying the city.
  • Mix and Match for Multiple Wears.  No item should have only one purpose, and unless there is a special event on the trip, there should never be only one option for a situation.  What if you tear your shirt or your dress gets caught in a car door?  What if it rains?  What if you get a blister on your foot?  Everything should mix and match and be able to dress up and down relatively easily.  For example, the white linen shirt in my collage.  It was only worn once, but it could be worn tucked into the jeans, worn untucked with the olive shorts, tied over the black jumpsuit, worn open over the black tunic dress and leggings. The chino shorts and the jeans looked good with every top.  The black tunic could be tucked in and worn as a tank, has been left untucked over the jeans and worn with a long pendant necklace, and can be a swimsuit coverup.
  • Think Practical and Polished. This is my mantra when creating a travel capsule wardrobe. Clothing that can be spot cleaned or even hand washed in a hotel sink. Fabrics that will hold up in heat and humidity. Looks that are refined and tailored but not terribly memorable so I look clean and presentable even if it’s the third time I’m wearing the outfit. I don’t pack a lot of prints; solids mix and match better and are more easily dressed up.
  • Be Stingy with Clothes, not Shoes. Nothing will ruin your trip more than bad shoes. Unless I have a special event, I don’t pack heels and make sure all of my shoes can be worn to walk for an hour straight. Have variety; if you wear the same exact shoes every day they don’t get a chance to dry and cool off and are more likely to stretch out or cause blisters. Also, have a backup. I’ve been on trips where my main shoes got wet or damaged and learned the hard way. For example, for this trip, I brought not only my walking sneakers but gym sneakers. I had a different pair for working out but they were also backup in case my walking shoes weren’t available.
  • Use Accessories to Set the Tone. My Universal Standard dresses can go from being a beach coverup to a cocktail dress with a change of shoes and jewelry. Accessories don’t take a lot of space. I recommend bringing one dressier bag (I used the Bandolier since I wanted my hands free and knew I wouldn’t go anywhere super dressy), one pair of shoes that can blend in at a dressy occasion (black flats, a nude-to-you flat or sandal in good condition, or a metallic sandal), and a few accessories to change up looks (a statement earrings, a long pendant necklace, a neck scarf are good choices).
  • Overpack Underpinnings. Even if I expect to wear sandals for some days, I bring one pair of socks for each day. I also bring two pairs of underwear for each day, and three bras (one dark, one skin color, one more athletic). Underpinnings don’t take up a lot of space and can make a big impact on comfort during a long trip. If you can’t fit that much, the next step will help.
  • Bring Laundry Supplies. I have these packets of Tide that I always keep in my toiletries kit; they’re great for doing a quick wash, especially for undergarments. I then just hang them from a clip hanger in the hotel closet (I have also taken these hooks with me on trips but didn’t for this specific vacation). I also bring individual Shout Wipes and a small bottle filled with Bac-Out to spot-treat stains.

Shop the Items in the Capsule Wardrobe:

350
alison signature

In: Fashion Advice, Capsule Wardrobes

Did you like what you just read?

Consider tapping here to buy me a coffee in thanks. The best gift you can give a content creator is the gift of sharing. Consider sharing this article on Facebook, Twitter, or Pinterest. Thank you so much for your support!

join the community

You’ll Also Love

self care when life gives you lemonsSqueezing Lemons
How to Store the Clothes You’re Not Wearing
Please Don’t Try to Get This Look!

Comments

  1. mary w says

    August 3, 2019 at 2:50 pm

    I love the bandana! I rediscovered them a couple of years ago and now have 1/2 dozen or so. Perfect for travel: take up no room in suitcase…add a pop of color to any outfit…absorbs sweat,,, are cheap (all my came from thrift stores)…no big deal if you lose them…can be used as a napkin in a pinch.

    Are white sneakers coming back for street wear? I’ve always tried for black sneakers or a sleeker style outside the gym. I don’t mean to be snarky. I just don’t remember the look since the 1990.

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      August 4, 2019 at 9:39 am

      Yes white sneakers are back! Here’s an article I wrote earlier this year about trendy sneakers: https://www.wardrobeoxygen.com/trendy-sneakers-for-grown-women/

      Reply
  2. Vicki says

    July 31, 2019 at 4:49 pm

    I’d love to see your take on the Tom Bihn bag. I have a tote, a a purse, and a couple of organizers. I’m sure they will outlast me. Love that they’re MUSA.

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      August 4, 2019 at 9:41 am

      Tom Bihn was kind enough to gift me this bag over five years ago. Sadly it came the weekend I shattered my radius and was on disability. It never got the raves it deserves. I plan to feature it in an upcoming post recapping my blog. Such a fantastic brand, great quality and design!!

      Reply
  3. Nihongo Dame Desu says

    July 31, 2019 at 11:00 am

    FYI, Universal Standard is having a Sample Sale (benefitting Planned Parenthood) and the Geneva dress in crepe, in a few colors, is included!

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      August 4, 2019 at 9:45 am

      LOVE Universal Standard for their clothes and their beliefs! Thanks for the heads up!

      Reply
  4. Chris says

    July 31, 2019 at 7:38 am

    I always pack a TSA approved size of my favorite shampoo which means that the hotel provided shampoo can be used for other purposes. The provided shampoo works well to wash clothes in the sink. And if I happen to pick up some plastic cutlery and dishes along the way, the shampoo makes a good dish soap too. I rinse the dishes well and have never had a problem with using shampoo as dish soap.

    Your trip sounds wonderful and I am glad the 3 of you could go together. I’ve never been back East so there is a lot I don’t know about it. Is that THE BELL you are posing with or is it a replica?

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      August 4, 2019 at 9:49 am

      That’s so smart about the shampoo! And yes it’s the official Liberty Bell in Philadelphia!

      Reply
  5. Elizabeth says

    July 30, 2019 at 10:16 pm

    Your are such a lovely family. We are also a family of 3 with one daughter. It’s wonderful . Do you buy your Birkenstock’s regular width or narrow.? I’ve heard narrow is still plenty wide, more flattering, according to some.

    Thank you

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      August 4, 2019 at 9:49 am

      I have quite wide feet and find the regular fit me great!

      Reply
  6. Lee says

    July 30, 2019 at 4:26 pm

    I love your capsule wardrobe posts & your travel posts, so I’m a happy camper today! Alison, you really do have a gift for putting clothes together. I’m hoping the longer I follow you, the better I’ll get at it. Your outfits manage to look so polished while also looking comfortable (in a good way) & appropriate for whatever you’re doing that day. Great job, as always!

    I do hope you can share more details about your vacation with us—I love your travel recaps. I’m curious to know about laundry. You mentioned sink-washing, but did you also stay anywhere with a washer/dryer in order to do a bit more? This is something that makes me prefer Air B&B or VRBO for traveling these days. I just feel like I can pack less for my whole family if I can access a washer/dryer. In the summer, especially, I feel like most of my tops need to be washed after one wear. Maybe I’m just particularly sweaty. 🙂 And I like to wash pants or shorts after a few wears. My son’s clothing definitely has to be washed frequently (teenagers & BO are no joke).

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      August 4, 2019 at 9:50 am

      I will be writing a full recap of the trip soon! 🙂 . This trip was short stays in cities and a long stay with family so I knew after a week I’d be able to do laundry. If it was longer, I would totally go for an Airbnb to have such features as laundry!

      Reply
  7. Ruth says

    July 30, 2019 at 9:23 am

    This is so helpful! I saw your black dress with the jean jacket and I like that look, but am wondering if you think it could be paired for work with a different jacket?…or if the Geneva dresses could be? I travel for work and am always looking for items I can multi-purpose!

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      August 4, 2019 at 9:51 am

      I’ve paired the Geneva with a leather jacket, a soft knit jacket, and it looks nice with some blazers, especially ones with one button so it nips a bit in the waist!

      Reply
  8. Katelin says

    July 30, 2019 at 9:20 am

    Excited that you are in VT, my home state! If you can, stop in Greensboro- it’s a magical village on Caspian Lake with a great country store (The Willey’s Store) and lots of summer theater.

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      August 4, 2019 at 9:52 am

      We wish we could have been there longer. We stayed with family in the Northeast Kingdom but will be sure to return!

      Reply
    • RoseAG says

      August 5, 2019 at 7:04 am

      Caspian Lake is a great!

      We recently returned from a trip to New England and I have to say that if you’re going on a trip where you’ll be doing outdoor things or camping, as we did, you are forgiven for not packing minimally. I’ve been at the same destination for years and sometimes the nightime lows are below 50, other things it’s in the 60s. Nothing is worse than than picking up some sweat pants at BigLots b/c you’re cold all the time, while knowing you have 3 pairs at home you didn’t bring because you “didn’t have space” and the Weather Channel was predicting lows in the 60s. If you’re in a car, bring it!

      Reply
  9. Wendell Welder says

    July 30, 2019 at 9:07 am

    I’m noticing that you did not pack white jeans! That’s s summer go to for me. And I know there is a good reason. If you like them, what would be s good substitute?

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      August 4, 2019 at 9:54 am

      I didn’t because I didn’t have access to laundry and because I knew it would be so hot I wouldn’t want to wear any long pants. I brought the cropped wide-leg jeans because they’re not so hot and are a nice alternative in the car or evenings when it may be a bit chilly. I think replacing the wide leg jeans with white jeans would be brilliant and most every look would still work and be even more polished looking! Even the white linen shirt with white jeans, add a scarf or belt at the waist… tres chic!

      Reply
  10. Wendell Welder says

    July 30, 2019 at 9:02 am

    Oh my gosh this is such s gem!!! Did you read my mind?? Leaving on a two week trip and was needing this so much!! ❤️❤️❤️

    Reply
    • Alison Gary says

      August 4, 2019 at 9:54 am

      I’m so glad! I hope it proves helpful and you have a fantastic trip!

      Reply

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Next Post >

Weekend Reads #63

Since 2005, Wardrobe Oxygen has offered real-life style advice for grown-ass women. With years of experience as an apparel visual merchandiser and personal shopper, Alison Gary provides advice on how to achieve personal style no matter your age, size, or budget.

Archives

Search Wardrobe Oxygen:

Categories

  • Fashion
  • Beauty
  • Lifestyle
  • Health & Wellness
  • Outfits

instagram

Follow @wardrobe_oxygen

wardrobe_oxygen

View

Dec 5

Open
The tree is trimmed! 🎄

When I was a single gal, I had the prettiest tree with a color story and theme. 20 years later, my tree is a hodgepodge of inherited ornaments, gifts from loved ones, and handmade pieces from both my childhood and by my child. And I think each year it veers further from the original concept the more beautiful it becomes!

My daughter and I donned our Santa hats, turned on the holiday playlist, a Yule log on the TV, and spent the afternoon getting our home into the Christmas spirit.

When she was little, my husband would pick her up so she could place the star on top of the tree. Now that she’s taller than I am, when he got home he just put his arm around her as she used the library stool to reach the top. Some traditions need to be modified with time but they’re still special! ⭐️

Top is a feather trimmed Breton from @talbotsofficial; the scarf as a belt is also Talbots but a few years old. The jeans are @landsend and the blanket on the chair in the second photo is by artist  @zanderschlacter

wardrobe_oxygen

View

Nov 28

Open
Just got back from a 4-night getaway with my sister @debbiefaye78 at @curacaomarriottbeachresort. It was a last-minute planned trip that ended up being perfect. We weren’t ready to celebrate Thanksgiving without our mom and this escape what just what our hearts needed. 

I’ll be sharing more once I finally unpack my suitcase and organize my photos and thoughts; but I couldn’t not share this picture from yesterday morning. Debbie and I got up early to enjoy some of the day at the resort before flying home to DC. We had the infinity pool to ourselves, finished our books, and relaxed before a long day of travel. 🌴

wardrobe_oxygen

View

Nov 19

Open
Working on the weekend is far more enjoyable when it’s in my office 💚

Perimenopause and the pandemic and homeschooling made our row home feel even smaller. So when neighbors revitalized an office building in our town center and offered individual offices for rent, I felt it would be good for business and personally. And I kept it when the world opened up and our kid went back to public school because it helps me have a clear start and end to the work day, but also because I created a space I really enjoy.

This weekend I went to the office to shoot some content. And once I was finished I enjoyed just sitting here, watching the light change. I think I may switch the furniture around, switch up the energy. I love that I can do that without consulting another or having another person’s opinions matter.

When you have a family, things go from me to we. I don’t regret leaving Corporate America to do this full time, but I do miss being part of a team. And I missed having an office, a place away from home that’s just for me. 

I wish more communities would offer rental offices like @thegranitebuilding. With reasonably affordable monthly rates, it doesn’t have to just be business owners who get office spaces. It can be a place to work on a hobby or craft, a place to WFH that’s not home, or a place to just read and write and nap undisturbed. A literal room of one’s own. Because sometimes a person needs time to be a me and not a we. 💚

wardrobe_oxygen

View

Nov 17

Open
You’re never too old for a Rory Gilmore sweater… this cotton fisherman sweater is from @llbean and inspired by @marielle.elizabeth I shopped the men’s department for a better size range. The influencer influenced the influencer!

The jeans are @landsend I got last year and I’m glad they brought them back this year in several washes, inseam lengths, and plus sizes. If in doubt, size down. They will shrink in length slightly but not anywhere else, they’re super comfy and stretchy but don’t stretch out. 

Kept the collegiate vibe going with a trucker cap, HOKAs, and my trusty commuter bag for years: the large @dagnedover Dakota backpack!

Follow my shop @wardrobe_oxygen on the @shop.LTK app to shop this post and get my exclusive app-only content!
https://liketk.it/4o4bQ #ltkmidsize #midsizestyle #genxstyle #ltkover40 #over40style

wardrobe_oxygen

View

Nov 15

Open
My husband has a special backpack he fills with weight to wear while hiking; it’s called rucking. I wear a @dagnedover Dakota and fill it with my laptop, my iPad, a full water bottle, and my purse and walk to work; it’s called commuting. 💁🏻‍♀️

But seriously, I’ve had this backpack for five years. It has been shoved under plane seats, in overstuffed car trunks, under feet in the passenger seat. I’ve worn it as I’ve walked miles in major cities and from my house to my town center. My daughter also has a Dagne Dakota; it survived middle school and continues to work through camping, sleepovers, and road trips. It’s genially designed, comfortable, and can take a beating and still look great.

As for the rest of the look, the vest (XL) is a new purchase from @athleta; the Rainier tights (L) are also Athleta but two years old. The purple top is @nike and about a decade old. Hat is @llbean and it’s on sale for less than $15. And my trusty @hoka sneakers that have had their own set of adventures.

Follow my shop @wardrobe_oxygen on the @shop.LTK app to shop this post and get my exclusive app-only content!
https://liketk.it/4nKRE

#ltkmidsize #ltkover40 #genxstyle #dagnedoverdakota

wardrobe_oxygen

View

Nov 6

Open
Another day of early voting for our city election, another outfit I wore as an election judge! 🗳️

I got this sweater set from @mmlafleur last spring and it continues to be a favorite. The color and popcorn stitch makes it wearable three seasons of the year. I’ve styled it with gold heels and dramatic gold earrings, with sneakers and a crossbody belt bag, and more than once with knee-high boots and a scarf at my throat. The color works with brown and black boots, the skirt silhouette and length with heels and flats. These brown riding boots are from @duoboots and almost a decade old. The scarf belonged to my dad; I have a feeling it was styled with a leisure suit back in the day!

I may have been more dressed up than other election judges but I think seeing democracy in action is a cause to celebrate! 🇺🇸

wardrobe_oxygen

View

Nov 4

Open
Early voting poll worker style 🗳️

I’ve been an election judge (AKA poll worker) for several years but this year I decided to take it a step further and join my city’s Board of Elections. I’m passionate about fair and accessible elections for all. The Board is acting as election judges for early voting so it’s great to use my previous experience on a city level!

I believe voting is a special occasion and I dressed the part. The puff sleeve sweater and pants are from @anntaylor; these pants are the same ones from the suit I wore earlier this week. I added a beloved @hermes scarf as a belt and silver hoops (they belonged to my mom) as a hint of shine.

If your area is having an election this coming week; I implore you to vote. Your voice deserves to be heard. And please ensure your neighbors know of the election and where to vote. 🇺🇸

wardrobe_oxygen

View

Nov 2

Open
Always fun to see my name in lights! 💡 I was a panelist at the annual @jaofcentralmd Leading Ladies event that connects local high schoolers with women in business. My panel was on using social media for promoting one’s business or personal brand. Along with other social media experts, we guided students and adults on how to create compelling and engaging social content and together created content for the conference’s feed. It was fun and I loved being able to share my almost two decades of personal and professional experience!

The dress code for the conference was business professional and since the event’s theme color was pink, they encouraged us to wear the color. 

This @anntaylor suit has been a favorite since late summer. I’ve dressed it down with a white tank and sneakers and glammed it up with a silk cami and gold heeled sandals. I love how Ann Taylor has petite suiting up to size 16; I know I’m not the only short curvy girl who desires suits and professional attire!

For this event I chose a berry-colored microfiber tank from @lovechicos. I own several of these tanks; they wear like iron and the tight weave and subtle shine make them great shells under suits. 

The look fit the theme but was also comfortable. I was glad to share my expertise and encourage others to see how they can donate their time and knowledge to a local @juniorachievementusa #JALeadingLadies #JALeadingLadies2023 #JACMD #JuniorAchievment

wardrobe_oxygen

View

Oct 18

Open
Sharing this from my #iPadOS17 thanks to @apple! A bit belated with all that has been going on lately but I’m really enjoying using an iPad to improve how I work, stay organized, and find new ways to be creative. Can I just say that editing video on an iPad instead of a phone is a game changer!

Recently, I attended an event at the gorgeous Apple Carnegie Library hosted by @flourishplanner_ to learn ways to make the most of #iOS17 and it was awesome. I brought my new iPad and learned about the new wallpaper, stickers, and organizing tools.

As for my look, the dress is from @bananarepublic’s summer collection. Kept it comfy with a pair of Samba sneakers and held down the volume of the dress with my black recycled leather @ganni crossbody. Added an old @_jennybird link necklace and a silver cuff I’ve had since the ‘90s.

#todayatapple #genxstyle #midsizestyle #midsizefashion #size14 #over40style

wardrobe_oxygen

View

Oct 17

Open
I love an excuse to dress up, especially if it’s for a good cause! This weekend was the @thenewdealcafe Masquer-AID fundraiser to support this independent cafe, art gallery, and live music venue in @cityofgreenbelt.

My family and I have loved going to The New Deal Cafe for all these years. Grabbing coffee with friends, having a meal, seeing an amazing band, participating in an open mic or one of their Reel and Meal events. So @debbiefaye78, our mom, and I got tickets and even chipped in for a plaque from us “Ashpes Girls.” 

Our mom passed before she could attend the event; we asked our like a sister best friend @shellymingram to join us in her place and we had a great time, dancing all night as our mom would have, connecting with neighbors, and supporting a local business we all love so much.

As for the outfit, the dress is @ronnykobo the bag is @ganni and I borrowed both from @renttherunway The shoes I’ve had for years and the gold metal mask I found on Amazon and liked how it could mold to my face and not put pressure on my still-healing eye.

And I know y’all will ask because I received so many DMs this weekend when I shared this event in my Stories… my sister’s dress is from @eshakti she bought it a few years ago and it’s even more gorgeous in person!

#newdealcafe #greenbeltisgreat #onlyingreenbelt #midsizestyle #genxstyle #over40style #greenbeltmd

Info

  • About
  • Contact
  • Advertise
  • Exclusive Promo Codes

join the community

On the Blog

  • Capsule Wardrobes
  • Curly Hair
  • Plus Size Fashion
  • Perimenopause
  • Privacy Policy
  • Cookie Policy
  • Disclosure

Copyright © 2023 Wardrobe Oxygen · Theme by 17th Avenue